Juicy Jabber: Sheridan, My Tattoo & My Birthday | Blair Fowler
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i lost one of my best friends from high school in a car accident last week. tonight i went back to find this video to try and find some sort of comfort in seeing how you dealt with it when this happened to you. now i know exactly how you were feeling at this time.
I dont understand how the world could just keep turning without them...
thank you for sharing this it helped me.
This is exactly what I'm doing now... My friend died this week
When you see them in your dreams it means that their spirit was there with you! That was her visiting you, She's there still with you
This is why i love you, your sat there with no makeup on, in bed just after you have woke up filming on your computer tearing up talking about your best friend! Your so normal! Sheridan is a beautiful person and clearly she was a lovely person too! love you blair
7 years ago I lost my Stepfather to a disease similar to cystic fibrosis. A year before that, almost to the day I lost my Father to a long battle of cancer. For me, it never gets easier. I haven't forgotten the pain, you just learn to live with it. I've obviously gotten past my initial grief. I no longer cry every day, but I feel them with me constantly. Take time to talk to her, wherever you are. I believe without a doubt that she'll hear you. That thought alone helped me get through it :)
i lost my grandma last summer and i was devastated for about a month i cried almost everyday and it was terrible! but then i started thinking she must be happy where she is and not suffering anymore... always remember to stay strong, think about the good times and remember she is in a better place and is watching over you
I lost my mom when I was 17. I still deal with it everyday. It gets easier, but they'll be some days when the sadness will hit you out of nowhere. Just keep being open with your family and your boyfriend. Talking is the best thing to ease your soul. Also know that it's okay to feel the way. We all love you Blair and we're all here for you.
i lost my grandma just before christmas to alzheimer's disease a few months ago and i thought part of my heart was ripped out. i cried so much. just remember they are in a better place now, out of pain and misery.. maybe they know eachother up there?! lots of love, stay strong xx
Blair, you are amazing, you have amazing strength, you lost one of your
best friends, and to think that you even have the guts to stand in front of a camera, talk
about her, and she wouldnt want you to be sad, she is watching down on you and for sure smiling and so proud to call you her friend, God has her in his hands and loves her just as much as you did. I love you and you are such an inspiration. xoxoxoxoxoxo
I lost my aunty Ann last Christmas, it was totally unexpected she had a heart attack and never woke up, it never gets easier, but you learn to live with it, not forget them. You have to just feel grateful they were in your life at all and celebrate that they lived and that they meant that much to you. You never get over it, but like a scar you learn to live with it.
All I can say is pray. Pray that she is in a better place and that she is happier now. I lost my uncle last November to a suicide attempt and it was awful. Just pray and stay positive! R.I.P. Sheridan
My dog just got put down today he had cancer :( I have been crying all day and then remembered about this video and started watching it... It lets me remember I'm not alone :)
honestly, I lost my dad 7 years ago, and it never really does go away. i don't personally think I go through a day without thinking about him. looking at old pictures, listenjng to his favorite songs, and such can help but you carry it with you forver. but you will have you good and bad days, and yeah ive had strange dreams where ive talked to him. if you ever need anyone to talk to, you can talk to me.
Blair, I've lost both of my parents. If you're so close to someone you never get over it. When my father died, I went into a deep depression. Everyone was worried about me, I didn't want to live anymore because my pain was so strong. But then I realized that my parents would not want me to be over come with grief, they believed when you die you're in the presence of the lord. And that really gave me comfort and just knowing that they could be watching over me!
I lost my mother when I was 6, and for a long while I found it very hard to accept that she was gone. In school I would imagine she was going to come and pick me up, and I'd be convinced that in the morning she would be there to wake me up. I'm now 24 and its still very hard to talk about but I promise you it gets easier. Soon you'll find you don't cry because she's gone, you smile because you knew her xxxxx Lots of love and hugs from England xxxxx
i lost a really close family friend this year in a car accident. at first i was crying every single day for about 3 weeks then started thinking he was in a much better place. but everyday that goes by i always say to myself "only the good die young", its hard to hear that because my friend and your friend were really good people. but you need to stay strong and have faith that they are ok. they're always watching over you so proudly. xx
My really close friend died a year ago. She helped me through everything and i loved he so much. I stayed strong by putting up pictures of me and her in happy times all over my room to remind me of her and tell myself to be like her. I cried a lot but soon i felt better and my friends were really supportive
I lost an aunt about 2 years ago, very suddenly. Her granddaughter was about to turn 2 when she passed and hardly remembers her. Around Christmastime last year, she started to have dreams about her "Grammie" and she speaks with her often. She wakes up and goes to her Nana or aunt saying things like "Get up, Grammie says it's a wonderful day and we should be happy and do stuff today!" etc. You're not the only one. It's normal. You're grieving. May Sheridan rest in peace. Prayers for you Blair.
I lost one of my best friends in a car accident in November and this video brought up so many emotions I had buried away. I actually passed the accident on my way to a lesson that night and all I remember thinking is I hope everyone is ok. It gets easier as time passes but I will never forget her. She was such a big part of my life. I still have days where I break down and wish I talked to her more the day before. But I know shes always guiding me from up in Heaven
I'm so sorry Blair. I lost my aunt to cancer and I have dreams with her in them. She tells me what Heaven is like too. I also believe I'm actually talking to her. I know it doesn't feel like it now but everything will be ok and it will all get better soon. Stay strong.
i lost my grandma a couple years and my mom really loved her and so did i.we went to her house and my mom would always cry when we were right next to it but i told her she always has her by her side and that she is in a safe place and has no more pain.please dont be sad you know your friend is always next to you.
Blair,I seriously cried with you when i saw this and I want you to know that you never lost her, you only had her beat us to a destination in which we all have to go to eventually. She is with God now, and she will always be with you, no matter where you are she will always listen. You are strong and from all that you have overcome to be where you are now is literally millions of girls Dreams! Don't move on from Sheridan, move on from the grief and sorrow, because you have an entire life ahead:)
I was watching this video, and I heard Blairs voice and the sadness in it, tears immediately came into my eyes. I know how you feel sweetheart. My beloved best friend passed away Feb. 6th 2012 due to cancer. And the first month was extremely difficult, for whenever I would come home from school and be alone in my room I would cry remembering her and that fact that she is no longer with me. But I know I will meet her again soon. Stay strong love, we're here for you < 3
I lost one of my best friends due to an aneurism a couple of months ago. It's been really hard for the most part. I understand when you said you had dreams about her coming back to life or seeing her. I have been dealing with them for month. Once you think your done grieving you see or hear something that reminds you of that person and you start back at step one. I hope you find your STRENGTH and that it will help you through this tragic event. I wish you the best Blair.
I lost my dad when I was 6 years old that was the hardest thing I had ever been through. It has been 9 years since he passed from Cancer and it is still hard sometimes. But you just need to stay positive and just know that she is in a better place and you need to stay happy because she wouldn't want you to be unhappy.
Sorry for your lost. This video makes me aware to appreciate those around us. Sheridan's spirit will be with you always. I have a little sanctuary with photos of lost friends, family near the kitchen, and I greet them daily. Dreams mean that they are reaching us so that is a good sign. I still grieve over lost frinpends and family but remember the good times too. You help us and we help you. No one's alone
My cousin died at the age of 3, 2 years ago, and it was horrible i totally understand what your going through. I have gone through that and i know you probably wont understand right now and i know you will never forget her, but it will get better. stay strong, i wish you all the luck in the world and use that pain in a good way, use it to live your life and remember all the lovely people you have in your life.
Blair my heart goes out to you and all her friends and family. I lost a very close friend who was basically like my older sister when I was only 7 years old. I went through the 7 stages and it took me years to recover. I went from being so upset to numb and for a long time I was angry at the driver who smashed his truck into her car... I refused to talk about her and eventually one day it all stopped and I accepted that my life had changed and I moved on. She's still so much a part of me....
I'm so sorry for your loss. You're so strong for putting this up and openly admitting that you're having a hard time with this. That's what makes you stronger. She never would have wanted you to hurt, but she knows how special she was to you. Hang in there, Blair! You're a great role model. Heroes don't have to be perfect. :)
i lost my uncle just over a year ago, and it feels like it was yesterday. i was in such shock that i felt i couldnt go to his funeral and every day it kills me because my uncle was the best man anyone could ever know. the only way i can cope is i write letters to him and i keep them in a box. honestly its the only way I can cope, and i know the aching longing pain that comes with a death, it gets better. i know it doesnt feel like it, but it does. stay strong, its all you can do
i lost my aunt about 4 years ago and honestly its still surreal i guess. i felt the same way i expected her to come back and walk through the door even after the funeral . i know im late but i hope this helps you even the least bit. your never going to forget her . i feel like we dont learn to live without them we just learn to live with them watching over us from a different perspective and that is a blessing. stay strong blaire =[
I lost my mom when I was 24, she was only 42. And many years later, it's still painful. I have a tattoo that represents both of my parents, my husband, and myself. When I look at it, I feel her with me. I hope that with time, your loss is less sharp. Remembering the good times, and doing things that would make your dear friend proud of you will help.
I feel so bad, my great grandmother passed away in August. I was so depressed. Just think of if Sheridan is right beside you. Talk to her and just act like she is there. But dont act like she is still alive, just let her know that you will always be beside her nomatter where she is . I love you Laura, Hope you feel better
Whenever you have someone close to you die, you always have to think positive. Cry if you want to. She would want you to be happy and she wouldn't want you to be sad. My grandma died July 5th. When you have a dream about someone it means that they are thinking about you. Stay strong, she's watching over you.
I have lost my grandfather on February 1rst because of cancer.Some words of advice is that stay strong,you'll always remeber everything that you guys do,but there always watching you.Just remeber that there in a better place and it took me a long time to think that because it was like god was punishing me but there in a better place.
I lost my 17 year old cousin last month. He was hit by a car & I've never really said how I felt. The night I found out I cried. I hadn't cried until that day for 2 years. It's been a month & it still hurts. I wish I could say something too help, but it still hurts. Thx to this video I can share my feelings thx Blair I really hope you feel better. Just remember her never forget her. And she is in a better place!
I've just watched this, but please try and stay strong. When I was 10 I lost my brother in a car accident, and I'm still aching because of it, but every day gets a bit easier. Life is never the same without them but you begin to hold onto the memories you have of your lost loved ones. Stay strong xxxx
I got a tattoo in her honour of a brightly coloured feather with her favourite colours at the start and end of the feather. it was after I got the tattoo that I finally was able to talk about her without bawling my eyes out. I'm 22 now and I still miss her dearly. I'm not religious (I was before her passing) but I feel her with me some times when I'm feeling low. Hold onto your faith and memories of her Blair. You'll never forget her. live every day to the fullest in her memory.
About a year ago I lost my uncle due to an accident- he was riding his bike and he was hit by a truck. Blair I know the pain you are going through, losing someone so suddenly to an accident is more shocking than anything- the main thing we have to all remember is that yes, she is in a better place, but you are allowed to be sad. You can cry, and you always have your friends and family who feel the same way so you can all rely on each other to help mend the wounds. I am so sorry for your loss.
I so know how you feel. In dreams our loved ones can absolutely communicate with us. A few years ago i lost a childhood friend who i knew for well over 10 years, he died in a motorcycle accident about a year after we both moved to California. I felt all the same things you felt in this video. And its all totally normal. (i too have a tattoo of strength and it was the best thing I've ever gotten) You're friend will never fully leave you, she's just transitioned into your angel.
Your bestfriend is with you love, she never left. She's in your heart & your dreams are how she communicates with you. That's your time together. She's your gaurdian angel now, always watching over you. It's okay to cry, and grieve, but don't ever feel guilty for being happy, because that's what she wants for you.
When my dad passed away two years ago, it was so sudden that we didn't get to say goodbye, so he came to me in a dream. I don't remember our conversation up until the point here he finally had to leave. We were driving and out of no where he stops the car and he says "I have to go now." By then I'm just crying my eyes out begging him not to leave because I realize he saying he needs to leave for good and go to heaven. He keeps repeating I need to go now and he get out and walks into this light.
i lost my Dad January 17 this year. It gets a whole lot harder before it gets easier but I promise you things will ease up eventually, at least I hope it does. Don't be happy unless you're happy, if you want to cry or just be down then do it, you are grieving, she is worth your tears. I hope you're okay and I'll keep you and your family in my prayers
I almost lost my best friend.............and seeing you like this makes me so much more grateful for her. Her name is Alyssa Howe, if any of you know who she is. She was at one of her friend's house and accidentally got shot in the head. She lost hearing in her right ear, and she had to wear a helmet. She got surgery on Monday to get a bone fragment replaced,and now she doesn't have to wear it anymore, but she has staples in the side of her head She's been so strong. Love You Ally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know how you feel. I've lost two dogs, two guinea pigs, and the best grandmother ever.
I cried for days after loosing each one of them. To be honest, you'll never get over the pain, but you'll learn to keep it inside instead of crying it out. So sorry you had to go through this! :(
i just lost my great grandfather 2 days ago and to hear u talk about a loss and how u handle it makes me feel like i should talk to some one.your videos are helping me through so i just wanted to say thanks, and stay strong
Blair, life will never be the same. With such a good and close friend, part of your heart goes with her. There is a time for weeping and a time for joy. It is totally normal to have such mixed feelings. One important thing is that you don't bottle up your emotions. Keep talking about it...how you feel, how you miss her, memories about her. I believe a lot of the healing process begins with a good cry. One day you will be with Sheridan in heaven and you will be able to finish your conversation.
I know what you're going through. My little sister died before she even was one month old. That was even five years ago but I still have my moments when I feel like she should still be here with me. My point is that you'll never forget them and even if it's been one hundred years you will always have those moments where you feel like its just not fair. Bless your heart.
I heard her voice quivering, like she was about to cry and it just broke my heart.. So sorry for your loss, Blair. She's in a better place looking down on you and paying you a visit in your dreams every now and then. Stay Strong.
Blair! Yesterday I bought a bracelet that has strength written on it and now seeing this video is like whoa. I have a word just like you that is something that gets me through tough things and that word is hope. I used to write hope on the inside of my wrist with sharpie. It's cool to know that someone else feels the same way about a word like that! Keep your hope and always remember your strength and how strong you are!!
My best friend died too, my cousin. I had dreams about him too, and when I woke up, I thought he was back. He's not. You never get over it, but you will eventually come to understand they are in heaven. Hope this helped
ITS JUST CRAZY WHEN i HEAR "CAR ACCIDENT" I WAS IN A HORRIBLE ONE AND I AM SO BLESSED TO BE HERE AND FOR THE ONES THAT DON'T MAKE IT ITS LIKE IT GIVES ME A CHILL...NONETHELESS I CAN APPRECIATE THE FACT THAT I AM HERE WITH MY BABIES AND LIFE HAS A WHOLE NEW MEANING.....I THINK U CAN TAKE FROM THIS THAT LIFE SHOULD BE APPRECIATED!!!!!!
I literally cried watching this. I'm so sorry that you lost someone so close to you. I lost my boyfriend in Iraq and its been almost a year but its still hard. It does get better, but it takes time.
My heart goes out to you Blair, and so does so many others out there. It is so hard to lose someone you love. Please remember that you have supporters who will support you through thick and thin.......We will be there for you no matter what forever and always
Blair, I lost 4 friends in the same car accident, the same day. It was very very tragic, but what I learned was that God takes away those who have finished what they were here to do. I know this video was awhile back, but just know in your hard time they are always beside you. Keep their memory but know that they are always there in your happiness, sadness, when you are scared and alone. Know that they are not in pain at all and they are better off in Heaven then on life support
I lost my mom due to cancer... And not a day goes by that I don't think about her. Both my sister and I have dreams about my mom. Memories of my mom and I always make me feel better. I hope you are doing okay!
We all miss Shay so much. I cried watching this again.
It's so sad to see someone you admire about upset, but it must be so hard for you losing your best friend. It was hard watching this Blair, I love you so much, you're such a good person, and I cried watching. I feel so sorry for you, I've never lost a friend, and well, call me stupid, but I was in such a state when I lost my cat, who was my best friend. She helped me through so much pain. Blair I'm so sorry, but stay strong, and you'll be fine. Well done for staying composed xxx
on october 17 2009 i lost my best friend. she was in a car accident where a drunk driver was involved there is not a day that goes by where i don't think of her. i didn't know it was going to be an open casket, the moment i walked in and saw her i had to run right back outside. When i finally went up to see her she looked so peaceful She is my angel now, i feel her with me everyday, i feel so blessed to have had her in my life, rip zion faith. best friends forever
I know it is not the same, but I lost my dad about a year ago, and it was sudden too (a heart attack). Of course, it is normal that you feel very sad about this loss and you cry, sometimes even erratically, but knowing that your loved one is in a better place--and that you will eventually join them again--should be what keeps you sane and happy because there is nothing better than heaven.
i lost a friend in a boating accident but u just need to think happy things about her and try not to grief so much because she is watching over you and i felt my friend with me and i didn't want to grief too much because i felt i would make him sad so what i did was i only thought of happy things we shared and he came to me in my dreams and said that he is watching over me and is happier that i dint grief.
Blair, I lost one of my best friends when I was a junior in high school and the anniversary was three years ago last week. It was one of the hardest things I've ever been through but it also was one of the biggest things that has shaped who I am. Blair, and I'm not trying to be too pushy, but pray about it and I promise the Lord will get you through it. Life is so hard and unfair sometimes but I know He will give you peace. It gets easier I promise. :)
i lost my grandfather and i dident think it was far ether and i cried for ever and the thing i thought that i might forget him but i never did and i hope i never will the thing that helped me get through it the most was just remembered that he will always be in my heart
I lost my Grandma last year and I still can't come to terms with it.. I saw her on the day that she died & i still feel that she is just away on holiday & I'm waiting for her to come back & I also have dreams about her talking to me all the time, especially around the time she died. what your feeling is not unusual, i think that you have to deal with things in your own way, talking to people is the best idea and gets you through it, its been a month or two, it gets a lot easier, trust me
i know this advice is about a couple months late but i've lost my grandfather & then a close friend of mine the year later and honestly I found that just talking it out and letting your feelings out is the best thing to do in the situation,I know it seems like they won't understand you but they're supportive and having someone listening to what you're going through is probably all they can do for now & I talked to both of them too after they passed and I guess its holding onto them but it helped
i'm so sorry to hear about your friend :( i lost my dad suddenly when i was 13, and to be honest, the only thing you can do is go through the grief as you feel it. surround yourself with good people and acceptance will come one day.
also, i've heard that when you dream of someone, it mean's you're both thinking about each other. sheridan is definitely talkin to you in your dreams, and it's fantastic to hear he's okay.
grief sucks but in the meantime, just take care of yourself :3
And I'm not sure I'll ever fully overcome it. He was only 18 and drowned in a lake. I told him on his memorial page that he needed to come and visit me in my dreams to let me know he's okay, and days later I had a dream that he came and told me what happened that night, it honestly felt like he was with me, and I woke up in the best mood because I heard his voice. I miss him every single day, and don't know how someone so awesome was taken so soon when there are murders and rapists out there..
I lost my mom a few years ago and I basically had the same stages of grief that u are having, but to get myself through I would tell myself that she was still watching over me, and that she would want me to be happy.
i haven't lost anyone close to me, but i can imagine how horrible it must be to go through... thankyou for sharing this with us Blair, you have so many people here on youtube that are there for you and love you. I hope things are getting better now for you
my grandpa died 2 years ago and its good to think about your loved ones but try to think about tye happy memories of how you both were together and dont think about how she died andbjust knw that she in a happy place now and she is looking done on you and watching you and just know shes not gone she is still there but in your heart she will be in my prayers blaire keepbher in your memories
I lost my best friend. She died in her sleep...I still talk to her and I hear her answer me. I think I will always be sad....I feel like I haven't had my last conversation with my friend either...You'll never forget but it gets easier although this vlog made me cry..
I lost a friend too and i totally get what u r saying, i felt exactly the same and dreams with her too, it has been a year now and sometimes i dream with her and it is so good because you know that it not matters how long it has been since they arent here, you will feel their spirit with you always, you must think that God needs an angel and now he had one :)
7 months ago i lost my best friend in the whole world, very very sudden and unexpected. She was 19 years old and i don't believe it was her time. We spent every day together and went through everything with each other. It's so hard to accept the fact that you're never going to see them again and everyday is hard, but you have to deal with it the way you need to. I have terrible days and really good days but its not easy. i got a tattoo for her and its great to look at as a reminder : )
Hey Blaire, I hope this finds you well. I also lost my best friend in a car accident in 2001. She was 19 when she passed. I am now 30 years old and still think about her everyday. It will get better, I promise. Sheridan will always be with you. I lost both my parents as well, and I find what gets me through is to keep talking about it. Everytime you talk about her, you are honoring her and keeping her memory alive. I hope this helps.
Hey Blair, Thinking of you at this hard time :) I lost my brother 5 years ago suddenly and it has been so hard to get by! My absolute advice though is just to feel what your feeling don't try to shy away from pain/anger/sadness because if you bottle it up it will only get worse it's like an apple inside of you if you leave it there it will rot inside you but if you let it out it can grow!! I also believe you are talking to Her in your dreams :) get well xx
Talk to her. Not in your dream, but in real life. Sit down somewhere quiet and talk to her, about whatever you want to tell or ask her. I lost my mom when I was 14 and I was very depressed for a long time and didn't talk to anybody. Then once I just started talking to her and imagining what she would say if she was still here. It makes me happy :) Your friend, you don't have to let her die. She only dies completely if people forget her, so as long as you remember her, she's there for you :)
It is going to be 20 years since I lost best friend.To help me get through I had a special journal that I wrote letters to him.There were times it was every day and others every couple of months. It was comforting. There isn't a day that I don't think about him but I will say the pain of loosing them does get easier in time. Don't let anyone ever tell you to hurry up and get over it. It's your grief and you have every right to feel that loss as long as you need too. Hope this helps.
My cousin Colten died from a crazy illness. Even though he is gone we still pretend he is with us always. One time my cousin visited us to make sure we still remembered him.
Blair, Sheridan will always be by your side no matter what.
Blair, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss :( It made me cry when I found out! Sheridan will always, always, always be with you in your heart. Never forget that! I believe that your dreams do mean something! Dreams are very important after all! I, personally, believe that some day, in heaven, you two will meet again:)
Praying for you, I'm so sorry for your loss. One day you will be together again and she'll give you the biggest hug for staying strong for her
I lost my stepsister in February of this year and it was completely out of nowhere, the cause hasn't been determined and it's been 5 months since her death. I try to talk to her every night before I go to bed and it's just extremely sad because she was the sweetest person you'll ever meet and she has two children, Ava who just turned 4 on mother's day and Maddox who just turned two the day after she died. We all miss her dearly and we know she's in a better place
Blair, I love how you are strong.You kept yourself strong, you didn't break down and cry.But Blair, you are right.She is in a better place, it was her time.I have lost my grandmother in the past, I don't really remember her but my mother has told me about her, and she seemed great.But she had cancer and had passed.I was stlll upset although I haven't really remembered her.
My point is, you will be sad if you lose someone close, that's normal. But then you will realize, they are in a better place
One thing i highly suggest, whenever you're thinking of Sheridan and feeling sad, talk to her out loud and ask her for a sign that she's okay. Keep your eyes open and youll see it. I did that with my friend Patrick and a few days later i was woken up at 3am to a knock on my door but no one was there, i laid back down and all a sudden a voice said "hey" clear as day right next to my ear. I needed to know he was okay, and he let me know he is. And you haven't had your last convo w/ her :-) promise
My mom passed away when I was 9, I didn't talk to anyone about it and for years I held my feelings back & one day I just cracked. I go crazy crying asking questions wondering why god took her from me. I really did learn to not hold your feelings & emotions back. If you do it comes out all at once and pushes u down so hard. & about the dreams... its her telling you she's okay and happy. Its going to be hard but just know she will always be with you , Cry as much as you need to let it out it helps
I'm sorry for your loss! I lost my son and I found peace and comfort through Jesus Christ! I pray that he will give you peace!
Blair you are in my heart and prayers.....if you think that you are talking to her, THEN YOU ARE......HER SPIRIT WILL CONTINUE TO BE THERE ALL AROUND YOU TO COMFORT YOU IN THIS DIFFICULT TIME....PEACE AND BLESSINGS......
My extended family and my parents have feuded for years so we never really talk to them. The one person I was closest to, my great aunt, lived right near me. She was such a kind person, and a nun, but she was in the hospital suddenly with something no one knew she had. A week later she passed away. I cried and cried, then at her funeral, she also had an open casket and seeing her, i could not believe it.
last year i lost my grandfather to cancer 14 days before christmas and i had the same dreamsnthat he would open his eyes or i would walk in to his rom and he would be therenand the best thing to do is to be around things that make you happy and do thing to make you happy not to forget her because she will always be in your heart and the same with my grandfather
Im so sorry Blair:( I lost my dad about 3 months ago and i still miss him everyday. Im 14 years old and he died of an illness. They say that time heals so soon enought you'll start feeling better. I know how its not fair and something arent always far.
My dad passed away almost 3 years ago, and trust me, it's hard. I understand where you're at and the first year is ALWAYS the hardest, it does get easier. Time doesn't heal the pain but it does soften the blow. There will be times when you miss her greatly or you really wish she was here, which is understandable. But don't stop your life, you have to move on and keep going, cause that's what she'd want you to do. Hope this helped.(:
I lost my dad when I was 7 about 5 years ago. its hard at first but IT ALWAYS GETS BETTER.
I love my mother when I was 13. it was sad but time will heal all wounds. She Is in s better place. All you can do is keep her in your thoughts.
This video was posted in 2012, I'm just saying it happened 3 years ago.
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I lost two of my best guy friends in a span on 5 months. one to suicide two weeks before school started back and then the second to a reaction from a pneumonia shot that caused him to have a heat attack days before christmas. i too have dreams about them where they talk to me and I believe that are very happy. the thing i hated most going through this was all the people telling me "its going to be ok" or "you have to let go". i didnt agree but now im finally at peace and i now have my angels
My Bestfriend Krystal Passed away almost 8 years ago due to an accident that happend at a neighbore hood cook out, she was only 9 years old when she passed away. i know how you feel and theres not a day in ,my life that i dont think about her. sheridan will always be there with you in spirit and she will guide you threw your life. be strong and think about the good times you and her had.
Blaire,
I'm so sorry. I know how hard it is to lose someone you love. I lost my grandpa about the same time you lost your best friend. He had cancer and it was so hard to watch him die and each day he would say I will pass soon so know I love you and you need to be okay with what's going on. I was in denial the day he passed. I cried and cried and then I realized, he's not in pain and he watches me every single day. And I bet your best friend is watching you become successful and she's bragging
I lost my mom to cancer too, 7 years ago as of 2 days ago actually.. and I totally agree, it's so hard, but really you do need to talk about her and remember her how she was! I so agree with you! And it's also okay to cry! Sorry for your loss, hallaCherry101 and Blair!
The last thing I found that my mom wrote was "life is beautiful" I also got it tattooed on me with her signature, and it helps me remember life isn't promised, but that no matter what happens it's still beautiful! ♥
October 28th, 2008. I came home from school, & my mom told me that my best friend was in the hostpital, . I went up to tthe hostpital, I came in & he was breathing really hard. I went to the play room with his sister. On our way back, we walked in on his very last breathe. I couldnt stop crying for days. Almost every night, I cry. Not only because im sad because Im happy to know hes in better place. Being strong is the only option. He died of neuroblastoma cancer. Love.
i lost my bestfriend too Blair. Her name was Rachel. She was going home from the state fair where we live and she was in the car with her sister, her dad, and her best friend. Her dad lost control of the car and the car flipped 3 times. Her sister walked with a few scratches, her dad had to go to the hospital and was in ICU for a while, her friend got a few injuries to her hips and pelvic bone, and Rachel died on the scene. It was horrible and i cried for weeks and i still cry sometimes now.
I lost my best friend ten years ago and I still talk to him in my dreams. I have full sleeves which are little parts of my life. I coped with my friends death by surrounding myself by all of our great memories! Photos, writings, drawings and so on. :)
my grandmother died for about 2 years ago. It still feels like it was yesterday. She was my bestfriend and my everything! I always go to her grave and talk to her about what´s happening in my life lately. It really helps, because I know that she can hear me. That´s my advice. Go talk to her.
I'm so incredibly sorry about your friend :( It's such a helpless feeling when someone passes away. You are incredibly resilient for choosing to use such a terrible event as a learning tool. She's in a better place :)