LoveParenting: Master your triggers, once and for all? A Peaceful Parenting Confession

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  • Опубліковано 25 бер 2018
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 19

  • @zombiemason9866
    @zombiemason9866 2 роки тому +4

    Very helpful. No one ever admits they’ve gone overboard so there’s rarely any support without judgment. My mom would feel so guilty for getting mad that she let guilt and shame overcome her and withdrew. I’m breaking that cycle

  • @rosamarcosdeleon8292
    @rosamarcosdeleon8292 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much! I often compare myself to other parents and it hurts because i wish to be like them 😔
    I've had such a traumatic childhood and trust me every single day i do my hardest to not be like them. I dont want my kids to EVER experience what I've been through so when i get mad and start screaming i feel like I've lost all my progress and to me it feels like i have to start all over again.. I've been dealing with this all alone inside of my head.. My husband is very supportive and does wonders at calming me down but i dont want to always be like this i want to be able to control this emotions and do better. I feel guilty right after and even thought of running away at some points but my love for them its too strong and i cant do that, every thought in my head revolves around them, when i think about bad things they always always always save me because they dont deserve to suffer for my selfish actions, so here i am i fight every day with myself but i promised to stay and do better for them. I love my babies so much i just want them to know they deserve the best things in the whole world.... Including a good mom, and i will make it there! One day ill look back and wont feel ashamed but proud that i came from all this to be that amazing woman/mother that I've always wanted to be🌹

    • @MissHannahRama10
      @MissHannahRama10 2 роки тому

      Beautiful Rosa, you're not alone. All of us moms are striving each day to do better. Each day is another opportunity. Sending encouragement, strength and love your way. 🙂

  • @francesanchetasongwriter215
    @francesanchetasongwriter215 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for sharing this! You make it safe for us to acknowledge that we're all human and that we're doing our best as parents and as human beings.

  • @anneparedes2988
    @anneparedes2988 2 роки тому

    I love how transparent you are. Thank you for this.

  • @MrslovaLova_hmm
    @MrslovaLova_hmm 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing this very vulnerable moment. Really appreciate the grace and transparency displayed

  • @jessiethomas6429
    @jessiethomas6429 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you sooooo much! I feel more human now! This video was so comforting to me. Thanks for being so authentic! All your videos are so helpful to me and I'm so grateful. Thanks for your work.

  • @nishitadamania4797
    @nishitadamania4797 2 роки тому

    You are fab Avital.. so authentic and real and you always make moms feel like ‘ it’s normal ‘ . Thanks you so much 🥰

  • @HiThereImFootloose
    @HiThereImFootloose 2 роки тому

    This is a great video. Appreciate the authenticity.

  • @sansnom77766
    @sansnom77766 2 роки тому

    thank you for sharing honestly your stories. it's so much more helpful to relate to human situations rather than the perfect families out there. thank you for the videos!

  • @andreaatsevenov4444
    @andreaatsevenov4444 2 роки тому

    Thank you... I have also been very triggered lately 😒 mainly I think cos I am tired and frustrated as I don't get much time to myself to do things I would love to do...
    Anyway:
    I threw something in anger the other day... 😞
    I think cos I was really tired, needed help and my older child was also being selfish...
    I was so ashamed of myself afterwards too... 😔
    I said sorry, I shouldn't have done that... i explained why I had gotten angry... and we patched things up... they are extremely forgiving ❤ they don't mention it, they don't hold onto it at all... it's amazing how forgiving they are ❤🧡💛

  • @georgovalinhs5651
    @georgovalinhs5651 2 роки тому

    Thank you for your confession it is really helpfull...

  • @johannahbananamama3456
    @johannahbananamama3456 2 роки тому

    Thank you. This helps

  • @Sarah-N709
    @Sarah-N709 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this video 💜

  • @ob312100
    @ob312100 2 роки тому

    Amen sister. Xxxxx thank you so much for this xx

  • @SheraShare
    @SheraShare 2 роки тому

    The life experience of "Bir müsibet bin nasihatten yeğdir" :))

  • @andreav1232
    @andreav1232 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing!

  • @MonicaBU
    @MonicaBU 2 роки тому

    Amen 🙏🏽

  • @colettelondon8434
    @colettelondon8434 2 роки тому

    Amen