Screw that ex husband. If the kids loved their mom, they wouldn't asked their mom to stay. They can still love her and help as she is their mother no matter what. More power to you and her for finding love and happiness. The ex husband is in the wrong.
Nrog koj zoo2 siab os viv ncaus, cas mloog koj zaj neej neeg tag es nim raug2 li kuv es puas yuav muaj ib hnub kuv tau txais txoj kev hlub zoo2 li koj thiab vim niaj hnub no kuv tseem yuav kuv tus txiv tab sis tu2 siab li os
I love this story. I love that she finally learned that her husband only wanted control and power over her. She took that power back and moved on. You gave her hope 😊
Sir. He divorced her legally but not culturally, so technically, they are divorced but he wanted her around at his disposal. No one told him to to get upset that she moved on with you when he was the one who walked away in the beginning. He asked for it!
Once both signed the divorce papers, it's all done! And, that legal divorced document should apply to all cultures. Mai Lou is free to do whatever she wishes. It wasn't fair for her at all.
Everything happens for a reason. Everything has its own time. You both were meant to find one another after the heartaches you both went through. Hope you keep true to your words and continue to love her. The world needs more men who treat their wives with love and respect.
We live in America where we don’t have to put up with the crooked Hmong culture of 2-3 wives. I’m glad she is with you now and happy. You both did nothing wrong because he divorced her already, the document is legal, there is no pretending to be his wife after that!!
Haya kuv tsis paub tias peb cov txiv neej tiam no es cas riam ntse rov sab qwb hos hlwb khiav rov qab tag mus rau daim av 3 inches xwb qhov tseeb tiag U li ces twb yaig tag lawm yog dauj cog ces twb hloov tus tshiab lawm tiam sis yog niag nqaij es hloov tsis tau xwb yog poj niam es lawv thiaj tseem yuav peb xwb os cov yawg nej cov niam nkauj txhav qaib mas hlub nws xwb zoo tshaj mog.
Neb tsis tau ua txhaum vim ntaub ntawv sib nrauj yeej tiav tag. Maiv Lug tus qub txiv twb tsis ua raws nws cov lus cog tseg. Niag txiv dev ntawd twb hais rau Maiv Lug tias nws nrauj Maiv Lug tas lawm tsuas ntsos Mai Lug tsis mus xwb ne. What she should’ve done is got rid of him for good when he married his second wife. His love and rights as her husband ended the day he married his niam mos ab. He didn’t culturally divorced her because he wanted her as backup if his niam mos ab didn’t work out. I am happy for both of you. Keep on loving!!
Yog koj yuav tau koj tsis xav hlub Tso plhuav nws tseg kuv ma li yuav Yog koj yuav tau koj pheej dhuav dhuav Muab nws nrauj kuv mam tuaj tham dua Yog koj yuav tau koj tsis xav pab Tso nws kuv ma tuaj coj ua nyab
Sister, finally you smarten up and think for yourself. Really you need love not torture and a ride to heaven okay. Glad you found your hero and partner in life. Best of luck. Also, your kids need to stop scaring you about death there is always Hmong church people okay for divorcee. The church will make sure when dead the deceist and dead parents will reunite in heaven. 🎉
The wife should be smarter cause the min her husband want to divorce she should of get half of his 401k just as an insurance on her parts. If he’s that desperate for the second wife he’ll agree to it. Like some story the wife want’s everything change to her name get his 401k before she agree to sign for a divorce. But glad she found you.
You are such a sweet person, I don't see anything you are doing is wrong but knowing hmong men this definitely is a crime. Having a guy friend is consider cheating on the hmong world. Txiv neej hmoob ces lub siab yeej phem. Tsis hlub los yeej tsis muab tso mus. Tsis hlub los yeej tsis pub lwm tus hlub.
Txiv ntxawm aw tsis txhaum li os ntawv nrauj muaj lawm tsis ntshai li niam yau nws twb muaj lawm tsis txhaum kiag. Cov txiv dev zoo li tus dev no xwb tsis txuag nws kiag hos.
Luag Yuav hlub thiab g hlub los luag teeb meem luag twb g tau nrauj kj twb mus deev lawm kj ma Liam tiag2 txeeb luag tej poj niAm ntxim ntxub tshaj cov niag neeg Tham luag tej poj niam
Txhua yam neb ua yeej tsis txhaum leej twg tab sis txhaum yawm saub tswv ntuj vim tus poj niam koj tham tab Tom ua txoj kev phauj kua zaub Ntsuab rau nws tus txiv es nws thiaj tsis kam nrauj ntawm tus txiv thiab hmoob kev cai neb tab Tom tsim txoj kev npam rau neb lub neej tom ntej no yog koj yog ib tug txiv neej siab zoo li koj hais mas koj yeej tsis kam mus ntsib thiab tham nrog nws mus ua si qhov txhia chaw tus poj niam ko neb yeej ua txhaum tiag ntawv ua sib phauj lawm xwb yog neb sib ntshaw thiab sib hlub mas yuav sim ua kom teb chaws txhob thuam tau mas thiaj neb thiaj yog neeg ncaj ncees tus poj niam ko mas ruam tshaj plaws thiaj ua sib pauj nws tus txiv los yeej ua neej tsis zoo hos neb los yeej ua neej tsis zoo thiab vim ua sib pauj xwb ua neej yeej tsis vaj meej
Kuv xav tias ntshai nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no es tsi muaj tus zoo lawm no peb cov pom niam raug tsim txom li no tseem muaj coob kawg li os poj niam ces vim muaj me nyuam coob lawm ces raug tsim npaum cas los uv xwb os
He Save Her & Rescue Her! How Many Chances A Man Would Love You & Like You Because He Cared Bout You Than Use You, Fight Against You & Put You Down & Love His Family 100% More Than You & Also, Believe Everything His Family Says?!?! Only 5% Save You From A Bad Relationship & Not Use It Against You!!
Sister, should've had her husband put all his words on paper. Word for word of everything he promised her if she give him the divorce paperwork. Hmong women need to stop listening to their family abd especially her husband relatives. Those Hmong men only cared about their dicks. She needs to cut all ties with her ex. She needs to divorce him completely in everything. Her husband is just stringing her along. She needs to love herself and put herself and needs first. There is absolutely no reason to hang onto a dead tree. But she's making her life misery. Well, at least the ending she woke up and found happiness with you. Glad to hear she finally cut off all ties and divorced her ex husband completely abd married you. She's found a better man and husband in you.
Kuv xav teb tus txiv dev no. Koj puas paub txaj muag. cas tseem muaj phus tuaj tham koj txoj kev liam. koj lub qe tsw lwj rau saum no thiab. Cov neeg deev luag poj tuaj nruab txag, nyiag luag qoob tuaj nruab txhab ces yog koj tus txiv dev ko los maj...!!! cas tsis nkaum zoo zoo hauv koj lub qhov ntxa kom tag koj lub neej xwb.... Koj puas paub tias tos tau ua yawg ntsuag li ko los vim koj lub siab yeej phem ti txha...Puas tau npam txaus koj lawm los tsis tau..? Tseem yuav ua kom koj tej kwv tij , neej tsa muaj noj lawv tsis hu koj lawm thiab los.? Cas tsis tuag nrog koj poj niam mus es tseem yuav nyob fab ntuj, fab teb thiab. Liam li koj tus dev tuag ,tseem khuv xim dua.... Koj zoo zoo cas luag tsis tau nrauj, koj txawm siv mus tsoob luag poj niam rau txhua txoj ke....Liam li koj mas tseem yuav tsuab quav noj tag mas koj mam tuag nawj... Vim kev npam ntau heev li...lub ntuj yeej tsis zam txim rau koj tus txiv dev ko li....Paub lawm los..? Ceev faj tsam muaj ib hnub koj thaiv qab ke nawj......
Her ex husband is a dick..it’s only her that put up with all his abuse, she should’ve pressed charges and have him locked up for trying to kill her when pushing her out of the car.
I'm glad that u loved her, but u are homewrecking the moment u said in the note that if she divorced her husband, you would marry her. You gave her hopes to leave her husband to be with u. Should've never said that and let her leave on her own.
Can’t be home wrecking if the home is already wreck though 🤷🏼♀️ she was just holding on to words the elders said to her. Their marriage been over the day he remarried his new wife.
In my opinion you did nothing wrong. In the eyes of the Hmong og you are not in the right. This is the 21st century, please leave your husband if he doesn’t love you. Why stay and be tortured. Hmong women need to wise up
U did right brother. I'm proud of you. I'm glad she found u.
Thanks for sharing this wonderful story. You were her knight and shining armor. ❤
Nothing wrong with what you guys did. Love has no boundaries. Thank you for loving her and taking her out of that trap.
Awesome story and I applaud u for being a real man. The world needs more men like u.
I hope you keep your words to her. One man's trash is one man's treasure. This is a perfect example. Things happen in life for a reason(s)
God sent you to love her. Thank you brother for loving her.
I am so happy she is able to leave and married you. Continue to love her❤❤
You did nothing wrong brother. You are a savior and a superhero. God bless you and Maiv Lu
She’s lucky she met you. You are a good guy. Glad u guys ended up together.
Screw that ex husband. If the kids loved their mom, they wouldn't asked their mom to stay. They can still love her and help as she is their mother no matter what. More power to you and her for finding love and happiness. The ex husband is in the wrong.
tuaj koom koj thiab hai tau zoo heev li
Nrog koj zoo2 siab os viv ncaus, cas mloog koj zaj neej neeg tag es nim raug2 li kuv es puas yuav muaj ib hnub kuv tau txais txoj kev hlub zoo2 li koj thiab vim niaj hnub no kuv tseem yuav kuv tus txiv tab sis tu2 siab li os
Great story Im happy you safe her from a toxic relationship.
Pab koj tus me poj niam zoo siab uas nws tau koj lawm os mog,av tsij hlub2 nws os nawb.
I love this story. I love that she finally learned that her husband only wanted control and power over her. She took that power back and moved on. You gave her hope 😊
Wish you both the best! She deserves to be happy and her ex is crazy! You both didn’t do anything wrong!
Nice one
Perfect
Koj thiaj yog txiv neej muaj lub siab hlub tiag
Hau yau… sawvdaws tseem yuav ua koj tsaug vim koj hlub thiab rub nws tes o.
koj yog ib tug txiv neeg zoo kawg li yom. ua koj tsaug
I actually support this story. Toxic relationships sucks. Glad she move on. No one going to stay and watch your man love another.
Enfin il y a encore des hommes Hmong bien sur terre. ❤
Very good 👍
Husband is a jerk! Friend is a hero!! Beautiful ending!!
Sir. He divorced her legally but not culturally, so technically, they are divorced but he wanted her around at his disposal. No one told him to to get upset that she moved on with you when he was the one who walked away in the beginning. He asked for it!
Tsis txhaum os peb nyob mekas lawm nws twb tsis muaj cai yuav niam yau na! Tus txaum thiab yuav raug kaw mas tseem yog nws naw! Nrog neb zoo siab neb sib tau es hlub kom tsim nyog xwb mas!!😊
Every woman deserves to be treated the way you treat her.
Don’t let your husband stand in the way of finding your soulmate 😂😂😂😂😂
Koj mas tau zoo kawgli
Once both signed the divorce papers, it's all done! And, that legal divorced document should apply to all cultures. Mai Lou is free to do whatever she wishes. It wasn't fair for her at all.
Zoo tiag2 li os....yuav tsum ua li no pob cov poj niam hmoob na, nws niag txiv dev twb ua tau ces nws yeej ua tau ib yam thiab.
Good story 👏👏👏 Maiv lug neb ua tau zoo heev li kav tsi sib sib hlub kom nws tus qub txiv khib khib mog thiab thiaj tsim nyog neb los sib tau.
Everything happens for a reason. Everything has its own time. You both were meant to find one another after the heartaches you both went through. Hope you keep true to your words and continue to love her. The world needs more men who treat their wives with love and respect.
Great story. You did nothing wrong.
Happy for you both!!
Another man’s junk is another man’s treasure…😩👍🤠!!!
Good thing u came to her aid!. Maybe it was destiny
We live in America where we don’t have to put up with the crooked Hmong culture of 2-3 wives. I’m glad she is with you now and happy. You both did nothing wrong because he divorced her already, the document is legal, there is no pretending to be his wife after that!!
Neb ua yog lawm koj tsis txhaum li os
One man's junk is another man's treasure
Tsis txaum leej twg kav tsij sib hlub nws tus txiv qub ces quav dev xwb os
Good job
Ntxim ntxub tshaj txeeb luag tej poj niam deev luag li Ntxim ntxub tiag2
Sim neej no ...yog leej twg tau tus txiv Siab phem lim xyiam Mas ua Neej tu Siab tshaj plaws...nkim tag nrho yus tiam Neej xwb o hmoob e...
Nice story!!
Haya kuv tsis paub tias peb cov txiv neej tiam no es cas riam ntse rov sab qwb hos hlwb khiav rov qab tag mus rau daim av 3 inches xwb qhov tseeb tiag U li ces twb yaig tag lawm yog dauj cog ces twb hloov tus tshiab lawm tiam sis yog niag nqaij es hloov tsis tau xwb yog poj niam es lawv thiaj tseem yuav peb xwb os cov yawg nej cov niam nkauj txhav qaib mas hlub nws xwb zoo tshaj mog.
Hahahaahhaha… yog kawg mas lawv poj niam ua zaub mov qab kawg mas
That is a good story I like it you’re really nice man to save you wife from hell 😢lol
Neb tsis tau ua txhaum vim ntaub ntawv sib nrauj yeej tiav tag. Maiv Lug tus qub txiv twb tsis ua raws nws cov lus cog tseg. Niag txiv dev ntawd twb hais rau Maiv Lug tias nws nrauj Maiv Lug tas lawm tsuas ntsos Mai Lug tsis mus xwb ne.
What she should’ve done is got rid of him for good when he married his second wife. His love and rights as her husband ended the day he married his niam mos ab. He didn’t culturally divorced her because he wanted her as backup if his niam mos ab didn’t work out. I am happy for both of you. Keep on loving!!
Yus yog neeg zoo ces , yuav tau los ua yus tus lawm ces kav tsij hlub xwb. tsis txhob quav ntsej tej tus txiv dev ntawd li os.
Yog koj yuav tau koj tsis xav hlub
Tso plhuav nws tseg kuv ma li yuav
Yog koj yuav tau koj pheej dhuav dhuav
Muab nws nrauj kuv mam tuaj tham
dua
Yog koj yuav tau koj tsis xav pab
Tso nws kuv ma tuaj coj ua nyab
Hlub tsis txaum li os.
There's more to this story then he leads on... woman and men can't b honest friends only...
You have a bad intention. You know she still someone wife. Need to walk away. One side story
Sister, finally you smarten up and think for yourself. Really you need love not torture and a ride to heaven okay. Glad you found your hero and partner in life. Best of luck. Also, your kids need to stop scaring you about death there is always Hmong church people okay for divorcee. The church will make sure when dead the deceist and dead parents will reunite in heaven. 🎉
The wife should be smarter cause the min her husband want to divorce she should of get half of his 401k just as an insurance on her parts. If he’s that desperate for the second wife he’ll agree to it. Like some story the wife want’s everything change to her name get his 401k before she agree to sign for a divorce. But glad she found you.
Happy ending, congratulations 😂
You are such a sweet person, I don't see anything you are doing is wrong but knowing hmong men this definitely is a crime. Having a guy friend is consider cheating on the hmong world. Txiv neej hmoob ces lub siab yeej phem. Tsis hlub los yeej tsis muab tso mus. Tsis hlub los yeej tsis pub lwm tus hlub.
This story took place in MN because that's how the HNY be.... crowded as heck, and you just squeeze thru the crowd.
Kavtsij sib sib hlub es hlub koj poj niam kom tsim tsim nyog xwb os mog💕
Thaub siab liam-hiam ntawv ntshe nws khib tsawg xwb os! Yog khib tau ntau tshaj ntawv mas haj yam zoo thiaj haum nws xwb os😜
Kuv tsis pom tias neb ua txhaum leej twg. Txiv neej hmoob yeej siab phem, thaum nws tsis hlub lawm ces nws yeej tsis xav Kom leej twg hlub nws qub poj niam li
Tsis txhaus os. They divorced legally.
He doesn't care about her anymore, so she can do whatever she wants.
Txiv ntxawm aw tsis txhaum li os ntawv nrauj muaj lawm tsis ntshai li niam yau nws twb muaj lawm tsis txhaum kiag. Cov txiv dev zoo li tus dev no xwb tsis txuag nws kiag hos.
Luag Yuav hlub thiab g hlub los luag teeb meem luag twb g tau nrauj kj twb mus deev lawm kj ma Liam tiag2 txeeb luag tej poj niAm ntxim ntxub tshaj cov niag neeg Tham luag tej poj niam
Zoo mloog kawg.
Cheating is not a crime. But hais txog hmoob kev cai ces neb ua phiv lawm nawb rau qhov Maiv Lug tsis tau nrauj txiv ntawm hmoob.
Txhua yam neb ua yeej tsis txhaum leej twg tab sis txhaum yawm saub tswv ntuj vim tus poj niam koj tham tab Tom ua txoj kev phauj kua zaub Ntsuab rau nws tus txiv es nws thiaj tsis kam nrauj ntawm tus txiv thiab hmoob kev cai neb tab Tom tsim txoj kev npam rau neb lub neej tom ntej no yog koj yog ib tug txiv neej siab zoo li koj hais mas koj yeej tsis kam mus ntsib thiab tham nrog nws mus ua si qhov txhia chaw tus poj niam ko neb yeej ua txhaum tiag ntawv ua sib phauj lawm xwb yog neb sib ntshaw thiab sib hlub mas yuav sim ua kom teb chaws txhob thuam tau mas thiaj neb thiaj yog neeg ncaj ncees tus poj niam ko mas ruam tshaj plaws thiaj ua sib pauj nws tus txiv los yeej ua neej tsis zoo hos neb los yeej ua neej tsis zoo thiab vim ua sib pauj xwb ua neej yeej tsis vaj meej
You didn’t do anything wrong by married your wife. Glad you both found each other.
Kuv xav tias ntshai nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no es tsi muaj tus zoo lawm no peb cov pom niam raug tsim txom li no tseem muaj coob kawg li os poj niam ces vim muaj me nyuam coob lawm ces raug tsim npaum cas los uv xwb os
You did nothing wrong her ex husband already divorced her, and ur not at fault. Keep loving her u deserve love n, and so is she. Best of luck, brother
He Save Her & Rescue Her! How Many Chances A Man Would Love You & Like You Because He Cared Bout You Than Use You, Fight Against You & Put You Down & Love His Family 100% More Than You & Also, Believe Everything His Family Says?!?! Only 5% Save You From A Bad Relationship & Not Use It Against You!!
Tus brother aw cas koj yuav ua Tau hauj lwm zoo ua lauj kav tsij pab cawm peb cov poj niam Kom dim ntawm txoj kev tuag thiab os
Hnub ua nws ua ntawv nrauj lawm ces tham hluas nraug hnub ntawv tau lawm
You're not as innocent as yu say yu are n yu know it. I don't think yu would alow yur new wife to have a guy as a friend would yu end of story
Zoo kawg leej twg tus pojniam es nrauj tag tu taw tag no ces sau ntawv rau kuv nawb kuv tabtom nrhiav tib tug ov.. Kuv nyob rau tus leb 47 xwb ov 😋
The minute he has a girlfriend, and now 2nd wife, he lost all rights. Take her, love her.
Koj tsis txhaum os, nws tsis muaj daim ntawv pov thawj sib yuav nrog nws tus txiv qub lawn, sib yuav los tsis muaj teeb meem lawm os brother. Txhob ntshai leej twg li os. nyob rau hauv lub neej, ib tug txiv neej yuav tsis tau ob tug neeg. Peb nyob USA, tsis yog nyob Thaib teb, tus txiv qub ua phem rau koj hu 911 xwb.
Even neb tsi tau cheat Los mus uake rau ub no li ko xwb yeej yog cheat lawm!
Sister, should've had her husband put all his words on paper. Word for word of everything he promised her if she give him the divorce paperwork. Hmong women need to stop listening to their family abd especially her husband relatives. Those Hmong men only cared about their dicks. She needs to cut all ties with her ex. She needs to divorce him completely in everything. Her husband is just stringing her along. She needs to love herself and put herself and needs first. There is absolutely no reason to hang onto a dead tree. But she's making her life misery.
Well, at least the ending she woke up and found happiness with you. Glad to hear she finally cut off all ties and divorced her ex husband completely abd married you.
She's found a better man and husband in you.
This is America, and 21st century pojniam kam ces yes..21 and over.. who cares...😂😂😂😂😂
Koj thover tuaj
Kuv xav teb tus txiv dev no. Koj puas paub txaj muag. cas tseem muaj phus tuaj tham koj txoj kev liam. koj lub qe tsw lwj rau saum no thiab. Cov neeg deev luag poj tuaj nruab txag, nyiag luag qoob tuaj nruab txhab ces yog koj tus txiv dev ko los maj...!!! cas tsis nkaum zoo zoo hauv koj lub qhov ntxa kom tag koj lub neej xwb.... Koj puas paub tias tos tau ua yawg ntsuag li ko los vim koj lub siab yeej phem ti txha...Puas tau npam txaus koj lawm los tsis tau..? Tseem yuav ua kom koj tej kwv tij , neej tsa muaj noj lawv tsis hu koj lawm thiab los.? Cas tsis tuag nrog koj poj niam mus es tseem yuav nyob fab ntuj, fab teb thiab. Liam li koj tus dev tuag ,tseem khuv xim dua.... Koj zoo zoo cas luag tsis tau nrauj, koj txawm siv mus tsoob luag poj niam rau txhua txoj ke....Liam li koj mas tseem yuav tsuab quav noj tag mas koj mam tuag nawj... Vim kev npam ntau heev li...lub ntuj yeej tsis zam txim rau koj tus txiv dev ko li....Paub lawm los..? Ceev faj tsam muaj ib hnub koj thaiv qab ke nawj......
Ua cas tsis kom nws nrauj niag txiv dev Liam tso neb mam sib tham.
She deserves it ❤
Her ex husband is a dick..it’s only her that put up with all his abuse, she should’ve pressed charges and have him locked up for trying to kill her when pushing her out of the car.
Sister you did wrong to believe your husband and signed divorce papers for him without splitting your half. He already got your ok contract.
Friends with benefits 😂
koj ntsib tus txiv Tovar Yug plus xwb nws tso tej zaum kof ntsib xaus
I'm glad that u loved her, but u are homewrecking the moment u said in the note that if she divorced her husband, you would marry her. You gave her hopes to leave her husband to be with u. Should've never said that and let her leave on her own.
Can’t be home wrecking if the home is already wreck though 🤷🏼♀️ she was just holding on to words the elders said to her. Their marriage been over the day he remarried his new wife.
😂 homewrecking. There was no home to be wrecked at her point in that life. He ex husband was long gone, only she still waiting in the dark 😅
In my opinion you did nothing wrong. In the eyes of the Hmong og you are not in the right. This is the 21st century, please leave your husband if he doesn’t love you. Why stay and be tortured. Hmong women need to wise up
Lil half can b ex0laned but no stupid old age women connected
Koj tsis yog neeg zoo 100%. koj Yeej muaj kev txhaum ib yam, Koj hlub nws npaum cas los yuav tau hais kom ob Yog pluam Koj mam mus hlub mam mus tham, thiaj tsis txhaum. Koj tus Hluas nkauj tsis Khov txaus neb thiaj li ua txhaum me me. Tabsis Yog Koj Yog neeg ncaj ncees tiag, Koj lub siab zoo yuav coj Koj mus rau zoo.
Thaub laus lim hiam cas txawj khib thiab. Siab phem tshaj