MY FIBROIDS & HYSTERECTOMY STORY MY PATHWAY TO WELLNESS AND HAPPINESS
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- I'm sharing my fibroids and hysterectomy story, because, I thought it would be helpful, to answer some of your questions, scary thoughts and the what-if's, that constantly replays in your mind.
It is important to take care of our bodies and love it, enough, to make good, healthy, decisions. Having this surgery brought me, wellness and happiness.
Feel free, to share your story. Enjoy!
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Thank you so much I'm over here having serious anxiety, panic attacks. I'm scheduled to have my hysterectomy in a few days and I'm so scared. Thanks for sharing your story it really helped a lot "juice box" dammit I was worried as well so I told my doc don't touch my ovaries!! I'll keep you posted and yes this huge one is sitting on top of my bladder as well have me pissing like a race horse omg!! I don't plan on having more children and I definitely don't want any more cycle!! #YouveBlessedMe TFS ❤️
You're, welcome! I know that, anxiety, that you are feeling. It overtakes your mind and you feel, super scared, alone and cofused, wondering, if you are making a good decision. All you have is, what-if questions, bogging you down. You got me laughing, because, I can hear you telling your doc, not, to touch your ovaries! lol That fibroid, that was sitting on my ovaries was so annoying. I know what you mean about constantly having to use the restroom. I've answered some questions and gave a few tips to viewers, in the comment section. Whenever you feel up to it, read through them. It'll help you, because, you are going to need some help. Just to give a few, I'll give you 10.
1. No stairs! 2. No reaching! 3.No lifting more than 5lbs, even, a gallon of milk! 4. No chinese food, such as, fried rice! 5. KEEP LAXATIVES AROUND ALL THE TIME, SUCH AS, prune juice and suppositiories (I used both). You're going to be constipated. 6. Learn, how to get in and out of bed, because, your abdominal is going to be hurting. I used my legs, first, then pushed my body up, to get in and out of bed. 7. SIT DOWN, SIT DOWN, SIT DOWN SOMEWHERE! Our bodies trick us, to thinking, that we feel better and it's really not. You have to rest and relax, as much as, possible. 8. Keep plenty of pillows with you at all times, even, in car rides. Your body is going to feel like something is going to fall out and it hurts when we sneeze, cough and laugh. Press the pillow against your stomach as a security net, even, while sleeping. The pillow will be your friend. 9. Have your friends and family around you as much as possible. You're going to need constant help, at least, the first 2 weeks. 10. Eat healthy, clean, non greasy, foods.
Little things, like that, causes, setbacks and they are not fun:( Alot of the things, you will learn naturally, but, it is a process and takes a long time.Once you've healed, you will feel so much better. It took me about 2 full years, to heal. I had the old school bikini cut surgery. Happy Wellness and Health to you:)
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HealthyHairJourney72 Thanks for sharing!
Very helpful!
HealthyHairJourney72 mine is sitting on my bladder also and I’m ALWAYS PEEING! My surgery is next Tuesday and I’m scared!! Hysterectomy with fibroids and uterus
AWESOME VIDEO! I know this story all to well. I went to the doctor at the age of 27 and was told I had an ovarian cyst...got another opinion...it's fibroids...had a myomectomy....at 33 gave birth to a babygirl....fibroids came back!....am now 44 and getting ready to have a hysterectomy...no more heavy periods, no more pain, no more looking pregnant! BYE FELICIA!!! (FIBROIDS)
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How are you since your surgery?
Wow
Don't skip the ovary awareness plz...
I’m at that point now; partial hysterectomy or continue with pain, etc. I was having issues at age 34 and requested an ultrasound; two small fibroids. No suggestion to monitor them through ultrasounds, I just discussed it with my doctor for six years and endured issues. PCP and OBGYN suggested hysterectomy because of my age now 40 and I have two children. I have five fibroids now and partial hysterectomy is scheduled for next month. I’m still skeptical regardless of the issues. I’m just praying for peace of mind with my decision. Thanks for this information.
Thank you. I am scheduling my hysterectomy soon and it’s nice to hear that not all cases end up in disappointment. I’m currently living a miserable life with the fibroids.
You're welcome! I'm happy you are getting rid of those painful blood suckas. There's no need to live in pain and misery. Happy Wellness to you. 😊
4 yrs late but you’re still helping others with this. Thank you!
You're welcome 😊
8 years later I'm watching. I'm actually recovering from surgery I had last week.
Diagnosed with an orange sized fibroid in November 2016. Had a hysterectomy yesterday and the tumor was the size of a football. My uterus was the size of a 20 week pregnant woman. I used to be so tired that all I could do was cry. Immediately following surgery, I felt better. Best decision I ever made.
Wowzers! That fibroid blew up that big in one year? Dang! Those blood suckers ain't no joke! I'm glad you got that taken care of, because, it was only going to get worse. Good for you:)
NeziNapps akaNezi thank you!
I have a melon size plus 3 smaller golf ball size I'm scared any advice?
Kimi
I'm 7 years late and 6 weeks post op for total abdominal hysterectomy (l had a 4lb fibroid) and l can honestly say l feel absolutely wonderful 😀 My biggest piece of advice for all lovely ladies having surgery is don't get constipated...sounds daft maybe but l went 8 days and it was horrendous!!! Good luck ladies....best thing l've ever done!! 💖
I’m having one in another month…i been doing alot of research. I dont want kids, dont have any, but need it for my own sanity. This pain is horrendous, and i’m tired of bleeding crazy. My husband good with it, and he supports me. I don’t think I could have done any of this without his support.
I’m two weeks post op. 37 with no children. I made the best decision for ME! I can’t wait to be fully healed. She removed everything but one ovary. 💜💜
I'm glad I found this video. My surgery is scheduled in the next 11 days. I was told I have "numerous" fibroids which has effected my quality of life for some time now. I'm both scared and happy to end this discomfort. Your video has really helped! Thank you!
As I’m recovering in bed from a Myomectomy surgery on October 5, 2020 to remove multiple fibroids and a cyst. I find your story informative and comical. I’ m trying not to laugh, my abdomen is extremely sore. Love your vibe, I know I’m late but wishing you and commenters overall good health and recovery.
Sending virtual flowers to all, 💐🌻🌷🌸🌺💐 Put you faith & believe in the LORD. GOD Bless
hi , i just had an abdominal hysterectomy done on oct 15 due to a large fibroid. R u having any pressure issue in you abdomen .? Like it just feels heavy especially when you get up? Hows the recovery coming along? Yes..trust the Lord
@Bern Milan YES, you need a stomach binder or postpartum belt to support you internally. It helps tremendously. My recovery is coming along good. I was creep stepping for awhile☺️ and struggled to get out of bed. I’m 4weeks post op and finally mastered how to get out of bed without it being painful. Happy recovery, and take your time.😇
Thank you for sharing your journey during your Hysterectomy experience. I'm 39 yrs old with no kids. I have my scheduled surgery on 9/8. I'm choosing health. I'm saying goodbye to pain!!
OMG I'm 39 as well with no children. I already had my tubes tied because of health reasons so I'm gonna opt for the partial hysterectomy. Please update on your recovery
I pray you're doing well and have a healthy, speedy recovery! I'll have one Oct. 1st.
Hi Nfinite MissConnception! Thank you for your wishes! I’m doing 100% better after my surgery. I have no regrets after during it and feel so much better and a lot healthier. I pray you have a great surgery on the first. Take care!
Symone Kennedy Hi Symone! Recovery turned out better than I thought. No regrets what so ever! ❤️
@@Lisa____Mota That's great news. Your stories are encouraging. My surgery date is in November.
Thank you so much for your story I just had a hysterectomy in August of this year 2019 I was so afraid I almost backed out the day of my surgery but I am glad now that I did not this was my first surgery at age 53 I think that every woman our bodies go through so much and we have to do things to keep us healthy and be informed on what's out there as far as options for us thank you for sharing your story
when we lose anything, a person, a relationship, an arm, a leg, a job, or a uterus, we go thru a grief period. you have to live it, cry it out, talk it out. it gets better. you're a strong woman, so glad i heard your story. i'm post menopausal, hardly any estrogen, its been tough. i love to share with other women. thank you! God Bless you.
You're welcome and thank you for you comment:)
Thanks for sharing
I grieved without knowing over having tubal ligation...... in two days I’ll be having a hysterectomy. I pray I don’t have any emotional pain this time around.
Loved your video. Fibroids came into my life when I was 20/21 since I was 22 I have had a myomectomy every other year. They took over my entire 20’s. I have done everything you could think of. I even was on Lupron. Just recently at age 31 the doctors and I decided that it was time for a hysterectomy. I have no kids. Praying for all women going through this.
Do you want children?
Monique, same here, multiple surgeries and all, but u know what, I've decided I'm tired, better just take out the uterus.. I've been waiting it out for 2 years, but I finally told my doctor I'm ready, doing it soon, I'm 33, no kids and I honestly never wanted biological children
I'm 35 and trying to get mine scheduled. Haven't wanted children for nearly a decade and advised people to adopt/foster. Always got a "but it's not yours" "but what if your husband wants one" "but, but, but". I was TIRED. My pain grew from heavy periods, to multiple hospital stays for multiple infusions, to polyp growth, to the growth of MULTIPLE fibroids. I was mad at everyone I'd ever tusted and a life and all the money and time I'd spent.
I'm only angry that I postponed my own life, my own wellbeing, and my own quality of life because of what everyone else had told me, including doctors. I CAN'T WAIT to have a hysterectomy because it still sounds better than the hell I've been going through for 25 years.
I wish you well and hope you find peace with YOUR body and YOUR health! ❤️
Ladies, thank you for sharing. I have 1 son and I didn't want anymore but it was such an emotional decision to have my lady parts taken. Im a social worker and there are so many children needing wonderful mothers in their lives. So if you decide to want children please consider adoption or foster parenting.
Monique, same situation here. Even down to the name…lol…Monique…i have no kids, have been dealing with endometriosis since age 12 and I’ve been on birth control and lupron since 12. I am scheduled for a hysterectomy next month. I’m praying that you are well!!…we are in this together!!!
Thank you so much. I am in the process of removing my uterus for fibroids reasons. I am doing my research and I came across to your video. Thanks for sharing
Do you have fibroids? Many women face this problem and don't know what to do. Watch this video, as it will bring some comfort, to your decision. You are not alone.
Alright, girl. Hugs!
OMG! I'm glad you got that taken care of. That sounds very serious. I hope you are feeling better, now. Happy Wellness To YOU.
Yes! The first few days are the worst. I felt like death. Oh, that is great news...having a great support team, especially, from your husband. You heal, better, when you know you are going to be alright. I'm happy for you:)
Ooh,that's scary! I got my cysts checked out, recently and my gyn said mine was normal. Hope, she was right.
No, I felt normal. Now, last year, my hormones was popping out of control. My surgery was in 2009, so, I don't think my hormones was crazy because of my hysterectomy. I'm getting older and closer to menopause. I think, that's why, I was so crazy. I nipped that craziness in the bud with some wild yam supplement pills. They worked like a charm and I only took them for 3 days. Don't worry about that. You'll be fine, especially, since you kept your ovaries.
I'm 42. I had a "tiny" fibroid to begin with too, and it grew to 12cms and made me look like I was 3 months pregnant. I had a hysterectomy 2 weeks ago and I'm recovering now. I think I'm doing ok. I appreciate this vlog as I wanted to know more about what I've just been through. Thank you :)
Hi, Janet! I appreciate you, as well. Thank you for commenting a sharing a little of your story. I'm happy you are doing okay. You're welcome:)
Happy all is well. If you don't mind sharing what all did they remove? And what procedure did they take was it through the vagina or the old-fashioned way? My Dr wants to perform mines via vagina & I'm freaked OUT.
42? You mean 32?
❤️ thank you for sharing I'm scheduled for a hysterectomy in 10 days. I'm glad there's someone like me (black, no children, fibroids) who I can identify with. You've been a lifesaver in this whirlwind of emotions that I'm having. Thank you again.
I don't regret it and my surgery was 10 years ago.
@Black Raspberry That's cold and insensitive.
@Black Raspberry first show me the statistics of all women who had hysterectomies regretting it. Why do you care to bother these women in the first place? You don't know their diets so changing diets have nothing to do with it. Lots of women choose to be childless so either your projecting your own issues on this woman or your jealous of childless women. Live your own life leave people alone.
@Black Raspberry Its our choice to have it done. So if you don't like it than don't get one very simple.
@Black Raspberry So worry about your life and leave other people alone.
Thanks for sharing your story. I had a hysterectomy in 09 as well for fibroids and I took a lot of flack from family and friends saying I was too young. I kept my ovaries so my juice box is still juicy (love the way your phrased that!). It's so important for women to make these decisions and embrace that there are options instead of living with discomfort. Thanks again...stay blessed!
You know, you made me smile, repeating after me, right? I forgot, I said that. lol But, yeah! People, have a problem with hysterectomies. Shoot! I had a problem with it, at first. After researching and weighing out some things, it was the best decision. I'm like you. I don't want to be uncomfortable.
I'm hoping, you don't have any regrets on your decision. I'm thinking you feel, much better and if so, good for you.
Happy Health and Body and stay blessed, as well.
You were the most informative out of all that discuss their situation.
Hi!
I’m having a full hysterectomy on TOMORROW and I have been emotionally through the ringer with worry and anxiety! The road leading up to this moment has been hard. I know I’ve made the right decision. I’ll be happy when it’s over. I’m very thankful to have run into your video. Be continually blessed!! 💕
You'll be fine. I can't tell you not to worry, because, it's natural to do so; I worried, too. It's a new healthy journey and you'll adapt, as time goes by. Just remember, you are still a woman and can't nobody take that from you.
I have some tips for your post operation, if you're interested. Go to the comment section under this video and the first comment, that's PINNED BY NEZINAPPS. Read the, REPLY, of the tips I gave to that commenter and it will give you the do's and don'ts, on what to do. Happy Wellness To You.😊🤗🙂
How are you feeling?
Tenecia Patterson ...things ended up going left field. I didn’t respond well to the anesthesia, so the procedure was stopped. I was told that my heart rate slowed too much and scared the surgeon. I’ve since decided to just deal with my symptoms and reach menopause on my own at some point.
@@e.hunter-davis3105 Oh, no! That sounds terrible. Thank you for the update.
5 years later I type in fibroids and your video has helped me. Thanks for sharing your personal journey with me. Hope you are still doing well and many blessings.
Thank you, Shane! I'm doing fine! I hope you are, too and appreciate that you stopped by, again:)
My wife is scheduled to have her operation soon. Same issues you had. I hope she has the same experience as you. We are both nervous!! Thank you for posting this!!
Thank you for sharing your story. I am scheduled for a full hysterectomy in January 2020. In 2001, they told me i had 3 fibroids which was found during a ultrasound while carrying my daughter (a lot of pain and problems during the pregnancy). After which I asked to have them removed. The doctor told me at age 32, i was still wanting to have another pregnancy and the removal could cause me not to get pregnant. Well the father and i cancelled the engagement and ended the relationship 3 years after. I haven't been in a serious relationship since. Now at age 50, i am not trying to get pregnant and those 3 little fibroids have grown into multiple (to many to pick up on an ultrasound abdominal or vaginal). My normal heavy cycles of 5 days are now 8 days and so heavy i wear 2 super pads an hour. Anemic and Iron deficient and like she said in the video the discovery of the multiple fibroids is when i wanted to jump off the table. The procedure will remove my cervix, fallopian tubs and uterus. Depending on the condition of my overaris (one with a small cyst) they may be removed as well. My sister had an emergency in 2001 due to endometriosis. She told me about the phantom periods. But my question what are the differences for those who kept thier overaris and those who did not?
I found this video very relatable. I had fibroids in 2018/2019 and one was growing into my cervix, causing nonstop bleeding. First go-round I had surgery to get them removed, fast-forward a year later and the same issues are returning, so I jump through hoops to get a hysterectomy done. Turns out the fibroids were growing back, and I had endometriosis. Now it's been a little over a year since then and I feel 9001 times better than I have in years!
Just wanted to say a quick thank you for sharing your story. I'm 37, no kids and have 2 fibroids the size of grapefruits causing me all kinds of problems. I've waited long enough dealing with these things and am getting ready to finally get a hysterectomy. Hearing your story has helped calm my fears and anxieties. Looking forward to coming out the other side healthier and happier.
How did it go Leigh Ann? Those are HUGE fibroids! I think you are making a wise decision. How did it go? Did you have it? How are you healing? I have multiple and have to decide what to do. I'm so torn. Don't want kids, but some women have such issues after the surgery.
I just had my surgery on May 24th 2018. I had everything removed. Thank you for sharing your story. I feel absolutely blessed by your story. Thank you, Thank you, Rhank you.
Thank you for sharing, researching for my upcoming hysterectomy I have been blessed with my 3 children by 23 an have been ignoring symptoms of fibroids for over a dozen years an now it all makes sense I am ready to feel better. You have a great energy about you thanks for sharing!
Thank you for sharing - I'm 37 and was scheduled to have a hysterectomy last august because of very aggressive fibroids which I've had since I was 18. I have 9 fibroids (sizes ranging from grapes to oranges) that alter my life. But I'm eating healthy and trying different naturals meds to see if I could get rid of them. Every woman has a different path and I'm glad you're doing well.
Hello! You are, so welcome. Have you been suffering, from, your fibroids? Have you seen a difference, since, you changed your diet? If so, that's great. I am happy, that you are finding your pathway. Much success, to you. Thank you, for listening to my journey:)
Happy Health and Body:)
Yes, I canceled the hysterectomy because I felt a difference in my symptoms after doing a strict cleanse and eating a vegetarian diet. Thank you for the good wishes and much success to you also :)
Great! I'm happy to know:)
How is the dietary method working? Really curious. It's been 4 years. Did you end up having to have a procedure done? If so, how did it go?
I'm so glad I found your page. I hope all is well and you're feeling better. Due to severe PCOS on November 12, 2019 I had VSG ,rt ovary removal with a fist size tumor on the rt ovary removed,both fallopian tubes,and scar tissue on the left ovary removed. Im so thankful to be here I'm healing fine and I went from weighing 115-145 to being foolish getting norplant birth control having it 1 yr caused all these female issues fast forward June 19, I was a whopping 256 which was so depressing I have no kids and now I'm 203 with a goal to lose 50 more lbs and keep it off. Before my surgery I had an ultrasound and was told I had 3 fibroids but I never had been told that in the past but I definitely will be checking again this year second opinion because had the doctors assisted me when I first went years ago complaining of pain instead of band-aiding the situation I never would've went through this. I prayed that God would send me doctor's that cared and he worked through there hands and eyes and I'm forever Greatful. Now I have to do my part ! Eat right , exercise,take my vitamins and protein the rest of my life. Thanks for sharing your amazing story and being an inspiration to many. Blessings and best regards to you ♥️🙏
That was me in 2017… was 155/160, then got an IUD put in… it blew me up… my heaviest was 225, and I was super depressed. It cause fibroids and cysts I had to get removed in 2017, and they came back with a vengeance. I had to do research on how to eat/exercise with a hormone imbalance… lost about 15 pounds, but now i made the decision to have a hysterectomy. Im tired of bleeding, painful sex with my husband and the emotional roller coasters. I’m nervous, but i’ve prayed and GOD got me! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@ShaynieB You may want to check into uterine embolization before going the hysterectomy route. No more fibroids and clots since my embolization in 21. Blessings and Best regards to you in all your endeavors
Thank you for sharing this. I was recently informed I need surgery. I'm plus size and on a health journey. Surgery is something I'm not thrilled about (no one is). I've always been thick but my stomach was smaller. I couldn't figure out why my belly was bigger and chalked it up to being peri-menopause. I started losing weight but my stomach wasn't going down that much. So now i'm faced with really getting this weight down which ain't no joke after 40 (for better recovery) and surgery during a pandemic. Well hearing your story as help me feel less anxious. Thanks again
You're welcome, Felicia! I appreciate you sharing your story. Happy Wellness to you.
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with fibroids. This is a precious video. When people truly share their heart, it's beautiful.
About a month ago, after a pap smear & ultrasound, I was told that I have two large uterine fibroids, and until researching, I didn't know what that meant. One is about the size of a baseball and the other a plum. The past two years I have been bleeding very heavily during periods and even bleeding between them. I thought it was because I had switched birth control pills and my cycle was out of wack. I am 44 years old, and have no desire to have another baby, but when the doctor said the "H" word- hysterectomy, it totally caught me off guard. I wanted a second opinion. Honestly, I didn't feel comfortable with this doctor, so I prayed God would help me find someone. And so far I am VERY happy with my new doctor. I am scheduled for a D&C & hysteroscopy in two days. The results will determine where we go from there. I am now open to a hysterectomy, especially if I can keep my ovaries. I am curious to see what he will recommend.. The thought of not having to deal with the burden of all this bleeding is music to my ears. So thank you again for sharing your journey, its helped me on mine :)
Stephanie Allin Hi, Stephanie! You are very welcome and I really, appreciate, your kind words about this video. My main purpose for posting this video, was to help and answer some questions, to scared and worried women, like, me. I'm happy, that you are on your journey, to healing and happiness. Thank you!😊😋
Even though I am a male, I found this to be interesting and very informative. You're a very intelligent Sister
Thank you so much:)
Thank you so much for sharing Nez!! After a great deal of thought on options, I scheduled my hysterectomy for a month and a half out. It helps to hear others experiences!!!!!! You are so very appreciated for sharing!
Hi, Andrea! You are very welcome. I am happy to bring some comfort to you. I really appreciate your comment and compliment, because, it lets me know, that I've done a great job on answering some of your concerns. Hugs to you!
Happy Wellness To You:)
Thanks. I needed to hear everything you had to say. It really helped me. I hope you are doing well as this is 5 years later. Blessings.😇
You're welcome, Karen. I'm doing fine. It's been 10 years since my surgery. I'm going to do an updated video, soon. Thank you:)
Thank you, I had a full hysterectomy this week. I am recovering now and hearing your story helped me to see past the pain. ❤❤
You are so welcome and thank you for sharing. Happy Wellness To You!😘😊😎
did you have a vaginal or abdominal hysterectomy? Did you feel pressure when getting up from bed or a chair?
I had it vaginally, yes for awhile I felt like something was going to fall out.
Thank you for Sharing your story.I had my hysterectomy 8fibroids was size tennis balls uterus was a size of a grapefruit.I had my whole uterus removed.49 years old when I had the surgery it was my third major surgery 2C-Section with my 2childrens I'm doing wonderful at 51yrs old now.Love your Testimony on this Health issues .My Surgery was 8-28-16
Thank you
I know exactly what you went through. I had my myomectomy in Nov '93. I started out with golf ball size fibroids when i had my son in June '96. My fibroids grew tremendously over the years. My doctor told me i had to have them removed. My uterus was stretched to capacity. I had fibroids that weighed 20 pounds. Yes that was not a typo they were 20 pounds. I had the surgery in Sept '11. It was the best thing i could have done. I'm 100% better after the hysterectomy.
No complications or continued pain?
Thank you!!! I'm about to have a hysterectomy for my fibroids. You helped me not feel so scared.
Capt. Steph You're welcome. Happy wellness to you😘
So glad I found this video! It has truly helped me relax. I have been going through this for over 10 years now and I am now 39. The pain is unbarring to the point I am at 1600 milligrams of motrin! I went to get 4 opinions and has been told the same thing. I have 6 fibroids. I just recently got married and mind you my husband is younger than I am and that was a worry as far as losing my wetness. I talked to him and we both agreed the hysterectomy is best for my health. This way, I can get my life back- in prayer- He is very supportive but as a woman I still worried. But now I am moving forward and your video and my husband truly rock! I am scheduled to have the procedure done in a month.
Latoy B Hi Latoy! I am, so happy, you made a decision that fits your needs. What really makes me happy, is that, your husband is right their with you, supporting you. Yes! The juice box will still get juicy, if the doctor leaves your ovaries. If they are healthy, he should NOT remove them. Don't worry, you'l be fine, like my doctor told me. She was right, though. I feel great. You can't suffer all of your life. You want to enjoy life. Also, talk to your doctor. He may have a counselor or an organization, that will help you if you go through any emotional problem, afterwards.
Happy Healthy Living, Sis:)
Thank you! Happy Healthy Living Rocks.....
My surgery is scheduled in August. I have fibroids also. I’m 45 and never wanted kids. I don’t have a support system at home (I live alone) so I’ll be on my own during recovery. That’s what makes me the most nervous. Everyone says you NEED others to help you. It will be a laparoscopic procedure so I’m hoping the recovery process won’t be too brutal. Thank you for sharing your experience. 💛
Yes, you will need a support system and a team. Actually, you need 2 people that can help you for the first two weeks, because, the surgery will be hard on your body and you can, possibly, go into a depression. Plus, you won't be able to drive, if you use a car for transportation. The simpliest things can set you back in your healing process, such as walking up and down stairs, washing your body, especially your butt or picking up a gallon of milk. I hate that you will be on your own, but see if you can talk to doctors, neighbors or an ex-friend, that can help you. The good thing is, the laparoscpic procedure is not as rough as the old school bikini cut, as far as, recovery time, but it is still a big surgery and takes your breath away. Child, you gonna be a little winded, tired, drained and in pain. Getting in and out of bed for the first few days is a beast, because your abs and stomach area will be tender. Please, reach out to somebody or reschedule your appointment until you do. Thank you for commenting. 😊
@@NeziNappsakaNezi I wanted to follow up with you regarding my procedure since you were so kind to respond. So my procedure in August was canceled 2 days prior to my surgery date because the hospitals stopped performing elective surgeries due to the high amount of Covid patients taking up all of the hospital beds.
I was eventually rescheduled for Oct 18th. So I had my laparoscopic procedure 4 days ago.
The doctor removed a fibroid the size of a grapefruit (I asked for photos) so I could see for myself. I had my left ovary removed and kept my right. I spent the night in the hospital and was released the next day. 3 days after the surgery I had ZERO pain, and no longer needed pain pills. I have no issues walking, driving, sleeping etc… I have a bloated belly from the CO2 gas but that will subside with walking. I was told the gas in my stomach would travel to my shoulders and cause pain but nope. None of that has happened.
I was nervous because I still don’t have (live in) help during recovery but I didn’t need it. I’m barely spotting and can’t wait to be cleared to go back to the gym because I feel fine.
I truly believe the laparoscopic procedure is so much easier on the body because it’s minimally invasive vs the old school bikini cut hysterectomy (which my mom had) which took her MONTHS to recover from. Had I known I was going to be feeling this damn good I would have done this years ago instead of suffering every month!
I’m so grateful to God that he blessed me with a wonderful surgeon and a smooth recovery.
So many nurses in the hospital had the same procedure done and kept saying I’d feel fine within a week and 4 days later, I feel fantastic. Thank you again for documenting your experience. It really helped me move forward with deciding to have my procedure. ☀️💛
this video is a God send. Thank you so much for sharing. I do appreciate it as I'm on that journey 1 week and counting. Thanks also for the story about fibroid.
+MaM TV You are so welcome. Happy Healthy Healing to You😘😊
Thank you for sharing..I'm working with my Doctor and may have to experience surgery and this testimony has been very comforting. I appreciate this so much
You are so welcome. I remember feeling those same feelings, you are feeling, now, but, you will make the best decision. Happy Wellness and Healthiness, sis!:)
this is why I'm having my hysterectomy I have several fibroids the sizes of golf balls .. it's very painful
Amanda Rhindress , how was it? How do you feel now?
Patricia Greenlee it’s frustrating when they don’t reply.
Same Amanda.. I had four the size of tennis balls and by god the past three years were hell because of it. Was very sick, lost a lot of weight due to being so sick, lost all appetite for food made me feel sick after every meal.When it came to that time of the month I was having periods that sometimes went for a lucky 3-4 days to 1-2 MONTHS straight. And because of this as well with the loss of so much blood every time I ended up in hospital 7 times over 2 years having to get blood transfusions and iron transfusions as well. At one stage I had lost that much blood over a six month period that I was rushed into hospital by a ambulance by my private doctor, was feeling not so good at work one day, left work and went to see my private doctor he took blood tests and sent me home to rest, half hr later he himself then came to my house and said I have called a ambulance you need to go to hospital right now before something bad happens.. I was like “ok but I feel fine now” he said “ my dear you are not fine you blood levels are not right at all and you are a very sick girl right now!, And with the amount of blood that you have left that is running thu your body YOU SHOULD NOT BE ALIVE!”.. he said, your body as gotten that used to of this and somehow your body as worked out how to go into overdrive and has kept you alive!.. I was gobsmacked 😳. That’s where they had found the fibroids when all the tests where happing. So all that happen and thousands of more doctors appointment and specialist appointment over the two years, see cancer doctors because my blood wasn’t right, the stress of just everything and having to deal with being a single mother of two boys, having a bloody period that was killing me, me going to specialist appointments and breaking down in tears telling them to just give me a hysterectomy already so I can start living normal, so my boys had their mother back and not so sick all the time.. so it’s been 11 months now since I had my hysterectomy and I am on cloud nine AND FEEL AMAZING!!! 😊👌🏼.. has been a massive life changer for me and I’m so glad that I did it.!
I’m thinking about doing it. Is it painful and how old where you when you did the surgery? I’m 41
Yes, it is painful, but in the long run and after you heal, the pain goes away. I had my surgery at 39 and I'll be 50 years old on October 4th and feel great. I have no regrets, still, to this day.
Thank you so much for sharing your story which is helping me prepare for my upcoming hysterectomy ( painful fibroids as well). Not really wanting to lose an organ or be derailed for several weeks but I think it will make life better. ♥️
Thanks for the video ♡. I have Endometriosis & Adenomyosis. My cycles have been messed up since the age of 12. I'm now 40, still childless. My husband & I would like to have one of our own. However, I'm tired of dealing with the everyday pain. Ovaries screaming, cramping, bloating, pelvic pain, cysts, irregular bleeding. I've been on Provera since Nov 2015, which worked well for almost 6 months. Then I had to have an endometrial biopsy and D&C done in the hospital. Which totally sucked by the way. I was under anesthesia & it still sucked lol! Anyways, enough of the denial & hope of becoming pregnant etc. I honestly believe I'm simply done. Although having an hysterectomy will cure the Adenomyosis it will not cure the Endometriosis. I'm at least hopeful that the pain will decrease a lot. And if not smdh I'll probably just go nuts 😂😂😂! Anyways, I enjoyed your video, the first video I've seen that's making me lean more towards having at least a partial hysterectomy. My current doc has spent 8 months repeating himself over and over again about the risk involved. From early menopause, dementia, bone density, infections and so on. He's also suggested that I have an IUD inserted into my uterus. And for 8 months while he's suggesting that all I'm hearing is whomp whomp whomp, yes Sir. Basically, I'm not doing that. Far too many women have had problems including infections and the body rejecting it. For me, it's not worth trying one more thing. I'm simply Straight Outta Hope lol & ready to be pain-free as much as possible. Lots of love and light to you. And to all women who are struggling with this decision...and for the men as well. Because their feelings and opinions matter.
Tiffany Martinez i recommend healing from a Reiki healer🌸
What did you decide on, and how did it go?
I just found your channel today. I have a fibroid the size of a baby's head! and my uterus is enlarged like I'm five months pregnant. I am very scared to have the surgery. My dr. said partial hysterectomy he just called me today to schedule the surgery, I have children so that's not the issue. But I do have anemia, fatigue and heavy bleeding. I'm not sure if you will read this now but I'm glad that you posted this video.
I'm definitely reading your comment and here to listen to you. I know exactly how you are feeling, although, I had those feelings 11 years, ago. I'm happy this video has brought a little comfort to you. Taking care of our bodies will let us have a better, productive, healthy, life. Especially, if we have children, because we need to be there for them.
Fibroids are some mean blood suckas that drains us, causes pain and hidden away, alone, until we feel better and that's no way to live.
If you are interested, I have a few tips underneath this video, in the comment section, as a, REPLY, to another commenter. I have it PINNED BY NeziNapps.
Thank you for your comment and compliment.
Thank you for telling your story!!! I am terrified. I just found out I have adenomyosis and my dr suggested a hysterectomy. I am still unsure. Praying God gives me a sign either way!
Yes ma'am that pain when examining is excruciating!!! I just had a hysterectomy yesterday morning. I am doing well thanks to the Lord. I only had one ovary left and they took it too because of cysts on it. I feel fine for the most part. I am just dealing with the nausea from the anesthesia. Mine was the size of a grapefruit as well. I am going to have to apply a hormone replacement patch once a week for about 13 years or longer. I love your videos. Thanks for sharing, Nezi.
Good luck with your recovery! I just had an abdominal myomectomy 2 weeks ago. I had nausea and shoulder pain from the anesthesia too. It was the worst for the 1st 5 days. But each day gradually got better. Time really does heal all wounds.
Thank you for sharing I am having a myomectomy Wednesday. Mine is the size of a grapefruit and it's sitting on my bladder and colon I am 42 but still can have children. I decide to retain my uterus for a little longer. Thank you for being so honest and candid. So helpful.
Oh, you are so welcome. I hope things went well, on Wednesday:)
I am the same age as you and having to make the same decision. Did your fibroids grow back? I was told to get the hysterectomy, but my fibroids are smaller than yours. I have three of them. How do you feel about your decision?
I was told earlier this morning that I have 5 walnut sized fibroids. I have the choice of dealing with it or have a hysterectomy. This was the first time I was told I had fibroids and they grow quickly when going through premenopausal. I’m 47 years old and never had children. I’m afraid and feel that this is so final. That my choice of every having children has been taken away. Thank you for sharing.
Get another opinion! There's multiple options out there if you still want to keep your fertility. Research as much as you can before you decide what to do.
Thanks for sharing...I had fibroids for over 20 years and 4 procedures to remove them over the years... and the last straw was when one grew to the size of a football and smashed my right kidney .. I had a total hysterectomy 4 years ago.. I have a 21 year old
Girl, when I read your comment, I was shocked! I'm so happy you are in a better place, today.Thank you for sharing, as well.
NeziNapps akaNezi Thanks so much 💜💜
@@Zbraze6 Did you have complications? How long did it take to recover where you were back to your usual self?
lockergr hi it took me 5 weeks after a week 1 was able to cook a little and shower ... not much else I went back to work after 5 weeks but I sit all day
Zbraze6. It's great to hear your feeling better. I have a question, was the procedure done the old-fashioned way or via the vagina. My doctor wants to do mines through the vagina and I'm trying to find women that had it done that way. To tell me what it's like.
Thanks so much for sharing! I’m glad to see that most on here were nervous prior to the surgery. I am not alone! This has helped me! Thank you! I get my surgery 9/26/18! Pray for me everyone! Thank you! ☺️
I'm 35 going through the same thing and may need surgery...thank God I had all 5 of my children years before this cause I don't know how I would feel knowing I could never have them after.
I had mine done at the same age, you are so blessed to have already had children. The depression of knowing noone will ever call me mommy is so real. I wouldn't wish this on any woman
Thank you for sharing your story. You're a beautiful inspiration. Happiness, health, harmony and happiness to you!
thank you so much for sharing! I'm 37 with numerous fibroids, heavy bleeding etc etc and I'm at the point that I would like hysterectomy too. I'm so over it. so glad to hear that you are doing well.
Thank you! I wish you the best on whatever, you decide to do. Happy Wellness To you:)
Thank you for sharing your story. You may have helped me make my decision. Stay healthy and happy.
You're welcome, Phyllis. Happy Wellness to you.
Great story, I'm due for surgery in about a mth for large fibroids. I'm not nervous or anything, actually looking forward to no more periods! But I'm doing my research and your video is very supportive, thanks for sharing!
Felisha Morton I'm happy you found this video helpful. It's good to research and listen to other people stories and that's why I shared mine. I'm proud, you are getting yourself taken care of. You will feel much better, sooner, than later.
Happy Healthy Healing:)
Good Morning Sis,Had MY Hysterectomy In January & It Was One Of The Hardest, But MOST Rewarding Things I Have Ever Done. YOUR Story Touched ME & I Thank You It's So Amazing How An 5lb Tumor Can Reek Havoc On YOUR Life- I Been Suffering For Yr's & Until I Had Enough I Like YOU Said-Had NO Idea This Thing Was ln METhank You For Telling YOUR Story Sis
Your welcome and thank you for sharing a piece of your story, too. I appreciate your comment and compliment:)
I'm laughing my head off abut the "juice box",but glad you're in good health! You are too much !!
Calisa Hardy 😊😎
Thanks for the video. It helps knowing that we are not alone. BTW...as a woman most of us share freely and no such thing as T.M.I. We are all grown enough not to be embarrassed. Take care and keep strong Hyster-Sister!!
Thank you for sharing this video, I'll be having my hysterectomy in 2 days. Iam so nervous, but you defenetly have helpede calm down and realize that I made the right decision.
Hi, Pammy! You are so welcome! I remember that scary feeling, but, you'll be fine. You're going to feel much better in the long run. If you are, interested, I have some tips on what and what not to do, once, you come home. Those tips are a, REPLY, to another viewer's comment. I have it pinned under, PINNED BY NeziNapps and it's the first comment at the top. Happy Wellness to you:)xo
Thank you for sharing your experience Nezi. I always feel inspired by the stories of other women that share the same medical diagnosis as me.
I was diagnosed with fibroids at the age of 17 but was able to control them and keep them from growing and multiplying. But because they were not causing me any problems I forgot about them and stopped taking the birth control pills. Eventually they started growing and multiplying to the point where it looked like I was 7 months pregnant. My hubby and I have no children, although we desperately still crave having at least one or two. I had an MRI done in 2009 and it showed that I had 17 fibroids. My uterus was extremely enlarged from all the fibroids and even though the doctor said I would never carry a baby I still believed anything was possible with God. After a Uterine Fibroid Embolization in 2009, a Myomectomy in 2010 and a full unsuccessful cycle of IVF in 2012, the fibroids grew back. For six years I've just been dealing with them. I am now at my wits end and at my last option...the partial hysterectomy.
Nezi, I have always enjoyed your hair videos but came across this one and it really helps me on my journey on my own full hysterectomy. I I just got out of the hospital 3 days ago after being in for 16 days at which time they found Colon cancer along with my hysterectomy. Finding your video prior to my surgery was very uplifting and took some of the fear away I plan on uploading my story and would love to reference you to view as well be blessed and be well.
Hope u doing well, keep us posted
Thanks for sharing Nezi! I know this information will help so many women. I had fibroids removed, but they grew back! I know several woman going througha similar situation, so it's good to share!
You're welcome and thanks, for listening. Before, my surgery, I didn't know, so many women suffered with fibroids. I mean, I was outdone. I guess, it stems from, a lot of women don't share that information. It's private. Although, my channel is about hair, I like to have occasional, girl talk. One thing about fibroids, as long as, they have blood supply, they always come back:(
So true about the blood supply, it feeds the fibroid:( One thing I have learned is to stay away from foods with injected hormones & soy products which also contributes to the growth of fibroids through estrogen. Once again thanks for sharing, your channel is a wonderful opportunity to open up the conversation. Kudos to you!!
Thank you:)
Thank you so much for your testimony. I am to have a hysterectomy either in September or October of this year. My doctor has not gotten back with me with the actual date yet. I have five fibroids and one of them is pressing against my bladder to the point where if I don't get them out I may go into renal failure. Thank you so much for your detail and thank you so much for just in general speaking about this it has actually helped me and calmed me down. I had decided and will take 8 weeks off and a friend of mine also told me to take some money out of my 401k so my bills won't fall behind and I won't be behind when I go back to work. Again thank you so much may God bless you and keep you and I look forward to speaking with you again
Hi, Sonja! You are so welcome! You sound, like, you want to move your surgery up, sooner, than September or October (only if you can). I never heard of renal failure, but, it sounds super serious and you don't want to wait too long. Taking money out of your 401k sounds good, if that's your only means of staying afloat, because, ain't nobody, else, gone do it for you. Just remember, though, if you don't put the money back in, you will be paying interests, penalties and double taxes. Hopefully, your 401k has a clause, that states you can withdraw money, without penalties, for health issues. If not, I wouldn't worry about it, because, your health is way important and that's why you have money. SPEND IT! Happy Wellness To You:)
NeziNapps akaNezi it's gonna be like a loan. I will be paying myself back with interest!
Alriggght! You're good to go!
NeziNapps akaNezi after my surgery I will give you an update on how it was. Thanks again!!!!!
Oh, thank you! I would love to see how things are going. I don't know if you've seen my helpful tips, after, surgery. It's pinned in the comment section, as a reply to someone, else. I'm going to copy and paste it to you.
You're, welcome! I know that, anxiety, that you are feeling. It overtakes your mind and you feel, super scared, alone and cofused, wondering, if you are making a good decision. All you have is, what-if questions, bogging you down. You got me laughing, because, I can hear you telling your doc, not, to touch your ovaries! lol That fibroid, that was sitting on my ovaries was so annoying. I know what you mean about constantly having to use the restroom. I've answered some questions and gave a few tips to viewers, in the comment section. Whenever you feel up to it, read through them. It'll help you, because, you are going to need some help. Just to give a few, I'll give you 10.
1. No stairs! 2. No reaching! 3.No lifting more than 5lbs, even, a gallon of milk! 4. No chinese food, such as, fried rice! 5. KEEP LAXATIVES AROUND ALL THE TIME, SUCH AS, prune juice and suppositiories (I used both). You're going to be constipated. 6. Learn, how to get in and out of bed, because, your abdominal is going to be hurting. I used my legs, first, then pushed my body up, to get in and out of bed. 7. SIT DOWN, SIT DOWN, SIT DOWN SOMEWHERE! Our bodies trick us, to thinking, that we feel better and it's really not. You have to rest and relax, as much as, possible. 8. Keep plenty of pillows with you at all times, even, in car rides. Your body is going to feel like something is going to fall out and it hurts when we sneeze, cough and laugh. Press the pillow against your stomach as a security net, even, while sleeping. The pillow will be your friend. 9. Have your friends and family around you as much as possible. You're going to need constant help, at least, the first 2 weeks. 10. Eat healthy, clean, non greasy, foods.
Little things, like that, causes, setbacks and they are not fun:( Alot of the things, you will learn naturally, but, it is a process and takes a long time.Once you've healed, you will feel so much better. It took me about 2 full years, to heal. I had the old school bikini cut surgery. Happy Wellness and Health to you:)
Watching this video makes me feel so much better about having my hysterectomy . I am nervous but I’m choosing health !
I'm happy this video has brought, comfort, to you. I'm like you. I'd choose my health over anything else. Thank you for commenting. 😊
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Four weeks ago I had a hysterectomy. I knew I didn’t want an mor kids but the idea that my uterus was going to be gone was weighing on me. However, the pain and discomfort from my one, single fibroid was too much. I think I’m still fighting some depression behind it but I’m glad I had it done. I experience break through bleeding about once a week. I hope it’s just from stretching or healing. I go to the doctor next week for a checkup and I’ll ask her then. Thanks for sharing and giving me someone to relate to who may have similar issues to me. I wish there was someone closer who I could talk to. Anyway, thank you and bless you.
It's very common for women to have depression after a hysterectomy. I didn't have it, I guess cause I wasn't attached to my uterus and cervix, meaning, I didn't want children, a period and pre-cancerous cells to continue popping up on my pap smear results. Basically, it was no longer necessary to keep them. Sometimes, our doctors will offer counseling or group sessions to make sure you are doing, well, emotionally. Ask your doctor for emotional help.
Now, as far as your break through bleeding. I can tell you right now, you are doing too much and your body is having setbacks. Setbacks are not good, because, your body is not healing properly. Simple things like, walking up and down stair or picking up a gallon of milk, sets us back.
Rest and relaxation is the main key, from having setbacks and breakthrough bleeding. I had 2 or 3 minor setbacks and it was not fun. We think, if we feel good, we can move around more. Nope! Go sit down somewhere and heal!
It took about 2 to 3 years for me to completely, 100% heal, because, I had the old school bikini cut and it's more of an evasive surgery. Hysterectomies are serious surgeries and we have to be very careful during the healing process.
If you are interested, I have a list of tips located in the comment section, as a REPLY and PINNED BY NEZINAPPS at the top of the comment section. Please, read them and follow them as best as you can. Happy Healing to You and you're welcome.
Thank you. And I know you’re right. I don’t hurt as bad as I was prior to the surgery so I know I need to sit down. Thank you for responding, it was unexpected ❤️❤️❤️... gonna go subscribe. I’ll definitely be talking to my doctor.
Thanks so much for sharing your story. I'll be having my hysterectomy next month.
You're welcome and Happy Wellnes to you:)
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am having my hysterectomy on Wednesday and I am ready to get it over with....glad to hear a story from someone that has been there done that with a similar story.
You're welcome! I'm glad this video has brought some comfort to you. Happy Wellness to you 🙂😊
I've watched alot of hysterectomy videos and yours is the last one that I'm going to watch. Thank You so much for sharing your story, my surgery is scheduled in 12 hours and after your video, I really feel like it's going to be ok. You are Awesome and Thanks Again:-)
ConnectedToMeNow Hey, lady! I know you are probably getting ready for surgery, now. So, maybe you will see this message in a day or two. I'm very happy my video brought some type of calm to you. Yes, you will be fine. You have a long journey, as far as, healing and stuff, but, I guarantee you, you will feel 100%, better. Please! Just remember to rest and take your time with doing things. Your mind will make you believe you are healed, sooner, than you think. It's very easy to have setbacks.
I'm happy for your decision, to finding your way to wellness and happiness and you are, so welcome:) xoxox
How are you today? How long did you have pain post procedure? How long before you were 100%?
Thanks for sharing. Going through the same situation. This helps my anxiety as well. Much love Queen
You're welcome. I'm happy this video has brought you some comfort. I remember having anxiety, too and it was very stressful. I'm wishing you happiness and wellness. 😘🥰
great video, i also suffer from fibroids and have had 2 ops previously, and now waiting for another but debating a hysterecomy (i have requested 2 times over 10 year period) as the fibroids just keep coming back, horrible things !! Your video has answered a few questions for me thank you for posting
Yes, i thought i was getting fat and did regular pap smear. I had a Tubal ligation in 2004 when the surgeon told me about like smaller than a tennis ball and was told it's not an issue. But now i'm really thinking over all the years that this/these things were growing and wondered why my doctors didn't follow up until there is an issue. So now i'm side eying my doctors after 17 YEARS! I trusted my doctors, i didn't know what fibriods even mean. Plus i didn't know what to ask and wasn't told anything or any explanation. It's so depressing. So i was clueless and this is upsetting the more i think about it.
Why do you want to take my cervix...and Doc's like why do you wanna keep it...
🤔 Dang.
You win!
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I have been struggling with fibroids since 30 years old. I had a myomectomy surgery at age 32 and my doctor removed 5 fibroids weighing a total of 5 lbs. 5 years later and fibroids have now grown back just as large. I have never wanted kids either, but it is scary to think the option to have them will be taken completely away with a hysterectomy. Over the last few days I have been in severe pain with these fibroids and I know it is time to just go ahead and have the surgery. The longer I put it off the worse it will be. The myomectomy surgery was a 6 week recovery and it was so painful. I am so afraid to go back through that pain and inconvenience again. I keep telling myself to go ahead and just set up the surgery and deal with 6 weeks of recovery versus the rest of my life in discomfort. Your story gave me inspiration that it will be OK and life may even be better once I'm no longer in pain and bleeding so much. thank you!
Hi, CC! Yes, girl! You will be, better, in the long run. The things you are telling, yourself, is true, but, I know that fear. The fear of being in pain, being vulnerable, to people helping us, being cut and shut down for awhile....I get it, but, I looked at like this. I'm in pain, either, way. So, I just bit the bullet and went to surgery. Look at me, now, 8 years, later. No pain or discomfort. When you are ready, you'll do what's best for you. I'm happy, you found comfort in this video and thank you for commenting:)
NeziNapps akaNezi thank you so much!!
You're welcome:)
Thank you for sharing this story I got my fibroids removed in 2010 right after that I stopped having a period. My husband and I were trying to have a child and it just didn't work I wish I would have known about natural ways to shrink fibroids back then.
Thanks for sharing your experience!
Congrats on your wise decision you will really help a lot of women out there and the ones like me that are researching their options and at the same time going through this issue and many doctors just tell them "to wait and see." They are not the ones dealing with all the inconveniences of having pains and bleeding so heavily that you don't even can leave the house!
I am scheduled for the Da Vinci procedure on Feb. 21th (partial hysterectomy). I've been dealing with a lot of bleeding for about 4 years but always had the spotting and uncontrolled bleeding problem. Probably I also had the fibroids for a while, they just didn't discovered them on time. They finally did in one on my visits to the ER. I was bleeding so heavily! I am happy that I am choosing this procedure. I am now 47 years and approaching my menopause years and really don't want to have another issue to deal with during that time. I want to fully enjoy my life without fibroids.
I will share one of my many experiences; I Went to FL to visit my sister and we decided to visit the Universal Studios. I was bleeding at the time but I just wanted to have some fun so I went ahead! Once I started walking around in the heat, cause it was the hot FL summer, I started bleeding like crazy. My body just draining all the blood it could, and I also felt the change in my mood, I rapidly felt tired and exhausted. I got so upset and called my doctor, I explained that I had come to FL for a quick vacation and all the walking seemed to further aggravated my problem. He advised to go and lay down until I arrived back home. He scheduled a DNC upon my arrival. That was one my short vacation in bed watching movies in my sisters house.
There were many more times like this and I am just gave up life because of this. I go to work, then I stay home laying around, doing what I can just chatting with my hub., cause there is no sex life. We are growing so distant...I am tired of living like this...
So thanks for your video and I will keep you posted once I have my surgery.
Question: Did you experience any irregular bleeding at all? I you didn't then you were one of the lucky ones!!
I'm preparing for.surgery this upcoming Tuesday. my first doctor did the same thing; Watching the fibroid grow. now they are huge and there are several. I am not.comfortable about the surgery but I know I need it. I want to have the Hysterectomy - Laparoscopic but because of the size of the fibroids, they have to make a vertical incision. this video helped me but the nerves are still there. I'm ready to feel better but don't want to go thru this surgery. thanks for sharing. Your story really helped me. how long were you in the hospital?
L. Gillard I know what you mean, with having all of those mixed feelings. I spent 2 days in the hospital. The doctors tried to make walk around, but, it was too painful in my abdomen. So, they sent me the head RN and she forced me to get out of bed, but, she was sweet about it. lol Also, they won't let you the hospital, unless, you have a bowel movement or pass gas. I ended up passing gas, so they let me out in 2 days.
hi, I am about two weeks and days out of surgery. this thing is rough. I had a a.few hiccups. after surgery my blood pressure and hemoglobin dropped. my doctor was very concerned and wanted to.keep me a blood transfusion. The day after surgery my blood count raised a.few points but my BP was still low. I refused the transfusion because my blood counts has always been low my entire life.
A week after discharge I was advised by my doc to come the office for blood work to check my blood count. that week I tripped up on my iron intake and geritol. blood count increased to a satisfyingly number for my doctor. a major problem I had the first two weeks was making a.bowel movement. it was awful! what we're some things , if any, you did to ensure bowel movement? was the there a particular diet you went by? this things is horrible. I took dulcolax and when it kicked in I was miserable; pain, pain and more pain but never a bowel movement!
my bowel finally moved but it was the most painful thing I have every experienced. I was glad but each movement is painful! Any suggestions...
L. Gillard hope you are fine
L. Gillard how big was your fibroid?
@@l.gillard1030 How are things for you now? That sounded rough!
Thank you for being so honest. I have my surgery coming up, you really helped to decrease some of my fears. Stay well..
You're welcome. I'm happy I could help. Happy Wellnes To You:)
Thank God I found this video, I have to have the surgery done because of multiple fibroids, pain, excessive bleeding, and PMS symptoms. Well I have been worried about giving up the juice box..lol.. I'm not married yet no relationship and I was wandering what are other options instead of complete hysterectomy. I'm still scared because I don't have much support after surgery but thanks so much for this info.
You're, welcome! Yeah, the juice box will still be juicy! lol If you keep your ovaries, things, shouldn't dry out. My doctor told me, our vaginas get wet on it's own, naturally and the ovaries help it even more. Are you having your ovaries removed, too? If they are healthy, tell your doctor, NOT, to remove them. Our ovaries tend to keep us, balanced, in our everyday life. There are other options to having a hysterectomy. I had a couple of friends who opted to have a procedure done, where, the doctor stopped the blood supply to the fibroids. I forgot the name of it, though. The only thing is, the fibroids come back after time, unless, you go through menopause. Just talk to your doctor about other options or get a second opinion. The hysterectomy is the only way to stop blood supply, permanently, to fibroids. Menopause, stops blood supply to fibroids, too. I'm sorry you don't have any support, because, you will need it. Talk to your doctor about, counseling or after-surgery-support or support groups. Also, you will need assistance at home. NO HEAVY LIFTING (A GALLON OF MILK IS TOO HEAVY) AND NO STAIRS! Women, don't believe me, when I tell them this and they be wondering, why, they still bleeding, excessively. You have to REST AND RELAX or you will heal super slow.
Thank you, so much. I will find out about other options too.I'm in my 40's so hopefully menopause shouldn't be far away. but they did do test and told me I'm not ready for menopause just yet. I actually have an appointment today with doctor so Thanks.
Also, ask about the Laproscopic method. Ask lots of questions. You're welcome and have a good day:)
@@77deerose Hey Deerose, what did you end up deciding and how did it go. I'm 41 and trying to sort this all out as well.
I'm nervous about my DaVinci surgery next week but I know it needs to be done! I have 2 fibroids which are causing horrible pain, heavy cycles, bloating, etc. I'm 49 and am scheduled for a partial, so I hope my experience turns out well like yours! Thank you for sharing and your willingness to give an honest look at this condition!! God bless!!
You are very welcome, Yvette! Your experience should be a little better than mine, because, your procedure is less evasive. I had the old school bikini cut, from, hip to hip.
@@NeziNappsakaNezi you are so sweet!! I am in the hospital right now, and all went as planned, thank the Lord!! I appreciate your words of encouragement and hope you are doing well!! ❤❤
@@yvettefernandez4319 Oh, I'm happy to hear that everything went well. You got the hard part out of the way and now, it's time to rest, relax and heal. You have to complete your journey, so, if you are interested, I have a few tips, located, in the TOP of the comment section. It's a, REPLY, to another commenter and it''s PINNED BY NeziNapps. Those tips are great for my post-op sisters and I learned some of them through my own personal experience and from other women.
Yes, I am doing well, today and have no regrets. I appreciate you, as well. Happy Wellness to You:)
Love this, it is a comfort. I have a outta hand fibroid as well and am looking at partial hystorrctomy. I already have three boys, so not worried about that part. But it is still surgery, still scary. I will be lucky enough to have the laporascopic. Thanks again. Take good care.
How did your surgery go?
Recovering from a DaVinci hysterectomy due to three humongous fibroids. Had surgery almost two weeks ago. Had no idea I had them. Thought it was just normal aging and getting fat. I'm 38. I'm happy I'm not alone. I've never had kids. Didn't want to, but it was my choice. Having that choice taken away from me was life changing. Surgery scared me, but I had people praying all around me and having a great recovery. Thanks for your video.
Yeah, you are not alone. I remember feeling, like, I was the one who had to face this situation, only, to find that alot of women, especially, women of color, has experienced it. I'm happy, you are on way to wellness and happiness. You going to feel, so much better😊
Aww... thank you for sharing this information! I've never had surgery before either and next month, the day after my birthday, I'm scheduled to get the massive fibroid(s) removed. I have one the size of a cantaloupe! Everyone says I'll feel much better after they're out... not being as tired and stuff. It's good to know that my "juice box" will still provide "juice" too! LOL!!! Thank you Beautiful!!
Hi Tracy! You are so welcome and thank you, for listening.
First, I would like to say, Happy Birthday in advance. Secondly, I'm happy to know, you are taking care of your body. Having a fibroid removed, as big as yours, will make feel a whole lot better. Those things suck and drain the life, out a woman.
As long as, they leave your ovaries, that juice box will continue to provide, all the necessary juice. Make sure you talk to your doctor about your ovaries. Tell him, if they are healthy, Don't Remove Them! They provide estrogen and balance in our lives. If he does remove them, you will go into menopause.
Remember, to have lots of help from family and friends, don't walk up stairs. If you really have to walk stairs, walk down them or up them, backwards, sit down somewhere, no reaching, carrying heavy stuff more than 5 pounds, don't eat Chinese fried rice. My step mom warned me about that, and I ate some, like, 5 weeks after my surgery and baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaby, I thought, I was dying! OMG! I had to drink prune juice and use suppositories to get that stuff to move.
Keep Laxitives, handy. Drink lots of fresh water. Eat healthy, as possible, because, you want your bowels to move, smoothly. You will be in alot of pain, down there. Don't need to strain yourself. You will learn, what and what not to do, while recovering. Just follow the doctors orders and SIT DOWN! It takes a long time to recover. Don't need any setbacks. Also, take as much time, off work, as needed. They are going to try and send you back to work, fast.
Okay, I talked your head off, enough. Happy Healthy Body. Muyah!
***** Thank you, my Beautiful sister! I appreciate EVERY WORD you shared with me! I was telling my daughter yesterday how I was concerned with just 'what' type of pain will I experience since they're not cutting anywhere near my private areas... what's going to take the recovery so long? So it was awesome to hear from you addressing some of my concerns. - - - The doc told me upfront that he was leaving my ovaries for the reasons you shared. (Except he didn't mention the 'juice box', just the menopausal thing. - - - I live on the second floor of my apartment and there are quite a few stairs so I will remember to go up backwards and be careful not to go up and down often. Yikes! - - - My daughter will come home from the air force to assist, my 19 yr. old son lives with me, and then I have many friends that are saying they plan on being there for me as well. {{BLESSED}} - - - And I don't have a traditional job. I'm a speaker for a company and will have to take some time off but, the doc told me about 6 weeks. I also have my own business creating videos and stuff so he said I can continue to do that because I'm able to sit. - - - - Since I'm a veteran, I'm going through the V.A. hospital and they are so great here in San Diego! - - - So again... THANK YOU and BLESS YOU for the words of encouragement and advice! I'll let ya know how it turns out ♥
Alright, Beautiful!
That makes me happy. I do have a concern about, those stairs, though. The second floor? Not good:( I wish you can stay with somebody, for awhile. You'll be fine, I know.
My pillow was my friend. I kept it on my stomach, the whole time; even, when I went places. It feels like something is going to fall out. I had the traditional, bikini cut, hysterectomy.
Yeah! Doc's, always, tell you 6 weeks, but, believe me, they are programmed to say that. I guarantee you, you will need more time, than, that.
You will, also, feel good through your shut down, 6 week, period. Don't let that fool you. You are not healed. You are healing! lol Honestly, it took me about 1 year to feel, %100, better and I didn't stop cramping, bloating, the whole PMS symptoms, for 3 to 4 years. My body didn't realize my uterus and cervix was removed. It was so weird.
They were very mild symptoms, though. 5 years, later, I still, bloat, irritability, back pains, but, very mild and barely there. Everybody's, body, is different. My one friend didn't experience those things, after, her surgery.
In the end, you may get bored, have crying spells and think, you can move around. Just allow yourself to heal and have lots rest, cable, fun things to do in bed and your team be there for you. You'll be fine:)
Okay, I did it, again. I talked your head off. I'm sorry:(
Nezi
***** LOL!! I sure appreciate you 'talking my head off'! I would love to actually talk to you over the phone or video for a few questions that I don't want to post publicly. Hey! Maybe we can do a Google chat or something?
That's cool. I don't know how to do it, though. If you know how to do it, then, we can schedule a day to chat. That sounds like fun.
Nezi, thanks for sharing your story. I love your health journey videos. I really appreciate them. Your story inspired me to do better this year about getting the health exams/screenings that I need. Glad to know you're doing good today.
You're welcome and thank you, for your support. I am happy, this video has touched you. We, as women, need to hear things, from, another woman, sometimes. It keeps us on our toes, to do better. So, yes. Do some planning, get your appointments in, soon.
Happy Health and Body:)
Why do you wanna keep it? 😂 and I hate kids and I have them lmao!!! Anyhow, thank you so much for sharing something so personal and important gor you. ❤
Hi Nezi, thanks for sharing your story. I had a hysterectomy about three years ago. I have no regrets because I felt I would've died if I didn't get it done. The bleeding was just too much to handle plus I had tons of other symptoms as a result of the anemia from the loss of so much blood. Recovery was horrible for me because I had no help. Thankfully my 7 year old was able to help me get dress. I was able to carry my daughter to term with the help of injections to prevent miscarriages. What people don't realize is that even if you remove your fibroids (myomectomy) they will always come back usually worst than they were before. Thanks for the great video
Angel ita
You're welcome and thanks, for listening to my story.
I'm so happy, you have gotten yourself taken care of. Alot of women don't realize the seriousness of fibroids. They want to hold on to those blood suckers and they just, slowly, kill us. Anemia is a very serious illness and has affects on our entire body. I'm sorry, to hear you had no help. I can't imagine what that is like, but, at least your little helped you in getting dressed. You are right. Fibroids do come back after a myomectomy, because, there is still blood supply feeding those broids. Sigh...The things, us women, go through. We have to make the best decisions for our bodies.
I appreciate you sharing a little bit about your story:)
Gosh, that sounds rough. No help. It must've been tough. How long until you were back to your usual self? I am terrified of the procedure, but regrowth of the fibroids since I am only 41 is a real possibility. How are you now? If you can give any insight I would really appreciated it.
I had phantom pain like the pain in my breasts and bloating like I had when I had my periods I had my hysterectomy at the age of 35 in 2008 I had everything taken out I had a problem with ovarian cysts and when those popped they hurt now I am going through surgical natural menopause which is not nearly as bad as when I had my periods
Annette Melnychu
Any other complications? How long did it take until you could function like before you had surgery?
Thank you Nezi. Just had a hysterectomy only 2.weeks and I find this video very comforting. I am not alone on this journey that I find scary.
You're welcome and thank you for letting me know that my video is comforting. Happy Wellness to you.
Thanks for sharing your story. I'm seeing my gynea on Monday. Still deciding whether to do a video or not.
+iGoBy V HI! You're welcome! Good luck on your visit. You have plenty of time to make your decision, if you wanna do a video or not. UA-cam will be here, when you are ready.
Wow thank you so much for sharing that. You don't know how many woman are going through this exact thing. And its good to see that even though you made the decision to have a hysterectomy with no children you are happy and at peace with your children. Being well and feeling well brings so much joy!
oops! At peace with your "decision!" not children I must have been sleepy when I typed this! Lol sorry.
lol It's okay. I'm glad you cleared it up:)
You are welcome and thank you for listening. I know, right? I didn't know, so many women, go through this situation. Yes, I am happy with my decision and I am happy, I didn't have a baby by that, last guy. It would have been a lifetime of misery:(
One day, I was over this ladies house, some, years ago. The question came up, "Would you rather have money or your health? The lady said, money! Shoot, if you had money, you can fix your health. I said, health, you can always, make money. Who wants to be sick? Not me!
***** Yah Health hands down. And money does not buy perfect health there are many wealthy people dying of sickness? She's not thinking straight. And when you are sick you can't enjoy being rich? And you are right you can always make money.
Right! I don't talk to that lady, anymore. She was bad news. Lol
Im glad that you shared, bc I am faced with the decison. Im not convinced of the hysterectomy yet. Im seeking option, like changing what I eat, to see if that shrinks them, it has happen for some women. I guess I will see. Thanks again...
I understand, about, not jumping on the Hysterectomy Bandwagon. It takes us time to think things, through. You're doing the right thing, by weighing out your options. Just to let you know, though, fibroids are blood suckers and as long as, blood is supplied to them, they will continue to grow. Food will not shrink them, but, if you change your eating habit and see a difference in your problem, I will be so happy for you. Happy Healing to you:)
Thank you...
sighing... she's right. I did a full 360 degrees on my diet. Cranked up working out and ate more healthy than a diabetic. As of this date 9/30/16, my abdominal myomectomy is scheduled for Oct 25th. I am nervous. I was nervous. Mine is 10cm and about 14-16weeks. My God. My God. Scary isn't what Im feeling. Im producing more adrenaline than a tank of pure Redbull. sighing. God is my strength. Nezi thank you for posting your story. thank you. Karress, stay in prayer. Keep listening to your body. Notice the changes. Don't discount anything. If you dare doubt maybe.. or could it.. or feel indifferent include your doctor. You're not alone Ma. You're not!
@@khyla_art Wow Khyla, thank you for sharing all that. How did your procedure go? I want a myomectomy, but one doctor told me to get the hysterectomy. I have heard too many horror stories.
@@lockergr well actually you will be down for at least 6 weeks and moving slow with both. The hysterectomy, ive seen ppl gain alot of weight, bloating, and take a bit longer to get their wind and vibe back (my opinion). I did gain 40lbs and can not eat the same but all in all it was worth it.
Glad I came across your story. I'm having hysterectomy in 2 weeks. I sometimes want to cancel but I need it. Any recommendations please let me know. Thanks
Hi, Kati! I know that fear, that, you are having. It's overwhelming! I do have some recommendations. Click on this video and read the comments. I pinned some suggestions to the top of the comments. Also, you can read, more, further down the comment section. Happy Healing To You:)
How did it go Kati? What did you decide on? I have to choose as well. It's overwhelming and the more I search the more emotional I get.
Thank you so much for this video. Your story is so similar to mine. I'm scheduled to have my abdominal hysterectomy on September 20, 2017. I'm terrified and didn't realize the emotional attachment I have with my uterus. I had a C section 13 years ago. My uterus is so enlarged it's ridiculous. I'm going to ask the doctor for pics, for closure. I know this is the best for me health wise. Your video was so needed. Thank you.
I had a vaginl hysterectomy last week and I am doing well. I hope to return to work next week. It was due to prolapsed uterus. I have 3 children and 3 grandchildren and my question is was there a difference in sex afterwards? Thx for sharing your experience.
@@catm5549 How are you doing now Cat? I've heard all these horror stories, but it sounds like you healed quick. How long until you were back 100%. What I don't understand is why do some women have terrible pain and side effects afterwards. I already have no interest in sex--I don't need things to get worse!
I'm going to see a doctor Soon❗❗❗ Before I bleed excessively❕❕❕😉
BLESSED Ms Lady That's a good idea. Take care of your body.
I had it. Real heavy prolonged bleeding. I used bittermint tea, 1 ounce.....its really bitter......and bye to that problem. This was after my myomectomy. Never did hysterectomy.
I wanted to tell you how thankful I am that you shared your story. I don’t know anyone who’s had a hysterectomy so hearing testimonials online really help. I appreciate your candor so, again, thank you!
I have a similar situation except I had the myomectomy 7 years ago and my fibroids are now back and larger than last time (size of a 6 month pregnancy!!!). I was given the option of hysterectomy back then but I decided against it. I wish I hadn’t. I’m scared, and sad about losing my uterus in a few weeks, but I’ll be thankful to get past this.
I’m so glad your surgery was successful and you’re happy and healthy enjoying your life!
April C Hi, April! You're welcome and thank you for commenting. Happy Healing To you 😊😍
Wow, it was so interesting to hear your perspective. I'm 41 and am worried about regrowth myself. But how was the hysterectomy? Are you still happy with your decision? Any complications? How long did it take for you to be back 100%. I'm scared and don't have anyone to ask. Thanks.
Oh and he wouldn’t save your WOMB. YouR life source cause he friends with your doctor. These people don’t care about the patient at all!
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First off Thanks so much for your story. Also,
I can relate to your story as I had a similar experience. I was diagnosed with Fibroids 5-6 months into my pregnancy and my lil man is 9yrs. old today. However my surgery for complete hysterectomy happened 2yrs after giving birth. Again I appreciate your video. Stay Strong🙏🏽
You're so welcome and I'm happy you had that precious baby. Thank you for sharing.
I understand your feelings and I thank you for being so blunt about.. you did not sugar coated that's what I needed in order to go thru mine.
I'm happy to be of help and possibly, answer, some questions. I appreciate your comment.