And this is where I think the RP and PUA falls short. Sure you can learn the tools to keep a woman around for a few days for hanging and hooking up but there's nothing beyond that if you were looking for a relationship
i made this same mistake with an amazing woman. im now dating someone else steadily and im sort of glad i had to go through losing someone great to appreciate someone equally as good.
So he ignores it for 18 months and then he thought it’s an ultimatum and caved immediately. That’s so weak, and completely to be expected. Sounds like he didn’t know what he wanted OR was unable to act on his emotions.
The guy was dating multiple women and the girl eventually had multiple dates lined up? How do you guys set up so many dates? I'm walking with my eyes open and can rarely find single women in my age who meet my standards. And these two are just machine gunning out dates. Wtf 😂
Seeing this happen in real time lol. Chick at work was flirting a lot, we like each other etc. She lost feelings for her bf and we started talking, and eventually broke up with him.
Always keep in mind most of his advice is about women that don’t have mental disorders and personality disorders. Fellow men please please be very careful of girls with personality disorders, especially women/girls that have borderline personality disorder which is in many women.
So true. Watch for a woman that lovebombs you like crazy, leads with sex and not conversation, projects you are perfect without putting a good effort to know you. I could just be you seem like a perfect candidate for current objectives and she has less men willing to commit. 40+ yo, no kids, no significant length relationships, a bit late with school...watch out sometjing is up. Alarm bells you be ringing my friends. Certain I did not listen.
@@damalewis9277 That’s partly true but it’s also many women. Many men are getting caught in this. If you search up and speak to men about this, you’ll see how prevalent it is.
Why would my girlfriend bring up ''What if we brake up?'' ''Who would take this item if we brake up?'' We have been struggeling to find an appartment big enough for us both and she's freaking out and wants to move out and start a family... she wants to move closer to the sea, and i want to live close to the mountains for hiking and skiing, but want to find some place in between.. I can't use magic to get us there... and I don't want a small appartment with no garage.. I need space for my car and items.. isn't it worth waiting for a better house? she's 31 and im 27. Does she think i have her on hold? that she's not important enough or that she's late and the clock of becoming a mother is running out?
Dude is delusional. He didn’t love her. She should have left earlier than 1,5 year… Let her find a guy who want to commit. And the guy should find some one he’d love to commit.
The guy in the example didn't put a 'label" and tell the girl "you are my 'girlfriend or significant other?" Isn't it assumed if you are together and hook up on the regular and do relationship type of stuff? Or was it more? Did she want him to propose marriage in a year and half? I'm not really understanding the fact pattern. I did see that before where women leave you if you don't put a ring on it within a certain period of time. Some have a shorter time period than other women depending where they are at in life.
If you really like a woman, you don’t string her along for over a year. She was likely cute enough to hookup with, but not cute enough to take seriously in his eyes.
I did the same thing for like 6-7 months but I didn’t go to diff girls I was just busy with me is there no way I can get her back btw I’m her first love n her first bf n she wasn’t mine first n she was mad serious about me
This schmuck didn’t read anything. He got the dose of reality that he needed. You could play the field, but eventually you overplay the field and mess some really good potentials up.
I'm seeing a girl who is very good to me, but i just dont see myself with her without checking out other ladies. That's why i feel i shouldn't date her anymore. Man, she wants to pay everything when we go out, she is a doctor, but there is not enough sexual chemistry, she is not sexy rsrs... i dont feel proud to be with her (altough i respect her very much and like her a lot as human being). Life is funny.
I have the same issue. The only reason why I'm continuing with it is as I can't be arsed with dealing with the type of issues you get with someone who only sees you as an option. I'm trying to fall in love with this one as she actually looks at me with dooey eyes. I'd much rather that than either going through the long effort of levelling up or dealing with girls that are a pain in the ass
@@timgibney5590 same here, but ended up choosing my other option that doesn't really do it for me yet is really into me and is not a pain in the ass. It's been sexless but I enjoy the loving feeling and the easygoing feel of this one.
Pulled a cutie last night on Halloween on the D2. She was smiling and laughing the whole time. Had 2 glasses of wine but…wouldn’t even kiss on the lips smh lmao. It’s like these shorties are either completely asexual or will let you do whatever you want to them lol. Frustrating
My stories very similar … except my story ends with my girlfriend getting me right with undiagnosed PTSD and me treating her like shit . Now I’m better but I emotionally destroyed her and now she’s gone out of my life forever . she sacrificed herself to save me. Too little too late!!
I was diagnosed with PTSD. I had a rotten mouth on me in a rotten way of showing my girlfriend how much I cared about her. Since I started counseling and started getting things under control she now wants nothing to do with me. Even though I have changed and I am in recovery mode and on the way to shaping a new and better mean has nothing to do with how a woman feels about you or her attraction to you. When it’s over for them it’s over. And there’s nothing you could do to change it.
You would think I mean that’s what it sounds like but that’s not the case. She had already mind body and soul checked out on me two months before I got into counseling. Her attraction level for me like Coach Corey explains had already dropped below a five. Once that happens that’s it you’re out! I don’t care how much therapy you get how much you work out how good you get once your women’s attraction level drops for you ,it’s a done deal. I did degrade and disrespect her towards the end of the relationship quite a bit so I wholeheartedly can’t blame her . But it also took two to tango ,she had daddy issues was very insecure and trust no one …all this was just fuel for the fire
…unless they’re testing you. Either way, say “okay” and move on. If there’s something there, she’ll let you know
I love how Corey points out that if you cherry pick information your going to get half ass results! So true!
And this is where I think the RP and PUA falls short. Sure you can learn the tools to keep a woman around for a few days for hanging and hooking up but there's nothing beyond that if you were looking for a relationship
Coach Corey Wayne is the father figure I needed in my life growing up.
i made this same mistake with an amazing woman. im now dating someone else steadily and im sort of glad i had to go through losing someone great to appreciate someone equally as good.
Whaddya know, another Corey video thats directly related to my current situation haha.
Also clean shaven coach is nice
I say let them know up front what it is so they can decide whether to stay or go. 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️ Honesty, is the best policy.
So he ignores it for 18 months and then he thought it’s an ultimatum and caved immediately. That’s so weak, and completely to be expected. Sounds like he didn’t know what he wanted OR was unable to act on his emotions.
Champ, your neutral approach to relationships is fantastic. Appreciate it.
Thank you for this. Everything you said applies to me. I have learnt my lesson, but it’s cost me my wife
Am I the only woman following this guy for 6 years now?!?!
You're awesome, coach. I always look forward to new videos.
The guy was dating multiple women and the girl eventually had multiple dates lined up? How do you guys set up so many dates? I'm walking with my eyes open and can rarely find single women in my age who meet my standards. And these two are just machine gunning out dates. Wtf 😂
Dating apps.
Anything with a hole mentality
^ This and probably doesn’t have anything going on other than being a fuckboy.
Finding thin conservatives is like trying to find a tootsie roll in a pile of turds
Like my dad say, this generations either find girlfriend in high-school or in college. If not then they single for life
Coach Corey Wayne absolute legend!
Seeing this happen in real time lol. Chick at work was flirting a lot, we like each other etc. She lost feelings for her bf and we started talking, and eventually broke up with him.
Always keep in mind most of his advice is about women that don’t have mental disorders and personality disorders. Fellow men please please be very careful of girls with personality disorders, especially women/girls that have borderline personality disorder which is in many women.
So true. Watch for a woman that lovebombs you like crazy, leads with sex and not conversation, projects you are perfect without putting a good effort to know you. I could just be you seem like a perfect candidate for current objectives and she has less men willing to commit. 40+ yo, no kids, no significant length relationships, a bit late with school...watch out sometjing is up. Alarm bells you be ringing my friends. Certain I did not listen.
Did a year and a half with a woman who suffered with BPD...and deeply insecure...disaster
It's not ",many women" It's the women you are attracting.
@@damalewis9277 That’s partly true but it’s also many women. Many men are getting caught in this. If you search up and speak to men about this, you’ll see how prevalent it is.
@@armyparrot9353 Exactly
Good morning coach!
Most of times when you walk away or girl dump you they have there replacement already
Good for her for standing up for herself.
Why would my girlfriend bring up ''What if we brake up?'' ''Who would take this item if we brake up?''
We have been struggeling to find an appartment big enough for us both and she's freaking out and wants to move out and start a family... she wants to move closer to the sea, and i want to live close to the mountains for hiking and skiing, but want to find some place in between.. I can't use magic to get us there... and I don't want a small appartment with no garage.. I need space for my car and items.. isn't it worth waiting for a better house? she's 31 and im 27.
Does she think i have her on hold? that she's not important enough or that she's late and the clock of becoming a mother is running out?
7:17 "Her feelings overrode her emotions" 🤔
Dude is delusional. He didn’t love her. She should have left earlier than 1,5 year… Let her find a guy who want to commit. And the guy should find some one he’d love to commit.
The guy in the example didn't put a 'label" and tell the girl "you are my 'girlfriend or significant other?" Isn't it assumed if you are together and hook up on the regular and do relationship type of stuff?
Or was it more? Did she want him to propose marriage in a year and half? I'm not really understanding the fact pattern. I did see that before where women leave you if you don't put a ring on it within a certain period of time. Some have a shorter time period than other women depending where they are at in life.
Been there, he's done,
If you really like a woman, you don’t string her along for over a year. She was likely cute enough to hookup with, but not cute enough to take seriously in his eyes.
Or he's extra cautious after getting out of a relationship with a psychopath.
Superb. Excellent summary as well 👏
I did the same thing for like 6-7 months but I didn’t go to diff girls I was just busy with me is there no way I can get her back btw I’m her first love n her first bf n she wasn’t mine first n she was mad serious about me
But she said she wanna catch up some times n she gave me a lot of mixed feelings after we were done
But I ask her out before she dumped me like an month an a half ago
He did not get dumped. She had created a perception of being in a relationship knowing she volunteered to stay for piece not his whole.
Still doesn't change the fact she's gone cuz.
Yeah pretty much
LMAO “He didn’t pursue enough” 😂😂
It never ceases to amaze me how many men treat good women like total shit, then are surprised and hurt when they get dumped.
All these cherry pickers and no cherry pie!
Coach, what are your thoughts on the Law of Attraction and positive affirmations?
This schmuck didn’t read anything. He got the dose of reality that he needed. You could play the field, but eventually you overplay the field and mess some really good potentials up.
Side piece was methods 12 x? Right got it. Seems like no issue.
I'm seeing a girl who is very good to me, but i just dont see myself with her without checking out other ladies. That's why i feel i shouldn't date her anymore. Man, she wants to pay everything when we go out, she is a doctor, but there is not enough sexual chemistry, she is not sexy rsrs... i dont feel proud to be with her (altough i respect her very much and like her a lot as human being). Life is funny.
I have the same issue. The only reason why I'm continuing with it is as I can't be arsed with dealing with the type of issues you get with someone who only sees you as an option. I'm trying to fall in love with this one as she actually looks at me with dooey eyes. I'd much rather that than either going through the long effort of levelling up or dealing with girls that are a pain in the ass
@@timgibney5590 same here, but ended up choosing my other option that doesn't really do it for me yet is really into me and is not a pain in the ass. It's been sexless but I enjoy the loving feeling and the easygoing feel of this one.
@@lukeylukeluke2 Well, it looks like you are lazy too rsrs. That's what lazy people do: Settle!
Don't cheat on her, be honest about how you feel. Let her go and don't hurt her if you really don't love her as in that way
You need to let her go. You are just using her at this point.
Pulled a cutie last night on Halloween on the D2. She was smiling and laughing the whole time. Had 2 glasses of wine but…wouldn’t even kiss on the lips smh lmao. It’s like these shorties are either completely asexual or will let you do whatever you want to them lol. Frustrating
Did you pull back, chill, and try again after a while? You probably have off, “I want to fuck vibes.”
My stories very similar … except my story ends with my girlfriend getting me right with undiagnosed PTSD and me treating her like shit . Now I’m better but I emotionally destroyed her and now she’s gone out of my life forever . she sacrificed herself to save me. Too little too late!!
Welp
Could you send explain more
I was diagnosed with PTSD. I had a rotten mouth on me in a rotten way of showing my girlfriend how much I cared about her. Since I started counseling and started getting things under control she now wants nothing to do with me. Even though I have changed and I am in recovery mode and on the way to shaping a new and better mean has nothing to do with how a woman feels about you or her attraction to you. When it’s over for them it’s over. And there’s nothing you could do to change it.
@@utahohmy so she loved being treated like shit but then lost attraction when you treated her better
You would think I mean that’s what it sounds like but that’s not the case. She had already mind body and soul checked out on me two months before I got into counseling. Her attraction level for me like Coach Corey explains had already dropped below a five. Once that happens that’s it you’re out! I don’t care how much therapy you get how much you work out how good you get once your women’s attraction level drops for you ,it’s a done deal. I did degrade and disrespect her towards the end of the relationship quite a bit so I wholeheartedly can’t blame her . But it also took two to tango ,she had daddy issues was very insecure and trust no one …all this was just fuel for the fire
You agree that she was a friend with benefits but you don't agree that he didn't pursue her. You pursue someone you want to make your wife.
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