If Your Family Has Issues, Come to This Talk | Paul J. Kim | Impact Session | SLS20

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  • For better or worse, every human being is profoundly influenced by their family experience and how they were brought up. In this session, Paul J. Kim shares his background in marriage and family therapy to give you more hope and joy than an episode of Dr. Phil ever could.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 30

  • @tellez21
    @tellez21 4 роки тому +61

    “Do not be afraid to be that awkward person who decides to love first.” That resonated deeply. Time to step out of myself and start loving on my fam.

  • @annmacariola8448
    @annmacariola8448 4 роки тому +13

    Be a missionary in your own family. ❤️

  • @meahr4654
    @meahr4654 4 роки тому +11

    That is the very reason why I keep on standing on my marriage... Enough, it stops with me... With the help of God 😊

  • @lefree9581
    @lefree9581 4 роки тому +9

    THIS TALK WAS INSANELY BRILLIANT...Paul you are a GIFT to us all God Bless you and your beautiful family!

  • @dianeabbondante9070
    @dianeabbondante9070 4 роки тому +12

    Such wisdom about what a daughter needs to hear from her Father and a son needs to hear from his Father ! Hope to pass this on to my son in laws for my grandchildren!

  • @Donby-John
    @Donby-John 4 роки тому +8

    Paul j kim you are such an inspiration

  • @misterfosterdulles
    @misterfosterdulles 4 роки тому +12

    I had found out about FOCUS, based on a young persons sharing their experience while heading into the eucharistic adoration chapel at holy trinity parish in lenexa ks..
    Glad to see this movement within Catholic church...as i am having hope reinkindled

    • @Dee-ur9zq
      @Dee-ur9zq 4 роки тому +1

      Focus is amazing! Especially their Seek conferences

    • @misterfosterdulles
      @misterfosterdulles 4 роки тому +1

      @@Dee-ur9zq thanks...this is really great to encounter others, especially young adolescents and early 20's, that really have discernment and wisdom in their own faith. I'm glad I was raised Catholic... and though I hear what this message is saying about honor respect parents, I advocate healthy boundary discernment based upon a given parents behavior...especially if violence, threatening , or endangering conduct is active in ones parents old age... I love my parents...and give grace and forgiveness fully...however I do choose to limit or leave volatile, toxic, or unwelcoming behavior...not out of resentment...but similar perhaps as to how God's Grace leaves me if I do sin

  • @a.p5079
    @a.p5079 3 роки тому +2

    So relatable!!! haha, great to hear a child of immigrant parents sharing their story! It's just such an intense and different experience. The environment we grow up in impacts how we turn out as adults so much, it's wonderful to hear his experiences. :)

  • @MegaMeggsie
    @MegaMeggsie 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you Paul! Seriously, you have the most wonderful gift given to you by God. I wouldn’t be surprised if you were a good friend of Fr Mike Schmitz. You both have the most amazing sense of humour plus a very very deep relationship with God. The both of you have such amazing faith! Dynamic duo! 😉👍 Thank you God !

  • @annsap1433
    @annsap1433 Рік тому

    Thank you so much 🙏.

  • @jenyferjoy
    @jenyferjoy 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Jesus for my family 💕💕💕

  • @palomaramirez2671
    @palomaramirez2671 4 роки тому +4

    interesting how he explains the part of "punishment for generations"

  • @MegaMeggsie
    @MegaMeggsie 4 роки тому +3

    Everything you shared with us Paul is so true! Wish I had heard your talk when I was starting off parenthood. God bless you and your beautiful little family! Also my sides are hurting from laughing 😂 AWESOME!! Thanks again!!

  • @wendyhong8528
    @wendyhong8528 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you Paul, love your talk and your sense of humour!
    From Alberta, Canada.

  • @citlalyrendon8793
    @citlalyrendon8793 3 роки тому +2

    Love it! This was very helpful!

  • @marylouveit3683
    @marylouveit3683 4 роки тому +2

    The 3 thumbs down.. why? This was a great talk. So much more can be covered but I'm thankful for his method of reaching so many.

  • @juliap4578
    @juliap4578 4 роки тому +14

    Such a great talk! Those with editing rights should change the title to say “your”

  • @kaejoo
    @kaejoo 4 роки тому +3

    "You don't like the preaching? Enter the seminary!"

  • @agnesdcunha4575
    @agnesdcunha4575 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for evangelizing all the young family. God bless you and your family.

  • @thebestofmae
    @thebestofmae 4 роки тому +4

    I could totally relate with the Asian culture.

  • @munteanubianca1386
    @munteanubianca1386 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much! This talk is full of wisdom and it's exactly what every confused disciple wants to hear. And the family it's a very difficult topic because their members have acces directy to our hearts and cause exponential vulnerability. It's so good, so powerfull to hear all this truth from you. It gave me courage. God bless you!

  • @adriannefluet5980
    @adriannefluet5980 Рік тому +1

    If you don't mind can prayers be prayed for my son Vincent who is feeling lost and is depressed hes 31 yet in a very complex family hes got a son and with a lady who drinks and he's needing help with figuring things out please 🙏 for him thank you.

  • @ThanhDinh-vi9ux
    @ThanhDinh-vi9ux 2 роки тому

    Love this - Thanks!

  • @alidavalmorbida4368
    @alidavalmorbida4368 4 роки тому +5

    Please fix the title to “If YOUR family has issues” (not “you’re”)

  • @andreaholland8336
    @andreaholland8336 Рік тому

  • @marjorieyoungok8852
    @marjorieyoungok8852 2 роки тому

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