I got married to my wife at 22, i did not have much money, her ring costed me 2000 dollars, its what i could afford. She made me feel like it was the greatest ring on the face of the earth and wore it proudly until our fifth year anniversary where i surprised her with an upgrade. The older i get the truer it is, its the people you love not the money and stuff, that make you rich.
I didn't have the money either at the time of my marriage and she waited graciously til I did and I too bought her a second one that was better than the first one and I've probably spent well over 30 gs over the years. This March will be our 29th!
She needs to take her own words to heart when she mentions it's not the price of the ring it's about their love.. if that was the case then a cheaper ring wouldn't be a problem... don't wanna start a marriage with debt! I wouldn't even marry her.
I hope he finds his new wife at his second job. Can just imagine how much the wedding is going to cost. That lady is a snobby beeotch!!🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️
Man jake If you read this... a girl that really loved you would be ok with a 4-5k ring. It shouldn't be that much about the money. And the fact u work 50hrs a week (which is a lot) and she wants you to get a 2nd job for a year just for the ring is insane. Maybe if you had a child and Bill's to pay but for an engagement ring? What the heck? She isn't valuing you. Or caring about the stress that would put you through.
He should not marry this girl. She should understand and be okay with a cheaper ring. I mean, jeez, imagine what she'd be like once they did get married.
Materials obviously matter more to her than the relationship. She would rather lose time with him so he can work 2 jobs to afford a ring that she doesn't deserve, than focus on what really matters
Wow as soon as she would've started talking like that I'd have said well weddings off. She literally only cares about money. Hell my grandfather and grandmother's first ring was like $60 or something. Never a word said about it and she still wears it. This lady deserves to be single the rest of her life... People are just....wow idk
Damn....I feel sorry for the guy! She is not even willing to help! C'mon all just for an engagement ring, well there goes no money for a wedding and all on an expensive ring. I'm a lady and if I were in the guy shoes I would say compromise, work it out somehow, or it's over. I FEEL SO BAD FOR THE GUY😔
Lol shit i bought mine. Saw it, bought it. I knew my husband would of bought it but i like buying my own things 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Plus i know he has more debt than i.
Dump this girl and RUN! This is a preview of how life would be with her. She will want a better car, house, all the finer things in life and he will be expected to provide. This would only be the beginning.... RUN FAST!
I am so cross with this woman...she thinks she is so entitled...one day something bad will happen in her life and this "dispute" will pale into an insignicance...trust me! I'm in my fifties now and would never have dreamed the difficulties I would have to face over the years. By the way my ring was £200 and we both (husband now) paid half. No big deal. What's wrong with people these days?
The marriage is less important to her than the material value of an object. They say a ring should be 2 times your monthly income. 9000 is a stupid amount. The fact that she cares more about him paying instead of compromising says a lot about how she'll be a wife.
I hope he didn’t marry her. If a woman thinks a ring defines the whole love marriage thing based on how much you spend on a ring then she doesn’t need to be married. My wife bought mine for 40 bucks at Walmart. Of course I spent 700 on hers at zales but she didn’t care how much it was. She would have been happy with a $40 ring from Walmart too. All a ring signifies is that hey I’m taken and I’m not interested in anyone else.
what is going on with your country and with that engagement ring that costs a lot and marriages last much shorter than the bill that comes with the wedding, I want to tell you that you haven't paid for the wedding yet and you are already getting divorced
I hate to say it but jake wants to be married “now” she’s willing to wait for him to save the money for what she wants. I’m not seeing the problem here.
Here's what I'd do if I had to cave" I'd wait a few years into the marriage and when it came time for a new car" I'd dn sure get my dream car and if sge bitched" I'd tell her she's just gonna have to get a second job to make the payments on my dream car!
I got married to my wife at 22, i did not have much money, her ring costed me 2000 dollars, its what i could afford. She made me feel like it was the greatest ring on the face of the earth and wore it proudly until our fifth year anniversary where i surprised her with an upgrade. The older i get the truer it is, its the people you love not the money and stuff, that make you rich.
I didn't have the money either at the time of my marriage and she waited graciously til I did and I too bought her a second one that was better than the first one and I've probably spent well over 30 gs over the years. This March will be our 29th!
@@40aterules wow congratulations, thats a relationship to be damn proud of 👍🏼
Brooke actually called her a b****!!! I love you Brooke your my new fave lol
He should run away fast from this woman. She's a monster
Wow, the ring means more to her than he does. She's petty
She needs to take her own words to heart when she mentions it's not the price of the ring it's about their love.. if that was the case then a cheaper ring wouldn't be a problem... don't wanna start a marriage with debt! I wouldn't even marry her.
I hope he finds his new wife at his second job. Can just imagine how much the wedding is going to cost. That lady is a snobby beeotch!!🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️🏃♂️
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Perfect idea!!!
This woman is irrational, Not a good partner.
My husband and I got engaged young so I helped out with my engagement ring. Its not about a ring or a wedding its about the marriage
The guy who laughs in the back always gets me 😂 like he even laughs at bad news too.. He makes it even more funnier
That's Jose and at first it annoyed me...but he's actually a nice dude and he grows on you. The laugh though....ugh not so much lol
Well... she going to make him a very miserable man... hope he sees that before he buys this monster her dream rock
Her family better pay for the Entire wedding!
Run. Find someone who isn't bought by money.
If you have a gf/fiancé like this, run and don't look back.
Man jake If you read this... a girl that really loved you would be ok with a 4-5k ring. It shouldn't be that much about the money. And the fact u work 50hrs a week (which is a lot) and she wants you to get a 2nd job for a year just for the ring is insane. Maybe if you had a child and Bill's to pay but for an engagement ring? What the heck?
She isn't valuing you. Or caring about the stress that would put you through.
I wish he could see the signs that she's a monster.
He should not marry this girl. She should understand and be okay with a cheaper ring. I mean, jeez, imagine what she'd be like once they did get married.
Materials obviously matter more to her than the relationship. She would rather lose time with him so he can work 2 jobs to afford a ring that she doesn't deserve, than focus on what really matters
Gold digger run dude
Wow as soon as she would've started talking like that I'd have said well weddings off. She literally only cares about money. Hell my grandfather and grandmother's first ring was like $60 or something. Never a word said about it and she still wears it. This lady deserves to be single the rest of her life... People are just....wow idk
I love brook for this savior 😅😅😅
Damn....I feel sorry for the guy! She is not even willing to help! C'mon all just for an engagement ring, well there goes no money for a wedding and all on an expensive ring. I'm a lady and if I were in the guy shoes I would say compromise, work it out somehow, or it's over. I FEEL SO BAD FOR THE GUY😔
Run man, just run...
Run Forest run! Get as far away from her a possible!
Lol shit i bought mine. Saw it, bought it. I knew my husband would of bought it but i like buying my own things 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Plus i know he has more debt than i.
this is beyonddd mee
Dump this girl and RUN! This is a preview of how life would be with her. She will want a better car, house, all the finer things in life and he will be expected to provide. This would only be the beginning.... RUN FAST!
That guy needs to run that is a lot of money for a ring that's ridiculous
Bro run far run fast
Ruuuuunnnnn. I know this is old but hopefully he saved himself and ran
Ah brook thank you for calling her a BEACH
I am so cross with this woman...she thinks she is so entitled...one day something bad will happen in her life and this "dispute" will pale into an insignicance...trust me! I'm in my fifties now and would never have dreamed the difficulties I would have to face over the years. By the way my ring was £200 and we both (husband now) paid half. No big deal. What's wrong with people these days?
Dude run.....
The marriage is less important to her than the material value of an object. They say a ring should be 2 times your monthly income. 9000 is a stupid amount. The fact that she cares more about him paying instead of compromising says a lot about how she'll be a wife.
She is gonna be such a shitty wife! She is all about herself. Poor Jake.
You can marry with a ring that you can afford and down the road you can upgrade. If she doesn’t agree ditch her
All this bashing on Brooke when she defends women but no one says anything about this one where she defends the man. Where are the criticisers now
I thought the same thing!
She does defend men, but it's like once every 10 segments. Let's be honest lol
Brooke lost her shit haha
I would love to have an update about this couple
Did he married this crazy woman?
Is she serious ..!!!?wth🤐
never buy white gold. it loses its shine and starts turning an ugly light yellow in a short time (a few months in my case).
This woman is a self entitled bitch. He needs to run far away from her. If he marries her she will make his life a living hell!!
Name the song!? 6:32
Wildest Dreams by T. Swift.
I hope he didn’t marry her. If a woman thinks a ring defines the whole love marriage thing based on how much you spend on a ring then she doesn’t need to be married. My wife bought mine for 40 bucks at Walmart. Of course I spent 700 on hers at zales but she didn’t care how much it was. She would have been happy with a $40 ring from Walmart too. All a ring signifies is that hey I’m taken and I’m not interested in anyone else.
She's awful. That dude should have run.
nope run
This is only the beginning of the nightmare. Simp
Oh shit
9k is about 150.00 a month finance..
Atleast 75'-25. High maintenance
what is going on with your country and with that engagement ring that costs a lot and marriages last much shorter than the bill that comes with the wedding, I want to tell you that you haven't paid for the wedding yet and you are already getting divorced
Dont do it bro
If he doesnt have money for a ring, then will he be able to pay for a rent or healthcare costs etc
I hate to say it but jake wants to be married “now” she’s willing to wait for him to save the money for what she wants. I’m not seeing the problem here.
Here's what I'd do if I had to cave" I'd wait a few years into the marriage and when it came time for a new car" I'd dn sure get my dream car and if sge bitched" I'd tell her she's just gonna have to get a second job to make the payments on my dream car!