True. It's hard for such mothers to let go their sons to succeed and be independent. It will stop their ego and narcissistic validation from their sons. Such men usually become weak and failure in life when they could have achieved great things if they were let go.
1.Spoil husband wife relationship 2.sisters are also culprits 3. Only given the role of a full time maid 4. Always treats as an outsider 5.Hypocrites 6. Not treated as human beings 7. Cannot raise your voice All are very much true Shukriya ji
Living in narcissist family is not like living in a war zone but it's a death trap. It's a suicide and one walk as a dead body there. Like I faced. I became a dead body and my brain got all numb. From inside I use to cry like hell and wonder if I would ever get out of this trap. But finally God heard me and I came alive. N I understood completely being alive that how death feels like. Thank you Danish for all the minute things u share eveyday n create awareness for us😇
I can't Thank you'll enough for this video..being in the same situation for so many years ..I have finally broken free. The worst part was before marriage,,this kind of a family pretends to be the perfect family in front of people..the moment you get married,,they don't take time to show their true colours...to all the women out there break free from this mess before it takes a massive toll on your health and don't care of their comments of being a home breaker...coz God or the higher power is the judge of who the real home breakers are and how they have camouflage themselves like a chameleon... Appreciate Danish and your brother in spreading this awareness...it is much needed in our society right from the lower class to big actresses also falling victim coz we women were always taught to be good girls
You said right about social norms. I grew up seeing my mom getting abused by my grandmother. She used to act jealous of my mom. She forced her to leave her career which my nana and mother worked so hard for. She was acting like she is the wife of my dad. Jealous of everything. Acted like a sautan. Once she herself said to my mom out of nowhere when I was 9 years old before me"I got my son married only because he won't curse me saying that I didn't get him married". In our culture it's the duty of parents to get their children married. I and my mother have vowed to never act this horribly to my future sister in law. As we know how it feels like
UA-cam se itni awareness hwi hai keh aisi family konsamjh sakte hain. I breakup the cycle after 25 years aur un ko us maqam pe pohnchaya jo wo deserve kerte hain. Proud to be an educated empath.
If women really want to get married, my advice to them is to educate yourself first and be financially independent before marriage. Do not plan to have a family straight away. Watch the situation for a couple of years. If the situation is not good, get out of it and move on with your life. Single independent life is much more peaceful than a toxic married life.
Iska ek hai solution hai... Married couples start living in their own home from day one... Iam not asking you to give up on your parents... You can stay nearby to their home and help them when they need...
I too went through that ugly phase,after some years of torture we moved out.Me and my husband started living separately,initially I was punished for this independence, my husband too bore the brunt ,and I had to face his rage attacks.Two decades later,I am a very independent woman,handling my home but my husband isn't anywhere. He doesn't care for me and my kids ,nor is interested in helping around the house.I have earned,provided,and nurtured my home all alone.Married but single status.I want to convey that if your husband values his mother only and has no ethics or values,moving out is not the solution. You will have bigger challenges later on.
Its so heartening yet surprising that how you two young men have understood and expressed problems of victims LADIES so deeply. Its all point to point true. Itna to ladies khud bhi nahi samajh paati ki unke saath kya kya politics ho rahi hai or kaise kaise. Highly appreciated❤
Adarsh looks and sounds so similar to danish that I was tricked to belive that it's Danish's brother... which is wrong anyway as I remember he only has a sister who is narcissist herself(no offenseas i too have a golden child narc sibling) I am so happy to see Adarsh speak up on this channel... he speaks so well... Awaiting more collab videos with him...🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Instead of using word 'Bahu', they should use word 'Daasi' ....unhe free labourer Daasi hi chahiye....and by the way, aap dono ko saath dekhkar muje to Sholey ke Jay aur Veeru yaad aa gaye....ya phir munna aur circuit..... Harry and Ron ...😊🙏🏻
Bohat Kam Video Hota Hai Aisa Crucial Topic Pe Specially "IN THIS NARCISSISTIC CRITERIUM".. THIS'S THE ONE OF THEM I LYK TO BOW-DOWN🙌🏻 RESPECT FRM MY HEART❤ FOR SPEAKING THE TRUTH(💯%RAW AUTHENTICATION)FRM STARING TO END PARTS.. 🙏🏻😊
Wow aap kitna acha batate ho mera kahna h marriage ke immediately baad pta nahi chalta aap sochte ho nye nye marriage main usko accept karna mushil hota h Isle vo sab sakti rahti h bache ho jate h pati ke sath narcissistic hone ke baad bhi life narak ban jati h
My immediate thought in this video- "Bc ye indian he!!!!!" And I almost never swear!. Fantastic bhai!!!!!! Excellent superb fantastic!!! Your content is par excellence. Plz dont stop. May you help many many more people and may God bless you!!!!!
You have perfectly described the scenario.I've felt exactly same feeling being married to covert narc husband and Narc MIL. They were just torture together. I'm stuck in but hoping to get out. Pls create awareness on these horrible personality traits to help us protect ourselves and children. Thanks
My MIl was like this. Thank god we didn't live with her. Since ours was a love marriage. And he was working in the north. But she did try every means to break us apart. We've been married for 25 yrs and she died eight years ago. It was only after her death that we had any peace. We survived because we didn't live with her
Wow...one of my most awaited videos....i am stuck in the same situation from last 11 years. Discovered about narcissism just a year ago.i didn't even know the word earlier.
This collaboration is very good. Both of you have a very deep understanding of how the narcissistic cult operates, especially in the Indian setting. Every Indian woman must watch. Feeling sad for Aishwarya Rai. Look at her SIL, Shweta, as if nothing has happened, Shweta behaves so calmly, cool and mature, but she's a devil. Amitabh Bachchan himself is perfectly narcissistic.
Danish i know subscribers are not much that you deserve, But keep making video in hindi in your voice, there are many peoples, wait for your hindi videos for days, Stay blessed.
Yes, all true. I faced all n life is hell, ruined. All are one n you are a outsider at the last. For you only domestic servant , no voice, if employed salary is also for them. If you speaks, husband is your main enemy n supported by all his family. And situation is you can't be out of this trap. Because of no outer support. And having no confidence, you are silent suffering resulting emotional, mental,phisical illness n financial also. Life is hell but only god internally help, support you for this battle. In our society only that woman is respected who is with her husband. Thanks. Your vedio support n open our eyes what happened n now also. God bless you.
My husband shared the intimate details of husband wife relationship not only with his mother but his sisters and friends too and made fun of me since eternity. He was always part of that mother- sisters gang and would be scheming plans against me
Now I am free 😊 I am thankful to those because I could see through all these toxic relationships and came to reach pure relationships through spiritual company 😊
He even used to change clothes infront of her. I didnt like that. I did bring it up a few times and he laughed it off saying sorry. Aisa laga hi nahi ki wo sach mai sorry feel kar raha tha. Ye log shaadi sirf formality ke liye karte hai. He shared everything with his mother. Joint bank accounts,joint properties. Mai aur meri bachi ko always alag rakha
Same here. When I was married in such family , my MIL used to go subconscious during night probably she was not ready to leave his son with her DIL. Both of us had to come out of room and take care of her and my FIL used to say that she will be alright if she could sleep in between two of us. There are some instance which I can now realize(earlier I had no knowledge) that if allowed my husband had also no problem in this. These were unresolved things in my mind, which now I am able to understand after 30 years of my marriage . Thanks Danish💕
Oh my god, 😢 this is next level toxic. I cannot even imagine mothers , fathers can do this to their son and wife. But looking at so many women sharing, this is epidemic. @@karnalsunita90
so so true each word true. in addition to these words. when i became pregnant i was treated like i am a ditcher. i had to supress the good news for many days. when they doubted they tried their level best so that miscarriage happens naturally. suddenly i would find soap in toilet. water on floor. suddenly husbands mother /gf behaved like a kid and started to swing. tried best to hit on belly. these are just few
Yeah. Surprising to see it coming from two guys. Otherwise there is zero empathy in most guys regarding problems women face, many dont even want to hear and talk.
Thanks Danish for this video. This is a much needed video for women right now! When you don't meet the societal expectations than a big storm brews between the daughter in law and mother in law and it does start affecting the relationship you have with your husbans! Your right in saying i always felt like an outsider not allowed to have an opinion or have a say in certain matters! 😏😊💖😇🙏.
My in-laws family is are same as you described...all the points are true...these points touched my heart...i was sacrificing myself for these death ☠️ monsters
Wo complain bhi bohot zyada karti thi ki im not helping in the house. Aur ye ex husband kehta tha ki tum toh hotel ki tarah reh rahi ho. Fir bhi mai always aakar puchti thi "Can i help". But wo kehti "koi baat nahi mai manage kar lugi". Jab aapka hi kitchen hai app allow bhi nahi kar rahe ho ki koi help kare...fir iljam bhi laga rahe ho? Thats why I couldn't wait to leave and get a seperate home.
I was doubting if Aishwarya Rai is suffering from Narcissistic abuse or not! Thanks for confirming.. and educating people with this. I hope she finds the strength of walking out of such a family, by God's grace..
Bhaiya aapke video se ye to smjh aa gya hh ki mere husband or unke father dono bhut bdhe narcissist hh. Aapne jo vi kaha wo sari baate shi hh pr mere sas ki jgh mere sasur ji or meri nand yesa krte hh or baat aaj etna bigdh gyi h ki baat devorce pe aa gyi hh or mere husband devorce ke liye ready vi ho gye. Bhaiya mai bhut payr krti hu apne husband se pr kisko smjhu husband to baat vi nhi krte
Mere ghr me mere sasur ji or nand ki clti hh meri nand married phir vi unka pura control rhta hh mere husband pe mujhe yesa lgta mai nhi wo unki bibi hh or to or unhone apne sister ki baato me aakr hi mujhe ghr se nikal diya hh
Aapki hindi ki sari video ko maine thekha bhut help huaa. Aap mere bdhe bhai ke jaise h plzzz mujhe btaye kya krna cahiye mai apne husband ko bhut payr krti hu mai unse dur nhi jana chahti pr wo mujhe or mere payr ko kbhi smjh hi nhi paye .
@@AartiKumari-u9oaap aise ghar mai kyo jana chahti h..jha aapki koi value hi nhi hain..aaj Aapko bhagwan ne ek nye tarike se Jine ke..us ghar se alag kiya h..taki aage ki puri life rote hue na bite...aap emotional h..aaj aap us ghar mai Jane ke liyepateshan h...aane wale samay aisa aayega ki aap chutkara pane ke liye royegi..isse iswar ka tohfa maniye..please
Mam wo kya hh na ki abhi meri shadi ko sirf 15 month huye hh or isliye mujhe lg rha hh sayd wo bdl jayege pr maine video thekha to smjh aya yese log kbhi nhi badlte. Bhut payr krti hu husband se mere liye wo meri duniya hh pr unke liye mai kuch nhi hu. Sare relatives family society sbko yhi lgta hh ki mai glt hu maine unhe time nhi diya es riste ko smjh ne ke liye isliye yesa ho rha h pr mai kaise smjhau logo ko ki maine es riste me apna 200% diya hh
@AartiKumari-u9o my dear sister...aap mera vishwas kijiye...aap jivan bhar pyar pane ke liye Tara's jaygi..aur pati ke hote hue bhi akele Jina hoga..15 machine bahut hote h..aap aakhe kholiye..wah aadmi abhi tak aapse pyar nhi kar Ska...to aage nhi karega..Aapko wah pure samaj mai..pagal..buddhihin..murakh sabit karega...aaj aap logo ke bare mai mat sochiye...yhi aadmi aage jakar Aapko cheat bhi karega..aaj Usko chodne mai Aapko dukh ho rhA h..par aap aaj se 4 saal baad piche mudkar dekhegi..to bhagwan ko dhanayawad degi...ki mere ek strong decision se mai puri aage ke life kharab hone se Bach gyi..yah mere jivan ka anubhav h..kyoki mai Aapko.. life Mai haste hue dekhna chahti hu..isliye aapko guide kar rhi hu...my age is 54. ...Aapko aaj bura lag rhA h..par yah aapke achchhe ke liye hi ho rhA h... Pyar...ijjat h...pyar samman h...pyar..khushi h...jise aap pyar Maan rhi h..wah pyar nhi...pyar ki bhikh h
I have gone through this experience. The whole family gets involved to dominate daughter in law. If husband is not capable he also treats wife in a same way
Oh God Danish 😊...I never knew that you are an Indian coz your English is way to anglicized and too good. I have seen many of your videos and they are great and full of information.🎉
You pointed out all right points but at half way you can start telling remedies...my friend is stuck in this trap...I want to share this with her...but I know she will be more sad and lost as to how to get out safely and keep her kids too
To be honest, Ash herself gives Narcissistic vibes. Her pride is another level. The way she keeps her daughter too close to herself, seems like she doesn't want her to grow to be an independent human (Narcs consider their kids as an extension of themselves and of course have abandonment issues)I think Ash is the narc herself.
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Sir, please vedio on narcissist mother . How can a mother and sister, destroy their own daughter, destroy their own sister.
Please this is my humble request, make this video on this narcissist mother
Payal Rohatgi and Sangram singh v ek example hai
Supressing talents is a masterstroke of such people.
True. It's hard for such mothers to let go their sons to succeed and be independent. It will stop their ego and narcissistic validation from their sons. Such men usually become weak and failure in life when they could have achieved great things if they were let go.
@@arjuns274 Absolutely true... I have seen this happening right in front of me.
And because of these selfish mother's, their son can't achieve more success in life.
They only need a part time servant who fulfills their wish.
1.Spoil husband wife relationship
2.sisters are also culprits
3. Only given the role of a full time maid
4. Always treats as an outsider
5.Hypocrites
6. Not treated as human beings
7. Cannot raise your voice
All are very much true
Shukriya ji
True
Yes. Same experience
I am surprised.how can he be so much correct.all his points applies to my family.
Living in narcissist family is not like living in a war zone but it's a death trap. It's a suicide and one walk as a dead body there. Like I faced. I became a dead body and my brain got all numb. From inside I use to cry like hell and wonder if I would ever get out of this trap. But finally God heard me and I came alive. N I understood completely being alive that how death feels like. Thank you Danish for all the minute things u share eveyday n create awareness for us😇
God bless You dear ❤
Same as me.....
I totally understand how you feel
Tow kind-hearted good looking man who are serving the society for the betterment. Thanks for making us conscious
But it's worse when your own mother sees you as a competition..it kills you inside 😢.
@@ps36936 I feel you
sach mai. That's a different struggle
ofcourse feel the same when your family plots against you
I can't Thank you'll enough for this video..being in the same situation for so many years ..I have finally broken free. The worst part was before marriage,,this kind of a family pretends to be the perfect family in front of people..the moment you get married,,they don't take time to show their true colours...to all the women out there break free from this mess before it takes a massive toll on your health and don't care of their comments of being a home breaker...coz God or the higher power is the judge of who the real home breakers are and how they have camouflage themselves like a chameleon... Appreciate Danish and your brother in spreading this awareness...it is much needed in our society right from the lower class to big actresses also falling victim coz we women were always taught to be good girls
It's a breath of fresh air to see men talk about this topic, how nice we still have gentlemen in our society ✨
You said right about social norms. I grew up seeing my mom getting abused by my grandmother. She used to act jealous of my mom. She forced her to leave her career which my nana and mother worked so hard for. She was acting like she is the wife of my dad. Jealous of everything. Acted like a sautan. Once she herself said to my mom out of nowhere when I was 9 years old before me"I got my son married only because he won't curse me saying that I didn't get him married". In our culture it's the duty of parents to get their children married. I and my mother have vowed to never act this horribly to my future sister in law. As we know how it feels like
UA-cam se itni awareness hwi hai keh aisi family konsamjh sakte hain. I breakup the cycle after 25 years aur un ko us maqam pe pohnchaya jo wo deserve kerte hain. Proud to be an educated empath.
kese kiya please tell
If women really want to get married, my advice to them is to educate yourself first and be financially independent before marriage. Do not plan to have a family straight away. Watch the situation for a couple of years. If the situation is not good, get out of it and move on with your life. Single independent life is much more peaceful than a toxic married life.
Exactly 💯💯💯
I'm just really sad about the women that do not get to choose for themselves though, toxicity in the Indian society is so strong ughh
Iska ek hai solution hai...
Married couples start living in their own home from day one...
Iam not asking you to give up on your parents...
You can stay nearby to their home and help them when they need...
Yhi ho jaye bharat me tho sabka ka bhala ho jaye ladkiya tho yhi chahti hai pr ladke k parent usko chodte hi nhi hai
Exactly happened with Aishwarya
I too went through that ugly phase,after some years of torture we moved out.Me and my husband started living separately,initially I was punished for this independence, my husband too bore the brunt ,and I had to face his rage attacks.Two decades later,I am a very independent woman,handling my home but my husband isn't anywhere. He doesn't care for me and my kids ,nor is interested in helping around the house.I have earned,provided,and nurtured my home all alone.Married but single status.I want to convey that if your husband values his mother only and has no ethics or values,moving out is not the solution. You will have bigger challenges later on.
Its so heartening yet surprising that how you two young men have understood and expressed problems of victims LADIES so deeply.
Its all point to point true.
Itna to ladies khud bhi nahi samajh paati ki unke saath kya kya politics ho rahi hai or kaise kaise.
Highly appreciated❤
Adarsh looks and sounds so similar to danish that I was tricked to belive that it's Danish's brother... which is wrong anyway as I remember he only has a sister who is narcissist herself(no offenseas i too have a golden child narc sibling)
I am so happy to see Adarsh speak up on this channel... he speaks so well...
Awaiting more collab videos with him...🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
@@atharva-upclosingnature2423 whow is aadarsh related to danish.. ? How they look so same..
I loved your collaboration..u both look like twins❤
Instead of using word 'Bahu', they should use word 'Daasi' ....unhe free labourer Daasi hi chahiye....and by the way, aap dono ko saath dekhkar muje to Sholey ke Jay aur Veeru yaad aa gaye....ya phir munna aur circuit..... Harry and Ron ...😊🙏🏻
thanks a lot 🥰🥰
Bohat Kam Video Hota Hai Aisa Crucial Topic Pe Specially "IN THIS NARCISSISTIC CRITERIUM".. THIS'S THE ONE OF THEM I LYK TO BOW-DOWN🙌🏻
RESPECT FRM MY HEART❤ FOR SPEAKING THE TRUTH(💯%RAW AUTHENTICATION)FRM STARING TO END PARTS.. 🙏🏻😊
Wow aap kitna acha batate ho mera kahna h marriage ke immediately baad pta nahi chalta aap sochte ho nye nye marriage main usko accept karna mushil hota h Isle vo sab sakti rahti h bache ho jate h pati ke sath narcissistic hone ke baad bhi life narak ban jati h
Ji ha mujhe yehi feel hota hai jese maine Shadi nahi ki ...balki ek War main entry ki hai..😢
My immediate thought in this video-
"Bc ye indian he!!!!!"
And I almost never swear!.
Fantastic bhai!!!!!! Excellent superb fantastic!!!
Your content is par excellence.
Plz dont stop. May you help many many more people and may God bless you!!!!!
You have perfectly described the scenario.I've felt exactly same feeling being married to covert narc husband and Narc MIL. They were just torture together. I'm stuck in but hoping to get out. Pls create awareness on these horrible personality traits to help us protect ourselves and children. Thanks
I have gone through it. Now I am so strong and living happily.
Same situation
My MIl was like this. Thank god we didn't live with her. Since ours was a love marriage. And he was working in the north. But she did try every means to break us apart. We've been married for 25 yrs and she died eight years ago. It was only after her death that we had any peace. We survived because we didn't live with her
Her bahu ko hone wali bahu ko ye video jaroor dekhna chahiye thankyu Danish ❤
Thank you so much beta,apne bhut ache se ek aurat ka deep pain describe kiya hai. God bless you beta ji❤
Wow...one of my most awaited videos....i am stuck in the same situation from last 11 years. Discovered about narcissism just a year ago.i didn't even know the word earlier.
This collaboration is very good. Both of you have a very deep understanding of how the narcissistic cult operates, especially in the Indian setting. Every Indian woman must watch. Feeling sad for Aishwarya Rai. Look at her SIL, Shweta, as if nothing has happened, Shweta behaves so calmly, cool and mature, but she's a devil. Amitabh Bachchan himself is perfectly narcissistic.
Leaving this family and have a toddler. Have to fight for custody. Please make content on this
Bilkul sahi kha aapne meri saas aur nanad bhi aisi hi h
Very good Sir ❤both were explained in a very good way 👍
Looks like someone understands my feelings 😢
Awesome work
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Let the healing begin ❤
एक एक बात सही...
Absolutely true.. Its more and more visible in all families.. Its same before marriage also..
Danish you nailed it I am in the same position with no where to go no parents no husband only domineering 92 years narc mother in law 😢
Sometimes husband ki sister bhi aisi hoti hai
@@sharmilaskitchenandvlogs har time hoti hi hai
Ladke k father n bhai ka bhi same role hota h
Yes...I m facing the exact situation since 15 years...
Plz provide some solution to it...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
अपना घर छोड़कर दूसरे के घर जाएंगी लड़कियां तो ये चलेगा ही.
कुछ अलग सोचो.
Danish i know subscribers are not much that you deserve, But keep making video in hindi in your voice, there are many peoples, wait for your hindi videos for days, Stay blessed.
Ye baat bilkul sach hai 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Yes, all true. I faced all n life is hell, ruined. All are one n you are a outsider at the last. For you only domestic servant , no voice, if employed salary is also for them. If you speaks, husband is your main enemy n supported by all his family. And situation is you can't be out of this trap. Because of no outer support. And having no confidence, you are silent suffering resulting emotional, mental,phisical illness n financial also. Life is hell but only god internally help, support you for this battle. In our society only that woman is respected who is with her husband. Thanks. Your vedio support n open our eyes what happened n now also. God bless you.
Two cuties helping people ❤
Aishwarya Rai is perfect example
Very informative respected Sir!
Thankyou for addressing this issue ❤👍
My Mother-In-Law said to me " Tumne kisi ka beta liya hai agar tum mere liye nhi karogi to bhagwan tumhe maaf nhi krega".
Don’t u feel like not getting married for another many lives? How disgusting this is ?
@ I stopped visiting and calling 😅
My husband shared the intimate details of husband wife relationship not only with his mother but his sisters and friends too and made fun of me since eternity. He was always part of that mother- sisters gang and would be scheming plans against me
Same here
@@Ritikakapoor1982 oh that's shocking to know he shared intimate details..good you became aware of his nasty behaviour.
Mera husband b same yehi krta tha....sry ex husband😂
Now I am free 😊 I am thankful to those because I could see through all these toxic relationships and came to reach pure relationships through spiritual company 😊
He even used to change clothes infront of her. I didnt like that. I did bring it up a few times and he laughed it off saying sorry. Aisa laga hi nahi ki wo sach mai sorry feel kar raha tha. Ye log shaadi sirf formality ke liye karte hai. He shared everything with his mother. Joint bank accounts,joint properties. Mai aur meri bachi ko always alag rakha
Same here. When I was married in such family , my MIL used to go subconscious during night probably she was not ready to leave his son with her DIL. Both of us had to come out of room and take care of her and my FIL used to say that she will be alright if she could sleep in between two of us. There are some instance which I can now realize(earlier I had no knowledge) that if allowed my husband had also no problem in this. These were unresolved things in my mind, which now I am able to understand after 30 years of my marriage . Thanks Danish💕
Oh my god this is exactly same which I'm facing
@@karnalsunita90is still ur MIL is alive??
Oh my god, 😢 this is next level toxic. I cannot even imagine mothers , fathers can do this to their son and wife. But looking at so many women sharing, this is epidemic. @@karnalsunita90
Epic 😮
Aap dono bhai ek jaise hi dikh rhe h...bahut achchha explain kiya topic ko aap dono ne...thanks...video achchha lga.
so so true each word true. in addition to these words. when i became pregnant i was treated like i am a ditcher. i had to supress the good news for many days. when they doubted they tried their level best so that miscarriage happens naturally. suddenly i would find soap in toilet. water on floor. suddenly husbands mother /gf behaved like a kid and started to swing. tried best to hit on belly. these are just few
Ye side wale ladke ne aurat k dil dimag ka dard kuch zyada hi ache se samjha hua hai, ab pata chala ladko ko b samajh hai😅
Yeah. Surprising to see it coming from two guys. Otherwise there is zero empathy in most guys regarding problems women face, many dont even want to hear and talk.
Very nice video... I have been experiencing all this and more ever since the first day of my marriage... It is mind bending torture
Yup , story of my life.
You guys look cute..well explained social situation🎉
Sir u r right...I m facing same problem.😢
Super !! 👏🏼thank you
Thanks Danish for this video. This is a much needed video for women right now! When you don't meet the societal expectations than a big storm brews between the daughter in law and mother in law and it does start affecting the relationship you have with your husbans! Your right in saying i always felt like an outsider not allowed to have an opinion or have a say in certain matters! 😏😊💖😇🙏.
All points so valid and true!
Thank you Lord for saving my life after 30 years of marital life I. J. N. Amen🙏❤️👍
So true.. each and every word you spoke is the truth.. I have been in the exact same position..
My in-laws family is are same as you described...all the points are true...these points touched my heart...i was sacrificing myself for these death ☠️ monsters
Very true . Great analysis.
Very informative vedio🙏
Wo complain bhi bohot zyada karti thi ki im not helping in the house. Aur ye ex husband kehta tha ki tum toh hotel ki tarah reh rahi ho. Fir bhi mai always aakar puchti thi "Can i help". But wo kehti "koi baat nahi mai manage kar lugi". Jab aapka hi kitchen hai app allow bhi nahi kar rahe ho ki koi help kare...fir iljam bhi laga rahe ho? Thats why I couldn't wait to leave and get a seperate home.
Has your relationship with your husband improved?
Exact same story😢
Same .. now getting a divorce
thank you Danish!
I am your subscriber from english channel.
Thanks for videos in hindi too😊
You are absolutely right I.
have face all this situation till now all family members treat me as a outsider
Superb ❤
So true. Jis din se ladki aati hai ghar mey ladke ki maa usse sautan ki tarah samajhti hai, bahu ki tarah nahi.
I have gone through this.
Very good vedio, speaks about the real dilemmas and feelings of women stuck with narcissistic inlaws.
Best jodi
Solution vi bataye please. Kyun ki ghar husband chhod nahi sakte kaise survive kare.
You should try to become independent and leave him forever but also try to sue him
Phle paisa kmane ki koshish kro ksi ngo se help lo police se help lo phr usko chorne ki koshish kro
Tq..for sharing 🙏
So true!! Have witnessed in my family!
Mujhe laga apny koi filter use kiya huwa jis ki waja sy ap face sy choty lg rahy lekin yeh or ap alg alg person hain😅 ab maloom huwa is vedio mai....
Mai soch rahi thi shayad muzhe hi aisa laga
@panshi-zx4wj 😅
Same
Even i felt some AI filter is used.
How is aadarsh related to danish ?
Same.. mujhe bhi yahi lagta tha.😊😅
Wow very good video sir ji thankyou so much 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 excellent sir ji
U r absolutely right....I m facing it ...
Amazing share ❄️
Thank u sir ese hi video bnate raho...
Not only them but your husband also says all that too
Very good collaboration...you can start podcasting with the victims of narrcism to help the society learn about them and their dangerous behaviour.
I was doubting if Aishwarya Rai is suffering from Narcissistic abuse or not! Thanks for confirming.. and educating people with this.
I hope she finds the strength of walking out of such a family, by God's grace..
so well explained
Bhaiya aapke video se ye to smjh aa gya hh ki mere husband or unke father dono bhut bdhe narcissist hh. Aapne jo vi kaha wo sari baate shi hh pr mere sas ki jgh mere sasur ji or meri nand yesa krte hh or baat aaj etna bigdh gyi h ki baat devorce pe aa gyi hh or mere husband devorce ke liye ready vi ho gye. Bhaiya mai bhut payr krti hu apne husband se pr kisko smjhu husband to baat vi nhi krte
Mere ghr me mere sasur ji or nand ki clti hh meri nand married phir vi unka pura control rhta hh mere husband pe mujhe yesa lgta mai nhi wo unki bibi hh or to or unhone apne sister ki baato me aakr hi mujhe ghr se nikal diya hh
Aapki hindi ki sari video ko maine thekha bhut help huaa. Aap mere bdhe bhai ke jaise h plzzz mujhe btaye kya krna cahiye mai apne husband ko bhut payr krti hu mai unse dur nhi jana chahti pr wo mujhe or mere payr ko kbhi smjh hi nhi paye .
@@AartiKumari-u9oaap aise ghar mai kyo jana chahti h..jha aapki koi value hi nhi hain..aaj Aapko bhagwan ne ek nye tarike se Jine ke..us ghar se alag kiya h..taki aage ki puri life rote hue na bite...aap emotional h..aaj aap us ghar mai Jane ke liyepateshan h...aane wale samay aisa aayega ki aap chutkara pane ke liye royegi..isse iswar ka tohfa maniye..please
Mam wo kya hh na ki abhi meri shadi ko sirf 15 month huye hh or isliye mujhe lg rha hh sayd wo bdl jayege pr maine video thekha to smjh aya yese log kbhi nhi badlte. Bhut payr krti hu husband se mere liye wo meri duniya hh pr unke liye mai kuch nhi hu. Sare relatives family society sbko yhi lgta hh ki mai glt hu maine unhe time nhi diya es riste ko smjh ne ke liye isliye yesa ho rha h pr mai kaise smjhau logo ko ki maine es riste me apna 200% diya hh
@AartiKumari-u9o my dear sister...aap mera vishwas kijiye...aap jivan bhar pyar pane ke liye Tara's jaygi..aur pati ke hote hue bhi akele Jina hoga..15 machine bahut hote h..aap aakhe kholiye..wah aadmi abhi tak aapse pyar nhi kar Ska...to aage nhi karega..Aapko wah pure samaj mai..pagal..buddhihin..murakh sabit karega...aaj aap logo ke bare mai mat sochiye...yhi aadmi aage jakar Aapko cheat bhi karega..aaj Usko chodne mai Aapko dukh ho rhA h..par aap aaj se 4 saal baad piche mudkar dekhegi..to bhagwan ko dhanayawad degi...ki mere ek strong decision se mai puri aage ke life kharab hone se Bach gyi..yah mere jivan ka anubhav h..kyoki mai Aapko.. life Mai haste hue dekhna chahti hu..isliye aapko guide kar rhi hu...my age is 54.
...Aapko aaj bura lag rhA h..par yah aapke achchhe ke liye hi ho rhA h...
Pyar...ijjat h...pyar samman h...pyar..khushi h...jise aap pyar Maan rhi h..wah pyar nhi...pyar ki bhikh h
I have gone through this experience. The whole family gets involved to dominate daughter in law. If husband is not capable he also treats wife in a same way
May God help Ash😢
True . Good work
Absolutely right
Ache se explain kiya nice vedio❤
Yeap. For them its all about getting narcisssitic supply. Unko kisi ki emotions se koi fark nahi padta. Its all bout "Me me me me"
Very true...
Oh God Danish 😊...I never knew that you are an Indian coz your English is way to anglicized and too good. I have seen many of your videos and they are great and full of information.🎉
You pointed out all right points but at half way you can start telling remedies...my friend is stuck in this trap...I want to share this with her...but I know she will be more sad and lost as to how to get out safely and keep her kids too
Exactly on point without a miss 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Keep up the good work… you are a saviour…loved ur collaboration and Hindi version❤️❤️❤️
To be honest, Ash herself gives Narcissistic vibes. Her pride is another level. The way she keeps her daughter too close to herself, seems like she doesn't want her to grow to be an independent human (Narcs consider their kids as an extension of themselves and of course have abandonment issues)I think Ash is the narc herself.
I have experienced everything what you told. I have seen worst life. I have been accused of everything I do or what I do not do
Spot on !!!
Confidence low issliye b ho jata hai...q ki puri family apko isolation karti hai ..or bahut confused karte hai