I'M SINGLE....AGAIN. (RANT/STORYTIME)
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JessiSmiles omg I was just thinking that!!
Hahaha yes
JessiSmiles the wait was worth it!!!
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And now she's pregnant and married
Lucky her, but I feel about the same way with women as she did with guys in this video
My boyfriend of 3 years is in love with my best friend. He dumped me, 3 months after he had told her.
I am getting way too old for this bullshit in my life. Be with me, or don't. Who even has time to be played?
Wow, That's terrible. I'm so sorry. My (now ex) boyfriend of over 5 years slept with one of my very close friends and it tore me apart. He wasn't "in love" with her, but I don't think I would have recovered as well if that was the case.
Caitlyn Taliercio it is absolutely heart breaking. This was 3 weeks ago, I can only hope that I will be okay again soon. I hope you're okay ♡
***** Thank you ♡ yeah it has been a rough year. 2016, will you give us no mercy??
Wtf that's a hideous thing to do! Poor you :( nothing to say other than take care of yourself and hold your head up high! Sending love xx
nixiberry thank you for your kindness.
"I'm only 23, you know how grateful I am that artificial insemination exists"
little did u know u were gonna get pregnant
Oh my god I hate when guys play DUMB. When you ask them "what's wrong ? you changed" they reply "Nothing." and then they break up. Like WTF tell me what's wrong so I can improve instead of listing everything that I think is wrong with me.
Exactly! Honest conversation can help SO much
Also sorry for that break-up Jessie. You deserve MORE and I'm sure you'll find your special one. Love you 💜
Also I'm 25 and I gave up on being in a relationship 😂😂😂. Ok i'll stop commenting now.
Preach!
you'll be fine your beautiful. 💖 && You don't deserve someone like that .💙
I'm also 23, I had lost hope too. Until I started completely not focusing on guys and dove into my work, school & fitness... Out of no where.. My perfect man comes along & sweeps me off my feet. Mind you, he's 9 yrs older than me but we're both adults and we both know what we want. We're on the same page & I couldn't be happier. Been dating for a year now & we just click on every level. My point is... Focus on your life.. Your career & your goals. Figure out what you want. If it's a stable relationship, be honest & blunt about it & don't give assholes the time of day. Follow your gut!! When Mr. Right comes along you'll know!! Trust me!! You'll just know!!
you're so pretty girls like you shouldn't lose hope
Linda Argueta
Linda Argueta that's so true. When you look you can't find it, and when you find it you weren't looking
Now she's married and having a baby 😍 how amazing life is 💓 Love you Jessi! ❤️
This is how I feel right now! THIS! JUST THIS! Modern dating is awful, too many games. You find someone you really connect with, have lots in common with, chemistry and go on many dates with. Then boom 3/4 months later you are dumped as "things aren't working out". Wait..what? If you feel like this why don't you just say earlier. Why get to the stage where I finally feel hopeful and secure only to be crushed?
Advice is this: Love yourself first, live in abundance and never assume a relationship.
Great advice! Modern dating is awful because of the abundance of choice. We live in a society where you can pick and choose whomever you please with the swipe of the finger, literally. This means that most people find more compatible matches, BUT it also means that we don't want to put the work into making a relationship work, thinking we can always find someone else if this doesn't work out "naturally". I find myself in this situation all the time. I date a guy and he's great and things are moving forward, but one small thing about him might be a red flag or a turn off and I begin doubting that I even want him. And why would I, if I can just go back on Tinder and find someone else?
you get me on a spiritual level.
I didn't fall in love until I was 23. It took so long to find someone who values and respects me. He's so generous and loving and supportive.
My advice to you would be, if you are dating someone the second you feel that they aren't 100% interested, walk out. If a guy wants to be with you he will make an effort. I've dated so many assholes and they all had one thing in common: it was very easy for them to make me feel like my feelings and opinions paled in comparison to theirs. They made me feel unwanted and annoying and only gave me a tiny amount of affection when it was convenient for them.
My current boyfriend validates my feelings. He tells me he loves things about me, not realizing he's complimenting things other men have torn me down over. I am so thankful he came into my life and honestly, I think you should just put yourself out there and just really look for someone genuine and someone you connect with on every level.
This is so true 🙌
this is so true 👏
omg i can SO relate... i'm actually going through the same thing with a guy rn who i can tell just doesn't give a shit anymore and it's super frustrating. and every time that i say "maybe we should just be friends" he tried to defend himself and says he wants me, but he still just doesn't give a single shit about me... like you can just tell. he doesn't make time for me EVER or anything. and actions speak louder than words. so i'm really glad i saw this today jessie 💗 i just need to be real and say "you don't give a fuck about me anymore, let's just move on!" and not make a big deal. it just hurts and i know exactly how you feel :/
Just tell him bitch I don't need your loser ass , go fuck yourself 😘
He shouldn't have power over you like this 🙅🏻
Please leave him! You deserve someone whos crazy about you! You dont need to wonder if he likes you or not if he really likes he'll move mountains for you! I commented this but ill say it again some guys just like having a girlfriend because its convenient for them! You deserve so much better dont settle!!
TBH, sounds like he wants his cake but he wants to eat it later.. after he is done with his other piece of cake.. but he is holding onto that cake just in case he is finished with that other cake. (You're the other cake.) don't be. Actions do speak louder than words. Don't let the words fool you.
I RELATE TO THIS SO MUCH. I AM GOING THROUGH THIS SAME THING.
almost on point with a girl I liked. it goes both ways. let's all just marry food.
Jessi NOOOOOOOOOOO. If I was a guy I'd love you unconditionally.
Actually. I do love you unconditionally. Lol Love you Jessi 😘😘
I'd love her unconditionally anyways XD
Wow I just realized you posted this exactly one year ago today and look how far you've come since then! Married and have the cutest wittle baby! So happy for you Jessi xo
Honestly Jessi, date a friend (not your absolute best friend. Maybe just someone you've known for a few months). If you're already friends you know that you have things in common and get along well. Friends will care about how you feel, and maybe in the end you'll find a soulmate
everyone is different...ive dated a couple of my friends and everytime it got to hooking up....idk it just fell off like i already saw him as a friend it was weird for me to move into that alot of girls are like me...its hard to unsee someone as a friend once youve labeled them that for so long
Yeah ... or maybe don't. I did that and you know what happened?? It went well for three months, then we realized that we were good friends but horrible partners and our entire circle of friends started in on the relationship.
So yeah. Not always the best idea. Being friends doesn't mean you can be romantic partners.
Butttttttt if you date a friend and you break up it will destroy the friendship
+Jet Honsinskie the 3rd that's exactly what I was going to say. I've done it before and it ended badly. Everyone is different but I wouldn't recommend it
I've done that, too, and ah it just isn't right to have sex with someone you're not really attracted to (even if not disgusted by either). It's pretty crap in fact. :D We could make it work, but I always felt weird that I have to make myself touch them that way and all in all it just wasn't that enjoyable.
This is so sad but fucking true about the 3 am thoughts.
Yo she said that and it hit just a little too close to home
Actually watched that video the first time around 3 am and I just went "too fucking true"
I NEEDED THIS SO BADLY! You have no idea how happy you just made me Imma take a shot for you right now!
I literally just spent the last 10 minutes ranting to my friends on snapchat about how guys are dumb like I feeeeel you
I'm so happy I just saw ur comment not ALONE GIRLLLLLLLLL
yaaaaaaaaay i'm not alone in this thank you girls you made feel so much better i thought it was me for a second
You are seriously the only one that can turn my mood around. Just had a guy talk to me for over 2 months straight saying the most amazing things then just a week ago stop talking to me only to post pictures with another girl. Something about your personality helps me to get through things and just laugh. You're such an amazing person and deserve all the happiness in the world. Thank you for making videos. They help me to realize I'm not so alone.
From my experience with watching you, let me just say this: Whenever you question whether you should tell a certain story or not, just do it. It`s always gold.
It's funny 'cause she met her husband (or at least made the video about it) a month later.
You know, this is a good thing. You dropped the guy who didn't care about you. You're evolving *thumbs up*.
This video popped up in my recommended and I’m so glad it did. I remember watching this when you first posted it, feeling the same way- like I had given up and like there was no way I could find a nice, decent guy my age who would treat me like a human without playing any games. Now I’m in a relationship with the man I know I’m going to marry. And watching this video knowing you’re married to the love of your life and have a beautiful baby boy together literally makes me cry. Love you girly
once I heard something like "Is not about missing something at 3:00 am, is about missing something at 3:00 pm, missing something when your are making breakfast, when you are bussy." I think that you are just fin being single, we are just babies at the eyes of life ( I say we, because I'm 23 too.)
This rant is a reflection of my frustration when it comes to dating. Thank you Jessi! From personal experience, I no longer give guys who don't follow through with plans/make any effort the time of day.
Here's the thing Jessi, we love you because of your videos... If some doesn't appreciate your videos and don't respect how much of your life you put out for your fans, then they aren't good enough for you anyway.
Every time i lose hope i come back to this video 🥺
I’m really glad everything worked out for her in the end ❤️
I honestly think I could listen to you talk forever. About anything. ❤️❤️❤️ love your videos Jessi!
Every single story that you tell is my life to the T.... even the freakin names of people in the story are the same. Im shooketh.
I think that you should stop looking for someone and just enjoy being single. Like get to the point where you're so happy being alone that someone seriously amazing needs to come along to change that. Stay off Tinder!!! Eat healthy food, work out, do yoga, get a bike, go hiking, bake, do things that make you happy! Just be happy with where you are in life and stop trying to fight being single. The moment you truly stop looking for a boyfriend and enjoy your own company 24/7 is the moment that someone will come along :)
This video is so relatable and helps just that little bit to not make me feel alone in that way
Feel like we need a top 5 all time alcoholic beverages video, ya'know so I can get on Jessie's level
preach Jessi so true all these childish adults are running around with no intentions of committing when honestly its time to grow up and be upfront about your intentions when entering a relationship.
Jesse, the best advice I can give you is this: You're looking for the wrong things in your relationships. In other words, no man will satisfy you because the thing you want from them isn't love, or a relationship, it's someone to fill the void in you. You don't want to be alone. While this can be a great motivation for friends, it isn't a good one for relationships. If you date someone, you've got to actually love them, an then go on from there. You can develop a friendship with someone while your dating, and that can change to a love, but the truth is if it never does you should ditch it. Analyze the reasons your dating whoever it is you're dating. If it isn't for love, or for a reason that primarily suits your wants and needs, it likely isn't a relationship you should go after, because in the end the other person will have the same goals too, and that only leads to both of you using each other for the other's wants. It destroys both parties in the end.
True love takes a lot of work. That euphoric feeling we get at the start of a relationship does not last, so you have to choose to love who you're with regardless of the circumstances or whether or not you get butterflies all the time
Never clicked so fast in my life! 😂😂
And I love you keep your head up! ❤️❣️
same
It’s so crazy to go back and watch these videos now that you’re with Nassim ❤️ I’m so glad you found your perfect man
my advice is to really reflect on the distress dating brings you versus the distress being single brings you. i'm like you, i love to be alone, and i feel like we're programmed to think that's not how we're supposed to be. but if you love being alone, maybe you shouldn't fight it. all the crap that relationships put you through is only worth it (in my opinion) if you REALLY want to be with someone. idk this is why i've been single for 3 years without a care in the world
It is so wonderful to see Jessis transformation, like she is so sad and frustrated in this video because if her datin life and now she is happily engaged and pregnant ... I am so happy for her!
I feel you girl, no rush. Can't rush love, if you click, ya click ja feel. Much love for you!!!
Jessi!!! Omg this is LITERALLY MY LIFE TO A T. I'm always on a cycle of ghosts... I've become ghost intolerant. I'm trying so hard to let it happen but I feel you, misery loves company. But I love you.
Wishing I was your best friend right now
same, wish I was guacamole tittie
That 3 am stuff ... I feel you. I literally cry in those situations when you just want someone there. Sometimes you just want someone to watch a movie and cuddle with, kill a bottle of wine, and go to bed early. It sucks.
I'm only 17 and I'm already feeling you. I experienced something like this 'we are an unofficial couple' thing too and now in the end it came out that he didn't want a relationship?! I mean what the fuck, do you introduce your mother or hold hands with someone in public who isn't your partner ?! Confused af and done with it haha
And shortly thereafter she met the love of her life and had the sweetest most amazing son with him
Well, at least you can get a date, Jessi. I'm almost 26 and haven't been on a date in five years. I was cool with it, but over the last month I'm realising how much it actually suuuuuccckkkss to be alone. Everyone is getting married and having babies, and I'm just here, alone on my couch drinking a beer, eating pizza and gaming in my underwear.
Omg yes!!! Preach! I love that you're so straight up about your feelings with guys. I had a similar experience about a month ago. The guy seemed so interested and from one day to another he had lost all interest and like you said nothing had changed on my part. I'm 22 and I can really relate to you. Thanks for sharing and being so real. And don't lose hope you're not the only one feeling like this about your love life. ❤️
Dying @ the drake pic inserted. "nothing was the same" 😂
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Damn Jessi! I am right there with you! I'm 23 and just about given up on the whole relationship thing because like you said they get bored then you're stuck alone again because it's not worth it! It's ridiculous!
watching this and seeing your frustration... and looking at your situation now. bet you had no idea you'd be where you are now 😂 so happy everything turned around for you 🙂💘
This video makes me both sad and hopeful for Jessi.Ive been through all of this, a seemingly never ending phase in life where every person just ends up hurting you and disregarding your feelings. Its a vicious cycle of investing time/ emotions to a person, to having your heart broken, to being cold in spite of having hope for a good relationship, and then finding a new person of interest. Point being, I feel for you Jessi. But there is a light at the end of this horrible life tornado. Keep loving yourself first, stay hungry for positivity. Follow your damn gut because your brain and heart honestly don't know what they both want. You'll be okay
I can listen to Jessi rant all day
Jessi is literally my spirit animal! I'm going through the same life struggles with guys that I'm dating.
"Do not let a man control your fuckin plans!"
New life motto. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Girl, preach! These shenanigans have happened to me many times, and everyone always tells me I like the wrong guys or am too nice blah blah blah but honestly I just think some guys have zero class and are so selfish! Last boyfriend literally ghosted me after 4 months of dating and being officially BF/GF. Who DOES that?!? Keep the hope alive girl! 💁🏻🙌🏼
I totally get where you're coming from. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 1/2 years and basically he woke up one day and said I don't want this anymore, I don't love you anymore and that I basically wasted my time. And i felt like all hope for relationships are gone, but I learned that people come in your life to help mold you and create you into the person you wanna be. I think you shouldn't give up, because though I haven't started dating yet I know I want to date, but I will not put up with bullshit like I did and be talked to or feel certain ways that I felt or was talked to. So hang in there. And honestly you had every right to get mad and feel some type of way because he kinda came off like a jerk.
Girl, how much i can relate to this video. My first love dumped me because i "complained" too much over a text. I understand how you feel when a guy stops talking to you out of nowhere because he is bored of you. You're beautiful and you will find the right guy!
Jessi, I'm going to drop everything and pray for you to find some love. Your videos are hilarious!
This showed up at the top of my recommended and I had almost peed thinking it was a new video in my subscriptions.
That 3 am thoughts tho 😂😂😂
Me bro
Did you really just reply to your own comment?😂
+Kayla Pope what?
Omg this is exactly how I am with my relationship. A lot of things don't bother me but if something stupid happens, I literally just address it in the most laid back way
Aww jessi
Sometimes when guys see the relationship is getting serious they get scared and they don't want to commit anymore
You are my Latin spirit animal! I have no idea what it is about people our age not wanting anything but the chase, it kills me! I'm so glad you love yourself, keep loving yourself and never doubt your feelings or intuition. Those men can't handle a confident women who doesn't want to be stung along, the right one will show up sooner than you expect, Beautiful!
tbh, I think if the person isn't happy in a relationship they should just talk to the person instead of sleeping around with other people. You'll end up hurting the person more than not talking it out in the first place. I've given up on guys lol I'm taking a break. You'll find your man one day Jessi don't give up! :)
Jessi! you're me! lmao i'm 23 too and i literally feel i'll be single foreverrrrrrrrr. i don't even date anymore. i thought i would never delete tinder and i did. i just give up. its so hard to find interesting people that are genuinely interested in you. but like you said i don't mind being single, i just get lonely sometimes
I don't relate to any other youtuber more than you.
I'm honestly so excited for the day you finally find the guy who is worthy of you and you'll post all these cute vlogs and just be #goals.
I'm so glad she found naseem ☺
I’ve been a subscriber for a while now, and it’s so crazy to see how much Jessi has grown and now has a beautiful family. But she still is able to be this relatable girl in this video❤️ thanks for always making me laugh Jessi, love your videos.
Out of curiosity, does anyone else watch pll?
I watch pll :)
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no you're the only one
I dooo!
I need to know who killed Charlotte!!!
my my my how life can change in a year...so happy to see you with your hubby & sweet baby now!
EARLY FAM WHERE YOU AT😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️ love you jess!!
I seriously needed a video like this. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and lately he's been being such a jerk I don't understand why, I've done nothing wrong. Guys say we're crazy and emotional but they can't get their shit together and decide whether they wanna be nice or assholes. Jessi you're young and there is a person out there for everyone it just takes time for them to walk into your life, or maybe they already have and you just haven't noticed it yet, you'll find love. because out of all the people in the world you're one the funniest kind hearted people out there and you deserve love more than anything. ❤️❤️❤️
Right as she said "I hate seafood" I was putting a piece of shrimp in my mouth lol
I feel you with the " once they got what they wanted they loose all interest".My seven month boyfriend dumped me on the street out of nowhere, while coming back from a dinner out. 7 pm having a taco with your boyfriend, 9 pm crying on the subway all the way home. Conclusion? Guys suck.
At firts he was all kind of " you are beautifull, your attitude your smile your face, and once i started saying the same things and giving too much attention he started " not knowing what he felt about me".
But you know what? everything happens for a reason. Today i decided to go out and treat myself with a nice day, and ended up getting a super good job oportunity, while back with him we should have been sleeping till 3 pm. Life is full of oportunities! And you and me are gonna make it through haha Keep it up girl! Love from Argentina.
I died at your explanation of why you don't like seafood lol
I'm dealing with this right now and had no idea how to go about this. thanks jessi for giving me the courage to not waste my time with him.
His loss😂💯🔥👌
Wow jessi... you literally described every single one of my exes. My mouth dropped because that's my exact same story.
Hiiiiii !!! Pre-notification squad 😂😂
Jessi, you're not alone. Going through the same thing. Hang in there. These videos make my days better.
His loss for sure! Sounds like a big mommas boy too.. especially if he was concerned about what to tell his parents what you do for a living.
I think you nailed it on the way people view relationships these days. They quickly lose interest. Personally I don't think you're doing anything wrong and I've experienced the same exact shit. Just don't look too into it until someone comes around and feels that you're everything they've wanted.
I know someone PERFECT for you!!!! I literally forced him to watch all your videos because you 2 are like the same person and he agrees .
Jessi you're this weird mixture of wise and strange and I love it
Relationships are always messy, I wish I had some magical advice that would answer all your questions and comfort your soul😂
It’s so nice watching these videos knowing she’s married now to a really nice guy and has a beautiful son. She’s losing hope in this video, and who knew that just like a year or so later her life would change forever and for the better. So cool
holy shit this got recommended to me in 2021 and my stupid ass thought it was new, i almost chocked on my drink lol
"Do not let a man control your plans."
Hell yes Jessi!!
omg dude where'd u get the shirt i need it
btw I MISSED U
I need it to
basic bitches
cry bout it
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this popped up in my subscription & i thought it was recent & my heart DROPPED
Jessi,
Honey you are not gonna find love on tinder. I love you and your videos and you are a beautiful, smart, talented girl. You deserve wayyyy better than you are actually giving yourself credit for. I know that at times you will feel lonely but honestly you may just need more time. . You're beautiful baby girl. The right one will come along and you already know the warning signs. Time to stop being polite about it. When you see them, know they are there for a reason and you're not crazy. Listen to your gut, heart, whatever. We unfortunately live in a world where most people are very just not into each other or long term and it sucks. IT SUCKS BALLS JESSI AND I FEEL YOUR PAIN AND IM MAD TOO DAMN IT! ! :[ Anyways, you want that person that will just listen to you when you need it...support you even when you don't ask for it...cuddle you and stroke your hair. I get it. the guys may not be mature. One will come your way. Keep your head held high and stay strong.
*hugs*
Rewatching this years later as a 25 yo and being baffled that Jessi was only 23 and yet so mature. I'm glad she is so much happier now though :)
I'm horrified of the beach as well lol ❤️
Same
Me too
I don't mind the beach,you'll just never catch this bitch in the fucking ocean,No sir!
Been there. Like, exactly there. I'm 27 now, but at 23 i was DONE. I was so okay with just never even trying to look for anyone anymore. I treated it the way the guys I dated treated it, i was very much done with feelings and just having a good time. It wasn't until 25 that I realized I didn't even wanna have my half-assed romances. I was busy with work and I let that be what I did, and eventually the guy that i needed actually came into my life on his own and I'm married now. Mind you, the guy was a friend that i've had for ages that I didn't even like when we first met. "didn't like" is putting it mildly. Just hold out, stop looking and just do you, but hold out.
aww Jessi i love you so much
This video is 100% relatable! You're not the only one Jessi! It will get better, sending you love
Here's some solid advice - Go binge on Mike Falzone videos. He is *SO GOOD* at relationship advice but bonus, he's concise, to the point, and hilarious. Trust me. Just trust me. You won't regret it.
I can't believe that something very similar just happened to me as well. I especially relate to the idea of losing hope but then there is still hope, and I truly believe that's what we have to hold onto. We can't let bad experiences with guys be the reason why we miss out on a great experience. I hope that you can continue to have hope that one day things will be different. Love you doll be patient time is healing. xoxo.
Heineken 😍😍 love ya jess! You're a beaut!
Shit gets real when you say "To which he/she was" 😂😂
i just left a guy that was crazy about me, it didnt go anywhere and he started to become a cold prick.. i love your videos. you're the only one who makes me feel better! vent away!
Hun... just choose carefully and *stop using Tinder*. You're not going to find anyone worthy there.
not true.. there are some normal guys on tinder too. the problem is that there are not so many of them...haha
you have to weed through them. I have a few solid friends I made on tinder. While I played around with tinder texting new guys I met my boyfriend at a work function. Funny how things work out lol
Keyword is 'some'. It's not worth going through all of that stress just to try and find that 1 out of 500 chance.
I can second not using Tinder. I just happened to get lucky and met an amazing guy off there. I've found most guys use it for hook-ups.
This guy wasn't form tinder. I feel her I find good guys and they just waste my time
Youre not crazy Jessi!! I'm going through the same sort of things right now. I feel like all the good guys our age just aren't ready to settle down yet. So I'm just trying to date and focus on being way better than every guy thats ever hurt me