Completely agree mate. I miss those good old days when life was about what was happening in front of me and being present with real life friends. We've become socially lost and confused about what connects us to what really matters
Nailed it. As a soccer, hockey, and music prodigy…a lot of people would tear me down, growing up. I was humble, and nice. When I became arrogant…people would tell me I’m too “cocky,”…or “arrogant.” You’ll never win. People will always be jealous. So never care what others think. The only person, besides my voice coach…that ever acknowledged my musical talent, right off the bat…was my good friend, who’s more-accomplished than me…that’s blind. She can’t see me…so she can’t judge my exterior. Best validation…ever.
Birds of a feather flock together . If you are unhappy with your circumstances in life , look at who you surround yourself with and the activities you engage in .
When you wake up in a cave lol it opens up your eyes because you have no worries about online stuff or computers ' i go to Pembrokeshire a lot and use a cave there but i love it as takes every away from the world for awhile
Don’t be tempted to cop out of your original argument due to social pressure. You know that the average person doesn’t think like you, and that they despise people who think differently or have ambition. Don’t let them get to you. You are correct that life could be more interesting, and you are correct to chase it. You decide what your life is, not the masses of jealous, success hating peasants.
That last part peaked my interest Cal. I’ve watched all your vids so far and resonate with a lot of it. ‘You don’t need to force the issue’. I feel like I’ve had similar ‘come to Jesus’ moments in the past as well that create a sense of calm and solace amongst the madness. It’s for sure refreshing but I get sucked right back into looking at what’s missing. Which IMO is a self protection mechanism. I’m now trying to recognise that and as you said, taking it a little easier on myself. I for sure have reduced my hustle and see the smaller things, always have but it’s hard to not feel like you should be doing something at all times. Constant battle against it quite frankly. Something that seems to help me is iust doing ‘one thing’. If you’re watching television, then watch television. If you’re out for a walk well then do just that. Not walking and listening to Spotify whilst scrolling Instagram and texting 😂 I’m interested to follow your journey and see if you get pulled back. I’m sure you’ll inevitably have ups and downs like us all but wishing you the best.
People less fortunate than ourselves seem to be happier with the things they have in life. But then you get the fortunate ones and it's the more we get the more we want And with the state the world's in it's not making people any happier.
In the west, people are free to be happy or miserable as they wish. The only problem is, every narcissist with a video camera has a platform to tell everyone how terrible everything is for them, while the happy people go on in their quiet contentment, so while a vocal minority appear to represent life in the west, their observations are not shared with the majority who can and do find contentment in western life.
We kill ourselves trying to fit into some world we don’t even like all for the fear of being alone. Being emotionally dependent and codependent is relying on others for your own happiness which in my opinion is not a life worth living. This is not love. Most and many will never be their true authentic self due to fear. Everything we do is out of fear. If you cannot be happy living and being by yourself then you will never be happy and free. Drop the ego and character that you are playing and start living, because before you know it or wont know it, we will be dead. Remember that you are going to die. We don’t have long. Smile, you’re alive. For now ☠⚰
❤❤❤ your perfect the way you are don't build your treasures here on earth, just do the best you can and carry on with your life! When you leave this earth, you will not take any thing with you except for what God gave you! And in case you're wondering, no I'm not a Bible thumper nor do I consider myself to be a Christian, but I do have a good heart ♥ and I have a desire to want to be friends with most everyone! 😊😊😊
"Having Everything"? You mean THINGS, right? Because it’s so damn obvious to me that what we don’t have are male friends closer than a brother. THAT, we don’t have, and to the degree of separation this is true? Uk in 1st place, followed by the USA, and so forth, where the Catholic Kings Empire resists the degradation, YES! We are miserable without male-male friendships. And additional complication is the gay thing. I’m gay married. I have never cheated in 10 years. Yet, I have to respect this is uncommon. So, I go online and type in the search, men seeking male friends and the gayest sht I’ve ever seen comes up!! I say NO!! NO, I don’t want that!! Sure, I’ll always have to acknowledge and deal with stimulation. "Dude, you in those shorts, it's killing me man" but HONESTY, openness and REAL friendships. Forgive me for making this personal but, I am literally HURTING right now with no one to share with and being a GREAT man. It’s not right. It’s a social dysfunction and it’s got nothing to do with having "everything". We don’t.
Completely agree mate. I miss those good old days when life was about what was happening in front of me and being present with real life friends. We've become socially lost and confused about what connects us to what really matters
Nailed it. As a soccer, hockey, and music prodigy…a lot of people would tear me down, growing up. I was humble, and nice. When I became arrogant…people would tell me I’m too “cocky,”…or “arrogant.” You’ll never win. People will always be jealous. So never care what others think. The only person, besides my voice coach…that ever acknowledged my musical talent, right off the bat…was my good friend, who’s more-accomplished than me…that’s blind. She can’t see me…so she can’t judge my exterior. Best validation…ever.
same, was an angel.. angels become demons.
Only Buddhism can make humans complete & heal humanity.
Just be yourself at the end of the day drinking is dead id rather have a cold shower and go walk my dog
Birds of a feather flock together . If you are unhappy with your circumstances in life , look at who you surround yourself with and the activities you engage in .
I do a lot of wild Hiking camping around the country ' I don't worry about others myself ' i do a lot of wild cave camping and love it 🙂
When you wake up in a cave lol it opens up your eyes because you have no worries about online stuff or computers ' i go to Pembrokeshire a lot and use a cave there but i love it as takes every away from the world for awhile
Don’t be tempted to cop out of your original argument due to social pressure. You know that the average person doesn’t think like you, and that they despise people who think differently or have ambition. Don’t let them get to you. You are correct that life could be more interesting, and you are correct to chase it. You decide what your life is, not the masses of jealous, success hating peasants.
That last part peaked my interest Cal. I’ve watched all your vids so far and resonate with a lot of it. ‘You don’t need to force the issue’.
I feel like I’ve had similar ‘come to Jesus’ moments in the past as well that create a sense of calm and solace amongst the madness. It’s for sure refreshing but I get sucked right back into looking at what’s missing. Which IMO is a self protection mechanism. I’m now trying to recognise that and as you said, taking it a little easier on myself.
I for sure have reduced my hustle and see the smaller things, always have but it’s hard to not feel like you should be doing something at all times. Constant battle against it quite frankly.
Something that seems to help me is iust doing ‘one thing’. If you’re watching television, then watch television. If you’re out for a walk well then do just that. Not walking and listening to Spotify whilst scrolling Instagram and texting 😂
I’m interested to follow your journey and see if you get pulled back. I’m sure you’ll inevitably have ups and downs like us all but wishing you the best.
Thanks for your comment Rich! I completely get where you're coming from.
People less fortunate than ourselves seem to be happier with the things they have in life. But then you get the fortunate ones and it's the more we get the more we want And with the state the world's in it's not making people any happier.
its the weather mate, always fucking raining xD
I think you found the problem in this country and hit the nail on the head. You’re right.
In the west, people are free to be happy or miserable as they wish. The only problem is, every narcissist with a video camera has a platform to tell everyone how terrible everything is for them, while the happy people go on in their quiet contentment, so while a vocal minority appear to represent life in the west, their observations are not shared with the majority who can and do find contentment in western life.
Very wise comment
We kill ourselves trying to fit into some world we don’t even like all for the fear of being alone. Being emotionally dependent and codependent is relying on others for your own happiness which in my opinion is not a life worth living. This is not love. Most and many will never be their true authentic self due to fear. Everything we do is out of fear. If you cannot be happy living and being by yourself then you will never be happy and free. Drop the ego and character that you are playing and start living, because before you know it or wont know it, we will be dead. Remember that you are going to die. We don’t have long. Smile, you’re alive. For now ☠⚰
The youtube algorithm doesn't make your video insightful or valuable. It's like thinking the god of Google is your new messiah
Believe he said that some of the COMMENTS from others were insightful, not the video itself...
Bro it would be dope if you shared your fitness and mindset knowledge for free 💪 💯
most first world countries are miserable i left aus because of restrictive guns laws so i moved to the US and now i am a full time hunter
❤❤❤ your perfect the way you are don't build your treasures here on earth, just do the best you can and carry on with your life! When you leave this earth, you will not take any thing with you except for what God gave you! And in case you're wondering, no I'm not a Bible thumper nor do I consider myself to be a Christian, but I do have a good heart ♥ and I have a desire to want to be friends with most everyone! 😊😊😊
@@DylanDallion I appreciate it! Thank you.
@@caljohndavies you are welcome, I hope you are having a wonderful day! Stay kind and stay safe!
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"Having Everything"? You mean THINGS, right? Because it’s so damn obvious to me that what we don’t have are male friends closer than a brother. THAT, we don’t have, and to the degree of separation this is true? Uk in 1st place, followed by the USA, and so forth, where the Catholic Kings Empire resists the degradation, YES! We are miserable without male-male friendships. And additional complication is the gay thing. I’m gay married. I have never cheated in 10 years. Yet, I have to respect this is uncommon. So, I go online and type in the search, men seeking male friends and the gayest sht I’ve ever seen comes up!! I say NO!! NO, I don’t want that!! Sure, I’ll always have to acknowledge and deal with stimulation. "Dude, you in those shorts, it's killing me man" but HONESTY, openness and REAL friendships. Forgive me for making this personal but, I am literally HURTING right now with no one to share with and being a GREAT man. It’s not right. It’s a social dysfunction and it’s got nothing to do with having "everything". We don’t.
"Don't ever get up." Buy Bitcoin.
bitcoin wont pay bills or bread
We haven't experienced spul crushing hyperinflation just yet . It'll happen sooner later.