Do people talk about the peace of being single though? 😮💨 I bumped into an old high school friend and she tells me she works half day because it's enough money for HER, no school fees. She picked up a take away for supper and just standing next to her you feel her peace... not a single negative word about men, or life in general.
What a peaceful space to be in.I'ts so sad to see how the society frowns against choosing to be single or without a child in your 30ies. Do I get lonely? Yes! Do I enjoy my peace? Yes
I have 2 children BUT absolutely know in my heart that I don't want to marry or "settle down." I always knew and it helped me choose myself in every relationship. I absolutely cherish that peace. So the childless and single women - keep protecting that peace 👏👏 I would never judge
I became comfortable with being single the day I chose to be celibate. I removed the sexual attraction, the affection ( cuddles, isfuba.)etc.. and started to shift my focus on character,personality and morals etc… Yhooo, the list of men I was talking to because it’s nice getting a good morning next etc drastically depreciated. I found no value even in keeping some as “ friends”. The heart is very deceitful shame. And ever since then; I don’t know what Loneliness is. Because I’m more focused on what I want.
First of all, you’re very classy. Second of all, this was so wholesome. I’m in my early 40s, divorced with 2 kids. I’m in a committed relationship now, but the seven years I spent being single were some of the best! You have to be at peace with yourself before you ever invite someone in. Society talks, but they don’t really care. Do you
Recently single and gaining such perspective. I love this chat. I became a single mom as I entered my 30s, imma tell you it taught me so much, about myself and the world we live in including how women expect certain things of each other, it’s not always the other gender’s toxicity. Aaagh so many thoughts on this topic and thank you thank you for tackling it. My take away is you affirming that this small part of life doesn’t define a woman’s worth or value. This I want to impart on my kids as well.💕
It does mostly boil down to luck,then you both have to be willing to work at it so that it lasts and is a happy, healthy situation. Kat in a realistic world, it's not all people that will find the real thing, be in a good enough, healthy relationship /marriage, people will get married, but a huge number of them are extremely unhappy& miserable
Worse part is that society is aware of all of these facts, even the fact of kids, ba tseba that it's firstly not all people who want kids, not all people that will be afforded that ability even if they want but we are still so super wierd to people because of patriarchy and brain washing, kore we know but Ai, Culture is the weapon they use. I thought culture is something that changes with generations, especially when we learn and realize the errors in those past cultural norms, we refuse to transform and evolve
Thank you Ntate Ade 😂, thank you Kat. This was a good talk. People should just stay out of people's families, money, relationships, health, stay out of people's business!!!
Why are you single. When are you gonna have kids and get married. Joooooooo hlena! Lenna I won't settle for the bare minimum nkampane ka etsa ngwana sekena le 40 years le my husband. Hello to ntate Ade 😂😂😂😂😂
Naledi is hated by people who envy her. Because what’s there to hate? She is such a gorgeous hun Educated Intelligent - the IQ is up there 💯 Articulate FUNNY without trying And her father made sure ugirl has a nice life. Please go be mad at your parents and leave this girl alone👏
39 and Single for 4 years, since my last relationship I said helllll no am I allowing a man to stress me. I don’t date either because SA men are just not it!
i hope you one day do a meet and greet with your subscribers. your words of wisdom feel like a warm hug to the cold thoughts that linger in my mind. A heart felt hug from you would be the cherry on top of my cake. ❤❤❤
It doesn’t make to have this conversation without taking into account why is biologically wired into you as well. I think the question angers you because there is a little voice inside you telling you that you actually shouldn’t be single at this age. You don’t really look like someone who cares about people’s opinions. Most of these pressures also comes with within but it looks like you ain’t aware of that. And lastly dating is not really designed for 30+ people, That’s my 2 cent.
Do people talk about the peace of being single though? 😮💨 I bumped into an old high school friend and she tells me she works half day because it's enough money for HER, no school fees. She picked up a take away for supper and just standing next to her you feel her peace... not a single negative word about men, or life in general.
What a peaceful space to be in.I'ts so sad to see how the society frowns against choosing to be single or without a child in your 30ies. Do I get lonely? Yes! Do I enjoy my peace? Yes
I have 2 children BUT absolutely know in my heart that I don't want to marry or "settle down." I always knew and it helped me choose myself in every relationship. I absolutely cherish that peace.
So the childless and single women - keep protecting that peace 👏👏 I would never judge
I became comfortable with being single the day I chose to be celibate.
I removed the sexual attraction, the affection ( cuddles, isfuba.)etc.. and started to shift my focus on character,personality and morals etc…
Yhooo, the list of men I was talking to because it’s nice getting a good morning next etc drastically depreciated. I found no value even in keeping some as “ friends”. The heart is very deceitful shame. And ever since then; I don’t know what Loneliness is.
Because I’m more focused on what I want.
From a 38 years old single silent subscriber, thank you sister for this sisterly advice, great one👏
First of all, you’re very classy.
Second of all, this was so wholesome. I’m in my early 40s, divorced with 2 kids. I’m in a committed relationship now, but the seven years I spent being single were some of the best! You have to be at peace with yourself before you ever invite someone in. Society talks, but they don’t really care. Do you
I'm 45, been single for years since hubby passed on.
I long for companionship!
Re benekent , re within mama 😍😍😍 Katli you forgot to ask us to grab our drinks 😂😂😂😂😂
Recently single and gaining such perspective. I love this chat. I became a single mom as I entered my 30s, imma tell you it taught me so much, about myself and the world we live in including how women expect certain things of each other, it’s not always the other gender’s toxicity. Aaagh so many thoughts on this topic and thank you thank you for tackling it. My take away is you affirming that this small part of life doesn’t define a woman’s worth or value. This I want to impart on my kids as well.💕
Please thank ntate Ade on our behalf. The chat was real.❤
This was so wholesome! Thank you katleho!!!
Im 31 and enjoying my single girl era 😊😊
Had to leave what I was watching for this wholesale conversation,thank you for sharing Kats.
It does mostly boil down to luck,then you both have to be willing to work at it so that it lasts and is a happy, healthy situation. Kat in a realistic world, it's not all people that will find the real thing, be in a good enough, healthy relationship /marriage, people will get married, but a huge number of them are extremely unhappy& miserable
Worse part is that society is aware of all of these facts, even the fact of kids, ba tseba that it's firstly not all people who want kids, not all people that will be afforded that ability even if they want but we are still so super wierd to people because of patriarchy and brain washing, kore we know but Ai, Culture is the weapon they use. I thought culture is something that changes with generations, especially when we learn and realize the errors in those past cultural norms, we refuse to transform and evolve
Real talk❤❤, I needed to hear this as a single 36 year old. My perspective has changed already
I am complete and there is NOTHING WRONG with me . I know what I want and I'm gonna get it!
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❤ Am 37yrs and I enjoy being single ❤
what a beautiful and necessary conversation!
Katleho please put me first on the list should you consider selling any of your furniture. Please tuu?
Dankie thanks!!!
Great content as always!!
The woman you are... Ma'am! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
A chat i needed - nice one Katleho. Thank you
Real chat with, Kat❤❤❤
Tjoooo, I'm hear for this Kay, I choose you anytime 😅
Lovely conversation Kat 🌸💕🎀
Each to there own
In the chat 🥰❤️❤️ a very much necessary talk. Thank you Katleho for the enlightenment ❤️
Ntate Ade ke mang hleng, I know I have missed a few episodes, I am guilty 🙈 nthuseng
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Thank you Ntate Ade 😂, thank you Kat. This was a good talk. People should just stay out of people's families, money, relationships, health, stay out of people's business!!!
As always, gems were dropped. Thank you so much. ❤
Thank you sis… such an insightful conversation.
I needed this. Thank you Katleho❤
Conversations we need to have Sis, love this!
Big girls chat 🥰❤ thanks kat🤗
Watching your video I have decided not to entertain or even answer them nxaaaaa! Hae ke kgathetse
Why are you single. When are you gonna have kids and get married. Joooooooo hlena! Lenna I won't settle for the bare minimum nkampane ka etsa ngwana sekena le 40 years le my husband. Hello to ntate Ade 😂😂😂😂😂
Danko 🥰
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Nna ke kopa ntate Ade atlo nyala hlena 😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅
My Boss has been asking me when I am getting married since I started working for him....
You can also get very lonely in a marriage
responding to 8:40 men get asked when are you having a child? and these questions come from other men in a group of friends that have kids
Naledi is hated by people who envy her. Because what’s there to hate?
She is such a gorgeous hun
Educated
Intelligent - the IQ is up there 💯
Articulate
FUNNY without trying
And her father made sure ugirl has a nice life.
Please go be mad at your parents and leave this girl alone👏
Ntate Ade ❤❤❤❤ maita basa
39 and Single for 4 years, since my last relationship I said helllll no am I allowing a man to stress me. I don’t date either because SA men are just not it!
i hope you one day do a meet and greet with your subscribers. your words of wisdom feel like a warm hug to the cold thoughts that linger in my mind. A heart felt hug from you would be the cherry on top of my cake. ❤❤❤
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I love you please
It doesn’t make to have this conversation without taking into account why is biologically wired into you as well. I think the question angers you because there is a little voice inside you telling you that you actually shouldn’t be single at this age. You don’t really look like someone who cares about people’s opinions. Most of these pressures also comes with within but it looks like you ain’t aware of that. And lastly dating is not really designed for 30+ people, That’s my 2 cent.
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