Oh wow, the part where Gary is upset about the guy changing his daughter’s diaper.. he’s a really good dad! How could amber not see that was so wrong?!
Havent never seen That clip but this something to take seriosly, and i Dont have children. I have moore Respect Gary i already have but thank you Gary. Very awful and dismissive behavior of Amber.
She met the guy at Walmart and he was on work release from jail, she barely knew him before she moved him in straight away the way she did with Matt and Andrew. She had Matt do everything with Leah when they were together as well cos she was asleep all day. I don’t blame other Gary for running away.
@@heatherwhite8951No bc amber is crazy and unstable. No sane person chases their baby's dad with a machete. She also beat up Gary you can't blame him for amber being crazy and an unfit mother. He doesn't move her arms and legs for her.
It still pisses me off that all the moms were against Farrah coming back on the show because of her adult video but they're totally fine with an abuser being on the show like it's no big deal because they're besties and Farrah isn't! 🙄 Of course, Farrah isn't that great, but the abuse excuses??? Bullshit
Yes 100 percent and now cate and tyler with their whole little OF business going on I dont see macy wanting nothing to do with them cause they sending the wrong message so fucking hypercritical 😂
I feel so bad for Leah. She doesn't want anything to do with her Mom and wants Kristina to adopt her. I wish she'd let her do it. Kristina and Gary have done an amazing job.
Who would have thought that Gary would have turned into a great dad?!!! I’m so happy he and Kristina have provided a safe, loving and supportive home for Leah.
@@emilynam6084While Gary is a great dad, he is a bit misguided and keeps trying to a force a relationship between amber and leah. He’s mentioned as multiple times it’s important for her to have a relationship with her mom ( lowkey i think he is scared of amber )
Amber doesn’t have to “let her do it”. She has no custody rights at all to Leah. Gary has just been very gracious over the years in letting Amber have access to
Drama i feel for Leah! Her whole life has been on TV 📺. And unfortunately Amber does not see the errors of her ways. And still roughly 14 year's later she has rearly admitted to do wrong. Amber just be true! Stop being a continuous whining victim. We have all had crap happen in all our lives. Gary is the best! I don't blame him for leaving her.
As a abuse survivor for amber to allow a stranger to change that babies diaper is beyond irresponsible. Her continued abuse of gary physical and emotional. The continued emotional abuse of leah her daughter telling her daughter to f off on her birthday on camera. She is literally the worst and shame on mtv for cosigning this narcissistic! 🤮
Amber and Janelle. They both put men over their kids. The latest episode of Janelle upset me saying she’s doing this move to Vegas for “herself” and her “kids” yet baby daddy #2 live there and you quickly realize it wasn’t for what she said it was. They both piss me off
The way she got in his face screaming stop yelling at me when she was the one yelling was crazyyyyy. Then she says you’re yelling and cussing at me just talk. The projection is on another level.
Yeah, a total lack of self awareness for sure. To be able to actually change as a person, you have to recognize your faults, so seems she will be this way a while too
@katella2957 I used to think the same thing until I went back and watched older episodes. Glad he stepped up at some point. But seeing how lazy and hands-off he was before, makes me wonder how much he’s actually doing now as opposed to possibly letting Kristina do the work…
Amber's and janelles kids always made me the saddest. They still do. They didn't deserve to be exposed to all they were exposed to as babies/kids to even as teens now.
High on weed? If so that does not explain her erratic behavior because weed does not do that. Seems like she does have some sort of mental health situation going on and weed actually chills that. Theres medicinal for a reason.
@@rebeccasirstad4919 No not weed lol no one even hinted at that, it’s very well known that she was a crack head and pill popper and has arrest records for it.
@@rebeccasirstad4919 Amber had an opioid problem! I believe she also had a problem with meth, but that one I’m not 100% sure. But she did go to rehab for a pill problem.
I think Amber thought gary would be the one single forever while she moved on immediately. Kristina came along and blew that fantasy of hers right on up.
I was always amazed that they kept a woman on the show that was aggressive, committed multiple domestic violences, and tried to fight other cast members. They paid her to abuse her family on tv
Let's not forget Gary grew up in a abus3ive home as a kid and I *believe* from old interviews that his Dad hurt him. It took him a while to realize how Amberlynn was treating him was not normal. Once he did he was out. I'm proud of him for breaking the cycle.
Honestly, I think this entire show just needs to go already. All these women are way past the teen years. Amber doesn't deserve a dime from the show. The only one honestly who deserves stuff is Leah. The poor first heartbreak was from her own mother, and it's honestly terrible
Poor thing. Leah should be able to say no when it comes to seeing her mother. Amber is verbally abusive and aggressive with her. Actions speak louder than words. Saying that you changed vesus actually changing are two different things.
My sister has some many narcissistic behaviors and her daughter has had a lot of trauma because of it. Their relationship is strained and my sister believes that our whole family talks bad about her when in reality all we do is validate my nieces feelings. Some parents refuse to get out of the victim mentality and take responsibility for their actions.
My brother is the same, one of his children is stuck with him though cause her mom is a dangerous drug addict who has used her for cp before he got main parent custody can’t remember what it’s called but he lives in my moms house in one of the apartments with his daughter and my mom and dad take care of her mostly which is good cause my brother is a worthless jerk parent and acts like he didn’t want to create and take care of children but did it so he acts like a victim and takes it out on others, can stand him. Feel bad for my nieces and nephew all their parents suck and they only love gramma they say and think of her as their parent…
I hate how I judged Gary early on. He has been the stable parent in Leah’s life. I watched first few seasons but not a whole lot after that til recently, Gary may have had no choice in having Leah around Amber due to contractsZ we’ve seen how predatory reality tv contracts can get and people sign their lives away and can’t do anything about it
He was young and learning too but definitely absolutely was a great parent because in the end he has her, and always loved her and that's extremely important. We are humans and parents can make mistakes. But to intentionally hurt them. Nah.
My heart breaks for Leah 😢 the pain in her eyes whenever she has to put up with her sad of an excuse of a "mother". Kristina is leahs real mother, she loves that little girl more than anything ❤
I saw caitlyn and maci try to put gary in his place which was pathetic. Its not about amber its about her daughters safety. Those two are moms and the way they defended amber and protected her was pathetic and stupid.
You’re not a bully. You just don’t censor your opinions and sugarcoat things. And that’s something you don’t see on this platform very often. People typically hold back from sharing how they really feel. It’s refreshing and just one of the reasons I like you!
The least that Amber can do is let poor Leah be adopted by the woman that has been her REAL mother. Just because you gave birth to her that doesn’t give you the title of mom, you need to earn that title. Kristina is Leah’s mom and Leah WANTS to be adopted by Kristina. The best thing that Amber can do is at least do that for Leah. Amber is so damn delusional and selfish.
@@Elizabeth11.11I would say 1 in 4 men experience some form of physical abuse in a relationship during their lifetime, according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) is not “rare”. And it is people like you & your gross comments that contribute to men being over looked.
@@Elizabeth11.11 1 in 4 men experience some form of physical abuse in a relationship during their lifetime, according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV). I would not call that rare. And it is gross & presumptive comments that keep men from coming forward.
She reminds me of my “mom” so freaking bad. Like you said birthing a child doesn’t make you a mom, it’s everything after that does. I’m glad I was able to move in with my grandma, and I’m glad Leah was able to live with Gary and that he was able to find an amazing woman and role model for her.
I am so sorry and I am glad your grandma was there for you. As a mom it just kills me seeing little Leah having to experience all of this ab*se and YOU ALSO DID NOT DESERVE THAT!! You deserved to be loved by your mom 💔💔💔💔 I wish you nothing but the best in life moving forward ❤
I am so glad you got out. It makes you think about all the children who don't get out... who are stuck with their abusive parent, with nowhere else to go. I think about this a lot. At any given moment, there are so many children/people being abused while I sit safely in my home. Anytime I am having a hard time or feeling sorry for myself I remind myself of this. Helps me keep things in perspective.
I'm sorry, girl. I have the same non-relationship with my mom and sometimes I get sad about it. But then I realize my life is so much better without all the chaos.
Soooooo.... she has two kids that don't live with her but it's not her... I understand mental healthproblems because I deal with them every day myself, but my kids always come first. I take good care of myself so I can be the best mom they have. I'm not perfect, I make mistakes everyday. But I'm always there for them, I love them, take care of them and make sure they have everything they need. I can relate to Amber in a way, I can relate to the turmoil in her head but I looked for and found help, take my medications en when I feel lower then usual I take a good look at what's going wrong and I try to change that. Thanks for this video!
This is what annoys me about Macy and Caitlin........ Girls if you were true friends you would tell this B"$C how she really is and how much her acting up is affecting her daughter, you ain't real friends as you grow up you will learn that the people who have the balls to tel you when you acting stupid are the people that are worth keeping in your life!!!
Yeeeesss. I think everyone deserves someone supportive, but that doesn't mean you sign off on everything they do. It's to the point they're enabling her, not helping her get better.
Watching her, is so triggering. I have BPD which she has as well. I hate to admit, that in my younger years.... I did similar things. But I dove into therapy, did the work. I fell on my face many many times. But I kept trying. I now behave totally different. I understand how my behavior affects others. It's MY responsibility to go to therapy, and do the self work. Watching her use her disorder as an excuse, watching her high, watching her lie straight thru her teeth, and most of all watching the way she treats her daughter and the family that takes care of her... Makes me so angry. She needs to take some time and get her 💩 together. She's so selfish. I wanted her to succeed, I wanted to see her heal and grow... But she refuses to do so. And the courts really try and keep parents in their children's lives... So I do understand why Gary tries so hard with Amber. But I also don't think she deserves that grace anymore.
Thank you for taking responsibility for yourself and bettering yourself instead of letting your diagnosis be your excuse not to put in the work. So, SO many people use their diagnosis as a justification why they should be able to stay stagnant and toxic. Props to you!
@@MaraJadeSkky I appreciate that. To b honest, the reason I have BPD is because of the way I was raised(environmental)... But it's MY responsibility to do the work and fix my trauma so I'm not bleeding on people that didn't cut me. I'm a mother, and I had to take a long hard look at myself, my addiction, how I was moving and make some hard decisions. I didn't want to b the reason my children would later have to do their own work, that was totally my fault. I was so angry for so long. And now, I find myself seeing my own faults and wrongs instead of trying to point out everyone else's. Being self aware can b hard, and some of us definitely lack that skill. But if you want to heal, it's definitely possible. I'm almost a complete opposite of what I used to b. And I'm very proud of that. Being a mother, a parent, has been the greatest gift in my life, I cherish it. Thank you again 💜
She lost custody to her because she went after his father with an ax or machete while he was holding their son hiding in a closet 🤦🏽♀️ but it’s everyone else’s fault
This is horrifying. I’ve been watching since the beginning but completely forgot about just how bad everything really was. I don’t blame Leah for wanting no relationship. Thank goodness for Gary and Kristina.
Thanks for this. I watched Teen Mom right from the start but stopped a few years ago, so good to see again. Amber hasn't changed at all. The amount of opportunities she has had compared to most 🤦♀️
Thank God amber at least had a baby with Gary & not another deadbeat. Dr Drew is a whole other problem. I feel like he just added "Dr" in front of his name to make his bs sound important & valid.
Ohh && thank God for Christina too. Leah calls Christina mom for a reason. She raised her. Leah now that she's older sees she is & always has been loved & protected by Gary & Christina. Amber likes to pretend they both block her out of Leah's life, but that's just an excuse to not be there. They've always allowed Amber in Leah's life, even when they prob shouldn't have.
I don't know if it was because I was young and naive to the world, but I used to listen to Dr. Drew on KROQ's Love Lines in the 90s, and I thought he was like some cool and sensible "celebrity" doctor. Now I see him as some quack conspiracy nut with no real interest in helping people.
Omg this literally made me cry. As bad as I hate to admit it it sounds just like my daughter. We have and have had custody of her 2 boys for 7 years now and she still tries to come around swearing she has changed but slurs her words and falls asleep sitting up in the middle of her visits. She had recently been clean for 9 months but on the last month has lost her job her apartment and her car and now the rights to be around her precious sons. My oldest grandson has figured it out on his own. And omg you just said she always picks the man over her boys. EXACTLY So so sad.
I have heard and seen so many stories about narcissistic men in relationships, but it's honestly fascinating to see it flipped here. The woman is the narcissist, and the victim is a man. I know it happens WAY more than most people think, but men tend to suffer in silence when they aren't on an MTV reality show, and I feel like Amber (as a case study) inadvertently helped raise awareness for battered men.
Amber is the WORST 'mum' that I have ever seen! Only for Gary, Leah would be in the system! Gary and Christina have been the best thing in that little girls life!
Jenelle Evans makes Amber Portwood look like Mother of the Year. Check out some of Elle Bee’s videos on Jenelle. - she leaves a trail of death (animal abuse) and destruction (her poor kids) behind her. She belongs in prison, no joke.
@@truecrimefan1433Great! Lots has happened since then. I wasn’t throwing shade by suggesting Elle Bee. Elle Bee has a lot of current information about Jenelle and none of it is positive
@@lulub9421 oh no no I didn't think U were at all sorry if it came across that way I was letting U know incase U hadn't seen it. U actually gave me a new video to watch straight after this last night so thank U 😁 x
My very least favorite would be Farrah, but Amber is a close second. She was awful to everyone. I remember a clip where she almost knocked Gary down the stairs while he was holding a TV. That mess was wild.
She comes to her birthday dinner and then starts talking about a new boyfriend. She’s a terrible mom. She only wants to be a parent when the cameras are on
She's a narcissist. I know people are throwing the narcissist thing loosely but as a victim of a narcissist parent, I can definitely see all the red flags in Amber.
My husband and I share 50/50 custody of our kids...despite several CPS reports. People keep saying "When they get older, they can choose who they live with"....thats a myth. And i would be in trouble if i kept them from him
I relate to Leah SO MUCH. My mom acted just like Amber to the point where some of the things Ambers says or even how she acts I get flashbacks of my mom doing and saying those same exact things. I cut my mom off for good now that I’m 29 and I’ve never felt more free and I think Leah is heading in that same direction. It will never get better because she doesn’t take accountability and she never will
The court will not deny Amber her right to see her daughter, regardless of how Leah feels. Parental rights. When Leah is 18, she can cut her out completely. I am going through a similar situation. Courts do not care how the kids feel.
Hi Kyeluh id love to know your views on the Carly situation because I personally feel that Carly’s parents watched the show and did the right thing by making sure Caitlyn and the dad (forgot his name) don’t interfere with Carly they gave her up for adoption so they don’t have any rights with that being said I sincerely hope Gary uses these recent episodes of teen mom to take to the courts so that they have evidence that this poor girl doesn’t want to see amber you don’t get to abuse/give up your kids for a tv show then try to use said tv show to make money off your kids and their trauma MTV should also be ashamed for enabling these types of exploitation and abuse
i had 1 of those "pitty ME mom" types.. she chose her BoyFriend over us, & she kept us 1st 3 locked up, cuz she thought she thought the courts could raise us better than SHE could.. (she would even lock us OUTSIDE to SLEEP, & when we COULDN'T make it to school the next morning, she'd have us locked up for it) even after i was finally honest with her about how often her BoyFriend would make a pass at me.. (then she started sending me to JAIL) .. even til her dying day, she STILL chose HIM.. (& all i'm left with is abuncha UNanswered questions)
I am so so sorry. Your mother should have protected you, loved you, and kept you safe. THAT is what a mother is supposed to do. I truly believe that after people pass, they see their mistakes in black & white, no more excuses, no more blame shifting. Regardless, your Mother knew she was wrong, even if she could never admit it. Some people are just so damaged in life, they cannot see what they do and the hurtful consequences of their actions. Maybe write her a letter, or write things down as they come up in your mind. Tell her all the things you couldn't when she was alive, because it would be met with denial or excuses. All the things that hurt you, all the things you like simple love and security you wished for and never received. She may not be here anymore, but trust me she will hear it. And let the hurt end with you, not carry in for more generations. Show her and yourself that no matter what she did, your life will be different, your children/loved one's will be treated differently than you were. Sending you a huge hug ❤
The dinner where leah bawled was so fucking sad. i hate amber. atleast farrah grew up and is protecting her daughter at all costs. I dont necessarily agree with everything she allows but that child is safe and loved.
I remember watching Teen Mom & thinking “gosh I’m so scared for how Leah is going to turn out.” I’m happy to see that Gary has raised her to be such a sweet young lady.
I remember watching all this back in the day and so many people were bashing Gary and I never understood why. He took so much and protected his child from an abusive adult as he absolutely should have. Always was teen Gary and always would be. Amber is disgusting
I see women like her on police cams getting arrested, then asking, "What did I do? I didn't do nothing!" after plowing into the side of a school day drunk
The fact she's arguing about how she isn't talking to Leah because Leah isn't messaging her "There is no message to respond to" Its not a childs responsibility to keep a relationship with their parent. Gross
How many times did Amber pull the, “I have custody of Leah” card in the early days when they would fight? She clearly used their child as a weapon against him. She seemed miserable af about being a mom, like her child is a big inconvenience rather than a human being. Everyone hates on MTV for showing her abuse but imagine if they had stopped filming, pulled the crew out and gave Amber the boot… The abuse would’ve continued and no one would’ve known. She wouldn’t have ended up in jail and I think Gary would have put up with her for quite some time with the hopes of maintaining his family. Airing that episode saved Leah and Gary from Amber and also showed men that size difference doesn’t matter, if their girlfriend hits them, it’s abuse.
Oh wow, the part where Gary is upset about the guy changing his daughter’s diaper.. he’s a really good dad! How could amber not see that was so wrong?!
Havent never seen That clip but this something to take seriosly, and i Dont have children.
I have moore Respect Gary i already have but thank you Gary.
Very awful and dismissive behavior of Amber.
She met the guy at Walmart and he was on work release from jail, she barely knew him before she moved him in straight away the way she did with Matt and Andrew. She had Matt do everything with Leah when they were together as well cos she was asleep all day. I don’t blame other Gary for running away.
@@debbiemckeown7626 shes a wack job.
She just saw one less thing that SHE had to do...
@@bangarangbobby insane, abdolutely insane.
Has anyone ever noticed that the people who say, “you need to respect me” deserve the least amount of respect?
Right, and respect no one else around them in the meantime smh
If anything, they're the ones who need to respect others
Literally that’s the most used phrase by someone who deserve absolutely no respect
Absolutely ❤️
That phrase alone is a walking red flag 🚩
There's a reason Amber doesn't have custody of either of her children.
Yea Gary
She’s too lazy to raise them. She doesn’t want to be bothered
@@heatherwhite8951No bc amber is crazy and unstable. No sane person chases their baby's dad with a machete. She also beat up Gary you can't blame him for amber being crazy and an unfit mother. He doesn't move her arms and legs for her.
It still pisses me off that all the moms were against Farrah coming back on the show because of her adult video but they're totally fine with an abuser being on the show like it's no big deal because they're besties and Farrah isn't! 🙄
Of course, Farrah isn't that great, but the abuse excuses??? Bullshit
Whaaaaat??? They allowed Amber back??
I get you! While Farrah isn't exactly the best either but they should have had at least the same energy of Amber (ideally more)
They bully hot chicks ofc
Yes 100 percent and now cate and tyler with their whole little OF business going on I dont see macy wanting nothing to do with them cause they sending the wrong message so fucking hypercritical 😂
Cate and Tyler have an OF?! 😂😂
I feel so bad for Leah. She doesn't want anything to do with her Mom and wants Kristina to adopt her. I wish she'd let her do it. Kristina and Gary have done an amazing job.
Who would have thought that Gary would have turned into a great dad?!!! I’m so happy he and Kristina have provided a safe, loving and supportive home for Leah.
Leah should 100% go no contact with amber. I’m more surprised that she hasn’t already.
Me too😢😭💔
@@emilynam6084While Gary is a great dad, he is a bit misguided and keeps trying to a force a relationship between amber and leah. He’s mentioned as multiple times it’s important for her to have a relationship with her mom ( lowkey i think he is scared of amber )
Amber doesn’t have to “let her do it”. She has no custody rights at all to Leah. Gary has just been very gracious over the years in letting Amber have access to
Why is Amber even on the show? She doesn’t have any of her kids.
Mtv darama 😂
Drama i feel for Leah! Her whole life has been on TV 📺. And unfortunately Amber does not see the errors of her ways. And still roughly 14 year's later she has rearly admitted to do wrong. Amber just be true! Stop being a continuous whining victim. We have all had crap happen in all our lives. Gary is the best! I don't blame him for leaving her.
Only for the drama and ratings
Agree 100%
As a abuse survivor for amber to allow a stranger to change that babies diaper is beyond irresponsible. Her continued abuse of gary physical and emotional. The continued emotional abuse of leah her daughter telling her daughter to f off on her birthday on camera. She is literally the worst and shame on mtv for cosigning this narcissistic! 🤮
Amber and Janelle. They both put men over their kids. The latest episode of Janelle upset me saying she’s doing this move to Vegas for “herself” and her “kids” yet baby daddy #2 live there and you quickly realize it wasn’t for what she said it was. They both piss me off
Yep. They are two sides of the same coin
Agree
Women who call out other women on their bullshit get called a bully.
Your not a bully you tell the truth ❤
The way she got in his face screaming stop yelling at me when she was the one yelling was crazyyyyy. Then she says you’re yelling and cussing at me just talk. The projection is on another level.
And one time she did it in front of the baby too. Stayed with me and makes me sick remembering that
Yeah, a total lack of self awareness for sure. To be able to actually change as a person, you have to recognize your faults, so seems she will be this way a while too
I dont think you're a bully Kyeluh. I think people dont like 'opinionated' women. Love your videos!! 🐸✨
Gary has always been the best dad on Teen Mom by far. He’s been there for his daughter , love his wife too.
I’m so glad he was able to get out of that abusive relationship and provide Leah with a loving mother figure.
He cheated on his wife so I wouldn’t consider him a good husband but I do think he cares for his daughter the most as a parent
He is such a POS. he bated amber so much. He did it on purpose. Give me a break. Best dad ever. Ridiculous
@@ILOVETRUMP-d2ook Amber😂
@katella2957 I used to think the same thing until I went back and watched older episodes. Glad he stepped up at some point. But seeing how lazy and hands-off he was before, makes me wonder how much he’s actually doing now as opposed to possibly letting Kristina do the work…
Farrah, amber and Janelle…absolutely horrific
I agree fully. None of them should have custody
Nightmare blunt rotation.
@@Meggeylmaooo
Amber's and janelles kids always made me the saddest. They still do. They didn't deserve to be exposed to all they were exposed to as babies/kids to even as teens now.
Dr. Drew has never held Amber accountable, not even to this day. IDK what the fuck is wrong with that man
I always assumed that he was scared of her lol. I don’t think he gives a shit about any of them tbh
@@floydthebarber5452 that's highly likely because she was and is a terror
He has NPD he’s said it before
She got something good on him obviously. Same with Gary.
He's a Hollywood sellout
And the fact she also has a 5 year old son she ignores too. She abandoned not just one child on national television, but TWO!
Amber was also high out of her mind for most of this show so her erratic behavior makes more sense. It doesn’t excuse her being abusive though.
High on weed? If so that does not explain her erratic behavior because weed does not do that. Seems like she does have some sort of mental health situation going on and weed actually chills that. Theres medicinal for a reason.
@@rebeccasirstad4919 definitely not weed lol
@@rebeccasirstad4919 No not weed lol no one even hinted at that, it’s very well known that she was a crack head and pill popper and has arrest records for it.
I believing was pills and meth
@@rebeccasirstad4919 Amber had an opioid problem! I believe she also had a problem with meth, but that one I’m not 100% sure. But she did go to rehab for a pill problem.
She really physically abused Gary on camera multiple times and expected nothing to come of it.
I think Amber thought gary would be the one single forever while she moved on immediately. Kristina came along and blew that fantasy of hers right on up.
Um, no, he still let's Amber run the show.
I was always amazed that they kept a woman on the show that was aggressive, committed multiple domestic violences, and tried to fight other cast members. They paid her to abuse her family on tv
Drama like this creates revenue for the tv
Let's not forget Gary grew up in a abus3ive home as a kid and I *believe* from old interviews that his Dad hurt him. It took him a while to realize how Amberlynn was treating him was not normal. Once he did he was out. I'm proud of him for breaking the cycle.
Her name is amber not amberlynn like miss amberlynn reid
@@danielleburke87honestly I feel like Amber is how Amberlynn would’ve ended up if she were straight lol
He didn't tho, he still needs her around for some twisted reason.
Amber calling herself a “good mom” 🙄🙄🙄
She has even said she's "a damn good mother" 😂😂😂
The second she hit Gary she should have been fired
But he can be an adult that sleeps with teenagers and keep his spot right?
Exactly 💯
@@loniloo9521proof?
Most of those OG teen moms are super self centered. Caitlyn and Tyler are something else too. I feel like everyone loves them, but I find them horrid.
Based on recent events I've lost some respect for Caitlyn and Tyler. Those two need some serious help.
Chelsea is my favorite mom
Maci is a wonderful mom too
I know it’s not right but when she says “daddy’s a cheater” and Leah kind of goes yahoo too is always sooooooo funny to me. I have issues.
Right. If Gary had said "Mommy's a disgusting mooch on society " that psychotic skank would have went apeshit 😂😂
Growing up is realizing that Gary was always a good guy/father
Aside for the whole he was 20 and she was 15/16 thing. He is a damn good dad.
Honestly, I think this entire show just needs to go already. All these women are way past the teen years.
Amber doesn't deserve a dime from the show. The only one honestly who deserves stuff is Leah. The poor first heartbreak was from her own mother, and it's honestly terrible
Poor thing. Leah should be able to say no when it comes to seeing her mother. Amber is verbally abusive and aggressive with her. Actions speak louder than words. Saying that you changed vesus actually changing are two different things.
Agreed, she is one of the most disliked "teens moms" to me. I love when Gary was saying "he is not to change her diapers" so much respect for Gary!
Amber and Jenelle are the worst teen moms
And Farrah
And Maci
@@LargeMarge8671lol Maci and Kail are awesome moms.
My sister has some many narcissistic behaviors and her daughter has had a lot of trauma because of it. Their relationship is strained and my sister believes that our whole family talks bad about her when in reality all we do is validate my nieces feelings.
Some parents refuse to get out of the victim mentality and take responsibility for their actions.
My sister is the same way w/her son. Never shows him empathy or love. He doesn't live with her anymore luckily.
My brother is the same, one of his children is stuck with him though cause her mom is a dangerous drug addict who has used her for cp before he got main parent custody can’t remember what it’s called but he lives in my moms house in one of the apartments with his daughter and my mom and dad take care of her mostly which is good cause my brother is a worthless jerk parent and acts like he didn’t want to create and take care of children but did it so he acts like a victim and takes it out on others, can stand him. Feel bad for my nieces and nephew all their parents suck and they only love gramma they say and think of her as their parent…
I hate how I judged Gary early on. He has been the stable parent in Leah’s life. I watched first few seasons but not a whole lot after that til recently, Gary may have had no choice in having Leah around Amber due to contractsZ we’ve seen how predatory reality tv contracts can get and people sign their lives away and can’t do anything about it
He wasn't always great but Amber was definitely no angel. He was always there for Leah, that's more than I can say for Amber
He was young and learning too but definitely absolutely was a great parent because in the end he has her, and always loved her and that's extremely important. We are humans and parents can make mistakes. But to intentionally hurt them. Nah.
Amber hasn’t been bullied enough tbh
My heart breaks for Leah 😢 the pain in her eyes whenever she has to put up with her sad of an excuse of a "mother". Kristina is leahs real mother, she loves that little girl more than anything ❤
The way amber treats Leah is absolutely disgusting, I can not believe she has not been fired from teen mom
I saw caitlyn and maci try to put gary in his place which was pathetic. Its not about amber its about her daughters safety. Those two are moms and the way they defended amber and protected her was pathetic and stupid.
Caitlyn and Maci are piss poor excuses for women. They are just pathetic!!
You’re not a bully. You just don’t censor your opinions and sugarcoat things. And that’s something you don’t see on this platform very often. People typically hold back from sharing how they really feel. It’s refreshing and just one of the reasons I like you!
I swear if the genders were swapped Gary wouldn’t have been on a single episode 😒
That proposal was ROUGH to watch. It brings me back to stupid, pointless fights in my past relationships. Ugh
The least that Amber can do is let poor Leah be adopted by the woman that has been her REAL mother. Just because you gave birth to her that doesn’t give you the title of mom, you need to earn that title. Kristina is Leah’s mom and Leah WANTS to be adopted by Kristina. The best thing that Amber can do is at least do that for Leah. Amber is so damn delusional and selfish.
I wonder if Leah has seen this old footage of her amazing father being abused? That would put the nail in the coffin for me
I’m sure she has. She has her own phone.
They might have a parental block for certain topics installed. I know I would.
Probably, besides people at school probably talk to her about it
She's abused every single partner she's had but still acts confused why people would think she's a murderer
If it takes women at least seven times on average to leave an abusive relatinship..it makes you wonder what the average is for men.
Men are rarely abused so probably pretty quickly 🤷🏻♀️
@@Elizabeth11.11I would say 1 in 4 men experience some form of physical abuse in a relationship during their lifetime, according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) is not “rare”.
And it is people like you & your gross comments that contribute to men being over looked.
@@Elizabeth11.11 1 in 4 men experience some form of physical abuse in a relationship during their lifetime, according to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV).
I would not call that rare. And it is gross & presumptive comments that keep men from coming forward.
@@Elizabeth11.11yes they are. They just don’t speak up about it because they’re “a man” and “should be able to handle it” and “are bigger”
@@luvrgrl32they should hit back!
Amber has alway wanted all her men to wait on her hand + foot, + she has never been a Mom.Imo
She reminds me of my “mom” so freaking bad. Like you said birthing a child doesn’t make you a mom, it’s everything after that does. I’m glad I was able to move in with my grandma, and I’m glad Leah was able to live with Gary and that he was able to find an amazing woman and role model for her.
I am so sorry and I am glad your grandma was there for you. As a mom it just kills me seeing little Leah having to experience all of this ab*se and YOU ALSO DID NOT DESERVE THAT!! You deserved to be loved by your mom 💔💔💔💔 I wish you nothing but the best in life moving forward ❤
I am so glad you got out. It makes you think about all the children who don't get out... who are stuck with their abusive parent, with nowhere else to go. I think about this a lot. At any given moment, there are so many children/people being abused while I sit safely in my home. Anytime I am having a hard time or feeling sorry for myself I remind myself of this. Helps me keep things in perspective.
I'm sorry, girl. I have the same non-relationship with my mom and sometimes I get sad about it. But then I realize my life is so much better without all the chaos.
Aw. I've never had grandparents. It seems like such a more unconditional love so it's always fascinating to hear stories like this. Glad you got out ❤
Bless your heart. No egg donor should ever be called mom.
Soooooo.... she has two kids that don't live with her but it's not her... I understand mental healthproblems because I deal with them every day myself, but my kids always come first. I take good care of myself so I can be the best mom they have. I'm not perfect, I make mistakes everyday. But I'm always there for them, I love them, take care of them and make sure they have everything they need. I can relate to Amber in a way, I can relate to the turmoil in her head but I looked for and found help, take my medications en when I feel lower then usual I take a good look at what's going wrong and I try to change that.
Thanks for this video!
This is what annoys me about Macy and Caitlin........ Girls if you were true friends you would tell this B"$C how she really is and how much her acting up is affecting her daughter, you ain't real friends as you grow up you will learn that the people who have the balls to tel you when you acting stupid are the people that are worth keeping in your life!!!
Yeeeesss. I think everyone deserves someone supportive, but that doesn't mean you sign off on everything they do. It's to the point they're enabling her, not helping her get better.
This woman is so toxic. I hope her daughter is ok. She deserved a better mom than this basket case.
Watching her, is so triggering. I have BPD which she has as well. I hate to admit, that in my younger years.... I did similar things. But I dove into therapy, did the work. I fell on my face many many times. But I kept trying. I now behave totally different. I understand how my behavior affects others. It's MY responsibility to go to therapy, and do the self work. Watching her use her disorder as an excuse, watching her high, watching her lie straight thru her teeth, and most of all watching the way she treats her daughter and the family that takes care of her... Makes me so angry. She needs to take some time and get her 💩 together. She's so selfish. I wanted her to succeed, I wanted to see her heal and grow... But she refuses to do so. And the courts really try and keep parents in their children's lives... So I do understand why Gary tries so hard with Amber. But I also don't think she deserves that grace anymore.
Thank you for taking responsibility for yourself and bettering yourself instead of letting your diagnosis be your excuse not to put in the work. So, SO many people use their diagnosis as a justification why they should be able to stay stagnant and toxic. Props to you!
@@MaraJadeSkky I appreciate that. To b honest, the reason I have BPD is because of the way I was raised(environmental)... But it's MY responsibility to do the work and fix my trauma so I'm not bleeding on people that didn't cut me. I'm a mother, and I had to take a long hard look at myself, my addiction, how I was moving and make some hard decisions. I didn't want to b the reason my children would later have to do their own work, that was totally my fault. I was so angry for so long. And now, I find myself seeing my own faults and wrongs instead of trying to point out everyone else's. Being self aware can b hard, and some of us definitely lack that skill. But if you want to heal, it's definitely possible. I'm almost a complete opposite of what I used to b. And I'm very proud of that. Being a mother, a parent, has been the greatest gift in my life, I cherish it. Thank you again 💜
He did a DAM GOOD JOB FOR BEING A YOUNG TEEN HIMSELF 😮😊
He wasn't a teen when he was sleeping with Amber, he was in his 20's
He did a great job!
@@zampano6363he was 3 years older
She lost custody to her because she went after his father with an ax or machete while he was holding their son hiding in a closet 🤦🏽♀️ but it’s everyone else’s fault
I love that you started this video talking about your bangs because when I clicked on the video I was literally thinking "ooh cute bangs!"
This is horrifying. I’ve been watching since the beginning but completely forgot about just how bad everything really was. I don’t blame Leah for wanting no relationship. Thank goodness for Gary and Kristina.
Thanks for this. I watched Teen Mom right from the start but stopped a few years ago, so good to see again. Amber hasn't changed at all. The amount of opportunities she has had compared to most 🤦♀️
Thank God amber at least had a baby with Gary & not another deadbeat. Dr Drew is a whole other problem. I feel like he just added "Dr" in front of his name to make his bs sound important & valid.
Ohh && thank God for Christina too. Leah calls Christina mom for a reason. She raised her. Leah now that she's older sees she is & always has been loved & protected by Gary & Christina. Amber likes to pretend they both block her out of Leah's life, but that's just an excuse to not be there. They've always allowed Amber in Leah's life, even when they prob shouldn't have.
I don't know if it was because I was young and naive to the world, but I used to listen to Dr. Drew on KROQ's Love Lines in the 90s, and I thought he was like some cool and sensible "celebrity" doctor. Now I see him as some quack conspiracy nut with no real interest in helping people.
Omg this literally made me cry. As bad as I hate to admit it it sounds just like my daughter. We have and have had custody of her 2 boys for 7 years now and she still tries to come around swearing she has changed but slurs her words and falls asleep sitting up in the middle of her visits. She had recently been clean for 9 months but on the last month has lost her job her apartment and her car and now the rights to be around her precious sons. My oldest grandson has figured it out on his own. And omg you just said she always picks the man over her boys. EXACTLY So so sad.
Thank you for loving those kids and putting them 1st while their "mother" won't. Bless them, no child deserves this.
I have heard and seen so many stories about narcissistic men in relationships, but it's honestly fascinating to see it flipped here.
The woman is the narcissist, and the victim is a man. I know it happens WAY more than most people think, but men tend to suffer in silence when they aren't on an MTV reality show, and I feel like Amber (as a case study) inadvertently helped raise awareness for battered men.
You’re def NOT a bully
Wait Amber has fans?! People actually stick up for her behavior?
Well, people like Caitlyn and Maci, so not really 😂😂😂😂😂
Yep ! People that are just like her
Gary recieves more credit for stepping up for that little girl
Gary is the most amazing parent!! Im so sorry that Leah has such a sorry excuse of a person for a mother. Leah sees right thru her mother's bullshit.
Never seen her that sad and distraught over Leah. Only a man can make her care like that.
She gets sad and distraught over Everything 😭😭😭😭
Amber is the WORST 'mum' that I have ever seen! Only for Gary, Leah would be in the system! Gary and Christina have been the best thing in that little girls life!
Amber always tries to get into Leah’s life when she gets a man. It’s pathetic.
omg your imitation of ambers fake laugh is hilariously on point 💀💀💀😆😆😆
I remember being sick to my stomach when she assaulted Gary. Such a double standard. If a man did that, they would have arrested her
It's disgusting how MTV supports her, very comfortably too, when she's never raised either of her kids.
Jenelle Evans makes Amber Portwood look like Mother of the Year. Check out some of Elle Bee’s videos on Jenelle. - she leaves a trail of death (animal abuse) and destruction (her poor kids) behind her. She belongs in prison, no joke.
She's done a video on Janelle about ten months ago 😊
@@truecrimefan1433Great! Lots has happened since then. I wasn’t throwing shade by suggesting Elle Bee. Elle Bee has a lot of current information about Jenelle and none of it is positive
@@lulub9421 oh no no I didn't think U were at all sorry if it came across that way I was letting U know incase U hadn't seen it. U actually gave me a new video to watch straight after this last night so thank U 😁 x
I'm so thankful you showed the one in the Rudolph outfit I felt so bad for Leah I thank God that sweet girl has Gary and Kristen
I meant Kristina (autocorrect) sorry
My very least favorite would be Farrah, but Amber is a close second. She was awful to everyone. I remember a clip where she almost knocked Gary down the stairs while he was holding a TV. That mess was wild.
Okay *agreed*
Farrah, Amber and Jenelle are the worst
She comes to her birthday dinner and then starts talking about a new boyfriend. She’s a terrible mom. She only wants to be a parent when the cameras are on
She's a narcissist. I know people are throwing the narcissist thing loosely but as a victim of a narcissist parent, I can definitely see all the red flags in Amber.
You're 💯 right! She reminds me of my mother..🤷🏽♀️
Gary, they could never make me hate you!
My husband and I share 50/50 custody of our kids...despite several CPS reports. People keep saying "When they get older, they can choose who they live with"....thats a myth. And i would be in trouble if i kept them from him
I relate to Leah SO MUCH. My mom acted just like Amber to the point where some of the things Ambers says or even how she acts I get flashbacks of my mom doing and saying those same exact things. I cut my mom off for good now that I’m 29 and I’ve never felt more free and I think Leah is heading in that same direction. It will never get better because she doesn’t take accountability and she never will
How can you say Amber is the worst when Jenelle is still around kids???
The court will not deny Amber her right to see her daughter, regardless of how Leah feels. Parental rights. When Leah is 18, she can cut her out completely. I am going through a similar situation. Courts do not care how the kids feel.
Yep same here
Gary didn’t have a dad growing up, maybe that’s why he never cut Amber off from Leah.
I’ll never forget when she kicked him in the back as he was walking down a flight of stairs carrying a television. Brutal.
I get so excited to open UA-cam and see a new video from you oh lord these recent drama videos have been my FAVORITE
Hi Kyeluh id love to know your views on the Carly situation because I personally feel that Carly’s parents watched the show and did the right thing by making sure Caitlyn and the dad (forgot his name) don’t interfere with Carly they gave her up for adoption so they don’t have any rights with that being said I sincerely hope Gary uses these recent episodes of teen mom to take to the courts so that they have evidence that this poor girl doesn’t want to see amber you don’t get to abuse/give up your kids for a tv show then try to use said tv show to make money off your kids and their trauma MTV should also be ashamed for enabling these types of exploitation and abuse
i had 1 of those "pitty ME mom" types.. she chose her BoyFriend over us, & she kept us 1st 3 locked up, cuz she thought she thought the courts could raise us better than SHE could.. (she would even lock us OUTSIDE to SLEEP, & when we COULDN'T make it to school the next morning, she'd have us locked up for it) even after i was finally honest with her about how often her BoyFriend would make a pass at me.. (then she started sending me to JAIL) .. even til her dying day, she STILL chose HIM.. (& all i'm left with is abuncha UNanswered questions)
I am so so sorry. Your mother should have protected you, loved you, and kept you safe. THAT is what a mother is supposed to do. I truly believe that after people pass, they see their mistakes in black & white, no more excuses, no more blame shifting. Regardless, your Mother knew she was wrong, even if she could never admit it. Some people are just so damaged in life, they cannot see what they do and the hurtful consequences of their actions. Maybe write her a letter, or write things down as they come up in your mind. Tell her all the things you couldn't when she was alive, because it would be met with denial or excuses. All the things that hurt you, all the things you like simple love and security you wished for and never received. She may not be here anymore, but trust me she will hear it. And let the hurt end with you, not carry in for more generations. Show her and yourself that no matter what she did, your life will be different, your children/loved one's will be treated differently than you were. Sending you a huge hug ❤
I am very sorry that happened to you. I have my own narcissistic monster that calls herself my mother.
MTV should be ashamed for allowing the stuff they did and keeping Amber on the show. She should've been fired yeaarsss ago!
The dinner where leah bawled was so fucking sad. i hate amber. atleast farrah grew up and is protecting her daughter at all costs. I dont necessarily agree with everything she allows but that child is safe and loved.
Doesn’t Amber have a son too? Doesn’t the dad also have full custody of him as well?
Welcome to the bang life! My bangs take the lead and I just follow - they’re uncontrollable 😂
I’m so glad I found your channel. I’ve been wanting to watch someone talk about teen mom “stars” lol.
Girl same!! Couldn't have said it better myself, seriously!! 🥰🥰 Great video!! 👍🏻👍🏻
Gary needs to stop exposing Leah to Amber even if it means the end of the MTV gravy train 💜
This is a hard fn watch n I love your commentary. Geez la weez
I remember watching Teen Mom & thinking “gosh I’m so scared for how Leah is going to turn out.” I’m happy to see that Gary has raised her to be such a sweet young lady.
I remember watching all this back in the day and so many people were bashing Gary and I never understood why. He took so much and protected his child from an abusive adult as he absolutely should have. Always was teen Gary and always would be. Amber is disgusting
I see women like her on police cams getting arrested, then asking, "What did I do? I didn't do nothing!" after plowing into the side of a school day drunk
The fact she's arguing about how she isn't talking to Leah because Leah isn't messaging her
"There is no message to respond to"
Its not a childs responsibility to keep a relationship with their parent. Gross
I love hearing you react to these because it’s exactly how I feel and it feels cathartic!! It makes my BLOOD BOIL as a mom 😭😭💔💔
How many times did Amber pull the, “I have custody of Leah” card in the early days when they would fight? She clearly used their child as a weapon against him. She seemed miserable af about being a mom, like her child is a big inconvenience rather than a human being.
Everyone hates on MTV for showing her abuse but imagine if they had stopped filming, pulled the crew out and gave Amber the boot… The abuse would’ve continued and no one would’ve known. She wouldn’t have ended up in jail and I think Gary would have put up with her for quite some time with the hopes of maintaining his family. Airing that episode saved Leah and Gary from Amber and also showed men that size difference doesn’t matter, if their girlfriend hits them, it’s abuse.
I think bipolar disorder is serious, and she definitely is repeating cycles of abusive behaviors.
It’s tragic
I love when she says something wild and you and I glance at each other, lol. Love that for us.
You need to do a deep dive on Janelle
Leah is growing into a gorgeous young woman...Im so glad she has Kristina in her life shes an amazing role model.