He keeps saying he was young but didn't he say he was older than the mother? Imagine how hard it was for her to raise that young man by herself and she never got a chance to use the cop out of "being young". These sorry men kill me 😒.
I really didn’t see the dad as making excuses. He told his truth, but kept getting asked the same questions differently as if expecting a different answer. So of course if he says the same thing 6 times, it’s because that was the original answer. He might have been older than the mom, but men do mature at a different rate than women so him being older doesn’t make him more mature.
Nah, the dad is just a walking tower of excuses. He did for his other kids. They lived down the street from each other. He is just trifling. He has made enough excuses for himself. He does need anyone to excuse his cowardly behavior.
@@maciawilliams9760it’s not too late for you to redact this statement. Especially the portion you wrote about his age. That was gross. He was obviously an adult while the mom was a teen. He made excuses. This doesn’t mean he can’t be great moving forward but he did have a pretty weak excuse
Your father walking right past you as if you were nobody to him is so heartbreaking. I still don't even feel that he truly cares as much as he should, it's probably to alleviate his guilt of abandoning and rejecting his son
@@IdontHOEnoMOE💯 Statically men don’t always get it right, in parent hood. Thats not an excuse it’s a fact! I commend this father, for taking the backlash for not being there, but hopefully he gets the chance to do it right a second time.
It's so not fair that men of this generation are being the blame for everything!!! Unless you grew up and heard that you were gonna die by 25 over and over then you don't know this man's mindset!
@@IdontHOEnoMOE would you say the same if the mother just up and left her sick husband and young child? After 24 years theres just no more excuses to give especially when he was in his other children's lives
We need to take a moment and applaud Mom for the amazing job she did raising such a brilliant man. Mom is an embodiment of strength, intelligence, beauty, positivity, and much more. Javon is bold, emotionally intelligent, handsome, and much more. Dad defines excuses, ignorance, deadbeat..... I just can't get past those three without cursing. I truly hope he makes a change cos Javon just gave him a lifeline for redemption.
@@IdontHOEnoMOE yes, we men have problems too; both those inflicted upon us and those we inflict upon others. Men can also be held accountable for their actions. Happy Men’s Mental Health Awareness month!
@@IdontHOEnoMOEand yet women have been for decades in the US overwhelmingly been the ones suffering the mental health issues from being the ones raising our babies alone while men make lame excuses not to and then blame us for everything that's wrong with a society that we have very little power in.
That was one of the dumbest reasons for staying out of your son's life. The dad is selfish and inconsiderate. He just wanted to hurt his mother when he got on child support but in the end hurt his child..
Karamo. Please start giving mutual advice and stop shading toward and placing victimization as a defense to young gay men. You shade in these episodes.
@@NoPhux71you didn't even watch the episode. He was an audit and she was 16. He left her when she was diagnosed with lupus and when he assumed she placed him on child support after he refused to give her the insurance for their child.… why are you talking about shade and comparing genders???? 🥴🥴🥴
Javon is handsome and looking just like daddy. Im happy mom was a positive parent that raised him to be a wonderful person. Dad need to be ashamed of himself. Words can't make up for the lost 24 years .shame on you
@@mywilliams2002I felt your smile in my heart when they hugged. 🥰 Your genuine spirit shines bright. That shows that all you ever wanted is for them to have a proper father and son relationship. May God bless you, your son, his father, and your health.
The audience clapping because he has an email in his child’s name is crazy 😂 Like what the hell will that show or prove. It felt like he was trying to blame the mom so many times but he knows it wouldn’t fly. I hope he takes the initiative to get to know his son and they both can heal and move forward.
MEN PAY ATTENTION......May this young man get the healing he deserves and the father too!!! TOO MANY MEN ABANDON THEIR CHILDREN LEAVING THEM LOST.....THE LONGER YOU WAIT TO DO THE RIGHT THING THE HARDER IT WILL GET
The hug immediately made me cry. Too many men don’t help raise their kids and it’s sad at the amount of single mothers there are. I hope they actually build a relationship and continue. 😢
They all want a relationship when they get old and are looking for people to care for them. They have no problem whipping out that penis but when they have to pay up they run away.
I can tell that Dad really doesn’t know how to emotionally process or respond vulnerably. He is very much in his head about a lot of things! It’s obvious no one ever taught him how to tap into his heart space or to verbalize what he feels .. The SUN shows a balance of logic and emotion which why karmo could tell the roles would quickly switch to him parenting his dad . The message of this episode is to make sure you demonstrate to your children;, male or female , about how to attain an emotional and mental balance .. Spiritual connection is also important.. I can tell they’ll be ok . Once dad’s nerves are settled he’ll be great. I also wish they brought his siblings on the show , just to get more insight into who Dad has become fr. Anywho , great episode Karamo make sure we get an update 🙌🏾🫶🏾
@@Moody-mR4 could be 🤷🏾♀️but that’ll take his dad learning to be vulnerable enough to express that . I really feel like his dad is afraid of something. Or maybe he was ashamed because his sun is gay 💆🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ .. idk I hope they get through it .
The look on his moms face when they embraced 🥹❤️ his dad was a horrible father to him growing up but I really hope he can step up going forward so they can build a healthy relationship. The way he hugged him, you can see how much he wants his dad in his life. I wish them the best 🙏🏾
He's very awakened, mature, very aware of his emotions and of himself, but also very articulate. He came here with clear and precise questions and took a lot on himself while showing his anger and pain. His mom did a very good job ! The moment he hugged his dad was beautiful, he knows his dad was embarrassed but before he released that "pressure" he was exerting he wanted answers first. It was so beautiful omg and then the hug from everyone at the end. I really enjoyed this episode
Just say that you chose to be a dead beat to Javon and take accountability WITHOUT the excuses!! Shout out to mom for having the strength to raise a strong, educated black man ALONE in this cold world!
I can understand where the son was coming from when he said if you don’t plan to be intentional with being in my life then don’t bother. And I think thats fair coming from him being an adult with the dad being absent up to that point. Don’t open that door if you are honestly ready because thatll just cause more hurt. Hopefully the dad keeps his word
From his first recording He’s has more excuses than anyone I know. He blames everyone for his lack of responsibility, for his feelings of feeling inadequate, lack of maturity.
I can respect dad for finally stepping up....he has been the most honest guest I have ever seen......sad that he had the bad decisions making....but recognize that he is making the effort to right his wrongs.
His father deserves a chance- I can tell he now's he messed up and I can also tell he genuinely wants to make up and build some sort of relationship. Some parents NEVER come around- life's too short - you don't wanna have any regrets one day like your father has
Yes I think he should give him a genuine chance with boundaries and slow steps and if it doesn't work at least he can have the peace that he gave it a try with his father.
I agree, healing takes time on both ends and the fact that this man is atleast speaking about his poor decisions is more than I have seen alot of parents do. His willingness to heal this must be supported with actions and Javon deserves time to emotionally navigate trusting his father again
I feel like his neglect wasn’t malicious. He seems like someone who is a procrastinator; wanting to do it but never building up enough courage to do it.
I was a single parent for 18 years. Right before my child turned 19 years old she ran into her sperm donor at the mall. Only to build a relationship with him and find out that he was diagnosed with prostate cancer.. he died shortly after.. and then I was diagnosed with crohn's disease.. this man clearly is running from his responsibilities and it has a lot to do with financial, I'm glad to see that he is on in the life is too short these kids are truly traumatized behind absent fathers!!
This was good. Javon, hunny.. if you ever see this comment. Your poise and communication is on point. You asked key questions that made him accountable. Very commendable of you. You seem like a wholesome young man. I’m sure your mom is so proud and blessed to have a son like you. The love and support you show your mom is like a beam of light, it’s so beautiful to see. Love how you just gave your father a hug.. like you empathized with where he was at and just embraced him.. so many people just need a hug. It is healing. Bless you all ❤
He is definitely no one of the worst parents that have been on this show and if you can say that I wonder about you. Cus I seen abuse on this show many times.
@@latriceclark5731True indeed. Not to make an excuse but for the most part, men mature slower than women statically. This man said he was inmmature and young during that time.
@@Barbasketball men "mature slower" in the sense that society allows them to. women don't get that, the expectations to be emotional mules starts in teenaged years. IE 'boys will be boys'...
I Just Hope Pops Keeps His Word and Build a Relationship with His Son. Many of Us Have Gone Through This Dilemma. Some of Us Had Neither Parent. So, if He Can Start To Be a Part of His Son's Life, He Can Heal at Least a Little Bit.
I have experienced the same things this mother & son went through. The child support, the medical insurance, the rejection, still walking in love despite the innocent child being rejected. But Ive seen GOD turn things that was meant to destroy you to turn out for your good. 👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
Your mom this, your mom, her family, I wasn't ready. Tells a lot right from the jump. Not many are actually ready and regardless it's a learning process can't learn and grow if you don't put the work in.
Oooh bless this beautiful soul, I truly hope the son does not carry the weight of this relationship...please listen to Karamo and take care of that beautiful soul. This Dad came back to clear his conscience, I hope he doesn't need a kidney or something from him. He is so blessed that his son was so respectful & open to receiving back, despite how he suffered when a grown man rejected him.
I must actually say this is my favorite episode. And loved that they were able to talk as adults remained composed and hug …. Hope to get a update of them in the future
I didn't have my biological dad in my life.............. and I don't care. That's not lip service either, I honestly do not care. My mother was a crackhead too so I didn't have any biological responsible parents. Yrs ago, my biological dad reached out to me IN TEARS. I never asked, "Why weren't you there for me?! Because I honestly didn't care. He BEGGED me for forgiveness and w/o hesitation, I granted him his request. YHVH was my dad. And He raised me well. And I wouldn't exchange my Father in heaven for your father on earth.
Reading your comment broke my heart. I’m sorry 😢I want to ask you how’s your relationship w/ your dad now if you don’t mind me asking? If you don’t want to answer I understand.
✨🙏🏾✨What A Great Show Great Advice✨ To Watch A Black Man Trying To Grow, Be Humble & Accountable Was Heartfelt To Watch & A Beautiful Black STRONG Sistah Have PEACE At The End Brought Tears Of Joy To My Eyes🥹I Pray That They All Be Well With Love🙏🏾KARAMO HAVING A SAFE SPACE FOR GROWING EVERYTHING✨🙏🏾✨ LOVE ME SOME ✨KARAM💖✨🧚🏾✨💫
I think Dad is afraid of rejection. Dad has a lot of pain too. Not making excuses on dad being out of his life. But clearly Dad has some confident issues and seems like he wrestles with himself with guilt and shame that keeps him paralyzed in his past, instead of using the guilt and shame to move him to do better!!! However, I’m happy he is trying to repair the relationship with his son. I just hope the dad gains emotional stability to keep the relationship with his son. Dad honestly needs therapy in my opinion to keep this relationship healthy!!!
You know i can beat the father down all day. I looked and i observed his facial expressions and his movements and all. I believe this wasn’t all for a show! I believe he honestly knew he messed up and want to have a relationship with his son. He actually was in pain as well. I saw the look in eyes and was surprised not a tear dropped but i saw the the watery eyes. We can truly be lost in any given situation! I truly hope that he stays in contact with his son so that they can get to know each other more and build the best relationship ever!
The son is very intelligent , Boys need the presence of their father or else they will hate you for the rest of their lives ,the damage when you reject them is irreparable, good they've reconciled ,they need each other
I think the daddy doesn’t have the words I think!!he knows he messed up but he was young dealing with what his family was saying but this child deserved more
As a gay man who had a strained relationship with his dad for similar reasons as he did this was touching to me and when I finally got back with my dad it was a huge burden was lifted off my shoulders. I no longer was in pain. I hope both guys kept their word
Javon recognizing that his father just couldnt even on the show. Seeing his father get completely stuck and telling his father to "come here.." THAT DID IT FOR ME 😭
The son is extremely handsome, and his eyebrows are fire...oh yeah and he is very intelligent and articulate. Mama did well raising him. Hope that papi keeps his promise.
they dont need him. Mom did an amazing job raising her son, he turned out to be so emotionally intelligent and mature and both mom and son seem like great people.
Awwwwwweeeee his son.actually seems way more emotional stable than him. I believe that the interference of family members could have driven the father away and made him resentful. It's no excuse however he's human 😢. Wishing them the BEST 💞
You can watch the Hannifah episode Javon was inspired by, here: ua-cam.com/video/g-cc7TRh9r8/v-deo.html
He keeps saying he was young but didn't he say he was older than the mother? Imagine how hard it was for her to raise that young man by herself and she never got a chance to use the cop out of "being young". These sorry men kill me 😒.
Men Mental Health Awareness Month. Relax on the negativity. Men can have problems too.
@@IdontHOEnoMOEthe mom could have had problems to yet she still stayed and never gave up on hr child 💀
@@IdontHOEnoMOEand what does mental health have to do with this all I heard him say was that he was in a young mindset
@@IdontHOEnoMOEthat doesn’t mean praise their wrong doings lol what is ur idea of this month 😭😭
And she had lupus!
‘Don’t disrupt my peace looking for your peace’ 💯
I really didn’t see the dad as making excuses. He told his truth, but kept getting asked the same questions differently as if expecting a different answer. So of course if he says the same thing 6 times, it’s because that was the original answer. He might have been older than the mom, but men do mature at a different rate than women so him being older doesn’t make him more mature.
Nah, the dad is just a walking tower of excuses. He did for his other kids. They lived down the street from each other. He is just trifling. He has made enough excuses for himself. He does need anyone to excuse his cowardly behavior.
@@maciawilliams9760it’s not too late for you to redact this statement. Especially the portion you wrote about his age. That was gross. He was obviously an adult while the mom was a teen. He made excuses. This doesn’t mean he can’t be great moving forward but he did have a pretty weak excuse
@@ReineNubiaexactly. I’m trying to find out what show that other person just watched
@@danielvidal46 Naw, I’m good with my previous comment. I respect that we differ in opinions. Have a great day.
“She was 16 and I was… *older.”* This man was terrible from the START
but was still not ready to be a father
i ain't hear nothing he said after that only a trashy predator
I was just saying! Facts!!! smh 🤦♀️
@egujugapupfhHe was 18 or 19
Son is so emotionally intelligent
YES
To walk right past your CHILD and don’t acknowledge him…IS NASTY WORK AS A MAN!!!!!!!!! He knows nothing about his son so heartbreaking…..😢
Your father walking right past you as if you were nobody to him is so heartbreaking. I still don't even feel that he truly cares as much as he should, it's probably to alleviate his guilt of abandoning and rejecting his son
Right!
Men Mental Health Awareness Month. Relax on the negativity. Men can have problems too.
@@IdontHOEnoMOE💯 Statically men don’t always get it right, in parent hood. Thats not an excuse it’s a fact! I commend this father, for taking the backlash for not being there, but hopefully he gets the chance to do it right a second time.
It's so not fair that men of this generation are being the blame for everything!!! Unless you grew up and heard that you were gonna die by 25 over and over then you don't know this man's mindset!
@@IdontHOEnoMOE would you say the same if the mother just up and left her sick husband and young child? After 24 years theres just no more excuses to give especially when he was in his other children's lives
We need to take a moment and applaud Mom for the amazing job she did raising such a brilliant man. Mom is an embodiment of strength, intelligence, beauty, positivity, and much more. Javon is bold, emotionally intelligent, handsome, and much more. Dad defines excuses, ignorance, deadbeat..... I just can't get past those three without cursing. I truly hope he makes a change cos Javon just gave him a lifeline for redemption.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@RawVeganJenNYC👑
She really did her big one with him! Hes great!
@@anikabutler8945And they’ll claim fathers are needed. Not every father (and mother) is needed, sometimes it’s best they stay away
Men be having more excuses than a person going to jail smh
I’ll never understand it.
Men Mental Health Awareness Month. Relax on the negativity. Men can have problems too.
@@IdontHOEnoMOE yes, we men have problems too; both those inflicted upon us and those we inflict upon others. Men can also be held accountable for their actions. Happy Men’s Mental Health Awareness month!
@@IdontHOEnoMOEtypical pick me response 🤡
@@IdontHOEnoMOEand yet women have been for decades in the US overwhelmingly been the ones suffering the mental health issues from being the ones raising our babies alone while men make lame excuses not to and then blame us for everything that's wrong with a society that we have very little power in.
“Excuses are tools of incompetence which build monuments of nothingness.” 👏 Karamo, 2 snaps, preach!
Yeah that was a good one
One of my favorite quotes. Been using it since high school
@teemonaymonae2909 Same, I just dubed it down to excuse are tool often used when a person doesn't want to do or admit something.
@@mobates89 same! People be to dumb sometimes
Ok judge star !!😂
That was one of the dumbest reasons for staying out of your son's life. The dad is selfish and inconsiderate. He just wanted to hurt his mother when he got on child support but in the end hurt his child..
Totally unacceptable.....he was soooo wrong and lack of responsibility!
No. Being young and immature will cause a make or female to make immature decisions.
Karamo. Please start giving mutual advice and stop shading toward and placing victimization as a defense to young gay men. You shade in these episodes.
@@NoPhux71you didn't even watch the episode. He was an audit and she was 16. He left her when she was diagnosed with lupus and when he assumed she placed him on child support after he refused to give her the insurance for their child.… why are you talking about shade and comparing genders???? 🥴🥴🥴
He was in his feelings for some BS.
Javon is handsome and looking just like daddy. Im happy mom was a positive parent that raised him to be a wonderful person. Dad need to be ashamed of himself. Words can't make up for the lost 24 years .shame on you
Thank you so much. Javon gets mad when I tell him he looks like his Dad...
Javon is one fine sexy black man.
@@mywilliams2002you did an amazing job raising him.
The grace that the son and the mom showed😩🥺
Momma did an amazing job. She raised an intelligent young man. I am praying for their healing and reconciliation.
You allowed you ego to override responsibility and accountability for your son.😊
Mom, you are a trooper
Thanks to the Lord for today.
Son is a protector of his mother & was raised!
The mom looks Amazing!!!
Thank you girl. And the producers kept tryna put makeup & lashes & wigs on me. When I told them I wanted to be natural. They put me in the audience 😂
Thanks girl. The glam team kept tryna put me in makeup wigs & lashes & when I told them no they put my Lil ass in the audience
@@mywilliams2002 It’s is awesome that you stood your ground. I hope your son and his father have a better relationship now.
@@mywilliams2002I felt your smile in my heart when they hugged. 🥰 Your genuine spirit shines bright. That shows that all you ever wanted is for them to have a proper father and son relationship. May God bless you, your son, his father, and your health.
@@mywilliams2002Woww that’s crazy. You’re a natural beauty.
The audience clapping because he has an email in his child’s name is crazy 😂 Like what the hell will that show or prove. It felt like he was trying to blame the mom so many times but he knows it wouldn’t fly. I hope he takes the initiative to get to know his son and they both can heal and move forward.
i literally did a double take 😂 like what is that supposed to prove
Right!! And then the clap turned into a slow clap. " What in the world are we clapping for?" 😂
Exactly like men will be like “I thOUgHt AboUT y0U evErYDaY” but NEVER show up???? like you don’t get father of the year for thinking and not doing
That part took me back...like why did they go up for that? That has never helped him with anything.
Right😢
"You are interrupting my peace to try to get yourself peace."
I felt that!
MEN PAY ATTENTION......May this young man get the healing he deserves and the father too!!! TOO MANY MEN ABANDON THEIR CHILDREN LEAVING THEM LOST.....THE LONGER YOU WAIT TO DO THE RIGHT THING THE HARDER IT WILL GET
He is so right! " you interrupting his peace trying to bring himself peace"
The son put it so eloquently
The hug immediately made me cry. Too many men don’t help raise their kids and it’s sad at the amount of single mothers there are. I hope they actually build a relationship and continue. 😢
They all want a relationship when they get old and are looking for people to care for them. They have no problem whipping out that penis but when they have to pay up they run away.
Javon you are a very intelligent and handsome young man. Your mother did a great job of raising you on her own . Kudos to your mom.
Thank you. He made raising him easy
These deadbeats are something else…. Like why make the child if you have no intention on raising the child its so weird and unsettling
Exactly 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
And then they run from vasectomies and condoms 😐😐😐 make it make sense !!!!
South Africans make babies just so they can receive grant money
South Africans, make babies, just so they can receive grant money
Y open your leg to a deadbeat
I can tell that Dad really doesn’t know how to emotionally process or respond vulnerably. He is very much in his head about a lot of things! It’s obvious no one ever taught him how to tap into his heart space or to verbalize what he feels ..
The SUN shows a balance of logic and emotion which why karmo could tell the roles would quickly switch to him parenting his dad .
The message of this episode is to make sure you demonstrate to your children;, male or female , about how to attain an emotional and mental balance .. Spiritual connection is also important..
I can tell they’ll be ok . Once dad’s nerves are settled he’ll be great. I also wish they brought his siblings on the show , just to get more insight into who Dad has become fr. Anywho , great episode Karamo make sure we get an update 🙌🏾🫶🏾
I love your comment ! Well structured and clear. WHEEWWWW 10/10
I believe the father is intimated by his son.
@@iambibi616 thank you 🥰🫶🏾
@@Moody-mR4 could be 🤷🏾♀️but that’ll take his dad learning to be vulnerable enough to express that . I really feel like his dad is afraid of something. Or maybe he was ashamed because his sun is gay 💆🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ .. idk I hope they get through it .
The look on his moms face when they embraced 🥹❤️ his dad was a horrible father to him growing up but I really hope he can step up going forward so they can build a healthy relationship. The way he hugged him, you can see how much he wants his dad in his life. I wish them the best 🙏🏾
and a pedo
"i was.. older" boy......
I heard sirens going off lol. Because how much older sir? 🧐
I'm glad someone said it because...🤨 bro was dodging his child and charges. Most teen moms the dad is a grown man.
@@ChannelSettings4he was 19, he said it a little towards the endddd
Right
Right!
He's very awakened, mature, very aware of his emotions and of himself, but also very articulate. He came here with clear and precise questions and took a lot on himself while showing his anger and pain. His mom did a very good job ! The moment he hugged his dad was beautiful, he knows his dad was embarrassed but before he released that "pressure" he was exerting he wanted answers first. It was so beautiful omg and then the hug from everyone at the end. I really enjoyed this episode
Jovan is super articulate and emotionally intelligent. Momma did a very VERY good job with him!
Alot of men do this after the children have grown up. No responsibility so they're ready to be a dad
Right!
Glad to see he's giving dad a chance
Way to go brother!
Just say that you chose to be a dead beat to Javon and take accountability WITHOUT the excuses!! Shout out to mom for having the strength to raise a strong, educated black man ALONE in this cold world!
What a sweet son ❤
Karamo, I was refreshing your page cause I ALREADY watched all your oldest clips, thank you!!
I can understand where the son was coming from when he said if you don’t plan to be intentional with being in my life then don’t bother. And I think thats fair coming from him being an adult with the dad being absent up to that point. Don’t open that door if you are honestly ready because thatll just cause more hurt. Hopefully the dad keeps his word
The son is showing the role of the father.
From his first recording He’s has more excuses than anyone I know. He blames everyone for his lack of responsibility, for his feelings of feeling inadequate, lack of maturity.
He fell into his dads arm like a baby 😊
I can respect dad for finally stepping up....he has been the most honest guest I have ever seen......sad that he had the bad decisions making....but recognize that he is making the effort to right his wrongs.
His mother raised a fine young man. I admire him, his strength and his ability to set boundaries with his father. Mom you did well. Take a bow.
Whew, Javon touched me with that word!!! You’re disrupting my peace trying to get your peace!! Omg 🥺
His father deserves a chance- I can tell he now's he messed up and I can also tell he genuinely wants to make up and build some sort of relationship. Some parents NEVER come around- life's too short - you don't wanna have any regrets one day like your father has
wouldnt give him a chance to do anything. block. move. no contact. understand Jim has no empathy for Javon.
Yes I think he should give him a genuine chance with boundaries and slow steps and if it doesn't work at least he can have the peace that he gave it a try with his father.
I agree, healing takes time on both ends and the fact that this man is atleast speaking about his poor decisions is more than I have seen alot of parents do. His willingness to heal this must be supported with actions and Javon deserves time to emotionally navigate trusting his father again
He doesn't at all deserve a chance. I hope he does better going forward but he hasn't earned a damn thing from his son.
God gives chances@@SunnySlaughter69
I feel like his neglect wasn’t malicious. He seems like someone who is a procrastinator; wanting to do it but never building up enough courage to do it.
Same here really seems troubled by this
That’s deep you’re interrupting my peace trying to bring yourself peace 🤔 his mom did a wonderful job he’s a very smart young man
Yall talking about the dad deserves a chance?!?! BFFR he played in this mans face for 24 years
Javon you are strong❤
I was a single parent for 18 years. Right before my child turned 19 years old she ran into her sperm donor at the mall. Only to build a relationship with him and find out that he was diagnosed with prostate cancer.. he died shortly after.. and then I was diagnosed with crohn's disease.. this man clearly is running from his responsibilities and it has a lot to do with financial, I'm glad to see that he is on in the life is too short these kids are truly traumatized behind absent fathers!!
This was good. Javon, hunny.. if you ever see this comment. Your poise and communication is on point. You asked key questions that made him accountable. Very commendable of you. You seem like a wholesome young man. I’m sure your mom is so proud and blessed to have a son like you. The love and support you show your mom is like a beam of light, it’s so beautiful to see. Love how you just gave your father a hug.. like you empathized with where he was at and just embraced him.. so many people just need a hug. It is healing. Bless you all ❤
That mom did an excellent job raising this young man. Kudos to her. That's why he dabs her up so much
This just brought tears to my eyes 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲 God Bless them 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯💯💯💯💯💯
NEWSFLASH!!! No one knows how to be a parent at first. I'm so tired of that being an excuse!
The young man’s emotional intelligence is phenomenal 😮
LOVED the ending 🥹 I Hope The Dad Keep His Promises & The Mom Did An Amazing Job With Their Son!!! #lovekaramo
The way he was holding his daddy during that hug. 🥺 he needed that. Both of them did.
One of the worst parent I've seen on this show
Literally had no reason to abandon him. Hurts to watch 😢
He is definitely no one of the worst parents that have been on this show and if you can say that I wonder about you. Cus I seen abuse on this show many times.
@@latriceclark5731True indeed. Not to make an excuse but for the most part, men mature slower than women statically. This man said he was inmmature and young during that time.
Yeah no excuses but they worst? Far from it!
@@Barbasketball men "mature slower" in the sense that society allows them to. women don't get that, the expectations to be emotional mules starts in teenaged years. IE 'boys will be boys'...
@@alexciad3741 that’s not true, my mom wasn’t in my life growing up, did society have anything to do with that?
This was one of the best shows I’m so happy for Javon and his father. Javon mother is a beautiful black Queen you did an awesome job raising your son.
Mama is gorgeous!!!!!
I Just Hope Pops Keeps His Word and Build a Relationship with His Son. Many of Us Have Gone Through This Dilemma. Some of Us Had Neither Parent. So, if He Can Start To Be a Part of His Son's Life, He Can Heal at Least a Little Bit.
I have experienced the same things this mother & son went through. The child support, the medical insurance, the rejection, still walking in love despite the innocent child being rejected. But Ive seen GOD turn things that was meant to destroy you to turn out for your good. 👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
Awwww is face got warm when he started talking to his mommyyyy
This is such a lovely young man. Wow. Mom you should be so honoured and proud to be his parent. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ His emotional intelligence is top tier ❤❤❤❤❤
Your mom this, your mom, her family, I wasn't ready. Tells a lot right from the jump. Not many are actually ready and regardless it's a learning process can't learn and grow if you don't put the work in.
Guilt and ego are two things that will ruin relationships. I am glad the father is attempting to take accountability. I pray he is genuine.
He looks just like his father! The father should feel horrible about missing out on this wonderful young man's life
Oooh bless this beautiful soul, I truly hope the son does not carry the weight of this relationship...please listen to Karamo and take care of that beautiful soul.
This Dad came back to clear his conscience, I hope he doesn't need a kidney or something from him. He is so blessed that his son was so respectful & open to receiving back, despite how he suffered when a grown man rejected him.
I be living for the next karamo episode!
Just by the thumbnail.. that’s that boy daddy 😂
“ Excuses are tools of incompetence which builds monuments of nothingness “ 😮💨🙌🏽
I respect the father and his honesty
That's beautiful I wish my son and father could be that way OMG I cried 😭 Love you BBY 😘
Javon is a beautiful person through and through. I could see him being an amazing friend
Interrupting my peace to find your peace. A word
He has such a beautiful child. Oh man God bless them all.
I must actually say this is my favorite episode. And loved that they were able to talk as adults remained composed and hug …. Hope to get a update of them in the future
That man don't want his son. He doesn't seem autenthic because he made excuses for everything. The mom raised a good human by herself.
I'm so proud of you Javon. YOU are phenomenal and such an admiration ❤ Kudos to your Mom🦋 God bless you all
I didn't have my biological dad in my life.............. and I don't care. That's not lip service either, I honestly do not care. My mother was a crackhead too so I didn't have any biological responsible parents.
Yrs ago, my biological dad reached out to me IN TEARS. I never asked, "Why weren't you there for me?! Because I honestly didn't care. He BEGGED me for forgiveness and w/o hesitation, I granted him his request.
YHVH was my dad. And He raised me well. And I wouldn't exchange my Father in heaven for your father on earth.
Reading your comment broke my heart. I’m sorry 😢I want to ask you how’s your relationship w/ your dad now if you don’t mind me asking? If you don’t want to answer I understand.
✨🙏🏾✨What A Great Show Great Advice✨ To Watch A Black Man Trying To Grow, Be Humble & Accountable Was Heartfelt To Watch & A Beautiful Black STRONG Sistah Have PEACE At The End Brought Tears Of Joy To My Eyes🥹I Pray That They All Be Well With Love🙏🏾KARAMO HAVING A SAFE SPACE FOR GROWING EVERYTHING✨🙏🏾✨ LOVE ME SOME ✨KARAM💖✨🧚🏾✨💫
I think Dad is afraid of rejection. Dad has a lot of pain too. Not making excuses on dad being out of his life. But clearly Dad has some confident issues and seems like he wrestles with himself with guilt and shame that keeps him paralyzed in his past, instead of using the guilt and shame to move him to do better!!! However, I’m happy he is trying to repair the relationship with his son. I just hope the dad gains emotional stability to keep the relationship with his son. Dad honestly needs therapy in my opinion to keep this relationship healthy!!!
You know i can beat the father down all day.
I looked and i observed his facial expressions and his movements and all.
I believe this wasn’t all for a show! I believe he honestly knew he messed up and want to have a relationship with his son. He actually was in pain as well.
I saw the look in eyes and was surprised not a tear dropped but i saw the the watery eyes. We can truly be lost in any given situation! I truly hope that he stays in contact with his son so that they can get to know each other more and build the best relationship ever!
Glad Dad is sitting through it - gonna be tough at first and then they will be able to get closer. Best wishes.
The man is trying. Karamo should guide the fact that and the son wants a PUBLIC apology. He is too well spoken to not be able to fix this back home
Naaah! Excuses, excuses. excuses!
I agree. This man is doing what he can with what he knows. That counts for something.
The son is very intelligent , Boys need the presence of their father or else they will hate you for the rest of their lives ,the damage when you reject them is irreparable, good they've reconciled ,they need each other
I think the daddy doesn’t have the words I think!!he knows he messed up but he was young dealing with what his family was saying but this child deserved more
Powerful show. I pray the best for this young man. I totally understand his stance.
So dad was a predator??? He should be ashamed
I love the family hug at the end 🥰
Son, may the Lord continue to be gracious to you.
As a gay man who had a strained relationship with his dad for similar reasons as he did this was touching to me and when I finally got back with my dad it was a huge burden was lifted off my shoulders. I no longer was in pain. I hope both guys kept their word
This is a very powerful episode
What an amazing mom ❤❤❤ shout out to single moms may God add more years to your life
His own son is so mature and clearly his mother raised that MAN RIGHT !!!!!!
Javon recognizing that his father just couldnt even on the show. Seeing his father get completely stuck and telling his father to "come here.." THAT DID IT FOR ME 😭
His mom broke my heart in the end💔😭 may god help her and all those suffering from illness 🙏😭😢
The son is extremely handsome, and his eyebrows are fire...oh yeah and he is very intelligent and articulate. Mama did well raising him. Hope that papi keeps his promise.
Ohhhhhhh my goodness the mother WOW 😍🥰😘
I loved to see the mom smile ❤ she just wants the best for her baby...
they dont need him. Mom did an amazing job raising her son, he turned out to be so emotionally intelligent and mature and both mom and son seem like great people.
Mom did an amazing job with this young MAN ❤
Awwwwwweeeee his son.actually seems way more emotional stable than him. I believe that the interference of family members could have driven the father away and made him resentful. It's no excuse however he's human 😢.
Wishing them the BEST 💞