This is the saddest episode…. BLESS her HEART I PRAY SHE REALLY LEFT HIM ALONE and HEALS FROM ALL THIS TRAUMA. She suffered his abuse as long as I’ve been alive and I’m 24 years old and that makes me sad!!! 😢😢😢
I've been there done that but didn't give a man half of my life. I'm beginning to think some people just don't know no better. Just anything won't do for me and then look? He's a cheater ain't no good.@@LexiePoooh-t5p
Codependency. She’s dependent on him for so many things, because she doesn’t believe she can move through this world independently. I hope that her lack of self belief is lifted and that she reached clarity. Then she may have the self respect and courage to leave. My mom stayed for nearly 15 years before finally leaving. But if she can leave, anyone can
The one with Roger from American Dad having both her kids not being that dude's kids? Nothing but the victim through the whole show....even after the results, just got up and left. Didn't explain nothing but made sure to try and blame him.
It's like he has his perfect match right there in front of him for years and he refuses to acknowledge it most men would want that and be glad they found it
I can say from experience, not only does he believe her, he knows for a fact she never cheated on him. Free game. He would be shocked if her results showed she was actually cheating. Hes just emotionally abusive, and if there’s no reason to hurt her, he will make up one.
Hurt people, hurt people. As Karamo said, that man has some deep rooted childhood trauma that he has not dealt with, he has buried it and when it resurfaces, he self-medicates. We as a black community need to seek some sort of therapy because we are indeed hurting/destroying/killing each other. Karamo, we need a Part ll please. Praying for her and his healing. Have a good night Cousins!
"Hurt people, hurt people".....most overused sentence. People who say things like that, just have excuses and zero personal responsibility. Good people, don't hurt people. Plenty of people have had abusive and terrible childhoods or have been cheated on. It doesn't change that person's morals or values. Stop using that sentence, it is not true. Bad/manipulative people use that sentence to excuse their bad behavior
@@shawn6986Kind Sir, I AM a person who is currently working to overcome severe childhood trauma. I have never intentionally hurt anyone. Some people don’t know how to handle/work through their trauma so they self medicate and continue to hurt themselves and those closest to them. It can be done. Prayers to anyone who are still struggling with childhood trauma, drug/alcohol addiction/abuse, domestic abuse, etc.
It's hard to leave when you have no means of financial support.. She depends on him.. That's why everyone needs an income so they have something to fall back on when the other partner sends you crazy
I started that dependency mess when I was young..& I kicked rocks with nothing but the clothes on my back after shit got real‼️I walked in the dark country roads & their dog joined me..😂
Imagine being raised once & then fall in love with someone who wants to continue to raise u.. that’s sad to have never lived without authority in ur household .. or life for that matter .. I’m surprised what people are willing to accept or allow 😒.. she brought tears to my eyes I was happy to see Karamo hugged her in that moment 😢
All right, I know we like to gather here as family but some of these conversations be stupid and I get sick of it. These relationships need to just end.
I agree, they need to end but sometimes the end is the END. If she left him today, we would be hearing about her on the news tomorrow, I am speaking from experience, not only personally but professionally , it is easier said than done.
I feel so sorry for people that stay with abusers for so long because they HOPE things will get better or they just learn to deal with them. But 20 plus years is insane and you have raised kids in this dysfunction and he's beating you and he's a user, what else does he have to do to make you leave? Surely not unlocking 50 phones is going to change his drug induced mind!! Run Sis man got you looking 65 instead of 45😢
Karamo you did incredible, but I wished you addressed the part where he put his hands on his woman. I’m sure there's a full version of this episode, but man. To see her break down in tears recounting that drunken night... Really infuriated me. You don't ever put your hands on someone , especially when they can't defend themselves while intoxicated. My heart breaks for the both of them, truly.
He dont love her anymore. He done got his life together and want the good of girl he really wants. He doesn't want to cheat. He doesn't want to hurt her anymore. He's surprised she hasn't left yet. He's trying to force her to cheat so he can go
He’s stupid if he feels she’s cheating and he stay. She’s ridiculous if she chose to stay seeing how he’s carried on. I feel sorry for the kids that had to watch them two. I’m tired of couples like this.
The light is breaking through the darkness. We are all developing in our awareness of this type of suffocating, predatory, draining energy, and choosing ourselves, love, wholeness, peace and happiness despite how hard it is. The times are changing and I appreciate Karamo helping people in person, one by one get over that last little hump; and broadcasting it to the world so others are inspired to do the same. Every person has their own road to travel and I don’t judge them bc they are doing it. Applause to her for traveling.
She should have been left that demonic covert narcissistic spirit..He's evil,and demons are tormenting him, and her..Love shows no Ill to it's neighbor. The devaluing ,and him knowing that you don't love yourself enough to depart from him,makes the abuse even worse. And you obviously don't have a relationship with GOD, because you'll know right away that GOD doesn't condone this wickedness. He doesn't know GOD,and he knows you don't neither. This is how Satan sends in a counterfeit,with a Witchcraft spirit. He's gaslighting, manipulative, controlling, mentally, physically, spiritually abusive,and is giving out nothing but breadcrumbs. He's devaluing you because you don't believe you have any self worth, which puts you in a vulnerable position
Unhealed trauma n suffering in silence is very devastating!!! As much as she should leave, i get why she stays. You feel his pain! I truly pray he find healing. I also pray that Sis has the strength to leave if he doesnt. Heartbreaking all round.😢
20+ years?!!! I’m sorry but he ain’t changing. It’s his true character now and there is no excuse for staying aside from low self esteem and he knows it. Half her life is down the drain because she thought she could save a man who don’t want to be saved.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Ladies, please love yourself! Stop being someone's doormat. I don't feel bad for this woman because she IS asking for it because in her mind, somehow, somewhere, he might change for the better. How? How? He showed you who he truly is and you don't want to accept him. He is a MONSTER.
Karamo you be killing them with the outfits! I’m about to buy something in that color now 😂❤ And this woman deserves better! Karamo really cares for his guess!
I pray 🙏🏾 for this lady ,she deserves much better. She a grown woman she don't this crap in her life. She should leave him if he don't stop taking drugs. She not a door mat. Treat her like a queen 👸
The dynamics of abusive relationships is akin to brain damage-it literally damages parts of victim's logical reasoning. This is why she can't let go, but also spiritually he has a demonic soul tie stronghold on her. She needs deep prayer, whilst she's running away.
Karamo you did such an awesome job diffusing this situation and gaining the respect of the man on that stage to the point that he acknowledged he needs help. This was amazing to watch.💕
First things first, Karamo is looking fly as always❤️ SECOND how is king from the last episode? Has anyone checked on him? Bc babyyy that was crazy, but I love how Unc(karamo) served her a quick reality check & called her out on her BS bc she was playing with that man’s feelings & time!!
When Karamo asked has he ever cheated on her..and she said..."of course..and I bet not say nothing about it"...😢 that's how men truly feel..they want a woman to be ok with cheating...and not say NOTHING AT ALL...smh it's sad how they do a woman..smh
I swear I thought that lady was in her late 50's, that man has put her thru hell and back. There is no fixing this, I pray she leaves safely and gets the help she need to regain her self-esteem and also to heal from this. I pray he also gets the help he needs but they need to be divorced.
it does not matter how long you’ve been with someone or how much yall have gone through, if you are being treated poorly… LEAVE. Many have a fear that if they leave they risk not finding love, but it’s better to take this risk than to remain in a bad relationship.
Now that is psychological abuse! She is basically living in bondage with an addict who has narcissistic and paranoid tendencies. They both need help... Separately!!
This show either have me crying or my mouth wide open. Baby you should have left 24 years ago
She deserves MUCH more. I hope she finds the strength to leave.
What are you talking about please go to sleep
@@jesseabraham5410 You are the one in slumberland. What exactly don`t you understand. Nonsense! Mscheeew! 😏🙄
@@jesseabraham5410what the hell are YOU talking about???
Sometimes ppl deserve exactly what they’re going through. She’s been with him for decades, and he’s always been the same. She continues to stay.
This man said I don't trust nobody. That right there is the end of this story 😂😂😂
He needs to stay by himself!!!! I'm sorry for that lady 😔
Karamo has been eating us up with these fitssss🔥🔥🔥
Soo not only is he abusive mentally and physically… he also wants her to find women for him?? Wow praying for her healing
Exactly! He not worthy of one, but she going to help him get a second! No ma’am!
@@shaipuffs7729 and he’s a crackhead and drunk
This is the saddest episode…. BLESS her HEART I PRAY SHE REALLY LEFT HIM ALONE and HEALS FROM ALL THIS TRAUMA. She suffered his abuse as long as I’ve been alive and I’m 24 years old and that makes me sad!!! 😢😢😢
Girl, why are you fighting for this relationship?!
Exactly!! Even if you have to sneak and leave leave don't come to karamo looking for sympathy and trying to prove this psycho you're innocent
I've been there done that but didn't give a man half of my life. I'm beginning to think some people just don't know no better. Just anything won't do for me and then look? He's a cheater ain't no good.@@LexiePoooh-t5p
Right!!
I would have called the police on him ,he's a crack head!
Codependency. She’s dependent on him for so many things, because she doesn’t believe she can move through this world independently. I hope that her lack of self belief is lifted and that she reached clarity. Then she may have the self respect and courage to leave. My mom stayed for nearly 15 years before finally leaving. But if she can leave, anyone can
Whose mouth is still on THE FLO from last episode??
☝🏾
Listen!
Child me
Me!!! Omg!!!😂
The one with Roger from American Dad having both her kids not being that dude's kids? Nothing but the victim through the whole show....even after the results, just got up and left. Didn't explain nothing but made sure to try and blame him.
Drugs, narcissism, and past trust issues he won’t let go.
And want other women and she’s helping!
Picture trying to prove something to a lunatic who chooses never to believe you. I would never.
It's like he has his perfect match right there in front of him for years and he refuses to acknowledge it most men would want that and be glad they found it
I can say from experience, not only does he believe her, he knows for a fact she never cheated on him. Free game. He would be shocked if her results showed she was actually cheating. Hes just emotionally abusive, and if there’s no reason to hurt her, he will make up one.
Youre in your 40s you're still young enough to meet someone good for you and enjoy the rest of your life but you stick around
Karamo out here healing our community ❤ I watch every episode and it’s always a lesson.
No.. He's exploiting it.
This is heartbreaking. Hes probably got a whole other family. He needs inpatient rehab
He's probably accusing her of something He's doing.
Its always the one accusing who is guilty!!
Not the inpatient rehab 😂, but inattentive all seriousness, I agree
Hurt people, hurt people. As Karamo said, that man has some deep rooted childhood trauma that he has not dealt with, he has buried it and when it resurfaces, he self-medicates. We as a black community need to seek some sort of therapy because we are indeed hurting/destroying/killing each other. Karamo, we need a Part ll please. Praying for her and his healing. Have a good night Cousins!
"Hurt people, hurt people".....most overused sentence. People who say things like that, just have excuses and zero personal responsibility. Good people, don't hurt people. Plenty of people have had abusive and terrible childhoods or have been cheated on. It doesn't change that person's morals or values. Stop using that sentence, it is not true. Bad/manipulative people use that sentence to excuse their bad behavior
@@shawn6986Kind Sir, I AM a person who is currently working to overcome severe childhood trauma. I have never intentionally hurt anyone. Some people don’t know how to handle/work through their trauma so they self medicate and continue to hurt themselves and those closest to them. It can be done. Prayers to anyone who are still struggling with childhood trauma, drug/alcohol addiction/abuse, domestic abuse, etc.
It's hard to leave when you have no means of financial support.. She depends on him.. That's why everyone needs an income so they have something to fall back on when the other partner sends you crazy
I would be out with just a penny in my pocket. Screw being treated like that!!! 🤣🤣🤣
I started that dependency mess when I was young..& I kicked rocks with nothing but the clothes on my back after shit got real‼️I walked in the dark country roads & their dog joined me..😂
🎯
Sends you crazy or you send them crazy😂😂😂😂
yep my mama always taught me thought--always have your own--it's given me a lot of freedom and peace in my life, im very independent
It breaks my heart when I see women squandering their golden years in relationships like this…we’ve got to do better and it starts with self love!
I agree!
She's got to get out!!!
Karamo looking sharp as always 👏
Yeah bro be clean as a whistle and sharp as a razor.
ALWAYS! 🙌🏽
Always!!! ❤
Imagine being raised once & then fall in love with someone who wants to continue to raise u.. that’s sad to have never lived without authority in ur household .. or life for that matter .. I’m surprised what people are willing to accept or allow 😒.. she brought tears to my eyes I was happy to see Karamo hugged her in that moment 😢
Exactly she needed that
Facts. My Grandmother used to tell me don't ever let a man try to raise you again...
That side eye karamo gave at 7:53 after he says “You’re not gonna judge me” 😭😭😭😭
I ran to the comments to say this!!! 😂😂😂
As soon as he said that, I saw your comment 😅😅
That look was for the viewers 😂😂 yeah no we gonna listen and judge after
He not worth staying with let him go and live. You are A beautiful queen deserve so much better
im sorry 1:53 that mans hat is SENDINGGG MEEEE🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 and the colour coordination aswell💀💀
😭😭😭😭😭😭💀💀💀💀💀💀
😂😂😂😂childish
I thought 💭 it was only me!!!
When did the audience start yelling “unlock”, I had a flashback to “Jerry”.
Right. I don’t like it for the Karamo show.
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
All right, I know we like to gather here as family but some of these conversations be stupid and I get sick of it. These relationships need to just end.
i agree 100%
I agree, they need to end but sometimes the end is the END. If she left him today, we would be hearing about her on the news tomorrow, I am speaking from experience, not only personally but professionally , it is easier said than done.
@@TiffaniMiller-x9gIt’s hard to say But it’s definitely the truth!!
You all forget he is a family therapist , these are the issues of blk households
@@TiffaniMiller-x9gcontrolling is a form of abuse. He’s paranoid
Why does she feel like she deserves this torture.... 24 years of abuse
???
This woman is so broken..... It breaks my heart. She needs to leave him!😔
Why proove anything to him? Hes abusive. Leave him
45 is too damn young to be stressed the F out over a bum who beats up on you
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It’s important to heal yourself before involving yourself with someone else ! Protect your peace and theirs ! ❤
I feel so sorry for people that stay with abusers for so long because they HOPE things will get better or they just learn to deal with them. But 20 plus years is insane and you have raised kids in this dysfunction and he's beating you and he's a user, what else does he have to do to make you leave? Surely not unlocking 50 phones is going to change his drug induced mind!! Run Sis man got you looking 65 instead of 45😢
Karamo you did incredible, but I wished you addressed the part where he put his hands on his woman. I’m sure there's a full version of this episode, but man. To see her break down in tears recounting that drunken night... Really infuriated me. You don't ever put your hands on someone , especially when they can't defend themselves while intoxicated. My heart breaks for the both of them, truly.
She’s too beautiful to have gone through all that. And he put his hands on her?? Bro I need that BADD
Sad truth is that she will never leave him, she think she deserve this
He dont love her anymore. He done got his life together and want the good of girl he really wants. He doesn't want to cheat. He doesn't want to hurt her anymore. He's surprised she hasn't left yet. He's trying to force her to cheat so he can go
He NEVER loved her.
I have never got here this early….5 phones?!?!
Girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣
But they’re all not working. She kept her old phones
He’s stupid if he feels she’s cheating and he stay. She’s ridiculous if she chose to stay seeing how he’s carried on. I feel sorry for the kids that had to watch them two. I’m tired of couples like this.
The light is breaking through the darkness. We are all developing in our awareness of this type of suffocating, predatory, draining energy, and choosing ourselves, love, wholeness, peace and happiness despite how hard it is. The times are changing and I appreciate Karamo helping people in person, one by one get over that last little hump; and broadcasting it to the world so others are inspired to do the same. Every person has their own road to travel and I don’t judge them bc they are doing it. Applause to her for traveling.
She should have been left that demonic covert narcissistic spirit..He's evil,and demons are tormenting him, and her..Love shows no Ill to it's neighbor. The devaluing ,and him knowing that you don't love yourself enough to depart from him,makes the abuse even worse. And you obviously don't have a relationship with GOD, because you'll know right away that GOD doesn't condone this wickedness. He doesn't know GOD,and he knows you don't neither. This is how Satan sends in a counterfeit,with a Witchcraft spirit. He's gaslighting, manipulative, controlling, mentally, physically, spiritually abusive,and is giving out nothing but breadcrumbs. He's devaluing you because you don't believe you have any self worth, which puts you in a vulnerable position
Unhealed trauma n suffering in silence is very devastating!!! As much as she should leave, i get why she stays. You feel his pain! I truly pray he find healing. I also pray that Sis has the strength to leave if he doesnt. Heartbreaking all round.😢
20+ years?!!! I’m sorry but he ain’t changing. It’s his true character now and there is no excuse for staying aside from low self esteem and he knows it. Half her life is down the drain because she thought she could save a man who don’t want to be saved.
This woman needs to get away from him!! She has the strength to do it and I wish her all the best.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
I've seen this exact same post many times.
Inner strength is manifested by acknowledging you are worth the respect.
Ladies, please love yourself! Stop being someone's doormat. I don't feel bad for this woman because she IS asking for it because in her mind, somehow, somewhere, he might change for the better. How? How? He showed you who he truly is and you don't want to accept him. He is a MONSTER.
Karamo you be killing them with the outfits! I’m about to buy something in that color now 😂❤ And this woman deserves better! Karamo really cares for his guess!
This is ridiculous. She won't leave him. Never.
23 yrs living like a hostage?
Karamo new she was not leaving 😢
I pray 🙏🏾 for this lady ,she deserves much better. She a grown woman she don't this crap in her life. She should leave him if he don't stop taking drugs. She not a door mat. Treat her like a queen 👸
No it was BEEN time to leave when he starts hitting you. You allow your kids to see you unhappy???! Girl leave!!
I can’t stand when the ladies are asked why you stay so long? Oh cause I love him 😡 lady leave 😡😡
Girl leave that Man alone
She has no support. She begging for water.. that means she has nothing.. she is dependant. Pray for u lady
Hi to all the Karamo Gang!!!!❤❤❤love him so much 💗
👋👋👋👋👋
Karamo is very intelligent, the way he unravelled Randell's problem was something else!
okay but Karamos outfit is taking itttt 😍
I’m with the person at 7:20 What!?! 😂 he must of hit the pipe before he came out 😂
Right. He high right now
24 years in prison!!!😩🙌🏻
Crazy,Crack,and he wants other women!!!Wow😢
They talk about crack like it’s a cigarette 🚬 my God that would have been the end !!!
Crack makes Mfs suspicious too
how u gon stay in a 24 year relationship with a nga thats only been loyal for a year.. AND he has FIVE PHONES. FIVEEE AS IN 1 2 3 4 5!!???
unforgiveness is something. he’s literally still stuck on a phone call she had 24+ years ago 🙄
I LOVE YOU KARAMO🎉❤
That relationship is toxic 😢
The dynamics of abusive relationships is akin to brain damage-it literally damages parts of victim's logical reasoning. This is why she can't let go, but also spiritually he has a demonic soul tie stronghold on her. She needs deep prayer, whilst she's running away.
Karamo you did such an awesome job diffusing this situation and gaining the respect of the man on that stage to the point that he acknowledged he needs help. This was amazing to watch.💕
24 years is crazy😢it's like a prison sentence tf
First things first, Karamo is looking fly as always❤️ SECOND how is king from the last episode? Has anyone checked on him? Bc babyyy that was crazy, but I love how Unc(karamo) served her a quick reality check & called her out on her BS bc she was playing with that man’s feelings & time!!
It’s so sad what people allow them selves to go through in relationships all this damage and pain
I love when the camera pans to the person backstage. You NEVER know who you’re going to see 😂
Queen he is sick...RUN QUEEN RUN❤
Man I love your compassion Karoma!
5:40 he said she ain't the villain...ummm yea that's the truth leaking out your mouth and you ain't even know it
EXACTLY
Sir…if you don’t trust her why stay with her?!!! She deserves so much better❤.
Karamo looking slim fit and fine! 😊
She looks older than her age. This has drained and aged her. 😭😢
Omg i pray she gets out of this and fast. This is just madness
Hey cousins!
Y'all EARLY 😊
When Karamo asked has he ever cheated on her..and she said..."of course..and I bet not say nothing about it"...😢 that's how men truly feel..they want a woman to be ok with cheating...and not say NOTHING AT ALL...smh it's sad how they do a woman..smh
I swear I thought that lady was in her late 50's, that man has put her thru hell and back. There is no fixing this, I pray she leaves safely and gets the help she need to regain her self-esteem and also to heal from this. I pray he also gets the help he needs but they need to be divorced.
I love KARAMO so much respect to him for his professionalism his honesty his transparency to his guest! This show is very authentic.
Karamo gives the most heartwarming hugs,when he went down and gave her that hug was everything.
Hello karamo fam!!!
Karaamo is fine
it does not matter how long you’ve been with someone or how much yall have gone through, if you are being treated poorly… LEAVE. Many have a fear that if they leave they risk not finding love, but it’s better to take this risk than to remain in a bad relationship.
You need to become a track star. 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Karamo better come through with the ecru & eggshell colored fit 🥰🥰🥰
He sit there and reflects his insecurities on her , Chile let that crackhead leave . That's too much it's plenty of fishes in the sea.
He is so insecure
Why didn't they unlock his phone
earliest i’ve been here! yay!
Just got home , fish , shrimps & cheese grits now I'm locked in
He'd be in JAIL!! 😡😡
This is HEARTBREAKING
Now that is psychological abuse! She is basically living in bondage with an addict who has narcissistic and paranoid tendencies. They both need help... Separately!!
Thank you Karamo for all you do! ❤
11:50 Now why try to bring a 3rd person into this foolishness? If they both unhappy just leave.
I loveee Karamo he's SO SWEET & GENUINE 😢
Karamo ,this was a great show.❤
It’s the cowboy hat, vest, and long sleeve stripped shirt for me 😂
They made my cousin Karamo come out of character from the last episode
When Karamo hugged her I cried, she needed that fr fr
🗣Ladies Love yourself