One vet to another, cut the shit and get active. Refocus and reset your goals. Prioritize daily. Hit your daily objectives and everything else can be fun in between. This is the life you deserve and aspired to have bro. Much support.
Common man, don't do this to the army. Chair force, that is the military he is from. He ain't tuff, just another Steve Urkel. He has to pay for the pie, he ain't built tuff
Appreciate you sharing your thoughts and talking about your journey. The temptation in Brazil is on another level bro. I think the best way manage your time properly is to break up your day in blocks i.e. 3 hours for working out, time dedicated to editing and UA-cam, time working on Patron, time to eat, time to explore the city, and save the the fun for the night time as a reward to yourself for being locked in on business first. That's how I would do it if I was in your position so hopefully my advice suits you well. Been following your channel for a few years now and will continue to support your content. Keep doing your thing and just don't get caught up in all the abundance of women out there. You got it bro. Stay solid
This is a classic problem of everyone who gets a comfortable life. Too much fun and easy life make us feel that we are not living up to our potential. a competitive mind always needs the next target. Ladies and fun looks like a target but its not in the end. Pride and how high we can go in life is the target. This is why kings in the past wanted to win one after another wars. Now solution is, first we need to realise that there is a time for an activity. When we wake up then its time to work. Daytime is not for meeting ladies. its only a weekend activity. Morning and afternoon is for work on the weekdays, Evenings for Gym and eating healthy food + Reading on the weekdays. The weekend from Friday evening till Sunday afternoon is full on fun. Overall purpose of life has to be really big like becoming a really successful businessman & entrepreneur. it will keep us busy for our whole life but gives us satisfaction. even if we fail, we would still be a winner. Meeting with lower-life people kills our competitive mindset because we already feel successful in life in front of them. I have been struggling with a similar problem. The above solution working for me.
BIG UP SKYLAR!!! keep doing the walk and talks! I totally get the anxiety! and you was lookin bug eye in this video🤣 Something about the energy in these places outside da matrix gives the feeling; like you can do anything! When your not being beat up and tore down, you got great food-healthy, you got your exercise regimen down, fine women are checking for you and you trying to continue to make $ it can all be a little overwhelming especially with no "barriers" (although I know theres still obstacles, just diff ones) When I was in trinidad, I was walking around princes town feeling like I was gonna run for mayor🤣Same way in colombia, thailand etc...im back in the states tryna figure out how to leave for good! When you pursue 1 thing- the other is getting away. But you cant lose over there. I haven't been to Rio yet...but I WILL. And I still haven't bought a PS5- I want one but I feel like it's a huge distraction for me at this point. I also feel I wont play as much when I get settled in overseas! I might cop 1 on my way out...but for now im stacking and researching....much congrats to you in your endeavors an continued success - I look forward to continue to watch your content!
Man I'm having similar issues in Medellín. Although I don't live there full time, I can already see the distractions and massive options that can get confusing.
What is your purpose in life, is there a problem you want to solve, family, etc.. The goals will follow but the purpose has to come first. This is how you avoid distractions. Everyone wanders off the path or needs a break every now and then but treat it like the 80/20 rule for dieting.
Had the same feeling Skylar. So many beautiful women around who are fit and healthy. Good weather and non-GMO food. The best way is to get a routine with expat socials, pagode and samba clubs, football on the beach and a set time for work. You're doing great things and providing inspiration for so many.
Skylar ,I live medellin now and I am having the same problems. I have come to the conclusion that I am missing the structure of a normal job. You must schedule your day as if you are at work. I highly recommend you read as a man thinkers" and start learning how to compartmentalize your life.
I experienced this in thailand this summer. I was on the beach. Women and other attractions everywhere. I stopped working and started indulging too much. I had to come back to the states to focus. I was not disciplined enough to make the digital nomad thing work yet
Glad you can admit that brothers from all races have a problem with EXACTLY 💯 what you said......this life I think if you spoke to the expats who would sit down with you would tell you it's about DISCIPLINE
@@Grayslakegunner Bro. My ex wife was a 9. Chocolate sista with a box booty and a narrow waist and figure. Fine AF. Then... She stood next to a carnival chick with a BBL. GAME. OVAAA...
This is also true for Brazilians. I was born in Sao Paul, but when I lived in Rio for a while, I noticed how the outdoors culture usually takes over professional duties. They tend to prioritize a good time over long-run accomplishments. People from Rio usually mock us Paulistas for not having beaches, and worrying too much about work, but they also have a lower productivity output. Finding the balance is the key.
Your making it sound like too many distractions is a bad thing. I can make the case that it's a good thing. Take time and enjoy life and be in the "NOW". Smell and play with the roses. 😂🌹 You just finished over 20 years in a demanding career with much personal sacrifice. The next career will wait. Take time and go within. Know Thyself. Thanks for sharing! 😎👊🏼
Great video one day at a time brother your still young. I'm 54 yrs old I retired from the army and about to retire from ups with 32 yrs on the job. I'm trying to see the world like you young man . Enjoy yourself the next idea will come to u
Syklar, thanks for sharing. I went through something similar when I lived in São Paulo.I suggest try to find some like minded people in Brazil to share your concerns. Sounds like you are overwelmed and or overloaded with things in Brazil. What you experience in England or the states, you will feel it 5 times more. It’s serious.
Entanglements? Ok, things can go fast and crazy with Brazilians if you know what I mean... this is a whole different energy when it comes to this. I will not say more. Best of luck MT.
I learned from my father who was a retired Staff Sargent. What he taught my brother and I was..... Discipline! Get a planner and start schedule your day. Allow yourself two to three hours brain storm a project to film. Allow yourself 2 plus hours to actually film the project. Schedule yourself editing time to complete the project. Brain storm for the next day and repeat the process. Decide how many projects you want to produce over the course of a week and create your schedule to meet your weekly goals. now work all of your other activities around your schedule and you'll be good to go.
Those two UA-camrs losing their channels? Well when it comes to CG, she had it coming considering her content and I'm elated. As far as F and F, they should've known better and didn't want to see them go. But just take it easy on yourself. It'll all sort itself out. Relax. You got time if you're going to be there long term.
I am a lot older than you. However, I àm an American black man who retired early here 12 years ago in the State of Rio de Janeiro. Many of the things you are experiencing are normal for a young American black man trying to settle down here. Things will get better in the future with self-control and a more focused direction. Have fun for now now, but keep your eyes open for the prize. The prize is that special girlfriend who will work with you to build your business and talk you through moments like this. I live near Cabo Frio. It is a lot more peaceful here, and I take a short trip whenever I am in the mood for excitement. But it is all good. People are great, and life is great. Stay positive brother.
You're in Paradise brother... Everything is very affordable there, and you have access to whatever you want. It can get overwhelming. Thinking Man's Templar spoke about how brothers have to get their vices under control because it's easy to gain weight, drink to much, deal with too many women, or gamble too much...
Hey Skylar, good video. My past travel experiences to Colombia and Costa Rica increased my paranoia a bit. There was a fat Brazilian dude (with pink t-shirt) that seemed to lock his full attention on you when you passed him and he heard you speaking English. He walked behind you for about 40-60 feet and then I did not see him in the background. Try to switch up your walking patterns during the week when you do your videos. Be safe and cut back on your female distractions.))
I noticed that too. Glad you mentioned that. Be smooth and inconspicuous as much as possible when shooting video. Use a camera or device that doesn't stand out as much.
You felt danger in Costa Rica? I'd agree the only city to be cautious in is Jaco because of the pros. I agree San Jose feels a little sketchy but certain parts you just shouldn't be in to begin with. Which areas were you in?
When I saw the tumbnail...I already knew what you were having trouble with, but addressing your shadow is the path to taming it. You good, I'm not leaving Rio when I get there...unless im going to Angra dos reis....or Cabo Frio to get away. Gramado maybe
You need to build rituals, preferably during a time of the day you often aren't so busy. I try to do mine in the morning. Rituals are not 'habits', they're things you do to yourself to bring yourself to your peak performance for the day. Cleaning your face/hair, maybe reading a book, writing a script. Once these are done you wont feel like your day is wasted. Regarding content production, you need to simply have a window you record and edit and dont break it. Just like you wouldn't be late for a formation in the military.
DISCIPLINE, PLANNING, STRUCTURE AND FOCUS........Remember, too many women can be a downfall as well as not having any women both can fuck your life up. You'll be good man you got this!
Ask Copilot to create a disciplined schedule from 6AM-6AM; take ashwagandha chill; Just say no to anything that's going to exhaust yourself. Obrigado and Chaio, fam!
Have you thought of temporarily relocating from Rio? Or try visiting other Brazilian cities like Salvador in the North, or Florianopolis in the South. Sometimes a change of scenery is needed for us to refocus and regroup our mindset.
You could try to find older mentors to try and figure out how best to move and shake in retirement. Preferably someone who already lives there. When your português picks up you could talk the locals as well
Definitely do the walk and talk once a week. But try and do different neighborhoods. So we might be able to check-out different landscapes.the apartments you passed by first we’re nice.😎
Man I was going back and forth to Brazil For years. hahaha I had like three girlfriends . The one I fell in Love with was from Colombia she lived in Brazil. The girls there are off the chain. I never seen any thing like the beauty in Brazil. Easy to talk to. You are from the U.S. they are with it.
I live in Thailand, which I had the same problem. you are still in vacation mode, your mind is in a tourist mindset, while in vacation mode you're still fascinated with culture shock, women, and lifestyle. Eventually your mind will settle, and you'll realize it's getting old. I've lived in Thailand for over a year, and my vacation mode lasted around 3-4 months. Rio it might take longer because it's a huge city.
Sounds like you need a change of location to give yourself inspiration. The whole point of having freedom is to be able to travell and explore new places. Your limiting yourself to one place which os stifling your energy
Write out a weekly schedule for yourself stick to it and don't think about nothing else, make sure it includes a exercise yoga/ meditation a daily massage, juicing healthy fruits and vegetables make sure you get some sunlight, get 8 hrs of sleep, drink enough water, if possible get an assistant to help with business etc. And just chill.
Lmfao… I’ve seen it.. So many 10s. and beyond.. They love Black American Men.. I met so many dudes who were married in America that left their families for a woman from Brasil.. It’s crazy
I’m just looking to get married tbh. I had interest in fun and just messing around, but I started to come back to God and honestly I want to date to marry, and I see that happening with a foreign woman since they share the values of my immigrant family. I have always loved traveling and for me, I miss the food and the fact that Christian women overseas tend to be seeking God and value a having a good attitude. Also I’ll say Americans tend to be jerks compared to non Americans. God bless man and hope everything goes great
Man rj ad sp are a little bit expensive to live compare to other states. But like you said if you have the money thats great. Just be carefull you dont get robbed in rj.
It is a great problem to have. Once you reach the apex next question whats next. Dont stuck in one place. Travel different places create a new experience. You never know.
As a man of God and a combat veteran, everything you expressed concern about is sums up to being uncentered, undisciplined, easily distracted, lack of perspective and easily impressed with the superficial. All fixable but do your really want to fix it.
Aahh, problems of the rich and famous lol. Sometimes too many options is worse than not enough. I am an Air Force guy (Fire Protection) and most of the countries I have been to outside the US have too many options. I was stationed in the Philippines, and had so many women I stopped working out, and barely went to work lol! The same for Germany, I had a smoking hot blue eyed blonde German woman who would come pick me up at the Fire House in front of the crew. You almost have to CHOOSE to live somewhere kinda boring to reset your perspective and buckle down to work. When I was in CA I was inundated with women, while visiting my girlfriend. I would never live in these places now unless I was rich, and even then you can quickly loose yourself. Get back into the gym and work and set aside days to go out and focus and you will be fine. Maybe find a steady lady...God forbid in Brazil lol! Good luck and thanks for your service Sir!
I find that playing sports helps me. Just fitness aint enough. You need competition. I spend 6 months a year May- October in the NE of Brazil. Since I moved to Central Florida my basketball run came to a screeching halt. Now I play softball here in the winter November -April and while i am in Brazil the summer time I find a secluded spot and hit softballs of a tee into a net. Brazilians are not used to seeing older Americans or tourists fixated on something. While I am trying to whack the cover off the ball, even those annoying attractive women don't mean anything. Dial it back a little and obsess over just one thing, it helps me
Porque os homens americanos não exploram o sul do Brasil, Curitiba, Florianópolis, Balneário Camboriú é famoso, Porto Alegre as cidades entorno...eu não entendo, tem a melhor qualidade de vida.
Easy just find one 🔥🐔 then focus on your future. Don't worry you're still like a kid in a candy shop you will soon settle down. Unless one of your main objectives was just to keep hitting as many 🐔 as possible then that always comes with a price and trouble and alot of damaged girls by the brothers which will eventually turn them into the same girls we are always complain about in the US and in the UK. You've answered this yourself distractions are distractions and business is business just focus on what's more important just find one girl that is the best match for you and wants to build and support a future with you. I know its easier said than done but that's my advice bro I know you're a smart guy so you will figure it out soon. Best of luck but at the same time it's not the worst problem to have😅😊
I'm glad I got that out my system in Chicago. And learned about zodiac signs along the way and how true the shit really is through experience. I'm gonna find me a nice Leo to settle down with down there, lol.
The first hour of the day is for YOU bro! Not for anything else. Unless it's an emergency. Meditate, breathe, read, journal. You only need 30min to an hour. You'll be straight.
Different take, I guess. After a month in Rio I had gotten bored and wanted to get back to my business. I would suggest a focus into real estate if you're wanting to be more hands off. Plus higher yield potential than this market imo especially w/ discretionary incomes dropping, competitive interests, and less people expected to travel. Less risk too. Biz is about reputation so any future plans to pivot outside of this may become hindered by this image of you being a purveyor of the w***e economy. That's the money piece. On the social impact piece, 99% of your viewers can't afford to stay in brazil anyway - they're literally low income brothas buying a dream. Maybe some will be able to afford that "3 day trip" after a year of saving (which should be invested anyway).
True. it is very distracting when you go there so I go into candy store got women all over and you wanna know where the rest of them are very true so I know what you’re talking about even though I’m not been there 11 times still it’s calming down a little bit. I’ve got a plan to go in February. If everything goes OK to meet up with a lady that lived in Rio but she’s in London just for work and then she’s gonna go back to Brazil. yeah I know what you mean but you gotta make a plan and I know you got it but True getting all those text messages in the morning when you get up like wow
Let's see, you can't stay focused because of all the beautiful women. Wow, I should have that problem. BTW, I am seeing what you said about the beautiful women there. Plus the desire for short term relationships is crazy!
It’s almost as if you lost your purpose after you retired from the Air Force. I used to be in your shoes after I retired from the Air Force as well. You need to set a new goal and follow it. Simple.
@@TheBetaMalePolice No. They won't know you're american until you speak. And even then some may not even assume you're American even though you speak a different language. Most won't even care if you're American anyway. Noone is staring at gringos like that out there. These youtubers have distorted reality to naive brothas like you that haven't been there before. The expats with high level connections and real money stay away from these guys lol.
One vet to another, cut the shit and get active. Refocus and reset your goals. Prioritize daily. Hit your daily objectives and everything else can be fun in between. This is the life you deserve and aspired to have bro. Much support.
20 years in the army.. wow.. I thought you were in your mid-late 20s. Keep it up man 💪👌 smashing it
Airforce*
Most cats don’t take care of their bodies
When you don't smoke or drink you look youthful in your 40s
Common man, don't do this to the army. Chair force, that is the military he is from. He ain't tuff, just another Steve Urkel. He has to pay for the pie, he ain't built tuff
Appreciate you sharing your thoughts and talking about your journey. The temptation in Brazil is on another level bro. I think the best way manage your time properly is to break up your day in blocks i.e. 3 hours for working out, time dedicated to editing and UA-cam, time working on Patron, time to eat, time to explore the city, and save the the fun for the night time as a reward to yourself for being locked in on business first. That's how I would do it if I was in your position so hopefully my advice suits you well. Been following your channel for a few years now and will continue to support your content. Keep doing your thing and just don't get caught up in all the abundance of women out there. You got it bro. Stay solid
This is a classic problem of everyone who gets a comfortable life. Too much fun and easy life make us feel that we are not living up to our potential. a competitive mind always needs the next target. Ladies and fun looks like a target but its not in the end. Pride and how high we can go in life is the target. This is why kings in the past wanted to win one after another wars.
Now solution is, first we need to realise that there is a time for an activity. When we wake up then its time to work. Daytime is not for meeting ladies. its only a weekend activity. Morning and afternoon is for work on the weekdays, Evenings for Gym and eating healthy food + Reading on the weekdays. The weekend from Friday evening till Sunday afternoon is full on fun.
Overall purpose of life has to be really big like becoming a really successful businessman & entrepreneur. it will keep us busy for our whole life but gives us satisfaction. even if we fail, we would still be a winner.
Meeting with lower-life people kills our competitive mindset because we already feel successful in life in front of them.
I have been struggling with a similar problem. The above solution working for me.
Good suggestions for a structured week.
I’m in Sao Paolo now, been here for 2 weeks. So much distraction’s, staying focused is hard in BRazil. Always something to do.
What does that mean ??
Goals are nothing without planning. If there are no schedules/due dates. There is no accountability for your goals.
Sound advice 👍🏿
Been a supporter for years and book owner, keep serving your audience. You already got the right idea
Thinking man Templar is legend in this space
If you financially comfortable, why stress the distractions? It will level off at some point especially when you find a steady woman.
"We must stay focused brothers, we MUST stay focused"
😂
Exactly, " *for GOOD* !" 😂
BIG UP SKYLAR!!! keep doing the walk and talks!
I totally get the anxiety! and you was lookin bug eye in this video🤣 Something about the energy in these places outside da matrix gives the feeling; like you can do anything! When your not being beat up and tore down, you got great food-healthy, you got your exercise regimen down, fine women are checking for you and you trying to continue to make $ it can all be a little overwhelming especially with no "barriers" (although I know theres still obstacles, just diff ones)
When I was in trinidad, I was walking around princes town feeling like I was gonna run for mayor🤣Same way in colombia, thailand etc...im back in the states tryna figure out how to leave for good! When you pursue 1 thing- the other is getting away. But you cant lose over there. I haven't been to Rio yet...but I WILL. And I still haven't bought a PS5- I want one but I feel like it's a huge distraction for me at this point. I also feel I wont play as much when I get settled in overseas! I might cop 1 on my way out...but for now im stacking and researching....much congrats to you in your endeavors an continued success - I look forward to continue to watch your content!
Man I'm having similar issues in Medellín. Although I don't live there full time, I can already see the distractions and massive options that can get confusing.
Sounds like you want to be more efficient. Keep living life. You’re going through a transition 🔥 looking forward to coming there.
What is your purpose in life, is there a problem you want to solve, family, etc..
The goals will follow but the purpose has to come first.
This is how you avoid distractions. Everyone wanders off the path or needs a break every now and then but treat it like the 80/20 rule for dieting.
Had the same feeling Skylar. So many beautiful women around who are fit and healthy. Good weather and non-GMO food. The best way is to get a routine with expat socials, pagode and samba clubs, football on the beach and a set time for work. You're doing great things and providing inspiration for so many.
Skylar ,I live medellin now and I am having the same problems. I have come to the conclusion that I am missing the structure of a normal job. You must schedule your day as if you are at work. I highly recommend you read as a man thinkers" and start learning how to compartmentalize your life.
I wonder if its wise for a man to have all those options long term?
..Just bought that audio book based off your recommendation. Peace
I experienced this in thailand this summer. I was on the beach. Women and other attractions everywhere. I stopped working and started indulging too much. I had to come back to the states to focus. I was not disciplined enough to make the digital nomad thing work yet
Glad you can admit that brothers from all races have a problem with EXACTLY 💯 what you said......this life I think if you spoke to the expats who would sit down with you would tell you it's about DISCIPLINE
Definitely going do Brazil as my first international trip.
I went on my Honeymoon.
6 years later, I'm single and trying to move there, lol.
@@defrank1870😂 💯
@@defrank1870
Did you find it hard to focus on your wife? Lol
@@Grayslakegunner Bro. My ex wife was a 9. Chocolate sista with a box booty and a narrow waist and figure. Fine AF.
Then... She stood next to a carnival chick with a BBL.
GAME. OVAAA...
Shout out to your sis 🫡 and I’m a new subscriber, soon Patreon supporter! Thank you for your true transparency and realism 🏆
Thank you so much!!
This is also true for Brazilians. I was born in Sao Paul, but when I lived in Rio for a while, I noticed how the outdoors culture usually takes over professional duties. They tend to prioritize a good time over long-run accomplishments. People from Rio usually mock us Paulistas for not having beaches, and worrying too much about work, but they also have a lower productivity output. Finding the balance is the key.
Very very true.
Good man right here. Much respect for educating the brothers. We need more.
Your making it sound like too many distractions is a bad thing. I can make the case that it's a good thing. Take time and enjoy life and be in the "NOW". Smell and play with the roses. 😂🌹 You just finished over 20 years in a demanding career with much personal sacrifice. The next career will wait. Take time and go within. Know Thyself. Thanks for sharing! 😎👊🏼
You can do this brother! You have the military discipline. You have already done it before you can refocus again!!
You’re right Sky, we support you no matter the algorithm.
Keep the walk and talks coming
Great video one day at a time brother your still young. I'm 54 yrs old I retired from the army and about to retire from ups with 32 yrs on the job. I'm trying to see the world like you young man . Enjoy yourself the next idea will come to u
Congrats on the double dipping. 👏👏👏👏 Well, actually, you'll be triple dipping when you collect Social Security. 🤓
Syklar, thanks for sharing. I went through something similar when I lived in São Paulo.I suggest try to find some like minded people in Brazil to share your concerns. Sounds like you are overwelmed and or overloaded with things in Brazil. What you experience in England or the states, you will feel it 5 times more. It’s serious.
Entanglements? Ok, things can go fast and crazy with Brazilians if you know what I mean... this is a whole different energy when it comes to this. I will not say more. Best of luck MT.
I learned from my father who was a retired Staff Sargent. What he taught my brother and I was..... Discipline! Get a planner and start schedule your day. Allow yourself two to three hours brain storm a project to film. Allow yourself 2 plus hours to actually film the project. Schedule yourself editing time to complete the project. Brain storm for the next day and repeat the process. Decide how many projects you want to produce over the course of a week and create your schedule to meet your weekly goals. now work all of your other activities around your schedule and you'll be good to go.
The longest time I stayed in Rio de Janeiro Brazil was about two weeks but I see it's much different when you live there year-round.
That's why having control over lust is so important.
Those two UA-camrs losing their channels? Well when it comes to CG, she had it coming considering her content and I'm elated. As far as F and F, they should've known better and didn't want to see them go. But just take it easy on yourself. It'll all sort itself out. Relax. You got time if you're going to be there long term.
I am a lot older than you. However, I àm an American black man who retired early here 12 years ago in the State of Rio de Janeiro. Many of the things you are experiencing are normal for a young American black man trying to settle down here. Things will get better in the future with self-control and a more focused direction. Have fun for now now, but keep your eyes open for the prize. The prize is that special girlfriend who will work with you to build your business and talk you through moments like this. I live near Cabo Frio. It is a lot more peaceful here, and I take a short trip whenever I am in the mood for excitement. But it is all good. People are great, and life is great. Stay positive brother.
Will strive to have these type of problems
You're in Paradise brother... Everything is very affordable there, and you have access to whatever you want. It can get overwhelming. Thinking Man's Templar spoke about how brothers have to get their vices under control because it's easy to gain weight, drink to much, deal with too many women, or gamble too much...
Amazing video much love 🎉❤.
Hey Skylar, good video. My past travel experiences to Colombia and Costa Rica increased my paranoia a bit. There was a fat Brazilian dude (with pink t-shirt) that seemed to lock his full attention on you when you passed him and he heard you speaking English. He walked behind you for about 40-60 feet and then I did not see him in the background. Try to switch up your walking patterns during the week when you do your videos. Be safe and cut back on your female distractions.))
Revenge of the fat guy lol
I noticed that too. Glad you mentioned that. Be smooth and inconspicuous as much as possible when shooting video. Use a camera or device that doesn't stand out as much.
You felt danger in Costa Rica? I'd agree the only city to be cautious in is Jaco because of the pros. I agree San Jose feels a little sketchy but certain parts you just shouldn't be in to begin with. Which areas were you in?
Yes, I think your walk and talks are great! Keep ‘em up!
Good problems to have.
When I saw the tumbnail...I already knew what you were having trouble with, but addressing your shadow is the path to taming it. You good, I'm not leaving Rio when I get there...unless im going to Angra dos reis....or Cabo Frio to get away. Gramado maybe
You need to build rituals, preferably during a time of the day you often aren't so busy. I try to do mine in the morning. Rituals are not 'habits', they're things you do to yourself to bring yourself to your peak performance for the day. Cleaning your face/hair, maybe reading a book, writing a script. Once these are done you wont feel like your day is wasted. Regarding content production, you need to simply have a window you record and edit and dont break it. Just like you wouldn't be late for a formation in the military.
appreciate the honesty💯
Poor guy out here folded so much he can't focus....lol
😂
Try Sao Paolo or Florianópolis. That might be more your speed
Keep up the good work
DISCIPLINE, PLANNING, STRUCTURE AND FOCUS........Remember, too many women can be a downfall as well as not having any women both can fuck your life up. You'll be good man you got this!
we like the walk and talks
Going to live in Bahia is a great place to live in Brasil 🇧🇷
Ask Copilot to create a disciplined schedule from 6AM-6AM; take ashwagandha chill; Just say no to anything that's going to exhaust yourself. Obrigado and Chaio, fam!
Have you thought of temporarily relocating from Rio? Or try visiting other Brazilian cities like Salvador in the North, or Florianopolis in the South. Sometimes a change of scenery is needed for us to refocus and regroup our mindset.
How about a relocate to North Dakota?
@SkylarDeRouen huh lol. That'd work too
Montana bro
You could try to find older mentors to try and figure out how best to move and shake in retirement. Preferably someone who already lives there. When your português picks up you could talk the locals as well
Good video brother. I have the same problem 😂
Definitely do the walk and talk once a week. But try and do different neighborhoods. So we might be able to check-out different landscapes.the apartments you passed by first we’re nice.😎
Good video 😊
Man I was going back and forth to Brazil For years. hahaha I had like three girlfriends . The one I fell in Love with was from Colombia she lived in Brazil. The girls there are off the chain. I never seen any thing like the beauty in Brazil. Easy to talk to. You are from the U.S. they are with it.
I live in Thailand, which I had the same problem. you are still in vacation mode, your mind is in a tourist mindset, while in vacation mode you're still fascinated with culture shock, women, and lifestyle. Eventually your mind will settle, and you'll realize it's getting old. I've lived in Thailand for over a year, and my vacation mode lasted around 3-4 months. Rio it might take longer because it's a huge city.
Sounds like you need a change of location to give yourself inspiration. The whole point of having freedom is to be able to travell and explore new places. Your limiting yourself to one place which os stifling your energy
I was i brazil for 2 months during the carnival time this year . I know exactly what your talking about bro.
Try to do one 15 minutes walk and talk per day.
Write out a weekly schedule for yourself stick to it and don't think about nothing else, make sure it includes a exercise yoga/ meditation a daily massage, juicing healthy fruits and vegetables make sure you get some sunlight, get 8 hrs of sleep, drink enough water, if possible get an assistant to help with business etc. And just chill.
Bro suffering from success 😂Aye man I totally understand you've been working for years for this type of freedom enjoy it
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Lmfao… I’ve seen it.. So many 10s. and beyond.. They love Black American Men.. I met so many dudes who were married in America that left their families for a woman from Brasil.. It’s crazy
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make a daily schedule every night and stick to it
I’m just looking to get married tbh. I had interest in fun and just messing around, but I started to come back to God and honestly I want to date to marry, and I see that happening with a foreign woman since they share the values of my immigrant family. I have always loved traveling and for me, I miss the food and the fact that Christian women overseas tend to be seeking God and value a having a good attitude. Also I’ll say Americans tend to be jerks compared to non Americans. God bless man and hope everything goes great
Man rj ad sp are a little bit expensive to live compare to other states. But like you said if you have the money thats great.
Just be carefull you dont get robbed in rj.
13:17 "these brazilians are always staring at me"... i wonder why
@mtulio6422 I guess it's more the attitude he has not the language he speaks
Great video! I can imagine it being distracting lol.
It’s seem like you just want to live your life and enjoy it without the UA-cam stuff
It is a great problem to have. Once you reach the apex next question whats next. Dont stuck in one place. Travel different places create a new experience. You never know.
Eazy does it Man one step at a time, and stay focus.
Knowing the language = more distractions
MT you have good distractions enjoy vamp with it and keep folding them up my brother
As a man of God and a combat veteran, everything you expressed concern about is sums up to being uncentered, undisciplined, easily distracted, lack of perspective and easily impressed with the superficial. All fixable but do your really want to fix it.
Aahh, problems of the rich and famous lol. Sometimes too many options is worse than not enough. I am an Air Force guy (Fire Protection) and most of the countries I have been to outside the US have too many options. I was stationed in the Philippines, and had so many women I stopped working out, and barely went to work lol! The same for Germany, I had a smoking hot blue eyed blonde German woman who would come pick me up at the Fire House in front of the crew.
You almost have to CHOOSE to live somewhere kinda boring to reset your perspective and buckle down to work. When I was in CA I was inundated with women, while visiting my girlfriend. I would never live in these places now unless I was rich, and even then you can quickly loose yourself. Get back into the gym and work and set aside days to go out and focus and you will be fine. Maybe find a steady lady...God forbid in Brazil lol! Good luck and thanks for your service Sir!
Wishing you Godspeed bro! I know exactly what you mean. Are you fluent in Portuguese?
That's why I do SEO I don't go through the problems you go through
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I find that playing sports helps me. Just fitness aint enough. You need competition. I spend 6 months a year May- October in the NE of Brazil. Since I moved to Central Florida my basketball run came to a screeching halt. Now I play softball here in the winter November -April and while i am in Brazil the summer time I find a secluded spot and hit softballs of a tee into a net. Brazilians are not used to seeing older Americans or tourists fixated on something. While I am trying to whack the cover off the ball, even those annoying attractive women don't mean anything. Dial it back a little and obsess over just one thing, it helps me
Sounds like you wanna leave Brazil but cant bc your biz model is selling the dream of brazil to people 😅
Porque os homens americanos não exploram o sul do Brasil, Curitiba, Florianópolis, Balneário Camboriú é famoso, Porto Alegre as cidades entorno...eu não entendo, tem a melhor qualidade de vida.
Easy just find one 🔥🐔 then focus on your future. Don't worry you're still like a kid in a candy shop you will soon settle down. Unless one of your main objectives was just to keep hitting as many 🐔 as possible then that always comes with a price and trouble and alot of damaged girls by the brothers which will eventually turn them into the same girls we are always complain about in the US and in the UK. You've answered this yourself distractions are distractions and business is business just focus on what's more important just find one girl that is the best match for you and wants to build and support a future with you. I know its easier said than done but that's my advice bro I know you're a smart guy so you will figure it out soon. Best of luck but at the same time it's not the worst problem to have😅😊
I'm glad I got that out my system in Chicago. And learned about zodiac signs along the way and how true the shit really is through experience.
I'm gonna find me a nice Leo to settle down with down there, lol.
The first hour of the day is for YOU bro! Not for anything else. Unless it's an emergency. Meditate, breathe, read, journal. You only need 30min to an hour. You'll be straight.
Different take, I guess. After a month in Rio I had gotten bored and wanted to get back to my business. I would suggest a focus into real estate if you're wanting to be more hands off. Plus higher yield potential than this market imo especially w/ discretionary incomes dropping, competitive interests, and less people expected to travel. Less risk too. Biz is about reputation so any future plans to pivot outside of this may become hindered by this image of you being a purveyor of the w***e economy. That's the money piece. On the social impact piece, 99% of your viewers can't afford to stay in brazil anyway - they're literally low income brothas buying a dream. Maybe some will be able to afford that "3 day trip" after a year of saving (which should be invested anyway).
Sounds you having good problems haha 😂
Sounds like your issue is discipline.
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True. it is very distracting when you go there so I go into candy store got women all over and you wanna know where the rest of them are very true so I know what you’re talking about even though I’m not been there 11 times still it’s calming down a little bit. I’ve got a plan to go in February. If everything goes OK to meet up with a lady that lived in Rio but she’s in London just for work and then she’s gonna go back to Brazil. yeah I know what you mean but you gotta make a plan and I know you got it but True getting all those text messages in the morning when you get up like wow
Let's see, you can't stay focused because of all the beautiful women. Wow, I should have that problem. BTW, I am seeing what you said about the beautiful women there. Plus the desire for short term relationships is crazy!
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Thinking with his little head too much instead of his og head
Wait until you see the next video 😉
@@SkylarDeRouen as far as video games go, I am going old school playing metal gear solid 1 that was on playstation 1.
It’s almost as if you lost your purpose after you retired from the Air Force. I used to be in your shoes after I retired from the Air Force as well. You need to set a new goal and follow it. Simple.
When I got out of the Navy, that's how I felt.
record hella content in advance bruh then you can kick back and upload as you see fit
Those guys were following you
Something aint right here.. your complaining bc theres too many beautiful women? 😂
They are staring at you because you're an American, lol! Good questions, though. Do more of these videos
*Because he's speaking another language
@@bapa39 Even if he was silent, they would still stare. American men are indeed exotic out the US
@@TheBetaMalePolice No. They won't know you're american until you speak. And even then some may not even assume you're American even though you speak a different language. Most won't even care if you're American anyway. Noone is staring at gringos like that out there. These youtubers have distorted reality to naive brothas like you that haven't been there before. The expats with high level connections and real money stay away from these guys lol.
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I love your videoes please also make videoes how we can make passive income so we can travel it can just be ideas thank you.