How To Destroy Your NEGATIVE THOUGHTS & Achieve Anything You Want | Lilly Singh

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  • Опубліковано 21 гру 2024

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  • @abhilashajangam871
    @abhilashajangam871 2 роки тому +54

    I am in late thirties and I know the pressure my parents and society put on me to get married and have babies.. whereas I wanted to travel the world and live on my terms and marry someone I truly feel confident to be with... Everyone found me insane but I am happy to do what I wanted to... ❤️

    • @trichi.chauhan1659
      @trichi.chauhan1659 2 роки тому +7

      @Abhilasha Jangam kudos.You have every single right to do what makes you happy.So let the world sink and you wear your traveling shoes and enjoy the beautiful journey of life.Good luck

    • @abhilashajangam871
      @abhilashajangam871 2 роки тому +3

      @@trichi.chauhan1659 thanks dear ❤️

    • @alyf.6698
      @alyf.6698 2 роки тому +2

      I can totally relate. :)

  • @khatnippod
    @khatnippod 2 роки тому +40

    I used to follow Lilly when she was vlogging nonstop and on her hussle. This side of her is a GLOW UP & she was already a star. Loved this interview 😊

  • @kellestex102
    @kellestex102 2 роки тому +15

    LOVED THIS INTERVIEW!
    Resonated with so much spoken by you and Lilly. What an incredible woman. As a South Asian woman myself, its so inspiring seeing the way she's described her relation and understanding of her parents.
    A blessing to be able to listen to this!

  • @athulyaaugustine9953
    @athulyaaugustine9953 2 роки тому +16

    I'm a highly sensitive person and afraid to break the stereotypical family thoughts. Yeah I'm from India. So, a lot of conservative thoughts are built in right from childhood. This video actually brought tears in my eyes. Frankly! Because I totally relate to this situation. But how to come out of it is what I'm confused.

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 роки тому +180

    The more we work on our own selves, the more our circumstances and overall lives change. The more we grow and invest into ourselves, the more we will see a transformation, especially how we better communicate with others. You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, and your future! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

    • @weyustyle
      @weyustyle 2 роки тому

      I’ll look

    • @scarletll
      @scarletll 2 роки тому

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @denrylluna
    @denrylluna 2 роки тому +6

    Jay: "My auntie has that book by the way if you need a copy." 😂🤣
    Love the honesty in this conversation. Huge shout out to Lilly for sharing her inner workings 💗.

  • @maitreyiee
    @maitreyiee 7 місяців тому

    So much to learn from Lilly. She saved me as a teenager and I just remember laughing while watching her skits because everything was relatable. I went to watch her show in India and i remember just tears rolling down my eyes because I felt so grateful. Her videos back in the day made me feel so good about myself and not think about my insecurities. I'm again going through a tough time in my life and I'm so glad I came across this video because i had lost a piece of myself and really forgot who I was. I'm glad I've been following idols like Lilly that I know won't misguide her audience for views and clout. Thanks a lot Lilly! Love you ❤

  • @ozatanvi
    @ozatanvi 2 роки тому +6

    The most interesting part of the podcast was when Lilly discussed the context and how people are shaped by their experiences. We should respect each other's boundaries.
    Taking care of ourselves positively impacts the quality of our lives and the circumstances in which we live. As we invest in ourselves and grow, we will experience a transformation, especially in the way we communicate with others. Don't take chances, invest in yourself! Investing in yourself, your family, and your future is wise!
    I have been a fan of Lilly and Jay for years, so this collaboration fills me with joy on all levels. You both are incredible. Keep doing what you do.

  • @janeyabullard3240
    @janeyabullard3240 2 роки тому +3

    I love what she said about making new connections and having that old mindset attached with that. I'm in a point in my life where I'm understanding that the people that were meant to be in your life can sometimes be met in unexpected ways. Her words are beautifully said. I had to research her sun sign and hers is a Libra (which makes a lot of sense, she would be the representation of balance). I'm glad she can share her insight and her spiritual awareness to the people of my generation because the times have changed. We all crave that independence of self expression and individualism. This video was beautiful and it will forever be in alignment. Thank you so much, I'm very grateful for this channel.

  • @ashley_diaz3125
    @ashley_diaz3125 2 роки тому +20

    How coincidental! I was listening to her being on your podcast in 2019 when I got the UA-cam notification for this video. Lol Lily you are so inspiring! Keep being you and being the impactful powerful women that you are!

  • @DzineMix
    @DzineMix 2 роки тому +4

    This is my very first time here, I’m going to be honest. This conversation is what I needed in my life now. After realize the truth of reality it’s hard to face the world to me, that gimme the opportunity to redesign everything.

  • @Ankesadventures
    @Ankesadventures 2 роки тому +7

    This was nothing short of phenomenal. Lilly was so deep. Thank you!

  • @ransi407
    @ransi407 2 роки тому +48

    I love how she spoke of context and the different circumstances in people’s lives that make each person who they are. We should really respect those boundaries of people. Been following Lily and Jay for years now and this collaboration is literally heaven to my mind, body and soul. Love you to bits, keep doing what you’re doing ♥️

  • @teamaden2185
    @teamaden2185 2 роки тому +1

    Two of my favorite people together. You both have given me tremendous guidance to discover not only myself but my purpose. Thank you 🥰

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 роки тому +4

    Good words from good heart destroys negative thoughts from our mind.

  • @harshitarawat754
    @harshitarawat754 2 роки тому +5

    Jay was soo connecting with Lily
    This podcast soo illuminating
    Love this podcast
    Lily is having such deep perspective just wow 💕💕💕🦋

  • @shikastormcrow6224
    @shikastormcrow6224 2 роки тому +1

    The way Lily's parents see the world, the way she described them, sooooo soo relatable as my parents are exactly the same. They too were born and bred in India, Gujarat, moved here for a better life etc and always emphasised hard work and education. All those things are important, but the degree to which you're educated can vary and doesn't diminish a person's strengths or talents. But yeh thinking differently to our parents, growing up with that is tough as I always felt like I was the odd one out seeing things differently etc. Thank you for sharing this Lily and Jay!

  • @bluemint4359
    @bluemint4359 2 роки тому +6

    This friendship is truly everything, so inspiring and insightful individuals both of you are! Thank you so much!

  • @Manchestergirl54
    @Manchestergirl54 2 роки тому +1

    Great interview Jay.Nice to see Lilly being so deep and honest.The main thing that I realised from this, is that I am a "Disruptar."

  • @nikiangelina9920
    @nikiangelina9920 2 роки тому +4

    I appreciate the themes of compassion. Thank you for creating this dialogue.

  • @NaccariRolfe
    @NaccariRolfe 2 роки тому +11

    I remember watching her when I was in High School now I’m post college grad and I 100% relate to this! My parents did the best they could with the tools they had. Their concerns growing up were different than mine!

  • @juliemidgley5287
    @juliemidgley5287 2 роки тому +2

    Absolutely delightful "energy" exchange. One of my all time fav podcast. Adore Lily's new take on making new friends, and creating new history together. BEAUTIFUL❤️

  • @maddug8151
    @maddug8151 2 роки тому +8

    After listening to this podcast I am thinking about the things I had missed out on while focusing on something else so much ! Absolutely loved this episode n I didn’t want it to end! Great work guys 🙏🏼

  • @thechancellor-
    @thechancellor- 2 роки тому +20

    To the *incredible person* that's seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.

  • @sims4u422
    @sims4u422 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you all for this interesting conversation and for filming it.

  • @sarugharavendiran8450
    @sarugharavendiran8450 2 роки тому +4

    I love this conversation soooo much. It explains so much in a very simple and beautiful way!

  • @gavinspeaks
    @gavinspeaks 2 роки тому +16

    The key is not putting the law of attraction on a pedestal. You don’t put oxygen on a pedestal, you just use it. The same with LOA. Just be chill!
    ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction UA-camr💜

  • @josievaccaro
    @josievaccaro 2 роки тому +2

    Lilly blew my mind away! 🥰 She's so badass and so brutally honest and I love that! Amazing woman and so confident!

  • @anonymoustube1
    @anonymoustube1 2 роки тому +5

    wow i loved this! this the kinda conversations we need. 2020 woke us all up. lily is a whole life coach now! i cannot wait to read this book

  • @tonyamoore8780
    @tonyamoore8780 2 роки тому +2

    Really enjoyed interview! My favorite thing was the law that Lilly would like. Context is key. Most of your guest have the same law.

  • @shikastormcrow6224
    @shikastormcrow6224 2 роки тому +1

    The courage that Lily must have needed to openly tell her parents she's bisexual must have been one of the hardest things she has ever done, and for so many others who have experienced the same. Truly so brave, so strong and an inspiration to many!

  • @briannalinchner6800
    @briannalinchner6800 2 роки тому

    What a powerful women she is . She is so unique in her thinking. She teached me you can do anything you put your mind to . It’s the end it’s only the begging of your journey it starts here .

  • @jaslyfe
    @jaslyfe 2 роки тому +4

    Loved every bit of this podcast. Lilly Singh is so inspiring.

  • @22MJF
    @22MJF 2 роки тому

    Thank you Lily for being so honest , love you in all your elements .. wish you more and more peace and success

  • @tanishalegardy3737
    @tanishalegardy3737 2 роки тому

    And also the part where she talks about her career and unsubscribing to the idea that it couldn’t be and DESIGNING her life in a way that it would. That is sooo beautiful and impactful to me. B/c I’ve been in school like 5 or 6 years now. And changed my majors, stopped and started again. And asked myself is this really what I want to do. I’m studying to be a psychodynamic therapist. But Idk if want to be stuck in a 4 wall room only seeing a handful of clients. I feel more expansive than that. What I truly want is to be able to learn all the information, do the work came back to people with the information and experience I went through to help them as well. To be on a stage or across the world or even a Jay shetty podcast some day to spread the light of my heart. But I didn’t know what title that would be called. Idk how I could explain that to my parents or make it happen. But like Lilly said “I’m going to design my life in that way that better serves me that this idea could work” so thank you for this encouragement ☺️

  • @Miss.Bri_
    @Miss.Bri_ 2 роки тому +2

    Love her and she’s a Virgo like me!🤗

  • @martingustafsson2728
    @martingustafsson2728 2 роки тому +2

    The energy is incredible between you!
    Sending much love❤️

  • @skyd91
    @skyd91 2 роки тому +9

    I was hoping someone did an in depth video with her! Thank you!

  • @snehannitadewanji3924
    @snehannitadewanji3924 2 роки тому

    After a very long time, I took some time out of my day to find a good podcast, so grateful to come across this. Thank you! Truly inspiring

  • @justinglintz8263
    @justinglintz8263 2 роки тому +2

    After this video I had to check both your personality types. It was like having to two me's advice me. Thanks Jay(INFJ) for all these awesome words of advice and viewpoints shared with lilly(ENFJ).

  • @geetarameshmotiram6536
    @geetarameshmotiram6536 2 роки тому

    Listening to Lilly and Jay is my meditation. Thank you the both of you! Can’t wait for my copy to arrive!

  • @aKm057
    @aKm057 Рік тому

    Two of my very favourite people on the internet… Sach mei!❤

  • @bubiesparkles
    @bubiesparkles Рік тому

    Love when Jay interviews his friends! Great interview!

  • @amandamillerhsk
    @amandamillerhsk 2 роки тому +1

    Absolutely love her and all her beautiful wisdom
    Thank you so much for sharing this
    Love light and peace to you both
    😁💚✌💸🧘‍♀️☮🌈🌎

  • @sunvavachi
    @sunvavachi 2 роки тому +2

    This was a really good interview. Only thing is I think degrees can help people grow to how they wish to grow in, everyone's journey. She said really good things and its really about finding balance in everything we do, being content while doing anything. Life is really precious. She has grown a lot! It seems like her book will be good. :)

  • @IJuggy
    @IJuggy 10 місяців тому

    Just seeing this Lilly Singh! Thanks for posting on your channel

  • @c.ronthemic7450
    @c.ronthemic7450 2 роки тому +1

    Jay if your reading this, I think bringing back some of your past guests was an amazing decision especially for the viewers to expand upon what they knew then watching, and what they know now. One suggestion if I may so far you have bought back the guests whom impacted me and am sure millions more the most... But Alexis Ren has to be back. Hopefully sometime in the future. Lilly, Big Sean, Alexis Ren and Lauren London. We're for me the game changers among others. But these interview where the ones where I saw another dimension. Thanks Chloe

  • @aditibhukta
    @aditibhukta 2 роки тому +2

    Grateful for this podcast.

  • @Lolo-lt2lf
    @Lolo-lt2lf 2 роки тому

    Liking this because of so many reasons, but because of the fact that she talked about if someone makes a mistake or has a lack of understanding you should have compassion and let them redeem themselves. Or the two come together in unity.

  • @delainereddy1602
    @delainereddy1602 2 роки тому +3

    Really enjoyed this !!! Two of my favorite people sharing such wisdom. The energy was off the charts , it was interesting and enlightening to watch. Loved it !

  • @whoisindia1102
    @whoisindia1102 2 роки тому +1

    “Final Five” … I think that’s the perfect name for the last questions 😊

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 роки тому +4

    When we have a childish heart life will be fun even in difficulties.

  • @4sau768
    @4sau768 Рік тому

    The hero and the vilain are the same person in different circumstances… SO true!

  • @Flutterbyby
    @Flutterbyby 2 роки тому

    You have no idea how triangle is important symbol for me, so to see you trailer lily (I cried) it spoke to me. Perfect title, I understood your intent immediately.

  • @dikshanemani6001
    @dikshanemani6001 2 роки тому +3

    Such an amazing video 👌💥
    No words to explain 💯💯
    A standing ovation to both of them 🙋‍♀️❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rn_vitals
    @rn_vitals 2 роки тому +2

    This video is a meditation to me🛸

  • @A90_bbyyyyy
    @A90_bbyyyyy 2 роки тому +1

    This is one of my favorite episodes never knew anything about this woman. Can we get Tony Hawk here Jay pretty please 🙏🏾

  • @theseekerspath_18_9
    @theseekerspath_18_9 2 роки тому +1

    I really, really loved this conversation. 😇🤔😇🤔🦋🦋🦋. It wasn’t someone trying to be all wise and knowing. Speaking her truth and without selling “this is how it’s done” affected me so richly. Also, thank you for giving the rigid rules on the final five. I know when I’m pressured, I don’t really get my thoughts together clearly. Evolution.

  • @vaidehi1221
    @vaidehi1221 2 роки тому

    Lilly disrupted your rapid 5! 🤣
    Loved this podcast ❤️ your friendship and the conversation was so natural and it was a real treat!!! Thank you Jay! This is one of the best!! Can’t wait to buy the book now.

  • @Tyagi2309
    @Tyagi2309 2 роки тому

    Lily is so smart! Such an insightful and deep conversation 👏🏻

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 роки тому

    Home becomes sweet home when the home is filled with sweet hearts and sweet words.

  • @shradhapant3764
    @shradhapant3764 2 роки тому

    So many key takeaways from this podcast to become a version of yourself.. awesome

  • @maluu6192
    @maluu6192 2 роки тому +2

    ❤❤ I enjoyed this episode! You both are amazing ❤ l am impatiently waiting for the day Lily's book is in my hands😅 Sending Blessings to ALL❤

  • @blessymahapatra9833
    @blessymahapatra9833 2 роки тому +2

    I just luv your quotes on Instagram . It's just so healing 😍

  • @khatmanworld
    @khatmanworld 2 роки тому

    I was listening on Spotify and felt like it'd be actually cool to watch these🙂

  • @michael-odermatt
    @michael-odermatt 2 роки тому +2

    Very uplifting conversation.

  • @emms8
    @emms8 2 роки тому +1

    i enjoyed this sO sO much. Thank you Jay and thank you Lilly. Love you so much❤️ N both of your sense of humor 😅🤗❤️

  • @queen.9459
    @queen.9459 2 роки тому +1

    Wow! Such an enlightening & inspiring exchange of wisdom!❤️‍🔥

  • @THATS_CHARMING
    @THATS_CHARMING 2 роки тому

    I felt that when she spoke about “ being critical of yourself “

  • @funnysim-en2eh
    @funnysim-en2eh 8 місяців тому +1

    Rule book, yea,....i want an creative work that i enjoy, i can too, theres room for it,
    Im accept it

  • @Aubjordan
    @Aubjordan 2 роки тому

    There’s some good stuff in here. Also the world wants to teach us that we can’t change, but change for good is the foundation of life and the whole point of life!

  • @edengetenet8527
    @edengetenet8527 2 роки тому

    I'm not okay, I thought I got over this feeling but it keeps coming back. I hate myself, I'm scared of myself, my thoughts my wants. I feel like I'm not enough and I will never be.

    • @emms8
      @emms8 2 роки тому +1

      Hi Eden, i understand n feel you. Thoughts n feelings of the negative sort do not go away immediately but you will get to a place of self love & know you are more than enough. Stay committed to healing yourself. Pls believe me because so many of us have gone & are going through the same. And if i am now in a good place consistently, you can too❤️ Sending you love & loads of support❤️ Pls be kind to yourself.

  • @sac.777
    @sac.777 2 роки тому

    Inspiring!!! Wisdom!!!
    May you soar as a disrupter ☮️🙏🏼💕

  • @vonicus-meb4u
    @vonicus-meb4u 2 роки тому

    Thank you for another amazing interview. I'm so privileged to have you as a mentor even if you don't realise it.

  • @douglasjones2570
    @douglasjones2570 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you!

  • @priyanshiraheja3409
    @priyanshiraheja3409 2 роки тому +1

    this episode gave me so much to think about. you guys inspire me everyday. thank you so much

  • @cherellewilliams458
    @cherellewilliams458 2 роки тому

    Thank you Lilly ilysm❤️ what a smart, beautiful woman.

  • @Miss.Bri_
    @Miss.Bri_ 2 роки тому +2

    This is such a good interview.

  • @raghadalhamwi9392
    @raghadalhamwi9392 2 роки тому +1

    We love Lilly ❤️❤️

  • @yofitjamie22
    @yofitjamie22 2 роки тому +2

    Wow such an interesting podcast! It left me thinking honestly.

  • @fpcfinancialservices
    @fpcfinancialservices Рік тому

    Hi, I love your videos, please put subtitle, because, I learning English with you😊😊

  • @karie_brown
    @karie_brown 2 роки тому

    2 amazing humans!! Love this SO much!! ✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨

  • @funnysim-en2eh
    @funnysim-en2eh 8 місяців тому +1

    Im manifesting people, i love to be around,.

  • @CiecieNewson
    @CiecieNewson 2 роки тому +1

    "Summarize the vibe" instead of the final fast five.
    Great interview. ~Smile! 🌻

    • @aquaazania
      @aquaazania 2 роки тому

      Oohh, I like that better than my suggestion. Hope they go with that

  • @sabs4415
    @sabs4415 2 роки тому +1

    Loved this one...so enlightening and relatable

  • @tiffanymarks4577
    @tiffanymarks4577 2 роки тому +1

    😊 this girl is amazing 😊😊😊

  • @healingingrace
    @healingingrace 2 роки тому +1

    I enjoyed every bit of this, watching both inspirational people so lovely. I would love for you to bring Selena Gomez on your podcast, it will be great!

  • @DeVon5A1
    @DeVon5A1 2 роки тому +1

    Love this podcast episode 💕

  • @srinityapavani5347
    @srinityapavani5347 2 роки тому

    FANTASTIC PODCAST

  • @JUSTAFUTUREBOY
    @JUSTAFUTUREBOY 2 роки тому

    “STEADY PACED FIVE” HILARIOUS

  • @nishanipreethraj5569
    @nishanipreethraj5569 2 роки тому

    This was truly such an amazing and inspirational podcast! Loved listening to Lilly's nuggets of wisdom!!

  • @dimplegudlani24
    @dimplegudlani24 2 роки тому

    What A podcast!
    Loved it

  • @nidheesh2302
    @nidheesh2302 2 роки тому +1

    The goal of life is to live every moment. Not community issues. For example: If you can not see the river flowing, your mind is out of the ground.

  • @BermetAkerova
    @BermetAkerova 2 роки тому

    Oh) now I wanna buy This book⚛️✨good interview🔥 część! From Poland!

  • @sparksmerch2059
    @sparksmerch2059 Рік тому

    What an incredible woman

  • @jakejemba
    @jakejemba 2 роки тому

    This was an amazing interview

  • @The_Katsiaryna
    @The_Katsiaryna Рік тому

    Fascinating.

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 роки тому

    When we lose good hearts in our lives it is the greatest loss.

  • @amitvarge9588
    @amitvarge9588 2 роки тому

    Big fan jayBhai... from India

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489 2 роки тому

    My favourite speaker Jay genius