One of the guys literally did the "maybe some time in the future but not right now" and then agreed to go on a date. I feel like that's one of the most leading on answers possible.
"You know what ? Good on the women for not wanting these guys just for their money." See how crazy it sounds ? We need to stop labeling men, women, people, and perpetuate these tired stereotypes. You who are reading this: most of the men in your life (friends, family members, coworkers, postman haha) are absolutely not these despicable fuckboys. Most of the men in your life are okay, regular people who are looking for or involved in a normal relationship with a nice person. If you've had one bad experience with an ex, you can't generalize. And if you've had multiple, change your belief system in order to attract the good ones: that actually starts by you not talking, thinking and reading about bad men all the damn time.
@@captainturbo87 well beauty is subjective. If you’re talking about looks when you’re in love or like somebody that doesn’t rily matter. Sometimes a good personality speaks for itself
And whenever telling someone that you had a crush on them, when they say “I appreciate you telling me” that’s automatically a sign to stop talking about it
@6:03 "I am a very intense kind of a girl" Hear that falsetto? Not that I am against it or anything, I actually am all for it as long as there was disclosure BUT you guys have failed to realize that "they" both were born a man. I think the guy on the right already knew that and might be semi open to it but the context of who knew what before this question was asked is key in this situation.
I totally respect the Scouts honor dude’s reaction. 100% so healthy to actually take inventory of your feelings and not just jump into something bc of a setting or a person and the pizza guy? friendliest rejection ever and I hope things work out well for them, regardless if they ever date or not
the pizza guy most likely is on the spectrum so he can't understand why his buddy would have a crush on him. He just saw the other person as a buddy and someone who also likes to say words and eat pizza's.
@@feltzycf As someone on the spectrum who just recently got married, yes. This is the truth. Even though I made the first move, it took years and years of courage and realizing she's put so much of her life on hold due to her abusive and restrictive parents that it took talking to me to get her out of that toxic space.
i’m glad that these people are very open and honest and telling them and having the courage to express how they feel whether they are ready or not ready for a relationship
@@Pablov.castao it's probably the notion of young love looking like that. The age brackets of the 3 couples are "set careers" "starting careers" and "pre-career"
@@Pablov.castao It didn't feel uncomfortable for me. For my point of view I think they were just trying to not hit each other after being dazzled by the light. That is mainly why they were approaching into each other so carefully.
@Nin She is a trans woman. Which is to say that she may have been born a man, but she is happier to identify and present as a woman. It might seem a little strange to someone who hasn't run into it before, but as far as I'm concerned if something is harmless and makes someone happier in their life they should do it. And I'll call them what they wanna be called, I think that's a basic human courtesy that we all deserve.
they're not actively being watched by millions of people in the moment. it's more-so the comfort that they don't have to see the person's kneejerk reactions to what they're saying
when you're in front of the camera, your brain cannot wrap the fact that it will be watch by thousands of people. it's extra courage for them to this and it can inspire others.
What I love about the kissing couple is that they are the only ones who look like they are basically making eye contact throughout the video despite being in the dark.
the guy and jane were super genuine, i like how they were both so cool with eachother and jane was like "of course" when the guy didnt feel the same to her, respect
Jim is very smart in how he handled that. He reminds me of a professor I know, and her personality and manner of speaking is pretty much the same as his. Great people honestly. Even if Jane felt a bit crushed by his rejection, she can still be friends with him (though I'm sure there will be some bitterness bc he's already moved on from that conversation and she's not)
i applaud these ppl so hard rn, the girls for their confidence and the boys for both their honesty and maturity to see if they were ready for a relationship
mate the woman who got rejected - i get you too bro. I get super intense feelings for years man and it sucks to be rejected. Hopefully you find what you need in life!! keep up!!
Jim could not have handled that better. He was clearly a little shocked, so it's great that he was honest about just not being ready. And he was just so nice. He still wants to hang out, and it seems like he's not totally closed to the possibility, but he just never really thought about being WITH this girl before. He didn't create any false expectations, he just kept it super chill. Love Jim.
Ahhhhh I loved loved loved this one! The girl in the hat and the blond guy were just PERFECT. But loved that the guys were all honest with their feelings.
This episode made me think of how many relationships started on this channel because I know ( as a day one fan ) that it has caused a lot of breakups lmao
@@anitalemus7433 people have came on here and confessed feelings for passed ex’s, have had heart felt conversations with their partners, revelations about family and then the next time you see them in a line up or in an episode they say they are single . I’ve atleast seen it happen like 15 times no bullshit
Loved this, I did cringe for the lady who only gets to eat cheese pizza, she tried to down play it, but she looked so disappointed, at least she knows now and can find the 'one' elsewhere.
@@pearlescen Why? Because i call them the way i see them. That was clearly a dude pretending to be a woman. No wonder the guy didn't wanna date him. You could tell how awkward it was for him to decline it cause he doesn't wanna be seen as a transphobe just for not wanting to date a dude
I love everyone’s reaction. Especially Jim’s, I love his personality and the way that he was not thrown off by the fact that she liked him, and he still wants a close friendship. That is unusual 😥
Brown skin (and gorgeous btw) girl definitely knew he was into her as well, it caught her by surprise when he said "Let's wait". Her whole energy changed. 😂 It's funny cause she was so sure of herself, even though she tried to act like she wasnt.
@@sadisticwinter8354 My comment on her beauty has absolutely nothing to do with race. I couldve easily said "Brown shirt (and gorgeous btw) lady", it's just that the skin and/or hair color is usually the first thing we(I) use to describe a person. And I often find things and people beautiful so I say it, end of story. Once again, this had absolutely nothing to do with race and I'm kinda annoyed this thread is now going to become another race debate. The fact that you automatically went there says a lot about you or where you are right now. PS: I'm a woman. A black, dark skin woman. Born and raised in Switzerland, where we dont constantly make everything about race, which I really appreciate.
@@t.m.8195 Yeah, that was like a record scratch moment. Yes but let's wait by not changing anything. Maybe he just got flustered by the situation but I didn't really get the feeling of "Ok, let's date and give this a try and figure it out." although he was pressured into that at the end. Anyway, hope it was just nerves and they work it out. I'm also someone who has to process things so I can relate, just was a rollercoaster for her I bet.
Interesting so we have one pair who jumped right in lol, another taking it slower more tentatively and one that didn't work at all..3 entirely different outcomes. Definitely weird seeing guys turn down women to me at least, I'm used to seeing the opposite usually. But yeah I always feel bad whenever anyone gets rejected.... Great vid, very humble video. Hopefully something can flourish with the pair that are just friends in the future.😃
I guess so plus sometimes if you're friends and it don't work out it can be hard to remain friends after that so in a way I get it, but it still sucks for sure if you like someone you know for years and they don't feel the same way about you.
even the situations in the video of the receiving person saying they'd like to continue their friendship and such are so well articulated. Everyone in the video seems to be expressing themselves in a lovely, vulnerable way, while keeping the communication direct about what their long term intentions are, as far as they can see, in the moment. All of which I see as a nice step in how relationships and general communication with our loved ones, being family, friends, significant others, and significant people in our lives. It is a huge step to admit the love you have for people, at least in my understanding as a millennial in the US, that aren't your family or partner for life. I see a video like this in particular as a stride toward much more loving and open conversations amongst our friends being normal.
loved all three of they all seem to be great friends and were honest especially the guy thats not ready i think eventually he will lowkey they have a great bond
This was so nice tho. One who weren't ready, one who wanted to see where it could go and one that wanted to date. And all of them communicated that well and respectfully. Love to see it❤️
Scouts honor dude is the most realistic and also privacy-respecting person out there. He’s like I gotta think about all of this, consider a lot of stuff that could happen between us and what’s good and bad and we’ll figure out amongst ourselves.
Wow this worked out well, but I thinking trying to mention working toward a relationship during the first confessions of liking someone is a bit fast. Jumping into a relationship can end badly or work out I guess.
But that's what you mostly do when you start dating someone, its just not being mentioned. Saying you wanna work towards a relationship is blunt but doesnt necceserely have to mean actually getting in a relationship in the end
@@des9368 The point in revealing a crush is... revealing a crush. People need to stop with these movie like excpectation of them revealing a crush and the other person being like "Yeah, same, let's start a relationship😃". If you want to reveal your crushy, fine, but learn to trust the process and let the relationship unfold naturally, if it"s meant to be.
Did anyone notice when the two that kissed, the subtitles said, 'girl and boy kissing', but at the end when they did it again, it said, 'couple kiss'? I just thought that was really sweet. 🥰
Okay, have to be honest. I am going through an emotional rollercoaster after I found out my girlfriend cheated on me. It's has been a lot; I did not want to trust in love anymore. But seeing these couples, and many more videos of CUT, having moment with their crushes, really helps me get through and believe again.
To me is just so amazing the fact that this channel is based on real life and includes all perspectives!! Something is not really seen that much is how a man feels when a woman has a crush on him!! I love that.
OMG! This was the best "in the dark" episode yet! I love how the one couple both legit had deep feelings for each other but never knew or expressed that until now and now they are in a relationship they BOTH were wanting!!! YESSSSSSSSS :)
1:25 WOW! Genuinely, these were absolutely PERFECT interactions between the three pairs, every one was differend and the two people (at each interaction) fit together, the same "vibe" (I dont like these new expessions 😄) you know.. Wow. So good!
it's from the infrared light, which I assume is what they are using. visible light is part of the electromagnetic spectrum of waves. infrared is wavelengths longer than red light, which you can't see, but some cameras will pick it up. heat is infrared waves, basically - that's how thermal cameras work. so anyway it makes sense that the "light" casts a shadow. it's the same waves as visible light.
@@grozz9092 yeah, you can google sometime about electromagnetic waves. we learned about this in grade 9 physics, maybe you have a different school system or didn't study physics. it's aight👍 you can also see how dilated their pupils are. it's because they're actually in the dark.
Seeing two lovers' first kiss felt like I was intruding lol.. I like how it was him being nervous but when he decided to kiss her he started to calm her down genty; such is the power of love T0T and that tall bro spitting wisdom while she's melting... all the things he said were madly mature to a point it makes me relax instead of worrying about relationships, it takes time to develop oneself first and it is important.
You know what good on the guys for being totally honest with expressing their feelings and not giving out any false expectations
Exactly. Better to be honest then lie and hurt someone later
One of the guys literally did the "maybe some time in the future but not right now" and then agreed to go on a date. I feel like that's one of the most leading on answers possible.
@@BboyCustomz I took that as going on dates to make sure it's actually what they want, and not jumping RIGHT into a relationship.
@@BboyCustomz Did you not listen at all or
"You know what ? Good on the women for not wanting these guys just for their money." See how crazy it sounds ? We need to stop labeling men, women, people, and perpetuate these tired stereotypes. You who are reading this: most of the men in your life (friends, family members, coworkers, postman haha) are absolutely not these despicable fuckboys. Most of the men in your life are okay, regular people who are looking for or involved in a normal relationship with a nice person. If you've had one bad experience with an ex, you can't generalize. And if you've had multiple, change your belief system in order to attract the good ones: that actually starts by you not talking, thinking and reading about bad men all the damn time.
That was the friendliest most wholesome rejection I have ever seen.
Bro seems like such a positive person
@@rez3785 Not even.... They didn't say the person who was rejected. I just got here &+ nothing has been spoiled for me.
@@rez3785 or just read the comments after if that’s what you’re afraid of seeing 😂
Hey , you just ruined my video
Now I already know That he will get rejected
Thanks !!
And Queen of Britain Died …
So sad , rest in peace !
@@urvijain9638 you were the one to go read the comments before watching the video
Jim sounded like a teacher rejecting one of his students lmao
But he's a second grade teacher
Hmm?
Literally gives me teacher vibes. Ezra Fitz and Aria Montgomery? 😂
@@emmafoxroberts GIRL NOOO AHAHA
Screaming
"I totally wanna get cheese pizza with you again" Is the best possible rejection line in the books
Until you learn the online meaning of cheese pizza
@@sdtok527 wait what is the online meaning of cheese pizza? O.o
@@moehashim8442 Nice try FBI
I'm trying to understand her attraction to him. He must be different when he's not under pressure.
@@captainturbo87 well beauty is subjective. If you’re talking about looks when you’re in love or like somebody that doesn’t rily matter. Sometimes a good personality speaks for itself
"To talk about our friendship"
"Yeahh, totally" *dies inside*
“Blooming friends” 💀🤣
That’s when you stop 😂 that was already a hint
😭😭😭😭
And whenever telling someone that you had a crush on them, when they say “I appreciate you telling me” that’s automatically a sign to stop talking about it
@6:03 "I am a very intense kind of a girl" Hear that falsetto? Not that I am against it or anything, I actually am all for it as long as there was disclosure BUT you guys have failed to realize that "they" both were born a man. I think the guy on the right already knew that and might be semi open to it but the context of who knew what before this question was asked is key in this situation.
Jim is a vibe. What a wholesome dude.
Seth Rogan vibes for sure
he doesnt know when to stop
@@xx111ily ong
Jim is the man. Such good communication and wholesomeness 😊
@@xx111ily y’all are unhappy with literally everything and everyone lmao
I totally respect the Scouts honor dude’s reaction. 100% so healthy to actually take inventory of your feelings and not just jump into something bc of a setting or a person
and the pizza guy? friendliest rejection ever and I hope things work out well for them, regardless if they ever date or not
the pizza guy most likely is on the spectrum so he can't understand why his buddy would have a crush on him. He just saw the other person as a buddy and someone who also likes to say words and eat pizza's.
@@feltzycf As someone on the spectrum who just recently got married, yes. This is the truth. Even though I made the first move, it took years and years of courage and realizing she's put so much of her life on hold due to her abusive and restrictive parents that it took talking to me to get her out of that toxic space.
@@feltzycf Maybe but the pizza guy also wasn't an idiot. That's not a real woman he's talking to. It's a trans woman
@@TheMitchie21 Who is still a woman, you just added the adjective "trans" onto it
@@hyperion1377 No it's a trans woman who is actually a biological male. Not a real woman but a trans woman
more of these please. not necessarily this topic but any other "In the Dark" stuff
yess also the telephone line one! both are usually genuinely fun to watch
100%
its not in the dark how do you have shadows in the dark
@@BillJohn-nx8uu because they use lights that human eyes can’t pick up but cameras can
@@florijnwillemsen5262 thanks for the response i know understand
I literally screamed out of happiness when those two kissed😭
Get a job
I was like: LEZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!! KLDSKBGSVBDRLOE
That was romantic as fuck. Genuine non holywood romance
This guy made a brave move!
Go touch grass bro
I see why she had a crush on Jim. He seems like such a kind person
*slow person
@@dameriuswiley4219 damn can you get off this man’s dick already? You’re replying to literally every comment about him…
@@dameriuswiley4219 they got it right the first time, he seems like a *kind person
I think that's a dude
@@lunarkingdom Weirdo why do you care?
i’m glad that these people are very open and honest and telling them and having the courage to express how they feel whether they are ready or not ready for a relationship
The best Dominick Dardiz clipper alive 💪😎
@@whoismaverick2152 how do y’all niggas find me
I stalk you and Ryza tbh
LG3
BRO WHYY ARE YU HERE? LG3 THO
The giggling after the kiss was so cute. I love them lol
the couple that kissed
I felt the other way around, it felt so cringe to me I physically backed out on my chair out of discomfort xD
@@Pablov.castao it's probably the notion of young love looking like that.
The age brackets of the 3 couples are "set careers" "starting careers" and "pre-career"
@@Pablov.castao LOLLLL no cause what the fuck is he on about
@@Pablov.castao It didn't feel uncomfortable for me. For my point of view I think they were just trying to not hit each other after being dazzled by the light. That is mainly why they were approaching into each other so carefully.
@@Pablov.castao ong
me trying to compare their fits vs how they look in the dark and not paying attention
I think it’s interesting that the two people who liked each other had styles that complimented one another.
SAME, LOL
I feel like all the couples’ outfits complemented each other!
This is so scary but it does take a bit of the nerves off because you can’t see their natural reactions if you’re getting rejected 😭
ACCOUNTABILITY☝️😌 you must learn to become immune to rejection, grasshopper
@@whatelsedoc2604 facts 😂man it’s part of life
@@whatelsedoc2604 I’ve gotten USED to rejecting people
@@Antoine_D wait till karma hits you back with rejection! 😆
@@KK-hy6zn I’m not interested in love tho
"i waited so long to do that" was actually so cute, i really hope they work out
THAT WAS SO CUTE I SCREAMED
@@darkerimage1235
i guess this is the friendly Kids version of 7 mins in Heaven
jim cracked the code on how to rejected someone in the nicest way ever
Jim is everything, his personality it's so amazing and enthusiastic
Jim fucking rocks. Such a sweethearted goofball. I can absolutely see why she's into him
it was so so so so awkward when he rejected her
@@daquonsimmons8240 *him
@@dameriuswiley4219 she didn't reject Jim, she was the one with the crush, it's okay that you got it mixed up, now you know
@Nin She is a trans woman. Which is to say that she may have been born a man, but she is happier to identify and present as a woman. It might seem a little strange to someone who hasn't run into it before, but as far as I'm concerned if something is harmless and makes someone happier in their life they should do it. And I'll call them what they wanna be called, I think that's a basic human courtesy that we all deserve.
@Nin Honest answer, no
Ahh yes, being in the dark on camera seen by millions of people is so much easier than confessing your feelings in the light
Fr🤦🏾♂️
It was more so that they didn't want to see the reaction of the other person.
I get what you are saying, but it's not the same.
they're not actively being watched by millions of people in the moment. it's more-so the comfort that they don't have to see the person's kneejerk reactions to what they're saying
when you're in front of the camera, your brain cannot wrap the fact that it will be watch by thousands of people. it's extra courage for them to this and it can inspire others.
Seen by millions of people, but you can’t see them. So it isn’t the same
The broccoli shirt guy might be the best person on this planet
lmao
New superhero. “Broccoli shirt man”
Fr. The other person with him was kinda aggressive and pressuring him…but he was trying to say it in the nicest way possible
he goes to the baseball games and dances with two pieces of broccoli 😭
he’s so sweet. sitcom main character material
JIM JUST MADE ME SMILE THIS WHOLE TIME. HE SEEMS LIKE SUCH A FRIENDLY DUDE.
What I love about the kissing couple is that they are the only ones who look like they are basically making eye contact throughout the video despite being in the dark.
i have never seen anyone blushed soo visibly in 5:37
I would love to see a "confronting my parents in the dark" i think would be intersting to see!!
YESS
Ooff this one might break me
You wish that was you huh
Ha they'd still not listen to me. And I'm a grown ass adult.
Jim has a MASSIVE personality lmao. He really made the most of what he has in life, I mean he is such an interesting person I wish I knew him.
the guy and jane were super genuine, i like how they were both so cool with eachother and jane was like "of course" when the guy didnt feel the same to her, respect
This video is proof that short guys can still get the girl.
Can they? But, but do they? Harder when you're short let's not cap
@@dendenn7383 clearly yes for both answers based on the video.
When shorter men stop being stuck on their height and realize you can be attractive in more than one way that’s when they can easily get the girl :)
@@dendenn7383 not every guy in a relationship is tall yall need to accept that and stop blaming height for the reason ur single
@@victoriam438 lol well I'm not, my height has been helpful for me. But generally most women prefer a guy taller than them
I love his voice breaks, but it's so nice he's being honest here. Entering a relationship when you're not ready will hurt the other party.
The couple that kissed is adorable. That was not an awkward first kiss at all looks like it was perfect I hope they make it.
5:15
My man went in for the kiss when being asked for the date...that guy has balls of steel 😂
Jim is very smart in how he handled that. He reminds me of a professor I know, and her personality and manner of speaking is pretty much the same as his. Great people honestly. Even if Jane felt a bit crushed by his rejection, she can still be friends with him (though I'm sure there will be some bitterness bc he's already moved on from that conversation and she's not)
4:57 OH MY GOD??? 😳THAT'S SOME ROMANCE NOVEL SHIT RIGHT THERE BOI MY HEART WOULD MELT 🥹😭
ugh!! the vulnerability just makes my heart melt
I wouldn't be surprised if the 2nd guy was in the entertainment industry. Such a big personality.
Or neurodivergent
@@ajbsbbaby that was my thought, too!
This was probably the cutest and best Cut video I’ve seen 😩🥰🥰 I’m all in the feels, loving the open space to be honest and vulnerable 🥹
i applaud these ppl so hard rn, the girls for their confidence and the boys for both their honesty and maturity to see if they were ready for a relationship
I'm so glad the 'In The Dark' series is back! Love it!!
Yeah, Murphy ruins everyone's life. Now that Max is gone ... Oh, wrong "In the Dark" ... nevermind.
@@mprice6683 Lmaoo I love that show 💀💀I miss jess tbh
@@user-rt2ie1fs1r My wife and I couldn't stop watching Murphy ruin everyone's lives. We are going to miss the drama.
you can see their shadows.... it's not in the dark...
mate the woman who got rejected - i get you too bro. I get super intense feelings for years man and it sucks to be rejected. Hopefully you find what you need in life!! keep up!!
That's a dude
@@spencer_fife_and_drum_john9152 ?
@@spencer_fife_and_drum_john9152 yea that's what i thought too
The reaction at 3:05 just made me bawl, man. So sweet.
Jim could not have handled that better. He was clearly a little shocked, so it's great that he was honest about just not being ready. And he was just so nice. He still wants to hang out, and it seems like he's not totally closed to the possibility, but he just never really thought about being WITH this girl before. He didn't create any false expectations, he just kept it super chill. Love Jim.
I love a guy that wants to take it slow. Like he knows what it is like to get hurt so he wants to make sure they are both safely together. So mature
These interactions are so healthy 😊 love seeing people communicate so openly and kindly and respectfully
props to the guy who rejected her he made it so not akward at all
hahahha
nah, it was very awkward. he was so clearly not into her
@@somanyplacestogo gtfo transphope
@@somanyplacestogo Trans Woman!
@@ketamine2502 well said
I loved the dynmic between the girl with the hat and her friend. So cute. I feel like you could feel their joy through the video
Awweee, the way he said "Hi Jane" melted my heart❤️
This dude is still continuing the rejection 😂 even with the lights on 🤣🤣🤣
Ahhhhh I loved loved loved this one! The girl in the hat and the blond guy were just PERFECT. But loved that the guys were all honest with their feelings.
I wonder what excuses they used to get them over to the studio without spoiling the real reason
I'm curious too
Hey buddy, wanna go on this show about coworkers with me?
@@random3237 who? Me ?
This channel has literally thousands of video topics, could be any of those....
@@whocares2465 yeah! 🤙
The native girl with beaded earrings! Was always told “native women will always have the best earrings in the room” she’s so beautiful
oh my goodness!! thank you!! i feel so seen 🥲😫💓
@@kfourstarnguyen I swear if you’re Navajo or Lakota, I called it! 😭🫶🏻
This episode made me think of how many relationships started on this channel because I know ( as a day one fan ) that it has caused a lot of breakups lmao
Wait how lol
@@anitalemus7433 people have came on here and confessed feelings for passed ex’s, have had heart felt conversations with their partners, revelations about family and then the next time you see them in a line up or in an episode they say they are single . I’ve atleast seen it happen like 15 times no bullshit
Loved this, I did cringe for the lady who only gets to eat cheese pizza, she tried to down play it, but she looked so disappointed, at least she knows now and can find the 'one' elsewhere.
Yeah because she can try and move on without wondering how he feels anymore
What lady? All i saw was 2 dudes. Cause that's a trans person. Hence the guy doesnt wanna date him
She got rejected by the corniest guy on the planet...Emotional damage!!! lol
@@TheMitchie21miserable human
@@pearlescen Why? Because i call them the way i see them. That was clearly a dude pretending to be a woman. No wonder the guy didn't wanna date him. You could tell how awkward it was for him to decline it cause he doesn't wanna be seen as a transphobe just for not wanting to date a dude
Im over here dying in happiness for the couple starting to date so cute 😭
I can feel how vulnerable they become under these circumstances. It is beautiful. I am happy for them.
I love everyone’s reaction. Especially Jim’s, I love his personality and the way that he was not thrown off by the fact that she liked him, and he still wants a close friendship. That is unusual 😥
Brown skin (and gorgeous btw) girl definitely knew he was into her as well, it caught her by surprise when he said "Let's wait". Her whole energy changed. 😂 It's funny cause she was so sure of herself, even though she tried to act like she wasnt.
I don't think that anyone would automatically think you're calling her disgusting when you described her as having brown skin, dude.
@@sadisticwinter8354 My comment on her beauty has absolutely nothing to do with race. I couldve easily said "Brown shirt (and gorgeous btw) lady", it's just that the skin and/or hair color is usually the first thing we(I) use to describe a person. And I often find things and people beautiful so I say it, end of story.
Once again, this had absolutely nothing to do with race and I'm kinda annoyed this thread is now going to become another race debate. The fact that you automatically went there says a lot about you or where you are right now.
PS: I'm a woman. A black, dark skin woman. Born and raised in Switzerland, where we dont constantly make everything about race, which I really appreciate.
Maybe because before he said he would be open for a relationship. Might not be what she expected after hearing that
@@t.m.8195 Yeah, that was like a record scratch moment. Yes but let's wait by not changing anything. Maybe he just got flustered by the situation but I didn't really get the feeling of "Ok, let's date and give this a try and figure it out." although he was pressured into that at the end. Anyway, hope it was just nerves and they work it out. I'm also someone who has to process things so I can relate, just was a rollercoaster for her I bet.
The way she looked at him and swallow 😂
5:20 the dream of kissing your crush
The best thing about these videos like this is they really show a spectrum of reactions
You can see how giddy the beanie woman is, and how disappointed the other two are. True feelings are shown even in the dark
Interesting so we have one pair who jumped right in lol, another taking it slower more tentatively and one that didn't work at all..3 entirely different outcomes. Definitely weird seeing guys turn down women to me at least, I'm used to seeing the opposite usually. But yeah I always feel bad whenever anyone gets rejected....
Great vid, very humble video. Hopefully something can flourish with the pair that are just friends in the future.😃
yeah rejection does suck but it’s a lot better imo when they agree to stay friends rather than not wanting anything to do with the person
I guess so plus sometimes if you're friends and it don't work out it can be hard to remain friends after that so in a way I get it, but it still sucks for sure if you like someone you know for years and they don't feel the same way about you.
Women get rejected a lot lol especially if they aren’t up to the guys (usually high) looks standards.
@@ineffablemars yeah cause the guys have the higher standards LMAOO
@@actonfear they have high standards when they usually look like dogs
even the situations in the video of the receiving person saying they'd like to continue their friendship and such are so well articulated. Everyone in the video seems to be expressing themselves in a lovely, vulnerable way, while keeping the communication direct about what their long term intentions are, as far as they can see, in the moment. All of which I see as a nice step in how relationships and general communication with our loved ones, being family, friends, significant others, and significant people in our lives. It is a huge step to admit the love you have for people, at least in my understanding as a millennial in the US, that aren't your family or partner for life. I see a video like this in particular as a stride toward much more loving and open conversations amongst our friends being normal.
jim is an absolute legend love his whole vibe
Bro🤣😭❤️
loved all three of they all seem to be great friends and were honest especially the guy thats not ready i think eventually he will lowkey they have a great bond
Awe it was so cute when they kissed🤭 that's adorable❤
Cornball
The scouts honor couple had so much chemistry! I was practically evaporating through my screen 😭
This was so nice tho. One who weren't ready, one who wanted to see where it could go and one that wanted to date. And all of them communicated that well and respectfully. Love to see it❤️
5:13 omg both of them had a crush on each other but they just didn't know
CUT just made their life so easy
The two that got together were SO CUUUUUTE I hope they stay together forever!
When someone says it takes a lot of bravery as their first response u can normally expect a bad answer 😂
The way I had the same reaction that she did at 4:56 😂 That was so cute!!!! I wish them all the best.
Jim has crazy huge energy, and I really dig it.
Scouts honor dude is the most realistic and also privacy-respecting person out there. He’s like I gotta think about all of this, consider a lot of stuff that could happen between us and what’s good and bad and we’ll figure out amongst ourselves.
That curly haired guy is a legend. My inner Irish is dying to go for a pint with him.
I love Jim. He’s so genuine and nice. Can’t hate the guy.
the cheese pizza dude a W, literally perfect way to do that n was so sweet about it seems like a good guy
Wow this worked out well, but I thinking trying to mention working toward a relationship during the first confessions of liking someone is a bit fast. Jumping into a relationship can end badly or work out I guess.
Yeah but then.. they do know each other already so you don’t know how much they already hang around with
Yeah I agree. Just taking it slowly is the best bet
But that's what you mostly do when you start dating someone, its just not being mentioned. Saying you wanna work towards a relationship is blunt but doesnt necceserely have to mean actually getting in a relationship in the end
well thats the point in revealing a crush. it goes somewhere or it doesnt
@@des9368 The point in revealing a crush is... revealing a crush. People need to stop with these movie like excpectation of them revealing a crush and the other person being like "Yeah, same, let's start a relationship😃". If you want to reveal your crushy, fine, but learn to trust the process and let the relationship unfold naturally, if it"s meant to be.
Did anyone notice when the two that kissed, the subtitles said, 'girl and boy kissing', but at the end when they did it again, it said, 'couple kiss'? I just thought that was really sweet. 🥰
I would love for some follow ups to see how things went :) with the other people from this series as well
Jim was sweating bullets. He handled it well. She handled the rejection super well too! #cheesepizza
when they kissed it was absolutely adorable ❤️
Was it? 😂the dark made it look super awkward. But they were cute
This gives me some kind of hope that there still people genuinely interested in each other with real feelings towards each other.
Ahh I liked the broccoli dude. He was very enthusiastic and friendly
3:29 I like how he’s TRYING to be nice, but he *cant* 😂
Jim is definitely straight, great rejection line
“I wanna get cheese pizza with you again! “
Dudes a vibe hahahhaha
i'm crying dawg this episode was so cute
Okay, have to be honest. I am going through an emotional rollercoaster after I found out my girlfriend cheated on me. It's has been a lot; I did not want to trust in love anymore. But seeing these couples, and many more videos of CUT, having moment with their crushes, really helps me get through and believe again.
There are a lot more single women in the world than women who cheat. Sorry for your bad luck of the draw. Here's to drawing a better hand 🍻
When bro was like "oh" I thought he was gonna reject herrr
0:55 very off topic i love her outfit
1:44 🧱 up
To me is just so amazing the fact that this channel is based on real life and includes all perspectives!! Something is not really seen that much is how a man feels when a woman has a crush on him!! I love that.
Aww I love this. I hope they get their happy ever after. 🥰
2:07 “uHhhhHhhhhhHHHHH”
OMG! This was the best "in the dark" episode yet! I love how the one couple both legit had deep feelings for each other but never knew or expressed that until now and now they are in a relationship they BOTH were wanting!!! YESSSSSSSSS :)
1:25 WOW! Genuinely, these were absolutely PERFECT interactions between the three pairs, every one was differend and the two people (at each interaction) fit together, the same "vibe" (I dont like these new expessions 😄) you know.. Wow. So good!
3:15 gives me life
I thought Jim was so cute and very open. Please bring him back
Get a life
@@dameriuswiley4219 Get better at COD
I love it when the actors still have a shadow in complete darkness
it's from the infrared light, which I assume is what they are using. visible light is part of the electromagnetic spectrum of waves. infrared is wavelengths longer than red light, which you can't see, but some cameras will pick it up. heat is infrared waves, basically - that's how thermal cameras work.
so anyway it makes sense that the "light" casts a shadow. it's the same waves as visible light.
@@larsswig912 Thanks for explaining this, actually makes a lot of sense.
@@grozz9092 yeah, you can google sometime about electromagnetic waves. we learned about this in grade 9 physics, maybe you have a different school system or didn't study physics. it's aight👍
you can also see how dilated their pupils are. it's because they're actually in the dark.
Seeing two lovers' first kiss felt like I was intruding lol.. I like how it was him being nervous but when he decided to kiss her he started to calm her down genty; such is the power of love T0T and that tall bro spitting wisdom while she's melting... all the things he said were madly mature to a point it makes me relax instead of worrying about relationships, it takes time to develop oneself first and it is important.
Low key, best part of this video was seeing what they were all actually wearing when the lights came on
The girl in brown, she’s soooo sweet, speaking with low voice, her expressions while telling him how she feels, soooo sweet, oh God 🥹