*Emotional* - I Lost Our Autistic Son Grayson

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  • @saracaitlin7931
    @saracaitlin7931 Рік тому +432

    I'm literally so proud of your neighborhood for joining in to help find this sweet boy. Takes a village!

  • @jenniferdegrote3298
    @jenniferdegrote3298 Рік тому +210

    As a mother I feel her pain. In the blink of an eye. So glad she found him safe ❤️

    • @libimyheart7855
      @libimyheart7855 3 місяці тому +4

      Yeah I feel the same. It happens. Poor Mom

  • @Miss.831
    @Miss.831 Рік тому +339

    The neighbors are literal angels. It’s like all the good people left in the world moved to that neighborhood lol. So glad Grayson’s safe. You’re not a bad mom Terra, don’t beat yourself up.

    • @cherylbrantley4736
      @cherylbrantley4736 7 місяців тому +7

      I’m pretty sure, 99% of people that would help look

    • @frauleinmona
      @frauleinmona 4 місяці тому +1

      @@cherylbrantley4736Correct. It’s human nature.

    • @haleighlauren1840
      @haleighlauren1840 2 місяці тому +1

      Yeah

    • @AilssMe
      @AilssMe 2 місяці тому +2

      You are so lucky that he’s still safe 😮

    • @MinerTimer
      @MinerTimer 2 місяці тому

      @@frauleinmonaikr

  • @McAnultyBunch
    @McAnultyBunch Рік тому +263

    The way she remained so calm during this scary time is why she was successful with this search. She didn’t panic and that’s the most important thing ever. It’s easier to panic then stay level headed. Kudos to you for showing people how it’s done and being a great mom!

    • @gaylemartin6995
      @gaylemartin6995 Рік тому +13

      Your a awesome mom. It's not your fault that he has Autism and doesn't talk, and that cop doesn't understand because the problem doesn't have an autism. Ki really hope you find him safe stay strong, mom

    • @coko6482
      @coko6482 Рік тому +9

      She was def. def. def. freaking out internally 😢

    • @honeybee1852
      @honeybee1852 Рік тому +17

      Yeah because she’s knowing the whole time she’s trying to tape this for social media & for views!! Talk about priorities....

  • @emaleigh2801
    @emaleigh2801 Рік тому +560

    You are NOT a terrible mom so don't think that for a second! Things happen to everyone, but especially with mom's of kiddos with autism. I'm so sorry you had to go through that fear! Now that you know he has a tendency to elope you can adjust your routine to that. All the blessings and stay strong mama!

    • @Whynotcreate
      @Whynotcreate Рік тому +22

      Why did she start recording this though... that was a weird choice when you're kid is missing..'oh let me make a video of this' ... like what?

    • @Clairebearthegoodfinder
      @Clairebearthegoodfinder Рік тому +1

      🤗😘🙏🏻

    • @stephfunny6800
      @stephfunny6800 Рік тому +6

      I think showing an intimate moment like a crying, shamed, scared little one after such an awful ordeal is pretty sick. I feel awful for him. Get help. A therapist and maybe a nanny. Good luck

    • @hellokity3
      @hellokity3 4 місяці тому +7

      she is a terrible mom for recording this. its weird.

    • @LiaMassiel-qo3sz
      @LiaMassiel-qo3sz 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Whynotcreatethis could teach many people to take care of their kids like my mom the same thing happened to her with my little brother, if i wasn’t for me who who gave him my phone and the phone had a tracker we would not had find him. i was crying but barve and kept looking for him for 1 hour. this video made me and my mom cry luckly grayson nd my brother are back with mommy❤

  • @victoriaqueen3463
    @victoriaqueen3463 Місяць тому +14

    My nephew who is also nonverbal autistic ran out the house without my brother or sister in law knowing like 3 times. They did EVERYTHING they could like locks and stuff certain doorknobs locks, child proof doorknobs and somehow he managed to get out still. And thankfully everytime the neighbors found him and brought him back. Good people out there. It can happen to anybody.

  • @pittdog4496
    @pittdog4496 Рік тому +543

    This had me crying but to see ur neighbors pitch in and help lookfor Grayson was really special glad things worked out

    • @bettywhite6779
      @bettywhite6779 Рік тому +4

      😅❤

    • @samanthajo02
      @samanthajo02 Рік тому +16

      Same it was very beautiful glad he's ok

    • @skyeblue5669
      @skyeblue5669 Рік тому +7

      What an HONORABLE feeling.. Glad he's home Safe..

    • @gayleholmes9081
      @gayleholmes9081 Рік тому +3

      The most presiouse of all gifts is a community of friends....that family is so blessed, so blessed, as are any of us, who have caring neighbors.

  • @tanyagsw7920
    @tanyagsw7920 Рік тому +29

    You were "that mom" but we've all been "that mom" before. So glad he was found safe ❤

  • @mrsintense1974
    @mrsintense1974 Рік тому +532

    Thank you Jesus for keeping Grayson safe!!! ❤

  • @sweetmercifulj
    @sweetmercifulj Рік тому +75

    I don’t know how the algorithm sent me this but I have sent you big virtual hugs. Glad your neighborhood rallied around you and got your boy back.

  • @lindeevaught9920
    @lindeevaught9920 Рік тому +306

    This happened to me when my autistic son was Grayson's age. I saw him running down the street and followed to see how long it would take him to realize he was lost, turn around, look for me, anything... I followed him for 15 minutes and 5 blocks and he never realized he was lost. I was heartbroken to know how vulnerable he could be without realizing it. He's a big 31 year old man child now, and I still worry. We never stop worrying about our babies, do we? Bless you, Terra. You're a good mother.

    • @janinebarron2691
      @janinebarron2691 Рік тому +22

      I too have a beautiful man child who is 25 now. The worry never ends x

    • @louloufrechette
      @louloufrechette Рік тому +21

      I am so, so, so relieved you found him. You went through a real torture. And knowing that he can’t ask for help must be absolutely insane. Don’t let anybody tell you that you are not a great mother. Kids are kids, and it is absolutely impossible to prevent everything. The love you have for him is precious. Have a nice summer!

    • @amberparker91
      @amberparker91 Рік тому +1

      @@louloufrechette❤❤❤

    • @sky-hv4zo
      @sky-hv4zo Рік тому

      Awwy

  • @Clairebearthegoodfinder
    @Clairebearthegoodfinder Рік тому +59

    It’s amazing these mothers with special needs children just rise up to the challenge. The love is so deep ❤ 🤗😘🙏🏻

  • @mfmmitchell84
    @mfmmitchell84 Рік тому +97

    Mom I went through this 30 years ago with my son. Many told me how to handle him but autism makes it harder. Today he is amazing.

  • @nessaamarie5274
    @nessaamarie5274 Рік тому +23

    I really salute you for staying strong and not panicking straight away, even fighting ur tears back while u we’re driving around looking. You really held it together!!! 🙏🏼

  • @Riptide1976
    @Riptide1976 Рік тому +140

    Thank God Grayson is safe. You are not a terrible mother. Don’t say that. Things can happen in a split second. Children can be so fast. Bless you !!!!

  • @veronicasaldivar8073
    @veronicasaldivar8073 Рік тому +12

    This had me in tears. Thank god he was not hurt and you’ll located him safely! Bless your neighbors!!! ❤

  • @hayleyb4861
    @hayleyb4861 Рік тому +187

    This brought tears to my eyes, i lost my 5year old in a shopping complex before, took an hour to find him, worse moment of my life. Just remember mumma it happens, it happens alot, your not a bad mom, your a good mom, you care.

    • @Toffee146
      @Toffee146 Рік тому +1

      You're....

    • @deanabowes6427
      @deanabowes6427 Рік тому +5

      ​@Toffee146 ok so she made a spellin mistake ,, Get Over It!!! Don't be the 1 to throw stones, I'm sure you've made spellin mistakes. There's already enough ppl in this world to put down other ppl just bc. Just Stop Please!!!

    • @chrystalteal4171
      @chrystalteal4171 Рік тому +2

      ​@@deanabowes6427 *SPELLING *PEOPLE
      Laziness these days just spreads and infects our lives. It does matter!

    • @kateparent366
      @kateparent366 11 місяців тому

      @@chrystalteal4171 wow over a abbreviated word?

  • @jessicadoster8423
    @jessicadoster8423 Рік тому +41

    This had me in tears! Community and love! I grew up in a neighborhood like that where my street knew me and my family! Tara please please don’t beat yourself up! It could happen to anyone! Thank God Grayson is back and safe! You are amazing mom!

  • @JDubya96
    @JDubya96 Рік тому +99

    So grateful Grayson is safe. My heart aches to see and hear the fear and pain you experienced. Your neighbors are wonderful to help. We love you Terra. ❤

    • @sandybeau4746
      @sandybeau4746 Рік тому +4

      Thank god he's safe I lost my son for twenty minutes at the zoo horrible feeling but ever since he's stays close likes to be close now guess it frightened him. Grayson won't do it again

  • @trinathompson8587
    @trinathompson8587 Рік тому +45

    I lost my 5 year old at Six Flags Magic Mountain, so I know exactly how you feel! This was a teaching experience!

  • @jody6272
    @jody6272 Рік тому +144

    Don't let what the officer said get to you. Autistic children are different. The cop obviously doesn't understand. You are a wonderful mama! ❤ This happened to me when my son was almost 4 y.o. we were at a lake and he was gone. I understand your feeling! Luckily someone found him wandering and crying.

    • @teijaflink2226
      @teijaflink2226 Рік тому +10

      Yeah like they don't always understand danger aswell like a non autistic kid would.

    • @Myopinionmattersthemost
      @Myopinionmattersthemost 6 місяців тому +5

      Did you videotape yourself looking for your son? While searching were you thinking about social media content?

  • @ZieSpiralOut
    @ZieSpiralOut Рік тому +13

    Your neighborhood warms my heart! We have a 2 month old named Grayson after my birthmom( surname is gray). I’m so so glad you found him safe! Don’t beat yourself up, that can happen to anyone!

  • @amybryant4951
    @amybryant4951 Рік тому +56

    Literally moved to tears at how amazing your neighbors are!! You can literally hear the positivity in each of their voices❤

  • @alissagreen4497
    @alissagreen4497 Рік тому +4

    You are not a horrible mom. But God bless that neighborhood. That’s an absolute blessing.

  • @kathleenharrison5023
    @kathleenharrison5023 Рік тому +116

    So glad Grayson is safe!❤❤❤

  • @Virgo918
    @Virgo918 Рік тому +57

    My son is autistic and non-verbal, he hates bracelets or anklets so I totally get how you feel. That cop clearly doesn’t understand what autism is and what they/we go through. So happy you found him & not hurt!! ❤

  • @reenielou82
    @reenielou82 Рік тому +329

    I’m so sorry that the Police Officer told you to be stern with him. You do Everything!! You are an amazing mum to your children.

    • @bettygarrett2489
      @bettygarrett2489 Рік тому +26

      You got that right she's an excellent mom amazing

    • @caroldeaton619
      @caroldeaton619 Рік тому +21

      Bless you Tara and Grayson. I was feeling your pain the whole time you were yelling for him. I am so happy he didn't get hurt or nothing bad happened to him either. Sending Tons of love, from a Kentucky granny❤

    • @wolfmama7879
      @wolfmama7879 Рік тому

      That police officer definitely doesn’t know how to handle special needs people like a child who has autism.

    • @prettykita9147
      @prettykita9147 Рік тому +11

      Yes I agree with you she is a amazing mommy ❤❤

    • @theresakouba8751
      @theresakouba8751 Рік тому +19

      The police officer was correct.

  • @hollyarmstrong5352
    @hollyarmstrong5352 Рік тому +8

    Tara! What an inspiration! Energy/vibe! … these kids/souls are so blessed to have you and Joe!

  • @annettemaxey1813
    @annettemaxey1813 Рік тому +38

    It took a lot of courage to post this. You aren't a bad mom. It happens, at least you have caring neighbors. He is ok that's what matters.

  • @AChinxxy
    @AChinxxy Рік тому +4

    You are a strong wonderful mother, god bless you and your family ❤

  • @MegaCooper68
    @MegaCooper68 Рік тому +109

    Love how you took the time to vlog , your missing son. Because if it was me I wouldn’t even thought to video myself.

    • @giannellalopez8805
      @giannellalopez8805 8 місяців тому +29

      Because the pain would have been terrible!!!!!!! I don't understand getting content when your child is missing !!!

    • @kathyzager9426
      @kathyzager9426 4 місяці тому +5

      @@giannellalopez8805 I don’t get it either.

    • @leeannconnolly1955
      @leeannconnolly1955 4 місяці тому +3

      No body asked your opinions shes clearly doing this to protect herself.

    • @FrightfulTales1
      @FrightfulTales1 4 місяці тому +1

      Seriously wtf

    • @jessicapreston9808
      @jessicapreston9808 4 місяці тому +10

      My first thought too..She doesn’t seem that worried either. This is so bizarre. I’m never here to shame a mom because we are doing are best but this is so bizarre

  • @louisethompson6548
    @louisethompson6548 Рік тому +6

    The fear and panic I felt as a mum when I saw him run away, I was shouted internally at you. I hope you're okayy, this is how PTSD starts bless you, you're a brilliant mum and never forget that ❤❤❤❤

  • @ash3227
    @ash3227 Рік тому +45

    This is exactly why I didn’t have kids. I know I couldn’t handle this. Bless you for having the strength and resilience.

    • @gayleholmes9081
      @gayleholmes9081 Рік тому +3

      Sweetheart, I have perfectly healthy kids, all grown with thier own kids and there's not one single day, after reading about a shooting, a car crash, etc....that I don't worry. As human beings, with or without kids, we worry about our families, our siblings, etc....bc there but only by God's grace, anybody can go. So have a family and know only through God's grace can any of us not make it through this life without him

    • @ash3227
      @ash3227 Рік тому +2

      Nope. I’m not having kids just because I can.

    • @ash3227
      @ash3227 Рік тому

      Nope. I’m not having kids just because I can.

    • @gayleholmes9081
      @gayleholmes9081 Рік тому +2

      @@ash3227 Hey, do you boo and have a great day

    • @kateparent366
      @kateparent366 11 місяців тому +2

      @@ash3227 Well even fur babies can get lost and it`s scary.

  • @chelledawn3971
    @chelledawn3971 Рік тому +47

    You're not a bad mother at all. I promise that you're not the first mother that this has happened to & you most certainly won't be the last. You took immediate action once you realized that he was no longer in sight & everyone could just see & feel the panic in your face & voice. God is so amazing ❤ Lord thank you for keeping that baby safe from any harm, and please shower this mother,this entire family with your amazing love & peace. Amen❤

  • @ericabeeman4081
    @ericabeeman4081 Рік тому +51

    A few years ago my baby opened the front door and left the house. Luckily the neighbors where out in their driveway and he went directly to them. They brought him back immediately but to this day I think about how it could’ve easily gone terribly wrong. You’re not alone at all, you’re an amazing mother🧡 .

    • @McCarthy0000
      @McCarthy0000 4 місяці тому

      Same, my autistic boy got out when he was like 3 and we didn’t know…by the time we figured it out I RAN outside and looked both ways and he was walking up the street hill, crossed a street, nothing but a diaper, iPad in hand….I am overweight but I never ran that fast to scoop him up and I was shaking like crazy …..my husband silently got in the car and went to the Home Depot and got a chain bolt for the door and installed it as soon as he came home. It’s such a horrible feeling.

  • @honeybee1852
    @honeybee1852 Рік тому +74

    Seriously I find this really strange to be thinking of taping myself for social media if I’d just lost my child.., priorities ...

    • @krisleebear
      @krisleebear 2 місяці тому +4

      Honeybee1852-Or perhaps not post your criticism and keep to yourself

    • @MagnetPlusWater
      @MagnetPlusWater 2 місяці тому +7

      @@krisleebearbro he has a point

  • @PhillipXJ9
    @PhillipXJ9 Рік тому +19

    My son has autism too and this is one of my biggest fears.. You handled this so well and your neighbors are amazing people 🖤

  • @Mami-Florida
    @Mami-Florida Рік тому +6

    You are a great mom it's not your fault.glad he was found safe 🙏

  • @CRAZYTRACY4
    @CRAZYTRACY4 Рік тому +141

    Years ago i lost my son inside the grocery store. I can’t even begin to describe the panic and terror I felt that day. So i know how you felt. Thank God you got him back safely. ❤

    • @bmfam165
      @bmfam165 Рік тому +3

      I lost my daughter in target like 10 mins before closing time me my friend and my two kids plus the workers was the only people in the store but I didn’t know it at the time I thought somebody took her in ran out the door with her when I tell you I got everybody in a search party for her everybody was looking one of the workers was walking with her looking for me I was so scared and upset

    • @CRAZYTRACY4
      @CRAZYTRACY4 Рік тому +2

      @@bmfam165 omgosh! Thank God you found her. I think as mothers that is always something that we fear.

    • @MamazitaCole
      @MamazitaCole Рік тому +3

      So glad you found him!! 🙏
      That happened to my mom before I was born, she was at the mall with my aunt & my older bro was 2 at the time & they were looking at clothes & the next minute he was no where to be found- she often tells that story & shes 70 now 🙏 I have a babyboy about to be 5 so I’m always worrying ❤ God bless you all & keep our beautiful children safe & our hearts & minds at ease 🕉️

    • @gayleholmes9081
      @gayleholmes9081 Рік тому

      I'm wondering can't she get one of the car trackers with magnets that hook up to computers and phones and sew it into a jacket or vest or something????

  • @CrazyCrystal8175
    @CrazyCrystal8175 Рік тому +149

    YOU ARE NOT A HORRIBLE MOM TARA!!!❤

    • @SEven5luv
      @SEven5luv Рік тому +8

      Honest mistake especially under her circumstances. When I was 5 my mom let me walk outside to get ice cream from the ice cream truck and I walked to the ice cream store miles away. A nice couple my mom refers to, as her guardian angels brought me home. My mom was going though all the same emotions , I wish as a child I didn’t put my mom through that pain. 😢🙏🏾

    • @gayleholmes9081
      @gayleholmes9081 Рік тому +6

      No she is not a horrible mom, she's just a mom who's overwhelmed. Two children with autism is a hand full and she seems to be the only person doing all the work, since Joe has to work so much. I feel for this family.

    • @AlexanderAMY
      @AlexanderAMY Рік тому +1

      You ate amazing mum ❤

    • @commenter4368
      @commenter4368 2 місяці тому +1

      @@gayleholmes9081So overwhelmed she has to record a video. Must be real urgent, a missing child is a big opportunity to earn money from UA-cam.

    • @Fluff_VR1
      @Fluff_VR1 2 місяці тому +2

      Yeah she is

  • @silviatellez8434
    @silviatellez8434 Рік тому +57

    You are a good mom, don’t let what the police officer told you get to you. You do so much for all your children he doesn’t know what it is to raise an autistic child, I am super happy that he was found safe and unharmed. God bless ❤😊

  • @MamazitaCole
    @MamazitaCole Рік тому +33

    A mother’s worst fear 😨
    So grateful Grayson is safe ❤
    God bless your family 🕉️

  • @judyblakely7450
    @judyblakely7450 Рік тому +40

    Please don’t blame yourself‼️ You’re an amazing mother‼️

  • @maryzylema9699
    @maryzylema9699 Рік тому +3

    So happy you found him ! Thanks to all that helped !😊💖

  • @maryjomarch5811
    @maryjomarch5811 Рік тому +81

    You are a GREAT mother!

  • @Grits-N-Grace4U
    @Grits-N-Grace4U Рік тому +1

    Bless your heart. That feeling of fear & that you need to be driving and walking at the same time as desperation claws at you. My heart was with you every second. So glad he’s okay. And that you’re okay too Mama 💕

  • @None979
    @None979 Рік тому +60

    I’m a wreck watching this. He’s a fast little guy! Don’t beat yourself up. You are a wonderful Mother. I admire you for how well you are constantly trying ways to help your children. I hope you can relax and get feeling better. Thank you Jesus for Greyson safe return and for wonderful neighbors!

  • @VictoriaMarch13
    @VictoriaMarch13 Рік тому +4

    My son is 5 and he's also non verbal. I've been through this. It's easy to judge others when you've never been in their shoes. Autistic kids love to run. It's in their DNA. Thank goodness he's safe and back home. You're not a terrible mother. From one autism mom to another ❤️

  • @sherihasan2174
    @sherihasan2174 Рік тому +11

    I lost each of my boys once too. There’s no greater fear or guilt in the world. So glad you found him. God bless.

  • @LanieReviews
    @LanieReviews Рік тому +3

    I can feel the fear in you as a mom myself & ugh, my heart hurts for you! ❤

  • @brynn1995
    @brynn1995 Рік тому +13

    Thank you for being brave enough to share! So glad everything is okay.❤

  • @devonwitzman6370
    @devonwitzman6370 Рік тому +2

    You are NOT a bad mom!!! I have a son with Autism who is nonverbal and I'm telling you, it's hard!!!

  • @melsattitude8668
    @melsattitude8668 Рік тому +39

    Its extremely scary and even in the best of situations it can happen. Keep being a great mom and keep trying everything you can think of ❤

  • @Estellasanchez-o8u
    @Estellasanchez-o8u Рік тому +3

    Gosh to be blessed to have wonderful loving neighbors. It was a reminder your FAMILY is loved!!

  • @bbadventures8268
    @bbadventures8268 Рік тому +31

    Your’re an AMAZING mama. I’m so
    happy he’s all right. ❤️❤️

  • @reneeprice2980
    @reneeprice2980 2 місяці тому +1

    What a great bunch of friends and neighbors who are so kind and all gathered to find you baby .. you are not a horrible mom... i can feel your pain i think a lot of moms and dads have had something like this happen to them and we all feel the way you do but don't beat yourself up God Bless yall

  • @mindysmom6132
    @mindysmom6132 Рік тому +36

    Oh Terra! My heart went out to you! I could feel your anxiety. YOU ARE AN AMAZING MOM! Please don’t ever think otherwise! Thank God for Ring Cameras, because it showed which direction Grayson went. Thank God for your neighbors! Thank you Lord for bringing Grayson home safely! 🙏❤️

  • @valerielowery5453
    @valerielowery5453 Рік тому +1

    So thankful he is safe! 🙏🏻Your neighbors are so amazing ❤️

  • @janellestuckey8477
    @janellestuckey8477 Рік тому +10

    I've been there with my kids and my Grandchildren. I cant think of anything more frightening. The best words you can hear, "we found them". A lot of people never hear this. Thank you God, I have been so lucky. I'm so glad you found him. 🙏❤

  • @Rachel_Morrison
    @Rachel_Morrison Рік тому +1

    You are an amazing Mother! I can't imagine what you were going through or the thoughts going through your head during this hardship😔 I wish I could hug you! You did what any Good Mother would do if this happened to their child! Autistic kids don't understand the same things as normal children do so that's unfair for them to say that to you! I am so glad he was found safe!

  • @fibromyalgialife7462
    @fibromyalgialife7462 Рік тому +10

    OMG! This raised my anxiety level sky high that my chest hurts.
    But, I'm so thankful that he was found.

  • @bubbubby9503
    @bubbubby9503 Рік тому +5

    Thank goodness Grayson wasn't hurt! He is so adorable. Don't put yourself down! Terra, you are a wonderful mama!! 🥺❤️❤️❤️

  • @emiilyjaane7
    @emiilyjaane7 Рік тому +13

    Omg, I literally cried with you Tara, ai was so scared for you and Greyson 😢 I'm so glad he was found safe! ❤️‍🩹🙏🏼 He had his angels looking out for him ❤ NEVER feel like you are a bad mom! You are AMAZING! ❤

  • @Brucebanner857
    @Brucebanner857 Рік тому +136

    Thank god you grabbed your phone to record yourself.

    • @stephsawsu5804
      @stephsawsu5804 4 місяці тому +10

      😂

    • @traceynunyabiz2190
      @traceynunyabiz2190 4 місяці тому +3

      Right?!

    • @annagroah3148
      @annagroah3148 3 місяці тому +5

      Right??? Social media platforms I mean u gotta get them likes n comments while ur looking for ur son smfh

    • @Sunnysunshine208
      @Sunnysunshine208 3 місяці тому +4

      I don’t know how he ran so fast with the little legs

    • @amyscott3665
      @amyscott3665 3 місяці тому

      Exactly I wouldn't of thought hhmm let me record all this, wtf. ​@@annagroah3148

  • @mollyb4541
    @mollyb4541 Рік тому +34

    You’re an excellent mama! Kids are quick and as moms multi tasking it’s hard. Grayson is adorable. He’s Joe’s twin!

    • @camarojai6832
      @camarojai6832 Рік тому +5

      Multitasking then not feeling well and multiple children….it happens. Thank goodness for that neighborhood love that so much

  • @renaecamacho338
    @renaecamacho338 Рік тому +1

    You are not a terrible mom. I’m a grandmother of a 11 year old non verbal beautiful boy with autism. He did this to me a few times when he was 6 & under. Thank god he out grew it. Today he stays with me & never runs.

  • @melissalove2463
    @melissalove2463 Рік тому +34

    All us mothers have in your position before Terra ! You are an amazing mother never forget that ! A bad mother would be not caring that your son is missing ! 💞❤️💞

  • @correysuladie8956
    @correysuladie8956 Рік тому +2

    Even with autistic kids u have to be stern with them. My stepson is autistic and when i had to be stern with him i did it with loving words but my tone and my facial expressions meant business. Autistic kids arent stupid at all they just learn differently and comprehend differently but they are amazing kiddos! Im so happy he was found safe and sound!! And Mama u are not a bad mother cuz he got away from you. It happens sometimes. U remained calm and positive and that was the best thing for you and him!!! Love to u both!! Blessed be

  • @Dev-jq8ch
    @Dev-jq8ch Рік тому +10

    aww! Scary! Blessings he was found safe, and the whole neighborhood is a blessing, full of people who care for your family! XO

  • @selenavillarreal9951
    @selenavillarreal9951 Рік тому +4

    Thank God you got your little angel back❤

  • @YolandaRamirez-eo2iq
    @YolandaRamirez-eo2iq Рік тому +25

    So glad that Grayson was was found safe 🙏❤️

  • @kaylahurley7782
    @kaylahurley7782 3 місяці тому +1

    Your not a horrible mother you need to give yourself more grace more patience ❤️ you do all u can do. And no one understands that doesn't have a autistic child. I couldn't imagine what shoes you have to fill being a mother with a child who has autism and disabilities. I'm praying for you and your family.

  • @valeriespatorico4346
    @valeriespatorico4346 Рік тому +56

    ❤ As a mom, I could feel the panic through my phone watching this vlog.
    You are a good mother, and Grayson knew he had upset you ❤

    • @dawnd9030
      @dawnd9030 Рік тому +5

      OH MY GOD YES about the panic part

  • @enildacoreyhaim
    @enildacoreyhaim Рік тому +2

    I'm so happy he was found safe. My grandson has autism and I worry so much for him. God bless you and your family 🙏

  • @ginaschuerman7804
    @ginaschuerman7804 Рік тому +28

    So glad Grayson is safe. You are an amazing mom! My daughter has Autism as well. This is our worst nightmare come true. I have AngelSense for her in case she escapes.

  • @natalierichardson9175
    @natalierichardson9175 Рік тому +6

    Your not a horrible mom at all , it happens to the best of us ❤

  • @donush9139
    @donush9139 Рік тому +12

    Glad You Found Grayson safe and Sound. Your a Great Mom.

  • @shawnleonard3818
    @shawnleonard3818 Рік тому +1

    Your not a bad mom...my son with autism got away from me and was found 3 miles from my house it happend 20 yrs ago..feels like it was yesterday

  • @gigglesandhugs5690
    @gigglesandhugs5690 Рік тому +7

    its very scary. You are a Great mom. Its lessons in keeping him safe from himself. you will take steps next time since you know this is a new thing that will happen

  • @awkwardlyamy3765
    @awkwardlyamy3765 Рік тому +1

    You're not a terrible mom.. My autistic son got out & thank God he went to my neighbors & they brought him back..

  • @NelsBels25
    @NelsBels25 Рік тому +13

    You kept your cool so well momma!! So glad he is safe ❤

  • @Commonsensehurts
    @Commonsensehurts Рік тому +1

    A very humbling reminder how quickly this can happen to any mother. Great neighbours ❤

  • @nancylasocki7446
    @nancylasocki7446 Рік тому +16

    Oh mama don’t blame yourself! Huge hugs and thank God he’s ok. Hang in there😘

  • @lindsaytaylor803
    @lindsaytaylor803 Рік тому +3

    I'm glad he was ok but wow I hope everything stays good 👍 you are a great mom 👩 ❤️ 💗 I love watching your vlogs 😊

  • @amyfrivera
    @amyfrivera Рік тому +23

    From a mom who has two autistic boys who have eloped - ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. You can get Angel Sense for him or Jiobit which both my boys have (they are GPS). Glad everything turned out ok. Hugs and kisses to you, Warrior Mama.

    • @MiniMama
      @MiniMama  Рік тому +3

      Sadly he rips off anything on his wrists. Going to have to figure out something creative.

    • @MiniMama
      @MiniMama  Рік тому +2

      But thank you for the suggestion. 🙏🏼

    • @gigglesandhugs5690
      @gigglesandhugs5690 Рік тому +4

      @@MiniMama there is a program i dont know what its called but i am sure you can find it. They come in and set up door alarms and such for elopement issues.

  • @NatNat4Tally
    @NatNat4Tally Рік тому +1

    😬 My nerves watching this. God Bless you, the police and everyone who helped. Grayson is safe don't beat yourself up, Terra.

  • @kathleenperreault3000
    @kathleenperreault3000 Рік тому +6

    Accidents happen to everybody. You are an absolutely amazing mom and there's no disputing that. Praise to God for you and your entire family. Hugs and love ❤️

  • @yvettecontreras8430
    @yvettecontreras8430 Рік тому +1

    Happy you found Grayson god blessings be always with you and your family

  • @meganmarshall3952
    @meganmarshall3952 Рік тому +25

    I feel like we’ve all said “I’m that mom” like 100 times lol. Girl I’m so glad everything is ok. So scary but everything is ok now. Rest easy

  • @ashleyleonard4123
    @ashleyleonard4123 Рік тому +3

    I am grateful that you found him and he’s OK God bless you all.

  • @nurasoul
    @nurasoul Рік тому +10

    My brother has autism and he recently did this at his school about 2 years ago and left and took the train to a completely different city! So traumatic I totally feel ya, we immediately got a GPS for him even though he hasn’t done it again but you never know! ❤

  • @ginimarkham5492
    @ginimarkham5492 3 місяці тому

    You are an amazing mom, dealing with some tough situations. I love your village! Much love!❤

  • @shandicolombo87
    @shandicolombo87 Рік тому +6

    I'm so glad he was found safe & is home now ❤ you are a great mother to your children

  • @marshashaffer9620
    @marshashaffer9620 Рік тому +1

    You are a treasure! He is very lucky to have such a wonderful mom!

  • @mzz.clesha2u314
    @mzz.clesha2u314 Рік тому +19

    Don't beat yourself up. Thank God he's ok. Stay blessed

  • @Dulcevita-q9n
    @Dulcevita-q9n Рік тому +2

    I'm glad you're son is ok

  • @heartlove7502
    @heartlove7502 Рік тому +13

    Kids can get away fast, it's best to keep them in your sight at all times ❤ glad Gray is ok

  • @paulafreyeisen8159
    @paulafreyeisen8159 Рік тому +5

    Omg. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I cried watching this. I have a 19 year old and when she’s not in my sight I worry. You’re not a horrible mom. Things happen so fast. You are amazing

  • @joelledudas9871
    @joelledudas9871 Рік тому +11

    I'm glad you found him!!!! YOU ARE A GREAT MOM!!!!

  • @DeniseMitchell-ok1fp
    @DeniseMitchell-ok1fp Рік тому +1

    I understand, I know that fear, I heard the insults. I am happy thing turn out well. This emotional roller-coaster is no joke. Sending out love