You’re totally not “playing the victim” but honoring your feelings. It’s ok to feel mentally down and acknowledge it. It’s only an issue if you stay in that place, which you so don’t. Hugs!!
Positive attitude is everything!!💕 i battled two cancers at the same time...i was alot like you...stayed positive even when the doctors weren't!! It was a rough time however i am now cancer free 7 years later....God is good!!❣❣
God IS good, yes. We are ALL here on borrowed time. God created us. He brought us into this world and will take us out when He decides, because His timing is always perfect. He’s taken many members of my family, but one day, because they and I have placed our faith in Him, will see each other again.
@@MyName-bi4pt What an unnecessarily mean and rude comment! Yes, there are many people dying all the world over, many at a young age. That still doesn't give to the right to be so rude .
I am a cancer nurse from austria and I would highly recommend the Caphosol mouthwash to you. It helps preventing against mucositis (inflamed, painful tissue inside of your mouth caused by chemo) and also helps healing it faster. All of our patients use it with good results. Maybe your hospital also has it. Stay strong, you are a hero 💝
I wish I’d known about this when my husband was suffering. It was never mentioned here in England, it was all about Covid. Towards the end he couldn’t even open his mouth, it was heartbreaking. It was a terminal brain tumour by the way.
I'm sorry that he had to go through that. It does sound painful. When you are the caregiver it is hard on you just to watch, you feel helpless but it is nice for them to have someone that cares and can get them what they need.💜
What also helps a lot against mucositis from chemotherapy and radiation is low-level laser therapy, 3 times a day. But this lasers are extremely expensive and not many hospitals have them. We use them on our patients with great results. Much less pain for them and a much more speedy recovery than without it. If someone has the possibility of receiving low-level-laser- therapy i highly recommend it. It also helps a lot on all sorts of wounds which are not healing well otherwise.
Chewing on ice during chemo helps to constrict the blood vessels in your mouth, so that they do not absorb as much chemo, thus reducing the likelihood of mouth sores.
I cry in the shower, too, Romee! I’ve been cheering you on from Detroit, Michigan. As a mental health advocate, I love your transparency. You’re really helping more people than you know by sharing your story and we’re so lucky you’re allowing us to join you. I stand with many people by your side as you beat this. Sending so much comfort and a ton of hugs always! 🌟🙏🏻
Perfectly put!! I have been trying for over an hour now to express what an inspiration you are , Romee. Exactly what Monica said but 📣👋🎉 cheering you on all the way down here in Surfside TX. !!
@@minapina73 sometimes I have a really hard time crying. It's like I try to will myself to be strong. Like I can take it. I'll hold it in for months and months, and even then I fight letting go. If I ever need to completely break down and sob like a baby, I'll watch The Notebook. Fortunately I haven't had to watch it more than once.
Crying in the shower is SO therapeutic! Also, when I was in the hospital for 3 weeks, doing a spa afternoon gave me a distraction when I was bored and made me feel good. I’d do my nails, put lotion on, and do a mask. It would take up a decent amount of time and made me feel so much better!! Love to you, I’m going to do a clinical trial where I’ll be in the hospital for a few weeks straight again in a month! Would you also consider video chatting with a few of us and making a video out of that?!
Romee, I am 60 years old. Diagnosed with stage 3 colon cancer 3 years ago. Had chemo, radiation, surgery. I now go every 6 months for a checkup and for lab test, the one that the numbers determine if C is coming back. I just wait for the doctor to say yes, it's back. Basically I wish I had just 10% of the mental strength you have and you wonderful attitude through all of this, and at your young, young age. Thank you for your videos. You are such an inspiration. Congratulations on your college degree !!!! With your great attitude and strength, you WILL get thru this Romee ;) I wish I could have been there to play Yahtzee with you !! xo Tammy xo
I’ve never commented before but have followed your journey for a while! Stay strong Romee! All the best ❤️ you are so inspirational and so positive. 🌺🌸
Dear Sweet Brave One. You are so inspirational. Such an amazing thing you have done by allowing us to join you on your journey. You are a gift. Hugs & prayers
You don’t have to be all smiles all the time. I’m not. I cry in the shower at least once a week. I think it cleanses the soul. The month without chemo will fly by. Love and prayers!
I am 74 and have known lots of people along my way with chronic illness. I can honestly say I have never ever met a person as strong as you. Uour attitude is remarkable. I follow all of your videos and no matter what happens to you, you handle it like none other. I pray for healing soon and keep your strength.
You are not a LOSER! Also as someone that has spent time in hospitals, being allowed... and feeling strong enough... to take a shower is SO GOOD. Also what a good plan to have games to play when people visit!
I’m an RN and worked oncology. It is so easy to get depressed when in for transplant. Spending a month coupled up in a room has got to be awful. I saw it all the time. I wasn’t a staff nurse but was a care manager, so I’d hang out when I had the time and played games, or often planned surprises for my patients. Sometimes if a patient was down for a test or something we’d decorate the room to lift spirits. Or I’d call a family member and ask them to get friends and family to plan a surprise or have everyone write letters, and then a big pile of nail would come. But I’m surprised you could leave the hospital to get a new phone. It must have been before your counts bottom out. Congratulations on your graduation. That is pretty amazing that you were able to do that while dealing with all of this. Doesn’t your family visit daily? I mean if it were one of my children wild horses couldn’t drag me away. You are amazingly strong. Your attitude is upbeat. You know what’s coming but don’t seem to let it get to you. I’m so impressed by you. Hang in there. The end game is worth it.
You absolutely are NOT crazy!! Crying in the shower is therapeutic…you are going through an awful experience. Stay strong and know that so many are cheering you on. Blessings to you~ 💕🌺💕🌺💕🌺💕
Thank You for documenting your life. It is important to have your story told. You bring inspiration to those who are facing challenges and do not know how to navigate their journey. I send you positive affirmations and love. Stay Strong! Be Well!
You have dealt with this bastard cancer with such grace. You are allowed to have sad days! You have been through so much. I am in awe of your strength. Sending you healing vibes and love from California ❤️ Thank you for your videos. You are such a special human.
What the heck? This is possibly your last round of chemo?! Im so excited and happy for you! Thinking of you girl, you can do this :) Greetings from germany
Crochet could be a fun way to pass the time. You just need a hook and a little yarn and you can make a scarf, hat anything! Great gifts for your friends and it really is satisfying.
Romee, you are an amazing person. During this difficult time when you could feel self absorbed you are sharing your experiences helping education people. Part of that education is sharing your emotions and it is difficult to do at times.
Ive been in hospital myself for 3 weeks now due to a poor mental health, but watching you I see how brave and inspiring you have been throughout your battle, makes me want to keep going too. Thanks Romee.
It would be cool if the hospital provided a daily therapist or something just to come talk or play a game. Your mental health is so important while you're trapped in there! Please stay strong! Xoxox
When I was in the hospital the best parts was planing the little "escapes". And by that I even mean going for a walk that is approved by a staff. Just planing where you are going to go, what you are going to wear, who is going to join you (if possible), all the details. You could write it all in a nice notebook, check out the Google maps of the area you are going to, etc. It was often taking more time than the actual outing. And if we are bored, that's what we want. We need something to focus on.
My son had the chemo too before his stem cell transplant and he is cancer free for two years. He is 24. I am with you in spirit. Stay positive. Stay strong. You've got this. Sending you strength, courage endurance, positivity and tons of love. Silvie from Toronto Canada.
i'm 58 and i 'm such a coward, a whimp and a crying baby compare to you.you're so strong , brave and honest !!! You're adorable and beautiful inside and out. Please keep strong . Fight and never give up . You're going to become a very wise old lady and your life will be meaningful and adventurous . I'm sending you positive vibes from venice italy
Dealing with what you’re going through has to be so difficult. I know that the way I cope with my husband’s cancer is staying busy but there are times you just have to give in to your emotions and let it go for a brief moment. I also DANCE 💃! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations to your friend & her new tiny miracle!! Babies are so exciting, that’ll be such a fun thing to look forward to when you get out of here! Thanks so much for continuing to keep us updated with life! 🥰
Im a cancer patient too. Sometimes a good shower cry is much needed, followed by animal snuggles (if you have one, I have a small black pug who gives me pug therapy when Im down). Don't be ashamed. You don't always have to give smiles. Sometimes its just okay to let it all out. Its understandable! Hugs!
You can do this Romee 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕. Remember to call your friends and family Romee, it gets lonely in hospital for long stays hun. You're a strong young woman xxx
Romee please don’t call yourself a looser you are so much more, so much more! You are so strong crying in the shower or anywhere for that matter is so therapeutic for the soul and you have been through so much in the last year or so. From Alaska with love we have been praying for you Gods blessings and take care of yourself🦋
Romee, I love you so much and I kinda feel like you’re my sister cause I’ve been going through my own fight against cancer with you. The one and only thing that I want to wish you is a remission💜
I remember the guy that used to collect the biohazard stuff would come in at 4am and wake my son and I up, and this after the 5 other times nurse and aide would come in. Trying to sleep in a hospital is so challenging! Romee, you are such a trooper❤ what you are going through is very difficult. I watched my son go through 9 months of chemo, then limb salvage surgery, then rehab and PT, during COVID too, you both deserve medals, better yet, health! They did stem cell transplants on our floor too, I remember those people were there for a solid month, and they were very careful about sanitization etc. 1 visitor and that person couldnt sit on the bed or use the bathroom, share food etc, it must be pretty boring, but you are in the home stretch, and you've done so beautifully beautiful girl. You are such an amazing role model for other people going through a cancer journey. Will you have a bell ringing ceremony? That's something we do here in the US when we are finished with chemo.
Shower cries help me get through every day life, if anyone deserves a good shower cry, it's you! When people ask why your eyes are red you just tell them you accidentally got some shampoo in your eyes. Works every time.
Sweetie....you are not a victim, you are a warrior. You are an inspiration and a beautiful light in this world. Cry your heart out my dear, scream, punch your pillow...whatever it takes to make you feel better❤
It will be a long month, but worth it! I will be thinking about and praying for you. Hang in there! Edited to add: My chemo nurse taught me to sniff an alcohol pad if I had the urge to puke. It worked!
You also can use pure volatile oils instead of alcohol for this. Especially grapefruit and lemon are well known to help against feeling nausea. You can use it on a cotton pad etc. Some of our patients put the pads with the oils in little resealble plastic containers, which makes it easy to take them with you everywhere and sniff on it when needed.
Romee, you're allowed to feel. It's ok to laugh, cry, stress, be joyful, be overwhelmed, feel weak even when you're strong. You are incredibly genuine, and I love this about you. I send you love, and prayers for strength, grace, and healing ❤❤❤❤❤
Way to go Romee!!! I pray that is your last chemo ever! You are a warrior. I would be crying in my chair, in my bed, on the floor, and in the shower!! You are strong girl!❤️
Sweet Romee I know how you feel. I just finished chemo for triple negative breast cancer and it was rough. The AC chemo I sure didn’t think I would make it through. I’ve been documenting my cancer journey as well over the past 8 months and hope to get one big video shared in hopes it will help someone out there like your videos have helped me. Sending lots of love and prayers your way sweetie. Keep me in your prayers as well because I have my double mastectomy coming up in a couple weeks in hopes to remove the cancer and I pray it’s not spread. Oh and they gave me something called magic mouthwash that helped with mouth sores from chemo side effects.
You are such a bright light in this world at this time. I am 65 & don't have the positivity & strength you have. You absolutely shine beautiful. Thrilled that last chemo is done. Please take good care of you & take the time you need to get your strength back. Yes the shower is a great place to let those tears flow. Much love & prayers your way.
When I was going through my treatment I definitely had moments where I’d let myself feel horrible for myself. I’d let it all out and that would give me a breather to truck on for a little while until I needed another pity moment. Did a lot of shower crying. Keeping you in my thoughts!
So many of us praying for you! I had some challenges today and I cried..on my birthday at urgent care so believe me…you can cry all you need. I felt better after crying. Probably could use a bit more. Try to sleep well and eat what you can. We all adore you and sending our love!
Hi from North Yorkshire 🇬🇧 Romee! I just wanted to say you do what you need to do to help you get through this period. You are a super warrior and I love your vlogs!☺️ We are all standing side by side with you to support you! You are a a strong female warrior! You’ve got this!☺️ Much strength and love to you!💜☺️
You continue to amaze me with your strong attitude. You are so positive. I was glad to hear you say you were feeling depressed and were going to cry in the shower. Not that I want you to feel like that but just to show you are having normal feelings. God bless you!
Good luck with everything .The light at the end of the tunnel is near. Nintendo switch is great to have. Glad you have a bike to excersise with. Will keep you in my prayers. Hugs.
Staying with you in spirit, a good cry is therapeutic, and in the shower is even better. Being sad and overwhelmed means your human. Your truly a beautiful girl inside and out! My god, be proud of yourself!
Get some mandala colouring in books. You can also get adult colouring in books with inspirational sayings/affirmations to meditate on. I use them in hospital a lot and they are fun,relaxing and help pass time and stay positive. Love you hun, just hang in there it is so boring in hospital. Oh, I forgot to add... look at Honest Guys on UA-cam. They have some amazing relaxation and meditation which can help with sleep and nausea etc xxxx
I’m so sorry for the nausea and vomiting. Stay strong. We love you and admire your attitude and strong will to fight this. Glad little baby is born. Always keep in touch when you can and we’ll always message you back! Smile, you are gorgeous. Great grandmother from Texas.
Keep fighting strong Romee. You've got this and I have NO DOUBT you'll be kicking cancer's azz. I like even the "boring" vlogs as we still get to see how you're doing. Really loved your holiday vlog too. Stay strong!!!
Hi Romee! Your strength is so inspiring and I have really enjoyed following your journey. Please know that someone in Ohio, USA is rooting for you and wishing you the very best. Hang in there. ❤️🙏
Romee, you are soooo brave!! I've been watching your videos for months and months, following your progress. I'm a retired Oncology RN from Boston. I pray all the time that this will be a successful journey for you. I can't believe you got your degree while undergoing all of this. You are loved by many, and I will continue to walk this walk with you. Sending big hugs and healing wishes.
I wish you all the strength possible. Your attitude and positive mindset are really inspiring - you are a warrior. All the best and I hope you will get well very very soon. And congrats on your bachelor´s degree! :)
I love your honesty, Romee. In spite of how brave you seem, I know you have your times of being down, and I feel honored that you wanted to share your "feeling down" state of mind with us. It's very important to have good cries when we feel we need them. I liked someone's suggestion that you ask US Q and A's when you're feeling bored; I think it would be interesting for all of us to read the responses. We here in America are with you all the way!! Stay brave and strong!
Shower cries are the best, your worries, sadness, stress or whatever it is that makes you emotional wash away with the water. I have had those too, just sitting on the shower floor with the water as hot as I can tolerate.
Romee you look beautiful! it is so normal to feel like crying for no reason, we are woman who have hormones that do weird things to our body and mind and being in a hospital getting toxic chemicals dripped into our veins would make most people want to cry. I hope these 30 days fly by and you feel good and healthy so you can resume "normal" life free of chemo and hospitals. ☮️ 💜
Sweetheart, you are at the total end of the spectrum from being a loser. You are one of the most amazing people I have ever known. This crazy time in your life is almost over and you will be free to do whatever you want. Hang in there honey. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. XOXO
To combat boredom, I would recommend Tabletop Simulator. You can play board games with people on the computer. When I'm down, I go on TTS and play games with online friends and chat over Skype. I'm actually stuck off work due to a job injury, so if you want to give it a try, I can deal with any time zone!
You are a true warrior . I really pray that this treatment works for you. Don’t apologize for your emotions, they are yours and only yours. I love you, you are my hero. Kathy from Ottawa Canada
I was not half as brave as you. I did not wait for the shower to cry; sometimes I just laid my head down and sobbed. I wore my chemo in a fanny pack 24/7 for 5 days in a row and then a break for the weekend and then Monday back to the hospital to get my chemo back in its fanny pack and into my chest. Here is what I can tell you, you are handling this battle is the hardest thing you will have to go through; with your amazing attitude.#TeamRomme #Bravegirl #Romee>cancer
Maybe you could do QandA's in the comments when you're bored. Ask all of us questions questions. Light or deep stuff or fun stuff and we could answer them and you could read them when you've got nothing to do. And all you had to do would ask the question and you wouldn't be in the place of answering yourself. Just a suggestion😚😉😊
Hi! Saskia, What a great suggestion! I am never bored reading honest answers. Unfortunately, I'm much ok older than you. So, I don't know how to set up a page like that. But if you are bored and can do it for me. I would love to do that! Because, I'm very curious about people and how would someone else handle a situation! A smart man is someone who listen s. A dumb man is a person who think they knows it all. Thanks again! GOD BLESS! : - )
I’m so happy your all done with your chemo now. I hope the stem cell transplant goes well and you never have to deal with any cancer again. Congratulations on your bachelors degree, you are a strong young lady. You are also an inspiration to the people young and older out there going thru their illnesses. I keep you in my prayers
Stay strong, Romee. You’re incredible and inspire us all to be better people and happier and more grateful. I love watching your videos ❤️ sending hugs from Portugal
I am also currently in the hospital because my chemo port got infected. I know how hard it is to be by yourself stuck in a hospital room, thank you for sharing that you also have down days and that that is perfectly okay. You are doing great and good luck with the stem cell transplant❤️
You are a very strong and brave young woman. An inspiration. It’s important to have a good cry now and then and let it all out. Very therapeutic. I would suggest adult coloring books (apps) to help pass the time. Also, audio books, and if you enjoy writing, maybe keep a journal or write stories. Stay strong. You got this.
I cry in the shower whenever necessary. For me, it's the safest place to cry where no one can see me. I always feel so much better. You're going through a lot, especially right now. I continue to pray for you daily as there is strength in prayer. 🙂 My girlfriend had breast cancer & got some really bad mouth sores. Her chemo nurse told her to use a mouthwash called Biotene. We can buy it in drug stores here in the U.S. I'm not sure you can get it where you live. IF you can....get some & use it. My friend's mouth sores healed within two days. God Bless you sweet Romee.
I am happy you recorded your Journey. It will help a lot of people that are possibly new to their Diagnosis. Thanks for doing a great service for humanity. 🌸🌎🌸
Bless you Romee.. I have cried in the shower many times in the past.. The reason for the shower was so my 3 children didn't see me cry. Its good to let all the stress out. I wish you all the very very best, sending peace health and happiness from the UK. 🇬🇧💜🕊️🕊️🕊️👍
Prayers for no nausea, strength, and absence of pain! Feel all our arms around you!
You’re totally not “playing the victim” but honoring your feelings. It’s ok to feel mentally down and acknowledge it. It’s only an issue if you stay in that place, which you so don’t. Hugs!!
Positive attitude is everything!!💕 i battled two cancers at the same time...i was alot like you...stayed positive even when the doctors weren't!! It was a rough time however i am now cancer free 7 years later....God is good!!❣❣
Wauw amazing 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼♥️ God bless you
So why did he let you survive and others die. Your God doesn’t exist. Doctors saved you not a sky genie.
God IS good, yes. We are ALL here on borrowed time. God created us. He brought us into this world and will take us out when He decides, because His timing is always perfect. He’s taken many members of my family, but one day, because they and I have placed our faith in Him, will see each other again.
@@MyName-bi4pt What an unnecessarily mean and rude comment! Yes, there are many people dying all the world over, many at a young age. That still doesn't give to the right to be so rude .
@@MyName-bi4pt why don't you let people believe what they want as long as they feel it helps them and they're not harming anyone?
I'm a complete stranger, and it still hurts to see you going through so much. You are so strong, and brave. Here's to better days ahead for you.
I am a cancer nurse from austria and I would highly recommend the Caphosol mouthwash to you. It helps preventing against mucositis (inflamed, painful tissue inside of your mouth caused by chemo) and also helps healing it faster. All of our patients use it with good results. Maybe your hospital also has it.
Stay strong, you are a hero 💝
I wish I’d known about this when my husband was suffering. It was never mentioned here in England, it was all about Covid. Towards the end he couldn’t even open his mouth, it was heartbreaking. It was a terminal brain tumour by the way.
I'm sorry that he had to go through that. It does sound painful. When you are the caregiver it is hard on you just to watch, you feel helpless but it is nice for them to have someone that cares and can get them what they need.💜
When I had my transplant, I got a mouthwash which was handmade in the apothecary of the hospital. It helped - somewhat.
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I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your husband and that he had to go through so much pain!
What also helps a lot against mucositis from chemotherapy and radiation is low-level laser therapy, 3 times a day.
But this lasers are extremely expensive and not many hospitals have them.
We use them on our patients with great results. Much less pain for them and a much more speedy recovery than without it.
If someone has the possibility of receiving low-level-laser- therapy i highly recommend it.
It also helps a lot on all sorts of wounds which are not healing well otherwise.
Chewing on ice during chemo helps to constrict the blood vessels in your mouth, so that they do not absorb as much chemo, thus reducing the likelihood of mouth sores.
I cry in the shower, too, Romee! I’ve been cheering you on from Detroit, Michigan. As a mental health advocate, I love your transparency. You’re really helping more people than you know by sharing your story and we’re so lucky you’re allowing us to join you. I stand with many people by your side as you beat this. Sending so much comfort and a ton of hugs always! 🌟🙏🏻
@Youhan Van dam what a cruel and insensitive thing to say. Crying is a perfect emotional release, doesn't cost anything, and helps immensely.
Perfectly put!! I have been trying for over an hour now to express what an inspiration you are , Romee. Exactly what Monica said but 📣👋🎉 cheering you on all the way down here in Surfside TX. !!
If i need to cry I put on a sad movie, I mean if the cry is stucked for some reason.
@@minapina73 sometimes I have a really hard time crying. It's like I try to will myself to be strong. Like I can take it. I'll hold it in for months and months, and even then I fight letting go. If I ever need to completely break down and sob like a baby, I'll watch The Notebook. Fortunately I haven't had to watch it more than once.
Crying in the shower is SO therapeutic! Also, when I was in the hospital for 3 weeks, doing a spa afternoon gave me a distraction when I was bored and made me feel good. I’d do my nails, put lotion on, and do a mask. It would take up a decent amount of time and made me feel so much better!! Love to you, I’m going to do a clinical trial where I’ll be in the hospital for a few weeks straight again in a month! Would you also consider video chatting with a few of us and making a video out of that?!
"Does it look like I just cried under the shower? ... Because I did"
Never have more relatable words been uttered!
Romee, I am 60 years old. Diagnosed with stage 3 colon cancer 3 years ago. Had chemo, radiation, surgery. I now go every 6 months for a checkup and for lab test, the one that the numbers determine if C is coming back. I just wait for the doctor to say yes, it's back. Basically I wish I had just 10% of the mental strength you have and you wonderful attitude through all of this, and at your young, young age. Thank you for your videos. You are such an inspiration. Congratulations on your college degree !!!! With your great attitude and strength, you WILL get thru this Romee ;) I wish I could have been there to play Yahtzee with you !! xo Tammy xo
I’ve never commented before but have followed your journey for a while! Stay strong Romee! All the best ❤️ you are so inspirational and so positive. 🌺🌸
Thank you 💖💗❤️
Thank you
Dear Sweet Brave One. You are so inspirational. Such an amazing thing you have done by allowing us to join you on your journey. You are a gift. Hugs & prayers
You are one tough lady and an inspiration to me. I'm sending positive energy and prayers from Arizona, USA.
Going through treatment, made me cry a few times. It's ok to feel sorry for yourself for a bit. You had it rough, kid, stay strong from Boston, MA
You don’t have to be all smiles all the time. I’m not. I cry in the shower at least once a week. I think it cleanses the soul. The month without chemo will fly by. Love and prayers!
I am 74 and have known lots of people along my way with chronic illness. I can honestly say I have never ever met a person as strong as you. Uour attitude is remarkable. I follow all of your videos and no matter what happens to you, you handle it like none other. I pray for healing soon and keep your strength.
It's ok Romee you can cry ..you've gone through so much. Lov having you talk to us ....
You are not a LOSER! Also as someone that has spent time in hospitals, being allowed... and feeling strong enough... to take a shower is SO GOOD. Also what a good plan to have games to play when people visit!
Stay strong and I hope the month flies by.
I’m an RN and worked oncology. It is so easy to get depressed when in for transplant. Spending a month coupled up in a room has got to be awful. I saw it all the time. I wasn’t a staff nurse but was a care manager, so I’d hang out when I had the time and played games, or often planned surprises for my patients. Sometimes if a patient was down for a test or something we’d decorate the room to lift spirits. Or I’d call a family member and ask them to get friends and family to plan a surprise or have everyone write letters, and then a big pile of nail would come.
But I’m surprised you could leave the hospital to get a new phone. It must have been before your counts bottom out.
Congratulations on your graduation. That is pretty amazing that you were able to do that while dealing with all of this.
Doesn’t your family visit daily? I mean if it were one of my children wild horses couldn’t drag me away.
You are amazingly strong. Your attitude is upbeat. You know what’s coming but don’t seem to let it get to you. I’m so impressed by you. Hang in there. The end game is worth it.
You help people more than you know you got this sending postive energy from the uk
You absolutely are NOT crazy!! Crying in the shower is therapeutic…you are going through an awful experience. Stay strong and know that so many are cheering you on.
Blessings to you~
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Thank You for documenting your life. It is important to have your story told. You bring inspiration to those who are facing challenges and do not know how to navigate their journey. I send you positive affirmations and love. Stay Strong! Be Well!
You have dealt with this bastard cancer with such grace. You are allowed to have sad days! You have been through so much. I am in awe of your strength. Sending you healing vibes and love from California ❤️ Thank you for your videos. You are such a special human.
What the heck? This is possibly your last round of chemo?! Im so excited and happy for you! Thinking of you girl, you can do this :)
Greetings from germany
Crochet could be a fun way to pass the time. You just need a hook and a little yarn and you can make a scarf, hat anything! Great gifts for your friends and it really is satisfying.
Romee, you are an amazing person. During this difficult time when you could feel self absorbed you are sharing your experiences helping education people. Part of that education is sharing your emotions and it is difficult to do at times.
Ive been in hospital myself for 3 weeks now due to a poor mental health, but watching you I see how brave and inspiring you have been throughout your battle, makes me want to keep going too. Thanks Romee.
It would be cool if the hospital provided a daily therapist or something just to come talk or play a game. Your mental health is so important while you're trapped in there! Please stay strong! Xoxox
This is a wonderful idea!
When I was in the hospital the best parts was planing the little "escapes". And by that I even mean going for a walk that is approved by a staff. Just planing where you are going to go, what you are going to wear, who is going to join you (if possible), all the details. You could write it all in a nice notebook, check out the Google maps of the area you are going to, etc. It was often taking more time than the actual outing. And if we are bored, that's what we want. We need something to focus on.
Romee, you're definitely not crazy. Go slowly, one foot in front of the other. You'll get through this. Love from Australia. x
My son had the chemo too before his stem cell transplant and he is cancer free for two years. He is 24. I am with you in spirit. Stay positive. Stay strong. You've got this. Sending you strength, courage endurance, positivity and tons of love. Silvie from Toronto Canada.
Romee,
Just know we are all supporting you!
You are strong and you got this!
i'm 58 and i 'm such a coward, a whimp and a crying baby compare to you.you're so strong , brave and honest !!! You're adorable and beautiful inside and out. Please keep strong . Fight and never give up . You're going to become a very wise old lady and your life will be meaningful and adventurous . I'm sending you positive vibes from venice italy
Dealing with what you’re going through has to be so difficult.
I know that the way I cope with my husband’s cancer is staying busy but there are times you just have to give in to your emotions and let it go for a brief moment.
I also DANCE 💃!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You brave girl. I can see I am not the only one who plans a crying session. It is needed and we should do it every now and then.
Congratulations to your friend & her new tiny miracle!! Babies are so exciting, that’ll be such a fun thing to look forward to when you get out of here!
Thanks so much for continuing to keep us updated with life! 🥰
Im a cancer patient too. Sometimes a good shower cry is much needed, followed by animal snuggles (if you have one, I have a small black pug who gives me pug therapy when Im down). Don't be ashamed. You don't always have to give smiles. Sometimes its just okay to let it all out. Its understandable! Hugs!
You can do this Romee 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕. Remember to call your friends and family Romee, it gets lonely in hospital for long stays hun. You're a strong young woman xxx
Romee please don’t call yourself a looser you are so much more, so much more!
You are so strong crying in the shower or anywhere for that matter is so therapeutic for the soul and you have been through so much in the last year or so.
From Alaska with love we have been praying for you Gods blessings and take care of yourself🦋
Romee, I love you so much and I kinda feel like you’re my sister cause I’ve been going through my own fight against cancer with you. The one and only thing that I want to wish you is a remission💜
I'm a pOtATO; I wish you well with your fight against cancer. Take care.
Same here except I finished mine in June...but now fighting cvid. Keep up the good fight little sisters!
I remember the guy that used to collect the biohazard stuff would come in at 4am and wake my son and I up, and this after the 5 other times nurse and aide would come in. Trying to sleep in a hospital is so challenging! Romee, you are such a trooper❤ what you are going through is very difficult. I watched my son go through 9 months of chemo, then limb salvage surgery, then rehab and PT, during COVID too, you both deserve medals, better yet, health! They did stem cell transplants on our floor too, I remember those people were there for a solid month, and they were very careful about sanitization etc. 1 visitor and that person couldnt sit on the bed or use the bathroom, share food etc, it must be pretty boring, but you are in the home stretch, and you've done so beautifully beautiful girl. You are such an amazing role model for other people going through a cancer journey. Will you have a bell ringing ceremony? That's something we do here in the US when we are finished with chemo.
when I lost my father I used to cry in the shower, it lasted for about two years
I also did the same thing after I lost my Dad. Even though he has been gone three years I still sometimes cry in the shower as I miss him so much.
Me as well.. it took me three years.
I just spent 6 days in the hospital getting my last chemo.... listening worship music helped me a lot.. totally lift my spirit
Shower cries help me get through every day life, if anyone deserves a good shower cry, it's you! When people ask why your eyes are red you just tell them you accidentally got some shampoo in your eyes. Works every time.
Sweetie....you are not a victim, you are a warrior. You are an inspiration and a beautiful light in this world. Cry your heart out my dear, scream, punch your pillow...whatever it takes to make you feel better❤
It will be a long month, but worth it! I will be thinking about and praying for you. Hang in there! Edited to add: My chemo nurse taught me to sniff an alcohol pad if I had the urge to puke. It worked!
Interesting
You also can use pure volatile oils instead of alcohol for this. Especially grapefruit and lemon are well known to help against feeling nausea. You can use it on a cotton pad etc.
Some of our patients put the pads with the oils in little resealble plastic containers, which makes it easy to take them with you everywhere and sniff on it when needed.
An alcohol pad work for me, too.
I have never heard that smelling an alcohol pad helps with nausea. That is a great tip, and worth a go. Thanks.
You have strengthen my resolve to never have treatment for cancer. I wish you a speedy recover.
Romee, you're allowed to feel. It's ok to laugh, cry, stress, be joyful, be overwhelmed, feel weak even when you're strong. You are incredibly genuine, and I love this about you. I send you love, and prayers for strength, grace, and healing ❤❤❤❤❤
Way to go Romee!!! I pray that is your last chemo ever! You are a warrior. I would be crying in my chair, in my bed, on the floor, and in the shower!! You are strong girl!❤️
Sweet Romee I know how you feel. I just finished chemo for triple negative breast cancer and it was rough. The AC chemo I sure didn’t think I would make it through. I’ve been documenting my cancer journey as well over the past 8 months and hope to get one big video shared in hopes it will help someone out there like your videos have helped me. Sending lots of love and prayers your way sweetie. Keep me in your prayers as well because I have my double mastectomy coming up in a couple weeks in hopes to remove the cancer and I pray it’s not spread. Oh and they gave me something called magic mouthwash that helped with mouth sores from chemo side effects.
Amanda, good luck with your upcoming surgery. I'll be praying for an easy recovery and a positive outcome.
@@theresas4914 awww thank you sweetie! I surely appreciate all prayers I can get ❤️
Do you have a UA-cam channel?
Amanda, I'm sending you my love and support from Croatia, Europe. You got this❤️🥰
You are such a bright light in this world at this time. I am 65 & don't have the positivity & strength you have. You absolutely shine beautiful. Thrilled that last chemo is done. Please take good care of you & take the time you need to get your strength back. Yes the shower is a great place to let those tears flow. Much love & prayers your way.
I hope the time goes fast and smooth for you, love from Ireland 🇮🇪🤗
There is a saying "if god has not given up on you why have you given up on your self", stay strong lady your a fighter inspirational to many
When I was going through my treatment I definitely had moments where I’d let myself feel horrible for myself. I’d let it all out and that would give me a breather to truck on for a little while until I needed another pity moment. Did a lot of shower crying. Keeping you in my thoughts!
So many of us praying for you! I had some challenges today and I cried..on my birthday at urgent care so believe me…you can cry all you need. I felt better after crying. Probably could use a bit more. Try to sleep well and eat what you can. We all adore you and sending our love!
Its fine to be sad sometimes. You can't always be brave and a fighter Romee x
Hi from North Yorkshire 🇬🇧 Romee! I just wanted to say you do what you need to do to help you get through this period. You are a super warrior and I love your vlogs!☺️ We are all standing side by side with you to support you! You are a a strong female warrior! You’ve got this!☺️ Much strength and love to you!💜☺️
Much love ❤️ from CANADA 🍁…..you are soooooooo strong, and always positive……an inspiration!
You continue to amaze me with your strong attitude. You are so positive. I was glad to hear you say you were feeling depressed and were going to cry in the shower. Not that I want you to feel like that but just to show you are having normal feelings. God bless you!
Good luck with everything .The light at the end of the tunnel is near. Nintendo switch is great to have. Glad you have a bike to excersise with. Will keep you in my prayers. Hugs.
You’re not rambling. You’re fine. Know that I am carrying you around in my heart, here in Texas. You are not alone!
You're such a resilient and strong woman Romee!
Staying with you in spirit, a good cry is therapeutic, and in the shower is even better. Being sad and overwhelmed means your human. Your truly a beautiful girl inside and out! My god, be proud of yourself!
Yes, I cried in the shower many times while undergoing chemo and radiation for breast cancer. I think "being so strong" gets to us...
Hugs from Idaho
Get some mandala colouring in books. You can also get adult colouring in books with inspirational sayings/affirmations to meditate on. I use them in hospital a lot and they are fun,relaxing and help pass time and stay positive. Love you hun, just hang in there it is so boring in hospital.
Oh, I forgot to add... look at Honest Guys on UA-cam. They have some amazing relaxation and meditation which can help with sleep and nausea etc xxxx
You are strong girl!! You can do this 💪🏼. Sending lots of love and positivity 💕.
Yes, we’re here for you. You are doing such a good job! So keep up the happy, positive attitude. We are here for you.
I’m so sorry for the nausea and vomiting. Stay strong. We love you and admire your attitude and strong will to fight this. Glad little baby is born. Always keep in touch when you can and we’ll always message you back! Smile, you are gorgeous. Great grandmother from Texas.
Watching your courages battle makes all my "problems" go away. You are truly an inspiration.
Keep fighting strong Romee. You've got this and I have NO DOUBT you'll be kicking cancer's azz. I like even the "boring" vlogs as we still get to see how you're doing. Really loved your holiday vlog too. Stay strong!!!
Hi Romee! Your strength is so inspiring and I have really enjoyed following your journey. Please know that someone in Ohio, USA is rooting for you and wishing you the very best. Hang in there. ❤️🙏
Prayers from Minnesota, USA
Romee, you are soooo brave!! I've been watching your videos for months and months, following your progress. I'm a retired Oncology RN from Boston. I pray all the time that this will be a successful journey for you. I can't believe you got your degree while undergoing all of this. You are loved by many, and I will continue to walk this walk with you. Sending big hugs and healing wishes.
I wish you all the strength possible. Your attitude and positive mindset are really inspiring - you are a warrior. All the best and I hope you will get well very very soon. And congrats on your bachelor´s degree! :)
Crying is such a good stress release and can offer so much relief so don't feel bad about feeling your emotions
I admire your strength and positive attitude. Sending you lots of love Romee!
I love your honesty, Romee. In spite of how brave you seem, I know you have your times of being down, and I feel honored that you wanted to share your "feeling down" state of mind with us. It's very important to have good cries when we feel we need them.
I liked someone's suggestion that you ask US Q and A's when you're feeling bored; I think it would be interesting for all of us to read the responses. We here in America are with you all the way!! Stay brave and strong!
I prey this was your last ever chemo sweetie. You are a true warrior. So inspiring and strong. Take care 💕
Shower cries are the best, your worries, sadness, stress or whatever it is that makes you emotional wash away with the water.
I have had those too, just sitting on the shower floor with the water as hot as I can tolerate.
Romee you look beautiful! it is so normal to feel like crying for no reason, we are woman who have hormones that do weird things to our body and mind and being in a hospital getting toxic chemicals dripped into our veins would make most people want to cry. I hope these 30 days fly by and you feel good and healthy so you can resume "normal" life free of chemo and hospitals. ☮️ 💜
You are allowed to feel sad and to cry! A good cry always makes me feel better!!! Stay strong Romee!
Sweetheart, you are at the total end of the spectrum from being a loser. You are one of the most amazing people I have ever known. This crazy time in your life is almost over and you will be free to do whatever you want.
Hang in there honey. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.
XOXO
To combat boredom, I would recommend Tabletop Simulator. You can play board games with people on the computer. When I'm down, I go on TTS and play games with online friends and chat over Skype. I'm actually stuck off work due to a job injury, so if you want to give it a try, I can deal with any time zone!
I'm praying that you get through this.
You are a true warrior . I really pray that this treatment works for you. Don’t apologize for your emotions, they are yours and only yours. I love you, you are my hero. Kathy from Ottawa Canada
Praying for you. God will never leave you. Thank you for sharing your journey.
I was not half as brave as you. I did not wait for the shower to cry; sometimes I just laid my head down and sobbed. I wore my chemo in a fanny pack 24/7 for 5 days in a row and then a break for the weekend and then Monday back to the hospital to get my chemo back in its fanny pack and into my chest. Here is what I can tell you, you are handling this battle is the hardest thing you will have to go through; with your amazing attitude.#TeamRomme #Bravegirl #Romee>cancer
Maybe you could do QandA's in the comments when you're bored. Ask all of us questions questions. Light or deep stuff or fun stuff and we could answer them and you could read them when you've got nothing to do. And all you had to do would ask the question and you wouldn't be in the place of answering yourself. Just a suggestion😚😉😊
Hi! Saskia,
What a great suggestion! I am never bored reading honest answers. Unfortunately, I'm much ok older than you. So, I don't know how to set up a page like that. But if you are bored and can do it for me. I would love to do that! Because, I'm very curious about people and how would
someone else handle a situation!
A smart man is someone who listen s. A dumb man is a person who think they knows it all.
Thanks again!
GOD BLESS! : - )
I’m so happy your all done with your chemo now. I hope the stem cell transplant goes well and you never have to deal with any cancer again. Congratulations on your bachelors degree, you are a strong young lady. You are also an inspiration to the people young and older out there going thru their illnesses. I keep you in my prayers
Stay strong, Romee. You’re incredible and inspire us all to be better people and happier and more grateful. I love watching your videos ❤️ sending hugs from Portugal
You can cry as much as you want you have been through so much. We love you sweetheart.
Go girl! Cheering for you from Finland.
I am also currently in the hospital because my chemo port got infected. I know how hard it is to be by yourself stuck in a hospital room, thank you for sharing that you also have down days and that that is perfectly okay. You are doing great and good luck with the stem cell transplant❤️
I let it out unter the shower. It‘s like washing away everything ☺️
You are a very strong and brave young woman. An inspiration. It’s important to have a good cry now and then and let it all out. Very therapeutic. I would suggest adult coloring books (apps) to help pass the time. Also, audio books, and if you enjoy writing, maybe keep a journal or write stories. Stay strong. You got this.
Stay strong, Romee💕 I'm sending you lot's of strength and love😘
I cry in the shower whenever necessary. For me, it's the safest place to cry where no one can see me. I always feel so much better.
You're going through a lot, especially right now. I continue to pray for you daily as there is strength in prayer. 🙂 My girlfriend had breast cancer & got some really bad mouth sores. Her chemo nurse told her to use a mouthwash called Biotene. We can buy it in drug stores here in the U.S.
I'm not sure you can get it where you live. IF you can....get some & use it. My friend's mouth sores healed within two days. God Bless you sweet Romee.
Strongest woman I've ever seen. Going through all that shit. I'd be a basket case no lie.
I am happy you recorded your Journey. It will help a lot of people that are possibly new to their Diagnosis.
Thanks for doing a great service for humanity. 🌸🌎🌸
You are so strong. It’s insane how positive you are in such a difficult time of your life. I couldn’t do that. Love you and wish you all the best 💗💗💗
Bless you Romee.. I have cried in the shower many times in the past.. The reason for the shower was so my 3 children didn't see me cry. Its good to let all the stress out. I wish you all the very very best, sending peace health and happiness from the UK. 🇬🇧💜🕊️🕊️🕊️👍
You’re so inspiring and I can’t wait to see what you do after all of this xxx