MP Millie Odhiambo, other women open up on not having children ||
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- Опубліковано 27 лип 2019
- Kenya is one of the countries in what is now known as the "African infertility belt" that stretches across central Africa from Tanzania to the East to Gabon to the West.
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i worn that shoes of barrenness for 5 yrs but God is faithful am now a mum may the lord hear their prayer
God remember this woman. You remembered Sarah at 90. Do it again dear God. Amen.
NTV, how can we reach these women to help where we can? At least with supporting hospital treatment. Please tell us how to reach the first lady who needs treatment for Fibroids
Lord may you remember all the barren women and bless them. The stigma and pain is just too unbearable
That is why we need women who are empowered, educated and can work. That way they would be able to leave their abusive men and support themselves. Most of these women have nowhere to go because they have no means to support themselves or seek proper medical care
I want to encourage every barren woman or someone that has been struggling with miscarriages.
When God shuts a womb of any person, it is so that He May, in a more wonderful way again open it and that which is born will not be a product of lust but a Gift from God with a history changing purpose. I would like to give some examples. Some you know about this people (with an exception of one) which will be revealed to you if necessary through the Holy Spirit.
1. Mary, the lady who bore Jesus Christ from Nazareth (where it was said nothing good can come out of). She was born by a woman who was barren. Her name was Anna. Her husband, was never allowed to even offer sacrifices because the priests claimed he was accursed given that all his Israelite mates had been given children but him. Joachim, Mary’s Dad, was not happy with the belittling, so he went to do his research around and he found truly everyone had children but him. He was a righteous man according to God who stirred up his spirit and he determined to disappear for a while, fast and pray. He (Mary’s dad) never alerted his wife about this plan. The wife thought that he was murdered or something happened to him and she started mourning. One day her servant made a derogatory statement after she was commanded to do something and was rude. She said, “there is no point of me offending you because you’re already a cursed woman”. “You have no children and your husband is nowhere to be seen”. She was so hurt she determined to fast and pray. For two things 1. She thought she is a widower and her husband is “dead” and 2. barrenness. She went out of her house in anguish, knelt down and spread her hands to heaven praying while weeping bitterly. So we had two couples seeking God for the same thing in pain from people’s insults. Long story short, in a dream God appeared to Joachim and to Anna- separately that He will give them a child and what will become of the child. They begot Mary the mother of Jesus. She was so righteous she lived in a temple, was fed and brought up by angels, God kept people away from her so she won’t be ensnared by slander/idle words and she never wanted to get married even. She loved God so much she wanted to consecrate herself for service. It was God that had to intervene and make Joseph (also a righteous man) who was a widower (already with children) and Mary who was not interested In marriage, to be together.
2. Hannah. She was also insulted for being barren and she felt so hurt she went to the temple to pray. She prayed so bitterly that it was suspected she was drunk. Everybody knows that’s how she begot an outstanding prophet Samuel. No prophet was as Holy as Samuel during his time. God loved Samuel so much, he protected him in the sense that he didn’t even allow his words to hit the ground so as not to be ensnared by them and so He isolated him for Himself and we know all about his good works from the book of Samuel.
3. Sarah is a common example who defied logic and so called biology and the proverbial “biological clock”. She gave birth to Isaac and out of Isaac came nations, greatness, wealth and honor.
4. Samson, the strongest man to walk this planet and in fact no judge was more valiant than him, was born by a woman who used to be barren.
5. Rachel who found favor in God’s sight and was loved very much by Jacob was barren for a long time before she came to God’s memorial and begot Joseph. The first OUTSTANDING prime minister on earth. Betrayed by His brothers for his coat of many colors (deep spiritual meaning here, story for another day).
So....
Those people that betray you, mock you, insult you, belittle you and do all sorts of evil to make you be or feel less of yourself just because of divine delay, are very important and are part of the plan. I like to call them Launch pads. If you see the pattern here, barren women were first insulted and were in sorrow for a while before their big breakthroughs with an exception of Sarah! In fact God is usually glorified through enemies and your lack. Even for us to have salvation, betrayal was part of the plan. Take heart and be proud. You are the ones chosen and will blessed to carry a vessel of importance in this world.
God is found in the valley, barrenness, desolation, affliction and in the wilderness. Your wombs might be so important for a time we have not imagined. The pain you feel, transfer it to prayer and surely God will put all who laughed at you to shame. We serve a God of strategy and what seems as barrenness to you to God might just be a process of preparation and transformation for Him to be glorified through your wombs.
Every woman I’ve seen crying about how they’ve been isolated and insulted, a time will come, YOU WILL NEED TO ENLARGE YOUR TENT and you won’t give birth just to any child. Out of your “barren wombs” will come out Leaders, Judges, Prophets, Righteousness and God’s favorites. It is written in the book of Isaiah 54. No hype. Single mums and desolate women are God’s favorites.
Some of these women looking down on you don’t even know what will become of their children and we know wicked people don’t get anywhere.
Otherwise, if you’re going through barrenness/miscarriages. You will receive divine intervention in the appointed time and season. Focus on righteousness and rejoice. God glories in the impossibles, gives beauty for ashes and works well with rejects. So cheer up and be blessed.
Amen
I love you. Loving your deep biblical knowing. You can make a good philosopher.
Lucy Mumbi kaguuru we thank the spirit of Knowledge if that’s the case and I love you too!
This is so lovely 😊
Amen.
God please remember them and grant us all the fruit of womb
Pressure from the society is the problem ,This women just need only love and God will fulfil his will
And you find someone aborting a baby.. Being fertile is a blessing from God.. As victim i think one should love herself and ignore the society...
The problem is treating fertility is also expensive
Kupata si kwa werevu na kukosa si kwa ujinga. They don't have to be demonized or stigmatized for things that are beyond human ability.
Seek the face of God all is possible with him
Waambie waende kwa maombi
God because we believe that you watch and listen please remember these woman please
Oh my......so so sad😢😢😢. Things we take for granted.....may we always remember to be grateful for all our blessings.
God of Heaven and Earth hear the cry of all barren women, wipe there tears Lord, turn the mocks into laughter, turn shame into fame. in Jesus Name.
Amen
Mungu ndiye upeana watoto usife moyo utapata katika jina la yesu.
Now if you keep feeding Wananchi with meat laced with chemicals and dangerous preservatives , why wouldn't such issues and other ailments show up. ?
May God open ur wombs and wipe all ur tears wanaume Aki sijui wanapenda nini take heart sisters am on the other side I got my first born at the age of 17 yrs after two yrs I got sec pregnant and i ddnt know so the problem started he wanted only l bby so advised me to do abortion thank God where I went that lady said its big 5/6mnts naweza kufa so he kept abusing fighting till I gave birth to a bby boy I said to him see yu was saying yu dnt want now I got ur dad he answered even we were not friends so he was not happy he continued fighting for nothing till I decided to move away when the boy was two yrs I thank God thy are now big 17/15 and becoz of hard life I passed he make me to hate men I raise them as a single Mum now about 13 yrs he never meet them even he don't know anything about them he did a worse thing that he came and sell the land and move away am happy God is our strength pple pass through many challanges in God we trust everthing I'll be poz we stay better life without him even God is great.sometyms thy give yu stress how can yu get and some of them have also problems but thy are accusing yu.
This is sad God is the one that bless us with children and delay is Not denieal ( kucheleweshwa sio kunyimwa) God Please rem this Woman the way you rem sarah
May God see through ur womb never giveup one u see ur happiness so sad bt God knows y poleni
May God remember this women.i know how they feel.was a victim for 5yrs but God blessed me am now a mother.glory to God
Very true story. May God help us!
God have mercy
Why do we blame women only men can be infertility too.
😢😢😢😢Lord Jesus Christ hv mercy
God have mercy on your daughters.
It’s so painful nimejipata tu nalia nikimwonq uyu mama akilia ,May God give her children in Jesus name
Sad😢😢😢😢
Thzs Millie odhiombo, for sharing... God's there for u
First wife 9 children if it were me I would stay wt the one who can't conceve wtout any prblm,very sorry for these women
The pride of a woman's a baby"...
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Am suffering from fibroids but God made it happened after age of 39 i fell pregnate and am now a mother. I feel for every woman wishing to have children
It's not a big issue not to have children, go to developed countries and see.
Only in Africa you will forever be victimised for not having children and even casted out.
@@LolaBugzy85 Yes that's the problem, but that is the primitive culture. On the other side of capitalism, who has time to know why you don't have and/or don't need children? Other people get children but who can be sure of anything in this world? , consider those who lost their children in the Garissa uni. attack and other similar tragedies. Hapo mtu pengine ashafunga kuzaa. Just be humble whether u have or you don't... Because.... Ecclesiastes 1:14
true
God have Mecry on us
God of all our days.
Fuata neno lako Jehovah ukalitimize😭😭.
The Bible says in Exodus23:26 that there shall not be barreness and miscarriage in your land,you shall full fill our days.
Jehovah shughulika tu na hi hali, wakata wa Sarah hukunyamaza hata huu wakati wa wamama wa kenya usinyamaze Daddy.
God fungua tumbo upeane uzao,uondoe aibu 😭😭😭😭.
Ngai ma uka unine giconoko😭
A child is one of the gifts from God,That means He can give you a child as a gift or something else.May God bless you mamas.Hugs and much love.
The problem with this people they believe much in witchcraft than God Himself,never ever doubt God in any situation Gods' time is the best,
What you need to do is to give this women hope you should not blame them. You don't know how difficult this thing it's. you know if you're in pain you can do anything to relieve the pain. and remember They're not born again Christian.
@@sarahnamatsi6979 but i have seen many born again but they go ahead n seek for witchcraft later wen the witchcraft turn its back on them they come running to church again
@@briankurgat2770
It's true. but am taking about really born again Christians
Christianity without the power of the Holy spirit useless Tu.
I think overpopulation should also be discussed.... I see an unseen hand behind all this infertility
Mm sijawai kupata jibu langu, mbona matajiri wa nakuaga na shida y kupata mtoto? God bless there wombs
I didn't see all the women that were aired ni matajiri unless you are applying selective amnesia
@@annejagona5122 sorry madam
@@Quilant749 no need to be sorry.. you just aired your opinion.. there's no right or wrong here
Now where did you such a reasoning ,Didn't you see infertility affect both the poor and the rich from the video.?Or what makes you think the rich should be exempted.
@@mukinancy7938 wewe wachana na mimi
Some people are fine without kids....i don't understand why others feel less?
the society around some understands others have pressure
Hawaoni pastor wakiombea watu wakipata watoto, kaa wanaogopa camera mnitafute ni washow pastor
STIGMA of infertility NOT SHAME.. Mnasoma noni shuleni sikuhizi
Some statements on here are quite misleading. Ati the decrease of children from 6 to 3.5 per woman in Kenya is attributed to bareness?! Lakini journalists tukueni serious kidogo.
adoption is an. option too
Foods consumed. .... samaki ya China. .. 😁.. mili nione nikuonyeshe siri. .. pesa kidogo tu. ... ubebe 4.... at once. .. easy. .. only difficult in Kenya. .. .MAY GOD REMEMBER YOU ... AKI. . I've 1... and I've never used any antibaby pills. .. my 1st hubby left me for not conceiving. .. I know how it feels. .. but I thank God for the 1 I have. ..
The lady can leave that abusive husband and pray God for the right one. Please give a number that we can help her raise money to remove the fibroids
Sometyms tha man can be infertile n blame the woman. Dry shots
Conversation between a being and his son (A million years from now), the son is curious to know how humans became extinct
Father: “You know son, this land was once dominated, and ruled by another being called human beings”
Son: “I’ve read about that in some story book, and I also read that they were so many, close to 10 billion. Is it really true”
Father: “Yes son, it is true, these lands were inhabited by human beings, and yes,they were very many”
Son: “Then how comes they became extinct if they were that many”
Father: “Well, their extinction must have be caused by several factors I think”
Son: “Like?”
Father: “Like…like…, they started doing things wickedly, man started being with man, and woman started being with woman, and man being with another man cannot deliver children while woman being with another woman cannot deliver children either”
Son: “That must have been horrible and disgusting. And another factor”
Father: “You can say that, but they allowed it to happen. And I think women also started using some drugs that enabled them not to conceive for as long as they wanted, and in continuation of using these drugs, they became infertile and could not conceive anymore”
Son: “Ooh!!, you mean they had drugs that could make a woman not to conceive?”
Father: “Yes, they had them”
Son: “Wow,..,They must have been very intelligent”
Father: “Yes son, but look where their intelligence got them”
Waow! Why should it be such a big deal. Mind set need to change. Socially. Its Okej if u are barren. No one should be this traumatised.🙄🙄
Margaret Muru you think are me! I don’t understand why having children is such a big deal.
@@marykariuki7381 Yeah think about why is it such a big deal. Its really Sad. They even have to hide their faces in the report? Because of the shaming thats follows 😏
I don’t have kids, I have not tried to anyway. But if I could not. I would be okay with me, I guess it’s society that tries to make it seem like a matter of life of death.
Magy.. my guess is you are educated, make your own money and have an ambition in life. Unfortunately the ambition for these women who r being interviewed is pleasing their shitty men. They've been conditioned to worship their good-for-nothing husbands. So sad.
@@shizma7917 aki its sad how our society is so judgy. Do we ever remember that having children is a gift from God? It's not a must for Him to give anyone a child. He owes no one anything. He is the giver.
Family planning
Lack of good food
We need fewer people anyway