White Men: Time to Discover Your Cultural Blind Spots | Michael Welp | TEDxBend
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- Опубліковано 16 тра 2024
- White men rarely, if ever, are required to examine their own culture. In this timely and provocative talk, Welp speaks to his own experience becoming conscious of his white male culture, bias, and privilege as key tools to effective partnership across difference.
Michael Welp, PhD. is a co-founder of White Men as Full Diversity Partners (WMFDP). For 20 years, Welp has led pioneering workshops engaging white male leaders to create cultures of full inclusion. He focuses on how to engage white men to become more passionate advocates for inclusion and how they can partner better with people of color and white women. Welp has facilitated interracial team building with over a dozen South African corporations in his work with Outward Bound. His research on how white men learn about diversity led to founding WMFDP. Welp is the author of the recently published book, Four Days To Change: 12 Radical Habits to Overcome Bias and Thrive in a Diverse World.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
As the saying goes, "If you want to know what it feels like to get wet, you don't ask a fish". These cultural blind spots are frequently misconstrued as racism... which exacerbates the problem. Also, every culture has its blind spots.
This is why openness and conversation are key. great quote
They produce racism though. And sexism as well.
@@denisdaly1708 I believe itll produce the truth is you have multiple viewpoints in open-minded discussion. no scientific reasoning for racism, Sexism... Hmmmm possibly. i've heard some try to use facts about why men are superior at physical activities and other tasks that require aggressiveness
didn;t he say all cultures have blind spots? I believe he said something to that effect. But then went on to say that for THIS CHAT he is addressing those of WHITE MEN.
You just illuminated your blind spot.
i'd like to add that when he says 'white male culture,' he means 'white american male culture.' I'm a white man but I'm from the Czech Republic, and there is not very much culturally that I have in common with white men in America.
Critical Race Theory is confusing. Just leave your brain at the door and it's best not to ask any questions.
You probably don't have much in common with males anywhere
I love the term "White culture" each European country has 8ts own distinct culture, and within the countries each region has it's own sub culture. I'm sure in America a white guy from new York has a different way of seeing the world than a white guy from Dakota
Make it plural then if it bothers you that much.
@@kidforeverplz great reply. Thanks
@Trelise' Avery-Moore perspective of different groups shape the culture
In using the example of a fish in water that rarely has ro leave the comfort of his environment as a reflection of white male culture.
Although some of what he is saying is true of most men, such as the need to "fix" whatever his wife is "talking about", that's pretty universal to men in general.
shark wolf Your statements cite a difference without a significant meaning. Wasn’t worth your time to write it.
Just hang out with people from different cultures; it's pretty easy to realize you have your own culture when you're surrounded by somebody else's lol
You think that would be common sense, but I guess not🤷 And alot of the things he named as "White culture" just sounded like men stereotypes.
Down here in South Louisiana we have cajuns, they have a culture all their own. From their accent to how they place their words in a sentence. I love hearing them talk, especially if I am talking to them. They speak Cajun English, it is a really cool sounding accent to me. They are definitely a culture of their own. They are good people, they come from a culture that watches over their own, as we all should. The way they place their words in a sentence differently, it is a very interesting thing to witness. Just thought I would share this information with you as to the cool culture we have in South Louisiana. I know other places have their own special culture, it seem all places do. Later.
Cajuns rock in Louisiana. They don't look at you as a Race but a person. I grew up in New Orleans. I live in NE Louisiana and people here just live like Humans with a few spoil apples in the bunch. A Culture doesn't have to be based on Race but the people you have things in common with.
Exactly why diversity is so important
@@Dreadlock1227 ew no.
This isn't negative criticism, simply an addendum to his intentions, but speaking as a POC, to those of you would say "this is so helpful and eye opening", you should watch this video with a person of color and read the comments with them so you can see they percieve it. I'm glad he gave this talk, and I'm glad you've taken something from it, but until you watch it with someone else, the lesson is incomplete.
WORD!!!
@@JhutaNabi !a
My point still remains. I try to be friends with everyone and the minorities are the ones that seem to not want to be friends.
nope nope nope how else do you explain cruelty?
THANK YOU! I honestly was having a really hard time with conceptualizing how to phrase this idea in the comments. Seeing this really lifted a huge weight off of my shoulders! Thank you so much! But absolutely!
Ok, I have to disagree.
I am a man from Afghanistan..
I was born in Afghanistan, raised and been living here all my life, I am not a white man and have not been around one. In the mean time I see most of what he described as “white man culture” in myself.
I leave my emotions out of the way when dealing with something, I am at my most efficient and sharpest when I am alone, I would NEVER ask for directions if I am lost, while being aware that it is wrong and I don’t know why I do it, but still do it.. So I am more than sure it is not about culture of a white man, but I have no idea where it came from...
I agree with you, but I think that it mostly has to do with not 'white men' but rather the 'privileged.' I connect with him on some levels, but I'm definitely not a white man. However, I think you should focus more on his view of how our 'world' is a box and that we need to step outside of that box.
It matters less of who you are right now exactly, but more what you want and will be in the future.
wendy Zhang well said
The USA has decided that white men are the only people that should take responsibility for anything. Everyone else gets to blame someone else.
thats normal,thats how most men worldwide are,but in the west theres this trend to attribute everything the left sees as bad as being part of white male culture
@@wendyzhang3190 he from afghanistan how privileged u think he gon be
Everything that has ever happened to me,
has changed my life, and transformed me
into the man I am today.
This was a very helpful video. I appreciate that I never felt gas-lighted or condemned. We need more talks like this. I am thankful for TEDx Talks.
Yes, we do. I hope, though, that most people here agree that the identity politics need to go.
@@BythepeopleForthepeople203 e
I love this comment 🥰
Lol indeed..self hate is real when you get to be on Tedx lol
@@BythepeopleForthepeople203 Well said!
Hi, sending Love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️ this touched my heart and put tears in my eyes, thank you for speaking out thise words of love words of truth words of life
Love this! I feel this is what America needs right now. Opening up! And being willing to listen when they open up! Thank you for sharing this!
All InOne 123w
@@icemachine79You are not brave to hear the truth so you are actually part of the “choir”.
This is the kind of message that will start to heal this country. I really appreciate his ability to self-reflect to reach a new level of understanding of other people in this world. Thank you sir! We must all self-reflect and try to make this world a better place for all of us. The survival of the human race is what's at stake.
I totally agree with you..the ultimate human test is the acceptance is seeing the self in each other.
I'm a white male... and I dont feel like I owe anybody anything because if it. I've never received any preferential treatment bc of my skin tone. Wht cant people be judged in their character and actions instead of appearance?
Uh no, it’s gonna do the opposite or at least nothing helpful. Trust me.
this planet would be better off without the human race..
"The survival of the human race is what's at stake"
Nah, population doubles every 50 years, 4 billion, 8 billion, next jump 16 billion. We are unstoppable.
Thank you for sharing this! Many times, individuals just don't know how to start the conversation of race, privilege and bias.
Why would you start it and with whom? To what end? what are you hoping to achieve?
@@mr.horrorchild4094 The goal with Critical Race Theorists is achieve a revolution and usher in a social utopia. I for one welcome our new communist overlords - I hope I get a nice and cozy cell in the gulag!
“The word ‘privilege’ is a hard word for us as white men because we don’t feel privileged.”
“There are things we haven’t had to navigate or negotiate or think about that other groups have.”
All the comments on this video prove what he is saying about privilege. It’s as if discussing a group of people’s common behaviors observed in different regions of the world is in some way an attack on them. And what’s even more incredible is how dismissive everyone watching this is. One of the very things he discussed!
Cultural growth can never begin until people stop trying to explain why they are different from the whole, and start challenging causation of barriers still in existence in today’s world. We all have so many opportunities to take a step back and ponder our perception.
This speaker is highly underrated. His self awareness is absolutely incredible. Hats off to him. I would love to probe his thoughts.
The problem is that "privilege" has become the boogeyman for all of society's ills regardless of whether or not it actually applies to any given situation for a specific individual.
So using a couple of disagreements in a youtube comment section as evidence of privilege seems more like confirmation bias lol I find it strange that he implies that white men haven't examined there own culture because I thought thats what critical theory was about.
im from bajo flores argentina i see white children who are drugaddicts in the streets dying how are they privileged ? please where can we get this privilege im pretty sure there also romanian russian brazilian white kids who also need some of that
Stop raiding, stop colonizing, stop slaving, stop drones.
we all need to come together and try to understand each other
NO NEED for criticism for this presentation, rather Melanated, european or otherwise...THIS WAS FREAKIN AWESOME! & The number of Dislikes is an Clear indication of exactly what this speakers intended msg was to reveal- IGNORANCE (on all lvls)!
His comment is right on about that his view of the world is wrong, it's just incomplete. That could be said of all of us.
Indeed
Amen!
True dat!
This is incredibly insightful
He gets it. Bravo! This video should have MILLIONS of views!
@Islam is cancer he gets what your feeble mind couldn't pick up on. You willful ignorance is showing.
TheKayleeanna they would rather kill him dead than to examine them selves period🤔
@Islam is cancer You still didn't get a definitive answer from these peeps... Deflection seems to be all they can muster. :/
God bless you for putting you on this journey and the work that you're doing!!
It's not that they dont know, it's the fact that they chooses not to know so when they are confronted they act all oblivious, it's like the oldest trick in the book. Seen it many times and called them out for it.
facts and truth spoken here
I definitely approve of your message - the truth.
Willful ignorance.
The obliviousness comes from the idea that they think they have to do something about everything. A cultural misguide that result in false perceptions of life and situations around them.
Did you even listen to the talk? Honestly we aren't aware of many of these privileges. You should be more open minded and empathetic. The speaker even said that most people assume we are aware and you're just confirming this.
Great talk.. Humility.. .. He's a learner and genuinely cares about being a better human being
Most white people don't care. They just enjoy power and gaslighting everyone.
Thank you so much for this, Michael. I hope and pray that this won't look like a secret in 2024. It takes white men to stand up and tell "it".
Sorry for going off at a tangent, but how well does your culture balance being "a rugged individualist" and being "a team player"?
In the USA, it Depends on your state, but here in California is extremely on the side of individualism and uniqueness
Honestly across the USA if you have a corporate job or basically any job that you can be promoted in it is better to be a self supporting individual rather than being “weak” and needing others help.
Not well. We are poor team players. That's one of the reasons COVID 19 is out of control here. Some say, "It's my right not to wear a mask."
@@Michael-st9ky HAHAHAH. California people are unique? Do you consider fakeness and being shallow as unique? You people only allow one viewpoint and bastardize all others in ever aspect. If there was one state that was "team player" it would be commiefornia. Maybe diversity of appearance but definitely not diversity of opinion.
@@Matt-ro7cb based
What a courageous man to do so much self reflection and to teach his messages to others. Truly moving.
Natalie Mclaughlin but how many will learn from him? 🤔
@@deevahlyshus are you open to learning? Or just looking one way?
@@edwinamendelssohn5129 your comment is laughable 🤣
@@deevahlyshus it's an honest question.
You are a rare gem. God bless you for your understanding of life.
This was an EXCELLENT TALK! I appreciate his willingness to dive deep into himself.
white democrats have always oppressed minorities
@@JohnDavid-vh3rn this has nothing to do with democrats. It's about different cultures and how they affect people of different diversities.
Do you dive deep into yourself?
Thanks for sharing 'white' culture too! Good or great that you mention that we have cultural biases. We all have them and glad I recognize my biases, but not act out on any discrimination.
Good talk.
Great talk Michael.
the first organ of creation in the womb, is the heart
love is, the greatest force, for change
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this has given me some insight into the male cultivated mindset. We all come from our culture and learn things that need to be unlearned such as auto-responses. We all feel that is the beauty of an individual. We are all many parts helpful in the world and harmful. Take down the roadblocks to unity because we are not born with them, just look at how children play
What the f1uck does this have to do with women. It's a white male smacking another white male. Ya bit1ch get out our politics and affairs!
I went to a meetup at a bar in Bangkok on my latest birthday, but didn't feel like drinking. Then a white man asked me why I would want to come to a bar if I didn't drink. I told him that it was because I came here alone, and didn't want to walk back to the bus station alone at night when being a bit drunk. He was surprised by my answer and wondered why I was so worried about such a thing. As a man from North America, he must have forgotten that it was pretty dangerous for a girl in a developing country to walk on the street at night, let alone being drunk.
@@icemachine79 I would still carry pepper spray or a taser if legal.
@@icemachine79 What's your point in relation to what I said? I'm just telling her to carry some form of defence like I would my sister or mother. I'm not going to stop advocating that just because you're insecure about how people regard the prevalence of violence in our society.
@@icemachine79 mhm, I respectfully disagree with b) otherwise you wouldn't have felt the need to sound off with that lil' factoid
@@icemachine79 tldr
You shouldn’t have told him you were alone; you leave yourself pretty vulnerable that way
I have always said why don't people look at a person for themselves, life is fragile, and stop seeing people through what you think they are or you have heard they were.
You mean like 'white' or 'privileged'?
dont forget about race and gender, but dont let it be your god
So true.
When I was in group encounters a couple of decade ago, I brought up the idea of "don't gossip about the incoming person" it taints me toward them even before I have met them... Is this wrong, or right?
Chris Motionless brought me here and may I say, absolutely spot on and worth the watch.
Same
Same
He does point out some key issues which people may have heard before. The message may have been heard before, but do they actually listen and put it to practice or just ignore it.
“Invisible culture box” “unconscious bias”... said a mouthful right there!!!!
There is no one white culture. I live in the Netherlands, most of us are white, our culture is vastly different to russians or albanians where most people are also white.
Same with all other colors. Just say "white cultures" if it makes you feel better.
BINGO
@@kidforeverplz That doesn't really help though because there is just as much diversity between disparate "white" cultures as there is between them and every other racial grouping. So why add the "white" modifier in the first place?
@Edwin morgan If he meant Americans then why didn't he say Americans? It sounds like the man in the video is the one engaging in underhanded tactics, not the OP.
@Edwin morgan Yes, you do have a prodigious lack of critical reasoning.
There are successful people, and then there are people who want the successful people to question their success.
Why would I want to be questioned about my success? Please answer, I want to know.
I'll give this guy credit for trying to open the minds of those that want them to remain close.There is understandings to many gang lifestyles which usually happens by members in these gangs caring ONLY about what the gang wants, did you hear me, "They Care Only About WHAT THE GANG WANTS! Even though when they're alone they know they're doing wrong they refuse to accept what they know is true because the idea of being on top trumps your safety and your rights!
What he called different experience we know as struggle
William Stewart cuz it isn’t itchy to you.
Aman AND I WILL SECOND THAT MOTION☑️
And no white men struggle? And please don't say not due to race. That's determining that one struggle is worse than another.
@@edwinamendelssohn5129 Minorities face even harder struggles when it comes to the other 'isms'. We hear about the white working class even though minorities are poorer on average. Nobody said it's about life being 'easy'. If you're in the 1st world, that's already a big slice of luck.
@@patrickobannon8924 where's you evidence?
I love this speech a lot! It even helped me to better understand things from the other side!
Same!
Ok I don't get the other comments on here. I agree with everything that was said as a white Male myself. I personally believe I have been able to step out of the box of what my culture is many times with a simple resolution that I think all people of all backgrounds should at least attempt to do and that is try putting yourself in others shoes. If you don't understand where they're coming from then ask questions. You can never learn and improve your understanding of things if you don't ask. Doesn't mean that you are a different person just that you are a more informed one. I think all people should watch this and just think about why others feel the way they do.
Cause you're a human being? It isn't because you're a white male, it's because of who you are as an individual.
Skool Wifi you are not well informed 😌
Jon Mitchell it's just white guys like fixing problems ???
@@rykson161 they like believing they can fix problems. Thats all men not just white!
@@mobstamaniac Clever alt right, white nationalist tactics.
Great speaker. Great human being.
Love this man's awakening. Fantastic passing n of his discoveries and knowledge. Thank You.
As a white master, and I dont just mean over other races but also within the white race, I played this video on mute.....looking out my windows on the 100th floor, across the vast lands I dominate.
How magical.
Lmao yes i quite often do the same but i always have a bottle of good scotch.
🤣🤣🤣😈
Lmmfao...what's the intention of such a commentary response???
@@karebear9827 the intention is self explanatory: Total Domination and the revelry therein.
So funny
It's clear from most of these comments, that there is still a lot of work to do.
Amazon Prime stop drinking cow's milk
Not an argument
What kind of work?
@@janisrogers4934 work on understanding whats happening, why its working and who wins if nothing changes
White people need to embrace the positives of their culture instead of only the negatives. White people are the only group that seem to want to self destruct.
There are people who act as if their point of view is absolute reality. -- which to me is the ultimate in authoritarianism and arrogance!!!
So called 'white' people are sooo obsessed with their pink colour.
Is he acting that way? Or is that YOUR perception of it... ask yourself why his point of view is so unbelievable to you.....
Some things are _just_ a point of view. Other things are _absurdly obvious._
Some people seem unable, or unwilling, to understand the difference or even to know there is one.
Kasnar Burns You sounds to me that you are a closed minded White guy.🤔
Today I learned one white man s peaks on behalf of all white men, 10/10 talk.
And not all white men agree. Not saying he is wrong.. Saying he is way to sissy.
lol keep watching it until it starts to make sense, give it time, dont give up!
Great Ted Talk Michael Welp.
Good talk. There's generally always a lot needed to be done, for people to better understand themselves and each other mutually, whatever their backgrounds. As noted, it's not helpful treating any particular group as "default" or not worth talking about. All groups deserve to be discussed and heard, and all groups deserve to try and find ways towards each other and to overcome misunderstandings. Stereotypes hurt everyone.
Thank u!!! where can I find more information about setting up a course like the one you are talking about?
We are all exposed to politicization and agendas in much of the communication we experience, but I think this speaker is trying to bring awareness and to expand consciousness for those white men who could benefit. Having said that I would like him to make the the point in future talks that ALL majority cultures have privilege. Go to Japan. Go to China. Go to Somalia. You will find very strong cultural assumptions in all these places based on the fact that the majority culture's norms are like the air that people breathe. Adding this context would help lessen the element of judgement that always shadows this discussion.
He addressing white males specifically because he sharing his experience and perception as a white male. Damn the white mans ego is dangerous and diabolical. SMH
Yes, spread that self-hatred and guilt-ridden masochism as the bloody road for Marxists to trod upon to the [clearly] yet untested road of Communism! Teach other cultures to hate themselves and to turn one another in to the State to be re-educated! Once everyone is of the hive mind there will finally be peace. Right?
@@kinyunjarmon8575 it’s more fragile than glass.
Nicely done, Michael! Thanks for sharing your insights and perspective.
To everyone saying there is no “white culture” I believe he’s using the word “culture” in a different sense, not in the way a certain ethnic group does. Its in the way people would say something like “campus culture” in reference to a college, i.e. a shared way of life/mindset of people in the same place. So he’s referring to White *American* male “culture”
Tareya Eason it has BECOME a culture...
then a progressive white guy from the Vermont shares the same mindset than a white conservative guy from the Mississippi ?
we can't buy this.
Yes. Vermont and Missisippi are the same in the way you can move move through life in thar culture of privilege. Notice I said nothing about race....
Sir, you will free your heart and this should certainly minimize your frustration. Praise and honor to you. You my friend are changing the 🌎!
Thank you
What a great talk... i hope a lot of people see this
Very good talk. I appreciate his candor.
Timeless!
"People say sometimes that beauty is superficial. That may be so. But at least it is not so superficial as thought is."
John Malkovich under cover!! Busted!!
MrBabujinga 🤭really?
Oh wow!
Great job sir, nicely done.
I have met many kind-hearted Anglosaxons but the many Anglosaxons who are putting up a rugged, “rational”, “stoicly no feelings” front in denial of their own vulnerabilities while unfairly transferring their frustrations and fears unto others are just one of the hardest groups of people to wake up.
Loved it. I particularly liked how you articulated a White Male Culture. That's a great way to frame the whole diversity discussion.
Powerful message from accurate results of a experienced man with knowledge of contemporary problems in society, yet i hope it won’t fall on deaf ears of a hardcore society of oppression acceptance.
It's always heart-warming when someone actually gets it. Mindfulness at its best. Great talk!
It would be a good idea to take this program to the congressmen on the hill. What the top is filtering down is destroying our country. God help us.
Thank you!!!
He's a nice man.
So gullible 😂
The people that don’t get it, never will. They don’t want to.
Likewise you are lost in your own ideological hall of mirrors.
@@iankclark sounds like the Trump administration and all of its cohorts!
@Jack Percy You guys sound like religious ideologues. You know that, right? You can't handle any questioning of your beliefs.
Great points made here, especially when he said something like, “I realized that when I said I treat everyone the same, others hear that they need to fit into my cultural box.”
And he's still doing it... That's exactly what this talk was.
As I listen to this dissertation I started thinking about how many times I had to check my emotions, hatred, and disbelief of white people at the door to be able to give my family a fighting chance in a world of white culture. I surely hope that the world play attention to this video because it did make me feel like the world can be better for all.
Wonderful! Thank you. I salute you!
Seems like some of you just refuse to get it.
" It has become increasingly popular to speak of racial and ethnic diversity as a civic strength. From multicultural festivals to pronouncements from political leaders, the message is the same: our differences make us stronger.
But a massive new study, based on detailed interviews of nearly 30,000 people across America, has concluded just the opposite. Harvard political scientist Robert Putnam -- famous for "Bowling Alone," his 2000 book on declining civic engagement -- has found that the greater the diversity in a community, the fewer people vote and the less they volunteer, the less they give to charity and work on community projects. In the most diverse communities, neighbors trust one another about half as much as they do in the most homogenous settings. The study, the largest ever on civic engagement in America, found that virtually all measures of civic health are lower in more diverse settings. "
-Pulled from a New York Times article discussing the findings of one of the largest studies conducted on civic health. PROVING that your precious "multiculturalism" is in fact a detriment to society.
Diversity isn't a strength...Diversity has proven to be a Disaster.
Peace to this man...
It really comes down to what a people put most of their time into. If you put a lot of time into sports you will tend to perfect it more than someone else. Just like putting a lot of time into gaining knowledge, the martial arts or anything else. Different cultures or nations of people just put more time into doing different things and may have perfected that thing more than another culture or race of people. I'm explaining this in a simple way, but hopefully this is not over someones head to not get, that it is a lot of truth to this observation (analogy). Then also diet may play a part. There are different types of edible vegetation on the planet that some people had access to that other tribes of people didn't have access to. Every tribe depending on where they settled on the planet had more access to something that other people didn't have access to. And this may have played a part that gives groups of people an edge over each other, in some way or another. If your (culture or people) put a lot of time into a particular thing, you will perfect that thing more than someone else or other nations of people. But this doesn't make you superior to other people. Why? Because someone is better than you are with something else. Being superior to other people is really a man made illusion. Only God is the superior one. Until you can create the universe like God, then you can never be superior to anyone on the planet.
I’d highly recommend the book My Grandmother’s Hands by Resmaa Menakem. Basically we all need to do our own work on ourselves to fix the problems around race in society.
Your second sentence has me taking the recommendation of your first sentence.
I think introspection is possibly the single best quality a person can own.
he`s right on many things ! but times have changed since
Like people saying, “heritage, not hate...” as it pertains to the confederate flag 🤔 what do they think the heritage represents?? 🤦🏽♀️
Be different and remain curious
Wonderful talk!!! the best one yet from the TEDS.
Great speech, I too am seeking wisdom. This video has added to my considerations. Thank you
Keep drinking the coolade
This was a well thought out speech. Great insight on both side.
Never heard this put so well.
You've given me some things to think about and consider
I enjoyed hearing this from a "White" men who is 🦜 Ng about the issues and examining them honestly. Not being defensive or in denial.
It's a only thorough dialogue and examining multiple perspectives of an issue that we carry on the legacy of love passed on by our ancestors and forbearers.
I learned something too and this type of dialogue even on hard topocs only brings us closer to understanding each others life experiences.✌️🕯️🙏
Most people self sabotage. If you wait long enough you’ll get what your waiting for.
Some of this "Priveledge" is entirely based on social class and income level
You dare say something that should be common sense? BLASPHEMY!!!
Consider band-aids.
I don't think there is one "White American culture" nor do all White Americans belong to a culture with European origins.
Yeah white people are the only ones that FEEL that they can enjoy other cultures but all other "minorities" can't get in and enjoy white cultures without being marginalized. White people are born thinking their superior and don't realize it
@@allinspiriation6140 "Whites are born thinking THEY'RE superior...and don't realize it!"
So we think we're superior, but we're unaware we think it? What?!
Can you start making sense now, please?
@@jaydamalley3398 Yes it's downloaded. The way you carry yourself around police officers
Job interviews
Gun ranges
You can walk around with privilege. (You live like your above judgement and scrutiny) and honestly white people are above judgement in society
@@jaydamalley3398 they could of phase this better but if you have to actively step back to see how world views you you are privilege and the being born part is wrong but at an early age the same reason why young minorities just think they less than is exactly why whites think they more than, if you grow up seeing idols depicting people who look like you ad when they depict others in minor roles or as separate entities where they are focus you have no choice but to try when you get older to mentality reeducate oneself on the privilege nature of ones life.
@@allinspiriation6140 ok Karen
Outstanding presentation.....spot on! I wish my husband would watch it.
such a good Ted talk
Mr. Welp. I am very impressed with your sermon. It allows me to focus on the character traits of white men that is and always have been imperfection. I still believe many white men accept "Priviledge" as a right, not a flaw in his character. Mostly I believe 95
% if all the white men who listened to this will give it less than 5% of his time to reflect on it. SAD.
And your source on the 95% stat is...? :P
96%
Racists like you are why no one takes this pseudo-scientific nonsense seriously, thanks for the helpful reminder that people who think of races as collectives are just bigots.
I have to admit that I am grateful to be white.....and 6'4".....and blonde......and blue eyed.....and a good business man.....and smart......and making a good living......and always having a good woman......what else should I be?
@@pwilki8631Be brave enough to see your own insecurities.
Seems the commenters are TRIGGERED
Smell weakness?
Doing wrong is not under a unique header of skin color. This is so ridiculous to even attempt to explain. What's cogent here is politics. That's where the smell is coming from. @Unfinished Business
Seems OP is afraid to say witch commenters they're fantasizing about being triggered.. So @Geritopia : I smell fear.
@@sweetsamia6257 I seriously doubt you'd apply that "logic" to crime statistics. You can't fight racism with bigotry.
@@aylbdrmadison1051 The word you needed was "which" not "witch".
This guy is on par!
I LOVED this. Thank you so much.
Came here for the comments. I was not dissappointed! :D
Wow, well I'm glad you're entertained by this!!! SMH!!!
Love what's being done here but we need to dive deeper. The point of diversity is not to help 'other races' or incentivize learning through personal gain - the point of diversity is to accept the inevitable, to learn more and find a genuine connection with differences in order to better our collective community as a whole. This is a great start, but does not quite get to the meat of the issue, which is the lack of questions being asked, and the genuine interest to learn more. As a white male you come from a position of power, and it's difficult not to elect yourself as the leader in charge of change. I do agree that it is the responsibility of those with certain privileges to use that platform to expose certain biases - let's just make sure that this doesn't become the only end goal. We do not need heroes, we need empaths.
_"The issue is a lack of questions being asked"_
And then you just assert white men come from a position of power. Have you - by any chance - ever 'questioned' that claim?
@@jaydamalley3398 This is my point - when we only frame conversations to the benefit of the majority, we lose sight of the minority (ya know- the portion that makes diversity) more questions need to be asked pertaining to diverse experiences - we have history books that answer a plethora of cis-gen white male questions.
dont forget race and gender, but dont let it be your god. look at someone more than just who they are physically. look at them as a being with sentiance.
Well done!
Powerful.