Dating Apps are Full of Broken, Low Quality Women | Online Dating Lowers a Man's Value

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  • Опубліковано 25 жов 2024
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    Dating apps like Bumble are full of psychopathic crazy women, so you need to be careful about this. It’s a breeding ground for the rejected and jaded. It’s harder and harder to find good quality women on dating apps these days. Bumble is particularly bad because it’s a feminist dating app, so the women on Bumble are already upset with Tinder and the other apps and so they’re basically looking to get a man to submit to them.
    Bumble is a crap shoot and a number’s game. Unfortunately, women on bumble are matching and dating with lots of other men too (that’s just the reality), so you have to be aware that this will happen and not put any faith in women unless they start making a real effort to date you and see you.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 100

  • @paulthomas2178
    @paulthomas2178 Рік тому +76

    Dating apps have given women more dating options than they've ever had in human history!

  • @johnrogerson2269
    @johnrogerson2269 Рік тому +28

    Online dating is like looking for a new car in a scrapyard

  • @Anth369
    @Anth369 Рік тому +7

    No trouble getting matches; but the matches are just so bad at having a conversation. It’s all about them, despite my engagement, they rarely ask questions, and the moment I stop leading the conversation it does because they’re hopeless at anything beyond their satisfying their ego. I stop putting effort in once I realise this. Women on these app… are on these apps for a good reason. Think about it.

  • @itsoktobehappy461
    @itsoktobehappy461 Рік тому +11

    My experience with online dating was no one can get anyone’s full attention. Especially in bigger metro areas. Everyone is getting messages from so many people and it’s hard for anyone to decide on who to focus on. Each time you login, there is more new people messaging you or responding to you. But all those people are experiencing that exact same thing, it’s like everyone is constantly distracted by someone new

  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist Рік тому +27

    The problem with dating apps amongst other things is that you can't convey tone on there. Even the average mid looking broad has 50 matches so your constantly trying to fight for her attention. It's just not worth it lol

    • @Hamzak786
      @Hamzak786 Рік тому +1

      facts it is worked against you.

    • @mko2904
      @mko2904 4 місяці тому

      50 matches??? Try like 2000 matches. You are way off. Create a tinder as an average girl and you will see. One girl that was an 8 out of 10 said she had 20,000 likes in 1 week.

    • @brown_recidivist
      @brown_recidivist 4 місяці тому

      @@mko2904 Regardless. Its a fool's errand. Even if you do match with her she's always going to be looking for new matches for attention purposes. So you would need to be on your best behavior to even keep her interested. It's like ADHD personified lol

  • @AdagioPhoenix
    @AdagioPhoenix Рік тому +48

    As a man, you're supposed to put yourself in uncomfortable situations. Life is an uphill battle for you, and that's beautiful. You become and there is no limit to what you become. Put the app away, get out there and go after what you want.

  • @kiuk_kiks
    @kiuk_kiks Рік тому +10

    Dating apps are filled with a lot of women who don’t really have options. Especially single mothers and overweight and obese women who can’t meet men through conventional means like social circles or in public like in gyms, universities, supermarkets, the street et cetera.

    • @ianditwin7443
      @ianditwin7443 Рік тому

      Not really. Broken, obese and less option type women are everywhere.

    • @devinm.608
      @devinm.608 Рік тому +3

      Yeah bro the dating pool on dating apps is atrocious. There are ZERO quality women on there. Just attention whores, validation sponges and bustdowns who like you said can't get a man any other way.

    • @kiuk_kiks
      @kiuk_kiks Рік тому

      @@devinm.608
      Even before Covid, I met quite a few women on Tinder who used it as a prostitution platform. I’d say at least 4 women who do/ did full service sex work. I didn’t pay them or even meet them, except one who later asked me for money after we had sex and later refused to have sex unless I paid her. Prostitution is legal in my country so yeah, it’s very frustrating.

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 Рік тому +16

    Man this is so true...nothing but bad experiences..I've only met quality or at least honsest women through years of friendship or mutual social/work

    • @devinm.608
      @devinm.608 Рік тому +4

      The best woman I currently know, the one I'm the most honestly attracted to and the only one I would see myself in a long term relationship with, is a woman I've known for several years, whom I used to sorta date that I reconnected with after my last failed LTR.
      I met her on a dating app though but at this point... She's not just a girl I've met on a dating app, she's basically my favorite person...

    • @davidthomspson9771
      @davidthomspson9771 Рік тому

      @@devinm.608 can totally understand that,congrats,been thru similar experience

  • @VoiceOfThe
    @VoiceOfThe Рік тому +8

    Somehow I got a hot girl to drive 2 hours straight to mine last January for a first date.
    Still not sure how I managed to pull it off.

  • @Erik-leChef
    @Erik-leChef Рік тому +10

    Thank you for posting this. This is so spot on

  • @bYz4rEel
    @bYz4rEel Рік тому +4

    The dating apps always lowered men’s confidence, speaking from experience

  • @Blazingwheel
    @Blazingwheel Рік тому +2

    Yeah but women say they want to be approached but a majority of them act like they're going to be attacked if you approach

  • @jameslajambe
    @jameslajambe Рік тому +3

    Agreed her next victim is just a swipe away..

  • @marioottaiano475
    @marioottaiano475 Рік тому +4

    Dating apps are full of shit, they are just another way to do business, and dating app builders had their moment of glory during Covid-19 pandemic when everyone was closed in their own houses and used dating apps, but there is nothing to look for on dating apps, just pointless and a waste of time

  • @averagestudent4358
    @averagestudent4358 Рік тому +3

    The sad thing is that I can press like for this video, only once. Facts 💯

  • @gregmoverley7525
    @gregmoverley7525 Рік тому +1

    That's Very Valuable Information . Thank You ! Plus it Eliminates Flaking . You Actuaaly See who You want to meet !

  • @gregmoverley7525
    @gregmoverley7525 Рік тому +1

    That was Great Chris. Thank You !😊

  • @alphapimp0073
    @alphapimp0073 Рік тому +9

    Women have to show interest and approach me. No way in hell I will not approach women. Women do not respect men who approach them.

    • @NoName-zb1gm
      @NoName-zb1gm Рік тому +2

      I doubt that will happen. Although I agree approaching women cold is great for their validation. Plus who knows if they're crazy. I work with the public so between co-workers and customers I see woman all day so that's one good thing about my job.

    • @godotuser1622
      @godotuser1622 Рік тому +3

      my guy you are sigma , be successful in your life

    • @rahulrajmurmu9595
      @rahulrajmurmu9595 Рік тому +1

      Theory can only get you so far..

    • @alphapimp0073
      @alphapimp0073 Рік тому +3

      @@rahulrajmurmu9595 It’s not theory it’s facts. Only simps believe in chasing women

    • @alphapimp0073
      @alphapimp0073 Рік тому +5

      @@NoName-zb1gm I don’t care if it hailed a orb or not. I only deal with women who give strong attraction confirmation. Men should apply Pimp principles into the square world.

  • @pmdal
    @pmdal Рік тому +7

    Dont agree....outside its the same

  • @macdavy70
    @macdavy70 Рік тому +3

    You have no idea how bad it is.

  • @A1a8l5h9a8d
    @A1a8l5h9a8d 18 днів тому

    I wish I could go back in time in 2002 and relive all this years again having my present consciousness

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm 6 місяців тому +1

    My biggest issue is women aren't serious. They really don't want to date. They use the dating apps for validation. They like getting messages from guys and then rejecting them.

  • @gregmoverley7525
    @gregmoverley7525 Рік тому

    Thank Chris . Very InValuable Information !

  • @gregmoverley7525
    @gregmoverley7525 Рік тому

    It's like once in The UK I Approached a Lady at a 3 Day Event. She' was Surprised I was to the point. And She said to Me the Direct Approach I like That. It Does Show Confidence and Self Belief !

  • @prayermadepatna8439
    @prayermadepatna8439 Рік тому +1

    Its a different social landscape out there right now. Cold approach at your own discretion, not this guys.

  • @markfrantzen9576
    @markfrantzen9576 Рік тому +1

    Broadly speaking you're right Chris, but not every person who has struggled to find a 'successful' relationship is 'broken', nor is every person in a successful relationship 'whole'. I really like your posts, generally, but I think there is an argument for subtlety, nuance and 'imagination' too. Many people struggle to 'know' who they are, and only find success in relationships much later in life. It's an unkindness to suggest that if one has failed, even repeatedly, one no longer has value. I realise you speak mostly to a younger audience and no problem with that. But I wonder what your relationships are like? It would be great to hear where you are in your life and whether you've found the love you've longed for. The deep psychological work often only begins in ones 40's. Just because we often f@#* up until then doesn't mean we're not full of possibility.

  • @Rob-nl5ge
    @Rob-nl5ge Рік тому +2

    I think you also need to be in a good area. Make sure you’re around women as much as you can. That way, you won’t rely on dating apps as much and can approach women regularly.

  • @mav1877
    @mav1877 Рік тому +5

    I think it's fine to use dating apps and approach in person as well. Mine as well use all options at your disposal. Many women use dating apps now with the pandemic. I know a few couples who met their bf/gf on apps so I wouldn't swear them off. Just don't only use them as a crutch.

    • @TG1YK
      @TG1YK Рік тому

      Beta

    • @baldcheddar
      @baldcheddar Рік тому +3

      ​@@TG1YKcan you elaborate on why you're calling him beta ? He is simply saying dating apps are fine just don't make it the end all be all, go out at talk to women in person as well.

    • @dreamcore
      @dreamcore Рік тому

      ​@@baldcheddarhe doesn't approve of giving women free attention

  • @BrandelSaundh-i7p
    @BrandelSaundh-i7p Рік тому +3

    Hi Chris when should I take my girlfriend on a first date

  • @jhptsdx6275
    @jhptsdx6275 Рік тому

    Where's your stance on social media V online dating, I feel like in my life the lines are tremendously blurred in relation to this, top content as always my man! keep it up

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 Рік тому

      Women in general use their Instagram for online dating.

  • @DrJ-hx7wv
    @DrJ-hx7wv Рік тому

    I've been pretty successful so far on them. I'm also a full time writer, so I might have an advantage I wouldn't otherwise have in person.

    • @garethwilliams4467
      @garethwilliams4467 Рік тому

      yeah I smash a lot on them. And I'm 48 and only 5'8". I get ghosted etc a lot as well. But I agree, I've not met one woman yet I actually fancy or want to get to know better.

  • @tej4143
    @tej4143 Рік тому +1

    Does Cold Approaching work? Like you have chance to project confidence.

    • @Rob-nl5ge
      @Rob-nl5ge Рік тому +3

      Look for the signals (eye contact, smiling, orbiting). If you see the signs of attraction then approaching works

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm Рік тому +1

    It's a shame because they are a great way to screen out woman who don't share your values and interests. It's even worse when you go on a religion based dating app and the woman still want a hot guy not build something with a guy who shares the same faith.

    • @Matlockization
      @Matlockization Рік тому +2

      The religion doesn't guarantee success. You still need to establish some chemistry.

    • @NoName-zb1gm
      @NoName-zb1gm Рік тому +1

      @@MatlockizationLooking at a picture doesn't guarantee chemistry either.

    • @Matlockization
      @Matlockization Рік тому +1

      @@NoName-zb1gm That's why you have to meet them and find out whether there is any chemistry !

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 Рік тому

      Y'all should just beat your meats and save money and time.

  • @mikehike6894
    @mikehike6894 Рік тому

    great advice

  • @alphapimp0073
    @alphapimp0073 Рік тому +3

    The cold approach is beta as well

    • @cj548
      @cj548 Рік тому +9

      Only if you make it that way

    • @alphapimp0073
      @alphapimp0073 Рік тому +4

      @@cj548 It is there is nothing positive about cold approaching women, it gives them power over you.

    • @cj548
      @cj548 Рік тому

      @@alphapimp0073 no. Women's strategy is to covertly attract. Men's is too overtly attack. Only you can give away your power. Any woman that approaches you is damaged goods. & any man that waits to be approached is not a man he's a little boy still

    • @gonzapacini5668
      @gonzapacini5668 Рік тому

      You need balls to do it, how’s that beta?

    • @rahulrajmurmu9595
      @rahulrajmurmu9595 Рік тому

      @@alphapimp0073 Theory can only get you so far.

  • @h.eduardoazevedo6591
    @h.eduardoazevedo6591 Рік тому

    Build a nice profile and meet 2/3 woman a week easily.

  • @davidallahgod3217
    @davidallahgod3217 Рік тому

    Christopher Canwell 🔥

  • @JamesGreenier
    @JamesGreenier Рік тому

    Yes!

  • @wyswygsommer2769
    @wyswygsommer2769 Рік тому

    So trueee

  • @GOLDman4856
    @GOLDman4856 Рік тому +2

    Ooo a controversial take 👍

  • @Righteous1ist
    @Righteous1ist Рік тому

    True

  • @cj548
    @cj548 Рік тому +1

    More redpills please

  • @seethrough_treeshrew
    @seethrough_treeshrew Рік тому

    Wow, that is quite a misogynistic title you managed to put together there, my guy. Is it generating a lot of views from the incel community?
    I did not watch the video, btw. Good day.

  • @davidjofficial1
    @davidjofficial1 Рік тому

    Facts. Low hanging fruit.