Jennifer N - Steps on how to love me correctly

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  • @porshabatis8622
    @porshabatis8622 Рік тому +989

    “Hold me because anxiety doesn’t aways tell me why she’s visiting .” 🔥

    • @GhandiiLove
      @GhandiiLove Рік тому +11

      Came to write that part and it was the first one to pop up ‼️‼️❤️

    • @nazrenewilliams6473
      @nazrenewilliams6473 9 місяців тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @justicegusting2476
      @justicegusting2476 9 місяців тому +7

      Interesting that you assign a feminine quality to anxiety.

    • @tapoutmotion4017
      @tapoutmotion4017 8 місяців тому +5

      ​@@justicegusting2476ooh my world 😂

    • @shineskye6910
      @shineskye6910 8 місяців тому +2

      Almost teared up🎉where can I find u jennifer N❤

  • @deannascott1909
    @deannascott1909 Рік тому +75

    'Remind me that I am important enough to remember in the chaos...'

  • @calvinsmith1140
    @calvinsmith1140 10 місяців тому +433

    Hits home as a man. When you've had to love someone pass their past to reassure them that you're not their past

    • @codybryant7026
      @codybryant7026 9 місяців тому +10

      I’ve dealt with this myself and tbh I couldn’t deal with it

    • @calvinsmith1140
      @calvinsmith1140 9 місяців тому +20

      @@codybryant7026 It ban be exhausting but Iwe as men sometimes forget we bring our own trauma and bagage even though we think we dont

    • @codybryant7026
      @codybryant7026 9 місяців тому +12

      @@calvinsmith1140 that’s true we do. In my situation that I dealt with it was past insecurities from previous men but also other stuff she went thru sexual on multiple occasions and it was a lot. I wasn’t patient enough, I was not emotionally supportive enough which was what she needed. She needed someone compassionate with a big heart and that ain’t me so it didn’t work but whatever now.

    • @calvinsmith1140
      @calvinsmith1140 9 місяців тому

      @@codybryant7026 it's hard when you feel like you're doing all the things you're supposed to be doing and more then you've done for anyone else and it seems like nothing is changing and @ that time. You're so right you have to be patient, you have to be compassionate in a time like that sometimes it's worth the fight and sometimes it's not in my situation it's been worth the fight nobody and I mean nobody has loved me like this woman we have a crazy story but I believe she was divinely created for me

    • @Mmmmgood317
      @Mmmmgood317 8 місяців тому +9

      Salute 🫡 to you sir… because past trauma is a 2way street. Most men and women have some… and the sad part is some ppl think they don’t… when in all actuality most do. I have a man that is loving me through my healing… and I’m doing the same for him (unbeknownst to him)

  • @owandaisy4147
    @owandaisy4147 8 місяців тому +26

    Do not excuse my assertiveness for inability to be submissive, I just know what I want so I'm making sure u understand the mission....yessss🔥

  • @rakshetsa
    @rakshetsa 9 місяців тому +456

    I am a crying mess right now because every line she spoke felt like it was coming from my soul❤

    • @kwezchyn
      @kwezchyn 9 місяців тому +4

      I second that emotion. For You🌹 and For Me🌹

    • @phemelokhaole4047
      @phemelokhaole4047 9 місяців тому +2

      That's me right there,hey🎉

    • @saun_7
      @saun_7 9 місяців тому +1

      🧡🙏🏾🧡

    • @ashleyybabyyy7539
      @ashleyybabyyy7539 9 місяців тому +2

      Same for me. Every word resides with me 💯

    • @beck316
      @beck316 8 місяців тому +1

      Here here

  • @bryanobarr2857
    @bryanobarr2857 8 місяців тому +165

    I’m not used to listening to these with the audience interacting so loudly. The energy is definitely there. Cool piece, lots of support. That’s a special experience

  • @clarissaruiz1168
    @clarissaruiz1168 2 роки тому +80

    “I know I have wife written all over me”!!

  • @justicegusting2476
    @justicegusting2476 11 місяців тому +160

    April, May, and June
    Before the dusky doom
    Before the freeze
    And autumn leaves
    And judgements made too soon
    After all the flowers
    The golden showers
    Of orange juice
    In her room
    Ah, but those three months
    Those precious months
    Time I’ll remember best
    Life was good
    Full of promise
    Her touch, her kiss
    So sensuous
    It was a time of flight
    Into the night
    Upon the wings of a dove
    I’ll ne’er forget
    All the days of my life
    How I felt
    For my late spring love

  • @viedinternaute8132
    @viedinternaute8132 9 місяців тому +21

    Proper etiquette is to Snap instead of cheer and clap in the middle of poetry recitation

  • @No-js8bs
    @No-js8bs 9 місяців тому +111

    This hit hard. I know I'm more than hard to love. I feel sorry for everyone who has tried to show me affection. I feel the necessity to keep my heart locked in the cage of my lungs. I do have one contrary to popular belief. It's a bit broken, but it's there.
    It's kinda nice knowing that I'm not the only one who relates to this sensation.

    • @janae296
      @janae296 9 місяців тому +2

      I 10000000000% relate.

    • @ConsolantaKyosimire-ho2cu
      @ConsolantaKyosimire-ho2cu 8 місяців тому +1

      ❤wow

    • @poetryinmotion5240
      @poetryinmotion5240 8 місяців тому +1

      The beauty of your broken heart is that the pieces connect making you whole. Putting those together is the hard part.

    • @meowriah333
      @meowriah333 8 місяців тому +2

      I empathize with this heavily.

    • @reesexxzcg8554
      @reesexxzcg8554 8 місяців тому +4

      Jesus is there for you. He’s waiting with His arms outstretched!

  • @briannaspikes7939
    @briannaspikes7939 9 місяців тому +95

    Girl this hit my soul! That was like my exact thoughts you spoke so eloquently. Omg wow. I’m literally crying while watching this. Gave me goosebumps.

  • @joeycrow
    @joeycrow 8 місяців тому +18

    "I just know what I want, so I'm just making sure you understand the mission." Easily the most underrated bar I've heard in a long time.

  • @j-revealpoetic
    @j-revealpoetic 10 місяців тому +86

    As a poet myself, this is "POWERFUL"!!!!!!

    • @jusjesspoetry
      @jusjesspoetry 8 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely it is 🫰🏽 🔥

  • @ThePeoplesUN
    @ThePeoplesUN 8 місяців тому +23

    Anxiety in relationships personified 🙏🏾 beautifully captured, sis. breathe it out & remember you are love, no matter if you are loved

  • @Peteluver145
    @Peteluver145 8 місяців тому +2

    The fact that she opened this with "I'm nervous" ...thank you for that vulnerability that the world needs

  • @user-kr9ib5ty3p
    @user-kr9ib5ty3p Рік тому +9

    She nailed this one to concrete walls. Enjoy the picture.

  • @brittanycrivello
    @brittanycrivello 8 місяців тому +14

    Spoken from the heart!! I suffer with PTSD as well. I felt you when you said " I never said it was easy to love me" 2:22 2:23 2:23

  • @sanjhsolanki2419
    @sanjhsolanki2419 10 місяців тому +40

    me listening to it again & again to remind me I deserve it all ❤

    • @janae296
      @janae296 9 місяців тому +2

      We do. We can never dismiss the facts that in the midst of it all, insecurities, moments of the confirmations we need, all that we've been thru, endured, and overcome, it's those steps that lead us to being the best versions of ourselves that God created us to be. We are worthy, and we are deserving. 💜It starts with us loving ourselves.

    • @sanjhsolanki2419
      @sanjhsolanki2419 9 місяців тому +1

      @@janae296 so true

  • @lisavanoni6552
    @lisavanoni6552 11 місяців тому +24

    So strong and vulnerable at same time Truth equals love

  • @dcriminologist5347
    @dcriminologist5347 Рік тому +15

    Every new couple should listen to this poem!

  • @fiyinfoluwaawopetu1559
    @fiyinfoluwaawopetu1559 7 місяців тому +2

    Yoo she said: "I still wanna feel like you're crushing on me even after you've had me" PRINT THIS ON A BILLBOARD

  • @RheemaJoy
    @RheemaJoy 10 місяців тому +46

    Yes sis! I love that you pushed through those nerves. Amazing poem. Beautiful job…the message is RIGHT on time for so many of us.💜💜✨✨

  • @chasity9122
    @chasity9122 Рік тому +51

    Touch my soul. I feel every word she says 💯💯💚💖

  • @ashleyybabyyy7539
    @ashleyybabyyy7539 9 місяців тому +33

    This came right on time for me. Popped up in my feed at the perfect time. I needed to hear this. I am not alone. I am not the only girl that knows she’s not easy to love BUT my table is always full 💯🔥

    • @amyafenner5317
      @amyafenner5317 8 місяців тому

      exactly ! i just need a little bit more reassurance 😔 gestures , “remind me that i’m enough to remember in chaos” that’s all .

    • @rokeithajacobs4561
      @rokeithajacobs4561 2 години тому

      ❤️❤️🙏🙏

  • @BTS.of_JEN
    @BTS.of_JEN Рік тому +30

    Omgggg this is so beautiful

  • @charlesrhodes2493
    @charlesrhodes2493 8 місяців тому +2

    “Compliments from you feel more like confirmation that it’s going to be a good day” 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @simplyvika9733
    @simplyvika9733 Рік тому +15

    hits even harder after a breakup

  • @green_gurl4628
    @green_gurl4628 8 місяців тому +8

    This is everything I felt but couldn’t put into words 😭

  • @BRODY5540
    @BRODY5540 Рік тому +24

    ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 love her tone and delivery

  • @chehakoberoi6197
    @chehakoberoi6197 2 місяці тому

    "tell me at 2pm that you miss me"
    the last extract went straight through my heart and i think it is gonna resides there forever. so beautiful 🌸

  • @jilyyyyy.
    @jilyyyyy. Місяць тому

    "I never said it was easy to love me. But if you're still going to then I need to know that you're willing to love me.. properly."

  • @savannahskyla9988
    @savannahskyla9988 8 місяців тому +7

    Jennifer you put into words many things i couldn't even express, perfectly! You have talent expression and so much heart❤girl,dont ever stop being you and doing you,your amazing 💯🙌💎

  • @sugarp5421
    @sugarp5421 Рік тому +13

    Baybay this is everything!!! Anxiety doesn't always tell me why she's visiting is a bar❤

  • @ericamcdowell6927
    @ericamcdowell6927 8 місяців тому +1

    “Learn to love me properly”….Beautiful! Deep!

  • @davidlankster9698
    @davidlankster9698 11 місяців тому +12

    This was….intense. In a good way. Hella thought - provoking.

  • @chelsg4611
    @chelsg4611 7 місяців тому +4

    Real tears streaming down my face🥹😭 You go girl. Speaking all the truths❤️

  • @kiloook
    @kiloook Рік тому +27

    Beautifully written

  • @xoxoqueen5257
    @xoxoqueen5257 Рік тому +6

    I’m making sure you understand the mission 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @hustlingwithhaps907
    @hustlingwithhaps907 Рік тому +20

    "I never said that loving me was going to be easy" ...

  • @Kalik8000
    @Kalik8000 8 місяців тому +2

    AI... I've NEVER watched poetry anything on UA-cam. But for the past few days I've been googling about attachment styles theory. And here you are.. a poem about insecure- anxious attachment style......

  • @yagirlmkada
    @yagirlmkada 9 місяців тому +12

    This is so beautiful, currently crying while writing this. Thank you for speaking to my soul. Wishing you all the abundance and love that this world has to offer you ❤

  • @makaylacourtney2105
    @makaylacourtney2105 5 місяців тому

    Man its really hard to love a difficult person, but I want them so badly to know that they are not their past, and I want them so badly to know how it feels to really live... this gave me so much encouragement to keep trying. thank you lord

  • @christinek.5917
    @christinek.5917 Рік тому +16

    Crazy goosebumps through out. ❤

  • @michelledziegielewski1226
    @michelledziegielewski1226 Рік тому +4

    Amazing 👏 tears down my face

  • @sussan_E
    @sussan_E 10 місяців тому +13

    Wow!!! This resonates with me really well. I love this piece

  • @mayadaley-tulloch6894
    @mayadaley-tulloch6894 9 місяців тому +4

    this is me. i never related so much to a poem before, thank you for putting my feelings and thoughts into words

  • @ErastusUso
    @ErastusUso Рік тому +4

    Jennifer you're amazing.

  • @Faithywaithyyy
    @Faithywaithyyy Місяць тому

    YALL STOP HATING ITS A POEM TO SHOW HER EMOTIONS

  • @dianasross1662
    @dianasross1662 8 місяців тому +5

    You spoke on our behalf. Thank you this humbled me... I love poetry this is true art

  • @shanda01114
    @shanda01114 9 місяців тому +2

    I love everything about this!! ❤

  • @slipperysteev
    @slipperysteev 7 місяців тому

    Jennifer N. - You are a Queen and you speak like an angel. This message should transcend to ALL single humans.

  • @hopeholistichealermccullou735
    @hopeholistichealermccullou735 8 місяців тому +1

    I’m just reiterating that I Was Never The One To Mess With 🤯💯♐️🤷🏾‍♀️🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @elexussledge6044
    @elexussledge6044 11 місяців тому +3

    This was good I shed tears 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kalena777
    @kalena777 8 місяців тому +3

    That was the most beautiful thing I heard and the most relating. Kudos to you & your heart whoever’s reading this ❤❤❤

  • @KEOSHAANEILIA
    @KEOSHAANEILIA 9 місяців тому +3

    Totally crying…amazing.

  • @chengtsai8323
    @chengtsai8323 7 місяців тому +1

    a response as male bodied: thank you for sharing and trusting me with what I would otherwise not known, and I am sorry; I hear your pain and hurt of the past; I can’t undo your past and how it has shaped you. I love all of you; I will do my best to hold healing space for you, and co regulating squeeze hugs on our journey. When the anxiety subsides and is no longer blinding, see through my manly husk, stripped of strength, and see just a human being inside who also wants to be loved, have cuddles, and connection.

  • @kevonabdool1202
    @kevonabdool1202 8 місяців тому +1

    This woman is deep!! I love listening to this poem!!

  • @tiffanyvanlengen4393
    @tiffanyvanlengen4393 2 місяці тому

    You took my breath away. Wow. You gave many of us a voice.

  • @chanelmiller9782
    @chanelmiller9782 8 місяців тому

    Your words and voice so moving! Thank you 🙏 I feel you 💯

  • @jenniferburgess8492
    @jenniferburgess8492 9 місяців тому +2

    Shook me to the core.❤

  • @milachyc88
    @milachyc88 9 місяців тому +2

    Great job Jennifer. You deserve a big love like your heart ❤️

  • @cassandramcxxxx9558
    @cassandramcxxxx9558 7 місяців тому

    That was incredible! You hit the nail on the head with that. So perfect! Thank you for sharing.

  • @lizasmilz482
    @lizasmilz482 11 місяців тому +3

    Absolutely no words. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @bonnieclyde4950
    @bonnieclyde4950 8 місяців тому

    Everything about this beautiful poem spoke my truth thank you so much for sharing your soul

  • @LuisE2132
    @LuisE2132 9 місяців тому +4

    Damn.. this hit my soul. Love her words 🔥

  • @soyearold
    @soyearold 9 місяців тому +4

    Beautiful way to put it.

  • @nigellarcher919
    @nigellarcher919 4 місяці тому

    This poem is FIRE, and as real as it gets. Can't wait to hear more poems from Jennifer N.

  • @chullymonroe
    @chullymonroe Місяць тому

    This will always be one of my favorites✨

  • @CriticalNerdTheory424
    @CriticalNerdTheory424 Рік тому +3

    Love this piece

  • @misscoke3351
    @misscoke3351 5 місяців тому +2

    I love her poetry is a vibe 💞💯

  • @thegrowthdiary
    @thegrowthdiary 9 місяців тому +4

    I can't stop watching this. I relate too bad

  • @leirno
    @leirno 8 місяців тому +2

    speaking from the heart 💯

  • @francesjohnson6852
    @francesjohnson6852 10 місяців тому +6

    You make me wanna release my poetry inside on this one❤

  • @ellesmusic4644
    @ellesmusic4644 7 місяців тому +2

    Wonderfully vulnerable, well delivered and extremely relatable

  • @daffonidixon5157
    @daffonidixon5157 8 місяців тому +1

    My true feelings are every word you shared!

  • @whybev
    @whybev Рік тому +4

    You are speaking for me ‼️ Spit poet‼️💪🏽💅🏽

  • @giokoolinxdkoolingangxd1590
    @giokoolinxdkoolingangxd1590 2 місяці тому

    Crying in my spirit rn,tryna hold back dem tears...so wonderful🙏🏾🙏🏾you are blessed woman fr🙏🏾💯💯💯

  • @user-pm9fv6pb7j
    @user-pm9fv6pb7j 8 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful, couldn’t have said it better!

  • @user-rv4hb7ms9m
    @user-rv4hb7ms9m 11 місяців тому +6

    My apologies if you find me a bit too challenging ❤❤

  • @jennycadot3635
    @jennycadot3635 8 місяців тому

    Wow! Beautiful and deep! Super great poetry! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💗💗💗💗💗

  • @cpeacewellness
    @cpeacewellness 7 місяців тому

    This= was. Everything. Absolutely everything. Touched my heart. Touched my soul. Broke me and helped make me. Helped me feel understood and heard. Made me feel all the hurt, in a necessary way. Made me feel all the hope, in a necessary way.

  • @amandaschomaker2964
    @amandaschomaker2964 8 місяців тому

    This hits my soul ❤😢 beautiful words

  • @animariecarter8698
    @animariecarter8698 6 місяців тому

    This is sooo me I feel this too my core..wow beautiful words Queen

  • @Livvvvv21
    @Livvvvv21 8 місяців тому

    I haven’t cried in a while thank you

  • @sarahvasquez6494
    @sarahvasquez6494 8 місяців тому

    I SEE MYSELF IN HER

  • @raywilliams4387
    @raywilliams4387 4 місяці тому

    I felt this poem the day I met my wife. Love this poem. Love all of y'all be good this year

  • @chelseabowen7518
    @chelseabowen7518 10 місяців тому +3

    LOVE THIS!!❤❤❤

  • @mandya.6032
    @mandya.6032 8 місяців тому +2

    I love this poem it’s true correct and beautiful.

  • @innovativearts9511
    @innovativearts9511 5 місяців тому

    Couldn't have been said better. Anxiety never tells me when she is visiting 😢.

  • @sheberry8597
    @sheberry8597 9 місяців тому +4

    Still got some healing to do.. alot of that is insecurities.

  • @gwenmartin5910
    @gwenmartin5910 10 місяців тому +4

    Speak it young lady!!

  • @richep2546
    @richep2546 Рік тому +7

    Sis was spittin! 🔥💯

  • @Breezy81
    @Breezy81 8 місяців тому +1

    LOVE IT, this is what I needed

  • @TheMellsBells
    @TheMellsBells 8 місяців тому

    This gave me goosebumps !!!

  • @user-sp9zw1et5b
    @user-sp9zw1et5b 11 місяців тому +1

    Teach me the love... Woman you know just how to magic words😍🎨you're painting canvases

  • @FreedomMeansLearning-ke7dk
    @FreedomMeansLearning-ke7dk Місяць тому

    Wow. She's inspiring !

  • @rosesoulgold
    @rosesoulgold Рік тому +33

    Literal tears down my face ❤

  • @mommae295
    @mommae295 2 місяці тому

    This was beautifully said ! 👏

  • @melisacelebi6077
    @melisacelebi6077 9 місяців тому +1

    Home girl you killed it !!!
    You got this "

  • @scarlettfrancesca
    @scarlettfrancesca 8 місяців тому

    Absolute perfection ❤