My husband swears I’m thinking of another man or something I did that was bad… he literally doesn’t believe it’s nothing. It’s literally NOTHING! I zone out. I ZONE OUT!!! I think he’s gay and I’m gay which means maybe he likes women that behave like men and I like men that behave like women cause like… I just can’t explain anything. But I have noticed that as much of a manly man he might appear to be… after a couple of Modelos, he’s gay. That’s all.
People accuse you of cheating so you don't question what they themselves are doing, because they're cheating on you. It's called the attack first strategy. When you're being attacked you're too busy defending yourself to think about anything else.
We do not talk to the people on tv during a game as if they're in the room liste.....HEY REF! HOW COULD YOU NOT SEE THAT? Sorry about that, now where was I? 🤣
I love hot showers, especially in the winter. I frequently end a shower with a minute or two of nothing but hot water. It’s great for the muscles and relaxation.
Not me, after working on trash trucks I take steaming hot showers because I never feel clean enough. Even after not touching a trash truck for 5 years now.
Spot on, the toothpaste thing hahah. I try and brush my teeth while taking a shower whenever possible. It’s so liberating just being a frothing toothpaste spewing mess and not having to worry about covering myself or the mirror in Crest.
Wait; so my husband ISN’T flicking his toothbrush on the mirror on PURPOSE?? ALL THESE YEARS I thought it was his get back at me because I stay home and don’t need to work because my personal financial situation allows for such!! I LITERALLY THOUGHT that he was just pissed watching me sleep in the morning when he has to get up!! Geesh Thanks for that info!!
i agree 100% - except the shower thing. that's quite an individual taste kind of thing. as a woman, hot shower desire is rare for me. growing up with 3 brothers before my decades of adult life bears the other stuff out!
Depends on the guy I suppose. Only one that fits me is the "Nothing." part. We truly mean it. I don't watch sports so that part I don't care, but put on a good movie and I am with them LOL! Great video, Tom :)
As a man who agrees with this woman, I'd like to see the enter population of women take male misogyny and unconcerned for them to task. Personally I welcome the conversation.
I get it about the "what are you thinking?" blank. I think the buffer space clears when we're interrupted so we can have full space for the conversation. And I'm not a dude. I think it's a normal brain thing for some of the population.
Anti-Scald valves are usually set at 120 degrees Fahrenheit, and are required in most of the civilized States. A shower starts to "steam" around 100 degrees (note this is not actual steam, more of a fog from the warm moist air mixing with the cooler air). She may have a point that HER man doesn't like hot showers but plenty of other men do and I think she's way off to generalize. BTW a typical sauna temp is between 150 and 195.
Hot water only strips the necessarily oils away, lukewarm showers with gentle soap is the way to go. And real soap too. If you're slightly chilled after the shower and need to bundle up to warm back up, you've done the shower correctly. If it's colder, the water isn't warm enough to do a good job, and if it's hotter, you're over-washing.
And this is why I have been blissfully single since leaving the ex over 30 years ago. It was easier on me and the kids for me to be a single parent working f/t plus managing the home and raising kids than it was to have the immature, lying, cheating jerk we had to cater to constantly. And my house stayed a hell of a lot cleaner, too.
Oh dear, I've got a man-erism! I yell at goalies when they stray too far from the net. It's loud enough that they hear me. It's the only time my hubby has hear me yell.
*I have no idea what she is talking about “zero tolerance to hot showers” as I need scolding hot showers all the time! (But then again: I am Canadian so it might be an American thing that doesn’t apply to those of us who live in the Great White North!)… As for the answering “Nothing” about what we are thinking: Look-up “the Nothing Box” and that guy explains it PERFECTLY!* 😂👍
It's not so much that we aren't thinking about "nothing." In my case it's that I end up diving down some odd thought chain in my own head. I have had some ideas that I think were just amazing, but the moment I snap back to the present they are gone, like everything that fell down that hole near the end of "Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade." I once had some amazing idea of an Animal Crossing crossover with The Legend of Zelda, but once I came out of that it was all gone. All I know is that it happened in my head.
NOT LIKE THE OTHER MEN 😂 honestly same about the showers though. also I'm pretty sure the only guys who get toothpaste on the mirror are the ones who don't wipe the toilet seat down when they sprinkle on it 🤭
I must be the exception, because I need my showers HOT! I can't stand being cold, if there's not steam in that bad boy when I'm done, it wasn't hot enough😂
About hot showers - when I was around 10-11 years old I liked hot baths, like +40 degrees celsius. Today (or when being and adult) I would scream like hell going into that.
Oh my god, the shower thing. I didn't know this was universal. My husband is Mexican, whereas I'm of Norwegian descent, so you'd think he'd be the one able to tolerate heat better. And yet...
I always thought I was weird, now I know it’s just her husband who’s weird. I have never taken a ‘lukewarm’ shower. It’s either whistling through the pipes or freezing in the air. No in between.
I will stink before I take a cold shower. I've built houses in Texas for over 30 years and I take hot showers when I get off of work. I've fallen asleep in the shower more times than I can remember because the hot water makes me drowsy to the point of sleeping. The shower beers might have a little to do with it as well but I blame the hot water.
Hang on. I'm a man, and I ONLY do hot showers. If I don't look like a lobster when I get out, it's not hot enough. I use an electric toothbrush and I've never had toothpaste splatter anywhere.
I don't even brush my teeth in front of the mirror. I usually walk out and sit in front of the TV until I'm done. I don't need a mirror I can feel where my teeth are.
My husband LOVES boiling hot showers. He gets out looking like a lobster. I honestly don't understand how he can take that, I HATE hot showers. Lukewarm for me, but I always end with cold water because it just makes me feel refreshed. If I have to take a shower after him, the first thing I do is turn the temp WAY down 😂😂
My husband actually takes showers so hot that his skin is red when he comes out. And I'm actually the one who talks to the TV 😂 but the rest is right for us too.
Maps also know how to read maps and drive around town without GPS (we gotta be ready when the zombie apocalypse happens and satellites go down). If we’ve been to one place before, we’re going to keep challenging ourselves to figure out how to get there without GPS the next time. It’s just how we are 😅
Thinking about "Nothing" can also mean that witty comeback we failed to say last week, the relative taste of two burger joints and which one we want to go to this week, and whether or not that was _really_ a plothole in the movie... and the realization that none of these are an interesting topic of conversation, so... "nothing."
Showers aren't hot enough, the hot water runs out too fast, and I brush my teeth, manually, in the shower, so the mirror is fine. I don't care about any sports. You do you, and I'll do me. Stay safe, and try to find a reason to be happy, everyone.
When a man stares off in the distance, he's usually thinking about how trebuchet are vastly superior to catapults... ...usually.
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You're supposed to wash with soap, not disinfect by scolding 😂 I know many men who like showers that make them look like a lobster when they're done though. I personally very much don't
Look lady....... It's NOT the TV that enables two way communication regarding sports....... It's the BRO CODE......That allows worldwide shit to be talked about, language agnostic.
Actually, I like really hot showers, most showers don't get hot enough for me. I've had partners cuddle up to me because I'm warm, then they wake up in the morning as a soaked sweaty mess.
I take wicked hot showers. But, she is ADORABLE. When i say I'm fine, that usually means "I'm fine not talking about anything at the moment." Best. \m_
The hot shower thing. My ex would turn the shower up past the safety, where you had to press the spring loaded button to go past a certain point. I'd jump in after and literally get scolded.
she really needs to get to know more men... My heat tolerance for showers would kill my wife... I couldn't care less about sports and my bathroom mirror is clean.
To those of you that say "I like hot showers!" Is it HOT? Or is it HOT TO YOU? Amd I say this as a guy. I like what I think are hot showers. But wife disagrees with my definition of "hot"
Lol. I was married to a man, and then dated 2men who all LOVED hot showers. The three of them were not into sports (except the last one liked Hockey, and, yes, yelled at the giant screen as if they could hear). So, really, one can’t make generalizations, though men are a bit less complicated than women.
I use an Oral-B and I never splatter toothpaste on the mirror! Who brushes with their mouth wide open? That's the only way I could see getting toothpaste splatter on the mirror! I also use an electric water pik too, still no splatter!
Do not take a hot shower you can actually give yourself a stroke, heart attack. Steam showers at residential us not hot, ut can be ser as warm water hot steam. As well not sure if people do this yet or not. When ready to brush your teeth, first use mouthwash to rinse your mouth. Then brush your teeth rince with a little water.
As a woman I often think of nothing it's called dissociating and it's the only way I survive
My husband swears I’m thinking of another man or something I did that was bad… he literally doesn’t believe it’s nothing. It’s literally NOTHING! I zone out. I ZONE OUT!!! I think he’s gay and I’m gay which means maybe he likes women that behave like men and I like men that behave like women cause like… I just can’t explain anything. But I have noticed that as much of a manly man he might appear to be… after a couple of Modelos, he’s gay. That’s all.
People accuse you of cheating so you don't question what they themselves are doing, because they're cheating on you. It's called the attack first strategy. When you're being attacked you're too busy defending yourself to think about anything else.
The nothing box is awesome. Total peace, zero effort, ultimate relaxation.
Don't pull us out of it unless it's important. We are recharging.😊
Ahh! Cool, good to know 👍🏻
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That's not an exclusively male thing. Js.
I liked the way you worded that too, perfect description.
😂🤣😂 Has she been talking to my wife? Are there cameras following me? 😂🤣😂
No. We're just programmed that way.
We are capable of complexity, but often, why bother in an Occam's razor world?
We do not talk to the people on tv during a game as if they're in the room liste.....HEY REF! HOW COULD YOU NOT SEE THAT?
Sorry about that, now where was I?
🤣
😂😂
I love hot showers, especially in the winter. I frequently end a shower with a minute or two of nothing but hot water.
It’s great for the muscles and relaxation.
Same when it's cold out I like to just stand there and enjoy the heat until it runs out and starts getting cold again.
Yep, just came back from a hot shower.
I will even stretch during the last minute of a hot shower.
We don't think the TV talks back, we think it listens.
100%
LOL!! 😂😂😂😂
You took the words right out of mouth. Haha. 💙✌️🗽
😂💀
I heard that in my fiancé's voice as I read it. 😂
Not me, after working on trash trucks I take steaming hot showers because I never feel clean enough. Even after not touching a trash truck for 5 years now.
Spot on, the toothpaste thing hahah. I try and brush my teeth while taking a shower whenever possible. It’s so liberating just being a frothing toothpaste spewing mess and not having to worry about covering myself or the mirror in Crest.
The nodding in the background, though…😂😂😂
People meditate. What is that? CLEARING YOUR MIND!!
Wait; so my husband ISN’T flicking his toothbrush on the mirror on PURPOSE??
ALL THESE YEARS I thought it was his get back at me because I stay home and don’t need to work because my personal financial situation allows for such!!
I LITERALLY THOUGHT that he was just pissed watching me sleep in the morning when he has to get up!! Geesh Thanks for that info!!
Look, I don't know how it keeps happening either! I try REALLY hard not to do it on my own mirror, and it just... it happens!
All except the sports one. When someone says "we" I usually ask what position they play. But I do yell at the TV like they can hear me
I love a hot shower. I've never heard of this aversion to hot showers.
Same.
🤭😆😂
Exactly 🎯💯
Nothing better than a long hot shower and getting properly clean 👍
I like a decently hot shower, but my ex would turn it up to 11 😂
I like hot showers as well....BUT my wife likes boiling hot, and that sir I can not do.
Did I miss something?
I can't shower without boiling myself like a lobster, even in the summer
Same here.
Same I get it as hot as I can stand it without burning myself.
Agreed. Thought I was an exception to this rule.
Same
Amen! Fellow lobster here.
She’s observant and smart.
i agree 100% - except the shower thing. that's quite an individual taste kind of thing. as a woman, hot shower desire is rare for me. growing up with 3 brothers before my decades of adult life bears the other stuff out!
She's young and she's making a "go" of it, good thing she has a since of humor. She's going to do okay.
I'm a man, and I didn't know these things about men.
How can they think about "nothing"😮😮😮😮
They REALLY aren't thinking about "ANYThing"
Depends on the guy I suppose. Only one that fits me is the "Nothing." part. We truly mean it. I don't watch sports so that part I don't care, but put on a good movie and I am with them LOL! Great video, Tom :)
I love her. Good girl.
Wow! She is spot on!
As a man who agrees with this woman, I'd like to see the enter population of women take male misogyny and unconcerned for them to task. Personally I welcome the conversation.
She is spot on…
You nailed it. 😂 hot showers and a cool bedroom. NO.🤣
🤣🤣 Hot showers and a cool bedroom (but with a warm blanket) are the best.
@@chronic2023 agreed
@@chronic2023Absolutely agree.
I can't take a hot shower. It has to only be kind of warm. I do use shampoo and soap when I am washing myself.
She is correct on this point.
Not for me, I take them all the time.
LOL-true❤you gotta love men💕
That's because saying im thinking of buying a big freezer might alert you to the future
The "nothing box" is the craziest thing to me! I have 4,782 opens tabs and I can't tell where the music is coming from! At. All. Times.
If it's steaming, that's close to/past the boiling point of water. No shit I don't want that crap!
well, only some of the molecules are hot enough to be vaporized, it's more like taking a shower in a hot cup of tea...
It's not actual steam in a shower, more like fog. And the anti-scald valve on the hot water normally limits it to 120 degrees Fahrenheit.
No way your shower pours boiling hot water man😂 Don't get me wrong, I don't like hot showers either, but the max temp can't be anywhere near boiling
@@Random_Guy518 is the idea of exaggeration TOTALLY lost of people now?
I get it about the "what are you thinking?" blank. I think the buffer space clears when we're interrupted so we can have full space for the conversation. And I'm not a dude. I think it's a normal brain thing for some of the population.
Hot doesn't mean clean. Soap means clean.
She's batting about .5000
Anti-Scald valves are usually set at 120 degrees Fahrenheit, and are required in most of the civilized States. A shower starts to "steam" around 100 degrees (note this is not actual steam, more of a fog from the warm moist air mixing with the cooler air). She may have a point that HER man doesn't like hot showers but plenty of other men do and I think she's way off to generalize. BTW a typical sauna temp is between 150 and 195.
Hot water only strips the necessarily oils away, lukewarm showers with gentle soap is the way to go. And real soap too. If you're slightly chilled after the shower and need to bundle up to warm back up, you've done the shower correctly. If it's colder, the water isn't warm enough to do a good job, and if it's hotter, you're over-washing.
And this is why I have been blissfully single since leaving the ex over 30 years ago. It was easier on me and the kids for me to be a single parent working f/t plus managing the home and raising kids than it was to have the immature, lying, cheating jerk we had to cater to constantly. And my house stayed a hell of a lot cleaner, too.
So TRUE.
Oh dear, I've got a man-erism! I yell at goalies when they stray too far from the net. It's loud enough that they hear me. It's the only time my hubby has hear me yell.
When a guy if looking off in a distance and not talking, it`s because he has tune you out, he has peace.
Lol! Spot on about the shower
As a woman, I can't stand hot water. I much prefer warm water in the winter and luke warm or cool water in the summer.
I don't even turn on the cold water when I shower! I can't imagine having a lukewarm shower! 😂
Things, I wish I knew before I married my first husband.lol😂
Yup, they mean it. Honestly.
But I can't handle hot showers because I have bad skin. And when I brush my teeth, the foam flies!! 😂
Hot water is actually bad for your skin.
And not actually required for getting clean, like she suggests.
*I have no idea what she is talking about “zero tolerance to hot showers” as I need scolding hot showers all the time! (But then again: I am Canadian so it might be an American thing that doesn’t apply to those of us who live in the Great White North!)… As for the answering “Nothing” about what we are thinking: Look-up “the Nothing Box” and that guy explains it PERFECTLY!* 😂👍
It can't be nothing!
The secret nothing box? How did she learn this secret?!?
It's not so much that we aren't thinking about "nothing." In my case it's that I end up diving down some odd thought chain in my own head. I have had some ideas that I think were just amazing, but the moment I snap back to the present they are gone, like everything that fell down that hole near the end of "Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade." I once had some amazing idea of an Animal Crossing crossover with The Legend of Zelda, but once I came out of that it was all gone. All I know is that it happened in my head.
HOT SHOWERS ARE NECESSARY ONLY IN THE WINTER...& I DON'T SPLATTER TOOTHPASTE ALL OVER THE MIRROR. I'M WAYYY DIFFERENT
NOT LIKE THE OTHER MEN 😂 honestly same about the showers though. also I'm pretty sure the only guys who get toothpaste on the mirror are the ones who don't wipe the toilet seat down when they sprinkle on it 🤭
I must be the exception, because I need my showers HOT! I can't stand being cold, if there's not steam in that bad boy when I'm done, it wasn't hot enough😂
About hot showers - when I was around 10-11 years old I liked hot baths, like +40 degrees celsius. Today (or when being and adult) I would scream like hell going into that.
She’s pretty accurate on most of those things, pretty adorable and seems sweet too, that fellar has a pretty cool wife.
Oh my god, the shower thing. I didn't know this was universal. My husband is Mexican, whereas I'm of Norwegian descent, so you'd think he'd be the one able to tolerate heat better. And yet...
I agree with everything she is saying except for the hot showers I LOVE A HOT SHOWER!!
My husband takes way too hot showers. I take as cool as I can 😂
I always thought I was weird, now I know it’s just her husband who’s weird. I have never taken a ‘lukewarm’ shower. It’s either whistling through the pipes or freezing in the air. No in between.
😂😂😂😂 she’s so cute ❤
Showers should be as hot as possible without causing actual burns IMO; it's good for the skin and muscles.
Screaming at the TV during a Bears game is a proud family tradition...
I will stink before I take a cold shower. I've built houses in Texas for over 30 years and I take hot showers when I get off of work. I've fallen asleep in the shower more times than I can remember because the hot water makes me drowsy to the point of sleeping.
The shower beers might have a little to do with it as well but I blame the hot water.
My Fiancee takes Scalding Showers!!!
When you’re closer to the shower head, the warmer the water. Could be a factor.
Hang on. I'm a man, and I ONLY do hot showers. If I don't look like a lobster when I get out, it's not hot enough. I use an electric toothbrush and I've never had toothpaste splatter anywhere.
I don't even brush my teeth in front of the mirror. I usually walk out and sit in front of the TV until I'm done. I don't need a mirror I can feel where my teeth are.
@@dracul691 lol yeah I know. My teeth are in the same place every time. If you need a mirror to find them, you may be a Trump supporter.
I am not really a sports fan but when after watching Endgame WE beat Thanos.
Run girl run
If there's steam coming from that shower, it's either cold in there or it's too damn hot.
My husband LOVES boiling hot showers. He gets out looking like a lobster. I honestly don't understand how he can take that, I HATE hot showers. Lukewarm for me, but I always end with cold water because it just makes me feel refreshed. If I have to take a shower after him, the first thing I do is turn the temp WAY down 😂😂
Awesome
My husband actually takes showers so hot that his skin is red when he comes out. And I'm actually the one who talks to the TV 😂 but the rest is right for us too.
Maps also know how to read maps and drive around town without GPS (we gotta be ready when the zombie apocalypse happens and satellites go down). If we’ve been to one place before, we’re going to keep challenging ourselves to figure out how to get there without GPS the next time. It’s just how we are 😅
I've never liked hot showers. Prefer lukewarm 😂
Thinking about "Nothing" can also mean that witty comeback we failed to say last week, the relative taste of two burger joints and which one we want to go to this week, and whether or not that was _really_ a plothole in the movie... and the realization that none of these are an interesting topic of conversation, so... "nothing."
Showers aren't hot enough, the hot water runs out too fast, and I brush my teeth, manually, in the shower, so the mirror is fine. I don't care about any sports.
You do you, and I'll do me.
Stay safe, and try to find a reason to be happy, everyone.
I don't need the water to scald the dirt off me, that's what soap is for.
When a man stares off in the distance, he's usually thinking about how trebuchet are vastly superior to catapults...
...usually.
You're supposed to wash with soap, not disinfect by scolding 😂
I know many men who like showers that make them look like a lobster when they're done though. I personally very much don't
OMG, as a woman, my shower must be hot, hot, hot.
Look lady.......
It's NOT the TV that enables two way communication regarding sports.......
It's the BRO CODE......That allows worldwide shit to be talked about, language agnostic.
Actually, I like really hot showers, most showers don't get hot enough for me. I've had partners cuddle up to me because I'm warm, then they wake up in the morning as a soaked sweaty mess.
Water vapor is not steam. If the water was as hot as she claims, she would be in the burn center.
The shower thing isn't always true. I am a man who loves a shower that's almost scalding. Cold showers feel like a punishment.
Lmao lady in the summer i take cold showers
I'm opposite on the shower temp. I want that sh*t to be hot enough to make instant coffee. And I want pressure like a car wash.
I take wicked hot showers.
But, she is ADORABLE.
When i say I'm fine, that usually means "I'm fine not talking about anything at the moment."
Best.
\m_
The hot shower thing. My ex would turn the shower up past the safety, where you had to press the spring loaded button to go past a certain point. I'd jump in after and literally get scolded.
Bill Burr has best response😂
she really needs to get to know more men... My heat tolerance for showers would kill my wife... I couldn't care less about sports and my bathroom mirror is clean.
As a guy I take hot showers.
Men do.
Wait til she gets to tools 😂
I disagree about the temperature of the shower water. That only counts if it's super hot outside.
To those of you that say "I like hot showers!"
Is it HOT? Or is it HOT TO YOU?
Amd I say this as a guy. I like what I think are hot showers. But wife disagrees with my definition of "hot"
I am missing this experience. I am weird.
Huh? (Almost) Everything she said wasn't even remotely spot on. Her husband doesn't represent every other man out there either.
I was thinking the same thing 😂
How did you not notice all of these things about before you married?
Lol. I was married to a man, and then dated 2men who all LOVED hot showers. The three of them were not into sports (except the last one liked Hockey, and, yes, yelled at the giant screen as if they could hear). So, really, one can’t make generalizations, though men are a bit less complicated than women.
Don't watch sports.
Hot showers are fine.
I use an Oral-B and I never splatter toothpaste on the mirror! Who brushes with their mouth wide open? That's the only way I could see getting toothpaste splatter on the mirror! I also use an electric water pik too, still no splatter!
Do not take a hot shower you can actually give yourself a stroke, heart attack.
Steam showers at residential us not hot, ut can be ser as warm water hot steam.
As well not sure if people do this yet or not. When ready to brush your teeth, first use mouthwash to rinse your mouth. Then brush your teeth rince with a little water.
Thinking of nothing is how my brain defragments. Please do not interrupt defragmentation.
The shower thing is purely individual preference, but the rest seem pretty spot on 😂 (though I don’t have an electric toothbrush to blame it on 😮)