You Are More Sinister & Evil Than You Think

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  • Опубліковано 16 чер 2024
  • #shadow #selfimprovement #shadowwork
    The Shadow/Dark Side is an archetype that consists of the sex and life instincts. The Shadow/Dark Side exists as part of the unconscious mind and is composed of repressed ideas, weaknesses, desires, instincts, and shortcomings.
    The Shadow/Dark Side forms out of our attempts to adapt to cultural norms and expectations. It is this archetype that contains all of the things that are unacceptable not only to society, but also to one's own personal morals and values.
    Time Code:
    Know Your Dark Sides: 0:00 - 2:25
    Violence: 2:26 - 3:41
    Greed: 3:42 - 6:28
    Lust: 6:29 : 8:31
    Deception: 8:32 - 10:58
    Vengeance: 10:59 - 12:59
    Narcissism: 13:00 - 15:36
    Your Dark Side Hides Your True Potential: 15:37 - 17:00

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  • @Forged88
    @Forged88  3 місяці тому

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  • @clockmaker9273
    @clockmaker9273 Рік тому +3603

    I think, that everyone has great potential for evil. We simply chose not to be, which makes me appreciate good people even more

    • @revanchistyes8033
      @revanchistyes8033 Рік тому +167

      “Of all evil I deem you capable: Therefore I want good from you. Verily, I have often laughed at the weaklings who thought themselves good because they had no claws.” -Nietzsche

    • @alonglostmemory1908
      @alonglostmemory1908 Рік тому +58

      Nowadays we are on a edge as humanity is turning darker every single days.

    • @atanaZion
      @atanaZion Рік тому

      @@alonglostmemory1908 Definitely not
      Just look at anything from the past century
      In less than 30 years we had racial segregation in the USA
      Nowadays we have BLM

    • @borntoclimb7116
      @borntoclimb7116 Рік тому +2

      Thats right

    • @clockmaker9273
      @clockmaker9273 Рік тому +31

      @@RadicallyGreen alright, being a hitman pays better than an office job.
      Ill asume youre not a hitman

  • @HaasSpitta
    @HaasSpitta Рік тому +2994

    “Do not think of these dark qualities as evil or bad. As all they want is an adequate amount of expression, like other thoughts and emotions”

    • @nunya887
      @nunya887 Рік тому +84

      The problem i have with the quote you wrote is it gives bad people an excuse to do bad things and not feel bad for doing them

    • @CarlosGarcia-nt4wf
      @CarlosGarcia-nt4wf Рік тому +125

      @@nunya887 these dark qualities arent bad. When you suppress them and then you lash out with dark actions, then it's an issue. I see what you mean but even you and I have dark qualities but we for what ever reason don't do batshit crazy things. I'd like to say I was raised right in a good family but laws have also stopped me and many pplz from doing some things as the juice ain't worth the squeeze. Bad guys dont give a dam

    • @HALFPINTSHAWTY
      @HALFPINTSHAWTY Рік тому +7

      @@nunya887 ⁰⁰

    • @HaasSpitta
      @HaasSpitta Рік тому +38

      @@nunya887 you missed the point. The point is to express the darkness, so you don’t have to act upon it.

    • @HansenFT
      @HansenFT Рік тому +9

      @@HaasSpitta not sure one have to misunderstan that point in order to think that legit bad people could use it as a justification. I have seen myself, grown up around it actually, people who would twist otherwise true principles to justify legit bad behaviour. One example is advice like "you shouldn't be like a friend your own children" used as a justification for being hostile and mean. Doesn't mean I don't understand the point behind that advice. It just mean that I have seen people misuse it to defend evil behaviour.

  • @BlackGoId
    @BlackGoId Рік тому +1204

    We’re all different types of fucked up. We’re not evil. Just expressive.

    • @jeremiahtenorio9194
      @jeremiahtenorio9194 Рік тому +81

      No we are evil, we're all just in denial and expressive simultaneously.

    • @KJ-dv6pf
      @KJ-dv6pf Рік тому +13

      3D is dualistic

    • @blizzard1198
      @blizzard1198 Рік тому +79

      I do not believe anything is good or evil cause they are man made constructs these are all just my instincts for survival and as a human

    • @KJ-dv6pf
      @KJ-dv6pf Рік тому +19

      @@blizzard1198 exactly, its all perception

    • @Bopmyglizz
      @Bopmyglizz Рік тому +4

      @FuckOuttaHere 🥵😰😱😱😱😱

  • @vishalkurian634
    @vishalkurian634 Рік тому +954

    What is better? To be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort?
    - Paarthurnax, Skyrim

    • @sophiemendez5567
      @sophiemendez5567 Рік тому +58

      The 2nd one, because you understand why.

    • @giovannijohnson1885
      @giovannijohnson1885 Рік тому +21

      Did Paarthunax say that? Praise talos

    • @Gematrinator
      @Gematrinator Рік тому +15

      Nobody is born “good” did u not realise ur living in hell

    • @martingaledaily6426
      @martingaledaily6426 Рік тому +16

      @@Gematrinator is this hell? Seriously I've been debating with myself as to whether or not earth is hell for the last few years

    • @Lyu-Phy
      @Lyu-Phy Рік тому +2

      I choose born. But the other one def has appeal.

  • @ckelly19841
    @ckelly19841 Рік тому +1714

    Great explanation of individual flaws we all have. Taking the good with the bad.
    We don't vanquish our demons. We learn to live above them - The Ancient One

    • @camramaster
      @camramaster Рік тому +2

      Ah yes. Demons. And here's my shotgun!

    • @vicky121wicky3
      @vicky121wicky3 Рік тому +3

      @Konstantin Simic damn I don’t have an option?

    • @naitorou8928
      @naitorou8928 Рік тому

      @@vicky121wicky3 when you're on the internet you should always expect to have Christianity shoved down your throat

    • @Chillseer
      @Chillseer Рік тому

      @Konstantin Simic I don't want to be saved. I'm playing on one life mode. Don't need checkpoints...

    • @alvindimes4729
      @alvindimes4729 Рік тому

      @@vicky121wicky3 Why don't you have an option? 🙄

  • @TomekZylMusic
    @TomekZylMusic Рік тому +848

    Had some philosophical conversations with a friend whilst getting tipsy and baked for hours, then later that night this is the first video I get recommended. This guideline fits the narrative of what was discussed. Phones listen, but this was an ace of a presentation 👏

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  Рік тому +68

      Thank you mate 👊

    • @creezonline
      @creezonline Рік тому +12

      Followed your work for a while, badboi producer. Makes sense how your mind must work, some of us musicians channel our craft from a deeper place.

    • @interesting2491
      @interesting2491 Рік тому +9

      The best kind of conversations

    • @qei431.
      @qei431. Рік тому +11

      Phones definitely listen 👂

    • @yrooxrksvi7142
      @yrooxrksvi7142 Рік тому +5

      The lesson : weed is a braincell killer and you need to lay it off.

  • @slimshady4life689
    @slimshady4life689 Рік тому +176

    I can’t remember exactly how to quote goes but Friedrich Nietzsche said “if you spend too long looking into the abyss, the abyss looks into you” one of my favorite quote

    • @reefread1234
      @reefread1234 Рік тому +1

      life is alot of mirrors like figuratively

    • @Fizzy332
      @Fizzy332 Рік тому +1

      i never understood that qoute

    • @slimshady4life689
      @slimshady4life689 Рік тому +22

      @@Fizzy332 if you spend too long looking into the darkness the darkness will start to seep into your soul. Basically if your constantly around negative stuff then your behavior will start to portray that negative stuff you’ll have a negative perspective, think negative thoughts, and perform negative actions

    • @SpeedKing..
      @SpeedKing.. Рік тому +3

      @@slimshady4life689 it has a bunch of meanings and one of them is that

    • @SpeedKing..
      @SpeedKing.. Рік тому +1

      @randomly determined tf

  • @shashwatmishra7305
    @shashwatmishra7305 Рік тому +477

    "Violence is what happens when rage accumulates past breaking point and becomes unable to satiste itself through the right forms of expressions."
    @Mr Forged , the amount of detailing of the shadowwork thesis you have managed to effectively distill into this "masterful artwork" of yours can easily give a clinical psychologist a run for their money.
    Respect brother.

    • @AM-gx3dy
      @AM-gx3dy Рік тому +13

      Even MLK said that violence is the language of those tired of being unheard

    • @starwoodanime1532
      @starwoodanime1532 Рік тому +3

      Okay but what about people who are always extremely voient?

    • @AM-gx3dy
      @AM-gx3dy Рік тому +5

      @@starwoodanime1532 Then I will look at the people they are always violent towards...I must find some clue there

    • @shashwatmishra7305
      @shashwatmishra7305 Рік тому +8

      @@starwoodanime1532 Aggression with no seeming reasonability attached to it implicates directly to a pathological state of mind where the aggressor lacks in self esteem and to avoid this truth he cognitively convinces himself of being the" big bad dad" by bullying others, putting their integrity to question so that no one dares to drag their unworthiness to the court.
      In my opinions such people aren't aggressors but mere impostors and if you can put up an even more aggressive front to them , they would retreat . In Political Science we call it strategic deterrence.

    • @alexanderellis4059
      @alexanderellis4059 Рік тому +2

      @@starwoodanime1532 they have a very low threshold for that breaking point probably from years of accumulation with no vent.

  • @nunyabidness6820
    @nunyabidness6820 Рік тому +535

    i have no words to describe this masterpiece !

  • @reanetsemoleleki8219
    @reanetsemoleleki8219 Рік тому +319

    This seems to be the only "manosphere" type youtube channel that understands that masculinity starts with self control.

    • @Jessuschavez
      @Jessuschavez Рік тому +4

      Right like claim down life’s short

    • @Richie_Godsil
      @Richie_Godsil Рік тому +4

      Stardusk (His channel is called Thinking Ape, if you're not familiar) is also very stoic and analytical. He flirts with black pill knowledge, perhaps excessively, but is focused on personal contentment given that life is harsh and unfair.

    • @reanetsemoleleki8219
      @reanetsemoleleki8219 Рік тому

      @Mr Unknown what does that have to do with my comment?

    • @J.ROD_CLASSIFIED
      @J.ROD_CLASSIFIED Рік тому

      There is no masculinity or feminity, there is just nature and instinct. You've been told a lie.

    • @mohammedjafer9265
      @mohammedjafer9265 Рік тому

      Hamza teaches peak masculinity

  • @mirj.347
    @mirj.347 Рік тому +137

    Dude, you just nailed it. I haven’t listened to someone like you, explaining what the shadow is, that has understood what it actually is.

  • @gama5942
    @gama5942 Рік тому +6

    "You're more evil than you think"
    Bro exactly

  • @danny91pr
    @danny91pr Рік тому +27

    I once had an acid trip where I kinda saw some of the evil that was inside me. At the time I came to the conclusion that I was a monster. Some time after that I came to the conclusion that just because I have the capability to be a monster, does not mean that I have to be one. That being said to this day I don't believe I can ever share with anyone just how dark the darkests dephts of my soul are.

    • @JR-iz1ee
      @JR-iz1ee Рік тому +5

      I feel that to some extent. I worry that I’ll never have any partner with the darkness in my soul. It’s terrifying. I worry the darkness will deepen if I don’t talk to anyone.

    • @danny91pr
      @danny91pr Рік тому +7

      @@JR-iz1ee I think it's possible that you find someone who will love all of you including the ugly parts. Finding a good partner is hard under any circumstance. On your other point I think that no matter how open you are with someone there will always be parts of you that only you can know. Also keep in mind this is not a matter of of good vs evil. It's a matter of socially acceptable or not. Something that has helped me is writing down my thoughts. Keep a journal and start by being honest with yourself, without judgment. Don't try to deny your wants, fantasies or desires, bring them all to light even if you don't share with anyone. By writing it down you are recognizing it exists as a part of you. And remember again in this context darkness does not mean evil, it means hidden. I think that's an important distinction.

    • @SHANEO144
      @SHANEO144 Рік тому +1

      I can't describe my dark tendencies either but I've never been on an acid trip, I just see them clear as day, sometimes I'm scared of myself

    • @jbellflower83
      @jbellflower83 Рік тому +9

      We all have it in us. I've certainly faced some very dark thoughts that I hope to God I never actually act on. As a man I have certain desires and needs and sometimes that line of thinking has taken me to a place that is not good. I choose to keep those thoughts in my head and not act them out in real life but they are always just below the surface waiting for me when I'm on my pillow at night trying to fall asleep. Especially if I'm intoxicated then those thoughts flow out much more strongly.

    • @mohammedjafer9265
      @mohammedjafer9265 Рік тому

      They are the devil whispering in our mind and let's the evil jinns to persuade us

  • @Niggcolo
    @Niggcolo Рік тому +4

    “You know far too much to be left alive.”
    -Sun Tzu Art of War

  • @azurelectrium1100
    @azurelectrium1100 Рік тому +36

    I love how he not only expressed the problem and explained it. But he also proposed / suggested and explained solutions to such problems.

  • @rocketknoxler6516
    @rocketknoxler6516 Рік тому +49

    Ever since accepting my darker side, I have been so much happier in day to day life. Once you realise that no one is perfect and everybody has fucked up thoughts to varying degrees now and then, the world begins to feel a little more real.

  • @someguy4003
    @someguy4003 Рік тому +6

    We are not born good or bad. We are born adequate to survive

  • @Tototoo88
    @Tototoo88 Рік тому +4

    There is no such thing as a 'Good Person'
    There is only those trying to be Good.
    We should all strive for it.

  • @benhughes9838
    @benhughes9838 Рік тому +192

    "Everyone has a Beast. I have found three ways of responding to it, and three consequences:
    You can Cage it, and clean up the messes when it breaks free.
    You can run with it, and lose sight of who you are.
    Or you can Tame It, and achieve your possibility." -Me

    • @reefread1234
      @reefread1234 Рік тому +10

      its like an unbridled wild horse or a wild dog that ultimately neeeds to be tamed wants to be directed but sadly society doesn't raise people with the tools to tame it so we drug it sex it numb it and run from ut instead of see it as wild and cautiously love and tame it objectively

    • @MemesterTheMaster
      @MemesterTheMaster Рік тому

      Or learn how to control yourself.

    • @benhughes9838
      @benhughes9838 Рік тому +2

      @@MemesterTheMaster "Controlling Yourself" indicates two possibilities. Would you rule your self with shame and a rod of iron?

    • @BlazeCon97
      @BlazeCon97 Рік тому +2

      If you lose sight of who you are when you run with your beast, you're never gonna achieve any kind of potential/possibility within yourself. The other side of your brain is not a wild animal, it just needs guidance and to learn

    • @benhughes9838
      @benhughes9838 Рік тому

      @@BlazeCon97 Exactly/

  • @SkyBoxGaming
    @SkyBoxGaming Рік тому +17

    Oh trust me, my darkest thoughts are always at the surface, the things I've thought of make me question if I'm a psychopath, the fact that I have empathy and a conscious prove otherwise... still terrifies me nonetheless

  • @QUIETFLAME
    @QUIETFLAME Рік тому +75

    Man, the whole 17 minutes you were literally just spitting facts! Subscribed.

  • @Iracus9431
    @Iracus9431 Рік тому +34

    Just found your channel and its pure gold . Stay strong brother.

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  Рік тому +7

      Much appreciated for your support brother 👊 more are coming

  • @AIMusicFF
    @AIMusicFF Рік тому +3

    Violence is so true, i was a calm person never thinking of a fight but i keep training, and now i just rlly want to unleash my skills onto someone

  • @RahulMehra0361
    @RahulMehra0361 Рік тому +11

    Every man is a beast, it will come out once start living in absolute loneliness.
    Modern man are too scared to stay alone, as they see people in groups enjoying outside, but always embrace your loneliness, greatest invention came out from staying alone.

  • @viiyaxyz
    @viiyaxyz Рік тому +4

    I'm so glad to have found this video and through it, this channel.
    Thank you for this, especially for what you've stated towards the end. Helps me realize which direction to steer into.
    New sub.

  • @RealGigaMind
    @RealGigaMind Рік тому +4

    Every human is capable of being so much evil that even satan would be ashamed, but also has capability to do good that even Angels would be surprised.

  • @DarthGizzle
    @DarthGizzle Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this video, I really needed to learn this. Definitely subscribed

  • @sigmaloner5611
    @sigmaloner5611 Рік тому +57

    I love this video. You're absolutely right about a lot of things you discussed in this video. I have all the 5 characteristics bottling up inside me. It's been like since i turned 14 and now i am 19. I have severe anxiety and depression due to unexpressiveness. Repressing your emotions is not the answer fellas.

    • @Jade_holloway
      @Jade_holloway Рік тому +2

      All people want these days are labels. Seems like everyone wants to identify as being sick or anxious or depressed etc.

    • @godemperorofmankind7255
      @godemperorofmankind7255 Рік тому

      @@Jade_holloway Seems like you're just ignoring people with real psychological issues and blaming it on people 'identifying' that way. Honestly dude, that kind of mentality is going to get people killed. For shame.

    • @i_am_funny
      @i_am_funny Рік тому

      @@Jade_holloway yeah for a happy fulfilling life one has to do something of their own like creative work or job or asking a girl out, acting out on slightest of the sadness is not being depressed, it's being weak, it implies you are not able to take blows.

    • @Strippz
      @Strippz Рік тому

      When people watch videos to and try ''classify'' what or who they are that's a real problem.
      When you call yourself a Sigma then say you have depression and anxiety..guess what?
      You're not a sigma..it's a title you have given yourself to make you feel better.

    • @i_am_funny
      @i_am_funny Рік тому

      @@Strippz seek therapist not women no one is your emotional dumping ground, leave people alone.

  • @pablodarko84
    @pablodarko84 Рік тому +42

    Wow, this video blew me away. Such an amazing piece of true content. We don't get to hear these words of wisdom very often. Definitely a treasure among the ruins of this fading and dying tube.

  • @azielgizem2588
    @azielgizem2588 Рік тому +39

    You can only be as good as your bad. So next time someone says they are a good person always remember it took doing bad and wrong to become truly good. How else can you learn if you don’t make mistakes?

    • @ameybirulkar7503
      @ameybirulkar7503 Рік тому

      Hi there. Can you please elaborate more on this? Your comment is interesting. Thanks in advance

    • @Diddancing
      @Diddancing Рік тому

      @@ameybirulkar7503 my impression on the comment is that it takes someone truly capable of evil to be good. that is, we all walk this grey line and whether or not you integrate your shadow will depend on your ability to know evil and overcome your mind or let evil overcome you which generally translates to deviating to the dark side. You generally don't want to be the good guy all the time lest you get walked over. Not responding, as in standing up for yourself or at least being stoic will result in mental health conditions like anxiety and depression both of which are generally considered worse than physical pain.

  • @kumaSOevl
    @kumaSOevl Рік тому

    Subbed. This channel is awesome, calming, and makes so much sense

  • @ktear
    @ktear Рік тому +3

    “For it is according to nature, and nothing is evil which is according to nature. - Marcus Aurelius

  • @NotThatGuyAgain_
    @NotThatGuyAgain_ Рік тому +79

    Rape isn't always about sex, its also about control over another person.

    • @qei431.
      @qei431. Рік тому +32

      Yep just like murder 😆

    • @VindensSaga
      @VindensSaga Рік тому

      That's also why you have men raping other men.

    • @hannaosterlund5974
      @hannaosterlund5974 Рік тому +3

      Agreed, it’s about power. When you don’t have power over anything else or just crave more power

    • @lethargictroll6788
      @lethargictroll6788 Рік тому

      Using rape to control is inhuman. Like damn. Raping to satisfy a long, built up desire that’s been denied? Unforgivable but understandable. Raping to force an individual to submit and for no other purpose? That’s not a human, it’s a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

  • @travismaxey8921
    @travismaxey8921 Рік тому +4

    One cannot truly understand their capacity for good until they come to terms with their capacity to carry out acts of great evil

  • @michaelmartin1184
    @michaelmartin1184 Рік тому

    I feel like you just explained me in a video. I've been looking to deal with my problems and you put it the best way for me. Thank you

  • @HypnosisBear
    @HypnosisBear Рік тому +1

    I absolutely loved this gem of a Video! You are my type of person. Your thoughts and ideas align with mine! Thank you very much! Subscribed!

  • @ricardomurillo5205
    @ricardomurillo5205 Рік тому +66

    We must accept are all guilty of many of these behaviors to different degrees and often wrong in self assessing its severity. Great video. Understanding, observing, chanelling, defending and mastering these will give us an edge. It's a life battle between remission and virtuous construction

    • @Garnansoa
      @Garnansoa Рік тому

      Just be a decent person and dont indulge in bad things

  • @siegfriedo
    @siegfriedo Рік тому +3

    This is superb content.
    And the narration is immaculate.
    Good job. 💥

  • @matheusfrota95
    @matheusfrota95 Рік тому

    Very well articulated, Sir.
    Thanks for the upload.

  • @theogosling9397
    @theogosling9397 Рік тому

    This is one of if not the best channel on youtube, thanks for this great video
    The quality of this video and the channel is tremendous

  • @l.d.p.9365
    @l.d.p.9365 Рік тому +69

    My father told me, " we can choose to be knights or beasts. I CHOOSE to be a knight and you must make that choice for yourself my son. Remember, being a knight is far more difficult but also, in the end, it is far more rewarding."

    • @SpeedKing..
      @SpeedKing.. Рік тому +3

      Wise dad

    • @EnclaveSgt
      @EnclaveSgt Рік тому +6

      but being a wild beast sounds like so much more fun. knights have too much chivalry and armor and cringe courtly manners

    • @walterwhite5764
      @walterwhite5764 Рік тому +6

      @@EnclaveSgt search up metaphor in the dictionary

    • @EnclaveSgt
      @EnclaveSgt Рік тому +4

      @@walterwhite5764 no

    • @doesntmatter4477
      @doesntmatter4477 Рік тому +1

      Fucking lol my guy

  • @evansketches
    @evansketches Рік тому +7

    This is just what I needed to learn because I am currently learning about Ethics and Morality. I think I'll bring some of these videos' points up during class👍

  • @HugoTron
    @HugoTron Рік тому +1

    This is a breath for me. Thank you I had to understand this.

  • @qcbelzebuth7083
    @qcbelzebuth7083 Рік тому +4

    I grew up with a father and mother who abuse me and my sister. Violence start when I was 3 years old and I saw my mother with a black eyes. I told her that I would protect her versus bad man. At the same time I was so afraid of my father and was obviously too weak du to my age. So i grew up with lots of frustration, feeling of powerless, anxiety and vengeance in my hearth. At school it was not better for me... i got bullied cause people knew I had 0 confidence. I know how evil human can be and even today I have to learn to control the inner monster. If hell exist then we are in it. Most job I had was exploitation, manipulation, greed and corruption. Human are miserable and today my most beautiful moment in life is when I'm alone.

    • @redrosenevercry3180
      @redrosenevercry3180 11 місяців тому

      I got abused by my mother when I was just a little kid because I broke the closet door by mistake

    • @redrosenevercry3180
      @redrosenevercry3180 11 місяців тому

      Sorry to hear that ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @yannis.yeegeo
    @yannis.yeegeo Рік тому +2

    Brilliant work. Deep.
    Thank you

  • @Stavrosstavrosstavros
    @Stavrosstavrosstavros Рік тому +17

    Stay safe guys. The greatest fight will last your whole life against the evil inside. But if you fight it off, and let the good inside you grow with you, you will realise how much stronger and happier good can make you. In the end all will know

    • @iminyourcity4001
      @iminyourcity4001 Рік тому

      I agree very wise words, you are a smart man

    • @mohammedjafer9265
      @mohammedjafer9265 Рік тому

      Exactly life is a test if you want to pass go pass the illness in your heart and move on with a positive thinking

  • @rikudo282
    @rikudo282 Рік тому

    Very valuable information here.
    Thank you... I needed to hear this

  • @ServeraServera0
    @ServeraServera0 Рік тому +2

    I really wanted a video like this, glad that it exists

  • @Newsbirdie
    @Newsbirdie Рік тому +15

    I love how you explain. Keep it up.

  • @keeshuunedited5678
    @keeshuunedited5678 Рік тому +132

    Definitely feels like everyone has varying degrees of all of these. However I don't feel like all of these apply to everyone. They definitely apply to most people though.
    For me personally:
    Violence - Nah. Even when I was hallucinating and losing my mind and couldn't control my emotions due to sleep deprivation for many many months from working too many hours in a fast paced stressful work environment, I never hurt anyone. Now that I've gone through that experience, I won't let myself get that close ever again, so I should never hurt anyone out of rage.
    Greed - As a kid growing up, almost nothing made me happy, so when I discovered video games could make me happy, I just wanted to have all the video games to have all the experiences to not feel bored or depressed.
    However, as time goes on the more I choose to not let myself want things, the more relaxed and happy I am. The older I get, the more I want nothing.
    Still gonna want enough money to live in a house with enough food and a place to sleep though. Hard to think, exercise, or anything else to take care of yourself when you're sleep deprived. Also the ability to communicate with people through the phone or internet is invaluable because people are often so busy nowadays that there won't be time to exchange ideas.
    Lust - Man I just want hugs.
    Quite a few people want me to do sexual things with them, but all I wanna do is talk and relax. I dunno if I'm asexual, or just a pansexual with a really really low sex drive. After all, whenever I accidentally slip into the habit of having some chocolate, I realize I get horny everyday when that happens, more so with dark chocolate. Been looking into ways to be a bit more sexually active, buuut being cautious as I have too many other things that are much higher priority.
    Deception - I've always told myself to never lie.
    With that said, I do steer conversations to be a certain way. Usually either for a joke, or so someone focusing on improving and being happy instead of looking for excuses to hate others. The description used for highly decptive people in this video does follow closely with the most manipulative people I've ever known. They know how to ride the line between what is bad and what is acceptable. I most definitely like the advice at the end there, I can't say anything about it but I needed to say that it was great.
    Vengeance - I've had many reasons to want revenge because of how some people treated me growing up, but I never let myself give into that. Why I thought that ever since I was a kid, I dunno. Probably Batman TAS with the many characters going through negative feelings and the episodes having a recurring theme of it's okay to feel those emotions, but not allow them to make you do terrible things to others.
    Now revenge has always felt great if it just so happens to come alongside something I was going to do anyways. I just never let it become a determining factor of my choices, I have too many other things to worry about. I do not blame people for giving into revenge though, hatred is one of the most powerful motivators out there. However, hatred is like playing with fire, if used improperly, you'll burn yourself and everyone else around you. Far too often I've seen people let revenge ruin everyone's lives, and it doesn't even make them feel better, it just makes their own life worse.
    I'll probably never go into revenge again because I gotta say listening to Baiken's theme from Guilty Gear Strive makes me feel all sappy because it's basically her going through the whole phase of giving into revenge most of her life. Eventually she stops and is now trying to stop going after revenge, and stop others from walking the painful path that she chose. Now she's trying to heal, instead of giving into revenge.
    Narcissism - Definitely guilty of this one. Always tried to improve, so it feels nice to look back and see the progress I've made, but it can leave me to be overconfident sometimes. I have to remind people to let me know if I'm doing dumb things.
    Overall amazing video. Gave me something to ponder before sleeping. I look forward to seeing your other videos. I see Guts from Berserk in the thumbnail about self improvement, so I'm already intrigued.

    • @jrkasaurus
      @jrkasaurus Рік тому +27

      Remember these are facets of your subconscious and you won’t be able to see them in yourself hence you denying them, they’re called the shadow for a reason no one is 100% self aware

    • @jrkasaurus
      @jrkasaurus Рік тому +12

      Not hating, just saying

    • @keeshuunedited5678
      @keeshuunedited5678 Рік тому +9

      ​@@jrkasaurus I often talk with friends about things to make sure we don't do dumb things, that way I can fix whatever it is if I'm doing something bad. Though I didn't quite take into consideration that they might be glossing over and denying bad things about me as well, or maybe pretending that the bad thing might be a trait they like about me so I don't realize it's bad. Which can definitely lead down the road of, if everyone thinks it's good, is it bad? Then a whole slippery slope of other questions. After all, what's acceptable in some places, it looked down upon in other places.
      I do know I'm not 100% self aware. I have noticed that sometimes when watching back videos of myself playing games to finally get around to editing a video, but it's been too long to remember the game, I'll just do the same thing and be in the same mindset as what happens before the event in the game. Freaked me the heck out the first few times it happened because it made me realize that while people can always be thinking about multiple options on how everything is to avoid falling into traps, there is times where the brain will railroad into doing the same option and fail again, even though you supposedly learned from it in the past. Why that is I dunno. Perhaps it was a situation that led into a state of autopilot, or perhaps other life stuff bringing decision making back to where it originally was. Of course, some games are specifically designed to trick you with your decisions though.
      Also, spent most of my life playing video games alone or with randoms online, and never had a chance to talk about life stuff. So when I got VR and was able to talk about personal matters, it made me realize just how little I knew about myself because there never was a time for such things to be brought up. I know a lot more about myself than I previously did, but it makes me wonder just how much more of myself I do not know about. Of course, people do change overtime, so it's impossible to know everything about oneself at any moment in time.
      Sorry if that was a bit of a ramble, just about to head to sleep. Thanks for the interesting comment = )

    • @limitlessfelh1109
      @limitlessfelh1109 Рік тому +4

      I'd say start meditating and do introspection. You'll find them and stop justifying illusions.

    • @keeshuunedited5678
      @keeshuunedited5678 Рік тому +1

      @@limitlessfelh1109 I've been meditating and doing introspection for years. If I didn't do that, I'd still be incredibly miserable all the time like I was when I was a kid/teenager.
      Edit: With that said, always a nice piece of advice to give. Always nice to remind people = )

  • @guyperson9952
    @guyperson9952 Рік тому

    I like that this videos points out potential flaws, but also provides concrete examples of how to use them for a positive force

  • @anthonybramante2921
    @anthonybramante2921 Рік тому +2

    I like how you discuss each quality as a mean between two extremes.

  • @pamela_amor
    @pamela_amor Рік тому +22

    It's a core concept of the Gospel that man is deeply, utterly wicked. This is no surprise. But the Gospel also says man is redeemable because God says so and Jesus died on the cross for man to be reconciled and reformed to be just like Him. Sacrificial, loving, humble. You then acknowledge the innate evil in you and resolve to allow yourself to be changed and made better because of the grace God gave you.

    • @thesoulclinic_
      @thesoulclinic_ Рік тому +2

      Not necessarily utterly wicked there are two different lineages that separate those of the spirit of Christ (empaths) and those of the spirit of the serpent (narcissist ).

    • @pamela_amor
      @pamela_amor Рік тому +2

      @@thesoulclinic_ Okay I may be wrong. It rather means we cannot be made alive in the spirit and become good by our own power. We are all dead in sin, our trespasses, until the Spirit of God regenerates us to be set apart. I think those who are of the spirit of the serpent are those who willfully obey their desires instead of humbling themselves before God.

    • @dmnC1541
      @dmnC1541 Рік тому +1

      The small hats

    • @SynValorum1
      @SynValorum1 Рік тому

      @@dmnC1541 The big wigs

    • @lindamaemullins5151
      @lindamaemullins5151 Рік тому

      @@thesoulclinic_ Duality?

  • @ChiDante
    @ChiDante Рік тому +2

    You've got my follow. Amazingly direct information

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for your support mate 👊

  • @SilvioSalieri
    @SilvioSalieri Рік тому

    Dang, this was insightful and incredibly well presented. Thank you

  • @michaeljarvis8377
    @michaeljarvis8377 Рік тому +1

    Wtf. That was a masterpiece. So eloquently spoken. And it's true. I subbed

  • @edanpino-xt1ph
    @edanpino-xt1ph Рік тому +3

    This calls to mind something I either thought of myself or heard from someone else (been through a lot of head trauma and most of my past is pretty foggy). It basically goes as “you don’t know yourself until you perceive yourself as one of the worst people you know”

  • @williambobson3369
    @williambobson3369 Рік тому +11

    After a mugging in Detroit I've been struggling a lot. In exactly the way you were probably thinking. The mugger made sure to let me know that it was because I was White and that "this is "their" city." I don't think therapy can repair the trust issues I have now. But I have learned how to hide it better since.

    • @judgementkazzy1384
      @judgementkazzy1384 Рік тому +1

      I hate people who act like this cause they get so hypocritical when the same thing happens to them then they get all mad saying that we treat them unfairly when they say shit like this obviously not everyone but the ones that act like this

    • @williambobson3369
      @williambobson3369 Рік тому +1

      @@judgementkazzy1384 It's called the cycle of hatred. And it sucks (not saying I hate them I just kind of get cautious around them and feel guilty about it because I KNOW it's just those stuck in the ghetto mindset.). Hatred and mistrust begets hatred and mistrust begets hatred and mistrust and it just continues.

    • @lethargictroll6788
      @lethargictroll6788 Рік тому

      Don’t let a few bad apples spoil the bunch. I don’t know what the race they belong to, but I can promise you the whole race didn’t gather and vote and unanimously decide to mug you. They probably have shit filled, hatful lives anyway if they think mugging is the solution for racism. Pity them for their ignorance and perhaps carry a weapon so you can prevent something similar happening and stay safe buddy.

  • @harryevans4994
    @harryevans4994 Рік тому

    i know i've got some problems that many people would consider 'insane' but this video has really helped me to both more easily recognise the impact of these qualities and how to combat them, thank you so much

  • @GotPowers
    @GotPowers Рік тому +2

    This is honestly an AMAZING presentation.

  • @Acheesecak
    @Acheesecak Рік тому +12

    The thing I've learned this year is that when the need comes evil deeds start to make sense, having to reason with yourself not to do it. Might be in combination of psychological issues. Had this when I was at a low mentally, I was low on money and when I saw the cash register at a store filled with enough money to help me through the month, managed to pull myself away from the idea but it was scary how quickly civil ideas started to crumble when put to the blade

    • @doesntmatter4477
      @doesntmatter4477 Рік тому +2

      Good comment brother, people who haven't been hungry before can be easily fooled into believing they are above things like theft, robbery, violence, etc. Those ppl scare me more than so called criminals and I feel more comfortable around most so called criminals than rich people or even just middle class people sometimes. I don't mean criminal like gang members just people who have been in the gutter before and the gutter can be various things just hard times

    • @Acheesecak
      @Acheesecak Рік тому

      @@doesntmatter4477 you don't need a life of horrors to think of horrible things, all it takes is letting yourself slip deep enough into a small pit. Going through dark phases myself opened my eyes to how weirdly snobbish people think of themselves, acting like they be the peak of civility and humanity. It's weirder to feel ones sanity slip from them for a split second

    • @GreenSabre187
      @GreenSabre187 Рік тому

      at that point you literally just tried to survive friend. Would you call it greed if you dont want to starve? Thats exactly why you guys make me aggresive, for real, who cant get violent with stupid shit like this. YOUR MORALS ARE PERVERSE!!!!! so yes mate, i would have picked the money, when i have to decide if its me who hungers, or the big poor company, i choose the company. Youre saying literally, if you had to choose your own life, or the life of a faceless company, its the company? aight.

    • @Acheesecak
      @Acheesecak Рік тому

      @@GreenSabre187 It's not about greed or morals, it's about how thin the line between acting civil and the doing socialy based bad actions is and just how little it actually takes for these sorts of things to crumble. But I get what you mean. Some faceless company losing the equivilent of pocket change to keep me fed is nothing I'll ever argue with

  • @dustinnorton2154
    @dustinnorton2154 Рік тому +6

    Love the verbal mastery. This man, or whoever wrote his script, has a very balanced and intellectual vocabulary. I like your ying-yang philosophy.
    Def subscribing
    I must also weigh in-
    No one person is the same, and humanity is always changing and adapting. I personally don't relate with the vast majority of the points he speaks on. I love fighting, not meaningless fighting. More competitive and would prefer to fight in video games so no-one actually gets hurt. That is not to say I do not house a great deal of lust and I am not such a fool to believe I am better in anyway. All I am trying to get across is you are who you are. Don't create thoughts or emotion because someone tells you it's how you feel. You NEVER *have* to be something. You can always change and/or become better for those whom you love and the innocent who have known no better

    • @opticalraven1935
      @opticalraven1935 Рік тому

      We all believe we're better than we think we are. You are biased on how you see yourself.

    • @JixxarEntropy
      @JixxarEntropy Рік тому

      I feel like my situation is a bit similar to yours with the violance... Lust a bit diffrent for i just want to feel loved thats kinda it

  • @floydaprilweatherjr.3581
    @floydaprilweatherjr.3581 Рік тому

    This is one of the most important video that i ever seen in my life. Great job my friend.

  • @zenyi1459
    @zenyi1459 Рік тому

    This is incredible well articulated and expertly done

  • @Kyndeyern
    @Kyndeyern Рік тому +3

    Loved the pure logic and reality

  • @juanpablo4831
    @juanpablo4831 Рік тому +4

    I love how i understand i have these and I embrace it and i tell people we all have this in us and people look at me as if am less moral but no one ever understands they have these as well

    • @Berserker3624
      @Berserker3624 Рік тому

      My morals are based from my shadows, there's wisdom in reality and peace in understanding how the world works even if it is chaotic

    • @ernie9538
      @ernie9538 Рік тому

      Let me guess furries and LGBTQ?

  • @braahqwekutv3142
    @braahqwekutv3142 Рік тому +1

    I just found out this channel I'm hooked ....you earned a new subscriber 💝

  • @cupckaer9374
    @cupckaer9374 Рік тому +1

    Really interesting video made me think a lot though it, will definitely check out another of your videos

  • @vitamorse
    @vitamorse Рік тому +19

    Some of your best work mate 👌

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  Рік тому +2

      Thank you mate 👊

    • @vitamorse
      @vitamorse Рік тому

      @@Forged88 your content is second to none. Im sure it helps the youth along with us (me) relics progress. Your words don't discriminate. Much respect from Australia 🇦🇺

  • @jhonerickc.panopio7734
    @jhonerickc.panopio7734 Рік тому +4

    "No matter how much we suppress our animal instincts bury them on under layer of polish it was there for a reason. As we live in gentile fairytale world and when those fairytales turned into nightmares those instincts where the only things that kept us alive"
    -Ethan Wolfe.

  • @frxk1765
    @frxk1765 Рік тому

    I just found your channel today and I am glad I did, you just earned a sub. Good Video

  • @recreantjournals6723
    @recreantjournals6723 Рік тому +2

    This was incredibly enlightening

  • @Sylvaard
    @Sylvaard Рік тому +3

    We have all done bad things. I am not a religious man so I often fear I won’t ever be able to redeem myself for bad things I have done, big or small. Even small things like how I sometimes think about when I was young and my mother gave me a book mark with teddies on it but i pushed it away and asked her what’s wrong with her as I was a boy and boys aren’t supposed to like teddies right? Seeing her smile vanish from her face hurts me to this day. She was doing a nice thing and I was horrible in return. I was a dumb kid and I often feel bad for that moment and similar moments.

  • @AmericanCaesarian
    @AmericanCaesarian Рік тому +4

    15:20 this video plays a bit to my narcissism because of been telling people a lot of the shit in this before watching this video ( I watched a lot of psychology content and would often divulge such information as in this video, because I often came to the same conclusions after analyzing the content I chose to consume).
    Thank you for this masterpiece

  • @dylanjames6467
    @dylanjames6467 Рік тому

    I love your teachings, well done on finding your path brother
    You are well respected

  • @Bad_handle
    @Bad_handle Рік тому +1

    brilliant. excellent content. thanks for sharing

  • @adityaraju7094
    @adityaraju7094 Рік тому +5

    Classic Jung
    Brother, next video on development of articulated speech would be highly appreciated

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  Рік тому +3

      I'll include it within a major topic brother

  • @TheArmyofHades
    @TheArmyofHades Рік тому +4

    This reminds me of something that Hermes trismegistus used to say. ''They used arts forbidden. Forbidden because they come from below. One must not tread on the forces below, unless they have equilibrium''. You can use your darker side to achieve great effects. But you need balance first.

  • @guzunstefan4731
    @guzunstefan4731 Рік тому

    I am amazed, this clip is the best thing I've watched in a while

  • @darthmortis9960
    @darthmortis9960 Рік тому

    UA-cam recommendations actually working? This was a very well articulated video, and the first I've seen of this channel yet it won't be the last. Good work man. You provided a lot to think about

  • @r3alsenshi
    @r3alsenshi Рік тому +8

    I dig this world, I live in it, I experience it every damm day. I agree. It's just a confirm. Glad you created this channel. You've just earned a new "outcast" subscriber and many more to come.

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  Рік тому +1

      Thank you my friend 👊

  • @ResonantNewt
    @ResonantNewt Рік тому +13

    Great voice and articulation, you should be a narrator of sinister stories!!!

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88  Рік тому +2

      Thank you for the idea mate 👊

  • @gnomeking6568
    @gnomeking6568 Рік тому

    This was Extremely informative... Good video, excellent presentation.

  • @goshogoshev9672
    @goshogoshev9672 Рік тому +1

    Exceptional video, truly a masterpiece.

  • @daviddimalanta259
    @daviddimalanta259 Рік тому +16

    The best revenge is not to be like your enemy.
    -Marcus Aurelius
    ...
    You're right. I need to improve

  • @warrenbradford2597
    @warrenbradford2597 Рік тому +2

    That is why Jordan Peterson said we must awaken our inner psychopaths. You either become a monster willingly or accidentally.

    • @TheMessiahOfPoo
      @TheMessiahOfPoo Рік тому

      Jordan peterson is a joke

    • @warrenbradford2597
      @warrenbradford2597 Рік тому

      @@TheMessiahOfPoo I watched a video that Jordan Peterson is a pseudo-intellectual hack. I am not surprised that you would think that.

  • @ariayousefi9124
    @ariayousefi9124 Рік тому +1

    im flattered that i found you & this beautiful & Full of meaning Information

  • @jamesmarshall4093
    @jamesmarshall4093 Рік тому

    You've earned another subscriber 💯

  • @phasmaamoris9285
    @phasmaamoris9285 Рік тому +4

    When you mentioned about lust in the tribal age, it came into my mind the abduction of Sabine women in the mythological(-preRoman) era.

  • @jbellflower83
    @jbellflower83 Рік тому +9

    Definitely dealt with some darkness on the lust end of the spectrum. I've never actually done anything or acted any of it out in real life but I had a slightly sexual relationship with a cousin when we were kids growing up and I think it did something to me. I found myself having sexual thoughts about a cousin once removed that I'm not too proud of. Just saw her at a family get together one year and she had grown up and gotten real pretty. Obviously I've never talked about any of this with anyone as I'm obviously ashamed of these thoughts. I'm pretty sure I never would act on those thoughts as I never have the type to do anything illegal (aside from some substance issues over the years) but it scares me where I've gone in my head with this fantasy before.

    • @nativeamericancowboy5028
      @nativeamericancowboy5028 Рік тому +2

      I think that's rather normal. I have attractive cousins in my family too. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. That's how the human species perpetuates itself.

    • @nativeamericancowboy5028
      @nativeamericancowboy5028 Рік тому +2

      However, it's not normal to express that in public, but it's still pretty normal though.

    • @bad-bunnyblogger8171
      @bad-bunnyblogger8171 Рік тому

      The problem lies when you tell someone with an evil mind about these thoughts. They'll see this as a way to attack your inner mind (Soul) and convince you that you're not right in the mind. Rumours will spread and they'll use it to destroy you, just because it's entertaining to them.

    • @jbellflower83
      @jbellflower83 Рік тому

      @@nativeamericancowboy5028 well, I figured in this form I could express these thoughts. I've never told anybody in person about it. I know technically if someone really wanted to they could backtrack my UA-cam account and find out who I am but I'm pretty sure I'm unimportant enough that that won't happen.

    • @nativeamericancowboy5028
      @nativeamericancowboy5028 Рік тому

      @@jbellflower83 sex is pretty normal between a male and a female. Especially when they're around the same age.

  • @Igami_No_Io
    @Igami_No_Io Рік тому +2

    "You are more evil and sinister than you think"
    Me: Man, I think I'm gonna just sleep, that's evil enough.

  • @mirror9865
    @mirror9865 Рік тому

    Thanks this video made me feel that I need to be more expressive and the importance in physical and mental activities. (the lust part also generally scared me) flirting also should be mutually wanted!

  • @joshy0369
    @joshy0369 Рік тому +3

    Nice ☝ 😎

  • @AnnetteChiniquy
    @AnnetteChiniquy Рік тому +3

    My inner beast doesn't get to define what I become. Xoxo let's all tame our inner beast!

  • @walterwhite5764
    @walterwhite5764 Рік тому

    Damn this video is deep and well made and I thank you for putting my face in your video that made me very
    Happy

  • @zer8356
    @zer8356 Рік тому +3

    None of us are pure good. We all are evil inside

    • @QuietChaos7726
      @QuietChaos7726 Рік тому

      No such thing as good or evil. Just human perceptions.

    • @GenerationX1984
      @GenerationX1984 Рік тому +3

      @@QuietChaos7726 Spoken like a true psychopath. There are things that are universally good or evil across cultures. Moral relativism is a bunch of silly rubbish!

  • @matija21
    @matija21 Рік тому +4

    I have read a book about this 7 years ago and it helped me a lot since i was Christian and though that perfection is something i should seek for, even though attempt of perfection is the biggest sin of them all. Every man should express all their emotions because a dangerous man that has self control is safer than a Man that is labeled as harmless.

  • @whom1972
    @whom1972 Рік тому

    Very intriguing and Intresting video Thanks alot.
    I've often said that greed is the cause of all evil but you said that without it there would be no excitement curiosity or inspirations, thus now i should rethink my statement hahah

  • @Moonscentedhunter
    @Moonscentedhunter Рік тому

    Thank you for getting in my brain and explaining how we are. Damn watching this on acid is a sure ego death. What’s one more gonna do but a new reborn you can come out