RED FLAGS IN WOMEN | Sadia Khan vs Matthew Hussey
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- Опубліковано 7 лип 2024
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Join relationship experts Sadia Khan and Matthew Hussey in this comprehensive episode of The School of Greatness as they dive deep into the red flags we often overlook in dating and relationships. Covering emotional unavailability, the dangers of game-playing, and the importance of vulnerability, Sadia and Matthew share personal experiences and professional insights on how to build healthier connections. Learn why we ignore red flags, how to break unhealthy patterns, and what it takes to cultivate a truly fulfilling relationship. This must-watch episode is packed with valuable advice for anyone looking to improve their love life and avoid toxic dynamics.
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Can we stop focusing on talking about the 1% millionaires dating IG/OF girls and focus on the rest? The 1% is what is polluting what reality is.
Actually statistically those men are pretty damn lonely too.
There's a whole broken generation now, that had unstable childhoods. Single parents that couldn't provide emotional enrichment and support, grown adults that have no emotional regulation, discipline or understanding. It's a mine field of insecure people, pretending to be an adults that don't take accountability and haven't started doing the work on themselves.
This, yes
2020/22 that time period confirmed all I knew intrinsically. Children pretending to be adults... no backbone and no critical thinking. All looking for instant gratification as well.
This has been on point with what I’ve been experiencing.
@@rubytwoshoes1032 we came after the flower power epoke
Also, don't forget the haters and homewreckers. Some people are hell bent at sabotaging other people's marriage. Both married and single haters exist unfortunately.
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Take your passport and leave the West
I'm with Matthew on this. There are a lot of emotionally available people out there. And the preference for height and superficial stuff like that- people grow out of, not because they are settling, but because they awaken and mature with experience, realizing what is really important.
They GROW OUT OF height preferences XD (sorry, I'll see myself out)
The obsession with height is an American thing. Where I live 95% of women would drop height if he’s good, earns decently and has a good personality. My friend is literally a beauty queen and she married a short man and she’s totally smitten by him. Even I don’t mind if my future husband is 5’5 (I’m 5’2). I left a tall man because he was emotionally unavailable. His height didn’t make me stay.
there`s an entire mass of women on dating apps who would contradict you. And unfortunately, they`re the ones being seen because men go to dating apps because they know the women there are looking, so the chance of rejection is smaller.
Let`s be real about the awakening. It`s in a woman`s nature not to settle. And the ones that do, will subconsciously hate their partners, because they remind them of settling.
@@user-rx7uh9mg4f wrong, mate. I`m in Germany and all I hear is 1,80m women going for 1,90m men only. It`s about the feeling of safety they get from a dominating bigger guy. Think about the emotional safety a woman feels being hugged from behind by her man. Now imagine the hug coming from a guy 15cm shorter in height. A woman`s nastiest enemy in the relationship and a complete turn-off is when a guy stirs her mother instinct instead of her femininity.
Preference for not just height but looks in me is part of what’s important as well for procreation. People talks about that men been providers since the early days. Well men used to be judge by women based on his looks and height and how strong he was and still is to this days regardless of of technology and all
Matthew's intrinsic approach being empathetic and all about nuance could be why he seems so uncomfortable in this conversation - uncomfortable making generalisations and uncomfortable objectifying men and women. Interesting opposition of energies. Somewhere in the middle is the truth - either the harsh truth or the gentle truth. Guess you can choose your perspective.
Exactly . Saadia and the other guy are making tons of generalizations and not giving realistic answers. They are so black and white whereas matthew is trying to answer everything in shade of grey which REAL Life is!
I agree with Matthew. I was dating a man for 2.5 years and he decided he didn’t feel the same way as me. You’d think men in their 60s would have their act together… sad but not only do they carry their childhood issues around, they also haven’t dealt with their domineering ex-wife issues. It’s like the ones who come after suffer for those that came before. He told me he’s never met anyone like me, kind, so sweet, loving and beautiful. He still ended up being emotionally unavailable.
you being in his life is not enough for him to change - he already had the prize so why participate in the contest?,...you have to lead the change. My ex did it to me, by criticizing me to the point of break, then using my connection to our child as the leverage... because she felt the lack of connection in the relationship. I eventually shifted everything inside me in emotional availability, connection, self-growth. But I never forgot the lack of respect from her, so now I`m a much better person - in someone else`s life.
60yos and still emotionally stunted… we are doomed as a species. 😅
Hello. Reality check. Women want men to be feminine? No they do not. Women are confused because there are elements in society trying to demand men act like a feminine woman or they are toxic. This is nonsense. The world is an unforgiving and rough place: uncompromising and hard people are needed to deal with many situations.
Age is in no way an indicator of one's emotional maturity. If you don't put in the time to deal with your past, you could live to 150 and still have the same level of emotional availability as you were at 25.
OR.. He's not telling you the truth on why he doesnt feel the same way. To spare your feelings. Instead he's letting you vilify him to help you move on. He probably doesn't love you the same because of something you've done or haven't done. Like, making him trust you enough, allowing him to open up and give his heart away. He might be guarding it and you just haven't figured out the key in 2.5 years.
I think people expect sadia to say things as the perfect person
She’s humble enough to talk about her PAST imperfections which are relatable to this gen z generation of young women let’s be honest
But that's one of the issues: she acts like imperfections are in the past and not ongoing.
Is she humble enough to admit that she is a grifter with a fake PHD who preys upon broken red pill men in order to peddle her bullshit?
In case you don`t have 28:20 minutes to spare:
Sadia(targets male audience): women and men bad.
Matthew(targets female audience): yes, some women bad, but because men bad.
Best summary of all time!
Mathew is so compassionate. Sadia is on point that men and women can come from from a place of ego- i 'm gonna make you wait 3 days before i text you back. ( infantile behavior-games). I think ppl should present themselves as genuine and not play games. Show who you are and if a person doesn't value you; move on. You dodged a bullet . Check your narrative are these ppl really bad or are you trying to prove someone is bad when they are not. Cognitive dystortion. Attachment style may play more of a part than gender. But the agenda is antimale there is a gender fight caused by the powers that be. Single parent homes are glorified instead of giving and working on a relationship. Media says just leave if you are not happy. You will not be happy 24/7 . Happiness comes from within not from your partner!
As long as people think they can find happiness instead of cultivating it and sharing it with others, they will never have it.
I absolutely agree with all your points. It’s a shame this is what it has come to. But I can’t help but wonder if the anti-male agenda has become a self fulfilling prophecy? Because I have to tell you, from a woman’s perspective, the “men” today are severely lacking. It’s hard to have much respect for many of them.
Saadia is NOT ON-POINT on a lot of things. For example, she blames onlyfans and porn and sex industry much more on men rather then holding women accountable to providing it and not haven't morals and values . Crime and indecency will always exist, women should choose not to provide it . Society needs to ban all sex work period also.
@@pervezh in olden days when these things are not there still men used to take advantage of women so how would u hold accountable for those men who are taking advantage of innocent man, if a man starts to objectify a woman she feels herself as an object not more than that, men talk about power and discipline where is all that now?
Wow. Incredible video, thanks for clarifying it, it seems so obvious now you've said it
Matthew, women don`t compromise. They would rather be alone and complain to their friends than settling. And modern society seldomly says no to any woman, to anything. So, why would they accept a reality check? I recently dated a woman in her 40s, 2 kids at home, renting, with debts and a slightly lower than medium salary, former husband a major abuser... her list? The guy must have at least twice her salary, be a lawyer or IT manager, emotionally available and willing to commit for a third child. Her entire dating expectancy was based on the story of a friend of hers who found a lawyer on Tinder with Tesla and the whole works.
Almost any woman I've been with over the age of 30 has had a messy life. No matter how much money she makes, she's either in tons of debt, has kids or is in messy divorces.
Do you want to commit to that and bring unnecessary problems into your life? The s e x you get out of that relationship won't be make up for all the headaches she will cause you.
@@BillClinton228that’s a massive generalization. I’m almost 34 without kids or messy past, never been married, career driven and self care driven but open to anything in the future. Ppl like this exist…
@@LyliJ I saw your channel. Dear Lyli, you`re apart from the women that we talk about around here. As I see you, you can easily have a good relationship without big hiccups, with the right man. You have a passion and apparently an introverted shy and decent personality that makes you rare and valuable.
I’m curious how many women don’t compromise. Myself and most of the women I know have “compromised”, as we are married (or in long-term relationships), ranging in age from mid twenties to late thirties. I do know a couple of women who aren't, but I'm not sure if that's a feature of my social circle or a true representation of population.
What you’re describing is people just going around & extracting what they want from others . Men and women do it
There is a relationship and intimacy crisis
Luckily I met my husband at university in my early 20s and we were both broke . It was only UP ⬆️ from there ❤️
I think she's right. The only thing she said wrong is that he might be cheating. I will say that no guy MIGHT be cheating. I know so many married and single men who have hit on me and made it clear that they want to cheat with me and don't care about my marriage. Lastly, when people are hot then cold, its because they are married or living with their partner but dont want others to know.
Sadia has such a surface level understanding of things. Keeps on making sweeping statements. Thanks to Mathew for knocking some sense into her.
Mathew deals with woman that look nothing like Sadia, odds say you’re average looking at best so you relate better to Mathew
Sadia is overrated and thinks she's smarter than all psychologists out there. Her ego is too much.
She works in Dubai, a place where everything and person is a commodity and people live on the basis of material over soul. So I think it’s the types of individuals aren’t completely representative of people.
Glad to be in the first 100 subs :D
Then those ppl , as women are the slave of their sense of insecurities and thoughts. I’m a woman but I have no such thought of commiting cheating before being cheated on. If it happens, I simply break up. Why would you harm yourself like this? When cheating with another guy is not emotional healing, instead it can create more emotional confusion and unhealthy attachment. Most ppl don’t realize they have the choice to make themselves feel better instead of blaming oh this person , or the other gender make me do this do that, feel this feel that.
The mistake they both make here is that yes, most women are only going for the top 1% of men, but the reverse is not true for men. Most men aren’t chasing only the top 1% of women. All men are attracted to the top 1% of women, but most actually tend to pursue women close to their level. Men can’t get the women on their level, though, because they’re chasing the men at the top, and often in situationships with these men, who have several other women as well. I have a lot of disagreements with Matthew Hussey. His audience and clients are female, so I feel he tends to have a bias toward what they want to hear.
Oh this is so wrong. I tend believe men aim for women who are way out of their league. Yet women aim for men in their same league, or lower. So many women think they can “fix” a guy, so they shop for broken men who are insecure (or delusional) and chasing after women they’ll never get.
Your the one who is biased. The myth that women chase the top 1% is just something men who can’t get women tell themselves to cope so they don’t need to put in the work in themselves and understanding what most women actually values in a relasionship. Since it’s uncomfortable to just awknowledge that you are bad with women. And when i say work on yourself i don’t mean go to the gym specificly
Matthew actually lies to them, letting them believe that a high value man will respect them. No. The bigger his earnings, the less he will see in her. No matter how smart she is, how bla bla...his head will still know one thing: I own this woman because she wants what I have. You can`t build respect on that.
@@hasensaurus whats a high value man according to u? does ur role model sadia will get settled with a normal one who can offer his sincere companinship? she is also looking for someonelike andrew tate whom she admires so much
Women broke relationships and then they broke themselves. Congratulations! Well played
This is what’s precisely wrong with so many men today, a complete lack of accountability and self awareness. Yes, there’s women who are broken (many of them broken because they lacked a father figure.. or were hurt by a man in their childhood) and they “break” relationships. However, there are plenty of broken men as well… who come to relationships/get involved with women (who are generally way out of their league) and then blame the woman for their inability to love said woman the way she needed to be loved.
Did you just get broken up with?
3 of my favourite people in one interview! 💖
I was literally in the same situation as Sadia!
These people work with totally different people. While Sadia seems to have an agenda and is one sided and tunnel mindset. Matthew keeps a balanced opinion as both men and women can experience all the situations and looks at situations critical and from a place of compassion.
Yeah, exactly👍
I'm sorry but I value Mathew's opinion more😅
@@oceanonlytarot agenda ? lol
@@user-bc3tg4cs4k No need to be sorry! Sadia is in the 1% of women. She doesn't speak for those of us who are average, and her advice doesn't work for those of us who had to develop an actual personality and social skills because we don't have physical beauty paving the way for us.
Sadia doesn`t have a tunnel mindset, she says bluntly about the faults of women in relationships. Matthew keeps a balanced opinion as he cares more about his reputation and being a man, more self aware about how easily he can ruin his career, saying the wrong thing. Sadia likes to stir sh*t up, because she`s safe.
Great discussion. So classy, great minds. Ofc that Sadia's and Matt's experience and audience will be different and different mindset will be attracting them to those coaches.
So, what were the flags?😀
It’s hard to listen all of you interrupting each other. Please be mindful and listen silently.
Or at least let them finish an important thought. Of course, I've done the same. If they say something that I feel I need to respond to, I might interrupt in case they take the conversation to where *my* very important input is now off topic.
Oh yes truth you are ahead of time. This is where it is going
For a start, lets define and bring some nuance in this whole concept of emotional unavailability.
Its has become a bit of a superficial concept and idea.
Way too easy when you dont feel a connection with someone you call him/her emotion unavailabe !
Why should this be titled as a VS? I think there's contribution in both and not a debate.
Sadia.has got it totally wrong in regards to me. I think a lot of what she says is BS..
You missed a lot of the good points she communicated
@@elenasunshineI agree with you. What specific points do you like that she describes?
How so?
She is paid by AT, so you Got it Right
It's funny because you are agreeing with Matthew because he communicate the way you/most women want it (bias) thereby Sadia is the opposite, communicate to men. So both have their audience men vs women. At the moment we live more like women vs men mentality.
I like this interview, but im so surprised how Sadia Khan is so quiet and mostly agreeable on everything. Top notch to Matthew in using on how to best communicate theory: argumentative and body language, tone and everything in the regard. (both have it, but Matthew have it more, and it works against women) So this way of communicate, the tone, the way to diasgree and etc. specially in relationship. It wouldn't work in business but with a twist would be great.
Thank you
Sadia has such a harsh and cynical view of reality
That was fabulous. I could listen for days 28:04
My last two exes were pretty much all I could ask for in every department except the fact that they were emotionally unavailable and emotionally immature with a ton of baggage and trauma lol.
He says women aren't emotionally unavailable. They're just wary about opening up to people for fear of being hurt..... lol
If a=c and b=c then a=b.
He's trying so hard not to piss off his audience, women, that he tried to deny a circl is a circle by calling it a hoop.
It would be so nice for them to bring Up the bibliography for those percentages
You don't need 'majority of' man, woman, whoever. You need just a one great person. Let's get out of the 'fix the world' mindset. This is a waste of time trying to adjust to the perceived 'majority'.
Mark Manson's Models worked all this out over a decade ago. Every human being really needs to read it. We're all scared, confused, have detrimental values, and all want a partner that we can build with. Seriously, if you're a single guy, you must read it. If you're a single woman, read it so you can avoid the walking toxic landmines out there.
Also, most of the comments championing Matt are women, it seems, and I can't tell it's because they're attracted to him, are fans of him, or a combination. I say this as a guy who does agree with him. I just wanna highlight that, because of who and what we are, we're naturally blind to others' experiences.
It's not that "maybe i'm not perfect" it's that we are not perfect"
Exactly. There should be no 'maybe' about it. Perfection isn't possible.
I just love Matt
How much does religion have on comparability in a relationships. Does it really matter.. should it?
Matthew you read me like a book 🤗🤗🥹🥹
A lot of broken, hurt people in the comments.
It’s so sad sadia spreding misinformation like this, her niche seems to be saying exactly what the incels want to hear, she just repeating their mantra…
The only woman she is speaking for is herself ..
I’m a tall woman myself (5’10) and if anything i prefer men who are closer to my own height but honestly i don’t care i only dated two men long term the first one was 5’5 and the secound was 6’5. How the face looks is the most important superfical thing but nothing beats a good personality and simular values.
I don't get the reasoning behind screwing up a relationship first, because you don't expect it to work. If you are convinced it can work don't try it. Everything else is just dumb, and makes things worse or even starts the whole thing.
It's a vicious circle of ever-worsening expectations and preemptive retaliation.
IMO, it's an inevitable consequence of the online world and the rage-bait algorithms. We see so many examples of bad behaviour because they're the ones that go viral, and all the creators who want more clicks see that and generate similar stories. Then the followers generalise that to everyone they meet.
"I met a nice guy/gal and we had a good life" isn't click-bait.
After watching this youtube video, you can easily see how Sadia is always trying to be the last one speaking. She isn't waiting for others to say their own opinion and from her standpoint her view is the one that matters the most. Mathew couldn't speak his words out without her trying to add something to it despite him not finishing his lines. She's been disrespectful and there was a comment saying that she works with different kind of people and that is correct. This discussion was mainly Sadia wanting to talk and not accept opinions from someone like Matthew who puts things in broad light, says things objectively.
Matthew is right in this. But Sadia has different perspective.
Men and women are picky nowadays.
Sad.... I have a lot options which are not good options in my opinion.
I am a good woman myself, educated, house, income.. but my experience is men cannot meet up to my values and standards. Unfortunately
Red Flags , manipolation games , strategies..... like WERE THE ACTUAL FUCK IS THE HEART on all of that ?!
I'm so tired of that shit. Seriously. I will stay single for ever. End of the bullshits.
It`s always been like this. Read Socrates, Shakespeare and Wilde. All say the same.
Thank goodness I’m single
Matthew has come into this discussion with emotional intelligence and awareness realising that genuine people don’t relate to this 1% shallow talk, instead there is a real issue that men and women can’t find a partner who can reciprocate love and respect and honesty and you either have to settle or go your whole life looking and waiting, as for Sadie I’m sorry but you have no idea how superficial people can be and you can be so beautiful and loving and warm but you can’t fix this broken generation and the silly standards you talk about
No, and because most people would rather listen to Sadia, those of us who are genuine can't navigate dating for the life of us.
She lives in Dubai. Totally different set of cultural standards. What she talks about makes sense in the world of the capitalist providers.
I cannot relate to this woman
@@yasminahmed6970 I relate a little too much unfortunately 🥺
Same here
She is full of shit
you don`t have to. can you relate to the fact that women don`t necessarily share the same values?
Sadia Khan makes me put up my white flag...so beautiful and intelligent.
I agree with matthew hussey men being emotionally unavaible and dont wont committment, then ofcourse women will keep their options open or move on to the next one.
its aboslute not true.. whenever i hear that i know that its woman dont want it..
but matthew trys please his adiance and he cannot kritik woman.. not even slightly..
and i am not about shitting on them .. but matthew is protecting and holding accountibility away from woman
@@soydansogukcesme470 most of the majority woman definitely want it. But then guys take so long in committing. These women who don't want it were hurt badly by these guys from the past and prefer staying single and independent for sometime till the right one who came along did all the work.
@@priscillarodrigues7599 see you doing it again.
@@priscillarodrigues7599 Yes, women want things as long as someone else does all the work for them. Absolutely. And that's the problem.
sorry, that is bs.
men in general are not born emotionally unavailable, but become that way due to trauma from the opposite sex. Most of the times when they give up on communication within the relationship.
All we want is to been and accepted by the women in our lives. All that women want is for us to help them achieve their goals, financial or connectivity. So clearly, most women don`t want to take responsibility for a less than perfect product( yes, we are products to you) . So men may go with a woman in her 40`s, 1-2 kids from another marriage, emotional baggage for the savior.... while women will not take an emotionally unavailable man and work to fix the trauma, as she doesn`t feel the responsibility of her sisters. She will just move to another, because she is on a time schedule of her own needs.
Being a tall woman, the idea of a tall guy was never about attractiveness, it was societal expectations. Women should be "smaller" than a guy. So the height expectation has gone both ways, where men even prefer shorter women... I couldnt care at all about a guys height in a relationship but consistently was made to feel like a "giant" growing up and since i wasnt dainty guys didnt go for me. 👋 Lol. So lets stop blaming men and women and look at the real issue, the way people are socialized does everyone a disservice with whats perpetuated in media, porn, etc.
I don’t want children or believe in marriage, I guess that I am a BIG time Red Flag. Honesty gets me by in trouble every time.
I don’t even want sxx either bc I am asexual.
Like to see goes up against rollo tomassi
Rollo talks too much. What takes him 20 minutes to explain, Sadia can say in 1-2 minutes. And dude is a nerd, but tries to look cool.
This is a false equivalency. There is a good reason I don't care for Matthew Hussey. He panders at Steve Harvey levels.
Fearful avoidants...
Comment: Love at times or many times is about a person having good looks. Many women seek great men, but they are all seeking Chads in the beginning and in the end. They change their ways once they are older when they know that the Chad Olympics are over for them. And then they settle for a NERD man. All women regardless of looks seek a Chad. July 22, 2024. USA
Sadia communicates well BUT she coaches from her fears and insecurities. I feel like she puts women down more often than not. We ALL could be doing better. Men AND women. I don’t do one sided.
They are talking from the point of view of the ppl who come to them... Matthew is more empathetic to women and sadia to men..
They don’t like each other 😂😂😂
Sadia Khan is describing herself. She is 35 and unmarried. Nothing wrong with that, but maybe she should explore her own reason for staying single.
What do you think that ring means?
@@metsnanatfanuel1420 she is not engaged or not married. google it.
Arent women going for the top 1% of men and men are going for the top 50% of women.
I know it's exaggerated, but it's not equal tho. It is true that both sides should take accountability tho.
Why are you making me to cry??? Because we weren’t meant to be to marry!
My heart was shattered when my wife of five years left me. Despite attempting numerous therapies, none could heal the pain. Thankfully, I found hope through Aurelia Maisie Goelet, a spiritual mentor, who aided in our reunion. Find her online for guidance. Good luck to you.
sadia is spot on.. but matthew trys please his adiance and he cannot kritik woman.. not even slightly..
and i am not about shitting on them .. but matthew is protecting and holding accountibility away from woman...
the more i watch him the more i see it.
yes i see that woman also want connection.. but its often after they run out of options. so giving the point to them and beeing comforting is not the correct answer. ..
@@soydansogukcesme470 💯
like sadia dont ? her majority audience is male so i see why she appeases to u because her ideas fit the frame of ur reality
@@user-it3yf1et4p dude she holds both sides accountable... mathew never does hold woman accountable.. and blames it always on imture men.. and so on.. it is never that the woman was imature or braged about stuff or was unplaseant to be with.. in his intaire chanel is nothing .. it is always mens fault.
@@soydansogukcesme470 oh really, then u havent watched all her videos then
like that andrew tate guy says whatever men do its not the problem but women are the problem of society
sadia is a huge red flag in that round table. Hats of to Mathew to shine the light on it.
She’s gorgeous so the status of men that she’s seen and been around is vastly different than what you’ve experienced, sorry I’m not trying to be mean
As a now 62 year old female, and yes , i do have my share of baggage, which i own.But i have found over my many years of experience, which is that a good percentage of men in their youth are superficial when it comes to looks as that is an extension of their egos. And now, at this age, are emotionally unavailable .
Matthew is wrong on this..1℅ of men are going for all of them ..
Man are not going for the 1% of women 😅 .
We'll date any cute girl that is loyal, that's all most of us want.
Nice is boring
She got it all wrong. and no word about feminism....at least to the point in which I stopped viewing this video...
Why does sadia need these dudes? Haha ❤ the answer issss She doesn't
Yea its all mens fault, lol i had to turn this off as soon as matthew finished his sentence
I wish they start discussing spirituality in a relationship... Or make some sort of research because I believe being humble for both men and women is sth very important and for real believers, there's a humble aspect by believing in God, love, forgiveness and hierarchy.
Except that there is no humility in hierarchy. Those two concepts are diametrically opposed.
God-botherer = RED FLAG
Within 1m 30s she's blaming men for female behaviour lol
She's not blaming the men. She's saying women blame men. Women aim for top tier men who have options, so instead of of being cheated on, they cheat first to feel better about themselves.
Hussey is a simp
I don’t agree with Matthew Hussey, he don’t really understand women, in my humble opinion.
He heard lots of the female clients, but he don’t understand them to the point how Sadia gets them.
They're both limited by the circle they move in. Sadia deals with rich men looking for whatever it is rich men look for. Matthew deals with women desperately looking for happy ever after. Neither have any interaction with so-called normal people.
Another one of sadia where she shows that she shouldn't really work in that profession..
Saadia talks about guys watching porn and video games as if they are losers lol
I agree too much porn is bad but she makes it sound like guys that are attracted to women and guys who play video games period are losers.
This women talks so much nonsense I cannot believe how much air time she gets. She projects her own trauma - her own mother was one of 2 wives - her father was polygamous - no wonder she has no idea what healthy looks like.
Who the fuck is the so called one percent??😊
Such superficial talk 🤷
Sadia gets it right every time
For real, the only relationship coach that is always right
Matthew is right on here, he's so real. Always
She is paid by AT
@@bettinadorthelaursen8563yeah?
I see that you watch her videos and comment on them a lot , is that bc she’s paid by AT ?
@@user-uw3bs4jj1b that how I Got the hint
Yapppity yappity yap.
Her statements are as superficial as unproven.
The lady is superficial and seems detached from reality. Is just randomly throwing out bold statements pretending to know an elite group of people that she doesnt belong to. Not the real deal
So painful listening to her talk
I wasn’t able to watch it longer than 5 minutes due to this girl’s ignorance 🙄
Sadia's views are really far too much jaded by the yuppie world. She really should travel much more and dont waste time talking to other podcasters.
Why when woman like tall man they called superficial but when men wants beautiful women they are called as « looking for good genetics « Im confused with this woman in multiple things
I had to stop before 10 minutes. Hussey is just playing too nice for his female customerbase.
Sorry you were fine till you said liking pics 😅like omg you people are too online and care about a phone more then your mans actual feelings about you
Why is there always a challenge with a mentally strong woman? It’s never about the awareness anyone has, woman or man, but it’s the moral character and natural intent towards women and men. So when you dialogues, no matter how aware and able to articulate with perfect acumen and vernacular, it’s the piety that wins the pious woman. So it never sounds like or becomes a challenge. It becomes a genuine connection and agreement.
Sadia is at such a caliber in her life that the natural flow of loving connection through communication she could see the man for her. We aren’t in the ignorant arena where we overlook our needs. We know the tools we need, most men just aren’t the ones.
It’s attempts to judge and convict through mirror communication. It’s like a bunch of psychologists attempting to diagnose Sadia, the female psychologist, to defame her. But why?
The inclination of the heart in most men gets checked by Sadia by default. When they make it personal she snaps back instead of back down because she isn’t looking for relationship with men she works with. It’s like a professional way to shoot your shot, but get blocked because your moral compass isn’t good enough, you can’t score on her.
Can you share Red Flags in MEN?
But you would waist so much time Sadia
Her mindset is interesting.... I think more women of color should think like a backup boyfriend is not a bad concept
So her argument is "because I'm such a high value woman, I only go after broken men, so my perception of men is broken and my advice is based on the small minority of men who are incapable of having a healthy relationship." Sounds like a person I want to listen to for relationship advice. Good thing she puts herself out there to farm engagement.
Only women are supporting Mathew 😂 no wonder why 🥴
All of sudden She's running an agenda 😆
And only men are supporting sadia ..
She basicly admitted that her only understanding of ”how women are are based on how she is” and she is repeating a lot of what the incel community says how convinient to get followers..
Men who can’t get women loves to hear that it’s not them who need to work on themselves to be the kind of man that the women he wants like no it’s because of women are just flawed .. how convinient.
I think Sadia is toxic
Sadia looks at situations and summarize/simplify it for everybody to understand.
Hussy looks at situations and think how he can package information so he can make money off and not offends his female customer base.
Girls dont know what they want. Doesnt matter if your 5 feet or 6'10, if you show up as a confident, competent man that she sees as atleast a 5/10. Your in. Im 5'10 and not once in 30 years of many women has one said ooohh sorry your not 6 feet