Episode 08 | ABUSE FROM MAMEZALA | Kids | Marriage | Husband | uMendo | Makoti

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  • Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
  • conversing with Ma'am Nozipho Mabaso about her journey of marriage.
    apologies for the poor sound this time, we had technical issues

КОМЕНТАРІ • 77

  • @kyln9136
    @kyln9136 Рік тому +17

    Lesson: don't be a passenger in the vehicle of your life, love and respect you first, and don't remain seated at a table where respect is no longer served

  • @spm9130
    @spm9130 Рік тому +13

    The biggest lesson I have learned is that you don’t go back to the enemy that God saved you from! Don't vomit and go back to eat your vomit! Men are cruel ngisho besindisiwe! I am talking from experience!😢😢

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Рік тому +28

    Unfortunately the church is only trained to marry people but as soon as they are facing problems and divorce, the church support is not make sure... 😢

    • @SibonisoIsrael
      @SibonisoIsrael Рік тому

      Pure lies,mfwethu

    • @Sheilzdarlingz
      @Sheilzdarlingz Рік тому +2

      True,ndiyazi kum lonto,they even box all the divorcees , sophila kabuhlungu emabandleni kodwa ke sihleliswe kukuthinasizangavmntwini,size kuThixo qwaba

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 Рік тому +2

      ​@nomahmissdee I agree with you! I have the same experience, divorced people are nothing to most churches! We are seen as failures and yet there are many failed marriages that are operating in a corpse state, and yet the church celebrates them as if they are alive! 😭😭😭

    • @HloiMollo
      @HloiMollo 8 місяців тому

      True that. I can attest to that. Single parents widows and divorcees are regarded as nothing in church

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Рік тому +3

    Abo Mama as soon as we stangd together against selfish men, that's when we will be safe.

  • @rubylane9867
    @rubylane9867 Рік тому +5

    Awukhishwanga abantu besifazane emshadweni but umyeni wakho ongazange akuthande ngenhlonipho. Instead wathanda abanye besifazane. Wena kwakufanele ungabuyeli okwesibili just for the sake of your dad. Uwena owaziyo uluhlukumezeka nosizi owawubhekene nalo. Wabuyela ngoba uneniziyo ebambelelayo ungafuni ukwamukela ukuthi alukho uthando kulomshado.

    • @NtombifuthiKhuzwayo-w6f
      @NtombifuthiKhuzwayo-w6f Рік тому +3

      But they also played a role naye uhusband is equally responsible, naye umama was an enabler because she should have left him when he brought his girlfriend home

  • @sibongilesibeko4911
    @sibongilesibeko4911 3 місяці тому

    Mina ngashiya, I was abused for 20 years I was told myself that kuzolunga kanti ngiyazi ulala,,, phuma before you die,,,, Siyabonga sthandwa saml for sharing with us

  • @methymothol30
    @methymothol30 Рік тому +5

    My Mom you are healing yourself 🎉🎉🎉

  • @nellykhumalo4784
    @nellykhumalo4784 Рік тому +3

    Mtungwa wakithi uJehova abe nawe ngiyazi ukuzondwa abantu basemzini akukho okuhamba kahle ngoba wena muntu wesifazane uhlezi ubekwa amabala mina owami umshado uphelile ngenxa yabantu basemzini kodwa ngi happy ukuthi ngiphume ngiphila nezingane zami ngamshiya nomuzi wakhe.

  • @NtombifuthiKhuzwayo-w6f
    @NtombifuthiKhuzwayo-w6f Рік тому +7

    sometimes we love people who don’t love us

  • @ntombisebiloane1785
    @ntombisebiloane1785 Рік тому +1

    Lobaba cha uyinkinga ngokwakhe, kanti ukukholwa nokuhlonipha umzali kuyakwenza ube yisigqila somhlukumezi, cc Nozipho ubulawa ukulunga kwemvela unwnhliziyo emnene sibonga ukufunda ngenkinga yakho

  • @spm9130
    @spm9130 Рік тому +3

    Bomama abasindisiwe, there are marriage problems and decisions, learn to know the difference! Don't stay in a marriage tolerating someone's decisions! 😢

  • @CzakeleM
    @CzakeleM Рік тому +2

    Press on mama❤ kodwa mamezala aii angimthembisisi yazi, unonya too much. Kodwa uJesu yiNkosi nomsindise

  • @Yimishe
    @Yimishe 8 місяців тому

    Love God, love yourself and the rest exactly in that order for it gives one a heightened sense of discernment. Ain’t nothing selfish about that

  • @busisiwezondi9514
    @busisiwezondi9514 Рік тому +3

    Mmmmmmmm ur very strong dear Nkulunkulu akugcine aphumelelise ... keep it up ngalomsebenzi owuqalayo❤❤❤

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Рік тому +4

    Ooh Mama, you are so beautiful 😍

  • @Thelma1010
    @Thelma1010 Рік тому +1

    Impela ibuhlungu indaba ka mama. Kodwa njengoba sewaqhubeka nempilo I would advise ukuthi umyeke uex wakho nezindaba zakhe ngoba awusekho wena. Qhubeka mama usiqinise sibomama siyabonga❤

  • @NtombizodwaZodwa-nr6il
    @NtombizodwaZodwa-nr6il 3 дні тому

    Umuhle sisi yazi, kodwa ungaphinde ushade, lendoda uyinalo uthando nje, yafuza ubaba wayo ☺️

  • @PumlaNgumbela
    @PumlaNgumbela 5 місяців тому +1

    Yhoooo enkosi kule kamamazala ngoba,ndiyaziphendulela,but it makes sense xa usisho akulula kunzima

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Рік тому +4

    Also remember that cheating men are liars so we can't generally totally blame the other woman.

    • @philamaphanga4669
      @philamaphanga4669 Рік тому +1

      I feel your pain cc nami ngidlule khona up until ngiphonse I towel coz umuntu wesilisa will never changed

    • @NtombifuthiKhuzwayo-w6f
      @NtombifuthiKhuzwayo-w6f Рік тому +3

      But in this case the woman knew umama, so we can also blame her together with the hubby the devil 👿

  • @gracemthethwa9436
    @gracemthethwa9436 7 місяців тому

    I have 43year old son whom I have gone so many years of pains. He had a son who lost his mother whom he did even know, i did every thing, the son is always referring to the father who is so useless always says he is useless, and there is hatred between them. I have so complicated of killing myself, but you motivated me, I don't know for how long😢

  • @jabusmiso8892
    @jabusmiso8892 7 днів тому

    I know u sisNozipho uliphilile ivangeli eli clean singofakazi ukuthi wangena emshadweni uyintombi nto phephisa qina cc enkosini nasemandleni ayo amakhulu

  • @PumlaNgumbela
    @PumlaNgumbela 5 місяців тому

    Bazalwana if we call ourselves children of God ,sathanana will come for everything u have,masithandazeni singayeku kunzima

  • @ZukiswaDzingwa
    @ZukiswaDzingwa 10 місяців тому +1

    Amadoda adinga ukukhula ngokomqondo ngoba siyazama ukubakhulisa sibabekezelele kodwa bahlulwa yilokho ay chaa

  • @thandolwenkosimahlangu2772
    @thandolwenkosimahlangu2772 Рік тому

    Esami i story sidlula esika sisi Nozipho uDlamini ahleke kanti kuwe mnini wendaba it's a full blown reality and futhi iphelele

    • @HloiMollo
      @HloiMollo 8 місяців тому

      Share for us please my dear

  • @mxolelijim
    @mxolelijim Рік тому

    Kunengxaki la kumzimba ka krestu ngoba li holwa ngabantu abangaphendukile, abanye babo. Yibona laba abatshala umoya wokujola ebandleni. Abaqale phantsi bazinikele ku jesu.

  • @ThandekaButhelezi-e6l
    @ThandekaButhelezi-e6l 4 місяці тому

    I heard a lot of problems emshadweni yabasindisiwe.Ngiyacabanga khona isidleke esidinga ukuhlikizwa ezinsizweni ezisindisiwe zingaze zishade.Ngoba lezizinto zithukisa ivangeli kubi

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Рік тому

    I want to come to the seminar, where is it going to be?

  • @sebentilezanini1085
    @sebentilezanini1085 11 місяців тому

    Ooh waze wayisho lentfo lo make...ukhuluma livi. Nokutsi abe muhle kanje andlule kulokuningi kangaka...siyabonga bufakazi

  • @philiswadyan5437
    @philiswadyan5437 Рік тому +2

    ewwu bantu besfazana plz your peace comes first. Save yourself from something obonayo ukuth inama red flags hay bo ukuthanda kakhulu uze ucompromise your hapiness hai bo

  • @ThembiElizabethNgcobo
    @ThembiElizabethNgcobo 4 місяці тому

    Ngiyakuzwela cc ngiyayazi leyompilo ngabuya kuyo owami wanza kuthi ngibobe mangifika nezami nezakhe umyeni azithola sesibadala sesaqeda nokuthola abantwana mamezala ajabulele aze ahug lezi zangaphandle aziphe nemali yamachips ezami angazibibgeleli nokuzibingelela

  • @bongiwencayiyana220
    @bongiwencayiyana220 4 місяці тому

    Khonanje amabandla ayizigodlo zamadimoni kuphele nje kudushwa inkanuko zobufebe kanti ugcobo luka Jehova lusho ukuthini.

  • @mathowcele
    @mathowcele 5 місяців тому

    Yaz indlela omama esebehlukumezeke ngakhona emshadweni 😢ngivele ngiqhaqhazele angiwcabangi ngisho ngilele umshado

  • @bongiwencayiyana220
    @bongiwencayiyana220 10 місяців тому

    Engabe kona lobufebe obungaka obenziwa emabamdleni ethempeleni lika Thixo obani.Khona abantu abazosha bephila bejeziswa nje ngemikhuba yabo yokungcola.

  • @simie9038
    @simie9038 Рік тому +2

    Dlamini uhlekani mayethi umama usaba ngisho ijoyini yasezion😂😂😂

  • @mathowcele
    @mathowcele 5 місяців тому

    Ingane ay ngoba ibhemiswa ukuphapha ilenhlamba eyathukw ugogo wayo kmele baygeze khona izobaryt

  • @rebeccazikalala-zp7rt
    @rebeccazikalala-zp7rt Рік тому

    Siyabonga mama ukusisqinisa ngokwezomshado.

  • @Zwe4721
    @Zwe4721 5 місяців тому

    😢😢😢😢may God's hand be upon ur life cc

  • @MuzzyMtshali
    @MuzzyMtshali 7 місяців тому

    Au Sisi Nozipho Mabaso Mhlungu eNondweni eNquthu

  • @thembisilemakhani8660
    @thembisilemakhani8660 Рік тому

    Yebo mbokodo uNkulunkulu unkwethembile ngalesi simo yingakho namanje usamile uyikholwa ngempela uzokwedlula kukho konke siyambonga uNkulunkulu ngawe

  • @ThandekaMgube
    @ThandekaMgube 5 місяців тому

    Sengicabanga ukukhulumisa umyeni wami nomtwana kuphela 😢

  • @zodwangwenya8289
    @zodwangwenya8289 Рік тому

    Im hurt kakhulu kodwa ngiyamethemba ongabonwa ngamehlo enyama 😢😢,

  • @servantofgod4311
    @servantofgod4311 Рік тому

    Mina ngisola ukuthi lobaba u sacrifice Ngo mama, uthwele ngaye.

  • @simonpetros7578
    @simonpetros7578 Рік тому

    Ma ngiyazicela bandla ukufakwa kulegroup yakho yokupholisana please ma

  • @lungisaninyathi6600
    @lungisaninyathi6600 Рік тому +1

    Umem wami wakaGrade 12, ☺️☺️☺️

  • @nellietshabangu156
    @nellietshabangu156 7 місяців тому

    Im interested in joining the watsapp group my dear

  • @musamkhize9328
    @musamkhize9328 Рік тому +1

    Unonya umyeni kamama yoh

  • @catherineradebe1488
    @catherineradebe1488 Рік тому +1

    Shuuu kunzima ngempela😢

  • @wendymkhwanazi9862
    @wendymkhwanazi9862 6 місяців тому

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @nombusokhoza7186
    @nombusokhoza7186 Рік тому

    Angisoli mama if uneligcobo kwenteka timanga

  • @zimezime7198
    @zimezime7198 Рік тому +1

    Konakele emshadweni yamakholwa😢

  • @philiswadyan5437
    @philiswadyan5437 Рік тому +1

    kuloku kwengane ma ngikuzwa ngempela ma and akukwazek ukuncama ingane. kodwa loku kukamama zala ngempela ngek ngamphendule kodwa hay ngeke ngkwaz qhubek ngzam kuzfaka kyena futh ma sengmbon ukuth akangfun ngingampha ispace emzini wakhe nkosi yam in peace nj ngeke loke ngmhlupha nkos yam ngoba nam my peace comes first hay kabi.

  • @ceceliampanza6915
    @ceceliampanza6915 Рік тому

    Inani okumele ulikhokhe alikho noma ungenzani mayengakuthandi khohwa akaboni konke okwenzayo qhubeka nempilo yakho

  • @lulamaborwane7409
    @lulamaborwane7409 Рік тому

    Shame mama inentliziyo I wish God andiphe lentliziyo yakho

  • @chumilesimelane6192
    @chumilesimelane6192 Рік тому

    What a waste of your time sisi. Life is too short but thank God you are still alive!

  • @Imvuselelo230
    @Imvuselelo230 6 місяців тому

    Yoooooo au

  • @SibonisoIsrael
    @SibonisoIsrael Рік тому

    Yiliphi lelo sonto,kuvame ama postoli noma zcc noma shembe

  • @JoyceRadebe-d2z
    @JoyceRadebe-d2z Рік тому

    Siyabonga mbokondo 💔❤️‍🩹

  • @PhakamaMkhwanazii
    @PhakamaMkhwanazii Рік тому

    Uzobuya cc ngempela

  • @LONDIWENGCOBO-m6t
    @LONDIWENGCOBO-m6t Рік тому

    Kusukela ngalola suku ngiqala ukulalela umama ngazizwa ngiba ngcono

  • @LettyBongi
    @LettyBongi Рік тому

    Eyi yaze yabuhlungu undaba kalomama

  • @simphiwesambo9817
    @simphiwesambo9817 Рік тому

    Eyi shocking

  • @cynthianhlapo6431
    @cynthianhlapo6431 Рік тому

    Sanibonani

  • @thobisilesibisi3449
    @thobisilesibisi3449 3 місяці тому

    Ngiyafisa bambize ubhuti Bheki azokhuluma isayidi lakhe