@NoThanks-oh1um She didn't tell him until they had already been going out for a while, & they were in a huge fight & breaking up. Nikki yelled at him, well, I used to be a guy or something to that effect & it really freaked Igor out and he flew home.
Nikki was 30 and Igor was barely 20. She did not tell him she was trans and prayed on that boy innocence, so I do not feel bad for her. She traumatized that boy. Just horrible.
Um, were you watching the same video as the other 100k+ viewers??? He reconnected with Nikki 15 years later as a grown 30+ year old man, so it was crystal clear he WASN'T traumatized.
I thought it was obnoxious of Nikki to call Igor by a totally different name because she couldn't stand his real name of Igor! (She said something to the effect of that "Igor" sounds like something from an old horror movie, so she calls him Justin because he looked like Justin Timberlake when she 1st met him). That's so rude!
He/She is a selfish manipulative superficial person. She could find a man that is truly in love with her and adores her 24/7. Unfortunately he won't look like Igor but there could be a special bond between them IF she gave the man a chance. She wants a young stud with her to validate her "womanhood" that she is so insecure with. I have a suspicion that she will never find Mr. Right.
The text that Igor sent was very thoughtful and mature. I know it’s not ideal to breakup with someone by text. However, when you have already tried in person and on the phone to rationalize with a person that the relationship isn’t healthy, or you can’t meet their needs and they try to guilt trip you into staying with them, the only true option is a thoughtful text like he wrote.
@@annekathleen4498 Yes, I know. He couldn't do it in person or over the phone. Her aggressive and condescending manner would take over. She wants a young stud to validate her "womanhood." If she is married to a hot guy then her manly features (ie hands) won't leave people questioning her gender. She is a trans predator who has tried to manipulate him from the beginning of their relationship. He owes her nothing more than a email. She will always be a superficial , selfish , and manipulative person.
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But he still kept hounding Igor for sex. Constantly. That was disgusting. Especially when he was lying on Igors bed Air humping. He treated Igor terrible & kept holding the money over his head. I agree 💯
He was young and impressionable when he met her. Texting someone thousands of miles away is much different than daily living compromises with a partner.
I guess trans is not a thing in Moldova. They kept repeating it's a conservative place. I know nothing about the country except it's a little over 800 miles to Moscow and do know Russians do not tolerate homosexuality (or anything adjacent to it) and being fat. Igor not knowing Nikki was trans let's me know he is into anal unless there is some amazing trans surgery that creates a vagina with all of the bells and whistles. This entire topic is completely out of my wheelhouse!
@@azazello1784 I mean most involved parents would be, that's not being self-centered. And Anali was crying as well meaning that on some level she might have wanted him there. We don't know much about their relationship except that he's overprotective. She prob just didn't want him to stop her relationship and marriage.
Dad didn’t get to walk Anali down the aisle, so the father daughter dance, didn’t get to welcome Clayton as a new son in the family. Why wouldn’t that be heartbreaking?
My parents weren't at my wedding. They absolutely did not deserve to be. I felt a little bad, but not really. They've done worse to me. And it was a fun-filled worry free day w/o them around ❤
I feel like he broke up with her over text because he felt like that was the only way he could cut all ties .. she wouldn't let him go if he did it in person.. she would continue to beg and he knew that
Besides gynecologically, she has manly traits that she can't seem to control. Her aggressive and demanding personality will always be a deterrent to 99% of men.
I totally agree. He wanted to break off the relationship for quite some time. She would get upset and start complaining about what she did for him to keep the relationship together.
Did she not tell him she was trans until a while into their relationship???? If that’s the case, I don’t feel that bad for her. It was based on untruth and then you begging him to stay. Girl get it together. 🙄
No no no, I’m not saying all that. I’m just saying SHE needs to be truthful. And stop crying because she didn’t get her way know she did wrong. I’m NOT shaming her in anyway. I’m wanting her to be accountable for her poor behavior. As well as his.
Yup, she hid that she was trans from her...but that was almost 2 decades ago. He knew everything this time around, and chose to get back with her. Knowing he didn't love her, knowing he wasn't attracted to her. Yeah she shouldn't have kept it from him originally, but he didn't need to get back w her🤷🏾♀️ He used her for her money knowing she was desperate, and that's not right.
Love you Melicia!!...As for "Igor" he was basically tricked into this situation. She did not disclose that she was Trans for several years. That is truly selfish, disgusting, and set the rickety foundation for their broken relationship...she basically assaulted him 😢
I agree Nikki was wrong for waiting 2 years to tell him but that was almost 2 decades ago. He’s BEEN known she’s trans & STILL came back to be in a relationship,’knowing he doesn’t love her, & probably just for the money. He should’ve stayed gone the first time he found out that massive lie
She did told him when he was 20 years old. He knew when Second time he decided to get into this relationship. When he entered the 90 days fiance He already knows she's trans But They both are toxic
@londonsadventures5604 Toxicity aside, how would you feel if you were tricked into sleeping with someone who was born the same biological sex as you? There is absolutely no excuse. Igor deserved any money he recieved, Nikki should consider it restitution for her despicable behavior. I am a married bisexual woman, and I even disclosed that to my hubby bc some people are super religious. I am not saying you disclose your status as trans on the first date, I had a transgender friend murdered in Middle Georgia under those circumstances. However, a serious partner has the right to know. Sending you positive vibes.
trans people don’t switch gender they’re born with gender dysphoria it’s a lifelong condition that never leaves, only the physical changes but I hear what you’re trying to say
Then he shouldn’t be driving his bmw she paid for. He constantly affirmed he loved her… if u have a partner in a 3rd world country of course you’re going to help them if you can… he manipulated her and she wanted to believe him so badly.
Nikki tried to buy a straight man's love. If he said he loved Nikki, it was like loving a brother, not a wife. So, in the future, Nikki needs to be upfront with these men. Don't wait two years to tell them you are trans. Especially if they're talking long term.
Laying in bed pretending to cry and be depreased with a full face of makeup, lashes and lipstick included juat sums up how fake and overly dramatic Nikki is lmfao. That was too much 😂 If i was igore i would have broke up with her through text then left her on read too. She doesnt take no for an answer. Clear predatory behavior.
Thank you I said the same thing in another post. There were no tears coming out of her eyes at all. She could have poked herself with one of those ridiculous claws she has to at least gets some tears. He needs acting lessons too.
The dream of every trans/gay person is have someone who's straight fall in love with them. But unfortunately straight men don't fall in love with people of the same sex. It's unsolvable...
She traumatized him, he was also barely legal. Why did she not go for a older man? Im 25 and 19-20 year old man is a kid to me. Igor is the victim in this.
Anyone else notice how Nikki led that off with saying “All the years invested. All the money invested…” ? Before she gets into talking about the heart, love, her soul, respect and affection.
Did anyone else notice that Igor was happy the day she left and while she was walking through check in at the airport she told him “don’t cry” and he wasn’t, not even red or frowning, I’m not surprised he ended things.
Well she’s too needy n she lied to him and doesn’t even respect him enough to call him by his real name. He had to tell people he was with a trans woman in a place where it’s looked down upon. Also if she wanted something real she wouldn’t fund a grown man that was her second mistake
She lied to him for 2years by not telling him she was trans. That was traumatic for him & he was literally depressed! If you want to be trans be trans BUT be honest with people bc thats not everyones cup of tea. People have a right to know exactly who they're in a relationship with
That's a fact.. most men wouldn't be able to handle that info, especially pissed off in the middle of an argument. he talks about been accepted for who he is but then changes Igors name. And he isn't easy on the eye.
It's always about the money with Nikki but she's the one willingly giving that to someone in hopes that they'll love and respect her in exchange. I have a hard time feeling bad for her after what she's put him through. She was a really bad partner. In fact, the only thing she seemed to bring to the table was finances and that was always held over his head and thrown in his face.
She purposely waitrd 2 years to tell him she was born a guy. He checked out then. You cant con somebody into loving you even if you appear to be something you are not!
Nikki was solely focused on how they look together. Not if there was any real substance to build on. Ugh. She traumatised that man! Igor deserves better and Nikki needs to learn how to listen more closely and scale the dramatics back a bit. There are plenty of men who will accept her for who she is and want to be with her for the long term. She is just clearly focused on all of the superficial things. Nikki wants life to be a well curated Instagram feed and thats just not real life!
Her constant insecurities cause her to be selfish and manipulative. She should try to connect with men that are more her age. She wants a young stud,but her expectations need to be lowered to find Mr. Right before she's retired and alone.
Is noone gonna mention the fact she is a 47 year old grown ass woman, trying to act like shes 20 years old? The whole scene with her in bed and mom coming over was cringe. She isn't a child. She always brings up money. Seems to me she has always know he was with her for her money. She was basically his sugar momma. She lied to him about herself in the beginning sure, but he came back to her willingly. He too is a grown man that knew what he was doing. They are both toxic for each other and need to move on.
Wow yes I was literally saying the same thing as I was watching the episode like damn her mom looks softer in the face. All that plastic surgery doesn’t pay off regardless of her trying to become a woman still looks hard in the face
Wow he said dating her compromised his interests, status and dignity. Yikes! I mean we could all tell that but for some reason I didn't expect him to actually say it. He prob did it over text so he could clearly express himself and not get tongue tied with the English on the spot.
Nikki started off with nothing but disrespect for this man; changing his name to what suited her, using the transgender transition as a weapon, and then thinking just because she spent all this time and money on him, that he is obligated to be with her. Get me a break! Just because YOU spent all your money and time on a man, doesn't mean he lost any sleep over it. Igor is still young and can find any woman that he wants to be with. I think Igor wanted to be with a biological woman, have children, play specific gender roles and that what that. Not all men for all countries want a westernized woman with views, opinions, demands, wants, needs, etc. You can't change someone with money...and you certainly can't make someone love you. I think Nikki needs to be realistic in her expectation of people...and know that everything she did was very disrespectful. Getting with someone who may not have a high financial and social standing as you to make them love you just won't cut it. Many people in the western world would view the way Nikki was treating Igor as a someone who was holding him financially hostage....or emotionally hostage. Nikki knew the type of repercussion this man would face had it been known that he was dating or even thinking about marrying someone who was transgender. and to use it in a fight to get back at him? Classless! Melicia, you wrong for the Whitney song at the beginning! LOL. Although breaking up with a text message isn't the best method, I don't think what Igor ever said to Nikki ever really got through to her. I think she heard what wanted to hear...so I think using that method was probably best for him, and the best way he could say what he wanted to say, keep it non-emotional, and get to the direct point. At least she got something. homie could have just ghosted her....but he was upfront, honest, said his piece....as we say "he said what he said". We have to respect his decision. not all breakups come in some nicely packaged wrapped box with a bow with hugs and wish-you-wells.
I wish Niki wasn't so over surgically enhanced. She reminds me of a Praying Mantis. Although I do feel for her breakup, and she dodged a bullet with Egore. However, if she looked more natural he probably would've been more attracted to her.
right, plus she is very manly, bad tempered, straight out abusive and super controlling...she looks super weird also..i'm not anti transgender but she can't pull it off plus she's not even a post op and he didn't want some woman with a unit...she needs serious mental therapy she abused him non stop.
It wasn’t her look mostly he wasn’t attracted to it was she lied to Igor for two years while they were intimate then told him during a fight. Never once has Nikki said I am so sorry I did you wrong. All we hear is I took care of him financially I did everything for him. Igor said several times he was not physically attracted to Nikki after learning the truth. They split up for years but Nikki wanted to try again, you could tell by watching & listening he is not physically attracted to Nikki. Nikki thinks since she paid for things Igor owed her intimacy & obedience. Apparently Nikki doesn’t remember paying for se_ is called prostitution & he owed her absolutely nothing. It was her choice to pay for things.
I really think that Nicki needs to reflect on the things that may have pushed him away. Such as, not telling his friends the first time you meet them that you used to be a prostitute.
I think there should be a law where one is required to state if they are trans before getting into a relationship... Not everyone can spot a trans person and it is very unfair for someone to date a trans person for a year or so then find out something like that after they are fully invested in the relationship. If you are confident enough about your sexuality, be real from the start. Then give someone the chance to decide. I think this is deception of the highest order. .
@@abrunz1873a lot of misery is brought to those who aren’t told right off the bat their partner is trans….are you advocating for people to engage in deceitful behavior? why would you even want to be with someone who doesn’t know who you really are?
A law? And then what? Send them to jail? Make people more transphobic? My ex lied to me about his age, he was like 8 years older than what he told me. I thought he was young and figuring things out, not older and giving up on a better future. He told me he was going back to university in a few months, he didn't. Our whole relationship was built in his lies, I would have rejected him if I would have known the truth. If you make a law about not lying to potential partners you should make them about everything, not just being cis or trans. And I assure you, from my experience, men usually lie a lot more when trying to get in a relationship with someone.
@@abrunz1873 what are you even talking about? Bringing hate and misery where? If u keep a secret from someone and that secret ends up affecting that person then is it the other person who is bringing misery or the one who kept the secret???? Whatever Trans people do is their business but they should not put someone else in a position where they feel misled or deceived. That's not how you gain acceptance.
Nikki's mother is a pretty woman. Nikki was probably just as naturally pretty. I wish she would let go of all the 'extra' and lean into a more natural look. I bet she'd be gorgeous.
I would’ve felt sorry for Nikki if she did not hide the fact that she was Trans from the beginning. Coming from traditional, religious and conservative country, people don’t know how damaging this is. It is humiliating for some and against their nature. It is dangerous.
How do you do the worst thing you can do to a str8 man, lie to him and not tell him you’re trans?! Sent him into a depressed spiral, when he comes back you demand intimacy despite his discomfort. I mean are we surprised he left ?! I’m not, it’s called selfishness. This one made me uneasy
I was with my ex that I had known since middle school for 6 years. He didn't even have the balls or the respect to break up with me face to face. He called me while he was at his mother's and broke up with me. I packed all my shit, took my cats and I was gone in less than 4 days. His nephew told him that he's lucky that I didn't steal, break, sell or trash anything. I only cried a few times for a couple minutes and picked my shit up and got it together. I am doing SO much happier after 6 years of absolute HELL! If anyone is going through a hard break up, please know that you are worthy of love. Take time to learn who you are again and love yourself. You got this shit!!!
@@judymurray191 sometimes with unhealthy relationships you don't see how bad it is until you're out of it. The guy I dated when I was 17 was abusive I broke up with him when I was 19 and it wasn't easy but I got over it faster than I expected. Looking back on it I wish that I left sooner and that I didn't waste any time on him.
This isn’t about you and your pathetic life. Go tell your therapist, we’re watching for THEIR story, not yours. Your ex dodged a bullet. Quit whining on the internet
She is so gross. All she could talk about is sex, it was disgusting. I'm glad he finally got the balls to dump her, it wasn't going to work out anyway. A relationship that starts with lies and deception is doomed.
The fact that Nikki lied to him for so long and then threw it in his face during an argument, this relationship was never going to work after that. End of story. Her disgusting behavior after the fact is just the cherry on top.
Justin it's about time. She has lie to you from the begining. She kept the fact that she was transgender and he didn't have a clue.He needs to stay firm and not have nothing to do with her.
Honestly I don’t understand how she thought this relationship would ever work out. They seemed like 2 people that were just worlds apart on everything except the finances she provided him and she clearly used him too. She wanted him for his good looks. But to break up with someone over text and then completely ghost them is honestly cruel. It’s going to make it so much harder for her because she’s not going to be able to have closure.
Nikki needs to learn you can’t have everything you want just because you think you can. She didn’t let this guy have a chance to not want her because she wanted him, her ego is destructive to her detriment her lust for things even when it’s blatantly not for her she refuses to accept. Sad way to live your life!
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Maybe if she would SHUT UP for a minute. She never lets anyone talk. I can see why he texted her. She needs therapy to learn i talk, now your turn, etc, etc
Igor was done the day he found she wasn't a biological female. He just couldn't walk away from the financial support.
10000000%% you cant cry and feel bad , you gotta understand... lied first' wast ever gna be anythin
Totally true
I hope Nikki reads this comment
How did he not KNOWWWW from day one…..there is no way he never noticed something was different! Like come on!
She wasn't dealing with a genius.
If Nikki hadn’t been supporting him financially, he would have been gone a long time ago.
💯 %
Didn’t she not tell him at first that she’s trans
@NoThanks-oh1um She didn't tell him until they had already been going out for a while, & they were in a huge fight & breaking up. Nikki yelled at him, well, I used to be a guy or something to that effect & it really freaked Igor out and he flew home.
And I think the breaking up thing is ALSO a method to make her hooked up even more and still SPENDING
@@NoThanks-oh1um But that was like 15 years ago, he definitely knew when they got back together...
Nikki was 30 and Igor was barely 20. She did not tell him she was trans and prayed on that boy innocence, so I do not feel bad for her. She traumatized that boy. Just horrible.
It’s a HEEEE
She had no rights to keep something as profound a secret. He was not in the age genre, rediculous
She must be happy that he didnt was agressive to her or even did worse things to her.. 😢
@@thelmarobinsonrobinson2673 What is "age genre"? Pick one of those words.
Um, were you watching the same video as the other 100k+ viewers??? He reconnected with Nikki 15 years later as a grown 30+ year old man, so it was crystal clear he WASN'T traumatized.
Sorry but Nikki is coming across as a predator and not as a heartbroken woman.
I think it was that “male energy” that turned him off the most. His word, not mine.
Yea she thought she could buy affection forever.
Her male aggression is always apparent. Justin finally listened to his conscience. Money for life with a trans woman ? Not worth selling your soul!😉
Niki stop wasted your time on him ,he's areal A hole you can do much better you're a Beautiful Woman ❤
Heartbroken man maybe
Don't ever beg or stay with someone who doesn't want to be with you! Move on and love yourself more! ❤
Seriously, if they don't love you, why waste time or emotions loving them. Go find your happiness.
I absolutely agree 👍
I wish I had 😢❤
Right
Stop calling IT a she.. IT is still a MALE, IT is a HE!!
I thought it was obnoxious of Nikki to call Igor by a totally different name because she couldn't stand his real name of Igor! (She said something to the effect of that "Igor" sounds like something from an old horror movie, so she calls him Justin because he looked like Justin Timberlake when she 1st met him). That's so rude!
Yeah, everything is all about optics for her.
He/She is a selfish manipulative superficial person. She could find a man that is truly in love with her and adores her 24/7. Unfortunately he won't look like Igor but there could be a special bond between them IF she gave the man a chance. She wants a young stud with her to validate her "womanhood" that she is so insecure with. I have a suspicion that she will never find Mr. Right.
He had operation to fit mind image so no issuue to do same for someone name .it has meaning or weight
He had operation to fit mind image so no issuue to do same for someone name .it has ho
Imagine if he called Nikki by "Nick".
You were renting him, Niki, not buying him. Slavery isn't legal in most countries now. 😂
😭😭😭😭
100% Nikki treated him like an object!
@@GLeon-ov9yuhe used her for money. I think they both suck.
typical male trying to force themselves onto someone
Its in woke land
Igor has made it crystal clear to her that he does not want to be intimate. What doesn’t she understand?
He made it clear but he also said he needed time. Not fair. He could have also left he wasn’t interested and don’t go around cheating
He not she
That absence is another choice. 😊
He
What’s not fair is, someone not divulging they used to have a penis and balls, when the young man you are seeing, is heterosexual.
Melicia is so perfect for this. Top notch vibe and professionalism all in one.
Facts
He wasn't a biological female.
I skip her parts mostly 😂 She's always trying to give some basic ass advice.
@psychedforlife7176 lol you're a real one and a smart one for saying that.
I don't even watch the show but I enjoy her recaps.
The text that Igor sent was very thoughtful and mature. I know it’s not ideal to breakup with someone by text. However, when you have already tried in person and on the phone to rationalize with a person that the relationship isn’t healthy, or you can’t meet their needs and they try to guilt trip you into staying with them, the only true option is a thoughtful text like he wrote.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Exactly because Nikki won't ever let him finish a statement when he is trying to talk
He's not mature enough to support himself though us he?
Someone else wrote that letter to save him the drama of calling her.
He didn't write it. His English isn't that good
@@annekathleen4498 Yes, I know. He couldn't do it in person or over the phone. Her aggressive and condescending manner would take over. She wants a young stud to validate her "womanhood." If she is married to a hot guy then her manly features (ie hands) won't leave people questioning her gender. She is a trans predator who has tried to manipulate him from the beginning of their relationship. He owes her nothing more than a email. She will always be a superficial , selfish , and manipulative person.
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She's the best!
@@dizziemslizzie4091I second that!
She sure is 💝
Yes ! 😍😍
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You can’t lie about being a man! That was deceptive! i’m pretty sure he wants a family! best wishes to them both.
Plus he was open with how he wasn't comfortable still with it & anyone could see he was just a sugar baby
But he still kept hounding Igor for sex. Constantly. That was disgusting. Especially when he was lying on Igors bed Air humping. He treated Igor terrible & kept holding the money over his head. I agree 💯
She’s a decepticon.
He was young and impressionable when he met her. Texting someone thousands of miles away is much different than daily living compromises with a partner.
How could he not tell she was trans 😂
Now that I refuse to believe that.
There is no way one cannot tell. 😢
I guess trans is not a thing in Moldova. They kept repeating it's a conservative place. I know nothing about the country except it's a little over 800 miles to Moscow and do know Russians do not tolerate homosexuality (or anything adjacent to it) and being fat. Igor not knowing Nikki was trans let's me know he is into anal unless there is some amazing trans surgery that creates a vagina with all of the bells and whistles. This entire topic is completely out of my wheelhouse!
I personally think all the Real Housewives look like him 🤣
@@dubbmcluvin6813all 📠 lmao
If my kid married someone behind my back.. i would be heartbroken too. 😢
What? Why are you so self-centered??
@@azazello1784 tf?
@@azazello1784 I mean most involved parents would be, that's not being self-centered. And Anali was crying as well meaning that on some level she might have wanted him there. We don't know much about their relationship except that he's overprotective. She prob just didn't want him to stop her relationship and marriage.
Dad didn’t get to walk Anali down the aisle, so the father daughter dance, didn’t get to welcome Clayton as a new son in the family. Why wouldn’t that be heartbreaking?
My parents weren't at my wedding. They absolutely did not deserve to be. I felt a little bad, but not really. They've done worse to me. And it was a fun-filled worry free day w/o them around ❤
I feel like he broke up with her over text because he felt like that was the only way he could cut all ties .. she wouldn't let him go if he did it in person.. she would continue to beg and he knew that
Well said I agree... Nikki is extremely manly and aggressive and would not take no for an answer
Besides gynecologically, she has manly traits that she can't seem to control. Her aggressive and demanding personality will always be a deterrent to 99% of men.
I totally agree. He wanted to break off the relationship for quite some time. She would get upset and start complaining about what she did for him to keep the relationship together.
@@adlog1432 "she" was trying to buy him and brought up all the purchases everytime he tried to leave
That's how you do it with a stage 5 clinger. It's the only way.
Did she not tell him she was trans until a while into their relationship???? If that’s the case, I don’t feel that bad for her. It was based on untruth and then you begging him to stay. Girl get it together. 🙄
Cause he's a disgrace. And he looks terrifying. Imagine poor igor waking up to that thing every morning,
No no no, I’m not saying all that. I’m just saying SHE needs to be truthful. And stop crying because she didn’t get her way know she did wrong. I’m NOT shaming her in anyway. I’m wanting her to be accountable for her poor behavior. As well as his.
That person should be ashamed keeping something like that from someone
Yup, she hid that she was trans from her...but that was almost 2 decades ago. He knew everything this time around, and chose to get back with her. Knowing he didn't love her, knowing he wasn't attracted to her. Yeah she shouldn't have kept it from him originally, but he didn't need to get back w her🤷🏾♀️ He used her for her money knowing she was desperate, and that's not right.
@@africanodyssey4805 I agree 100 percent.
Nicki definitely still thinks like a man. Just because you invested money doesn’t mean that person should stay with you
Love you Melicia!!...As for "Igor" he was basically tricked into this situation. She did not disclose that she was Trans for several years. That is truly selfish, disgusting, and set the rickety foundation for their broken relationship...she basically assaulted him 😢
he wasn't tricked he chose to be a sugar baby. NOPE
I agree Nikki was wrong for waiting 2 years to tell him but that was almost 2 decades ago. He’s BEEN known she’s trans & STILL came back to be in a relationship,’knowing he doesn’t love her, & probably just for the money. He should’ve stayed gone the first time he found out that massive lie
She did told him when he was 20 years old.
He knew when Second time he decided to get into this relationship. When he entered the 90 days fiance He already knows she's trans
But
They both are toxic
She is a trans predator.
@londonsadventures5604 Toxicity aside, how would you feel if you were tricked into sleeping with someone who was born the same biological sex as you? There is absolutely no excuse. Igor deserved any money he recieved, Nikki should consider it restitution for her despicable behavior. I am a married bisexual woman, and I even disclosed that to my hubby bc some people are super religious.
I am not saying you disclose your status as trans on the first date, I had a transgender friend murdered in Middle Georgia under those circumstances. However, a serious partner has the right to know. Sending you positive vibes.
Nicki lied. point blank period. She kinda tricked him into the entire relationship and tried to keep him with money.
You can’t manipulate people for fear of rejection They have a right to know off top if you switched a whole gender
trans people don’t switch gender they’re born with gender dysphoria it’s a lifelong condition that never leaves, only the physical changes but I hear what you’re trying to say
Exactly 💯👍🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He is a young man. He wants a woman who can birth his children.
a white woman too
Yes he does they had a conversation in the car about it
Okey he needs find a job not take money
Then he shouldn’t be driving his bmw she paid for. He constantly affirmed he loved her… if u have a partner in a 3rd world country of course you’re going to help them if you can… he manipulated her and she wanted to believe him so badly.
Nikki tried to buy a straight man's love. If he said he loved Nikki, it was like loving a brother, not a wife. So, in the future, Nikki needs to be upfront with these men. Don't wait two years to tell them you are trans. Especially if they're talking long term.
Laying in bed pretending to cry and be depreased with a full face of makeup, lashes and lipstick included juat sums up how fake and overly dramatic Nikki is lmfao. That was too much 😂
If i was igore i would have broke up with her through text then left her on read too. She doesnt take no for an answer. Clear predatory behavior.
Thank you I said the same thing in another post. There were no tears coming out of her eyes at all. She could have poked herself with one of those ridiculous claws she has to at least gets some tears. He needs acting lessons too.
*him..and they have to put a wig and makeup up on constantly smh..
The dream of every trans/gay person is have someone who's straight fall in love with them. But unfortunately straight men don't fall in love with people of the same sex. It's unsolvable...
I couldn't agree more with you. I had to learn the hard way before coming to that conclusion myself
Straight women have fallen in love with gay men only to be told that it isn't happening.
@@reneewilliams1747 That's not the same thing though. There's still a 🍆 and a 🌼 involved in this scenario.
same with straight women they cant have a gay guy so settle for a straight one. lol
Exactly, Igor isn't gay. Straight men don't sleep with other men.
She needs to deal with someone more comfortable with who she is
True. And if she didn't lie about being trans, she would have a much higher chance of finding someone who is comfortable with who she is.
he.
But if you lie about who you are how is anyone gonna be more comfortable 😂
She him lying to him self 😅😂
He
She traumatized him, he was also barely legal. Why did she not go for a older man? Im 25 and 19-20 year old man is a kid to me. Igor is the victim in this.
Being Age mates is very important
Exactly!! ❤
Facts
Anyone else notice how Nikki led that off with saying “All the years invested. All the money invested…” ? Before she gets into talking about the heart, love, her soul, respect and affection.
No shit. That's the first thing everyone thinks of when they break up
@@Rosemary46840 exactly
She worked (works?) as a prostitute, so in her warped mind, money = love.
Because Nikki is Male Energy & Male Brain thinking. That has not changed.
@@GLeon-ov9yuagree she really thinks and acts like a man
Did anyone else notice that Igor was happy the day she left and while she was walking through check in at the airport she told him “don’t cry” and he wasn’t, not even red or frowning, I’m not surprised he ended things.
Well she’s too needy n she lied to him and doesn’t even respect him enough to call him by his real name. He had to tell people he was with a trans woman in a place where it’s looked down upon. Also if she wanted something real she wouldn’t fund a grown man that was her second mistake
He's to needy not She
@@MissStarbudz2325if you think so 🤷🏽♀️
@@RosariaClarise I know so sweety
Yesss
It bothers me when ppl cry and there’s no tears, it’s just so weird.
She lied to him for 2years by not telling him she was trans. That was traumatic for him & he was literally depressed! If you want to be trans be trans BUT be honest with people bc thats not everyones cup of tea. People have a right to know exactly who they're in a relationship with
You can't establish a relationship on a lie. It was very apparent that he wasn't in love with her.
Nicki Trapped That Man & Then Only Decides To Tell Him She’s A Man When They Argue, She’s Lucky He Didn’t Snap.
That's a fact.. most men wouldn't be able to handle that info, especially pissed off in the middle of an argument. he talks about been accepted for who he is but then changes Igors name. And he isn't easy on the eye.
Good point. He could have really hurt her
just like you sistahs tried to show "you a strong black woman" and the man shows you.. luckily for yo asses the men don't snap either
Agree with all it could have ended badly
Right...like the Jenny Jones murder saga
It's always about the money with Nikki but she's the one willingly giving that to someone in hopes that they'll love and respect her in exchange. I have a hard time feeling bad for her after what she's put him through. She was a really bad partner. In fact, the only thing she seemed to bring to the table was finances and that was always held over his head and thrown in his face.
He even did it in the interviews without Igor’s presence. He’s like Mr. Krabs grumbling about money 😂.
And sex! All she talks about is sex, it's gross.
Very older man behavior where with a young poor boy /young woman
Accept me for who i am...even though i don't
Well said
She couldn't even accept his real name.
Honesty is always the best option
Nikki, get a dog. 🤷♀️
is that what you did?
No! No, No! Dogs need real love and care, not objectification.
No please no pet.
She is very insecure and is high maintenance. Her need for daily romance and compliments a dog won't provide.🙄
A licki licki dog
That break up text was like a business communication lol
That's the only way to break ,from a stage 5 clinger.
She purposely waitrd 2 years to tell him she was born a guy. He checked out then. You cant con somebody into loving you even if you appear to be something you are not!
Nikki was solely focused on how they look together. Not if there was any real substance to build on. Ugh. She traumatised that man!
Igor deserves better and Nikki needs to learn how to listen more closely and scale the dramatics back a bit. There are plenty of men who will accept her for who she is and want to be with her for the long term. She is just clearly focused on all of the superficial things.
Nikki wants life to be a well curated Instagram feed and thats just not real life!
Instead of Anali, I was expecting a guinea pig to turn up to the wedding...
😂😂😂😂😂
Haha best comment 😂
😂😂😂
nothing wrong with a man who loves his animals
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
With all due respect to Nikki, she is desperate. She tries too hard.
Agree also wants a young handsome heterosexual man
Her constant insecurities cause her to be selfish and manipulative. She should try to connect with men that are more her age. She wants a young stud,but her expectations need to be lowered to find Mr. Right before she's retired and alone.
He* is desperate
Honestly she reminds me of Darcey
Is noone gonna mention the fact she is a 47 year old grown ass woman, trying to act like shes 20 years old? The whole scene with her in bed and mom coming over was cringe. She isn't a child. She always brings up money. Seems to me she has always know he was with her for her money. She was basically his sugar momma. She lied to him about herself in the beginning sure, but he came back to her willingly. He too is a grown man that knew what he was doing. They are both toxic for each other and need to move on.
I agree
That boy doesn't want Nikki, she tricked him and he never forgave her...
Maybe he was getting EVEN???
Why her mama look younger tho
Wow yes I was literally saying the same thing as I was watching the episode like damn her mom looks softer in the face. All that plastic surgery doesn’t pay off regardless of her trying to become a woman still looks hard in the face
Really bad plastic surgery.
lol I thought that was her friend, or
sister 😮
Might be older than 47 and Igor is younger than 36 he looks very young
That's Igor mama.
She didn’t even tell him she was trans..I’d be fuming. The dumping by text fits the deceit of not telling the truth about her gender..
English teacher here. AI definitely wrote that break-up text. Very artificial!
Not a teacher but I was thinking the same 😂
Maybe but it seems he wrote it in his own language and did google translate
@@Ohsolovely2no, it def was not written by him 100%
Very articulate good English
Wow - hat's off to you! I can't imagine being a teacher in this AI world -
Wow he said dating her compromised his interests, status and dignity. Yikes! I mean we could all tell that but for some reason I didn't expect him to actually say it. He prob did it over text so he could clearly express himself and not get tongue tied with the English on the spot.
Yes he probably used a translator also doing the break up this way he didn’t have to deal with the argumentative aggressive behavior
@@Wendy-lq8uw Exactly.
It doesn't matter why...He has broken up with her...that's it. Let it go, Nikki... IT'S OVER...
Nikki started off with nothing but disrespect for this man; changing his name to what suited her, using the transgender transition as a weapon, and then thinking just because she spent all this time and money on him, that he is obligated to be with her. Get me a break! Just because YOU spent all your money and time on a man, doesn't mean he lost any sleep over it. Igor is still young and can find any woman that he wants to be with. I think Igor wanted to be with a biological woman, have children, play specific gender roles and that what that. Not all men for all countries want a westernized woman with views, opinions, demands, wants, needs, etc. You can't change someone with money...and you certainly can't make someone love you. I think Nikki needs to be realistic in her expectation of people...and know that everything she did was very disrespectful. Getting with someone who may not have a high financial and social standing as you to make them love you just won't cut it. Many people in the western world would view the way Nikki was treating Igor as a someone who was holding him financially hostage....or emotionally hostage. Nikki knew the type of repercussion this man would face had it been known that he was dating or even thinking about marrying someone who was transgender. and to use it in a fight to get back at him? Classless!
Melicia, you wrong for the Whitney song at the beginning! LOL. Although breaking up with a text message isn't the best method, I don't think what Igor ever said to Nikki ever really got through to her. I think she heard what wanted to hear...so I think using that method was probably best for him, and the best way he could say what he wanted to say, keep it non-emotional, and get to the direct point. At least she got something. homie could have just ghosted her....but he was upfront, honest, said his piece....as we say "he said what he said". We have to respect his decision. not all breakups come in some nicely packaged wrapped box with a bow with hugs and wish-you-wells.
it's the same way da brothas don't like the ABW all over their Nutz. men need to feel secure in their manhood
I wish Niki wasn't so over surgically enhanced. She reminds me of a Praying Mantis. Although I do feel for her breakup, and she dodged a bullet with Egore. However, if she looked more natural he probably would've been more attracted to her.
right, plus she is very manly, bad tempered, straight out abusive and super controlling...she looks super weird also..i'm not anti transgender but she can't pull it off plus she's not even a post op and he didn't want some woman with a unit...she needs serious mental therapy she abused him non stop.
Enhanced? Many pl consider it botched. She had to look better in the 'before'. 😢
@@vblackwell3347 I was trying to be nice, and truthful.
It wasn’t her look mostly he wasn’t attracted to it was she lied to Igor for two years while they were intimate then told him during a fight. Never once has Nikki said I am so sorry I did you wrong. All we hear is I took care of him financially I did everything for him. Igor said several times he was not physically attracted to Nikki after learning the truth. They split up for years but Nikki wanted to try again, you could tell by watching & listening he is not physically attracted to Nikki. Nikki thinks since she paid for things Igor owed her intimacy & obedience. Apparently Nikki doesn’t remember paying for se_ is called prostitution & he owed her absolutely nothing. It was her choice to pay for things.
@jackidezell3401 Sometimes that's a difficult balance
..... but you pulled it off
very diplomatically.
Justin was done when Nikki left after their engagement party. The coldness at the airport said it all
I really think that Nicki needs to reflect on the things that may have pushed him away. Such as, not telling his friends the first time you meet them that you used to be a prostitute.
Woah what?? What’s tea? 🍵
There's no way to force someone to love you, whether you like it or not, a million dollars worth of plastic surgery didn't help at all!
He lost interest in Nikki when he found out Nikki used to be a man. Didnt help that Nikki lied about being a biological woman.
Girl please!! I don’t know what’s worse, the fake tears or the BS relationship.
I think there should be a law where one is required to state if they are trans before getting into a relationship... Not everyone can spot a trans person and it is very unfair for someone to date a trans person for a year or so then find out something like that after they are fully invested in the relationship. If you are confident enough about your sexuality, be real from the start. Then give someone the chance to decide. I think this is deception of the highest order. .
And dna testing at birth too
I think you should reconsider how it’s worth it to be in this world. You bring hate and misery to others. Is it worth going on like this? Really?
@@abrunz1873a lot of misery is brought to those who aren’t told right off the bat their partner is trans….are you advocating for people to engage in deceitful behavior? why would you even want to be with someone who doesn’t know who you really are?
A law? And then what? Send them to jail? Make people more transphobic?
My ex lied to me about his age, he was like 8 years older than what he told me. I thought he was young and figuring things out, not older and giving up on a better future. He told me he was going back to university in a few months, he didn't. Our whole relationship was built in his lies, I would have rejected him if I would have known the truth.
If you make a law about not lying to potential partners you should make them about everything, not just being cis or trans. And I assure you, from my experience, men usually lie a lot more when trying to get in a relationship with someone.
@@abrunz1873 what are you even talking about? Bringing hate and misery where? If u keep a secret from someone and that secret ends up affecting that person then is it the other person who is bringing misery or the one who kept the secret???? Whatever Trans people do is their business but they should not put someone else in a position where they feel misled or deceived. That's not how you gain acceptance.
I find it soooo hard to watch her overdone plastic surgery....😖
Watch him*
She should of left her face more natural .She'd look more like a real woman.
She should have left her face more natural. She would have looked like a real woman.
Nikki is Darcey after a couple more surgeries
Spot on.
You try to manipulate him by making him attached to you emotionally before you were honest. The lie backfired.
Nikki’s mom is a gem 🫶
She is enabling nikki to be delusional
She is supporting Nikki's superficial manipulative behavior.🤧
Stupid 😂😂
Naa she not a gem. She is ridiculously insane
@@lsquaretwins514 exafuckenactly
Not the Whitney Houston " Heartbreak Hotel😂
I felt that ❤😅
Cracktabulous Whitney on the Mike, shutout to all the sweaty sistahs
Mom is the one true love that comes in when the whole world is gone . Love you mom❤️🙏🌺🌹💋🙏👄👄
Nikki's mother is a pretty woman. Nikki was probably just as naturally pretty. I wish she would let go of all the 'extra' and lean into a more natural look. I bet she'd be gorgeous.
I would’ve felt sorry for Nikki if she did not hide the fact that she was Trans from the beginning. Coming from traditional, religious and conservative country, people don’t know how damaging this is. It is humiliating for some and against their nature. It is dangerous.
Having to beg someone to love and stay with you is another level of desperation. Girl get up!
He’s not Justin, he’s Igor.. bottom line
It is ironic that she wants to be loved for who she is but calls him Justin…
How do you do the worst thing you can do to a str8 man, lie to him and not tell him you’re trans?! Sent him into a depressed spiral, when he comes back you demand intimacy despite his discomfort. I mean are we surprised he left ?! I’m not, it’s called selfishness. This one made me uneasy
I’m so sad that Sophie and rob went through with the wedding they don’t work well together I don’t have high hopes Sophie has so many issues with him.
Good for Igor, he did the right thing
Chat gpt wrote that break up text for sure haha
when i hear her crying like that, it makes me disgusted. she did it to her self when she lied
If you can't accept the truth about yourself you are not going to accept the truth from anyone else.
I was with my ex that I had known since middle school for 6 years. He didn't even have the balls or the respect to break up with me face to face. He called me while he was at his mother's and broke up with me. I packed all my shit, took my cats and I was gone in less than 4 days. His nephew told him that he's lucky that I didn't steal, break, sell or trash anything. I only cried a few times for a couple minutes and picked my shit up and got it together. I am doing SO much happier after 6 years of absolute HELL! If anyone is going through a hard break up, please know that you are worthy of love. Take time to learn who you are again and love yourself. You got this shit!!!
If it was hell, why didn’t you leave?
@@judymurray191 sometimes with unhealthy relationships you don't see how bad it is until you're out of it. The guy I dated when I was 17 was abusive I broke up with him when I was 19 and it wasn't easy but I got over it faster than I expected. Looking back on it I wish that I left sooner and that I didn't waste any time on him.
Exactly, why it was that bad 👎like hell : 6 years in it?? Were you waiting for him to break up with you 🤨🤦🏻♀️
This isn’t about you and your pathetic life. Go tell your therapist, we’re watching for THEIR story, not yours. Your ex dodged a bullet. Quit whining on the internet
Your comment is literally God-sent. I’m going through a shitty break up after 4 years 😢
Thank you melicia 💝
you are truly a gift.
Never thought I’d be watching ET again but I just love you and you’re insightful takes
She lied to Igor not feeling sorry.
Igor sounds so mature. Wow. He really deserves a beautiful true woman of his dreams.
She is so gross. All she could talk about is sex, it was disgusting. I'm glad he finally got the balls to dump her, it wasn't going to work out anyway. A relationship that starts with lies and deception is doomed.
The fact that Nikki lied to him for so long and then threw it in his face during an argument, this relationship was never going to work after that. End of story. Her disgusting behavior after the fact is just the cherry on top.
That Whitney Houston Heartbreak Song Took Me Out 😂😂😂😂
His/ her face is caving in.
I couldn’t figure it out. I knew it just wrong. Your right!
Agree the face appears twisted at times
He's blocked her. Too bad it hasn't dawned on her yet
Nikki! Dont be begging for love!! You have self worth
After listening to what he had to say, it's obvious he was just using her...what a total jerk!
First off let’s be honest she got off easy… There relationship could have ended with one in grave and other in jail… it’s the audacity of people
the way you justify murder speaks volumes of your quality as a human being.
@@ITHINKDAFUCKNOTYOUTRICKASSBITC Yup , because rape is evil and that’s exactly what was done to this man.
Seen it many times in the U.S.
You are aware his name is not Justin right? It's Igor.
Justin it's about time. She has lie
to you from the begining. She kept
the fact that she was transgender
and he didn't have a clue.He needs
to stay firm and not have nothing
to do with her.
Igor is not a homosexual. He thought Niki was a born woman. He's not attracted to Nikki knowing about it now.
Her dad knows something we don’t know .
He already said he was done.
Until he needs more money and she's stupid she'll give it to him .
Honestly I don’t understand how she thought this relationship would ever work out. They seemed like 2 people that were just worlds apart on everything except the finances she provided him and she clearly used him too. She wanted him for his good looks. But to break up with someone over text and then completely ghost them is honestly cruel. It’s going to make it so much harder for her because she’s not going to be able to have closure.
Nikki needs to learn you can’t have everything you want just because you think you can. She didn’t let this guy have a chance to not want her because she wanted him, her ego is destructive to her detriment her lust for things even when it’s blatantly not for her she refuses to accept. Sad way to live your life!
I agree 💯 with him. You set yourself the minute you held that secret for 2 years.
Never let a man show you more than once that he doesn't want you..he did several times..she chose to close her eyes
It's our honor Melicia!! you rock girl!!. The way you give youre thoughts on the show , are spot on ,so i'm hooked from th start, as all of my friends in the Netherlands. Love you Melicia
she got arrested last year (for like insurance fraud) “allegedly”
Melicia, I just absolutely love you and your uplifting content! You are a humble, wise, and heart-centered soul. Thanks for feeling like a friend I am watching these shows with ❤💕
Maybe if she would SHUT UP for a minute. She never lets anyone talk. I can see why he texted her. She needs therapy to learn i talk, now your turn, etc, etc
Melicia you always do such a marvelous job with the coverage - thank you.. On a side note: it really looks like Igor used CHATGP as the break up...
Nikki took denial to a different level. This relationship was doomed from the beginning. They both need to move on.
He is repulsed by her , don't blame him