I Am Not Over You
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- Опубліковано 10 кві 2017
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just because two people love each other, it doesn't mean they're meant to be together
Angela Hong why not?
Serena Russel
there are things which you can't reply to why what how?
until you get into the same situation 😊
Angela Hong sadly true
totally agreed
yup that's true
"I don't trust myself around you" is sad, romantic, and a little scary all at the same time😢💔
Catie Johnson 😳😳😳😳💔
Catie Johnson so true
Catie Johnson ㅠㅠ
Catie Johnson I was the 1000 like
Isn't it crazy how naive and eager most of us are to fall in love until we experience our first heartbreak...
Lalalaaatia some people say it's better to have lost and loved than to never have loved at all. somehow despite pain, people go in hopeful.
So much agreeeeeeee I never experience heart break till 48 days ago
My first love story of the year!! Have you ever had this too? Let me know :)
LeendaDProductions your such a big inspiration and influence... I hope you keep making videos
Unfortunately no :/ after break ups, I rarely see the person again. Some of us have different realities with endings I guesss
LeendaDProductions This video made me tear.. through my tears, you made me laugh and smile. I know how this feels and I feel the same way, I don't regret the memories; good or bad. And honestly, I don't think I'll ever get over him, but, "I think we'll be fine" 💕
Actually just going through this right now. It was really tough in the beginning but I think I'm getting better. At least now I know I'm not alone in this :)
Nice video, reminds me of this vimeo.com/52590304 (not saying they are similar, but they are both touching and I like them equally)
I think getting back together is always a possibility. However, there are different things that we have to consider:
1. Why are you breaking up in the first place? If it's cheating (it's hard to have another chance). If it's something fixable like not ready, not committed, childish behaviors, it's worth to give another try.
2. Is that person in another relationship at the moment? If she/he is, just let them be happy and don't try to destroy another relationship. Also, ask yourself a question, do you want a person that is so easily given up on love or so easy to move on? If that person is not, does she/he want the same thing? You don't have to ask them (might scare them away), you can just tell by the other's reactions (reply to your texts, call you, care about you,..)
3. Good memories vs. bad memories? If the good memories > bad memories, it's worth to give that person the time needed (might be a month, might be a year) so that person can reminisce about the good times. After all, even though bad things are more significant than good things, but people tend not to hang on to bad things.
4. Do you need them, or do you want that person? Despite being in a relationship, each person has to be independent (can survive, happy, and do things on their own). If you are thinking "I cannot live without this person," then how can that person depend on someone like you. You share your weakness, and your emotions, but do not depend on the other person, he/she will get tired. Being bf gf or husband and wife, we are just sharing the road side by side, not walking on each other's road.
5. Becoming You 2.0.... It's not changing yourself drastically, but you have to think about why it did not work the first time. You got to fix those problems first, become the best version of you. Pick up a new hobby, new interest, new clothing style, experiment with yourself. The most important thing is you have to forgive yourself for all the mistakes you did in the past with that person,
6. Time, time, and time... Don't stalk each other, don't try to hurt each other, don't try to care for each other. Why? Because everything you do at this point just proving that you are a needy person, and those nice things you did will be seen as bothering, intrusive, and will push that person far away. If you have given time and effort to fix and try to win that person back and it still doesn't work, give it even more time. Let that person heal first, and let him/her to contact you first. When he or she does contact, don't push things away, just be friends and chase her/him again. Time will prove that if your love is strong enough to pull you two together again or it will let you know that your love or that person's love was not strong enough.
7. What meant to be will be. Fate will be your best friend. If you guys are meant to be together, fate will make you two met again defies all odds.
God bless you! I really needed to hear these things! Thank you for sharing your thoughts for us to learn to further our journey in life!
The best comment I have read on UA-cam!! Thanks!
I needed this. So much. Thank you.
I really needed to hear these words, thank u so much for sharing 😭♥️
I really needed this lol!
It's been 2yrs since I've talked to my ex. I've dated other guys since then and traveled and lived my life the best that I can but it's not the same. i havent found a connection like the one we had. i miss my best friend and I miss our late night convos. I know I'm not over him.
Linh Nguyen sometimes the right person only come around once, and it's sad we have to learn it the hard way.
Linh Nguyen took me over 3 years and 5 boyfriends to get over what i thought it was "the love of my life".. as much as i tried, i just couldn't get over.. untill one day when i realised that i don't miss him anymore. and i don't want him anymore. it will be fine.. life has its ways :)
Careful not to mythologize anyone person. Often times if you step back you'll realize you're purposely not remembering the negatives and only the positives.
Just do other guys a favor and let them know they don't have a chance at being the guy in your life. Its not fair to have others compete with a myth or compete on an uneven playing field. Also they deserve to find their own SO who will equally view them as the "one".
noah wayne i don't believe in "the one". anyone can be the one if you click with them and if its something you both want
Linh Nguyen I'm going through the same thing and the worst part is that i am the reason we broke up.. since 2 years everyday is hard and I feel so alone with it, I feel like there can't be anyone feeling as alone and as desperate as I do...
and then theres me, have never been in a relationship lolol
Don't be. Feelings get you fucked up. Trust me.
Good for you! I decided i will start dating someone only if i already know i want to marry him. And its so worth it!!!!! I am 24, he is my first boyfriend, we are togerher nearly 3 years and gues what. We are gettting married in september! Oujeeeee :) using brain is good in relationships and when you choose wisely, than you can fall in love how much you want to :D
Jess :D never ever been in a relationship #got7reference
yeah, it has to be just right ;D (getitgetit?)
Jess :D 😉😉😉yess a Ahgase!
THE FEELLLSSS ARE STRONG ON THIS ONE!! 😭😭😭
so beautifully made!
AmyTanyan c
AmyTanyan EMOTIONALLL
"I don't trust myself around you" that sentence just killed me...
Nice job. Love it !!
Someone cutting onions TT_TT!!! This was sooo GOOD Linda :DD Can't wait for more :DD
awe thanks sweetie
WENGIE
Wengie I know I've watched you long enough that I read your comment in your voice😂
Wengie WENGIE! Ily
Wengie I'm wearing water proof mascara in case I cry
Dang, I've been single for years. I forgot how love feels like 😂😂😂
Cristal H yeah I feel you because I been single for years too
Same here!!!
Cristal H haha that rhymed😂
Cristal H except leave the "like" out
I feel like your 'years' is like only 2 years.
this video came at the perfect time.
thevictoriabook ikr, exactly what I'm going through rn. fk me the feels :'(
same here
same :(
+Carmen Day oh but
So, this kind of man do exist ? Perfection .
Carl lorenzo 😳
i mean the way he treat the lady, the way he speak when they talk to each other just wow and meanwhile i can just be quiet listening to my lady when she is arguing things.
This video is so beautifully made. Crying, thank you Leenda for making such great videos for us
chikin! chikin!
kawaiiafangirl No chikin for you. They're for jichu 😜
Couldn't bring myself to watching this until now because I'm going through the same thing with my ex. It's been 5 months, and I know we're not going to get back together but I can't help but miss her. What hurts the most was when she told me she didn't love me as much as she used to anymore. But like so many others say, time heals all wounds. It might be a while, but I'll be fine in time:)
I'm with you on that brother. Stay strong and as time moves on so will you.
I couldnt believe i could relate so much with this .
Living exactly the same thing. Exactly.
Same here
And you will just need to fall in love with someone. Then you will forget her eventually
This... really hit home. This was me and my ex, I kept wanting to fix it and in the end, we just didn't make it. Now, we're better off. my relationship now is better and healthier because I learned from my past. Beautifully made! Keep up the great talent! 😊
Love is incredibly powerful, but even at its strongest, it can sometimes not be enough to hold two people together. This is one of the most beautiful, difficult, and achingly painful relationships a person can have. This is a fairytale romance... one that lives deep in our hearts, our minds, and our souls, but ultimately can never be a reality. At best, it is something we can experience for a short while and then carry with us forever, lost but not forgotten.
liquididentity101 I got into a rel that I knew had challenges but we still loved each other. We didn’t want to regret not trying. Had a beautiful rel for two years before life got in the way. Now it’s hard because I wish we could at least stay friends.
Omg that is why you were on a hiatus for like 2 weeks, you were making an awesome video by using your awesome acting skills! I love this video, i was so into this, keep it up leenda! 👏 (btw i hope you reach 1mil soon!)
Not gonna lie, but I love your name ^^
CHIMCHIM IS IN DA HOUSE
sexy mochi
NCT/GG/17/BTS CHENLE IS BAE AND JIMIN GOT NO JAMS. OMG she deserves 8 million
NCT/GG/17/BTS CHENLE IS BAE AND JIMIN GOT NO JAMS I'm just looking at your name
Don't get me wrong. I've loved Leenda for years, but these vids kinda remind me of the wong fu productions that hit ya right in the feels 😭
UA-cam User Very real and sad. I see it.
UA-cam User i think the music hits the feels even more. i wanna know what the name of the music is.
LEENDA IVE BEEN WATCHING U FOR YEARS AND ITS SO COOL TO SEE HOW MYCH UR ACTUNG HAS IMPROVED THIS IS BOMB
Love is so complicated and this video depicts it so clearly. Love often start simple but as time go by, people get comfortable and other priorities sneak in..eventually people drift and start to be hurt the people they love..thank you for the great video..
Chian Wee Ong that’s what happened to me and my ex. I wish we could be at least friends
I cried when I saw this. I had recently broke up with someone I deeply love and cared about. Our ending wasn't as nice as we'd hoped for, but that definitely doesn't overwrite the small happy moments we shared together. He asked me one night if I'd ever regret us? My answer was much similar to yours; I said I don't regret us and I never will. I will be confused, but those happy moments are irreplaceable. I passed by the restaurant where we last shared a meal together. I thought how silly it was, and things could have played out differently if I didn't react the way that I had. But then, there is no restart button. To put this is economics theory, I was rationalizing the choice that would gain me the most benefit at that time, and he did the same. We are where we are for the choices we make. If the choices head off to different directions, then we should remember that we once had true feelings for each other and hope that we both can find a future that is better, facing the reality that there is no longer "us."
Why did you break up?
How incredibly universal our experiences are with love and grief. There can be so much to convince us we are distinct individuals but everyone feels passion and sorrow. These are the seeds of compassion.
To everyone struggling with a heavy heart: you are not alone. Every difficult season has an end. You will emerge wiser and more capable. Everything you feel is normal. This heartache is temporary. Spend time with people that nourish you and reach out.
I stopped my korean drama to watch this LOL I actually really enjoyed this short & those flashbacks hit hard. The team did a great job! :) & your acting skills are improving a lot!! Can't wait to see what other films you have in store for us ^___^
OMG LEENDA!! 😭😭 She always has great videos for us!!
Sometimes ppl just don't work even if they have the best of intentions for each other. Thanks Leenda for another great video! You always seem to speak to our hearts at exactly the right moments.
ok, about to take a feel trip, brb
I don't really have anyone atm, but I could relate, pretty sad
Underrated
This is too real. :( We broke up and got back together months later. But it's just not really working out, no matter how much we want it to. We just won't click. He keeps hurting me and I keep hurting him by trying to fix the relationship. :( We still love each other... but it's not working out, really :(
Ella Agustine im in the same. its killing me.
:(
same
i'm impressed by your acting, leenda!!! you've improved so much, good to see you in a serious role
This hit me so hard, it's literally how I feel about my ex and it sucks so much. Knowing that you two didn't work and never would work, but on the other hand having truly cared for and loved this person. It's so hard to let go.
Irma same here. I can’t imagine cutting her totally out of my life
It takes a brave person to admit that he/she missed someone.
It's true that we don't have to regret everything because everything happens for a reason and it will make you stronger to face the problem.
Just always remember that problems are part of the relationship, just dont give up!
This is too good Leenda, you're really an amazing content producer. Thank you ❤️
Exactly what i'm going through right now. I really feel this so much. Amazing work, Leenda.
I heard "i miss your presents" i was like wtf HAHHA
fall3nange11 lol
Omg this really hits home. Another awesome Linda! Thank you!
A little over a year ago, I watched this in pure innocence, unknowing of the emotions conveyed in this video. Yet, here I am, now, not totally having experienced the same situation, but going through something similar. It’s hard. It hurts. Time will heal, but sometimes, you can’t keep waiting on time...
This video is amazing! Keep up the good work leenda!
WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!!!!
MikeBowShow lolololol
Okay Ross
#rossandrachel
MikeBowShow lmao😂😂
After all this years... some of your work still hits... I really love you content now and I loved the old ones.
You are an incredible Content Creator Leenda...
Thank you
You really out done yourself here Leenda! Your acting is amazing here!
the timing ... you always make these at the exact time it relates to my life the most ;-;
This is some Wong-Fu type feelings right here, great job leenda!!!
I actually really needed this right now. Thank you so much ❤️
this was beautiful and so well needed in my life. Hard to believe I'm not alone in my thoughts when you display them so effortlessly. Thank you Leenda
This was so beautifully done! It's very sweet and an accurate portrayal of life. Very inspired Leenda!
This is so sad. Makes me really think about what I have now with my boyfriend. I would never want to leave him because when i look back i see more positives than negatives and those are the experiences and memories that count. Linda you hit the spot :')
10 years on, been in a relationship for at least 6 years of that and I still feel this way about someone in the past. There are some people you will never get over and neither will they get over you too.
OMG!!! So touching!!! They are beautiful. Both of them! Wish I had people like that in my life...
Linda, you are sooooo talented. Your talents will take you far. I wish you much success and happiness. Love your videos.
Communication is key ppl. Don't take the easy route out of a relationship just because of a simple fight or disagreement. Talk it out, compromise and learn from that experience. Thats why I'm happily single to this day haha... 😭
THE FEELS!!!
*No tears were lost in the process of watching this work of art
AS IF I COULD HOLD THE TEARS AND FEELS IN!!!
I cried. Thank you two for this beautiful vid.
Mike Bow + Linda Dong?!?! Oh that's it, I got to get going on UA-cam videos. Almost all of my Asian UA-camr I'm subscribed to and comment about potatoes on collaborate with each other eventually. Next Thing I know Linda will be on JKnews, Wengie be on Mike Bow's channels, and David So will be on WahlieTV.
Linda, get a good agent I want to see you in movies and TV shows. You have a fanbase of almost 1 million
Crap. Your back?
Viet Lee dont forget Bubz and Judy ! Although they are probably the least likely of all to collab with anyone ):
Viet Lee I think leenda has a video coming up with Wong fu too! Chris dinh is in it!
Leenda*
I lOVE THESE KINDS OF VIDEOS ... this is so real and beautiful
LOVE this short. It resonates so strongly with my own experiences. Thank you for making this.
I found myself crying when the credits were shown😭😭😭love is so powerful❤
This video just shows you that love teaches you a lot and it gives you so many great and bad experiences that when you put them all together you get memories that mostly you can never regret
Beautiful acting! ❤
I thought about this before... oh how it played so many different ways in my head. Just happy as fuck now that I don't seem to fantasize about it no more. I'm super confident that if ever this day comes it'll all be good... no hate, no love, no confusion. just peace and forgiveness.
Okay but Leena is so so so talented when it comes to skits and stuff.. I love how they aren't too long, and are so emotional at the same time!!! This was amazing!
this is by far one of the best videos you've ever made. it made me cry great job, Leenda.
ahhhh love the introooo
I feel like there should be some fight scenes sprinkled in, just to visualize how bad their break up was. Other than that, wonderful short! Definitely resonated with me. :)
You did it again. Brilliant piece.
Leenda you have great acting skills, I teared up watching this! Great job :')
Sooo freaking relatable right now 🙁☹😦😢😭
I'm in love with this guy but he's leaving tomorrow and I'm not going to see him for 2 years we talk all the time and we hug everyday he is so sweet and kind I want to tell him I like him but I'm nervous about what his reaction is going to be please help should I tell him? I need advice by tomorrow so if you have any Suggestions please leave me a comment
Your heart saying go for it while your brain says maybe not. Don't listen to your brain when it comes to relationship with people. Good luck!
You should tell him. Better than regretting something you never did, who knows it might motivate you guys to stay in touch.
Squinkies 11 just be honest and tell him everything you've been wanting to say! Remember that you shouldn't live with any regrets!
Squinkies 11 you should tell him.I have a strong feeling he likes you.Wish you guys be together.
Just tell him that you appreciated his company and that you will miss him because you like him..
This was so beautiful! The ending with the music and scene was just perfect!!!!
acting on POINT! need more like this please
on my view love is just a word full of beautiful imagination.. it's a fantasy we read in books n watch in movies.. like a cloud from far it seems real but we can't touch or catch it..
I HONESTLY JUST lOVE THESE KINDS OF VIDEO
His voice sooooo deep!!!... I love deep voices!!😍😍😍
Okay this girl is 3 of 3 making videos about my life. Gotta sub now. She too real
I like the movie shots and the background music so much.:-) Thats really really impress me. Haha, thats true, thought we broke up, we may still love the person. When he moves on, get another relationship, I feels hurt.
But your movie is the reality of my story. Although the relationship ends for many years, the beautiful moment still in my mind. Fighting! waiting for your another great movies.
Leenda are u watching my life? This literally happen to me like two months ago... Thats crazy!!
I missed u! Love this story ❤️❤️
LINDA YOUR ACTING HAS BECOME SO INCREDIBLE!!
Every time the credits start rolling I can't believe that I was so engrossed in the short video that I lost track of time. This goes for all of your videos Leenda! Awesome job :)
seeing this broke my heart
I was in a relationship , but we had to cut it
he approached me recently
and I am still in love with him
I adore his presence
but we can't make it
Your videos and channel are gorgeous 😍😊 Thank you for saying what I couldn't say
My ex and I have literally had that exact same conversation. Too many feels Leenda, too many feels.
peaceofmind77 have you guys been able to keep the friendship?
This video is hitting way to close to home right now.....the feels are strong. I've had a relationship play out almost exactly this way. That person has left a permanent handprint on my heart and I don't think I'll ever be the same way again
Such a wonderful beautifully made video. Reminds me of someone I know who was in the similar situation but was never able to fully get over the past and ended up hurting his present. Thank you for the feels, Leenda (:
I deleted the photos, messages of my ex the day we broke up. But within 3 months, I regretted everything I did. I missed him. Missed the time we spend together, the things we heavily disagree on.... Even until today, more than a year later, I don't think I've moved on from him.
Qiaochu Zhao I'm the same way :/
Qiaochu Zhao I miss my ex a lot too. I’m at a point where I’ll be okay to be friends and be happy for her. But only thing is I don’t know if she wants that. I’m confused too. Why would they say they want to be friends and then they stop talking. I know that means they never intended that in the first place.
Does that mean everything my ex said and did (she wrote me a long letter) during the break up, she really didn’t mean it?
It gets easier to move on after you fall in love and break up with 2 or 3 more people. They'll be a forgotten after-thought, when you're too busy enjoying a fabulous relationship with someone who is better than all 4 of those people combined into a super significant other.
same, it still hurts so bad
How're things now?
omgggg miss Leenda so muchh
Wish people were still this honest about how they felt
Wow, omg, this was incredible and it spoke to me. Good job Leenda.
Throughout the entire video I was like "PLS GET BACK TOGETHER!!"
aha I like that 'cheap haircut on main street' 😂👌
#DepthOfField on point btw and your skills are refining Leenda!
oh my goodness, this brought me to tears. too relatable. thank you for the amazing video
This really hit me. Good Job on this amazing Skit!!! 💖💖💖💖💖💖
A+ acting
"I don't trust myself around you"😢
I haven't seen any of your videos for like a year now, and you've gotten so good. party hard love harder
reminds me of a wong fu short films. great job! love it. brings back memories
in that moment, I loved him very much :) although we broke up, we are still on good terms. the most mature way is to stay on good terms with one another if it stills works out. LOVE YOUR NEW VIDEO LINDA
Jenny Truong what if I thought we ended on good terms. But she slowly has been fading away. I wish we could be friends still since we were friends for years before. I wished her well on s big presentation and no responses.
@@LT808HI let them contact you. Just live your life and be happy and open to new and hopefully better people. Whats meant to be will always come back to you.
this makes me sad, my girlfriend left me two days after Christmas because of me not doing work for a class of mine and she had to mother me about it and bug me about it just to get me to do it. she would do that because she worried about me and my future and I didn't stop her worrying. and also how anxious and awkward I got talking to her parents and avoided talking to them but they saw that as rude. I was getting better at doing my work and talking to her parents and I was making progress. it's been 3 and a half months and I don't go a day without missing her or wanting her back but every attempt I made has just made things worse yet for some reason I keep trying. probably because when I think about the future I don't care about how I end up because it's without her and if it's without her why bother with anything. I don't want a future without her. The only future I want is one with her, nothing else matters to me.
It's okay that he's still spending time discovering who he is. I'm not as much worried about his lack of ambition as his lack of trust. He lied to you that he wasn't going to school. That's unacceptable.
lightshade lying isn't okay to me, I made sure not to lie to her and tell her I was doing my stuff. I chose to be honest which maybe was a mistake. if I had lied and eventually finished my class even though it would be slower than I was telling her things might have been better
TheNeonWhiteOne well u do have a panda on your head
Kimberly Vang what would you have him do
TheNeonWhiteOne I can relate extremely well to this. I talk to him every day, but I have a hard time living each day knowing that the chances of having any future together are so slim. I ended it. I said I didn't want to be in a relationship anymore, I've been through too much.. but the truth is.. He's religious, I'm not. His religion requires him to marry into it, but the more I look into it and try so hard the further away I feel from it. I want a future with him, that's the only future I want.. But I can't lie, I can't pretend, so I have to try and keep my distance. I can't see a future for myself anymore.
OMG BROZ I HOPE THIS BECOMES A SERIES!!!!! ILY LEENDA❤❤
Wow... That was really good! Thanks for making it.
This made me so damn sad!! I like my crush so very much I even went crazy when our shoulders touched by mistake we he was passing by me.. I don't have any relationship with him we never talked and I know we will never be together I don't even know how he feels for me. We have sooo much in common and he hit all the check marks that what attracts me to men.. he's so perfect, funny, awesome personality, tall, and very handsome.. Dany I really like you even though we're not meant to be but I do like you.. I have to let you go I'm not ok now but I'll be someday..
well, i had ups and downs in my previous relationship. we talked a lot about being together, getting married, etc. we were in a relationship for 3 years during in university. but after graduated, we were in long distance relationship because of the internship, things changed, i knew there were plenty of guys trying to woe her, she ended up breaking up with me through facebook messenger without giving me a proper answer on why she is leaving me. till this day i still haven't let go of her, and i still love her. thinking of 1 day we can be together again. this is my story happened 2 years ago. :'(
oh my i fear that might happen to my relationship when one of us goes to college abroad...
Shes getting plowed alot
Anddres Torres the fuck is wrong with u?
Lily G so you want this poor guy to be in love and stay in love. With a girl that doesnt give to shits about him. And she bangs guys like me.... No thats stupid that guy should hear the truth and move on with his life. Im not gonna be a liar to protect your feelings
Lily G i had experienced girls cheating on there bf with me many times. I remmember once this girl and me where in the back of my car having sex. And her bf was texting her "i love you so much blah blah blah" and she texted him back and she made fun of him to me. Calling him weak and this and that. And i was just thinking to myself (woah girls are horrible people 😄) this is really common.
Wow, this brought up so much heartache... Absolutely amazing! Great job!
Thank you Leenda, I really needed to see that video. My mind is much more clear and I don't feel as depressed anymore. 😢