I have never hoped for something to be clickbait more than I was hoping for this video to be clickbait. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family have resources and systems of people in place to make this grieving process for Daisy as supported as possible. Thank you for sharing this moment with us.
Same, I saw the title and said "Please let this not be what it sounds like!" But it is. These people are strangers to me, but my heart still breaks for their loss, because I can't imagine losing any of my children. Not now that they're half-grown, and not when they were contentedly bumping around in my belly. Unborn babies are human, and they are loved, and it's tragic when any of them die.
if you think Matt could ever think of clickbaiting something like that, you are seriously mistaken about his moral compass. Condolences guys , we lost our first child too while pregnant and still miss her.
I'm so sorry Matt. I love that you say "she was real". She was!! We lost our first baby a couple of years ago, and all people said was "it wasn't real yet", but to us she was real. It made dealing with the loss such a lonely process. We gave her a name but we couldn't share it with anyone. So thank you for sharing her name, it's beautiful. And lots of love and prayers for you guys. You'll get through this
This happened to us with our 1st baby. We have 4 kids now. Our kids know that we lost our first baby. They frequently say that they have a big brother in heaven that they will meet one day. It gives me comfort knowing that he is remembered and loved by his other siblings. My condolences to you and your wife. 💐 🕊️
Yes, they have an older brother. My parents lost my 7th sibling to sids. He was born. He existed. He is my brother, in heaven. But he is still my brother. I visit his grave when I can.
Matt and family. I am so very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful name you guys chose.. Daisy. I pray for your family and thank you for this beautiful video you made and had the courage to share. God Bless!
The pain of the loss of unborn babies is certainly not talked about enough. Thank you for sharing yourself from such a vulnerable place. You touched my heart. I send a hug to you, Nat and your son.
Thank you for sharing this Matt and for your profound courage to read the letter to us. Daisy is a beautiful name. It’s unimaginable how tough this loss must feel but im sure she will always be with you in many ways and you will continue to feel each other’s love. My deepest condolences. I’m sending you and your wife all the love.
Beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing. My wife and I struggled to get pregnant but we finally did 21 years ago and had a wonderful baby daughter. Several years later we unexpectedly got pregnant and lost th baby,. We decded to try again and lost that baby as well to an ectopic pregnancy. Blighted ovum, they called it. After that we adopted a 13 year old boy to be our son. He had many problems that we ultimately could not solve and at this moment he's in jail waiting on trial for several felony charges. We love him, but we could not help him. 3 years ago he had a baby with his girlfriend at the time. Neither of them coulld take care of the baby so we took him and he's been with us ever since. He's a wonderful boy, and even though I never anticipated being a new father at 50, he's been a gift. I say this to tell you that sometimes things are vrey hard and you don't know how you can get through, but sometimes wonderful things come of it. Stay strong, both of you.
I am very sorry. I’ve seen such pain and loss in my own family but also much joy. My brother has spent a lot of my life in jail. Thankfully he’s been out for about ten years and most of the harm he did was to his own life. Lots of lost time. But he’s been out and it’s not been perfect but mostly it’s been good so I’m thankful. Many nephews and nieces and now great nieces and newphews and I worry about each one but also love them. Being an uncle to so many is strange for sure. Worry but also blessings. I’m glad for your boy and love for him. My own mother has raised many a niece and nephew. Currently has two living with her that are adults and one with two boys for her own. I love those two toddler babies so much🙏🏼💕💕💕
I’ve never commented on a UA-cam video before but just the first couple seconds broke me. I’m so sorry and I really hope you and your wife can move forward after taking all the time you need to mourn. Thank you for so many years of inspiring videos.
@@_claraduarte_ Well we're not sure what their situation is but we found out at a big scan that our Baby wouldn't survive. He lived for an incredibly short time.
I’m not a dad, not a regular commenter on UA-cam, nor a longtime subscriber to your channel, but I couldn’t hold back from expressing my deepest condolences for your loss. Thinking of you, mate.
The things you wrote to your baby are the things we, as parents, take for granted every day. Daisy made a difference for me today as a father of 5. Life in the womb is truly beautiful.
As a father of a 4 month old girl, my brain cannot even register the amount, and the type of pain you're going through. Stay stronger than ever. My condolences
As someone who has lost 2 babies pre-term i can understand what you are feeling right now, Your wife needs you, It will take her a long time to overcome this. Whenever we used to visit doctor and doctor used to ask about history and every time she used to narrate her lost pregnancies she used to start crying. She finally gave birth to our first daughter during covid (pre-term) and immediately went onto a ventilator for next 14 days ( due to covid ), Her survival was nothing short of a miracle. We used to look around and see everyone is having babies without issues, why is it us who has to suffer extreme challenges. I have huge respect for my wife for what she endured for us, Please take care of your wife Matt
We love you, we’re here for you. We’ll always think of Daisy when we stop to smell a beautiful flower. Wrapping you and the family in pure, warm love 💗
Brother, no words. I've come to you for inspiration so many times. I am deeply saddened by the loss of your child. Daisy was here, not long enough, but long enough to enrich the lives of both of you. Take care.
I lost twins during pregnancy and "I can't wait" to hold them in my arms in heaven one day. And they, too, had been given names, because this makes them come to life, so to say. We are very, very sorry. God bless your family, all of you.
The courage to put this out in the world is so touching. I can’t imagine the pain you and Nat must be feeling. Thank you for sharing this - I know it will help someone else not feel alone. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Hi Matt, I'm very sorry for your loss, Daisy is a beautiful name. I had my first daughter, Ava, 3 months ago, and she came stillborn after 40 weeks, you are not alone also, the grieving process as a couple can be hard, at any given moment I can be fine and my partner not and vice versa. Participating in support groups have been helpful for us, to see that this can happen to other people and that there is live after the grieving period. She existed and a father wants to talk about his daughter, even if she's passed, so use her name and talk about her, this topic is such taboo but she was here and forever changed your life, you'll learn about pain, loss and compassion. Take care of each other and remember that your wife like mine, is going through puerperium without a baby so patience is key. Also take care of yourself too, society many times puts the father in a role to be the rock and to have to endure it all, but we feel it too, so let yourself go through it, they tell me time helps, but we can't speed up that, so hang in there. I'm very sorry for your loss, sending you, Nat and Daisy all my love from Brazil.
So sorry for your loss..we lost our first and only baby girl the same way, at 32 weeks of pregnancy..it was 5 years ago (Covid times so nobody even saw me pregnant)..first 2 years were the hardest but talking about her helps a lot..after some time I realized that she is never truly gone, she is always with us, sending us messages here and there..I just need to pay attention in the world more. Sending you and your partner all the good thoughts.
I miscarried at 16 weeks over a year ago now. I still think about her so, so much. Thank you for talking about your loss; so many people feel like they can't talk about it, or that it's not a real loss, and that's just not true. You've lost a child-I am so, so sorry. There are really no words.
I’ve lost 3 babies. It’s never easy. Their lives were short, but we’re the only ones that know it. To them, all they knew was you, and your love, and that’s a perfect life ♥️
God bless you and the loss you’ve experienced. I was so sad reading your comment but I also love how supportive it was. May only the best be directed towards you🥹🙏🏼
Life and Death is a cycle brother, I'm really sorry for your loss. When i was suffering a lot in my life after losing someone your videos have helped me alot, although i have not achieved anything in my life you gave me a reason to stand and keep moving forward. I believe this happens when there is a small disturbance in your ancestry circle up there in the heavens. I'll tell you something on how to stop this from happening again from a spiritual perspective whether you will do it or not it's up to you but it's my duty to tell you. On a New Moon day light up a candle and tell your ancestors especially your Parents or Grandparents (if they are alive then go directly and ask for their blessings) if you remember their names it's even better and ask for forgiveness say that you wish for them to be born again within your family and that you want to start a life with the new born. This will not only help with your baby but in all other aspects of life. Hope this helps🙏🏾 I'll pray for you and Natalie always. Lokah Samastah Sukino Bhavantu🕉️
I'm so sorry and so proud of you Matt. Thank you for sharing, for being so inspiring and open even in the most personal and hard moments. Appreciate it a lot.
sorry for your loss, matt and nat. daisy is such a beautiful name, and i just want to say you're really brave for sharing this heartbreaking story. it must be tough. please hang in there.
I’m profoundly sorry for your loss. Daisy is a beautiful name and as I once heard, you now have a guardian angel of whom you know their name. Sending you love and strength from Portugal. Thank you for sharing your tribute with us, and most importantly, for letting us know your lovely daughter.
Matt and Nat, my condolences for losing Daisy. I have followed you for years and never commented, but I want you to know that you too are not alone. Grief and loss aren't easy. You don't just lose someone, but also something that could have been: a future that you imagined. Please take all the time you need to process this. Make room to remember Daisy in your lives, in your home, and in your mind. Continue to pay tribute to her, write letters for her, and embrace all the love you felt for her. It will be difficult to go through it all, but again, you are not alone in this. Thank you for making this video for us so that we remember to appreciate how life can be beautiful, fleeting, and cruel at the same time. It takes tremendous strength and vulnerability to put something like this out there, but you have made it into a beautiful tribute. I hope you read these comments knowing that we stand by you and that we mourn with you. Lots of love from the Netherlands
I respect your willingness to put your guard down and get emotional on camera. This is proof you are being truly yourself. Love the content Matt. My condolences. Love you brother.
She was real and she mattered ❤ I’ve lost a child to miscarriage and it’s the worst. Wishing you time to heal and an earth side baby in the not too distant future
Thank you for sharing such a difficult experience, and what a beautiful tribute. It will help others going this not feel so alone. Sending all the love possible across the miles.
I rarely ever comment on UA-cam videos, but I had to say I'm so sorry to hear this. Your letter made me cry, it was beautiful and heart-breaking at the same time. I wish you both well in the healing process and we all mourn Daisy with you.
@Intmain69 Try to Google miscarriage or stillbirth. Whoever, if you are very young, it is better to speak with an adult/counselor/parent who you trust and who is able to explain this kind of topic.
I’m so sorry. I have also travelled this road. Thank you for sharing your grief at losing little Daisy. “A joy shared is a joy doubled; a shared sorrow is half a sorrow”. ❤
As a mother of loss, I felt all the emotions watching this. We suffered many miscarriages and lost our first born from amniotic band syndrome and anancephaly. My daughter, Avery, would be 13 this year. It does get easier, but the grief comes in like waves some days. Sending you, Nat, and your family so much love, peace, and positive energy. Daisy was real, loved, and valuable to your story ❤
Dude, I cried like if it was my child. You guys are brave and strong people. It’s crazy to think this 5minute video has actually changed my life and in how I look at life from this point onward. Thank you
I can't begin to understand the enormity of this loss for you, Nat, and your family. No words, I'm just so very sorry. Thank you for being so vulnerable and for sharing your grief and sadness in this video. I think this was a beautiful way to help memorialize Daisy and preserve her memory. ❤
Daisy will always be your daughter, and you her father. She was and the memory of her is very real. The letter that you wrote was absolutely beautiful, and a simple but amazing memorial to her. My wife and I lost our son, Declan, at birth back in 2014. To this day we count him amongst his siblings as one of our kids. The missing him does not go away, but the pain does subside eventually, as unlikely as that may feel right now for you. You will find ways that work best for you, but taking opportunities, even little ones, to include Declan’s memory have always helped us - like using his name, and signing it on Christmas cards with the other kids’ names, etc. You are in our thoughts, and we thank you for sharing your daughter, Daisy’s name with us!
This video is such a gift to your daughter and to your family and to all those who have suffered a loss. Thank you for sharing your heart and for lifting others who are in pain. I’m so very sorry for your loss. ❤
I am so sorry for your and Nat's loss. As a dad who has gone through a similar loss watching this brings me to tears. It is content like this that helps others move through our own grief. Thank you for sharing Daisy's story with us all.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be keeping your family in my prayers. Daisy has had an incredible impact on the world based on what you've said here and how the people commenting have been touched by your beautiful tribute. Life is precious. God bless ❤
I recently lost my wife exactly 2 weeks ago on Monday. She was only 29. We've been together for 6 years and married for 2,5 years. We wanted to have babies too but she got cancer immediately after we got married... Why I'm writing down this is because I know for a fact that she is now in heaven and I can't wait to meet her. You are right about Daisy, she is real. May it be your consolation that she is in heaven, the best place she could be. I hope you and your wife find your way to that path if you haven't already. Jesus said: "I am the Way, and the Truth, and the Life". With love and sympathy Aron.
Matt and Nat, thank you for sharing this with us. It's a beautiful tribute to Daisy, and I admire your willingness to express your grief as a way to express your love for her. I hope that it does nothing but draw you closer to to the realness of her life and all the love you shared.
So sorry for your loss, my husband and I went through this and its hard, but talking about this tiny baby is important because was part of our life and always will be. we have 2 healthy kids now and they know about a little sibling that was here for a little bit. Love and hugs for your wife and you. thank you for sharing. It's so important to normalize it because is very common, but I never knew people around me went through the same too but never told me until It happened to me, it is important to talk about our losses and give space for our grief with the support of the people around us.
IDK why this was in my feed, but holy shit man I am so, so sorry for your loss. I have two daughters and my biggest fear from finding out we were having kids to this day is the thought of losing either of them. My thoughts go out to you and Nat. Daisy may not have had a long life, but she was loved greatly and will be remembered for as long as you both live.
Oh man, Matt. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I feel this deeply and truly appreciate you sharing this with us. Thank you. I'm going to pray for you, Nat and Daisy. God bless.
I’m so sorry , this is heartbreaking. I’ve lost my baby during pregnancy too. Thank you for your courage to share , it is so important to know that no one is alone in this, there are quite a few of us 💔
My heart aches, and my eyes just can't stop crying. But I hope you both read this. Never have I been so strongly inspired by someone. You chose to confront your feelings and express them rather than ignoring or saving yourself from them. That shows that you two have a healthy and strong relationship. Immense power to you Matt and Natalie.♥
I don't know how to tell you, but as a father, I'm crying my eyes out here and now. Take care of you wife and cry, keep crying. I'll be praying for you three.
It takes so much courage to make a video or a post about this topic. My condolences. I have not gone through anything like this but since the first seconds of the video I felt it. Sending some love and strength.
Thank you for posting this, Matt. It is very clear that you and your wife's love for Daisy is beautifully represented here. ❤ If I could offer you a hug, I would. 🫂 Please take whatever time (and help) you, your wife, and son need to grieve. Within my own experience, grief is not a linear path; but one that goes in different directions, with different strengths, on different days. It doesn't really go away, but it's waves' impact will slowly lower over time. Talking about her (with those around you, or support groups online) has provided some small amount of relief for myself. A good therapist who specializes in grief can also be helpful to open up with. I'm not sure how religious you are, but you and your family will be in my prayers. 🙏 Much love to you all.
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing it. You are showing incredible strength. We lost our first at six weeks. I was writing a journal to the baby and said goodbye in a very similar way as your letter. It was moving and powerful to hear you read it. You are not alone.
Sobbing I’ve lost two and like your initial response was to move on and put it behind us… thank you for sharing a beautiful and healthy way to acknowledge the life in your wife’s womb and her special place in your life.sweet little daisy ❤
OMG Matt, I'm so sorry for your lost from Colombia. She is going to be an angel that will never leave you guys alone. God blesses you and gives you both the strength and the the hope to continue. I just write this crying, thank you for being so brave and sharing your pain with us.
This was heart-breaking. I don't know you, Matt, but as a parent with 4 healthy adult children, I can't begin to imagine how devastating & bereft you must both feel. Your letter was so touching.... Couldn't stop the tears. Thank you for sharing. ❤
That is rough Matt, my heart cries out for you. We lost 6 before our rainbow daughter arrived, hersister is due in a few weeks. I hope that if you try again that Daisy's little brother or sister is happy and healthy.
So sorry for you. But you took the pain and made something really beautiful out of it. A love letter to your wife and unborn child. Just wonderful. Thank you for sharing. Wishing you all the best
I have never hoped for something to be clickbait more than I was hoping for this video to be clickbait.
I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family have resources and systems of people in place to make this grieving process for Daisy as supported as possible.
Thank you for sharing this moment with us.
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Same, I saw the title and said "Please let this not be what it sounds like!"
But it is. These people are strangers to me, but my heart still breaks for their loss, because I can't imagine losing any of my children. Not now that they're half-grown, and not when they were contentedly bumping around in my belly. Unborn babies are human, and they are loved, and it's tragic when any of them die.
I'm honestly pissed that he monetised the video tbh.
if you think Matt could ever think of clickbaiting something like that, you are seriously mistaken about his moral compass.
Condolences guys , we lost our first child too while pregnant and still miss her.
i wished so much that this was clickbait :(
My condolences, Matt. So sorry for your loss.
You, too, are not alone. Thank you for sharing Daisy's memory.
I’m so sorry to hear. I wish you and Nat the Best, Daisy’s memory will live on forever
I'm so sorry Matt. I love that you say "she was real". She was!!
We lost our first baby a couple of years ago, and all people said was "it wasn't real yet", but to us she was real. It made dealing with the loss such a lonely process. We gave her a name but we couldn't share it with anyone. So thank you for sharing her name, it's beautiful. And lots of love and prayers for you guys. You'll get through this
Your baby was real. Maybe not to others, but she was real in her own right, and she was real to you. So sorry that you were told otherwise.
It was hard not to tear up watching this. Sorry for your loss, our thoughts are with you and Nat.
I teared up watching this. It is okay to tear up. It is okay to feel emotions. Especially when something so sad happens. :c
I wept. No shame.
Me too.
@@BryceChristopherHodge same here
I cried and I don't even know who this guy is 😔
This happened to us with our 1st baby. We have 4 kids now. Our kids know that we lost our first baby. They frequently say that they have a big brother in heaven that they will meet one day. It gives me comfort knowing that he is remembered and loved by his other siblings. My condolences to you and your wife. 💐 🕊️
Man, that hit me.
Yes. It's going to be the sweetest reunion. ❤
I have two siblings who got to heaven under the same circumstances. :) I'm so glad my parents kept trying after two miscarriages.
Yes, they have an older brother. My parents lost my 7th sibling to sids. He was born. He existed. He is my brother, in heaven. But he is still my brother. I visit his grave when I can.
Matt and family. I am so very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful name you guys chose.. Daisy. I pray for your family and thank you for this beautiful video you made and had the courage to share. God Bless!
The pain of the loss of unborn babies is certainly not talked about enough. Thank you for sharing yourself from such a vulnerable place. You touched my heart. I send a hug to you, Nat and your son.
Thank you for sharing this Matt and for your profound courage to read the letter to us. Daisy is a beautiful name. It’s unimaginable how tough this loss must feel but im sure she will always be with you in many ways and you will continue to feel each other’s love. My deepest condolences. I’m sending you and your wife all the love.
Beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing. My wife and I struggled to get pregnant but we finally did 21 years ago and had a wonderful baby daughter. Several years later we unexpectedly got pregnant and lost th baby,. We decded to try again and lost that baby as well to an ectopic pregnancy. Blighted ovum, they called it. After that we adopted a 13 year old boy to be our son. He had many problems that we ultimately could not solve and at this moment he's in jail waiting on trial for several felony charges. We love him, but we could not help him.
3 years ago he had a baby with his girlfriend at the time. Neither of them coulld take care of the baby so we took him and he's been with us ever since. He's a wonderful boy, and even though I never anticipated being a new father at 50, he's been a gift.
I say this to tell you that sometimes things are vrey hard and you don't know how you can get through, but sometimes wonderful things come of it. Stay strong, both of you.
Such wise helpful words...❤ thanks for sharing this.
Stay blessed.
Thanks for sharing your story
Bless you! ❤
I am very sorry. I’ve seen such pain and loss in my own family but also much joy. My brother has spent a lot of my life in jail. Thankfully he’s been out for about ten years and most of the harm he did was to his own life. Lots of lost time. But he’s been out and it’s not been perfect but mostly it’s been good so I’m thankful. Many nephews and nieces and now great nieces and newphews and I worry about each one but also love them. Being an uncle to so many is strange for sure. Worry but also blessings. I’m glad for your boy and love for him. My own mother has raised many a niece and nephew. Currently has two living with her that are adults and one with two boys for her own. I love those two toddler babies so much🙏🏼💕💕💕
@@taintedlife2618 Thank you.
I’ve never commented on a UA-cam video before but just the first couple seconds broke me. I’m so sorry and I really hope you and your wife can move forward after taking all the time you need to mourn. Thank you for so many years of inspiring videos.
Sadly, I know Matt's pain too well. I know exactly how he is feeling.
@@lisashoegalSo sorry it happened to you. ❤
@@_claraduarte_ Well we're not sure what their situation is but we found out at a big scan that our Baby wouldn't survive. He lived for an incredibly short time.
@@lisashoegali’m sorry
I’m not a dad, not a regular commenter on UA-cam, nor a longtime subscriber to your channel, but I couldn’t hold back from expressing my deepest condolences for your loss. Thinking of you, mate.
I am so sorry and I am so proud that you shared that, because it makes other people feel less alone. Thank you for being you.
The things you wrote to your baby are the things we, as parents, take for granted every day. Daisy made a difference for me today as a father of 5. Life in the womb is truly beautiful.
These were my thoughts exactly
As a father of a 4 month old girl, my brain cannot even register the amount, and the type of pain you're going through. Stay stronger than ever. My condolences
She was so real, Matt. Thank you for sharing her with us. I adore the name Daisy so much.
😊😊😊😅😊
Daisy is a such a magestic name 🌼
As someone who has lost 2 babies pre-term i can understand what you are feeling right now, Your wife needs you, It will take her a long time to overcome this. Whenever we used to visit doctor and doctor used to ask about history and every time she used to narrate her lost pregnancies she used to start crying. She finally gave birth to our first daughter during covid (pre-term) and immediately went onto a ventilator for next 14 days ( due to covid ), Her survival was nothing short of a miracle.
We used to look around and see everyone is having babies without issues, why is it us who has to suffer extreme challenges.
I have huge respect for my wife for what she endured for us, Please take care of your wife Matt
I’m sorry Matt, I hope you find strength in the love and support surrounding you.
We love you, we’re here for you. We’ll always think of Daisy when we stop to smell a beautiful flower. Wrapping you and the family in pure, warm love 💗
Brother, no words. I've come to you for inspiration so many times.
I am deeply saddened by the loss of your child. Daisy was here, not long enough, but long enough to enrich the lives of both of you.
Take care.
I lost twins during pregnancy and "I can't wait" to hold them in my arms in heaven one day. And they, too, had been given names, because this makes them come to life, so to say.
We are very, very sorry. God bless your family, all of you.
Writing letters to Daisy was a beautiful idea. Thank you for sharing. You’re not alone.
The courage to put this out in the world is so touching. I can’t imagine the pain you and Nat must be feeling. Thank you for sharing this - I know it will help someone else not feel alone. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Hi Matt, I'm very sorry for your loss, Daisy is a beautiful name. I had my first daughter, Ava, 3 months ago, and she came stillborn after 40 weeks, you are not alone also, the grieving process as a couple can be hard, at any given moment I can be fine and my partner not and vice versa. Participating in support groups have been helpful for us, to see that this can happen to other people and that there is live after the grieving period. She existed and a father wants to talk about his daughter, even if she's passed, so use her name and talk about her, this topic is such taboo but she was here and forever changed your life, you'll learn about pain, loss and compassion. Take care of each other and remember that your wife like mine, is going through puerperium without a baby so patience is key. Also take care of yourself too, society many times puts the father in a role to be the rock and to have to endure it all, but we feel it too, so let yourself go through it, they tell me time helps, but we can't speed up that, so hang in there. I'm very sorry for your loss, sending you, Nat and Daisy all my love from Brazil.
Beautiful comments and advice. So sorry for your loss, too.
I am so sorry. God bless you. ❤
So sorry for your loss..we lost our first and only baby girl the same way, at 32 weeks of pregnancy..it was 5 years ago (Covid times so nobody even saw me pregnant)..first 2 years were the hardest but talking about her helps a lot..after some time I realized that she is never truly gone, she is always with us, sending us messages here and there..I just need to pay attention in the world more. Sending you and your partner all the good thoughts.
Feeling this. Beautiful way to honor Daisy and your love for her.
I miscarried at 16 weeks over a year ago now. I still think about her so, so much. Thank you for talking about your loss; so many people feel like they can't talk about it, or that it's not a real loss, and that's just not true. You've lost a child-I am so, so sorry. There are really no words.
So incredibly sorry for your loss Matt. Sending strength and healing to you & your family. ❤🩹
I lost two babies this way, the heartbreak is indescribable - your tribute was beautiful, thank you for sharing
(((BIGGGGG HUGGGGGGGG)))
In what way? He didn't say what happened?
@@SPPACATR She means during pregnancy.
@@SPPACATRmiscarriage….? Literally learn about the human body please…. 🙄
Same here...last one was really traumatic, we have stopped trying
Wishing you’ll strength in these difficult times Matt. Couldn’t help but tear up listening to the homage.
I’ve lost 3 babies. It’s never easy. Their lives were short, but we’re the only ones that know it. To them, all they knew was you, and your love, and that’s a perfect life ♥️
God bless you and the loss you’ve experienced. I was so sad reading your comment but I also love how supportive it was. May only the best be directed towards you🥹🙏🏼
Life and Death is a cycle brother, I'm really sorry for your loss. When i was suffering a lot in my life after losing someone your videos have helped me alot, although i have not achieved anything in my life you gave me a reason to stand and keep moving forward.
I believe this happens when there is a small disturbance in your ancestry circle up there in the heavens.
I'll tell you something on how to stop this from happening again from a spiritual perspective whether you will do it or not it's up to you but it's my duty to tell you.
On a New Moon day light up a candle and tell your ancestors especially your Parents or Grandparents (if they are alive then go directly and ask for their blessings) if you remember their names it's even better and ask for forgiveness say that you wish for them to be born again within your family and that you want to start a life with the new born. This will not only help with your baby but in all other aspects of life.
Hope this helps🙏🏾 I'll pray for you and Natalie always.
Lokah Samastah Sukino Bhavantu🕉️
@@Veenforwinr u ok?
@@junnatha yes are you?
I’m so sorry 😞 for your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss, Matt. This breaks my heart... Wishing you all strength and healing
Matt this is devastating. Can’t imagine what you guys went through. Sending you love and strength to get through this 🙏
I'm so sorry and so proud of you Matt. Thank you for sharing, for being so inspiring and open even in the most personal and hard moments. Appreciate it a lot.
I was not ready for this. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable moment
sorry for your loss, matt and nat. daisy is such a beautiful name, and i just want to say you're really brave for sharing this heartbreaking story. it must be tough. please hang in there.
This puts my "bad day" into perspective and helps me recalibrate again what's important. Thank you for sharing. Best to you and your family
So sorry for your loss. What you’ve shared here for your daughter was beautiful. ❤
I’m profoundly sorry for your loss. Daisy is a beautiful name and as I once heard, you now have a guardian angel of whom you know their name. Sending you love and strength from Portugal. Thank you for sharing your tribute with us, and most importantly, for letting us know your lovely daughter.
Oh my goodness. Oh the pain. I’m so, so, so sorry. “She was real”. She is indeed. May you both find the strength to keep going and loving. ❤️
How incredibly sad. My heart goes out to you both.
I have no words and I cannot imagine how hard this must be for you. Sorry for your loss.
Matt and Nat, my condolences for losing Daisy. I have followed you for years and never commented, but I want you to know that you too are not alone. Grief and loss aren't easy. You don't just lose someone, but also something that could have been: a future that you imagined. Please take all the time you need to process this. Make room to remember Daisy in your lives, in your home, and in your mind. Continue to pay tribute to her, write letters for her, and embrace all the love you felt for her. It will be difficult to go through it all, but again, you are not alone in this.
Thank you for making this video for us so that we remember to appreciate how life can be beautiful, fleeting, and cruel at the same time. It takes tremendous strength and vulnerability to put something like this out there, but you have made it into a beautiful tribute. I hope you read these comments knowing that we stand by you and that we mourn with you.
Lots of love from the Netherlands
I respect your willingness to put your guard down and get emotional on camera. This is proof you are being truly yourself. Love the content Matt. My condolences. Love you brother.
She was real and she mattered ❤
I’ve lost a child to miscarriage and it’s the worst. Wishing you time to heal and an earth side baby in the not too distant future
Thank you for sharing such a difficult experience, and what a beautiful tribute. It will help others going this not feel so alone. Sending all the love possible across the miles.
My wife and I share your pain, we have lost three. Thank you for sharing.
I rarely ever comment on UA-cam videos, but I had to say I'm so sorry to hear this. Your letter made me cry, it was beautiful and heart-breaking at the same time. I wish you both well in the healing process and we all mourn Daisy with you.
Grief is unexpressed love for those who are gone. Much love mate. Live in the moment, your child is gone but will live on inside you.
Thank you for sharing Matt. I'm so sorry for your loss, I send you all the strenght and love on these difficult days
Thank you for sharing this with us, Matt. Your letter to Daisy is beautiful; what a remarkable dad you are. Much love to both you and Nat. Olga
yup, i lost my daughter Delfina at 25 weeks. We got to hold her and she was perfect. It was the hardest thing I've ever done in my life.
Could you pls explain how you lose a baby? Sorry I just don't understand.
@@Intmain69 this is an instance where googling is the right thing to do
@@kiera6326 I did and its just shows like dealing with the death of you child.
@Intmain69 Try to Google miscarriage or stillbirth.
Whoever, if you are very young, it is better to speak with an adult/counselor/parent who you trust and who is able to explain this kind of topic.
@Anna_RK oh no bro I'm 18. I know what a miscarriage is. I'm just dumb and I didn't know that's what "losing your child" meant. Sorry
I’m so sorry. I have also travelled this road. Thank you for sharing your grief at losing little Daisy. “A joy shared is a joy doubled; a shared sorrow is half a sorrow”. ❤
I'm sorry for your loss Matt. I can only hope time will make it less painful.
I lost my son as well man. So sorry for your loss. Really glad you made this video so many of us can feel alone when going through this.
My sincerest condolences Matt. What a beautiful letter, thanks so much for sharing. Your Daisy is definitely loved.
My condolences, Matt. God's got you! 🙏
So sorry for your loss guys 💔 sending my condolences 🙏
Matt I’m so sorry. As a dad, I can’t imagine what you and your wife are going through. I’m so sorry.
As a mother of loss, I felt all the emotions watching this. We suffered many miscarriages and lost our first born from amniotic band syndrome and anancephaly. My daughter, Avery, would be 13 this year. It does get easier, but the grief comes in like waves some days. Sending you, Nat, and your family so much love, peace, and positive energy. Daisy was real, loved, and valuable to your story ❤
I can't imagine the pain. To lose my daughter (or son) would be unbearable. Prayers.
So sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing this intimate moment with us. May the good Lord comfort you and your family in this time of pain.
the beauty of that heartbeat will live forever. My prayers for you both.
Thanks for sharing. This is a story that is so common and yet so seldom shared. It's hard to grieve a child that you never got to know.
Thank you Matt for sharing your daughter with the world. You are in our hearts.
This video really hit me. Thank you for being so open and transparent with us. My deepest condolences to you and Natalie.
Dude, I cried like if it was my child. You guys are brave and strong people. It’s crazy to think this 5minute video has actually changed my life and in how I look at life from this point onward. Thank you
I can't begin to understand the enormity of this loss for you, Nat, and your family. No words, I'm just so very sorry. Thank you for being so vulnerable and for sharing your grief and sadness in this video. I think this was a beautiful way to help memorialize Daisy and preserve her memory. ❤
Daisy will always be your daughter, and you her father. She was and the memory of her is very real. The letter that you wrote was absolutely beautiful, and a simple but amazing memorial to her. My wife and I lost our son, Declan, at birth back in 2014. To this day we count him amongst his siblings as one of our kids. The missing him does not go away, but the pain does subside eventually, as unlikely as that may feel right now for you. You will find ways that work best for you, but taking opportunities, even little ones, to include Declan’s memory have always helped us - like using his name, and signing it on Christmas cards with the other kids’ names, etc. You are in our thoughts, and we thank you for sharing your daughter, Daisy’s name with us!
I am so sorry for your loss. How wise of you to lean into the pain and grief. Pausing to pray for your precious family.
Yes, she was real and beautiful! I'm sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing this moment with us.
This video is such a gift to your daughter and to your family and to all those who have suffered a loss. Thank you for sharing your heart and for lifting others who are in pain. I’m so very sorry for your loss. ❤
Holding you and your family in my heart. Prayers and blessings for sweet baby Daisy. How she has impacted the world despite it all. ❤️
I am so sorry for your and Nat's loss. As a dad who has gone through a similar loss watching this brings me to tears. It is content like this that helps others move through our own grief. Thank you for sharing Daisy's story with us all.
What a beautiful tribue. I'm sorry for the loss of your Daisy.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be keeping your family in my prayers. Daisy has had an incredible impact on the world based on what you've said here and how the people commenting have been touched by your beautiful tribute. Life is precious. God bless ❤
I recently lost my wife exactly 2 weeks ago on Monday. She was only 29. We've been together for 6 years and married for 2,5 years. We wanted to have babies too but she got cancer immediately after we got married... Why I'm writing down this is because I know for a fact that she is now in heaven and I can't wait to meet her. You are right about Daisy, she is real. May it be your consolation that she is in heaven, the best place she could be. I hope you and your wife find your way to that path if you haven't already. Jesus said: "I am the Way, and the Truth, and the Life".
With love and sympathy Aron.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
So sorry for you
I hope you are doing well Aron! Im am rooting for you!! ❤
Praying that your wife is looking out for Daisy in heaven.
The Bible speaks of everlasting life on earth; not heaven. Wouldn't you rather be on earth with all your loved ones, forever?
I’m so so sorry, Matt. This is incredibly touching. I’m praying for you and your family.
Matt and Nat, thank you for sharing this with us. It's a beautiful tribute to Daisy, and I admire your willingness to express your grief as a way to express your love for her. I hope that it does nothing but draw you closer to to the realness of her life and all the love you shared.
Hope you and your family can find the strength and the spirit to overcome such a real loss. Beautiful tribute
So sorry for your loss, my husband and I went through this and its hard, but talking about this tiny baby is important because was part of our life and always will be. we have 2 healthy kids now and they know about a little sibling that was here for a little bit. Love and hugs for your wife and you. thank you for sharing. It's so important to normalize it because is very common, but I never knew people around me went through the same too but never told me until It happened to me, it is important to talk about our losses and give space for our grief with the support of the people around us.
IDK why this was in my feed, but holy shit man I am so, so sorry for your loss. I have two daughters and my biggest fear from finding out we were having kids to this day is the thought of losing either of them. My thoughts go out to you and Nat. Daisy may not have had a long life, but she was loved greatly and will be remembered for as long as you both live.
Oh man, Matt. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I feel this deeply and truly appreciate you sharing this with us. Thank you. I'm going to pray for you, Nat and Daisy. God bless.
I’m so sorry , this is heartbreaking. I’ve lost my baby during pregnancy too. Thank you for your courage to share , it is so important to know that no one is alone in this, there are quite a few of us 💔
So sorry for your loss Matt. That must have taken a lot to share. Wish you peace and comfort during this difficult time.
I have never commented on a video before, but the strength you have shown in sharing this is second to none. So sorry for your loss.
I’m so terrible sorry, Matt. Prayers of peace and comfort for you and Nat during this time. Lots of hugs too!
I'm crying. Thank you for sharing the hard parts of life
My heart aches, and my eyes just can't stop crying. But I hope you both read this. Never have I been so strongly inspired by someone. You chose to confront your feelings and express them rather than ignoring or saving yourself from them. That shows that you two have a healthy and strong relationship. Immense power to you Matt and Natalie.♥
Very sorry for your loss Matt 😢 sending a big hug to both of you. Can't imagine the pain.
I don't know how to tell you, but as a father, I'm crying my eyes out here and now. Take care of you wife and cry, keep crying. I'll be praying for you three.
It takes so much courage to make a video or a post about this topic. My condolences. I have not gone through anything like this but since the first seconds of the video I felt it. Sending some love and strength.
Thank you for posting this, Matt. It is very clear that you and your wife's love for Daisy is beautifully represented here. ❤
If I could offer you a hug, I would. 🫂
Please take whatever time (and help) you, your wife, and son need to grieve. Within my own experience, grief is not a linear path; but one that goes in different directions, with different strengths, on different days. It doesn't really go away, but it's waves' impact will slowly lower over time.
Talking about her (with those around you, or support groups online) has provided some small amount of relief for myself. A good therapist who specializes in grief can also be helpful to open up with.
I'm not sure how religious you are, but you and your family will be in my prayers. 🙏 Much love to you all.
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing it. You are showing incredible strength. We lost our first at six weeks. I was writing a journal to the baby and said goodbye in a very similar way as your letter. It was moving and powerful to hear you read it. You are not alone.
I am very sorry for your loss Matt. My deepest condolences to you and Nat ❤
Sobbing I’ve lost two and like your initial response was to move on and put it behind us… thank you for sharing a beautiful and healthy way to acknowledge the life in your wife’s womb and her special place in your life.sweet little daisy ❤
I’m so sorry to hear Matt, my wife and I went through the same thing with our first and now we ended up with 3 kids. Hang in there.
OMG Matt, I'm so sorry for your lost from Colombia. She is going to be an angel that will never leave you guys alone. God blesses you and gives you both the strength and the the hope to continue. I just write this crying, thank you for being so brave and sharing your pain with us.
This was heart-breaking. I don't know you, Matt, but as a parent with 4 healthy adult children, I can't begin to imagine how devastating & bereft you must both feel. Your letter was so touching.... Couldn't stop the tears. Thank you for sharing. ❤
That is rough Matt, my heart cries out for you.
We lost 6 before our rainbow daughter arrived, hersister is due in a few weeks. I hope that if you try again that Daisy's little brother or sister is happy and healthy.
My condolences, Matt. I’m praying for you, take care
So sorry for you. But you took the pain and made something really beautiful out of it. A love letter to your wife and unborn child. Just wonderful. Thank you for sharing. Wishing you all the best