Have you talked to your doctor about the possibility of having some sort of tubal disease? I tried for 3 years with seemingly “open” tubes. I learned that the cilia inside our tubes are very very delicate and even though a HSG showed my tubes were both open PID caused by an IUD in college had damaged the inside and the egg was not even being carried through the tube to meet sperm. We eventually started the adoption process.
How are you getting confirmed ovulation through monitoring but then your period be late? Something isn’t adding up with the dates your doctor is giving you… unless she doesn’t even know herself what’s going on?
@@AdelaideAWhite A hemorrhagic cyst doesn't delay ovulation or your cycle. It simply indicates that bleeding occurred into a cyst AFTER ovulation has taken place. I'm not sure if there's been a misunderstanding with your doctor, but you're making NaPro's seem incompetent, despite their significant contributions to women's health and understanding of their bodies. If this is indeed the case and your doctor conveyed this information, it might be worth considering finding someone who can give you a second opinion as this is common knowledge even a basic medical provider would know.
@@AdelaideAWhitehmmmm that still seems odd. I think it may be time to seek another NAPRO’s opinion after your break. It seems like your condition is kind of getting outside of her scope of things that she can help you with at this point.
Can you please elaborate on what you mean when you keep repeating “god did it for her her can do it for me” when referring to infertility? I don’t think you truly grasp that some of the women he “did it for” sought serious medical intervention and that’s why they are pregnant. I think you need to separate god and science. I’m starting to think the message you’re sending to the infertility community is getting kind of evangelical and unrealistic. Some people don’t get their desires, no matter how much they pray, doesn’t mean god doesn’t love them, it’s just not his plan for them. I think sometimes you give off the vibe that god is gonna “do it for you” the WAY you want him to do it for you(trying naturally) and unfortunately given your diagnosis that’s just a slim chance based on what you shared. I really hope during this break you and your husband are really considering what’s next medically. And another lap surgery again doesn’t increase the odds bc you’ve already had 2. I know y’all aren’t gonna do IVF but whether you want to admit it or not, that’s y’all best chance I think you know that though. I just hope y’all don’t keep facing headache for more years to come, 4 years is a longgggg time, and it can easily be another 4 years if y’all don’t seriously make a change on a medical level.
Girl just do ivf! I know it’s not a 100% guarantee but chances are way higher than doing what you’ve been doing. I’m so sorry you’re going through this 💔💔
There is no "just" in IVF. She had said many times including recently that they both don't want to do IVF for many reasons, and that comments like these are not helpful. She's not looking for advice
I was considered an “easy” IVF case. Well, three egg retrievals later I have no baby. There is no “just” about IVF. I’m sure you’re trying to be helpful but it’s dismissive.
Look I know your coming from good place by saying just do IVF. From doing two and half years IVF with nothing but sadness it is unfair. So if someone does not wanna do it then each to their own. Me and my husband have spend so much money on it with no good reports. Please respect someone reasons why they are not doing it.
Have you talked to your doctor about the possibility of having some sort of tubal disease? I tried for 3 years with seemingly “open” tubes. I learned that the cilia inside our tubes are very very delicate and even though a HSG showed my tubes were both open PID caused by an IUD in college had damaged the inside and the egg was not even being carried through the tube to meet sperm. We eventually started the adoption process.
that’s something I’ll keep in mind after our break to discuss! Thank you!
So very sorry ❤ i have been TTC for 4 years so i know this season can be so difficult, please keep your faith ❤
Praying for you friend!!
Praying for you as well! ❤
I'm so sorry Adelaide. My prayers are with you and Stephen on your journey to parenthood.
Thank you!!
I’m so sorry 🥺
🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
How are you getting confirmed ovulation through monitoring but then your period be late? Something isn’t adding up with the dates your doctor is giving you… unless she doesn’t even know herself what’s going on?
She warned me this cycle could be late because of the hemorrhaging during ovulation
@@AdelaideAWhite A hemorrhagic cyst doesn't delay ovulation or your cycle. It simply indicates that bleeding occurred into a cyst AFTER ovulation has taken place. I'm not sure if there's been a misunderstanding with your doctor, but you're making NaPro's seem incompetent, despite their significant contributions to women's health and understanding of their bodies. If this is indeed the case and your doctor conveyed this information, it might be worth considering finding someone who can give you a second opinion as this is common knowledge even a basic medical provider would know.
@@AdelaideAWhitehmmmm that still seems odd. I think it may be time to seek another NAPRO’s opinion after your break. It seems like your condition is kind of getting outside of her scope of things that she can help you with at this point.
please continue the podcast 😢
Can you please elaborate on what you mean when you keep repeating “god did it for her her can do it for me” when referring to infertility? I don’t think you truly grasp that some of the women he “did it for” sought serious medical intervention and that’s why they are pregnant. I think you need to separate god and science. I’m starting to think the message you’re sending to the infertility community is getting kind of evangelical and unrealistic. Some people don’t get their desires, no matter how much they pray, doesn’t mean god doesn’t love them, it’s just not his plan for them. I think sometimes you give off the vibe that god is gonna “do it for you” the WAY you want him to do it for you(trying naturally) and unfortunately given your diagnosis that’s just a slim chance based on what you shared. I really hope during this break you and your husband are really considering what’s next medically. And another lap surgery again doesn’t increase the odds bc you’ve already had 2. I know y’all aren’t gonna do IVF but whether you want to admit it or not, that’s y’all best chance I think you know that though. I just hope y’all don’t keep facing headache for more years to come, 4 years is a longgggg time, and it can easily be another 4 years if y’all don’t seriously make a change on a medical level.
Girl just do ivf! I know it’s not a 100% guarantee but chances are way higher than doing what you’ve been doing. I’m so sorry you’re going through this 💔💔
They have already said they don’t want to do it.
There is no "just" in IVF. She had said many times including recently that they both don't want to do IVF for many reasons, and that comments like these are not helpful. She's not looking for advice
I was considered an “easy” IVF case. Well, three egg retrievals later I have no baby. There is no “just” about IVF. I’m sure you’re trying to be helpful but it’s dismissive.
Look I know your coming from good place by saying just do IVF. From doing two and half years IVF with nothing but sadness it is unfair. So if someone does not wanna do it then each to their own. Me and my husband have spend so much money on it with no good reports. Please respect someone reasons why they are not doing it.
@@laurengarrett2323Took the words right out of my mouth. There is no “JUST” do IVF. It’s so grueling. Emotionally, physically and financially.