Sasha Alex Sloan - Older (Lyric Video)

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  • @sadgirlsloan
    @sadgirlsloan  5 років тому +72344

    i went to germany and wrote this after crushing some kfc, definitely cried writing it and it means so much that u guys like it, never thought a ballad about divorce would be my biggest song lol

    • @amy-xaz
      @amy-xaz 5 років тому +925

      it's pretty

    • @sophiawoods9799
      @sophiawoods9799 5 років тому +915

      It’s absolutely beautiful ❤️

    • @lauragazzari
      @lauragazzari 5 років тому +684

      thank you so much the song really hits home❤️

    • @denizudom15
      @denizudom15 5 років тому +445

      Cool song. One can tell from the lyrics that this song came from within

    • @KrowKaws
      @KrowKaws 5 років тому +400

      this really speaks to a lot of people including me, thank you for writing this

  • @infpsays4055
    @infpsays4055 4 роки тому +20922

    *You know what is more painful, families that are broken but not separated.*

    • @gingeralepookie
      @gingeralepookie 4 роки тому +181

      touche

    • @gayatri3488
      @gayatri3488 4 роки тому +399

      Yeah,, ik how it feels

    • @infpsays4055
      @infpsays4055 4 роки тому +264

      @@gayatri3488 it's the worst feeling.

    • @gayatri3488
      @gayatri3488 4 роки тому +49

      @@infpsays4055 yeahh 🥺😔

    • @altheanna
      @altheanna 4 роки тому +967

      You hear them fight everyday but they don't want to divorce because they said they love you and don't want you to be a 'broken-home-kid', that so called comforting words actually just makes you feeling guilty and burden

  • @rain-dl4qu
    @rain-dl4qu 5 років тому +10616

    "i used to close my eyes pray for a whole another family,where everything was fine,one that felt like mine"
    i felt that.

    • @gayaf1392
      @gayaf1392 5 років тому +6

      Louie?

    • @easternsolo
      @easternsolo 5 років тому +2

      ASGTVGTJXOC)😏📚😂😊📚😟📚🛂🇵🇰🛂🇵🇰

    • @easternsolo
      @easternsolo 5 років тому +1

      🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🦄🦄🦄🦄🦄🦄🐩🐩🐶🐶🍎🍎🍎🍎🍎🍇🍇🍇🍇🍉🍓

    • @Cheetis78
      @Cheetis78 5 років тому +9

      SAmmee😛

    • @aaliyatrbl9997
      @aaliyatrbl9997 5 років тому +19

      lalisa we love a Lisa Stan

  • @yongmag3585
    @yongmag3585 4 роки тому +35991

    A happy childhood can cure all your pain in your life but some people spend their life to cure the pain in childhood

    • @iseedeadpeoplethrucatseyes1162
      @iseedeadpeoplethrucatseyes1162 4 роки тому +1039

      My childhood isn't that bad but your comment hit me so hard.

    • @nikkiesylva
      @nikkiesylva 4 роки тому +751

      I’m 17 and I’m already trying to cure that pain. It’s true

    • @rivae4765
      @rivae4765 4 роки тому +467

      I'm one of those child that grew up from pain

    • @HienVu-pn9zn
      @HienVu-pn9zn 4 роки тому +403

      This is so true. Mine was mixed with both smile and tear, ups and downs. But what was bad was bad, couldn’t help yourself when it is recalled, even you’re grown. The best thing we can do is to hurt kids as least as possible.

    • @surabikhurana8143
      @surabikhurana8143 4 роки тому +88

      It's a beautiful line dear.

  • @yoon608
    @yoon608 14 днів тому +17

    It is the biggest love that "My parents aren't my heroes, they're just like me".
    We don't need to love our parents without any causes.
    I think "parents" are also "others".
    I have hurt my parents, and been hurt by my parents.
    I won't forget everything so far, but also I'll never forget they have forgiven me everytime and tried to help me. They weren't perfect, but I'll never forgotten. Never.

  • @gaea6556
    @gaea6556 4 роки тому +4923

    "My parents aren't heroes, they're just like me" ~the most heartbreaking truth 😔💔

  • @CantoMando
    @CantoMando 6 років тому +11142

    This song resonates with me so hard. Everyone's gone through the stress of seeing parents fight. Everyone's gone through the fear of wondering whether your parents are going to stay together... It's scary as a kid, and no one ever talks about it. Great song.

    • @lochristy7654
      @lochristy7654 6 років тому +138

      I have met people whose parents are divorced, though mine is not likely to, I can still feel the burning tension between them, I just hope I won't get hurt so badly...

    • @sarazx398
      @sarazx398 6 років тому +57

      I WICH MY PARENTS GET DIVORCE

    • @ombr3g0re85
      @ombr3g0re85 6 років тому +48

      never had to worry about my parents..they never fought (not trying to be an ass i know it sounds like that)

    • @actuallyaesthetic8008
      @actuallyaesthetic8008 6 років тому +53

      Not everyone, some people aren’t as lucky because one parent is gone.

    • @dheaamelia1688
      @dheaamelia1688 6 років тому +14

      CantoMando well in the end,my parents got divorced.

  • @andblosh7231
    @andblosh7231 4 роки тому +5803

    My grandfather told me once that no matter how bad is your childhood your are the only one who can change your life :)
    R.I.P Grandfather ✊

  • @lutony2416
    @lutony2416 2 місяці тому +5

    i listen to this everyday when i sleep it makes me cry, thank you for this song it bring memories back,the most beautiful song i ever listen
    .

  • @mashaal8423
    @mashaal8423 5 років тому +3805

    “I swore I’d never be like them” and “My parents aren’t hero’s they’re just like me” god that hits so hard

  • @thealmightyrick7394
    @thealmightyrick7394 5 років тому +18793

    *she is the voice for children who can’t express themselves because of fighting parents*
    *thank you*

  • @MrFuns20
    @MrFuns20 3 місяці тому +59

    been listening to this song for years, yet I always shed tears everytime.

  • @MarinaLinMusic
    @MarinaLinMusic 6 років тому +9884

    SASHA HOW DO U WRITE SONGS THAT HIT ME RIGHT IN THE SOUL

    • @Cat-lb3eo
      @Cat-lb3eo 6 років тому +31

      Marina Lin oh my God. I love your videos especially “This is what a broken heart feels like.” Keep up! I hope you will get the recognition you deserve! ❤️

    • @Sasha-rc8wk
      @Sasha-rc8wk 6 років тому +20

      omg this comment actually scared me I was like how do you know my name but then remembered...jeezzzz

    • @sionmarak1916
      @sionmarak1916 6 років тому +18

      EXPERIENCE
      the more you get old
      the more you experience
      the more you know
      the lesser you understand.

    • @MarinaLinMusic
      @MarinaLinMusic 6 років тому +6

      @@Cat-lb3eo Thank you!!

    • @DeltaMezzo
      @DeltaMezzo 6 років тому

      ikr? soo good

  • @evangeline1807
    @evangeline1807 5 років тому +3806

    This song actually speaks for lots of kids with broken families.

  • @zainab-tc5ye
    @zainab-tc5ye 4 роки тому +2919

    It sucks to be in a broken family that is not separated and being hurt every day.

  • @edwardelon4122
    @edwardelon4122 21 день тому +5

    I can’t believe I miss the song until now, such a beautiful and meaningful song, thank you, I love this song.

  • @faith-hd7qv
    @faith-hd7qv 5 років тому +10661

    if you don’t understand this song, you are lucky and i am happy for you. If you do, well then i am sorry and we can get through this, i promise.

  • @miodx8947
    @miodx8947 4 роки тому +2975

    My childhood in a song:
    Children shouldn't have to go through this. Sometimes parents are the ones who act like little kids.

    • @sgdhhcagr2148
      @sgdhhcagr2148 4 роки тому +7

      Fr😔

    • @Slyfox..
      @Slyfox.. 4 роки тому +2

      Hm

    • @MissGenie0607
      @MissGenie0607 4 роки тому +61

      I think the point of this song is realizing that your parents aren't heroes, they're people too. It doesn't matter how old you are, sometimes you just can't figure out life. Your parents could have mental issues but due to the stigma of their time, they didn't understand it and didn't know how to deal with it. I think a lot of kids only see themselves having a hard time but when you grow up you realize your parents were having a hard time, too.

    • @miodx8947
      @miodx8947 4 роки тому +21

      @@MissGenie0607 yes. Exactly. What I meant by my comment was that sometimes as children we just don't understand what's going on with our parents, or why they fight like children,, since they should consider a child's mental health but as we grow older we understand those are things that happen.

    • @jerald4902
      @jerald4902 4 роки тому

      your line rhymes

  • @haithere6118
    @haithere6118 4 роки тому +3211

    "I swore i'd never be like them". This hit me hardly. I remember when i was a kid, i told myself this, after my mom cussed at me

    • @AMI_SHE_
      @AMI_SHE_ 4 роки тому +22

      This made me laugh and idk why😂

    • @sofirosales5202
      @sofirosales5202 4 роки тому +115

      I’m 14 and I say this to myself every time my parents yell for no reason. This song hit me way too hard bruh

    • @Luv.a.r.i
      @Luv.a.r.i 4 роки тому +3

      @@sofirosales5202 same

    • @FriendsWThoughts
      @FriendsWThoughts 4 роки тому +3

      Saturdays with Sofi yep.. can relate

    • @arpitasingh0586
      @arpitasingh0586 4 роки тому +32

      i still pray that i would never be like them

  • @bambooring5985
    @bambooring5985 10 днів тому +7

    本当にいい曲です。メロディーが良くて何度も聴いてしまう。

  • @allergictohumans4745
    @allergictohumans4745 3 роки тому +3540

    The most hurtful part when ur parents hurts u by words like hell daily and then behave nicely with u...and u can’t decide whether they r good or bad ....

    • @Ivyyy1224
      @Ivyyy1224 3 роки тому +82

      My daily life dude

    • @allergictohumans4745
      @allergictohumans4745 3 роки тому +40

      @@Ivyyy1224 Can relate..but dont let urself down...lets get through this together💛💛

    • @Ivyyy1224
      @Ivyyy1224 3 роки тому +28

      @@allergictohumans4745 thank you so much for this comment...i had no one right now but your comment made me feel a little good...you too stay strong 💜

    • @allergictohumans4745
      @allergictohumans4745 3 роки тому +37

      If anyone doesn’t feel good just text here...remember even when no one loves u...I love u no matter where u live ,look or anything...I love u at last smile☺️💛💛💛

    • @Ivyyy1224
      @Ivyyy1224 3 роки тому +8

      @@allergictohumans4745 you mean we will chat in a comment box..?nvm that made me even laugh 😄

  • @osmundmillion3299
    @osmundmillion3299 3 роки тому +2733

    "Sometimes it's better to let someone go", that hits hard.

    • @bell4585
      @bell4585 3 роки тому +8

      🥺

    • @nawtsurprised
      @nawtsurprised 3 роки тому +3

      😭

    • @shannongamble2715
      @shannongamble2715 3 роки тому +14

      As a divorced parent, this part of the song makes me so sad. Parents are human too, just like everyone... why let them go for that? I pray that my kids never cut me out of their lives for being less than perfect.

    • @skylarm570
      @skylarm570 3 роки тому +12

      @@shannongamble2715 I pray that for you too, and I think the fact that you care about them wanting you in their life is a good sign that they wouldn’t just cut you out for being less than perfect. Nobody’s perfect, and they’ll understand that I’m sure. But as a daughter of divorced parents, I’ve been wondering if it’s better for me to “let her go”. I don’t want to cut her out of my life, but I’m so exhausted by her. She chooses herself over us kids every single time. The reason for the divorce is because she cheated on our dad and then left our family to move 3 hours away to live with the guy. And ever since then, I can only remember of her choosing herself or her new husband before us any time there is a dispute. We’re never put first. She doesn’t come to hardly any of our events, and when she does she brings her new husband, despite how many times I’ve practically begged her not to. I don’t want him in my life, and she says that I’m disrespectful for that. But I just want her to try to see things from my side for once, and to care about my feelings. She doesn’t compromise, she doesn’t talk things over. It’s her way or it’s no way at all. And when I’ve tried to express how I feel and tell her that she makes it miserable for me to visit her because her new husband always comes before us kids, she told me that if I’m not happy visiting her then to just not come anymore. She didn’t care to work things out or listen to why I feel that way. She refuses to change, and I don’t like that then she sees that as my own problem. I can’t remember the last time she’s told me that she’s proud of me. She acts like it’s a burden to buy me hygiene supplies for her house. Any time that I ask for her to buy me anything at all, she has a terrible attitude about it. Even for necessities. I don’t ask for much, just what I need and also snacks. For several years now, I’ve thought about stopping putting in so much effort. I still visit her. I still talk to her on the phone every night. But it hurts to put in so much effort for someone that I don’t feel like I matter to. I feel more like a war to win (a war with my dad) than a daughter to love.
      I think that as long as you love and support your daughter (when the support is reasonable, of course), you should be fine. Support her activities, tell her that you’re proud of her. If you have multiple children, don’t pick favorites. Don’t make them feel like a burden for needing things. Tell them you love them. Don’t view them as pets rather than people. And if they’re mad at you or mention that they’re not happy at your house, try to figure out how to fix it. Don’t just tell them that if they don’t like it then they don’t have to come.
      I hope all goes well for you. Don’t make your kid feel like they’re just something that you’ll get for winning a war against their father. Set aside the war for your kid, and treat them like your beautiful children that you want all the time, not just when they don’t have any feelings that are different than yours

    • @masternaru8177
      @masternaru8177 3 роки тому +2

      @@skylarm570 I hope you will live your life to fullest :)

  • @lovealwaysmanish26
    @lovealwaysmanish26 4 роки тому +3767

    Why do parents forget that having kids isn't a new start but a responsibility that you take. If you can't be good parents then better not have kids. Coming from experience.

    • @motivationalspeech8779
      @motivationalspeech8779 4 роки тому +19

      Totally correct.

    • @aquasiox
      @aquasiox 4 роки тому +11

      Yeah, completely agree. And that’s exactly how kids become adopted, separated from their two sisters who at least have eachother, think ‘what if’ all the time, and just feel real lonely in a family that isn’t theirs.
      ...also speaking from experience lol

    • @loveyourself159
      @loveyourself159 3 роки тому +8

      @@aquasiox
      I hope you will find your home 💜

    • @rogeriomoreira2009
      @rogeriomoreira2009 3 роки тому +4

      You’re exactly right. I know that for experience too, wishing u the best :(

    • @natalielio1999
      @natalielio1999 3 роки тому +1

      can't agree with u more.... even 2021 now

  • @zijingtee7198
    @zijingtee7198 2 місяці тому +38

    There is a girl I know recently that she had lost her parents since young.
    She would never have a chance to feel any scenarios described in the lyrics, though those are not really good examples to define what "family" is.
    For anyone that stops by, please, if your parents still around, try your best to live with them, till the end. Because this girl taught me, how precious the life is.
    And let's cheers for her shall we? Her name is Nono, she's the bravest lone wolf that I have met in live.
    Your girls are strong, rest well, Sir MW & Ms. XL

    • @Professionalsurfer
      @Professionalsurfer Місяць тому

      Wishing the bestest things for Nono ❤
      Wishing the best things to u too Nono's best friend ❤🤝

  • @antoniaad7149
    @antoniaad7149 4 роки тому +1496

    The most sad part about all this is how many people say they relate to this song. This song isn't just about children's parents fighting, its all about how we shouldn't blame them because loving is hard and it is really hard to find someone that you will get on with for the rest of your life. This song is more about love is full of mistakes that we can't always solve, and you can never be able to find someone that is perfect and that will never make mistakes. I remember when i was a bit younger and i always heard my parents finghting, i used to cry and listen to them, never understanding why it was that hard for them to be kind to each other and why they couldn't just talk things through. Now that i get older i understand how hard it actually is for them and how hard it was. Loving is a really hard thing to do, especially when you are thying to love someone because you dont want your children to have separated parents. I am not blaming my parents for fighting, because i know it isn't their fault. I am here for everyone that that see theirselves in this song, and for everyone that can relate to this song. All you need to know is that you are not alone, and you need to understand that loving is really really hard, you need to look up and remember how important it is to believe tuat you can get through it. You can do it, and everying will be fine, you just need to believe that everything will be okay, and to hope. 💕

    • @anabeldiaz8722
      @anabeldiaz8722 4 роки тому +6

      Wow 😪😪😔😀😀😣😣😃😃😃

    • @audreyelizabeth4751
      @audreyelizabeth4751 4 роки тому +1

      85 times so you don't need to count

    • @elthepuglover
      @elthepuglover 4 роки тому +3

      Antoniaa D Yeah,My family is the brightest,I hate my father also my friends think I have the perfect life just because I have a dog, and my family is rich,They don’t even know half of it..

    • @emilycarew8882
      @emilycarew8882 4 роки тому +6

      Thank you so much, now I understand everything about this song. Take care always.

    • @Aina_1308
      @Aina_1308 4 роки тому +1

      I can’t even read it

  • @davidquintana6151
    @davidquintana6151 5 років тому +3180

    The picture of her as a little girl makes this song even sadder.

  • @kayer8105
    @kayer8105 2 роки тому +2283

    My sister suggested this to me. This is literally my childhood. I remember an 8-year old me walking away in my pajamas from my parents fighting. I left the house weeping so hard, not knowing where to go until I reached the streets. Luckily, our neighbor saw me and brought me to her house and comforted me. Some parents just don’t realize the trauma they are causing to their children. I pray my future children will not experience the same trauma I went through.

    • @Dahlia10
      @Dahlia10 2 роки тому +42

      Just remember the lessons you learned and don't repeat them, that's what worked for me. XXX

    • @flozy-queenactivities9551
      @flozy-queenactivities9551 2 роки тому +19

      😓😓😓😓😓 so sorry darling. I can't even lay hands on mine. I suffered hatred from my own parents and siblings you know how hard that was for me. I'm a fighter I'm still fighting to date. I fought my way out of home to find my life if I had one. But today am a great hope of the same family that treated me like a stranger...

    • @Dahlia10
      @Dahlia10 2 роки тому +5

      @@flozy-queenactivities9551 I hope you're doing well I had to distant my family also it's sad I know

    • @flozy-queenactivities9551
      @flozy-queenactivities9551 2 роки тому +4

      @@Dahlia10 very sad

    • @haaniyasyeda5837
      @haaniyasyeda5837 2 роки тому +8

      even i suggested this to my sister. Unfortunately, so many people like you and me can actually understand the song and can relate to it :(

  • @imamfathurrahman8720
    @imamfathurrahman8720 27 днів тому +9

    Listening to this for the first time. Just as soon as it starts playing, the tears bursting out all of a sudden. Yeah, this hit that hard

  • @Motiviz
    @Motiviz 3 роки тому +3903

    Missing childhood, Cartoons after school time, friends, trips, enjoying without tension, eating without tension, sleeping without tension

    • @kaizazara976
      @kaizazara976 3 роки тому +64

      same I feel to cry thinking about those days and now everything changed and everyone changed too

    • @nanae5032
      @nanae5032 3 роки тому +50

      and i wished to be an adult back then... :(

    • @rishaan07
      @rishaan07 3 роки тому +3

      Yes

    • @maneetsaini5880
      @maneetsaini5880 3 роки тому +6

      Yea I knew it hurt so much in whole life

    • @tasneemahmed5821
      @tasneemahmed5821 3 роки тому +35

      I spent those years wishing I could grow older. And now that I'm older, all I want is to go back to those days where there was no stress, no anxiety, no pain. Just making sure i got my food ready on a plate before my show was on.

  • @heyboomer9691
    @heyboomer9691 4 роки тому +2067

    The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets,
    The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears,
    And the kindest hearts have felt the most pain ....

    • @michellejacob8154
      @michellejacob8154 4 роки тому +24

      Everyone says I have pretty eyes...

    • @-rin-8521
      @-rin-8521 4 роки тому +17

      People said i have the Kindest Heart And Yeah i have Had the most pain

    • @brenda7039471987
      @brenda7039471987 4 роки тому +14

      My grandmother and my mother don't have a great relationship.. sometimes I have to deal with the heartbreak.. it's not easy either I'm an only kid and the only one I have to support me is my grandfather in the sky.

    • @alexandramanuel5472
      @alexandramanuel5472 4 роки тому +5

      @@brenda7039471987 sorry if your life is that way

    • @brenda7039471987
      @brenda7039471987 4 роки тому +4

      @@alexandramanuel5472 thank you.. I appreciate it

  • @lailynhermosapineda9222
    @lailynhermosapineda9222 5 років тому +3049

    "The older I get
    The more that I see
    My parents aren't heroes
    They're just like me"

    • @maryam_asim
      @maryam_asim 5 років тому +52

      This hit me like a train

    • @tauuuuuu
      @tauuuuuu 5 років тому +11

      WoW I feel touched

    • @marialuizadiniz4074
      @marialuizadiniz4074 5 років тому +1

      The older I get
      The more that I ser
      My parents aren't heroes
      They

    • @zoeykolm6024
      @zoeykolm6024 5 років тому +5

      Can you relate, too?

    • @immagirl7160
      @immagirl7160 5 років тому +2

      @@zoeykolm6024 Everyone can relate it juste à fact of life

  • @deadfrominside333
    @deadfrominside333 8 днів тому +3

    I just wanna say thank you Sasha for this beautiful song,❤

  • @sarahkang4132
    @sarahkang4132 4 роки тому +2616

    I know no one cares but I'm listening to this now while crying, I just found out that my mom stayed with my abusive dad because he threatened to kill her and my siblings, we're still with my dad but I'm working hard to get my mom out of here, I never really thought how much shit she went through all this time. I hope we get out of here soon. And hope everyone in this situation gets the help they need

    • @safwat8498
      @safwat8498 4 роки тому +99

      You gonna get through this girl
      I'm with you

    • @x.Https._.Lea.x
      @x.Https._.Lea.x 4 роки тому +37

      You can get through this don't worry you got this stay strong!

    • @hvjvjbjnl7082
      @hvjvjbjnl7082 4 роки тому +21

      Cmon girl you’re strong!!!💪💪

    • @gayatri3488
      @gayatri3488 4 роки тому +14

      Awe , you'll get through it , just me strong .. somthing like that is happening with me too

    • @sudhasreekumar4218
      @sudhasreekumar4218 4 роки тому +11

      You got this girl.
      Stay strong, have faith.

  • @vasu.mahour
    @vasu.mahour 4 роки тому +1055

    It took me 25 years to realise, that my parents aren't heroes.. they too have feelings, hopes, mental illness, heart breaks, and so much more..

  • @Anhdodes
    @Anhdodes 3 роки тому +2367

    "My parents aren’t heroes, they’re just like me" - This line hits me different when I'm older... 💔

    • @henryhenderson313
      @henryhenderson313 3 роки тому +10

      Anh Do. Everyone ain't perfect so we let some go as we grow older to lessen burdens 💔💔

    • @Anhdodes
      @Anhdodes 3 роки тому

      @@henryhenderson313 💔💔 :(

    • @bevelynapante5059
      @bevelynapante5059 3 роки тому +2

      💔

    • @emaa810
      @emaa810 2 роки тому +4

      I've been wanting to know the meaning of this line. Can someone pls explain it?

    • @BDFireFist
      @BDFireFist 2 роки тому +13

      @@emaa810 I think it means that is when a child hears the word "hero" to him or her, it means an always right, good and just person. But when we are young and small we think that
      our parents as heroes but when we grow up that bubble burst as we make discussions different from that hero figure and be more aware of the world around us and see that
      also our parents are not the hero figures that we use to believe. At least that is what I think tho. I'm just 17.

  • @IsuriDewminiK
    @IsuriDewminiK Місяць тому +2

    This song gives me so much comfort. Makes me want to go back in time and hug them when they were young ❤

  • @Jakecakeikeu
    @Jakecakeikeu 4 роки тому +2792

    The saddest part is how most people could relate to this song.

  • @ochiochimi
    @ochiochimi 3 роки тому +3399

    I'm 11 years old. saw my parents fight tons of times. they don't know that I'm hearing them curse. they don't know that I'm traumatized by their fights. I'm just a kid, but I've realized everything. I've realized that love isn't everything.

    • @czarinaursabia1591
      @czarinaursabia1591 3 роки тому +110

      Yeah me too.. Saw thme fight since I was 8 and they seperated when I am 11.. I'm 14 now and it hurts that whenever I am being with one of them they're always saying negative things to each other.. Not pinpoiting each others sins but it's literally showing out..

    • @ivanachow8879
      @ivanachow8879 3 роки тому +35

      I'm feel you... Is okeii everything will be okeii just believe in jesus.
      Stay srongg 💓💓💓

    • @devpanda8996
      @devpanda8996 3 роки тому +30

      Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself, you're amazing enough!

    • @6havya
      @6havya 3 роки тому +21

      aw baby! i feel you too, stay strong

    • @elesth_2486
      @elesth_2486 3 роки тому +20

      Stay strong honey

  • @carlamedalla9654
    @carlamedalla9654 4 роки тому +3630

    My family isn't broken but I know my parents only stay together because of the kids. Not realising it's traumatising to witness their fights.

  • @korberon
    @korberon 2 місяці тому +1

    You brought tears to my eyes, girl. I grew up in a home where my parents couldn’t find peace with each other. As a child, I was surrounded by constant arguments and bitterness. I made a vow to myself that I would never walk in their footsteps. They stayed together “for the sake of the children,” but it was a mistake that left its mark on all of us.
    My mum, wise in her way, always said that having children wasn’t the end of the world, that if things couldn’t be fixed, it was better to part ways, hoping that maybe, just maybe, your kids would be lucky enough to have two sets of happy, loving parents. That always stayed with me. And now, after a first marriage that didn’t work out, I’m in my second, and with my new partner of 18 years, we’ve made it work. My daughter is now 22. We all made it through, somehow.
    You put into words everything I felt as a child, the pain, the confusion, and the hope. It brought it all back. I miss you, Mum. Greetings from Poland.

  • @cr3atur321
    @cr3atur321 4 роки тому +462

    "Parents aren't heroes, they're jusy like me"
    Oh my god, that moment in your childhood when you realize that and your reality just changes

    • @rhoannecleovillamil3232
      @rhoannecleovillamil3232 4 роки тому +2

      ua-cam.com/video/NSTmve4RKNU/v-deo.html

    • @itsmemarlene
      @itsmemarlene 4 роки тому

      @R. Tolmach yeah. I relate to those lyrics so much, because I realized it in 2010 when I was 5 years old and my reality just changed.

    • @flyorwalk1743
      @flyorwalk1743 4 роки тому

      @R. Tolmach Agreed. When I was 10, I used to count how much years are there till I become an adult.....and now that I am an adult, I regret that I took my childhood for granted. Even though it was a great mess, I miss those moments when I thought everything was "normal" and continued waking up fresh and happy.

  • @fragileasglass3192
    @fragileasglass3192 6 років тому +4572

    She's going to be big in time

    • @susie2104
      @susie2104 6 років тому +14

      Also waiting for that n rooting for her!!! 💖💖💖💖💖

    • @Raay.90
      @Raay.90 6 років тому +5

      AND I'M HERE FOR IT

    • @rahimtiller
      @rahimtiller 6 років тому +3

      Soo soon 💜🎼🎶

    • @valkyrie_592
      @valkyrie_592 6 років тому +6

      Her music is getting more popular alrdy I think. Nice she has talent and people need to see

    • @jackbw7839
      @jackbw7839 6 років тому +2

      Fragile As Glass 1000th like on this comment

  • @kikikiyoomi5341
    @kikikiyoomi5341 3 роки тому +749

    "It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men."
    - Frederick Douglass

    • @StarTrail-jx7yu
      @StarTrail-jx7yu 2 роки тому +4

      What of Broken Children😔😪
      Can they be fixed

  • @oyintamir5832
    @oyintamir5832 3 місяці тому +4

    This song hit differently,this is not just a song ,this is a feelings/emotion for those pple.🥺💔

  • @8greyz
    @8greyz 5 років тому +4097

    The scary part is I can relate to everything in this song.

  • @mehdiafechkou
    @mehdiafechkou 6 років тому +2307

    she just can't make a bad song ❤️ LOVE FROM MOROCCO

  • @bboyrahim27
    @bboyrahim27 3 роки тому +3723

    This generation maybe bad but this generation gonna be the best parents cuz we will understand our children's and their problems 🖤

    • @D4l1ngbxnn1
      @D4l1ngbxnn1 3 роки тому +15

      Plz do

    • @bboyrahim27
      @bboyrahim27 3 роки тому +10

      @@D4l1ngbxnn1 do what?!

    • @bboyrahim27
      @bboyrahim27 3 роки тому +18

      @@Yes_its_au Right ✔

    • @Anonymous-bn9ot
      @Anonymous-bn9ot 3 роки тому +107

      You're right, my mom and dad got divorced when I was 5 cuz of some stupid things, and my mom sometimes tells me that I behave and looks like him. And I am messy like my father but it's aren't my fault. I promised myself that whatever happens, I will never EVER blame my child because they are not better but be appreciate because atleast they're trying.

    • @Tanisha0320
      @Tanisha0320 3 роки тому +9

      So true....✨

  • @Sushigirl73
    @Sushigirl73 3 місяці тому +11

    You are the author of your life, make it a best seller! Pray and heal 🙏

  • @zayaanzakir
    @zayaanzakir 3 роки тому +3462

    We need more songs like this that doesn’t talk about sex and drugs

  • @reedsaniraa1373
    @reedsaniraa1373 5 років тому +96

    Kudos to those who grew up with a broken family but still remains kind. Y'all are brave souls.

  • @glooomy_rose1941
    @glooomy_rose1941 5 років тому +633

    *"My parent aren't heroes,there just like me"*
    That got me hard
    When you feel like you parents are amazing and never have anything negative around them until everything just.....changes

    • @jerlin4183
      @jerlin4183 5 років тому +2

      Hope u feel better now ! Love u! Don't give up! Have faith!

    • @skandar1
      @skandar1 5 років тому +1

      They don't change you just see "THE REALITY"

  • @andrewpham4655
    @andrewpham4655 2 місяці тому +1

    This song hits differently today. It reminds me of letting go of someone I love, someone who’s been through so much. I wish nothing but healing and peace for her, that she finds her way through the pain of her past. And maybe, just maybe, if fate has its way, our paths will cross again when we’ve both grown a little more. Until then, I’ll carry the hope that she finds the happiness she truly deserves.

  • @7lb9oz
    @7lb9oz 5 років тому +1304

    ''My Parents aren't heroes
    They're just like me''
    *I felt that*

    • @valeriebella3741
      @valeriebella3741 5 років тому +5

      Be strong!God will help you.❤

    • @Herlinamkt
      @Herlinamkt 5 років тому +5

      I dont even want to be like them

    • @valeriebella3741
      @valeriebella3741 5 років тому +3

      @@Herlinamkt same they kinda toxic :(

    • @7lb9oz
      @7lb9oz 5 років тому +6

      I know they love me but, sometimes they just make mistake that they don't know it's a mistake.

    • @rekhadwivedi1525
      @rekhadwivedi1525 5 років тому +3

      I also feel that. I can understand. it's not like my parents can't understand me it's like they don't want to understand.

  • @abidshahriar7346
    @abidshahriar7346 2 роки тому +814

    she's not just singing a song, she's literally telling a story..
    I hecking love her voice

    • @Von-nolimit
      @Von-nolimit Рік тому +9

      She's telling a story on behalf of most of us. Every kid has at least complained about their parents because we thought they had a choice to do better and never did.
      But when you get older, you realise that life is just the same, your parents were just their best to give you the best since parenthood is only learnt by being a parent.

    • @FortuneChoobe
      @FortuneChoobe 11 місяців тому +1

      😢❤❤

  • @98vboon
    @98vboon 6 років тому +2067

    "I swore I would never be like them."
    "I used to wonder why, why they could never be happy"
    "I used to close my eyes and pray for whole another family"
    That hit home.

  • @htethtetoo5675
    @htethtetoo5675 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for making this masterpiece. Coz I wish more youths become to realize how tough their parents have been going through before they were born, when & after. Be nice to your parents coz that's never gonna wrong.

  • @vincentvargas1561
    @vincentvargas1561 5 років тому +2812

    My mother work hard at other country caring other family to get more money for us for about 15 years... i miss her so much...so please be kind to all overseas filipino worker around the world..thanks

  • @toponme2911
    @toponme2911 6 років тому +1320

    5 sec into the song, and already in love with it.

  • @prakash-fn6cx
    @prakash-fn6cx 6 років тому +321

    Scrolling down the comments realising how people are suffering and fighting everyday gave me goosebumps also the fact that we don't really know how or what other people are going through.. makes me really sad

    • @nikitamercy
      @nikitamercy 6 років тому

      😔

    • @woahinmymine-7536
      @woahinmymine-7536 6 років тому +1

      no one ~ that is definitely the truth, everyone has battles and struggles it is actually extremely eye opening as you observed here

    • @priyankasigdel4398
      @priyankasigdel4398 6 років тому

      Yes😑

    • @aishakastolan
      @aishakastolan 6 років тому

      P Baruah true.... 😔😔

  • @kharolbarcoma4679
    @kharolbarcoma4679 2 місяці тому

    I used to be mad. Now im 29yrs old and a mom. I understand my parents now specially my MOM. Ma, I love so much. And thank you for not giving up on me and showed me the right way. ❤

  • @nm4645
    @nm4645 4 роки тому +256

    Anyone remember the song “Because of you”?
    I feel like “Older” gives us a new perspective to see our faulted parents. When we were younger, we always felt like our parents were meant to be the perfect ones, having a perfect relationship, always protecting us. But what we couldn’t see was that they are only humans with flaws and their own injuries. It is only as we grow older, we see how hard life is, how hard love is...
    Then it seems cruel to blame them...

  • @jo08an09na
    @jo08an09na 2 роки тому +697

    everytime I get asked, "how many kids do you want in the future?" I always think, “I need to heal my inner kid first."
    may we all heal one day :))

    • @Mr.Cold.Coffee
      @Mr.Cold.Coffee 2 роки тому +8

      THAT'S WAYYY TOO RELATABLE FOR ME 💔💔😭

    • @malemnaoo2082
      @malemnaoo2082 2 роки тому +4

      N we r so misunderstood by pple...

    • @hanfazerin8560
      @hanfazerin8560 Рік тому +1

      omggg ..u r absolutely crct.

    • @thementalhealthproject2020
      @thementalhealthproject2020 Рік тому +3

      This is my answer to when am I getting married.
      Feel you friend

    • @melissamilam-hw9dt
      @melissamilam-hw9dt Рік тому +4

      Thats not going to happen. You will never be healed. Its a part of who you are. As we age we learn more and make peace more but you will always be who you are and that pain is a part of it for better and worse.

  • @angelb33ts
    @angelb33ts 2 роки тому +3678

    "Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older they judge them; sometimes they forgive them." -Oscar Wilde

    • @ishakhurana3424
      @ishakhurana3424 2 роки тому +109

      Been through all three stages. Loving them, judging them when I grew up, now forgiving and praying that peace finds them. It's difficult, they are also human.

    • @dylan_delwyn
      @dylan_delwyn Рік тому +6

      Oscar Wilde is my fav author 😳!

    • @littlehappiness7574
      @littlehappiness7574 Рік тому +3

      True

    • @Winterafternoons
      @Winterafternoons Рік тому +5

      @@ishakhurana3424 you are absolutely right 🙌 they are also humans and it's difficult.

    • @Sardine7533
      @Sardine7533 Рік тому +3

      they forgive their parents everyday

  • @lizespinosa2289
    @lizespinosa2289 3 місяці тому +1

    Missing my Mama. May her soul rest in peace. This song is pinning me real bad.

  • @notmyrealname6276
    @notmyrealname6276 4 роки тому +766

    What's the point of having a family when you dont even feel like you're a part of it? It's just adding to the pain

  • @lovesickgirl7294
    @lovesickgirl7294 2 роки тому +781

    This is not a song this is the true feelings of a teenager.

    • @fstcsuper
      @fstcsuper 2 роки тому +3

      Fr

    • @kwxvisha
      @kwxvisha 2 роки тому

      FRRRRR

    • @pinkytyagi2993
      @pinkytyagi2993 2 роки тому +1

      and kids

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      @theharshtruthoutthere 2 роки тому

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    • @musicindia600
      @musicindia600 2 роки тому +4

      Not only teenagers but kids too..

  • @WorshipNight803
    @WorshipNight803 Рік тому +624

    I was a drug addict for many years, my mom never gave up praying for me. Today I celebrate 4 years clean. God is good
    thank you

    • @Bedjina-kp2qn
      @Bedjina-kp2qn 6 місяців тому +7

      Even me i'm proud of you sweetheart ❤❤❤

    • @Steve99k
      @Steve99k 6 місяців тому

      You will be taking drugs again liar liar😂😂😂

    • @NegarGhorbani-mt2fw
      @NegarGhorbani-mt2fw 5 місяців тому +5

      It shows your powerful soul dear❤

    • @lmuankima16
      @lmuankima16 5 місяців тому +3

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @Sake-m3q
      @Sake-m3q 5 місяців тому +2

      Wish my mom got clean.

  • @ItsMariquel
    @ItsMariquel 3 місяці тому

    It feels like you wrote this just for me!
    I’m so deeply moved by this song. As I listen, I’m trying hard to hold back my tears! It speaks to my soul... Thank you so much for creating this, @sadgirlsloan.

  • @Eternal_Grey
    @Eternal_Grey 5 років тому +2330

    *This song is so beautiful and relates to me a lot. Had a rough childhood*

    • @Launica_yariii
      @Launica_yariii 5 років тому +11

      same

    • @teyorfoust7417
      @teyorfoust7417 5 років тому +12

      This song makes me cry. I just love this song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @saraalshaar5252
      @saraalshaar5252 5 років тому +14

      Everyone went through stuff and si wish I was naver born

    • @dianaiuga1964
      @dianaiuga1964 5 років тому +16

      Yes...me too. My parents got divorced when I was little :((

    • @bloodyterr0rr449
      @bloodyterr0rr449 5 років тому +2

      Imli Longs mood

  • @nightmareamethyst6780
    @nightmareamethyst6780 5 років тому +739

    "I used to close my eyes and pray for a whole nother family" I can relate so much....

    • @tequilla9269
      @tequilla9269 5 років тому +3

      ... :(

    • @kaylee4057
      @kaylee4057 5 років тому +4

      Your strong don't give up trust me it will be better ❤💛💜🧡💙💚💕💞💝

    • @nightmareamethyst6780
      @nightmareamethyst6780 5 років тому +3

      @@kaylee4057 Aww, Tysm 💕😊❤️

    • @kaylee4057
      @kaylee4057 5 років тому +2

      Np :)💚💙🧡💜💛❤ the emporting thing that you stay strong 😁💝

    • @supoushiu5901
      @supoushiu5901 5 років тому +2

      M sure this is 💯% copied 😂 your comment lol haha

  • @oliviad7392
    @oliviad7392 5 років тому +646

    This hit home so hard,she is the voice for lots of kids who’s living in a broken home just like me.

    • @killerkitty3363
      @killerkitty3363 5 років тому +2

      Olivia D me too

    • @bellaw.5195
      @bellaw.5195 5 років тому +1

      I agree with you🖤😔 - I have a friend in my class named Olivia and her last name starts with D, are you her? My names Bella

    • @oliviad7392
      @oliviad7392 5 років тому

      Bella 4 ever no,I’m sorry xx

    • @haneenellithy2539
      @haneenellithy2539 5 років тому

      yeah mee too

    • @fahmimao1036
      @fahmimao1036 5 років тому

      @@bellaw.5195 do you want to be my friend? I can be Olivia like you said

  • @anusha4123
    @anusha4123 3 місяці тому +2

    I feel this song isn't about broken families! Its about how our parents are just like us, humans, who are navigating their lives as they raise us. We should try not be too hard on them, coz they did what they thought was the best. I could relate to most parts of the song, that feeling of anger, fear when my parents used to fight or yell at each other, hiding in a closet sometimes out of fear, wishing I was a part of someone else's family, but we had our happy times as well. They are not superheros, they have emotions and sometimes they came out infront of us, I always think I dont want to do it to my kids, but hey I am not a superhero!

  • @piyodsbl1900
    @piyodsbl1900 5 років тому +5357

    THEORY:
    I feel like people are misinterpreting the song. It’s not just about kids who’s parents are constantly fighting. It’s about how we can’t fully blame them, because love is hard and it’s hard to find someone who will be perfect for you. Love is full of mistakes and our parents made lots of them in it. I remember hiding desperately in the closet wishing for another family, but when I grew up I realized how hard it was for them. I shouldn’t blame them fully, because love is hard. I think that’s the message of the video
    Edit: I was kinda hoping this wouldn’t get over 2 likes but thank you.

    • @aomnuyuth7302
      @aomnuyuth7302 5 років тому +74

      yes she understands now when she's older that loving sb is hard and sometimes its better to let the love go... so sad

    • @rdchiru15
      @rdchiru15 5 років тому +14

      Its is really true😊

    • @Raaa0-i325
      @Raaa0-i325 5 років тому +3

      So true

    • @vantestars.v
      @vantestars.v 5 років тому +2

      yah

    • @Maria-ds6xc
      @Maria-ds6xc 5 років тому +11

      I completely disagree.

  • @cielbemz5247
    @cielbemz5247 5 років тому +4362

    Put your earphones, close your eyes, and just listen.
    I cried.

    • @PratikChaudhari003
      @PratikChaudhari003 5 років тому +60

      Apparently every pure heart did.
      It's so beautiful ❤

    • @wody4747
      @wody4747 5 років тому +14

      True

    • @t.kchannel2698
      @t.kchannel2698 5 років тому +5

      :

    • @muzikman314
      @muzikman314 5 років тому +31

      I wonder if tears came out cauz you said u closed ur eyes

    • @romyteagan4943
      @romyteagan4943 5 років тому +17

      This is how my parents are my mom has been devorcied 3 times😔 she found someone new I hope this one is different

  • @jesylkim1428
    @jesylkim1428 4 роки тому +1819

    When I was a child:
    "I want to grow old already."
    Now that I was grown up:
    "I want to be a kid again."

    • @tahirashahzad9492
      @tahirashahzad9492 4 роки тому +10

      Me too 😭😓😔💔🥺

    • @humanityfirst930
      @humanityfirst930 4 роки тому +7

      Right!!!

    • @bingbong9965
      @bingbong9965 4 роки тому +13

      Growing up is a trap.

    • @reynastewart7953
      @reynastewart7953 4 роки тому +4

      Yh I was happy as a kid and I want that now

    • @aubreeB52
      @aubreeB52 4 роки тому +8

      I don’t wanna grow any older bc that means my mom gets older and you know what happens when old age comes 💔

  • @harinsky3281
    @harinsky3281 3 місяці тому

    The fact that a single song that I randomly found out shouts out my inner thoughts while helping me to heel at the same time, is so fascinating. I just happened to heard this again while looking at my parents' wedding album who got divorced 10 years ago. ''The older I get , the more that I see...My parents aren't heroes , They 're just like me '' This time I really felt it. It's hits hard when I realize that they were also lovers once upon a time.

  • @cristianx6484
    @cristianx6484 6 років тому +650

    These are the people that need to have billions of views

    • @vinizhimomii
      @vinizhimomii 5 років тому +1

      Yesssssssssee

    • @aisyahbay6697
      @aisyahbay6697 5 років тому +3

      Can someone recommend to me some other good songs? And sorry for my bad english

    • @ingeylaali9477
      @ingeylaali9477 5 років тому

      @@aisyahbay6697 um whats wrong with your english?

    • @kumargaurav9417
      @kumargaurav9417 5 років тому

      @@aisyahbay6697 Hi (sorry for my bad english)

    • @leenabourne7328
      @leenabourne7328 5 років тому

      @@aisyahbay6697 sure ?

  • @elle3032
    @elle3032 2 роки тому +1818

    Life lesson : Heal from your childhood wounds before you decide to have your own kids so that your kids won't have to spend their lives trying to heal from you

    • @yenisoediro
      @yenisoediro 2 роки тому +16

      refuckingtweet!

    • @auei
      @auei 2 роки тому +13

      Excellent words 🤞

    • @Killua_Zoldyck3407
      @Killua_Zoldyck3407 2 роки тому +31

      If only my parents did that from the very beginning. 💀 It's not my fault my parents don't know how to emotionally support their children. i don't trust myself for having kids. I don't want my cute little kids to experience what i did. No way in hell is that gonna happen. 💔

    • @jowaness
      @jowaness 2 роки тому +12

      I am not bringing no child to this world.

    • @Killua_Zoldyck3407
      @Killua_Zoldyck3407 2 роки тому +3

      @@jowaness exactly...💀

  • @qyw4639
    @qyw4639 6 років тому +484

    Scrolling through the comments I can't help but wonder are there really truly "happy families" out there. Mine's like a broken one that looks harmonious on the outside. I like to think how my life will be once I establish my own family---will it be identical to mine right now or will it be better? Anyway wish happiness to anyone who happened to come across this comment~

    • @randomgirlgamerrgg2664
      @randomgirlgamerrgg2664 6 років тому +8

      Extreme Mayhem I think reason why there are stories where they’re happy is because they want others to be happy. But there are a few ones that have a sad income, but still carry on

    • @A_lass
      @A_lass 6 років тому +12

      I pray for your happiness too. I'm sure you'll be a wonderful parent someday and it's very courageous of you to still hold onto life even though it's difficult. That's true courage and strength right there. You're here for a reason and God loves you. Peace be with you 💛

    • @alyssayye
      @alyssayye 6 років тому +5

      My family is pretty good

    • @annm8955
      @annm8955 6 років тому +3

      It's gonna be okay ...

    • @tranthiminhngoc1821
      @tranthiminhngoc1821 6 років тому +4

      there is. mine is. it also depends on how you think of "happy"

  • @ANONYMOUS-vb5hm
    @ANONYMOUS-vb5hm 2 місяці тому

    I never thought that I'd find a song which is this relatable! Damn, you made me cry gurll!

  • @vance7361
    @vance7361 5 років тому +2070

    when I'm listening this song, I found my soul hurts.

    • @m0on129
      @m0on129 5 років тому +2

      Same

    • @unknownlad2784
      @unknownlad2784 5 років тому +5

      Honestly it just hurts

    • @queenv6765
      @queenv6765 5 років тому +5

      For me it hurts so bad because for me my life

    • @hoilam5967
      @hoilam5967 5 років тому +1

      Hey If I grow up I get weaker 😓😓😓😓😓😥😥😥😥😰😰😢😢😨😨😨😰😰😓😥😭😭

    • @hoilam5967
      @hoilam5967 5 років тому +2

      This song just matches my problem 😔😔😔😔😓😓😓😥😥😥

  • @axqilah8715
    @axqilah8715 5 років тому +3468

    “I used to shut my door, while my mother screamed in the kitchen, I’d turn the music up, get high and try not to listen” I swear to god this is me

    • @irvandwi7390
      @irvandwi7390 5 років тому +27

      get up! God with you (:

    • @angelbubangel
      @angelbubangel 5 років тому +16

      Right? And the part were their both not right too gosh I've found my new favorite artist💜

    • @shashang5191
      @shashang5191 5 років тому +8

      I'm doing this everytime they're mad at me. I don't want them to listen at.

    • @pika8463
      @pika8463 5 років тому +4

      Everything will be alright you just need to push through a bit may God be with you my man

    • @naylaapriliafachri
      @naylaapriliafachri 5 років тому +2

      same same haha

  • @__neez_dutzz___
    @__neez_dutzz___ 4 роки тому +567

    RANDOMLY FOUND THIS SONG AND IT HIT ME IN THE SOUL.

    • @swetaparay4128
      @swetaparay4128 4 роки тому +3

      Same bro😏

    • @stacieberries
      @stacieberries 4 роки тому +1

      Same man

    • @codybaldwin4156
      @codybaldwin4156 4 роки тому

      Fr tho

    • @nutaellasbread3457
      @nutaellasbread3457 4 роки тому +3

      Same it came into my Spotify playlist from nowhere I waa about to skip but the first three lines made me listen to it . This is the most related song by me . I can ever running to find people like me in the comments .

    • @rhoannecleovillamil3232
      @rhoannecleovillamil3232 4 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/NSTmve4RKNU/v-deo.html

  • @Baemon0007_p5c
    @Baemon0007_p5c 2 місяці тому +3

    Wow UA-cam decided to recommend this masterpiece to me after damn 5 years😭♥️😊

  • @ellamiracle7891
    @ellamiracle7891 3 роки тому +706

    Being judge by your own family is a worst kind of pain.

    • @xxburningfoxxx1081
      @xxburningfoxxx1081 2 роки тому +10

      @@ishu_2904 not really

    • @kieranbeech762
      @kieranbeech762 2 роки тому +6

      very true and it hurts like hell exactly what I'm going through now

    • @Topazzzzzzz
      @Topazzzzzzz 2 роки тому +1

      Fr-

    • @Topazzzzzzz
      @Topazzzzzzz 2 роки тому +3

      @@ishu_2904 ehhhhh not really- maybe but not all the time

    • @demonboy373
      @demonboy373 2 роки тому

      Happens to everyone tho...

  • @angelofabysshorizon8168
    @angelofabysshorizon8168 5 років тому +2453

    I clicked this by accident
    Best accident ever , this song screams my life

  • @jessicazhang3460
    @jessicazhang3460 5 років тому +537

    Every time I hear this song, I cry. She expresses so emotion in her singing.

    • @goodnightmori
      @goodnightmori 5 років тому +2

      hi zhang i feel this way too

    • @kjg1439
      @kjg1439 5 років тому +1

      Jessica Zhang I was the 100th like 👌

    • @jayaxiao4291
      @jayaxiao4291 5 років тому +2

      I feel the same way. Tears just drop by itself.

    • @thommyswills2612
      @thommyswills2612 5 років тому

      shi ues atotuen

  • @Epytome
    @Epytome Місяць тому +1

    "I used to be mad, but now I know.." this transformation takes a toll on your mind, the numbness that comes when you start understanding that it's okay when people leave.. it's okay, I'll be okay!

  • @lizchinarrr536
    @lizchinarrr536 3 роки тому +309

    I didn't think that I would ever write this in the comments under the song, but I can agree with this song very much. My very strict parents have been fighting every day since I was 5 years old and they won't let me leave the house, I don't have my own room and I have to put up with it all. I've developed a lot of nervous illnesses, but my family still pretends that they don't understand why I feel bad. I have a best friend who helps me cope with this, I love her very much. I hope that no one will ever have to experience all that I went through. Remember that there are people in the world who love you. Sorry if there are any mistakes here, I haven't been learning English for very long. Have a nice day ❤

    • @seethamuthiah8906
      @seethamuthiah8906 3 роки тому +10

      I'm not gonna pretend I've been through this. But if this comment helps and uplifts your mood then here's a quote
      "It's a *good day* to have a *good day* "
      I don't know who you are.
      But know that your bestfriend loves you

    • @sifatmeii
      @sifatmeii 3 роки тому +1

      Try to be happy on your own..stop complaining, keep moving, You can’t change the past,but you can change your future,go get it.

    • @wandering_soul07
      @wandering_soul07 3 роки тому +1

      I can relate this 😔🙁

    • @miigwans360
      @miigwans360 3 роки тому +2

      This is my story down to everything. I was locked in my house and had to put up with an abusive family that said that everything I did was for attention or otherwise I was invisible. I have finally escaped that situation now that I'm older but just know you are not alone, I hope things get better for you like they did for me. Many blessings.

    • @rachmadsamudera1021
      @rachmadsamudera1021 3 роки тому

      Can I hug you? :( And I hope u in health and happy today :)

  • @mattcruse495
    @mattcruse495 5 років тому +912

    I was on spotify searching for a song and I saw a playlist named "sad songs" I clicked and found this song. I just couldnt stop listenning. That moment when you realized a song explained your whole life.

    • @ariaheldred9365
      @ariaheldred9365 5 років тому +18

      I feel the same. my parents got divorced but were constantly fighting, my dad got remarried and got divorced again. my mom got married three years ago and they are constantly fighting and thinking about divorce. I'm praying for you.

    • @nikolanguyenova5913
      @nikolanguyenova5913 5 років тому +1

      Ariah Eldred jko

    • @ariaheldred9365
      @ariaheldred9365 5 років тому +1

      @@nikolanguyenova5913 I'm not up to date with slang lol what does jko mean

    • @omarh8731
      @omarh8731 5 років тому

      it describes something so deep yet so common

    • @MegaMsc123
      @MegaMsc123 5 років тому

      Matt Cruse yall are a bunch of depressed fuc*s!

  • @n6713
    @n6713 4 роки тому +1063

    My family isn’t broken, im the one who is broken, i broke myself,physically,mentally.

    • @aliceng1682
      @aliceng1682 4 роки тому +23

      virtual hugggggggg

    • @bekindfellowhuman
      @bekindfellowhuman 4 роки тому +31

      But at least we have k-pop :')

    • @ruthw6468
      @ruthw6468 4 роки тому +10

      I feel you

    • @zinabmyself2171
      @zinabmyself2171 4 роки тому +4

      All of WE..i brokes m'y self .and i will mâke she happy..talking responsabilité ✌️💪

    • @TheChinamen1
      @TheChinamen1 4 роки тому +19

      I was broken, very broken. Had no idea where to go with my life, broke up with someone, had no job. Then I picked myself up, learn to take it step by step, got a new job and leave all the bad things behind. Even if it's something as little as enjoying the breeze from walking to work, getting drunk while playing card games, made macaroni and cheese for dinner, I find myself feeling better and better. I want to let people know that good times will come, even when you thought thing cannot get any better, it will get better. I believe in you.

  • @dimagculangsherivicmae292
    @dimagculangsherivicmae292 3 місяці тому +2

    I found this masterpiece during pandemic season, hearing this again this 2024 and it still hurts. How could one song says all I want. It's like a theme song for those results of broken family. Hugs to us❤❤

  • @actuallylollypop7469
    @actuallylollypop7469 5 років тому +155

    Don't mind me, just casually crying at 5 in the morning.
    This song hit hard for me. Especially the line "sometimes it's better to let someone go"

  • @only_shahana
    @only_shahana 3 роки тому +248

    This comment section is sadly the most relatable one I've ever seen. Everyone is speaking facts.

  • @cnt6675
    @cnt6675 3 роки тому +333

    In a place in the world I've never known, people I don't know are crying with this song it's nice to know I'm not alone
    I want to hug all the people who suffer and say "everything will be okay"

    • @aratrikasarkar6203
      @aratrikasarkar6203 2 роки тому +7

      I am crying right now listening to this on loop. It hurts. So bad. So if you read this, yeah, you're def not alone.

    • @haro5909
      @haro5909 2 роки тому +2

      @@aratrikasarkar6203 It takes time but we will heal

    • @aratrikasarkar6203
      @aratrikasarkar6203 2 роки тому

      @@haro5909 hopefully soon ❤

    • @cnt6675
      @cnt6675 2 роки тому +1

      @@aratrikasarkar6203 i hope you are fine now :) 🤞

    • @花-v8t3f
      @花-v8t3f 2 роки тому

      Thank you and I would love to give you a hug too 🤍

  • @jajahmalinao2249
    @jajahmalinao2249 3 місяці тому +2

    My heart cries to everyone experiencing this kind of pain. 😢 hugs to y’all🥹🤍

  • @skywatxh
    @skywatxh 6 років тому +371

    I can relate to this so much. My family is always fighting and I always wanna crawl in a hole and listen to my music and cry and wish for a new family. A better family. I always told myself I wasn't going to be like my brother and sister who were very rude to my mom and as I got older I realized it's not really something I can help. Getting mad at my mom and frustrated but I try to control it and stay calm so I can be that one person that doesn't cause fights and trouble.

    • @sanskritigupta3699
      @sanskritigupta3699 6 років тому

      It'll be alright

    • @lalrinpuiiralte3712
      @lalrinpuiiralte3712 6 років тому +4

      I hope it gets better for you and me 😊

    • @kayla2150
      @kayla2150 6 років тому +2

      I realate. Hope it gets better with all of you

    • @rodriguezmanon2007
      @rodriguezmanon2007 6 років тому +1

      It's not gonne a be like that forever, be strong you're not alone

    • @Phaphako
      @Phaphako 6 років тому

      it is same with me i dont want to become like my siblings who rude to the parents. But now all of us have grown up and we all in good terms

  • @jessse22
    @jessse22 4 роки тому +371

    the lyrics hit different when it’s your life she’s describing...

  • @hellomickey6166
    @hellomickey6166 5 років тому +789

    when my father fight with my mom, I ran away from home, I sit alone at bench, sometimes when I can't escape, I hid myself behind my room door. my father beat me. now he was alone and sick, but my heart was cold to him forever.

    • @shantysukma9717
      @shantysukma9717 5 років тому +28

      i can feel your pain honey... be strong💓

    • @dreamy9622
      @dreamy9622 5 років тому +7

      That's sad

    • @ZoeWorld
      @ZoeWorld 5 років тому +4

      :,( so sad 😢

    • @ellen_sahakian
      @ellen_sahakian 5 років тому +11

      The same happened to me. That’s why I don’t love him at all...

    • @akihikayepthomi484
      @akihikayepthomi484 5 років тому +34

      I can totally relate with you. Life is unfair at times.my dad was the worse human being I have ever known ,every day was a struggle for us.at times I even wished I was an animal .I just wanted to be freed from him . He got accident , he is sick a brain patient now .and I take care of him and we are in good terms .I cant treat him the same way like he did.it makes me no different from him if I were to treat him the same like he did to me .

  • @lightandshadow2008
    @lightandshadow2008 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for the messages inside this beautiful song. I need to remind myself of my mom who is only parent i have right now. Sorry mama.