Also, shout out to xenogender people for making the most badass and coolest flags I've seen in the LGBTQIA+ community, y'all are talented. I know y'all been tranphobia's new victim, but as an Agender Butch Lesbian, y'all are loved and valid.
Thank you, im an autistic xenogirl.. kind of in the closet about being a xenogender hoarder but I’m slowly coming out of it; I guess I’m just afraid to tell anyone because most people see it as weird or invalid even though I know it’s not, I just want people to take me seriously
I’m autistic and don’t use xenogenders and I think you’re valid. Your xenogenders are valid and should be taken seriously! I hope you find people who treat you and your identities with respect :)
Fun fact - i've made xenogenders based off of warriors characters ^w^ 1.ravenpawgender(paws/paw) or (he/ravens) Your gender kinda matches him (shy , easily scared , etc) 2.tigerstargender(claws/claw) or (he/him) Your sneaky , rude and mischievous!!!
Some peope in this comment section need to get educated before hating on Xenogenders. (Not referring to Xenogender commenters, love y'all. I'm referring to the transphobes in the comment section.) These people need to understand that they ain't the CEO of gender and don't decide the rules. Edit; Don't you dare read the replies!
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp read the comment again and normally if you have some neurons you will understand that this person just explain that their gender is LIKE animals and that they don’t identify as an animal bruh
I remember when I was younger i was just hit with a deluge of anti zeno gender and anti trans rhetoric on the internet, i remember think that that sounds weird and cringe. Only in tgat last few years have i realized "oh shit dat me"
Could somebody use a zenogender but not use any neopronouns? edit: I'm trans and that's what I mainly tell people but I'm also gonna start using star gender
can you use certain xeno if theme in this xeno is your special interest or the thing that you really like and you start to think it has a little connection to your gender cause it's kinda part of you? but not full connection /genq
Idrk either (even tho I've felt like xenogenders) but I think I could explain it Basically imagine gender as a ball, some balls have feminine inside of them, or masculine, or androgynous, some ppl have a soft cat in that ball instead or with masc/fem/androgynous Hope this helps! (Even tho it'll probably not)
as an autistic person also, i say xenos are valid. It's not identifying as one's interest but using something to describe how one's gender feels to them. Any one can be xenogender without being autistic. If you don't think they're valid then ok idc and if you don't get it then you don't get it.
@@1dk.1dc You're right. i absolutely do not get having so many identidy and self-image issues that instead of seeking help or talking to someone; Try to somehow just link and attach general interests to somehow make up a non existent-gender label wich will propably only worsen your identidy crisis.
Let me see if I can explain it a different way. I’ll use autistic people as an example here. Autistic people experience the world differently than people without it. We don’t understand social cues and social norms. “Why did you ask me about my day and then get mad when I told you about my day? Doesn’t make sense” is a frequent thing I find myself wanting to say to people. Our perception of gender can sometimes be different as well. For example, I saw a survey somewhere that said autistic people are more likely to think of “man” and “boy” as two different genders. We know they’re technically not but they feel different to us. The person in the last TikTok was saying that some Neurodivergent people (people with autism, ADHD, OCD, etc.) have a hard time understanding any of the traditional genders at all and so xenogenders were created to help them put their gender into words. Think how a woman might describe being a woman as “pretty, feminine, powerful yet graceful” or something. How would you describe YOUR gender? People who use xenogenders are just trying to find words that DESCRIBE their gender as opposed to using a specific gender label. So they’re saying it’s ableism to hate xenogenders because the primary purpose of them is to help neurodivergent people (who are legally recognized as disabled) describe and express their identity. I hope this helped a little :)
@@navoryx exactly,and I'm a autistic person myself 😂. Like other neurodivergent people I know my gender nor knew what gender is,I just don't know why people treating them like little children.
@@navoryx I'm literally autistic bro. I know we're all different. That's exactly why some people use different labels than we do. As long as it's not hurting anybody it literally doesn't matter. Shitting on xenogenders because "you should just use 'normal labels'" or "it's not real" is the same rhetoric homophobes and transphobes use to try and invalidate the queer community as a whole. It's not constructive and it's hurtful to people. Even if you don't personally believe people should use them, it's not helpful nor kind.
@@This_dumb_guy says the person who kept making up things and call it "genders", I'm sure that your definitely need a tissue with that.......oh wait your gonna call that a gender too😂
@@Oct0_X3 how are two words making me a huge dick? if youre really over here bawling your eyeballs out because one person thinks this isnt valid, then you should probably seek help, but hopefully youre already in therapy considering the fact you go by kitten/kittenself
Also, shout out to xenogender people for making the most badass and coolest flags I've seen in the LGBTQIA+ community, y'all are talented. I know y'all been tranphobia's new victim, but as an Agender Butch Lesbian, y'all are loved and valid.
0:04 The star catboy gender one goes hard as fuck.
Really tysm for your support 🫂❤️❤️
@@This_dumb_guy No problem! 💕
@@mummifiedbutterflyalso zoomie gender
Thank you and I agree, some of the flags are awesome!
All hate is removed!
There’s a hate comment !
theres a hate comment
@@3cl1ps3_0n_p4wzaww you can't handle the truth
@@childofthe_k0rnlooks like someone's salty of someone being sane
Boo hoo😊
Thx this helped me figure out I'm also clutterboy
I’m so glad to hear that this helped you! ❤
No such thing as clutterboy, just say that your a boy
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wpstfu ur cringe 😂
@@This_dumb_guywow, that's a real good insult you have there; you really showed me😂. Your clearly embarrassing yourself my guy
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp Really, go do something productive instead of being rude to xenogenders.
Thank you, im an autistic xenogirl.. kind of in the closet about being a xenogender hoarder but I’m slowly coming out of it; I guess I’m just afraid to tell anyone because most people see it as weird or invalid even though I know it’s not, I just want people to take me seriously
I take you seriously:) (imma a xenogender user as well)
I'm autistic but thank goodness I'm not xenogenders because.......it doesn't exist:D
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wpur delusional because it exist, and ur in a COMPILATION video about XENOGENDER wtf get a life and a brain 😂😂😂
I’m autistic and don’t use xenogenders and I think you’re valid. Your xenogenders are valid and should be taken seriously! I hope you find people who treat you and your identities with respect :)
@@CatsinHats4 oh,ok.Guess we can have our disagreements 😅
i’ve been collecting xenos for a few months now, and today i just started making flags ^__^ !!
*cute,y runs away with twice the xenos I had before I left*
SMA LMAOO
(I had five b4, i have now collected 10 more :33)
@@River-the_agender I had 15 before now I have 36 lol. Also btw your name says agender but your pfp flag is the nonbinary one, idk if you knew that.
@@Ash_IsntHuman yes i did know lol, i have to wait to change my name, and im atually girlflux now :3
@@River-the_agender oh, cool!
@AshyP4ws actually transmasc now uhhhh hehe
celebrating cuz i dont have to scroll past 100 cringe comps to find this gold and its now at the top of the search results :D
Fun fact - i've made xenogenders based off of warriors characters ^w^
1.ravenpawgender(paws/paw) or (he/ravens)
Your gender kinda matches him (shy , easily scared , etc)
2.tigerstargender(claws/claw) or (he/him)
Your sneaky , rude and mischievous!!!
Some peope in this comment section need to get educated before hating on Xenogenders. (Not referring to Xenogender commenters, love y'all. I'm referring to the transphobes in the comment section.) These people need to understand that they ain't the CEO of gender and don't decide the rules.
Edit; Don't you dare read the replies!
That's not gonna stop them tho😆
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp Bruh, go watch something else if you wanna be this petty 💀
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp You been here for the last couple of hours, you're also part of the problem 🤡
@@mummifiedbutterfly woah chill out there Espeon,did your trainer abandon you or something?😂
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp And you expect me to chill out-
My subgender:
Animalgender
Animalgender is related to all animals or feel like a therian to the point were you wanna express it as a gender.
Your not a animal just a human being 😊
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp no shit sherlock they said it was related to gender not what species they are ☠️
@@Venom8itezusing the phrase “no shit Sherlock” under a comment makes liking animals a gender is literally insanity
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp read the comment again and normally if you have some neurons you will understand that this person just explain that their gender is LIKE animals and that they don’t identify as an animal bruh
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp everyone knows thattt
I have question, if someone don't have autism or anything like that can they still use xenogenders like catgender for example or they can't?
yesw
Yes, you absolutely can!
Thank y'all :D
@@marcjannaarczewska4229 No problem, you have an incredibly based gender 😎
Finally my question got answered
I remember when I was younger i was just hit with a deluge of anti zeno gender and anti trans rhetoric on the internet, i remember think that that sounds weird and cringe. Only in tgat last few years have i realized "oh shit dat me"
1:47 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
1:47 Can non autistic/ADHD pepole be xenogender?
Edit: okay nvm i think so (correct me if im wrong)
They can! It’s not exclusive to neurodivergent people it’s just that it tends to be that neurodivergent people use them more
@@axmartin6853 tysm! Can't you create your own zenogender or something like that?
@@Ivy-ht1rd if there isn’t a pre-existing term yes! You can coin your own and create a flag!
@axmartin6853 well thanks for telling me! Have a nice day and remember to drink and eat :D
@axmartin6853 well thanks for telling me! Have a nice day and remember to drink and eat :D
Could somebody use a zenogender but not use any neopronouns?
edit: I'm trans and that's what I mainly tell people but I'm also gonna start using star gender
Yep! Gender ≠ pronouns! :]
YES!! IF NOBODY IS GETTING HURT, PEOPLE CAN BE HAPPY AND BE THEMSELVES!!
Friendly reminder that you dont HAVE to be nd to be xeno!
can you use certain xeno if theme in this xeno is your special interest or the thing that you really like and you start to think it has a little connection to your gender cause it's kinda part of you? but not full connection /genq
Yeah, I'm sure you can.
There's -comfic genders and -spinnic genders.
@@FleegleFazbeagle ty!:3
I don't know anymore. At this point, do what you want.
I don’t use xenogenders but on behalf of the community, your abstention on the matter is greatly appreciated. Have a nice day! :)
I don't know anymore either but yeah I don't blame you
No hate but i dont get it
I genuinely need to ask how peoples gender feel like a soft cat?? It’s not hate I’m just reallly confused
Idrk either (even tho I've felt like xenogenders) but I think I could explain it
Basically imagine gender as a ball, some balls have feminine inside of them, or masculine, or androgynous, some ppl have a soft cat in that ball instead or with masc/fem/androgynous
Hope this helps! (Even tho it'll probably not)
3:15
I'm autistic myself and i agree on that Interests aren't genders.
im also autistic myself and i agree that xenogenders are valid!
@@arsonzartz why do you think they're valid if i may ask
@@arsonzartz oh man i just looked at your channel. i mean i was expecting you guys to be young but dang, you're a literal child
as an autistic person also, i say xenos are valid. It's not identifying as one's interest but using something to describe how one's gender feels to them. Any one can be xenogender without being autistic. If you don't think they're valid then ok idc and if you don't get it then you don't get it.
@@1dk.1dc You're right. i absolutely do not get having so many identidy and self-image issues that instead of seeking help or talking to someone; Try to somehow just link and attach general interests to somehow make up a non existent-gender label wich will propably only worsen your identidy crisis.
1:50 wtf. They dont act like delusional people
HELP THE LAST ONE DOESNT EVEN MAKE SENSE WHAT??
Let me see if I can explain it a different way. I’ll use autistic people as an example here. Autistic people experience the world differently than people without it. We don’t understand social cues and social norms. “Why did you ask me about my day and then get mad when I told you about my day? Doesn’t make sense” is a frequent thing I find myself wanting to say to people. Our perception of gender can sometimes be different as well. For example, I saw a survey somewhere that said autistic people are more likely to think of “man” and “boy” as two different genders. We know they’re technically not but they feel different to us. The person in the last TikTok was saying that some Neurodivergent people (people with autism, ADHD, OCD, etc.) have a hard time understanding any of the traditional genders at all and so xenogenders were created to help them put their gender into words.
Think how a woman might describe being a woman as “pretty, feminine, powerful yet graceful” or something. How would you describe YOUR gender? People who use xenogenders are just trying to find words that DESCRIBE their gender as opposed to using a specific gender label. So they’re saying it’s ableism to hate xenogenders because the primary purpose of them is to help neurodivergent people (who are legally recognized as disabled) describe and express their identity. I hope this helped a little :)
@@CatsinHats4 not all autistic people use that xenogenders crap and also they can know about gender :)
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp yeah i really dont think all autistic people use that.. xeno shit 😭😭
@@navoryx exactly,and I'm a autistic person myself 😂. Like other neurodivergent people I know my gender nor knew what gender is,I just don't know why people treating them like little children.
@@navoryx I'm literally autistic bro. I know we're all different. That's exactly why some people use different labels than we do. As long as it's not hurting anybody it literally doesn't matter. Shitting on xenogenders because "you should just use 'normal labels'" or "it's not real" is the same rhetoric homophobes and transphobes use to try and invalidate the queer community as a whole. It's not constructive and it's hurtful to people. Even if you don't personally believe people should use them, it's not helpful nor kind.
Xenogenders isn't a real thing,cry about it :)
Xenogender are valid and real, cry about it 😎✨
@@This_dumb_guy no it's not so cry about it :)
@_.cr0w.f00d xenogenders isn't valid, deal with it:)
@@AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp I’m not crying because you’re telling lies lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@This_dumb_guy says the person who kept making up things and call it "genders", I'm sure that your definitely need a tissue with that.......oh wait your gonna call that a gender too😂
not valid
cry abt it
Oh you're mad @@aqua1163 💀
@@soxnsandalsss no i just don’t rlly understand wtf ur problem is with xenogenders, like if u don’t like them just dni??
And if you didn't like my comment then just dni with it@@aqua1163
Xenogenders gotta be one of the stupidest things to exist, first one being you@@aqua1163
not valid
frfr
whatever your pronouns are, you're not valid because you're being assholes online for no reason
You’re boring 😴
To be honest, that’s your opinion! That’s ok! Doesn’t give you an excuse to be a huge dick about it though now does it?
@@Oct0_X3 how are two words making me a huge dick? if youre really over here bawling your eyeballs out because one person thinks this isnt valid, then you should probably seek help, but hopefully youre already in therapy considering the fact you go by kitten/kittenself