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  • @theevolutionoftina
    @theevolutionoftina 2 роки тому +64

    The fact that your partner just listened to you express yourself and didn’t interrupt or try to give advice was absolutely beautiful. You are a strong, brave courageous women for sharing these vulnerable moments with us. Thank you 💕

  • @lilaccapulet
    @lilaccapulet 2 роки тому +127

    Emotional release is all apart of the healing journey. You’re going to get through this I wish you light and love. 💕🕊

  • @micahwilliams7177
    @micahwilliams7177 2 роки тому +33

    I kept waiting for Yarman to go to you at the beginning of the video and hug and comfort you. All he did was throw pants at you and walk by and grab ur shoulder....lol. just like a man...lol

  • @Sheesha1136
    @Sheesha1136 2 роки тому +44

    Can we all just appreciate how Yarman let her vent and didn’t try to fix it? Bless him

  • @taylors1047
    @taylors1047 2 роки тому +61

    I love how sweet Yarmin is with you. I love how he just listens and let's you express how you feel and he is 100% supportive. I absolutely love watching your videos and how humble you are. Thank you for sharing the highs and the lows.
    I hope whoever reads this has an amazing day❤️

  • @giggleslyn8586
    @giggleslyn8586 2 роки тому +68

    Hate seeing any one cry 💔 But if it's part of a purging process and leaving behind what is no longer serving you. I get so happy for whoever is transforming 😊😊 you look amazing btw!

  • @AmbieBae
    @AmbieBae 2 роки тому +36

    So glad you had this “light-bulb” moment and shared it. Identifying these things is the first step in what’s going to help you get over them. And girl, I feel like we all just gotta breakdown and cry once in a while and let that sh*t out lol (I had a day like this recently after trying so hard to just keep myself together for days on end) thank you for sharing!

  • @kdybanker
    @kdybanker 2 роки тому +8

    It was so difficult to see you hurting, watching this. I have always used food for comfort. I haven't had bypass, but I have been on Noom this past year, all the while going through breast cancer. It's a difficult journey, but I have to tell you that you have given me so much inspiration and I thank you for being so transparent. I have nothing but utter respect for you, Alex. You're a beautiful girl with a lovely vibe. Sending all my love and support.

    • @beantownzfinest1247
      @beantownzfinest1247 2 роки тому +2

      Loved this❤️! The fact that even though you have your own health concerns, but took the time to be so supportive to someone else struggling, speaks volumes. Sending you prayers of healing, along with the very same love & light through your entire journey🙏🏾❤️.

  • @sarah28681
    @sarah28681 2 роки тому +1

    I so totally get the being emotional and breaking down for no reason. I had the sleeve 3 months ago and I find my self so overwhelmed sometimes over the smallest things. Just like now seeing you upset and stuff has me crying because I know exactly what you mean. We got this though. We can do hard things, I know for me ever tear I’ve shed is worth the 70 pounds I’ve lost. ❤️

  • @maryhelenalvarez5238
    @maryhelenalvarez5238 Рік тому

    It’s gonna be okay change is good and crying is a gift from God …love you Alex ❤

  • @elbaelisa
    @elbaelisa 2 роки тому +16

    Ohh mama you are doing amazing! I am very proud of you and wish I can give you a big hug right now. I’ll be praying for you to find calm and strength in your process. 💖

  • @shopwithmex3
    @shopwithmex3 2 роки тому +11

    Oh Alex, it’s ok to cry, I wish you & Yar the best! sending positive vibes your way!

  • @tarahouse6130
    @tarahouse6130 2 роки тому +22

    Your husband should be comforting you rn

    • @tweetybirdgirl07
      @tweetybirdgirl07 7 місяців тому

      I learned because my partner and I take comfort differently so

  • @stephmomca2193
    @stephmomca2193 2 роки тому

    I agree with this 100%. Whoever says that this surgery is the easy way out is so wrong. This process is so hard physically and mentally...you’re definitely not alone! We’ve got this. ❤️

  • @FreelysLifeLessons
    @FreelysLifeLessons 2 роки тому +22

    Alex, I’m balling my eyes out here. YES!!!! Learning to deal with stress and not grabbing comfort foods is freaking HARD. PROUD OF YOU!!! Let those tears flow!!! Thank you for leaving this in the Vlog. This is real life people!!!

  • @emiliebridges
    @emiliebridges 2 роки тому +1

    Mamas, the way you were talking reminds me so much of how I feel as someone in recovery from drugs and alcohol. I spent most of my life using these ways of coping with things that I didn't feel like I could face head on and now those options are no longer available to me. Have some grace with yourself, please. You are learning and growing and and feeling and so much of that is brand new

  • @laurencowan7006
    @laurencowan7006 2 роки тому +4

    This is real raw Alex and I appreciate the authenticity so much! You’re doing great Alex, keep being vulnerable and let us help lift you up!

  • @kerrieswant7033
    @kerrieswant7033 2 роки тому +1

    Been following you for just a few months and really love the ‘real’ person content so rare on the internet. So happy for this new journey that you are stepping into. Change is hard even the good stuff so feeling any and all emotions super important. Thank you for being you!

  • @yazzispanglish2028
    @yazzispanglish2028 2 роки тому +2

    You know crying makes me feel so much better after, is like you put your emotions instead of keeping them inside hurting you more..
    Thanks for sharing that moment with us 🌸🌸🌸🌸

  • @conversationsaboutempowerm1455
    @conversationsaboutempowerm1455 2 роки тому +14

    Sending you love boo! This is also life, it’s not always easy, and mellow… are emotions all of them!! Deserve to be honored… and they are very uncomfortable when we first start allowing them to fully take the stage. But the important thing is remembering there is a whoooole show line up.. and you are allowed to have a happy ending (: thank you for sharing, because I think anyone that has influence that is braver ought to show their humanness is really helping heal unhealthy toxic positivity that much of entertainment media creates! ✨💖✨

  • @ntrovertednitra
    @ntrovertednitra 2 роки тому +1

    I had my bypass on 11/2/21 and I totally understand what you are going through. I have suffered from depression and anxiety for most of my life. It hits me harder since my surgery bc my go to(except my meds)are no longer available. Learning new coping skills is not easy. This surgery is not easy, but it is a blessing. Thank you for being transparent in that moment

  • @discoveringthenewnormal799
    @discoveringthenewnormal799 2 роки тому +2

    Proud of you. We all cope with stress in different ways, and most of us in an unhealthy way whether it be food, drinking, drugs, over-exercising, deflecting emotions…I mean there are tons of ways. Actually facing those coping mechanisms and challenging them is true growth. Cheers to the next chapter!

  • @millers3888
    @millers3888 2 роки тому

    Girl let it out. Crying and expressing your emotions authentically is not only good for you, it’s necessary. Your YT fam has got your back. We all struggle with things (for me it’s booze) and when I struggle, I feel like I’m in an ocean alone even with my partner right beside me. Let yourself cry, and remember if you keep it all in, it could come out in worse ways…

  • @michellemattingly5707
    @michellemattingly5707 2 роки тому +1

    Respect you SO much. You keep it so real and I can’t tell you how much it feels comforting to not feel alone! 💙

  • @michelleleigh82
    @michelleleigh82 2 роки тому +2

    oh man, 2 seconds in and I'm crying with you! People do not understand how much we cope through things with food! Breakthrough moment for you!

  • @daughterofthemosthigh6869
    @daughterofthemosthigh6869 2 роки тому +1

    I used to use food for comfort and to cope with my emotions too. But now I have God who is with me and gives me peace in times of trouble. I pray that he will tug at your heart and become your comfort too. ❤️🙏

  • @kittyperalta
    @kittyperalta 2 роки тому +23

    I'll never understand people that make comments about the surgery when they've never had it. The struggle is very real. Like you said it is a great tool but your inner demons can rear its ugly head and you have to find new ways to cope and deal with your emotions. You're doing great!!! 1 day at a time🥰

  • @jkay2297
    @jkay2297 2 роки тому +4

    Crying makes you empowered, it’s not weakness, but strength. So happy you feel good enough about yourself to share this with the world

  • @thefoodwench4848
    @thefoodwench4848 2 роки тому +41

    You’re epiphany is a sign of healing. Your getting stronger and your baggage wants to be healed so will bubble up from time to time. You got this and I can’t wait to see decorating vlogs!😀💕

  • @sabrinarivarde
    @sabrinarivarde 2 роки тому +10

    so excited for you! can’t wait to experience this one day. Also that cute nook where you put the easter decor is such a cute space to switch out for every holiday! so happy for you ❤️such an accomplishment

  • @leilachoukal
    @leilachoukal 2 роки тому +1

    I love how Yar was just listening to you standing there letting you vent uninterrupted

  • @autumnkessler5904
    @autumnkessler5904 2 роки тому

    I have a lap band and feel you sister! It’s a constant battle and it’s tough digging through old emotions.

  • @alissam4296
    @alissam4296 2 роки тому +14

    Oh, Alex. I’m giving you a virtual hug . I’ve been dealing with very high stress and anxiety lately & can really feel your pain right now you. These emotions will be there, but they won’t harm you. You’ll sit with them for the moment, acknowledge it & then float above realizing you made it through. ❤️

  • @katieburns1119
    @katieburns1119 2 роки тому +2

    You're so great at talking through your emotions and communicating with Yar about how your feeling. When I feel overwhelmed I completely shut down and can't talk at all. Lol

    • @Jujulianap
      @Jujulianap 2 роки тому +1

      I’m the same way, when I’m sad or frustrated my thought process is a complete mess and I can barely form sentences 🤣

  • @tbonesmith7642
    @tbonesmith7642 2 роки тому +13

    Amen sister! I’m 13 years out with my GB (still 100lbs down!) and still burst out in tears because I won’t eat a tub of chunky monkey to deal with stress! Hugs GB sis…you can do this!

  • @peggys1439
    @peggys1439 2 роки тому +1

    Yes, I've had this same breakdown and convo with my husband! ❤❤❤

  • @ericaluna01
    @ericaluna01 2 роки тому

    We’re here for you Alex!! All our lives we used food to celebrate or when we are sad and now we cant. I’m so glad your husband is there for you! ❤️

  • @brianabreitkreutz4633
    @brianabreitkreutz4633 2 роки тому +4

    I just wanted to say I’ve been watching since you had 300 followers. And I am so damn proud of you. None of the crap people say matters. I can tell you’re a good person.

  • @margaretjeffers1368
    @margaretjeffers1368 2 роки тому

    You are something,you work so hard and are a special lady.
    Hope you feel better its okay to let your emotions show..don't be in a hurry to get things done.
    One day at a time..

  • @Cory90bsr
    @Cory90bsr 2 роки тому

    100% understand! I had my bypass in December and I find it hard to hold my emotions now when I'm stress.I used to turn to hot chettos and a cold sweet tea for comfort and now that I can't all I can do is break down. sending love your way.

  • @tracydelancia2329
    @tracydelancia2329 2 роки тому +1

    So relatable you truly spoke my words when you were talking to Yar crying I use food the same way my whole heart feels every bit

  • @okjuubs
    @okjuubs 2 роки тому +1

    Absolutely love this vlog❤️love the transparency. Also obsesseddddd with your black sunglasses

  • @Bigdaddydenise
    @Bigdaddydenise 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for sharing. I recently (4months ago) started a vegan/exercising lifestyle change and during the journey of transitioning I’ve learned so much about myself and how I coped with food because it is something I’ve numbed myself with since I was a kid. As hard as it is those feeling have taught me some pretty powerful things about myself. Keep going keep growing ✨💗💗

  • @mari2121avila
    @mari2121avila 2 роки тому

    I love how genuine you are! I also loved those glasses girl! where'd you get them?! ❤

  • @tiffanyhull7022
    @tiffanyhull7022 2 роки тому

    You just reminded me of myself so much.. sometimes my emotions just overwhelm me and alll I can do is cry. I hate that you are going thru the same thing, its a horrible feeling. Sometimes I'm not even sure what I am crying about! Try not to be too hard on yourself, you are doing amazing things ❤

  • @dreamingmusicgal
    @dreamingmusicgal 2 роки тому +1

    I started laughing when you said we have loads of cabinets, I set here saying not after you have kids. You'll be surprised just how fast they'll fill up with baby bottles, kids cups, bowls and plates and other random baby items you'll never need or use but just thought you did at the moment. LOL BTW I LOVE your corner kitchen cabinet above your counter. Blessings and Love!

  • @ScoobyDew720
    @ScoobyDew720 2 роки тому +2

    Hang in there Alex! You are so strong and doing so well! Please take care❤️

  • @kendahlgoering4520
    @kendahlgoering4520 2 роки тому

    Pps you both look so happy and peaceful. I’m so excited for you both. Love you guys.

  • @salmob09
    @salmob09 2 роки тому

    Yes breaking down is a real thing. You will get through this too

  • @bridgettredd258
    @bridgettredd258 2 роки тому

    Totally enjoyed this vlog🥰🥰🥰the kitchen and bathroom looks beautiful I, can’t wait to see the finish reveal.

  • @dree1128
    @dree1128 2 роки тому

    We love you Alex!! You are so strong, and there is so much good coming your way. ❤️❤️❤️ thanks for being so real with us.

  • @donielleroselyn
    @donielleroselyn 2 роки тому

    Alex I’m so happy for you and Yarman starting this new chapter in your lives I’m excited to see what is in store for y’all

  • @kristengrimm7340
    @kristengrimm7340 2 роки тому +42

    Don't forget to tell the new people about the second breaker box upstairs, the one that the previous owner didn't tell you about. I remember it was behind a frame or corkboard when you found it.

  • @Brookerulezz
    @Brookerulezz 2 роки тому

    Thank you for being vulnerable with us! I can't even be vulnerable for my immediate family and friends let alone hundreds of thousands of people. ♥️

  • @brittanygould0213
    @brittanygould0213 2 роки тому +1

    Super super happy for you ❤️ you & Yar deserve all the good things coming your way. 🥰

  • @MC_Hammerpants_
    @MC_Hammerpants_ 2 роки тому +2

    This is so exciting! I can’t wait to organize and decorating with you! I was hoping maybe you would replace “master” bedroom with “primary”? ❤️

  • @erikameringer749
    @erikameringer749 2 роки тому +1

    Girl I feel I’m 2 weeks out and I have been crying for no reason when I stress about the kids!

  • @evier8772
    @evier8772 2 роки тому

    So excited for this next phase in your life! Congrats and blessings to you, Yar and future family

  • @jthielen71
    @jthielen71 2 роки тому +1

    I work in hospital as an RN and we have gastric bypass/sleeve surgeries every week it major surgery i dont agree with it but to each its own but you habe to understand it is hard on ur body it is major surgery one of our nurses had the surgery a year ago and she is down 100lbs

  • @ulmergirl07
    @ulmergirl07 2 роки тому

    We have a Blackstone and my husband LOVES it!!

  • @TheMinlou
    @TheMinlou 2 роки тому

    im so proud of you

  • @melaniemorales33
    @melaniemorales33 2 роки тому

    I feel that so so so much!!! Thank you for being so vulnerable, we love you so much ❤️

  • @00angelbb
    @00angelbb 2 роки тому +18

    Why is he not hugging you while you cry.. 😥?

    • @charmeraura
      @charmeraura 2 роки тому +1

      He patted her back. You didn’t see?!

  • @annajoie700
    @annajoie700 2 роки тому

    It's so fun to see y'all on this new journey and feeling all the emotions!! Wishing you lots of peace and positive energy on this new chapter!! 🙏🏼💛

  • @kendahlgoering4520
    @kendahlgoering4520 2 роки тому +2

    I can understand that. I have not had surgery but I get it. You will be ok. Talking through it. Journal and have some tea and breathe. We all love you and are so excited for you both. Hang in there beautiful girl.

  • @makeupbyhannah5522
    @makeupbyhannah5522 2 роки тому

    That moment when you liked the video and go to like it again . Ugh I seriously love you girl ! Been here for so many moves and your growth had been so incredible to witness 🙌 ✨️ your thriving queen I'm so freaking happy for the both of you ! 💗 life is goooooood 🙏💝🌟

  • @ellenstrothmann1747
    @ellenstrothmann1747 2 роки тому +25

    Thank you for this video. My surgery is scheduled for June 14th. I really appreciate your honesty. Love you so much Alex!

  • @StankyMouthz
    @StankyMouthz 2 роки тому

    Best thing we did was get a black stone!!! Highly suggest it! We got a different brand but same thing. everything comes out amazing!

  • @007gh0st13
    @007gh0st13 2 роки тому +2

    As a person who works in a hardware store and sells Blackstone's I can tell you they actually make a baby Blackstone for indoor use that fits on your counter! Also they make the biggest bad boy that has built in air fryers too!

  • @MissiMeyeres
    @MissiMeyeres 2 роки тому +1

    I’m literally living through you! 🥰

  • @jenniferomozee859
    @jenniferomozee859 2 роки тому +1

    I like how a coping mechanism you have now Alex is to talk to Yar alot because the support of your partner is very important to have during these very difficult and hard times, I feel you Alex, I feel you Alex, you have us to cry and vent to for emotional support and news flash people everything doesn't come easily or is smooth sailing all the time for everyone, people struggle at different times and in different ways about different and many things so all we can try to do is have an open heart and mind to be understanding of what that person may be going through.

  • @bethanyrose9026
    @bethanyrose9026 2 роки тому

    I hate seeing you cry 😢 I haven't had gastric bypass but definitely been dealing with depression and anxiety even more this last year and I have these moments of just breaking down too. Lovely to see you have a supportive partner ❤

  • @TheKchar
    @TheKchar 2 роки тому

    Super curious with the new kitchen - will you guys put up a backsplash? Or is there one and it’s just not obvious?

  • @mysonruns
    @mysonruns 2 роки тому

    Love that you are sharing the first steps into your new journey in life with us! So excited for you guys!

  • @savannah4951
    @savannah4951 2 роки тому +3

    so proud of you alex and i’m so happy for you and Yar! 💗💗

  • @xD1v1OUSx
    @xD1v1OUSx 2 роки тому

    Where did you get your pretty glass cups!

  • @Samanthasmiles2002
    @Samanthasmiles2002 2 роки тому

    You are amazing and let those tears flow and feel all the feelings❤️ Self discovery is hard! You are doing it girl!!!!

  • @ambruhhhrapp
    @ambruhhhrapp 2 роки тому +1

    Alright be there soon. Coming up to New England to hug you because boy I’ve felt this hard ❤️ love you

  • @zorgon2426
    @zorgon2426 2 роки тому +5

    Can I just say Yars calm and gentle "umhum" are so comforting?! Uh man love you guys 😍♥️♥️

  • @itshannahbvlogs
    @itshannahbvlogs 2 роки тому +10

    The Blackstone is 100% necessary!! My fiancé and I use ours at least 5 days out of the week Spring-Fall. Threat yourself to one girl 😁

  • @emmarose1676
    @emmarose1676 2 роки тому

    So so excited for all of these vlogs!

  • @simplymj8971
    @simplymj8971 2 роки тому

    Everything is looking beautiful!!! ❤️❤️👏🏻👏🏻

  • @harlieggers954
    @harlieggers954 2 роки тому

    Girl get you a blackstone!! My husband and I use ours alllll the time!

  • @beckymuir75
    @beckymuir75 2 роки тому

    You are so inspiring and thank you so much for showing us this side. 💕

  • @theresagauthier8340
    @theresagauthier8340 2 роки тому

    You will get thru this hun! Much Love 🥰

  • @terrierodriguez3355
    @terrierodriguez3355 2 роки тому +1

    I love these. Love Alex and Yar

  • @cherylcrowell3253
    @cherylcrowell3253 2 роки тому +2

    I am so glad I found your channel ❤️

  • @theravyshow2570
    @theravyshow2570 2 роки тому

    you got dis, beautiful!!! Everything is falling into place. Remember to take time to deep breathe and meditate if possible.

  • @jessicaarmstrong782
    @jessicaarmstrong782 2 роки тому +30

    PUT A DRYER SHEET IN YOUR MAILBOX. IT WORKS TO KEEP BEES AND WASP OUT. WE HAD OUR MAIL LADY TELL US THAT BECAUSE WE HAD A BEES NEST AND MY DAUGHTER IS HIGHLY ALLERGIC!!!

  • @kaylee_green1994
    @kaylee_green1994 2 роки тому

    I didn’t want the vlog to end!!

  • @seciliafeliz
    @seciliafeliz 2 роки тому +14

    Love you Alex, you're amazing, strong, and resilient!! You've got this. I'm loving seeing this growth and raw vulnerability your sharing with us! Thank you! XoXo

  • @aprilhampton6298
    @aprilhampton6298 2 роки тому

    I bought a Blackstone last year and I use it so much! If you're going to invest in one go with the big one.

  • @willias01
    @willias01 2 роки тому

    Keeping it real as always my lovely! I start my LRD tomorrow. Surgery a fortnight tomorrow. Nervous and excited! Eye on the ball kiddo! Mini Rodriguez babies soon ❤

  • @AnnV918
    @AnnV918 2 роки тому

    I spotted the canvas that I purchased from them with the work hard and be nice in the target haul video part that made me smile.

  • @kittychatalot
    @kittychatalot 2 роки тому

    What is that cream colored fuzzy top you are wearing? I need it!

  • @jenniferhoaglin566
    @jenniferhoaglin566 2 роки тому +1

    We love our Blackstone. My Husband literally built his outside Bare around it...lol. Tacos are his favorite to cook on it. We have the smaller one and Love it. 💙🙏💙

  • @chrissyl8092
    @chrissyl8092 2 роки тому +1

    Where are the sunglasses from?!

  • @lesiaheath2011
    @lesiaheath2011 2 роки тому

    You got this girl!! Also if you can get a blackstone do it, you won't regret it!

  • @mslaurakres
    @mslaurakres 2 роки тому +1

    All that extra space will Definetly come in handy someday when you have lots of sippy cups!

  • @Nurse_EP
    @Nurse_EP 2 роки тому +1

    Love you, and I can't wait to see where this next chapter lead's you and Yar💜💜💜