For those who are listening for the first time and are going through a break up !! PLEASE LISTEN the best thing I did was to go No Contact and when she came back the first time she said the best thing I could have done was to leave her and this was her saying she’s glad I did No Contact and she said she found it more attractive because I never chased and she excepted me too given how much she knew I wanted her and fancied her. Let her go or him through their feelings alone and you just do you and if you need to get coaching from Matt just like I did to give me a bit more guidance. People say if I can do it then you can and BELIEVE ME WHEH I SAY IF I CAN DO IT THEN YOU CAN TOO. 👍🙏
This video is brilliant b/c it touches on the idea of still remaining kind and strong despite of someone breaking up with you. Ty for this because it is powerful to know you can be the better person after NC.
Im blocked now for ending it due to i was so insecure and felt like he was too good to be true, so when i caused him to back off i spiraled. He thinks i dont want him and id give anything to fix it and make it right. But i still have work to do because i know id be needy and clingy again. Ive never been loved before and he was my drug, no where id rather be than being with him or talking to him. Doing imaginal acts then coming back to reality hurts 😢
I would recommend working on yourself first and then going from there. You don't want this pattern to repeat but you also don't want to be sitting in a very hurt space all the time.
I was in no contact for 3 months, then broke it. Then went into no contact again for 6 months and just sent him a message today. 😬... i feel like ive been pretty heavy living in the end. I know he must be thinking of me but idk... we are ldr too, thats what kinda yanno ended things. Idk we shall see. I dont wanna give up.
Is it never too late to apply all of these tips ? I’ve been broken up for about 6 months and I am blocked is there a way to still get my end result even though it’s been 6 months and I’m blocked ?
OMG your name 📛 is also on your channel picture page 📃 ohhh i didn't saw it until yet 😢 Hiiii Uncle Matthew Well , i knew your name from yesterday 😉 due to your about
So how many times a day are you supposed to think about (living in the end) cause you said go about your day and live your life. So if we do that. When does manifesting and all living in the end come into play?
For me, I have set times I like to do some work. For example, 5 - 10 minutes in the morning and evening and then whenever I have some spare time, I will do a few affs. For example, while washing up or making a drink. If my mind isn't occupied, I'll do a bit of work but if I am busy, I'll let myself be.
Ok i have 3 doubt.. if u could help... 1) should i block him if it's been a while after breaking up.. 2) how to go NC if we have already talked (as a friend) few times after the break up.. can i block him out of nowhere?? I don't want to continue talking to him as a friend anymore (which i told him few times but we still did it anyways) now I think he doesn't take me seriously.. 3) if we are in no contact n he initiates the contact as a friend?? Should i respond or ignore completely..?? I know u'll say do what u think is right but plz i need suggestions for 3d.. i have already ended up being friendzoned now i don't know how to tell him I don't want this out of no where 🤦
Just stop talking to him out of nowhere, then maybe this we make him think about this sudden behaviour of yours, maybe then he will take you more seriously, if you keep giving him your time amd energy whenever he want it, he will tale you for granted. Just go no contact.
Blocking is up to you. I recommend doing whaever will benefit you living in the end the most. If having him unblocked isn't affecting you, don't worry about doing it. if you don't wanna talk as friends, you don't have to. You don't have to block, you can just take a little step back. Well, you do need to do what isright for you. I cannot decide how you should operate in your 3D. For me, I would do whatever helps me live in the end the best
@@MindOverThisMatrix ok , I'm gonna watch it but please 🥺 answer my Question 😭⁉️ cuz that video is past video & now you have MOREEEE experience Ok , anyways I'm gonna watch it 😁 Byeeee 👋👋👋👋👋
Can you tell the mistake which holds us back from manifesting our desires cuz someone says " Resistance is the only obstacle" or someone says " Low self concept " or someone says " wavering " or someone says " reacting " or someone says " doubts " ??? What's your opinions 🤔??
it is been only one month since i started learning about LOA but i will say it is self concept Because if your self concept is on point you dont think about resistance , you dont waver and you dont react just think as it is your own movie , your own matrix At first everything ist F up , but you can think , you can “assume” what will the final be right???? l hope that this helped you😊
self concept is you believing in you so you can do both at the same time i have done my affirmations about the person that i want to be so just start with 20 and then when you see something at your 3 d just add them too and then read your affirmations when you see that you are getting triggered from your 3d examples from my affirmations: I am loved i am confident i atract money easily in my life i am at the right place at the right time every girl/woman is fhasing me and obsessing over me i am respected i am frogiving and being forgiven my energy is so magnetic all they can do is about me and a few more so you should sit down thing who are you as a percon who has achieved everything that you want money , car , sp and write your affirmations i dont know if it is the right thing , but i am doing it like this🫡
It will very much depend on the individual and how they are going about the process. Often, I find it is ones lack of discipline that is a big problem. However, I would need to speak to the individual to know more
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For those who are listening for the first time and are going through a break up !! PLEASE LISTEN the best thing I did was to go No Contact and when she came back the first time she said the best thing I could have done was to leave her and this was her saying she’s glad I did No Contact and she said she found it more attractive because I never chased and she excepted me too given how much she knew I wanted her and fancied her. Let her go or him through their feelings alone and you just do you and if you need to get coaching from Matt just like I did to give me a bit more guidance. People say if I can do it then you can and BELIEVE ME WHEH I SAY IF I CAN DO IT THEN YOU CAN TOO. 👍🙏
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Thank you for your support! I'm glad your story can help others!
Well , i GENIUENLY don't need this video but to be honest I'm here to hear your knowledge & to support you 😊
Thank you for the support!
@@MindOverThisMatrix why wouldn't I support you ??? You deserve this 🙏💓🙏
This video is brilliant b/c it touches on the idea of still remaining kind and strong despite of someone breaking up with you. Ty for this because it is powerful to know you can be the better person after NC.
Thank you for the kind words! I am happy to help!
Im blocked now for ending it due to i was so insecure and felt like he was too good to be true, so when i caused him to back off i spiraled. He thinks i dont want him and id give anything to fix it and make it right. But i still have work to do because i know id be needy and clingy again. Ive never been loved before and he was my drug, no where id rather be than being with him or talking to him. Doing imaginal acts then coming back to reality hurts 😢
I would recommend working on yourself first and then going from there. You don't want this pattern to repeat but you also don't want to be sitting in a very hurt space all the time.
Really appreciate this video. I like the clear, almost tangible action steps provided
Thank you! Happy to help
Been in no contact for over 3 months now. Heartbreaking 💔
Sorry to hear that! Apply the principles in this video and see where it gets
15 mos here. Still heartbreaking. But I'm getting better about regulating my nervous system and deepening my connection to my imagination.
@@spacevspitch4028 gosh that’s ages :-( that must make you feel so sad
Love this one very very much. Thank you, Matthew ❤
You're very welcome!
Great video!
can you make a video on sp’s & long distance relationships?
I can definitely add it to the list
@@MindOverThisMatrixyes please! i’m currently affirming my long distance sp to come back to me :( he thinks the distance is too hard
If there is a third party available for them to fill the void, would the no contact sitll work as affective as you are saying?
Yes, it is your state of consciousness that matters in your reality.
I was in no contact for 3 months, then broke it. Then went into no contact again for 6 months and just sent him a message today. 😬... i feel like ive been pretty heavy living in the end. I know he must be thinking of me but idk... we are ldr too, thats what kinda yanno ended things. Idk we shall see. I dont wanna give up.
Let's trust that it goes your way!
Thank you
You're welcome!
Is it never too late to apply all of these tips ? I’ve been broken up for about 6 months and I am blocked is there a way to still get my end result even though it’s been 6 months and I’m blocked ?
Absolutely never too late! Get on it and see the changes it makes for you
@@MindOverThisMatrix Thank you!
OMG your name 📛 is also on your channel picture page 📃 ohhh i didn't saw it until yet 😢
Hiiii Uncle Matthew
Well , i knew your name from yesterday 😉 due to your about
Aha thats funny
So how many times a day are you supposed to think about (living in the end) cause you said go about your day and live your life. So if we do that. When does manifesting and all living in the end come into play?
For me, I have set times I like to do some work. For example, 5 - 10 minutes in the morning and evening and then whenever I have some spare time, I will do a few affs. For example, while washing up or making a drink. If my mind isn't occupied, I'll do a bit of work but if I am busy, I'll let myself be.
Can’t go no contact if a kid is involved however I do not reach out first
Youre doing what you can and that's what matters
what if we’re talking as friends currently but it’s pretty dry ,, and we’ve broken up for 2years ? do i still go no contact ?
Well, in this instance, do you feel the contact is stopping you from moving forward and living in the end?
Ok i have 3 doubt.. if u could help...
1) should i block him if it's been a while after breaking up..
2) how to go NC if we have already talked (as a friend) few times after the break up.. can i block him out of nowhere?? I don't want to continue talking to him as a friend anymore (which i told him few times but we still did it anyways) now I think he doesn't take me seriously..
3) if we are in no contact n he initiates the contact as a friend?? Should i respond or ignore completely..??
I know u'll say do what u think is right but plz i need suggestions for 3d.. i have already ended up being friendzoned now i don't know how to tell him I don't want this out of no where 🤦
Just stop talking to him out of nowhere, then maybe this we make him think about this sudden behaviour of yours, maybe then he will take you more seriously, if you keep giving him your time amd energy whenever he want it, he will tale you for granted. Just go no contact.
Blocking is up to you. I recommend doing whaever will benefit you living in the end the most. If having him unblocked isn't affecting you, don't worry about doing it.
if you don't wanna talk as friends, you don't have to. You don't have to block, you can just take a little step back.
Well, you do need to do what isright for you. I cannot decide how you should operate in your 3D. For me, I would do whatever helps me live in the end the best
Ok , i wanna hear your own insights / suggestions / opinions about what is the actual Geniunest truest Key 🗝️ to Manifesting anything & everything???
I do have a video on that somewhat recently
@@MindOverThisMatrix ok , I'm gonna watch it but please 🥺 answer my Question 😭⁉️ cuz that video is past video & now you have MOREEEE experience
Ok , anyways I'm gonna watch it 😁
Byeeee 👋👋👋👋👋
Can you tell the mistake which holds us back from manifesting our desires cuz someone says " Resistance is the only obstacle" or someone says " Low self concept " or someone says " wavering " or someone says " reacting " or someone says " doubts " ???
What's your opinions 🤔??
it is been only one month since i started learning about LOA but i will say it is self concept
Because if your self concept is on point you dont think about resistance , you dont waver and you dont react
just think as it is your own movie , your own matrix
At first everything ist F up , but you can think , you can “assume” what will the final be right????
l hope that this helped you😊
@@todorjivkov9626 so , should I work on Manifesting big money or self concept??? Cuz me & my mother needs money sooo worst
self concept is you believing in you
so you can do both at the same time
i have done my affirmations about the person that i want to be
so just start with 20 and then when you see something at your 3 d just add them too
and then read your affirmations when you see that you are getting triggered from your 3d
examples from my affirmations:
I am loved
i am confident
i atract money easily in my life
i am at the right place at the right time
every girl/woman is fhasing me and obsessing over me
i am respected
i am frogiving and being forgiven
my energy is so magnetic all they can do is about me
and a few more
so you should sit down thing who are you as a percon who has achieved everything that you want money , car , sp and write your affirmations
i dont know if it is the right thing , but i am doing it like this🫡
It will very much depend on the individual and how they are going about the process. Often, I find it is ones lack of discipline that is a big problem. However, I would need to speak to the individual to know more
What if the breakupI has also involved the two people having opposite attachment style
Doesn't matter. The principles will still apply because your world is what you assume it to be
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what about if i already follow him and he followed me back on instagram? should i necessarily unfollow him?
If you don’t wish to unfollow, and having him doesn’t get in the way of you living in the end, you’re all good
@@MindOverThisMatrix oh okay! thank you so much! your videos helps me a lot 🤍