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I think that getting into the place of not needing your desire (detaching from the outcome) is the MOST important part of manifesting anything and is really the only way things actually manifest. The tricky part, for myself, is how to detach from the need for things that I’ve wanted for a while, although I am getting better at this; self concept work is a HUGE part of that. I think all the focus on “what to do” can be super confusing because it can get us to focus way too much on what we are doing (affirming, scripting, visualizing etc.) and we can fall into the trap of doing those things to get our manifestations. I guess, in other words, chill out, when it comes to manifesting anything, less is more. I’ve manifested little things and big things and in every instance I never affirmed for it more than twice and every time it showed up within a couple of days at the longest! And, the thing they all had in common - I didn’t care about/need/I was detached from the outcome. I think self concept work is really the only thing that will get us into the place of being able to detach from the outcomes of our desires because the entire focus of self concept work is to bring us into the place where we are enough, where we are worthy of everything and anything and I think those things are critical for detachment to outcomes. A video on the connection between detaching from outcomes and self concept would be amazing! Thanks for this video, it was really helpful and helped me see that no caring is actually a good place to be!!
I couldn't agree more! Not caring and an improved self concept can and will make all the difference to your manifestation. At first, it can be tricky. However, it is so powerful
Letting it go worked for me (I forgot so I dropped any resistance😂) loa saved my life literally, I don't know when I would be right now. Can't imagine how living would be if I was victim till the rest of my life.... it makes me emotional. Everyone is grateful for knowing the secret❤ greeting from Poland Matt and Katie
I feel like many people are confusing letting go with being okay with the lack of something. Letting go does not mean you have to say you don't want it or are not interested in it anymore. Someone who has what they want still want that thing, otherwise they would get rid of it. But someone who has what they want, do not feel the NEED to have it, because they already have it. Would you be in NEED for money when your bank account is filled? Would you be in NEED for a relationship when you are in one? Probably not. Yet you will most likely still WANT to see that same number on your bank account every time you look at it and you would probably still WANT to be in a relationship with that same person, otherwise what's the point of being in that particular relationship? Remember that wanting something (desire) does not equal needing it (lack).
Letting go of the need, not the desire. This has been my toughest hurdle so far in the two years I’ve been manifesting but starting to get it. We move ourselves in consciousness (not in body) into a state where we no longer need it…because we have it! Why would we need it if we already have it? Great (and timely) explanation here 👏
I've known the topic of manifestation since I was 14 (I'm 22 now). For a few years I completely forgot about it and even stopped thinking it's really true. Ever since I got more aware of human psychology and myself through therapy, I wanted to get back to it, but this time I wanted to really understand it. I've started watching all the manifestation youtube channels and I couldn't find even one that would be so clear and so useful like yours. I'm literally so thankful that you're not just another person who'd say 'insist on affirming and it'd happen', but you rather explain things psychologically, which makes me understand it more. Thanks a lot for your work, and I just know that you'll be one of the most popular manifestation coach soon!! I'd be really glad to work with you one day on my manifestations!!!
That is part of letting go of the need. The old story (losing them) is what created the need. So, by letting go of the need, you're letting go of the old story.
You are absolutely right about the floodgates, and I loved the analogy! I had been visualizing, affirming and scripting for this absolute crappy guy who was treating me like trash, but I didnt see it at the time and just wanted him back. But then I saw your video about self-concept (I now watch it often just to refresh my memory of everything you taught in the video) and I naturally started to see things as they were. How awful he was and that I deserved so much better. The moment that I stopped needing him to text me, the guy who said goodbye to me, who never wanted to see me again, who hated me, texted me a few moments later saying: "Hey, how's it going?", and obviously I blocked his ass because I know that I do deserve SO much better 😂 Thank you so much Matt for making all of these videos. You continue to help me be a better version of myself. 💜
Youre very welcome! I'm glad to help! It is awesome to know you have left that negativity behind and now you're open to bigger and better things! Keep it up! You're doing great
I'm currently in the process of focusing on myself rather than putting too much attention in wanting my SP. I noticed that my happiness is becoming dependent on him. as I am browsing YT of videos that can help me, I came into this video and since then I played it until the message really gets into me. I also rewatching your other video: Make them Chase you Now. I'm kinda lost on how to put myself first and focus on myself but your videos help me with this journey. Thanks, Matt 🥰
Youre always the priority in your life. No matter how much you love someone, you should always love yourself more. That is the process of putting you first. If you cannot love and prioritise yourself, how could you expect to have them love and prioritise you? I hope my videos really help you make a huge difference in your life! Thank you for the support and the kind words!
This video is beyond awesome! I just watched Everything everywhere all at once and at the end I felt nothing matters and that gave me relief. Then I watch this video and confirmed the "What would I care" effectiveness
In India, Goddess Kali is worshiped, she symbolises the power that we hold within ourselves. According to a story, there was a devil who mentions that he would die, only if a female kills him, which he was sure of never happening, since women were being discarded in those times. Later on , It was Goddess Kali who had the strength and power within her to put this evil to death. She says “I am the beginning, I am the end. I am life and I am death, I am the darkness and I am the light”, very close to what Neville has mentioned. This is what gives me strength to fight against my negative circumstances. My strength is my “I AM” I connect this story to each individual. We create our negative circumstances and are attached to negative stories. Just like the Goddess, only if we know that if we have the power to create “darkness” then we have the power to create “light as well” and that the light exists in all of us, and this light( our wonderful human imagination) is BRIGHTER than any possible shadow of darkness
This is the very first time someone actually explaine what letting go means .... Thank you for bringing light upon this chaotic manifesting community 😅 The majority overcomplicates everything. Your videos are so refreshing.
Thank you…great video…( and the message of letting go of need was needed 😊)…at very least you feel better than you did when feeling needy and desperate…
Okay, this is the third time I am watching this video. And I just kept everything aside, closed my eyes and just concentrated on every word you said, and that really put things into perspective. So, fuck it, I AM. I am. I am. I am. It's done. It's done. It's done.
Some situations are very difficult to detach from especially if the 3D is so bad from previous thoughts and experiences- I think you both help many so much and give hope. I would love some coaching ❤
Yeah, they're not always the easiest. But practice makes consistent. The more you work on it, the easier it becomes. Ayy well you may just win, who knows.
Matt Thank you for making this video for those who are confused about doing affirmations and letting go. I’ve tried to explain to others in my comments when people have replied to my posts. I have an example… a few months ago I saw myself in a job I started today, I forgot about it and then it came up where I needed to apply for it so I applied and had the interview!!! I was told in the interview the job was mine and they gave me a start date which was today. I’ve worked with a group of lads and they’ve said to me today it’s like you’ve been working here for years. My next step now for me is to move in with my SP which is going to happen because I’ve seen myself leaving our dream home which is her home for now until we move in together to travel to my new job I am now in.
I manifested this giveaway omg!! I was just thinking yesterday that it would be great if I got free coaching and here it is!!! Thank youuuu ❤ We love you Matt and Katie
Yeah; i was wondering bout this. From my personal experience its not so much letting go but detaching from the outcome. Like u said. Somehow the missing links in this chain are starting to link in. Im currently working on my self concept cos ive realised it can make or break your manifestation. Anyway this is a big confirmation for me. Much appreciation.👍🏼
Just wanted to say that your videos are amazing, thank you for creating so much valuable content for us. You are a blessed angel for all of us. Thank you, thank you and thank you. 😌💗
@@MindOverThisMatrix would be amazing to know what she was feeling when you were manifesting her back. To know her point of view when she was being manifested. I am manifesting my sp at the moment and makes me curious to know what is actually feeling when I am manifesting him. X
Sometimes meeting someone makes you feel something internally ❤ That feeling cannot be explained in words bcoz it's only that person who makes one feel that specific feeling. I agree that ultimately, the feeling comes from inside us and nobody else actually can make us feel anything, but at times that particular feeling is brought out through them. And when they're not there, one misses that feeling which the specific person brought out 😊
I do agree and I don't expect people to never need someone because it can all be replicated. However, providing yourself as much as you can and allowing them to be a bonus is the most optimal way
I went for a interview yesterday and I knew I'd like it but didn't need it, and I got the job, now just need to work on this don't need concept with a guy I fancy
@@MindOverThisMatrix I blooming hope so, sent him a reply yesterday to a text he sent yesterday and still waiting for a reply back, so watching your videos to change my mind x
This video was actually hilarious with the examples you made up. I need to hear justin bebers Baby baby baby song! Shitting your pants if you walk past a bear! Omg 😂😂😂 but, awesome video and message. Thank you! I know this is an older video and am not sure if you go back to answer questions...but, does the universe forget about your desire if you try to detach from it? I feel all the affirmations can become too obsessive and defeat the purpose for me. Thank you! 😊
Thank you for the kind words! I am glad you enjoyed the video. I don't think it forgets. in all fairness, i think the detachment is what best allows it to come to you. By detaching, you're opening the floodgates to allow it to come in
I don't know if my long distance SP thinks I'm delusional but I still act as if we're dating so I tell him "I miss you" statements even if he doesn't say it back. I don't care anymore. I don't need him to say it back. It's just an inspired action now. I hope that made sense 😅😊
Another super useful video, thank you! I noticed that I’ve been struggling to manifest little things, like a certain kind of sweater or small amounts of money, even after forgetting about them completely. My explanation has been that somehow I was blocking it through some opposing thought but this video made me realise that, maybe, I unconsciously (ha) believed I needed these things to fill a void, e.g., assuming that I won’t be attractive unless I’m wearing that particular sweater. I’ll have a closer look at the “why” I want sth and then perhaps pair it with the Why would I care method. :)
Yeah, have a little look into it and see what it is you're struggling. Also, consider the idea that because you're admitting you struggle with it, that must show you're in lack of having it right? Thank you for the kind words!
I asked you couple months ago this same thing , if guys i my situation can have session with katie , now its all happening and pretty soon I will have a combo session with you guys. As a masculine male who is aggressive after his goals like matt and desire a relationship with a feminine woman i couldnt be more grateful for this opportunity
Great Trick to question your mind I think we should do the same when visualizing. Ask questions like how would it feel, what changes would it bring and embody the same as your current state.
Thank you so much for this video, Matthew! It was really helpful at a time when I needed it right now. Keep up the great work I really enjoy your channel and teachings on the law of assumption! 😁✌🏼
I am starting to believe he is manifesting me without knowing it because I stopped affirming but I feel like he still wants me which is weird because I have stopped affirming before and didn’t feel anything
It always happens to me that I have the music on random and I think of a song that I would like to listen to and two or three songs go by and then the song I was thinking of appears, I had always ignored it, it just seemed curious to me but today I know that it is the law.
I tried the I don’t care method. It worked. I texted my sp to ask him a question about something he said. I just quickly thought he’s not going to answer me right away then said oh well why do I care and had absolutely no feel about it in fact I didn’t even think about it I started talking to my oldest son and he texted me back 2xs. Then nothing why do I care?
The 'why would I care?' method is more of a psychological trick to pull yourself out of a rut. Let's say you are desperate and needy, do you think your sub mind is being given the best story? Probably not. However, by saying 'Why would I care if they don't love me, I am awesome and they'd be lucky to have me' you are reframing it in your mind to say 'yeah, so what?' and that attitude is what helps remove the neediness, because you are tricking your mind into thinking you don't care and then the stuff about you being the prize pedastalises you. This then allows you to go forward in a better state with your normal affirmations. Now, I only recommend doing this when you are in a rut. If you are in a good place, simply go to the end. If you are in a bad place, you are already in a bad place. So , what does it matter? Simply shift your focus.
Incredible video as usual Matt. I just have one question. Should I affirm, for example, I have a lot of money, but that counteracts that affirmations with Why would I care if I don't have a lot of money? I apologize if this question is confusing.
No it makes complete sense. So, the why would I care is more for when you're feeling that severe lack or need. It is more used as a way to pull yourself out if that lack and that's when your affirmations come in afterward
Hi Matt, thanks for another amazing video that you made! One question, when affirming is it better to use the first and last name of our SP or just first name or nickname? I'm confused through this, cause when I'm affirming I'm using her first and last name. Thanks anyways :)
You could revise it by either focusing on having received it or reframe it in your mind. For example, they didn't take me because im overqualified and deserve better
if we start from the fact that every desire already exists in 4D, but if we let it go Our desire , stop exist and what can not exist in 4D so can not be manifest,W have let it go obsession,fear,anxiety,even we are witour SP we enjoy,them,desire them ,love them we dont act ok I already have you I respect your existence SP is living human not car,dress or carpett
Thanks for explaining everything so good. I have a question left. For example I want to manifest a SP. Is it neediness if I imagine them talking to me over the day and cuddling me etc and so me feeling loved and happy all day? Or is this living in the end? Because I started doing this to feel better and get away from the fear that I don't get my SP. Because in my head they are already there. But I am not sure if this is living in the end or if it's still need. Because I still kinda "need" them in my head to feel really good 🤔
So, the scenes themselves are living from the end and overall, all good. However, if you feel you're in a state of need, maybe work on that a little too.
But isn’t that a limiting belief, that the less you think about it the faster it manifests? Because in some cases your life depends on it and when someone scratches the surface it's very difficult to detach from the need.
I didn't say anything about the less you think, I said the less you care. I then went on to say that having less care means it will take less work to be in the dominant state. I personally don't see it as a limiting belief if it is the way it works. A limiting belief is something that limits you. This isn't a limit, this is how it works out, similar to saying 'your thoughts create' that isn't a limitation
@@MindOverThisMatrix yeah, I get your point and yes there is a truth about it. However, why that works like that, I mean some people manifest things that they also care about, I can not stop caring about getting some income when I’m about to just exist from oxygen and I urgently need it. I hope you get my point.
@deadka666 I completely understand and yes you can still manifest by caring. The point of the video was to reduce it as much as possible to allow yourself to not need to do as much. Like I said in the video, if you think 1000 thoughts, 501 and will need to be desired in order to be dominant. So, you can manifest while attached, but it will more than likely cause you to need to do more in order to outform the undesired thoughts. Whereas releasing attachment will aid you in doing less
@@MindOverThisMatrix well I'm at the point where I don't care about anything anymore, and on the other hand, I don't think it's possible not to care about my own life I feel a bit inside a void and it's scary.
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I think that getting into the place of not needing your desire (detaching from the outcome) is the MOST important part of manifesting anything and is really the only way things actually manifest. The tricky part, for myself, is how to detach from the need for things that I’ve wanted for a while, although I am getting better at this; self concept work is a HUGE part of that. I think all the focus on “what to do” can be super confusing because it can get us to focus way too much on what we are doing (affirming, scripting, visualizing etc.) and we can fall into the trap of doing those things to get our manifestations. I guess, in other words, chill out, when it comes to manifesting anything, less is more. I’ve manifested little things and big things and in every instance I never affirmed for it more than twice and every time it showed up within a couple of days at the longest! And, the thing they all had in common - I didn’t care about/need/I was detached from the outcome. I think self concept work is really the only thing that will get us into the place of being able to detach from the outcomes of our desires because the entire focus of self concept work is to bring us into the place where we are enough, where we are worthy of everything and anything and I think those things are critical for detachment to outcomes. A video on the connection between detaching from outcomes and self concept would be amazing! Thanks for this video, it was really helpful and helped me see that no caring is actually a good place to be!!
I couldn't agree more! Not caring and an improved self concept can and will make all the difference to your manifestation. At first, it can be tricky. However, it is so powerful
Letting it go worked for me (I forgot so I dropped any resistance😂) loa saved my life literally, I don't know when I would be right now. Can't imagine how living would be if I was victim till the rest of my life.... it makes me emotional. Everyone is grateful for knowing the secret❤ greeting from Poland Matt and Katie
I'm glad to hear LOA saved your life, that's awesome! Hopefully you'll continue to go on making amazing things for yourself
I feel like many people are confusing letting go with being okay with the lack of something. Letting go does not mean you have to say you don't want it or are not interested in it anymore. Someone who has what they want still want that thing, otherwise they would get rid of it. But someone who has what they want, do not feel the NEED to have it, because they already have it. Would you be in NEED for money when your bank account is filled? Would you be in NEED for a relationship when you are in one? Probably not. Yet you will most likely still WANT to see that same number on your bank account every time you look at it and you would probably still WANT to be in a relationship with that same person, otherwise what's the point of being in that particular relationship? Remember that wanting something (desire) does not equal needing it (lack).
Yes, it is quite often confused! and that is a great explanation!
Thanks so much Matt, this clears this misconception up immensely. You're a life saver!!! 😃🙌💪
My pleasure!
Letting go of the need, not the desire. This has been my toughest hurdle so far in the two years I’ve been manifesting but starting to get it. We move ourselves in consciousness (not in body) into a state where we no longer need it…because we have it! Why would we need it if we already have it? Great (and timely) explanation here 👏
Yeah, exactly! You nailed it there! Hopefully this is the big step for you going forward
I've known the topic of manifestation since I was 14 (I'm 22 now). For a few years I completely forgot about it and even stopped thinking it's really true. Ever since I got more aware of human psychology and myself through therapy, I wanted to get back to it, but this time I wanted to really understand it. I've started watching all the manifestation youtube channels and I couldn't find even one that would be so clear and so useful like yours. I'm literally so thankful that you're not just another person who'd say 'insist on affirming and it'd happen', but you rather explain things psychologically, which makes me understand it more. Thanks a lot for your work, and I just know that you'll be one of the most popular manifestation coach soon!! I'd be really glad to work with you one day on my manifestations!!!
Thats really awesome for you to say! Thank you for the kind words and I am glad to know my work is appreciated and noticed!
I was told the meaning of letting go was letting go of the past and focusing on living at the end.
That is part of letting go of the need. The old story (losing them) is what created the need. So, by letting go of the need, you're letting go of the old story.
Great explanation. I also like to think about letting go as letting it flow
Sounds great!
I agree, it’s difficult to pull back energy and not be consumed…while at the same time trying to saturate myself into being in the end.
Hopefully this video has given you some clarity and ideas moving forward!
I think I am at the "why would I care" point in my manifesting journey. Lol...I'm so glad you put this into words. Thanks for the video♡
Good place for you to be! You're welcome!
You are absolutely right about the floodgates, and I loved the analogy! I had been visualizing, affirming and scripting for this absolute crappy guy who was treating me like trash, but I didnt see it at the time and just wanted him back. But then I saw your video about self-concept (I now watch it often just to refresh my memory of everything you taught in the video) and I naturally started to see things as they were. How awful he was and that I deserved so much better. The moment that I stopped needing him to text me, the guy who said goodbye to me, who never wanted to see me again, who hated me, texted me a few moments later saying: "Hey, how's it going?", and obviously I blocked his ass because I know that I do deserve SO much better 😂
Thank you so much Matt for making all of these videos. You continue to help me be a better version of myself. 💜
Youre very welcome! I'm glad to help! It is awesome to know you have left that negativity behind and now you're open to bigger and better things! Keep it up! You're doing great
Woo go on Katie awesome your taking up coaching, your mr is so good …..😊good luck
Thanks so much! 😊I'm looking forward to it! (From Katie)
@@MindOverThisMatrix you’ll do great 👍 good advice on the lives xx
Of all the knowledge I have gained in my 2 years of LOA journey, this was indeed the Golden Truth 🌟
Well explained, I'm enlightened!✨
Thats awesome! I am really happy to have helped! Thank you for the kind words
I'm currently in the process of focusing on myself rather than putting too much attention in wanting my SP. I noticed that my happiness is becoming dependent on him. as I am browsing YT of videos that can help me, I came into this video and since then I played it until the message really gets into me. I also rewatching your other video: Make them Chase you Now.
I'm kinda lost on how to put myself first and focus on myself but your videos help me with this journey. Thanks, Matt 🥰
Youre always the priority in your life. No matter how much you love someone, you should always love yourself more. That is the process of putting you first. If you cannot love and prioritise yourself, how could you expect to have them love and prioritise you?
I hope my videos really help you make a huge difference in your life! Thank you for the support and the kind words!
Thank you very much, I've a feeling this is going to be the game changer for me! ❤
You’re very welcome!
I just had to hear this, great, you really are a great coach. greetings from the Netherlands
Thank you for the kind words!
This video is beyond awesome! I just watched Everything everywhere all at once and at the end I felt nothing matters and that gave me relief. Then I watch this video and confirmed the "What would I care" effectiveness
Absolutely! It makes such a difference to have a 'what does it matter?' Mindset. It's worked wonders on me
@@MindOverThisMatrix OMG! Matthew!!!! My SP contacted me!!!! I give all credit to this video
You are awesome! You have helped me with the pieces that I needed to really understand. Thank you!
Thank you for the kind words! Happy to help
In India, Goddess Kali is worshiped, she symbolises the power that we hold within ourselves. According to a story, there was a devil who mentions that he would die, only if a female kills him, which he was sure of never happening, since women were being discarded in those times.
Later on , It was Goddess Kali who had the strength and power within her to put this evil to death. She says “I am the beginning, I am the end. I am life and I am death, I am the darkness and I am the light”, very close to what Neville has mentioned.
This is what gives me strength to fight against my negative circumstances. My strength is my “I AM”
I connect this story to each individual. We create our negative circumstances and are attached to negative stories. Just like the Goddess, only if we know that if we have the power to create “darkness” then we have the power to create “light as well” and that the light exists in all of us, and this light( our wonderful human imagination) is BRIGHTER than any possible shadow of darkness
That is a really interesting story!
Thank you for sharing, we do indeed have the power and light!
Thanks Matt. You and Katie are giving so much back to the community ❤
Thank you, Its our pleasure!
It's amazing how the process works. Instead of focusing so much on SP...I focus on me.
Absolutely! It makes so much more of a difference
This is the very first time someone actually explaine what letting go means .... Thank you for bringing light upon this chaotic manifesting community 😅 The majority overcomplicates everything. Your videos are so refreshing.
Thank you for all your kind words! It means a lot :)
From the moment I switched my focus from my desire, things started unfolding 🍀🎉
Thats awesome!
I remember when I didn't get the coaching from Katie but now I'm so grateful that I did. 😁
Good technique!
Thank you for this. Too many channels here only focus on letting go and it’s honestly not that easy to do
You're welcome!
Thank you…great video…( and the message of letting go of need was needed 😊)…at very least you feel better than you did when feeling needy and desperate…
Thank you for the kind words! Absolutely! It frees you up so much more
Beautifully said, and I can vouch about the “why would I care method” has helped out so much 👌🏼💜☺️
Thank you! Good! I'm glad it has helped you so much!
Okay, this is the third time I am watching this video. And I just kept everything aside, closed my eyes and just concentrated on every word you said, and that really put things into perspective. So, fuck it, I AM.
I am. I am. I am. It's done. It's done. It's done.
Ayy thats awesome! I'm glad you're taking it all in!
I noticed that people who genuinely seem to care less, are the ones that people tend to be drawn to and seek their validation :)
Yeah, it does seem that way!
Great video Matt !!
Thank you!
Appreciating you guys more and more each day
Thank you!
The way you explain everything is so fine, there’s no need to watch another video🧡
Also, your "Yada Yada Yada" alone deserves thousand likes😊
That’s funny I was reading your comment right when he says yada yada the first time.
Haha, thank you!
Some situations are very difficult to detach from especially if the 3D is so bad from previous thoughts and experiences- I think you both help many so much and give hope. I would love some coaching ❤
Yeah, they're not always the easiest. But practice makes consistent. The more you work on it, the easier it becomes.
Ayy well you may just win, who knows.
Matt Thank you for making this video for those who are confused about doing affirmations and letting go. I’ve tried to explain to others in my comments when people have replied to my posts. I have an example… a few months ago I saw myself in a job I started today, I forgot about it and then it came up where I needed to apply for it so I applied and had the interview!!! I was told in the interview the job was mine and they gave me a start date which was today. I’ve worked with a group of lads and they’ve said to me today it’s like you’ve been working here for years. My next step now for me is to move in with my SP which is going to happen because I’ve seen myself leaving our dream home which is her home for now until we move in together to travel to my new job I am now in.
You're Welcome! congratulations on getting the job, and you've got this!
I manifested this giveaway omg!! I was just thinking yesterday that it would be great if I got free coaching and here it is!!!
Thank youuuu ❤
We love you Matt and Katie
Ayy aha you might just be the lucky winner!
We love you too!
@@MindOverThisMatrix It's mine and it's done :)
This couldn’t have come at a better time! 🙈 thank you 🖤
Ayy I'm glad to help!
Yeah; i was wondering bout this.
From my personal experience its not so much letting go but detaching from the outcome. Like u said.
Somehow the missing links in this chain are starting to link in.
Im currently working on my self concept cos ive realised it can make or break your manifestation.
Anyway this is a big confirmation for me.
Much appreciation.👍🏼
Yeah, you've got it! Hopefully, with persisting in self concept, you get the biggest desires
Thank you, I've been back and forth because of this. Omgggg thank you ❤
You're most welcome! :)
Thank you for simplifying this concept. Definitely needed to hear this today!
You're very welcome!
Just wanted to say that your videos are amazing, thank you for creating so much valuable content for us. You are a blessed angel for all of us. Thank you, thank you and thank you. 😌💗
Thank you so much for all your kind words! I appreciate them!
I'm commenting anything down below, well that's what you said isn't' it? Anyway another great video x
haha! That is what I said! Thank you
🙌🙌 go Katie. That is very exciting :)
I would love to hear her version of the story x
Thank you! I am looking forward to it!
What is it that you want to hear about?
From Katie :)
@@MindOverThisMatrix would be amazing to know what she was feeling when you were manifesting her back. To know her point of view when she was being manifested.
I am manifesting my sp at the moment and makes me curious to know what is actually feeling when I am manifesting him. X
When you said you didn't actually want your mum to call you...man, I felt it 😅
(Not participating, I don't need coaching)
Haha! She always catches me at the worst time!
Yes letting go of the need for your desire
Exactly! It makes all the difference
Sometimes meeting someone makes you feel something internally ❤ That feeling cannot be explained in words bcoz it's only that person who makes one feel that specific feeling. I agree that ultimately, the feeling comes from inside us and nobody else actually can make us feel anything, but at times that particular feeling is brought out through them. And when they're not there, one misses that feeling which the specific person brought out 😊
I do agree and I don't expect people to never need someone because it can all be replicated. However, providing yourself as much as you can and allowing them to be a bonus is the most optimal way
I really like how you breakdown these concepts, making it easier for us to understand. Thank you for the giveaways 💜
Youre very welcome! I'm glad to help!
I went for a interview yesterday and I knew I'd like it but didn't need it, and I got the job, now just need to work on this don't need concept with a guy I fancy
Ayy aha well done! Yeah, let that need go and he'll come in needing you
@@MindOverThisMatrix I blooming hope so, sent him a reply yesterday to a text he sent yesterday and still waiting for a reply back, so watching your videos to change my mind x
Manifestation is really life changing, haven't put myself on a pedestal for a good minute!! I🎉😅
Ayy well it might be that time to aha
Would love to be Katie's first success story! 😍
You might just be it aha
This video was actually hilarious with the examples you made up. I need to hear justin bebers Baby baby baby song! Shitting your pants if you walk past a bear! Omg 😂😂😂 but, awesome video and message. Thank you! I know this is an older video and am not sure if you go back to answer questions...but, does the universe forget about your desire if you try to detach from it? I feel all the affirmations can become too obsessive and defeat the purpose for me. Thank you! 😊
Thank you for the kind words! I am glad you enjoyed the video. I don't think it forgets. in all fairness, i think the detachment is what best allows it to come to you. By detaching, you're opening the floodgates to allow it to come in
Thank you so much! ☺️
Hi Katie, i'm Katie:) lol i've coached with Mathew before and would love to have a coaching session with you too!! :) ❤
Nice to meet you Katie, From Katie! x
@@MindOverThisMatrix Nice to meet YOU!!✨💛
I would love to get coaching from Katie. I know she will be amazing coach! ❤
Yeah, she's pretty great
I don't know if my long distance SP thinks I'm delusional but I still act as if we're dating so I tell him "I miss you" statements even if he doesn't say it back. I don't care anymore. I don't need him to say it back. It's just an inspired action now. I hope that made sense 😅😊
It makes sense and if you feel it will help you stay true to the end result, keep going and keep affirming the end result.
Katie is amazing ❤
Thank you! From Katie x
Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with me. I am so grateful. Bless you and Katie. ✨💕
You are very welcome!
Love this video! Needed this today. Enjoying our coaching so far!
Thank you! and good, me too!
Matt, when do you and Katie conduct your live shows on YT? I live in America and have been trying to catch them. Thanks!
So, it varies depending on time. However, it usually started between 7pm - 7.30pm UK time on Saturdays.
Another super useful video, thank you! I noticed that I’ve been struggling to manifest little things, like a certain kind of sweater or small amounts of money, even after forgetting about them completely. My explanation has been that somehow I was blocking it through some opposing thought but this video made me realise that, maybe, I unconsciously (ha) believed I needed these things to fill a void, e.g., assuming that I won’t be attractive unless I’m wearing that particular sweater. I’ll have a closer look at the “why” I want sth and then perhaps pair it with the Why would I care method. :)
Yeah, have a little look into it and see what it is you're struggling. Also, consider the idea that because you're admitting you struggle with it, that must show you're in lack of having it right?
Thank you for the kind words!
I asked you couple months ago this same thing , if guys i my situation can have session with katie , now its all happening and pretty soon I will have a combo session with you guys. As a masculine male who is aggressive after his goals like matt and desire a relationship with a feminine woman i couldnt be more grateful for this opportunity
Ayy well this might just be your chance aha let's see
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It seems like a simple shift but when I heard you say it, it hit different. And made me less anxious. Thank you!
Ayy thats awesome! I hope it helps more in the future
That was the best explanation yet. Thank you
Thank you for your kind words! I appreciate it
Wonderful video, i was thinking about this lately. Thank you 🥰
Youre very welcome! I hope it helps
Great Trick to question your mind
I think we should do the same when visualizing. Ask questions like how would it feel, what changes would it bring and embody the same as your current state.
Absolutely! It loves answering questions. So, why not give it questions to answer and use it to help us
Thank you so much for this video, Matthew! It was really helpful at a time when I needed it right now. Keep up the great work I really enjoy your channel and teachings on the law of assumption! 😁✌🏼
I'm glad it came at a good time for you! Thank you for your kind words! :)
the video i didnt know i needed ❤ thank you
You're welcome!
Great intro!
Another great video babe 🖤
Thank you!
I want to know if getting your neck tattoo hurt. Of course your videos are extremely helpful, so I am grateful for your posts!
Yeah it was pretty painful aha.
Youre very welcome! I'm glad they help!
This came at the exact right time for me !
Glad to hear it!
Thank you very much for the video, you made me feel better today 😊
You're welcome! I hope you continue to feel better!
Commenting to win the giveaway Hahahha! Great video as always ❤😅😊! I really appreciate you answering me & everybody every single time!
You are so welcome! The winner will be announced Friday :)
Thankyou 😍
You're welcome!
Let go of the need. That’s the secret 💫
Absolutely!
I am starting to believe he is manifesting me without knowing it because I stopped affirming but I feel like he still wants me which is weird because I have stopped affirming before and didn’t feel anything
Well, now you have let go of the control, you're opening the floodgates maybe?
Right on cue. Thank you
You're most welcome!
It always happens to me that I have the music on random and I think of a song that I would like to listen to and two or three songs go by and then the song I was thinking of appears, I had always ignored it, it just seemed curious to me but today I know that it is the law.
Yes it is, it shows just how powerful you are! We have control over everything in out realties!
Fantastic video sir. Humor adds to it as well. Why would I care if I win 😂 .
Aha glad the content is good!
This is so so great. Thank you!!
Thank you & You're welcome!
I tried the I don’t care method. It worked. I texted my sp to ask him a question about something he said. I just quickly thought he’s not going to answer me right away then said oh well why do I care and had absolutely no feel about it in fact I didn’t even think about it I started talking to my oldest son and he texted me back 2xs. Then nothing why do I care?
Ayy aha thats awesome! It's so powerful aha keep it up !
Why would I care method helps me to get in a right mindset when I feel needines
Yeah it definitely helps with the needy feeling!
I'm persisting in ur guidence 💝
Awesome! You'll gain huge success then :D
For sure
Great video
Thank you!
Love it 🤗❤️
Thank you!
Thank you
You're welcome
I would love to work with you both ❤
Ayy well this could be your opportunity
Im not sure I quite understand the why would I care method for some reason my mind is having a hard time getting my head around it.
The 'why would I care?' method is more of a psychological trick to pull yourself out of a rut. Let's say you are desperate and needy, do you think your sub mind is being given the best story? Probably not. However, by saying 'Why would I care if they don't love me, I am awesome and they'd be lucky to have me' you are reframing it in your mind to say 'yeah, so what?' and that attitude is what helps remove the neediness, because you are tricking your mind into thinking you don't care and then the stuff about you being the prize pedastalises you. This then allows you to go forward in a better state with your normal affirmations. Now, I only recommend doing this when you are in a rut. If you are in a good place, simply go to the end. If you are in a bad place, you are already in a bad place. So , what does it matter? Simply shift your focus.
@@MindOverThisMatrix ok yeah cool makes sense thanks 😊
Incredible video as usual Matt. I just have one question. Should I affirm, for example, I have a lot of money, but that counteracts that affirmations with Why would I care if I don't have a lot of money?
I apologize if this question is confusing.
No it makes complete sense. So, the why would I care is more for when you're feeling that severe lack or need. It is more used as a way to pull yourself out if that lack and that's when your affirmations come in afterward
@@MindOverThisMatrix I understand that now. Thank you again King Matthew!
@@ashleylewis1560 you're very welcome!
Hi Matt, thanks for another amazing video that you made! One question, when affirming is it better to use the first and last name of our SP or just first name or nickname? I'm confused through this, cause when I'm affirming I'm using her first and last name. Thanks anyways :)
Its entirely up to you. Your mind will know exactly who you mean no matter what you say!
Thank you angle sir
Thank you!
I am happily married to my SP ❤
You are indeed!
ThanQ ☺️🤍
Youre welcome!
I was at the interview, but they didn't take me, I know I have allowing crying, I'm on leave, they found someone else, but how do I revise??it
You could revise it by either focusing on having received it or reframe it in your mind. For example, they didn't take me because im overqualified and deserve better
if we start from the fact that every desire already exists in 4D, but if we let it go Our desire , stop exist and what can not exist in 4D so can not be manifest,W have let it go obsession,fear,anxiety,even we are witour SP we enjoy,them,desire them ,love them we dont act ok I already have you I respect your existence SP is living human not car,dress or carpett
Absolutely
This method is good. Why do I care?😀
It definitely is!
Thanks for explaining everything so good. I have a question left. For example I want to manifest a SP. Is it neediness if I imagine them talking to me over the day and cuddling me etc and so me feeling loved and happy all day? Or is this living in the end? Because I started doing this to feel better and get away from the fear that I don't get my SP. Because in my head they are already there. But I am not sure if this is living in the end or if it's still need. Because I still kinda "need" them in my head to feel really good 🤔
So, the scenes themselves are living from the end and overall, all good. However, if you feel you're in a state of need, maybe work on that a little too.
@@MindOverThisMatrix thank you Matthew 😊
Hi with the outcome dependancy is it like a co-dependancy needing something on the outside to make us happy?
Yeah, pretty much that
@@MindOverThisMatrix yeah ok makes sense such a big manifestation blocker! Its like we have to be happy without it then it will come
Not Matt manifesting a call from mom with the I do not want technique 😅. She’s all oh bloody hell nah!
Lool she made it happen just to spite me aha
@@MindOverThisMatrix hahahaha I love her already !
But isn’t that a limiting belief, that the less you think about it the faster it manifests? Because in some cases your life depends on it and when someone scratches the surface it's very difficult to detach from the need.
I didn't say anything about the less you think, I said the less you care. I then went on to say that having less care means it will take less work to be in the dominant state. I personally don't see it as a limiting belief if it is the way it works. A limiting belief is something that limits you. This isn't a limit, this is how it works out, similar to saying 'your thoughts create' that isn't a limitation
@@MindOverThisMatrix yeah, I get your point and yes there is a truth about it. However, why that works like that, I mean some people manifest things that they also care about, I can not stop caring about getting some income when I’m about to just exist from oxygen and I urgently need it. I hope you get my point.
@deadka666 I completely understand and yes you can still manifest by caring. The point of the video was to reduce it as much as possible to allow yourself to not need to do as much. Like I said in the video, if you think 1000 thoughts, 501 and will need to be desired in order to be dominant. So, you can manifest while attached, but it will more than likely cause you to need to do more in order to outform the undesired thoughts. Whereas releasing attachment will aid you in doing less
@@MindOverThisMatrix well I'm at the point where I don't care about anything anymore, and on the other hand, I don't think it's possible not to care about my own life I feel a bit inside a void and it's scary.
“Anything down below” 😅😊
Aha clever comment 😅