you probably do have something to contribute at least sometimes, but it may be overshadowed by the worry of "oh shoot what do I say" and then your mind goes blank
Yeah our minds are really loud. Very interesting actually. Maybe if we didn't do so much internal thinking then maybe we would be social. I think this topic needs more research. My first day of school I tried to talk to people then they said go away before something bad happens then I become scared and just been a loner till one guy started to be my friend and we had alot of things in common.
I would go whole school days without saying a word and I do have a friend group (10 people) but just casually listen instead of speaking. I just have absolutely nothing to say, my ability to have small talk is horrible as I have no clue what to talk about. I sometimes forget that I haven't been speaking for a long time as I'm so immersed in just listening to people.
I I’m the quiet kid and basically every one in your class you hate and you get good scores on tests but people think your dumb and I always hear people say I’m the quiet kid also you gun thing is fake of course but idk about others ones but yea no guns and also being the quiet kid you become dirty minded at a early age and your social skills are not as good as other kids also one of the main reasons why quiet kids are quiet is because they are scared to get into trouble and your friends with other quiet kids also you rarely laugh because you can’t laugh for some weird reason at a joke even though you now it’s funny and you always make other people laugh if you have a friend that is that a quiet kid (you will only have a few people that are not quiet kids that are your friends in life but I think they thing your weird) I will read this again to make sure it makes since so yea that is life as a quiet kid
I was quiet in middle and high school, and I'm still quiet even now in college, but I've been able to vibe well with other people despite not being very social. I even decided to join a fraternity and my brothers have been awesome towards me. Actions speak more for themselves then words, so being the quiet kid is a blessing.
@@cadenlewis213 someone asked if i was weird pervy or misgynistic which first off I am girl and I was just awkward and shy and I'm getting asked out or getting weird comments on me
As someone who is pretty introverted, I can relate to this a lot. Although I do have a good sized friend group, I wouldn't enjoy talking to other people. I was also one of those "school targets" that always gets picked one, and I even felt depressed at some times. Being the quiet kid is a struggle that nobody else understands.
I like how burdie isnt afraid of talking to 1 million people on UA-cam but afraid of talking to a 15 people class irl. don't worry bud, same with me 🤐👍
I’ve been the quiet kid since 3rd grade. I may have just developed anxiety but my dad would call me r*tarded and say I never stfu so It probably turned me quiet. I’m in 7th grade and I have absolutely zero friends but my medications have been changed and they are making me very social for the first time since 2nd grade.
As an ex quiet kid I can guarantee that changing this is way more convenient and easier that you could think. For now the only bad side about this, since I became a social butterfly, is that I can't just do something while being alone, this is literally the opposite of how I felt some time ago. shit like "believe in yourself" and "try to talk" are pretty bad as advices, so my first actual tips will be: practice on your humor and change your fit/hairstyle/looking in general, and yeah shit like "be yourself " actually works, but not with all of your traits, first you should hide your true character for a bit and show your best traits, and once you feel confidence in the others, just start to open up. And I guarantee y when you are more popular or likeable, people ignore some stuff about you that might seem weird to the others at first look. And the most important thing: you should maintain a balance between being totally yourself and different form the others and blanding in the mass of people. There should always be a balance.
@donutcoco2998 al r, i am sorry for not replying before, I was busy. I started changing when I was 13, i noticed that my social skills and my social life in general was in a bad situation, so the first step is realizing that you are in a bad situation. But you shouldn't stop there, work on you social skills, its not that difficult, it might sound stupid, but you could just stay in front of a mirror in your room and try to think about some life situations and try to pick up the best replies, like if you were in a videogame. Then the next thing could be find a totally new group of people where you could start from a blank page, it could be a group of people with the same interests, or something else. There just try to show your best traits and become friends with them, don't expect to people to come and do everything for you. Once you did, that friend group will become your new comfort zone, but you are not done yet, now you will had to expand it, by that I mean using your previous experience to do so. It's all a domino game, once you did a thing, the next thing will come automatically.
Omg I did the same thing. I was naturally quiet and introverted growing up, but then it became even more extreme in middle school because I felt left out by my friends (since I was quiet and they were extroverted I felt overlooked) so I went from being a lil quiet to actually antisocial and people-hating. But in high school I completely changed bc I realized being antisocial and hostile wasn’t gonna cut it. Since the whole problem started from me feeling excluded bc I was quiet which led to the antisocial phase, I became way more outgoing in high school and became part of several different friend groups. I went from the quietest person around to being known by my friends for my sociability. Thing is, i still naturally recharge by being alone. You can never change that. But I realized I could still be outgoing and friendly even as an introvert. Forcing myself into a lot of social situations and learning how to be open again after I was so closed off was the best decision i ever made honestly
I too was a quiet kid, but I was raised by the British School system since what yall call Grade 3 to Grade 9 , and somehow i everyone ignored me, and i perfer loneliness thus, I performed better at School more than anyone else to the point some other sudents started becoming quiet themselves in order to improve their Grades.
As someone who is a quite kid and can speak in fluent Japanese as well as English, sometimes when I am pissed at my classmates/teachers and they try to talk to me I will just answer in Japanese so they have no idea if I am confessing my love for them or swearing at them-
I’m not a quiet but definitely I was the most bullied in my year, honestly a few of them days wanted me to commit you know but don’t let them voices in your head so keep doing your best
I kinda just willingly became the quiet kid in high school, never really like most of the kids in most of my classes due to them being the most annoying dumbasses alive. Mfs would be blasting the most annoying music on speakers and didn’t know how to not yell. Never spoke up or talked to anyone I didn’t know in middle school only was friends with the people I was friends with in middle school, only spoke up in history class because I was a history buff at the time. Wasn’t edgy I was just very just very displeased with those around me. Had no enemies cuz I didn’t start shit and minded my own business.
same. i kinda did end up with some enemies though, but my angry controlling issues (not management, i am very patient, i just struggle to control my anger) stopped anyone harassing me immediately. although most of the time, i'm just very mature, compared to my extremely immature classmates.
I‘m in highschool and honestly fully relate. Some classes genuinely feel like I got locked in a kindergarten Edit: to add more theres not only thugs but also people constantly being corny. It gets annoying real quick
Same here, everyone in my high-school is just a wannabe gangster who thinks they are hot shit, and tries to start random fights with people and gets a new girlfriend every 2 days. I would rather have no friends than be friends with someone who will completely disregard my emotions and talk behind my back.
Everything you just stated perfectly describes me as well, and it sucked. But when you get older, that phase of your life becomes a distant memory, and you get better over time.
I hate group projects. I'm a quiet kid too and I try to work hard but when it comes to group work I barely do anything because I feel out of place and don't have much to contribute. And, in my mind I'm really loud, constantly having ideas and thinking about stuff completely unrelated to school. I really have one only true and best friend, we do things together even if I don't speak up which is nice since it's hard to start a conversation for me.
Being the quit kid is easy and hard in middle school. Usally I can get work done because I did not yap 24/7. But when we have to do group projects I only chose the boys and if its randomized, IM COOKED.
I am fine with school because rarely do people go out of their way to make fun of me i just hate presentations so much cause they always end up horribly
I tried to make friends with my class in kindergarten, but they all rejected me. That's how I became shy. If it weren't for my dumbass self, I wouldn't become shy.
I’m a quiet kid, and on a constant basis I get ignored by my teachers. I try to project when I have a question or if I can give an answer to a question, but even if they’re less than 2 meters away, they just blow right past me.
@@ricoxhetgfx Yes, but then my parents forced me to go back. They said "You're going to college you like it or not. You need a bachelor's degree for your major in computer science to be a video game designer and game developer. One year and a half, and you're done after this to get your associate's degree. Then, you can choose to go to a university for your junior and senior years and graduate afterward."
Im a quiet kid, im trying to fight off both suicidal and homicidal thoughts trust me i geninuelly dont want to do it but teachers and classmates driving me to my limit
When I was in primary school, I already knew tons of people from pre school, but though I called them my friends, they weren’t really, because since I am special, they would always try to get a reaction. In year 5 I went to a special needs school for my behaviour, where I knew no one, and though I started as the quiet kid, I quickly became well known. I actually helped that school out so much that it went from a fight a week, to an argument per month. Then I started mainstream high school, in year 8, but we normally start high school year 7. Luckily, people in the support unit were nice, and I knew a few people already. Now I have a GF, and still tons of girls get crushes on me, no cap, and I’m in a mainstream class.
I was a quiet kid in HighSchool, and I unfortunately looked similar to Jeffery dahmer during the height of that series. So because of those things people started spreading rumors that I was a school shooter that many started to believe, including some of the adults, I don’t have any friends from that school and never really did because people were genuinely scared of me
Im not shy, im not scared, im quiet because who wants a quiet person as a friend, im quiet because i got used to being alone, atleast now i can still be childish and watch childish stuff without any haters
I'm not sure if you're going to heart my comment, I'm a quiet kid in middle school i have a anxiety disorder called selective mutism where i cannot speak in social situations but very talkative at home. I been bullied my whole life for it. Everyone always thinks i have a gun in my backpack and they ask what's in my backpack but i really dont have a gun. I hate when people think im a psycho, they just dont understand quiet kids.
I was always the quiet kid One year, they asked me “are you going to shoot up the school.” When I told my mom she was like “they have a point” Man, that fucked me up so much
Being a quiet kid or not largely depends on the environment for me. If it's things that I genuinely care about like geology, drama, or gaming, I can be hella extroverted. And I love presenting.
I was the quiet kid in school, and apparently, it got to the point where a few people thought I was mute. So, they didn’t talk to me. Imagine their surprise when I finally said something.
8:22 this is the biggest struggle for me, once i had to do a presentation in science, i have never stuttered so much in my life and i was more red than a tomato. I practically couldnt speak from the stuttering. Good thing the presentation was only 2 minutes
I was hardly at school so one time I was forced to quickly make a presentation during school and was forced to talk infront of the class and the teacher really had to say it will make me feel better like no cause I feel worse now after that
Honestly, I always thought I was the quiet kid a lot of the time. But now, I realise that those days are long gone… sort of. I’m still the type of person to stick to myself, and I’m not one to talk a lot. I will say that a lot of this is still relatable, even now. To all of you out there that relate, just keep moving forward. There ain’t no time like the present, so just do whatever you feel will be right for you.
For me I was getting like four to 5 girls through out my high school years but I guess having charisma and being genuinely nice to everyone does gose a long way
as a quiet kid, the best part is that people think you have and will never do anything wrong in your life so nobody thinks you did something because 'you would never'
Yeah, mandatory reporters. If the teacher or other staff member is told/believes of an abuse case happening at home or other concerning behavior, they are required to report it (or they lose their teaching license). Luckily, in Birdie's case, it's just bruises from Football, but from the teachers' perspective, they don't know that, so it makes sense why the nurse asked that question.
In the uk everyone has to do drama (theatre) class and they’d be getting you to do the most embarrassing stuff and if you had stage fright and didn’t want to do it they would just act as if you don’t like tests in general, as if they didn’t even know what stage fright was. School was horrible.
Bro, I can frickin relate to what you went through, through most of my childhood and teen years, I was just quiet and shy as hell, but then over time, I started talking a lot more, people started to get along with me and the whole nine yards.
during my middle school graduation (there a little stupid ceremony); The girl next to me litterly started crying and wining to her friend for a solid hour about how she had to sit next to me and another quite kid during the rehearsal and the actual ceremony she basically insulted us for an hour (when me and the other kid were sitting right next to her) acting like we couldnt hear her, all because she had to sit next to 2 quit kids for an hour during a middle school graduation ceremony. after the rehearsal i asked my parents not to go because i just listened to somone act like sitting next to me was the worst thing that ever happened to her. moral of the story treat quiet kids like fucking decent human beings because they are.
Bro, I relate to this, as I, too, was the quiet kid, like in elementary and middle school, I was kinda shy and timid, and yeah there was some times where I would get bullied for it and I was misunderstood as well, plus I used to stutter a lot, and once I got to high school, I basically overcame it and broke out of my shell, and remained fairly introverted, I still stammer a bit, but that's when I speak way too fast, so I have to slow down and speak slowly, and now I'm in college and I'm a basically a social introvert
I'm also a quiet kid, and have ton of nice friends and other type of friends at my new school. It's painful when come to talking to a girl or doing presentation's tbh. Here's a little story why I'm a quiet kid, In 1st grade, when I had a friend we talked to each other all the time even in 2nd grade to 3rd. When the covid-19 came my life changed. And I became the quiet kid in 4th grade to 8th grade.
Nah bruh being the quiet kid is great you basically get spectator mode. Tho when the teacher forces you to talk to your neighbour it’s still annoying af
I was definitely the quiet kid throughout my middle school to early high school days. I will never forget, during my senior year when I was a lot more confident and cool with a lot of the kids in my school, going up to one of my classmates that I was cool with and asking them if they ever saw me as a school threat when I was in middle school/early high school and, to my surprise, they said they didn’t. They just thought that I was a little too quiet. Anyways, I’m very glad that I stopped being so quiet for my last year of high school.
I’m a quiet kid around everyone including my family except my 3 friends with them I’m the loudest person out of all of them.I’ve been friends with them since kindergarten
Being the quiet kid is... Wierd. I grew up with my friends, so friends wasent hard. I dont know why I had a bad rep. No one tried anything, especially after I won a 1v2 at the school dance (I was a black belt in ju-jitsu, and I was pretty good at Aikido). That was the end of my career of being the quiet nerd. I then became "the guy who won a 1v2 at the dance"
As a quiet kid, when I started talking in class, everyone just dropped whatever they were doing and turned around to me like I was some sort of sensational alien. I was actually a chill and charismatic guy, but in school I couldn't put out even a word for some reason.
1:34 I mean, I was found out autistic at like a really young age like in the first grade and I feel like I kind of went through a metamorphosis realizing that it’s kind of like going from Daisy on the n64 to the game cube
i'm suuuper hesitant in trying to ask someone in general because i'm scared of rejection (trauma, possibly) i'd ALWAYS have the teacher pick which group i'll be in because i know full well no one would WILLINGLY pick me despite this, i love giving presentations (mainly because of the slides i make)
bro in grade school I had work with a group of girls for something idk what the assignment was and one of them don't like me for some reason plus home girl moves the desk to the other side and says I can sit here I'm just like bruh
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@@burdieofficialbro why
No
Honestly, the best thing about it. Is that when something bad happens? No one suspects you. Or the opposite.
I think that might be most of us
Me too
Too true bro ppl would think I was crazy
same
Same but not in the public or school, just at home.
Why can i relate with EVERYTHING in this video, literally every single point on this list.
same
Its like burdie is literally you
same
@@CCHO12346 perhaps...
jesus saves
when you answer a question and people are like "wow they can talk" 💀💀
for real bro, its hard to start actually participating in class because as soon as i do, everyone treats it as something so special
Seriously true I was flamed for talking
fr. some of my classmates probably thought i was mute.
Nah but they treat you like a pet if your quiet and say “hey friend “ they think they so funny bro 🙏
I’m still flamed to this day
People always ask me “Why are you so quiet?” But I legit have nothing to contribute to the conversation so I just listen 💀
fr
you probably do have something to contribute at least sometimes, but it may be overshadowed by the worry of "oh shoot what do I say" and then your mind goes blank
Either that, or my brain is in the ADHD zone thinking about how super glue doesn't stick to the bottle, and Mario Galaxy at the same time.
@teko5282 I feel exacly the same way
Sometimes i do, just anxious
I am shy, and usually quiet, but, when you talk to me first, and we become friends, I can be LOUD.
ok
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Exactly my situation and still to this day
Being the quiet kid, I can tell you that the worst feeling is listening to your classmates make jokes about you.
"and then he comforted his girlfriend after i made her cry"
- my classmate, during biology class
Rs its always the loud crooked teeth girls😭🙏
@fwbrent7442 you are the best 👌
And that’s where that Pumped Up Kicks motivation comes in
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I was also a quiet kid. Quiet in class, louder in mind.
Yeah our minds are really loud. Very interesting actually. Maybe if we didn't do so much internal thinking then maybe we would be social. I think this topic needs more research. My first day of school I tried to talk to people then they said go away before something bad happens then I become scared and just been a loner till one guy started to be my friend and we had alot of things in common.
ah, i did enjoy being quiet in school, and utterly flaming my classmates at home. since a lot of them are obnoxious.
I always speak to my mind lol
@@Potato_wads lol
Fr same i sometimes talk to an imaginary friend ive created in my mind
I would go whole school days without saying a word and I do have a friend group (10 people) but just casually listen instead of speaking. I just have absolutely nothing to say, my ability to have small talk is horrible as I have no clue what to talk about. I sometimes forget that I haven't been speaking for a long time as I'm so immersed in just listening to people.
I I’m the quiet kid and basically every one in your class you hate and you get good scores on tests but people think your dumb and I always hear people say I’m the quiet kid also you gun thing is fake of course but idk about others ones but yea no guns and also being the quiet kid you become dirty minded at a early age and your social skills are not as good as other kids also one of the main reasons why quiet kids are quiet is because they are scared to get into trouble and your friends with other quiet kids also you rarely laugh because you can’t laugh for some weird reason at a joke even though you now it’s funny and you always make other people laugh if you have a friend that is that a quiet kid (you will only have a few people that are not quiet kids that are your friends in life but I think they thing your weird) I will read this again to make sure it makes since so yea that is life as a quiet kid
Read a book called how to win friends and influence people by dale Carnegie.
The pdf version is free on the internet and the book changed by life.
I was quiet in middle and high school, and I'm still quiet even now in college, but I've been able to vibe well with other people despite not being very social. I even decided to join a fraternity and my brothers have been awesome towards me. Actions speak more for themselves then words, so being the quiet kid is a blessing.
The main reason I’m quiet is when I’m doing almost anything I hear people laughing
REAL
they are not paying attention TO U CUZ
Every time I hear people laugh I feel like they’re laughing at me😭😭
@@Luna-Moon.UnderFNAFsame, i feel like everything bad abt something is abt me
@@triissgetBUCKS that would be better tbh
I was a quiet kid back in middle school and it was tough, they nicknamed me "school shooter" and the girls thought I was wierd 😭
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Bro same, but they called me the drug dealer, because i was always quiet and they thought i was hiding something...
I was quiet but luckily I'm from the UK so I never got called names like that. I just didn't want to be at school.
Same bro....
I'd prefer if you asked permission before you scryed my middle school years
Yeah being the quiet kid sucked but we be chill like that ngl
because we don't be starting drama but we watch it tho
@@cadenlewis213 someone asked if i was weird pervy or misgynistic which first off I am girl and I was just awkward and shy and I'm getting asked out or getting weird comments on me
Always am that one quiet kid in my 2nd class. I was the shy one who was scared and feared of being called on.
Twin
Im still is but not really
Im always the shy kid in every grade except kindergarten
I started being the quiet kid in third grade…
As someone who is pretty introverted, I can relate to this a lot. Although I do have a good sized friend group, I wouldn't enjoy talking to other people. I was also one of those "school targets" that always gets picked one, and I even felt depressed at some times. Being the quiet kid is a struggle that nobody else understands.
I like how burdie isnt afraid of talking to 1 million people on UA-cam but afraid of talking to a 15 people class irl. don't worry bud, same with me 🤐👍
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I’ve been the quiet kid since 3rd grade. I may have just developed anxiety but my dad would call me r*tarded and say I never stfu so It probably turned me quiet. I’m in 7th grade and I have absolutely zero friends but my medications have been changed and they are making me very social for the first time since 2nd grade.
What medication is working for you to be more social? I'm 21 and have 0 friends and never had a relationship either
I wanna be ur freind 😢
@@YRDX I usually wouldn’t share but since its such a known medicine, its zoloft.
@@3katd do I need to go to doctors to get it? What does it actually do?
@@3katd do I have to go doctors to get ita d what does it actually do
As an ex quiet kid I can guarantee that changing this is way more convenient and easier that you could think. For now the only bad side about this, since I became a social butterfly, is that I can't just do something while being alone, this is literally the opposite of how I felt some time ago. shit like "believe in yourself" and "try to talk" are pretty bad as advices, so my first actual tips will be: practice on your humor and change your fit/hairstyle/looking in general, and yeah shit like "be yourself " actually works, but not with all of your traits, first you should hide your true character for a bit and show your best traits, and once you feel confidence in the others, just start to open up. And I guarantee y when you are more popular or likeable, people ignore some stuff about you that might seem weird to the others at first look.
And the most important thing: you should maintain a balance between being totally yourself and different form the others and blanding in the mass of people. There should always be a balance.
How did you change , can you tell me please
@donutcoco2998 al r, i am sorry for not replying before, I was busy.
I started changing when I was 13, i noticed that my social skills and my social life in general was in a bad situation, so the first step is realizing that you are in a bad situation. But you shouldn't stop there, work on you social skills, its not that difficult, it might sound stupid, but you could just stay in front of a mirror in your room and try to think about some life situations and try to pick up the best replies, like if you were in a videogame. Then the next thing could be find a totally new group of people where you could start from a blank page, it could be a group of people with the same interests, or something else. There just try to show your best traits and become friends with them, don't expect to people to come and do everything for you. Once you did, that friend group will become your new comfort zone, but you are not done yet, now you will had to expand it, by that I mean using your previous experience to do so.
It's all a domino game, once you did a thing, the next thing will come automatically.
ex? hmm oct 23 was my last day of being the quiet kid but still am but Upgraded never changed lOlllll ik
Thanks for trying to help
Omg I did the same thing. I was naturally quiet and introverted growing up, but then it became even more extreme in middle school because I felt left out by my friends (since I was quiet and they were extroverted I felt overlooked) so I went from being a lil quiet to actually antisocial and people-hating. But in high school I completely changed bc I realized being antisocial and hostile wasn’t gonna cut it. Since the whole problem started from me feeling excluded bc I was quiet which led to the antisocial phase, I became way more outgoing in high school and became part of several different friend groups. I went from the quietest person around to being known by my friends for my sociability. Thing is, i still naturally recharge by being alone. You can never change that. But I realized I could still be outgoing and friendly even as an introvert. Forcing myself into a lot of social situations and learning how to be open again after I was so closed off was the best decision i ever made honestly
Being shy doesn't necessarily mean you are quiet, I just dislike small talks sometimes.
Me too
I am just bad at meeting new people and I usually come off weird cause i'm shyt so i always make a bad first impression
Me too
Same
I dislike my clasmate
Fellow quiet kid here.
Thanks for making this video, Burdie it was really relateable.
People see me as a chill quiet kid, and they they treat me as a celebrity. I simply struggle to keep conversations
Same😅
Same bro
0:09 “I was more of a shy person” 😅 same birdie same
Ya
Same
same here
Same
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"yeah gravity... shout out to newton for that-" I LITERALLY CRACKED UP-
I too was a quiet kid, but I was raised by the British School system since what yall call Grade 3 to Grade 9 , and somehow i everyone ignored me, and i perfer loneliness thus, I performed better at School more than anyone else to the point some other sudents started becoming quiet themselves in order to improve their Grades.
As someone who is a quite kid and can speak in fluent Japanese as well as English, sometimes when I am pissed at my classmates/teachers and they try to talk to me I will just answer in Japanese so they have no idea if I am confessing my love for them or swearing at them-
sounds like that anime "alya sometimes hides her feelings in russian"
I’m not a quiet but definitely I was the most bullied in my year, honestly a few of them days wanted me to commit you know but don’t let them voices in your head so keep doing your best
I kinda just willingly became the quiet kid in high school, never really like most of the kids in most of my classes due to them being the most annoying dumbasses alive. Mfs would be blasting the most annoying music on speakers and didn’t know how to not yell. Never spoke up or talked to anyone I didn’t know in middle school only was friends with the people I was friends with in middle school, only spoke up in history class because I was a history buff at the time. Wasn’t edgy I was just very just very displeased with those around me. Had no enemies cuz I didn’t start shit and minded my own business.
same. i kinda did end up with some enemies though, but my angry controlling issues (not management, i am very patient, i just struggle to control my anger) stopped anyone harassing me immediately. although most of the time, i'm just very mature, compared to my extremely immature classmates.
I‘m in highschool and honestly fully relate. Some classes genuinely feel like I got locked in a kindergarten
Edit: to add more theres not only thugs but also people constantly being corny. It gets annoying real quick
Same here, everyone in my high-school is just a wannabe gangster who thinks they are hot shit, and tries to start random fights with people and gets a new girlfriend every 2 days. I would rather have no friends than be friends with someone who will completely disregard my emotions and talk behind my back.
Everything you just stated perfectly describes me as well, and it sucked. But when you get older, that phase of your life becomes a distant memory, and you get better over time.
I hope so, because I've been out of high school for 2 years and socializing is still very difficult 😭
I was referred to as “the quiet stoner kid” like you get stoned in science class one time & it’s the one thing people know you for.
Not a bad rep tho
I hate group projects. I'm a quiet kid too and I try to work hard but when it comes to group work I barely do anything because I feel out of place and don't have much to contribute. And, in my mind I'm really loud, constantly having ideas and thinking about stuff completely unrelated to school. I really have one only true and best friend, we do things together even if I don't speak up which is nice since it's hard to start a conversation for me.
Being the quit kid is easy and hard in middle school. Usally I can get work done because I did not yap 24/7. But when we have to do group projects I only chose the boys and if its randomized, IM COOKED.
It's even worse when you have to present😭
@@GuyonRobloxguysYeah fr 🥲
i always stay in my seat i am NOT talking with them bro 🙏
@@aq001z That's what I did, and I only sat with my friends.
I am fine with school because rarely do people go out of their way to make fun of me i just hate presentations so much cause they always end up horribly
Im the quiet kid in School but I used to be friends with everyone in class. I went to the popular kid's grandma's house when I was really young.
I tried to make friends with my class in kindergarten, but they all rejected me. That's how I became shy. If it weren't for my dumbass self, I wouldn't become shy.
@@Potato_wads or if you made a friend in kindergarten
I’m a quiet kid, and on a constant basis I get ignored by my teachers. I try to project when I have a question or if I can give an answer to a question, but even if they’re less than 2 meters away, they just blow right past me.
as the quiet kid, you would be surprised how much i can relate to all of these things.
I’m a quite kid, I talk very low, and I feel the same way when I can’t go into a group for a project or something.
the internet basically ruined the quiet kids as a whole
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How so
@@wayneburke5311 Calling them school shooters, druggies, need I say more?
@@spiderfrider64good point
0:32 You left college? If so, congrats! You're a full time UA-camr now!
Yessir thank you 🙏🏼
Ikr? Let's go! I plan on dropping out and leaving college, too! It won't be till after the school year ends, which is 2 weeks from now!
@@thedraftingax5963 Achieved it?
@@ricoxhetgfx Yes, but then my parents forced me to go back. They said "You're going to college you like it or not. You need a bachelor's degree for your major in computer science to be a video game designer and game developer. One year and a half, and you're done after this to get your associate's degree. Then, you can choose to go to a university for your junior and senior years and graduate afterward."
im still in college since 2023, like honestlu dont plan to beckome a youtuber soon.
I felt you, dude. I was this type of kid. 😊
Im a quiet kid, im trying to fight off both suicidal and homicidal thoughts trust me i geninuelly dont want to do it but teachers and classmates driving me to my limit
9:50 this happened to me once, I straight up told the teacher "because God made it blue"
Is true tho
It has no colour,its just the light from the sun making it "blue"
When I was in primary school, I already knew tons of people from pre school, but though I called them my friends, they weren’t really, because since I am special, they would always try to get a reaction. In year 5 I went to a special needs school for my behaviour, where I knew no one, and though I started as the quiet kid, I quickly became well known. I actually helped that school out so much that it went from a fight a week, to an argument per month. Then I started mainstream high school, in year 8, but we normally start high school year 7. Luckily, people in the support unit were nice, and I knew a few people already. Now I have a GF, and still tons of girls get crushes on me, no cap, and I’m in a mainstream class.
Even though you have mainstream success now, do not expect the same lifestyle when your done with high school
@@Alan_Marin I don’t
I was a quiet kid in HighSchool, and I unfortunately looked similar to Jeffery dahmer during the height of that series. So because of those things people started spreading rumors that I was a school shooter that many started to believe, including some of the adults, I don’t have any friends from that school and never really did because people were genuinely scared of me
Did u rly eat people
I was in the same boat
Kinda metal though. Better to have people scared of you than bully you.
@@TheMenaceHimself2006 I was bullied, not the stereotypical bullying but by some of the girls, and they’re so much worse than guys that bully
@@junglebull2635 I was bullied for two reasons for being quiet and having acne at 13-14
Im not shy, im not scared, im quiet because who wants a quiet person as a friend, im quiet because i got used to being alone, atleast now i can still be childish and watch childish stuff without any haters
I'm not sure if you're going to heart my comment, I'm a quiet kid in middle school i have a anxiety disorder called selective mutism where i cannot speak in social situations but very talkative at home. I been bullied my whole life for it. Everyone always thinks i have a gun in my backpack and they ask what's in my backpack but i really dont have a gun. I hate when people think im a psycho, they just dont understand quiet kids.
That's rlly no good
I had a friend with the same disorder
I was always the quiet kid
One year, they asked me “are you going to shoot up the school.”
When I told my mom she was like “they have a point”
Man, that fucked me up so much
My friend was Korean and he was a quiet kid and at the end he was the one kid that said monkey to everyone
5:18, so relatable
The ultimate april fools prank is for the quiet kid to switch roles with the popular kid like behaviour, style and etc
Being a quiet kid or not largely depends on the environment for me. If it's things that I genuinely care about like geology, drama, or gaming, I can be hella extroverted. And I love presenting.
I was the quiet kid in school, and apparently, it got to the point where a few people thought I was mute. So, they didn’t talk to me. Imagine their surprise when I finally said something.
Bro these videos never miss burdie has to be my favorite UA-camr
“Yeah guys be quiet” you sounded like Mickey Mouse at that moment lol 😂
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OMG!!!! This almost perfectly describes me! I have high functioning autism and am in very smart classes.
8:22 this is the biggest struggle for me, once i had to do a presentation in science, i have never stuttered so much in my life and i was more red than a tomato. I practically couldnt speak from the stuttering. Good thing the presentation was only 2 minutes
I feel you bro
I was hardly at school so one time I was forced to quickly make a presentation during school and was forced to talk infront of the class and the teacher really had to say it will make me feel better like no cause I feel worse now after that
Nice pfp
Honestly, I always thought I was the quiet kid a lot of the time. But now, I realise that those days are long gone… sort of. I’m still the type of person to stick to myself, and I’m not one to talk a lot. I will say that a lot of this is still relatable, even now.
To all of you out there that relate, just keep moving forward. There ain’t no time like the present, so just do whatever you feel will be right for you.
For me I was getting like four to 5 girls through out my high school years but I guess having charisma and being genuinely nice to everyone does gose a long way
I feel you my bro everything i have too especially ESPECIALLY THE GROUPS WHERE EVERYONE TALKS
as a quiet kid, the best part is that people think you have and will never do anything wrong in your life so nobody thinks you did something because 'you would never'
on god lmaooo "he's such a good kid"
6:47 I'M ACTUALLY CRYING WHAT😭😭😭😭
AISHITE REFERENCE REAL‼️
Yeah, mandatory reporters. If the teacher or other staff member is told/believes of an abuse case happening at home or other concerning behavior, they are required to report it (or they lose their teaching license). Luckily, in Birdie's case, it's just bruises from Football, but from the teachers' perspective, they don't know that, so it makes sense why the nurse asked that question.
2:55 I love how he is roasting him self
I’m the quiet kid (not to the point where they say "wow they talk?) and it SUCKS. Everyone hates me.
This is the most relatable video I’ve seen in my entire life 😅
love ur vids. i always be watching them along with the ducks vids
5:58 Damn you figured out my favorite quote.
Glad I have someone to relate with of being a quiet kid :)
Keep up the great work man, respect.
In the uk everyone has to do drama (theatre) class and they’d be getting you to do the most embarrassing stuff and if you had stage fright and didn’t want to do it they would just act as if you don’t like tests in general, as if they didn’t even know what stage fright was. School was horrible.
U know it’s good when burdie uploads
8:27
I would overthink how I would say here 😭😭😭
For me I have anxiety but even before I was diagnosed with it I was the quite kid
As a quiet kid, the most annoying thing someone would say is “Why don’t you talk?”
@@cadenlewis213 because it’s like saying, “why don’t you drink coke?”
Bro, I can frickin relate to what you went through, through most of my childhood and teen years, I was just quiet and shy as hell, but then over time, I started talking a lot more, people started to get along with me and the whole nine yards.
Another day another amazing Birdie video
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@@Potato_wads more like “Tru”
Burdie might not be pregnant, but he never fails to deliver
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No this is some first class humour lmao
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Burdie never lets us down with theses vids! W 💙❤💚💙❤💚
during my middle school graduation (there a little stupid ceremony); The girl next to me litterly started crying and wining to her friend for a solid hour about how she had to sit next to me and another quite kid during the rehearsal and the actual ceremony she basically insulted us for an hour (when me and the other kid were sitting right next to her) acting like we couldnt hear her, all because she had to sit next to 2 quit kids for an hour during a middle school graduation ceremony. after the rehearsal i asked my parents not to go because i just listened to somone act like sitting next to me was the worst thing that ever happened to her. moral of the story treat quiet kids like fucking decent human beings because they are.
Bro, I relate to this, as I, too, was the quiet kid, like in elementary and middle school, I was kinda shy and timid, and yeah there was some times where I would get bullied for it and I was misunderstood as well, plus I used to stutter a lot, and once I got to high school, I basically overcame it and broke out of my shell, and remained fairly introverted, I still stammer a bit, but that's when I speak way too fast, so I have to slow down and speak slowly, and now I'm in college and I'm a basically a social introvert
Burdie my favorite international storyteller
The struggle is hard man
love ur vids bro!!!
I'm also a quiet kid, and have ton of nice friends and other type of friends at my new school. It's painful when come to talking to a girl or doing presentation's tbh. Here's a little story why I'm a quiet kid, In 1st grade, when I had a friend we talked to each other all the time even in 2nd grade to 3rd. When the covid-19 came my life changed. And I became the quiet kid in 4th grade to 8th grade.
i feel persoanlly targeted 😳
lol
Nah bruh being the quiet kid is great you basically get spectator mode. Tho when the teacher forces you to talk to your neighbour it’s still annoying af
I Love Your Channel & Videos & Quiet Kid Chain
The presentation part is very relatable to me
literally me bro. We have a surprising amount of things in common. How did I not find this channel until recently?! Keep it up dude! :D
I was definitely the quiet kid throughout my middle school to early high school days.
I will never forget, during my senior year when I was a lot more confident and cool with a lot of the kids in my school, going up to one of my classmates that I was cool with and asking them if they ever saw me as a school threat when I was in middle school/early high school and, to my surprise, they said they didn’t. They just thought that I was a little too quiet.
Anyways, I’m very glad that I stopped being so quiet for my last year of high school.
I’m a quiet kid around everyone including my family except my 3 friends with them I’m the loudest person out of all of them.I’ve been friends with them since kindergarten
I just watched this to see how much I am a quiet person and this told me I was a quiet person to the max
Being the quiet kid is... Wierd. I grew up with my friends, so friends wasent hard. I dont know why I had a bad rep. No one tried anything, especially after I won a 1v2 at the school dance (I was a black belt in ju-jitsu, and I was pretty good at Aikido). That was the end of my career of being the quiet nerd. I then became "the guy who won a 1v2 at the dance"
As a quiet kid, when I started talking in class, everyone just dropped whatever they were doing and turned around to me like I was some sort of sensational alien. I was actually a chill and charismatic guy, but in school I couldn't put out even a word for some reason.
6:01 bro laughed like my older half brother
I relate to the video so much from my elementary school years.
1:34 I mean, I was found out autistic at like a really young age like in the first grade and I feel like I kind of went through a metamorphosis realizing that it’s kind of like going from Daisy on the n64 to the game cube
Man this hits hard. I've always been labelled as the quiet kid through high school and unfortunately got heavily bullied for it
i'm suuuper hesitant in trying to ask someone in general because i'm scared of rejection (trauma, possibly)
i'd ALWAYS have the teacher pick which group i'll be in because i know full well no one would WILLINGLY pick me
despite this, i love giving presentations (mainly because of the slides i make)
Yo burdie I got a question. What do you use to edit your videos? Your videos are amazing asf 🔥🔥
WE GETTIN INTROVERTED WITH THIS ONE🔥🔥
3:21 bro said "teemo" 💀
Isn’t it “teemu”
thats how its pronounced
I got a reward at my school for kindness, legit anyone I knew where questioning it cuz I did not speak once at school for years, that's just one thing
Tbh I felt the same when being chosen in groups, during football I was always picked last and barely anyone wanted me in their group
bro in grade school I had work with a group of girls for something idk what the assignment was and one of them don't like me for some reason plus home girl moves the desk to the other side and says I can sit here I'm just like bruh
Bro was the extrovert the quiet kid and litterally everything i feel like.....