NBC News says two victims of the LA fires were disabled: a father and son, Anthony and Justin Mitchell. Anthony had a leg amputated and used a wheelchair. Justin had cerebral palsy and couldn’t walk. Their family was not surprised that Anthony stay with Justin. I am so angry that no one helped them evacuate.
You have two options: 1. Wait it out and see if you need to evacuate and try to evacuate if they call for evacuation or 2. Be “dramatic” and flee early when you could and before you knew if it would personally affect you. What you’re calling “being dramatic” is in fact, just taking the situation seriously. My heart goes out to you and everyone else affected by these horrific fires. I’m so glad you are safe! Don’t doubt yourself.
I've been teased for my "tornado safety kit" . It has come in handy for storms, power outages, etc.! Have a portable kit for each pet/person - enough around to eat that doesn't need heat or water; have a way to filter water; can ya start a fire to boil said water , then know what to do about that Even with that, I'd not hesitate to be dramatic and leave at first hint of scary
Also, if people that can leave early do so then there's less people trying to leave all at once. There are some people who are not able to leave until the last moment- those working in emergency rooms or living paycheck to paycheck or countless other things. "Being dramatic" and leaving early means that there are fewer people on the road when it is truly dire- and few people that need rescuing or pass away.
Not only being seen as dramatic, but you are also having to weigh potential danger with leaving your home empty when looters thrive in disaster situations. You also risk not being there to protect your property from the embers and decrease the amount of time you have to gather important belongings the earlier you leave. The problem is that you have no idea what will happen. You just have to leave. Material things can be recovered, you and your loved ones and your pets cannot. It's a very hard decision. CA residents are in my heart as someone that has lost everything to a fire. They're going to need all the help they can get.
Yea I would say calling someone dramatic for this is not respecting their boundaries which is lower level abuse that many of us have normalized as a coping method that harms everyone we impact. I hope that person realizes how wrong that was…. I have complex ptsd and called dramatic when complaining about people trying to make me their sex slave. That was when I realized how toxic this is…. We need empathy because that sounds extra terrifying from her perspective. Its terrifying for normal people to have that happen, esp if her house does get affected….. that person should feel awful and use that to evolve and never do that shit again.
I'm deeply devasted for everyone affected by these fires, and I'm so glad you chose to evacuate sooner rather than later, Molly. I'm a wheelchair user living on the second floor, my biggest fear is my building catching on fire because I know that realisticly, I probably won't be saved. It's not that people don't want to save disabled people, but it feels like we are an afterthought, and we often don't get included in fire drills because it's "incovenient." My fear is that when push comes to shove, the people charged with keeping me safe wont know what to do.
I have mobility issues too and the advice during our work's fire evaluation was to wait in the stairwells to be rescued. Not a chance. Sorry firemen- I'm not waiting around in a burning building.
the fact that elevators get turned off in the event of a fire is ALSO SCARY. i understand that for most people stairs are a safer option, but people like you don't have that option at all!
WOW. Here in Canada it's not legal to put wheelchair users anywhere but the ground floor for low-rise buildings. High rise buildings are different, because in a fire, persons X number of floors above the top of the fire, are actually advised to shelter in place, as it's safer.
Yeah, after i was super unprepared for a blackout of 2 hours recently in my village i purchased batteries for the radio i have and put them with (not in) it, try to always have a powerbank charged and i have to buy a big flashlight.
As someone who has evacuated a natural disaster but when it wasn't mandatory, it's a hard decision to make, and you feel helpless when you are physically away from it. You feel your privilege in being able to leave, and you love where you live and don't want to see harm come to it. So many mixed emotions. I'm glad you're safe, and my thoughts are with everyone in the affected areas.
I evacuated for a fire in 2020. It was coming over the ridge of the mountain closest to my house when I evacuated my family (ex-husband, kid, 3 cats). One house in my housing development burned down. I don't regret it even though our home was saved. In my opinion leave as soon as you think you need to. What people don't realize is that also the firemen and women that are fighting the fire can focus on that instead of evacuating people who can do it on their own. Don't ever apologize for taking your safety seriously. When people refuse to leave, it costs people their lives because the people who need help aren't getting it because first responders are dealing those idiots.
You keeping calm in a disaster like this was probably the most helpful thing, i know you were worried about being overly dramatic but by leaning into and trusting those supports you have... you did great. Love to you, your neighbours and your community.
Not just disabled and homeless, those living paycheck to paycheck that can’t afford a hotel. But I wanted to give you a virtual hug. I became disabled after a leg infection in 2010. They saved my leg but my ankle joint is fused to the bottom of my leg. While I was still recovering from the second fusion we had an earthquake. I had an infant and a toddler and I had to grab the infant out of the crib and run for a doorway on a leg that I couldn’t walk on. I did all of it on pure adrenaline and was in huge pain afterwards. I live in N. NV and we had two terrible fires this summer, I think about what will happen if I need to run or even walk far and I can’t or having to take my wheelchair into terrain it can’t go in. ❤❤
I am so glad that you, your partner and Elton are safe. This situation is heartbreaking to watch and beyond scary. I have a chronic illness and during bad flare-ups, I can barely walk, let alone run. I cannot imagine how people might feel in a situation where you HAVE to run for your life, but you physically can't. Where you try to see where you have go to be safe, but you can't. Where your only chance might be to get updates on the radio, but you can't hear. Navigating a world that wasn't built with your needs in mind is scary and stressful enough, but this is just horrible.
This is a truly horrible situation but I am so glad that you’re all safe. The worst thing that happens when you “be dramatic” is getting on a plane & seeing your parents. What you were doing was being prepared. You made a calm collected decision in an awful situation & it was the best decision for everyone. Not only did you manage to avoid being in a gridlock but you also lessend the amount of people actually needing to be evacuated. Sending you all love from the uk & I hope that you take plenty of time away to recover from this 💕 I’m praying for everyone who was affected by this.
I don't know anyone personally affected but I know so many content creators through this platform who live in LA and I've been praying for everyone. I'm glad to hear you got out safely and didn't lose your home. I live near Phoenix and we could smell the smoke from here and it has changed the color of the sky for a few days also.
Molly, you are such a good storyteller. When we’re living in a time where it feels like something historic happens everyday, sometimes multiple times a day, it can honestly be *so* hard to keep up with and to keep feeling deeply without getting overwhelmed. I’m grateful for your perspective and your ability to communicate it so clearly and emotionally. Glad you and your close ones are safe ❤
So relieved to know that you are safe Molly! You've raised such important points for people to be mindful about. We all need to think about how to help folks with disabilities whenever the need arises, but especially in crisis situations like these. Praying for everyone to be safe and to recover from this horrible trauma! Our hearts are heavy up north for those down south! 💓
I am thankful that you and your boys are safe and sound. I was thinking of you when we heard in the UK. My son is on the spectrum and all 3 adults in the house are disabled, and this made my son and I go through again what to do in an emergency. Hopefully, this will stop him from having any more nightmares. As a teen, I think this was his first adult-type nightmare. Our hearts go out to everyone who is living through this waking nightmare. Please keep yourselves safe! If you are not in LA use this as a reminder to go over escape routes and emergency plans.
I used to live in Los Angeles myself for a few years. I worked in Hollywood, lived in North Hollywood and Van Nuys. I've been watching everything on the news and it's just so devastating. It looks like the earth opened up, and hellfire spit out and swallowed everything. I've never seen a fire like it. I cannot express how much my heart goes out to everyone that has lost everything. A house can be replaced, but a home is not so easy to rebuild. I'm glad you are safe, Molly.
I’m so glad you’re both safe. What you are describing is the trauma response system and trying to navigate it in a way that’s responsive versus reacting last minute and being in a life threatening position. This is such a real thing that you are highlighting. Persons with disabilities and unhoused persons, elderly, and animals are the last to receive help. I’m glad you are releasing the stress, listening to your body and taking care. Process your feelings fully and grieve it.
I’m glad that you and your family are safe. I immediately thought of you when I read about it on the news. Lots of love and light to all affected ❤ hugs from the Netherlands
I'm so sorry Molly, I hope you and everyone else out there stays safe - "life over limb" rules come in here, life over posessions, but I know it's still more difficult than I could possibly imagine to lose your home and belongings. I keep thinking about the homeless people in LA. I saw a tiktok today of a man saying if anyone in LA has an extra mask, give it to a homeless person, because he talked to a homeless person today who was confused by all the ash in the sky and had no idea the fires were happening. It's so heartbreaking.
Ever since reading about the LA fires, all I could think about was "I hope molly and her co are okay!!" Been checking here everyday! Glad to see this video!!! Glad you guys are okay!!! ❤
Molly you absolutely did the right thing leaving when you did. What is happening is horrific. I feel for you all. I am in Australia and can honestly say “There but for the grace of God go I”. My heart breaks seeing all of the devastation. ❤
This is devastatingly heartbreaking. I live in the San Francisco area and I keep a bag packed at all times because of the wildfires we’ve faced. It angers me that we have denied climate change for so long, and now we are in this situation. Thank you for the video, and I am happy that you are safe.
It isn’t climate change. It was people’s arson starting the fires and they were somebody from another country that did that the illegals that came over!! This is heartbreaking to hear. Let me tell you maybe I’ll change all his mind next time and get somebody else to be your governor I hope so anyways.
@@supergg07it’s climate change. Arson has been going on since humanity discovered fire, that has never changed. But wildfires keep getting worse every year that the temperatures get warmer, the rain reasons get shorter, the winds get stronger and the storms more powerful. You can’t deny it any longer. It’s in your face, accept reality.
So sorry you and everyone in LA has had to go through this horrible situation. Praying for you and everyone affected by the fires. Very happy you are safe.
I lived in a part of Oregon plagued by annual summer fires from July sometimes going as far as October. I know exactly what you mean when you described the feeling of the smoke in your lungs. One of the first big fires we experienced was very near us we prepared our cars with all our family photos and irreplaceable items, but luckily never ended up needing to evacuate. It was a surreal moment, not knowing if we were being over dramatic or pragmatic. So glad that everything worked out in a miracle for your good. God is watching out for you and loves you. :)
Oh my, Ms. Burke. I hadn't thought about where you lived. I am so happy that you are safe. A cousin (once removed; she is younger) of ours has lost her home, but she, her daughter, and their cats are safe and can stay with a close friend.
I have a friend who has an organization in California called Feed The Streets. I want to say there's a fb page, but I'm not positive. I know there will be a massive influx of unsheltered people who've lost what little they had as they look for someplace safe. Organizations like my friends can help and will need help. For areas outside the fire zones, if people want to help but don't have the ability to donate financially, time is also a great way to donate. There's going to be a lot of places that will need extra hands, just as much as material supplies. Molly, I'm thankful you have a safe place to be right now. I'm thankful you have a trustworthy partner to get you all to safety. Keep sharing links to all things, places, and Organizations that need help with finances, material items like food, water, clothes, diapers, and basic hygiene supplies, as well as where people can volunteer. I've lived through a wildfire. Bastrop, Texas in 2011. My dad had just undergone his first chemo treatment when the fire started. It's truly horrible to feel helpless and afraid. Just know that the city of Los Angeles is not alone! Everyone is praying in their own way and belief. ❤
I follow you because I also have a disability. I live in Sonoma County in Northern California and we have had devastating wildfires numerous times. It’s terribly scary and traumatic and in this area we are always ready to evacuate because you never know what may happen. I feel for you Molly. I’ve made it through more than once. You will too.
I really appreciate you sharing your perception of being in a situation like this. I think it’s so important in helping other people understand, and hopefully help others who are in similar circumstances. The LA fires alone seem terrifying, I can’t imagine what it would be like also being blind. I’m glad you are all okay, sending love 💛
When I was a kid my mom was a group guide and content curator in an information availability center for geography, she had clients that dealt with disabled people. I so much wish that you and all kind of disabled folks could have had those resources in short reach, your video makes me think that it could have been empowering. I remember how it used to feel to finally be able to fully grasp knowledge in that center, as a fellow disabled person, I still suck at geography, but love hydrolics and weather science, honestly that's why I came to your video. I hope people read the comments too, they are wonderful. I am so sorry you went trough this, and for all the people that did as well and those who lost so much. I can only imagine all the terror disabled folks are experiencing in this situation.
Thank you for letting us know you are all safe. My heart is breaking for everyone in LA. It's been awful watching for the past few days. As someone (a blind someone) who is terrified of fire anyway, who had had her fair share, more than that, of for related tradgedy, I can truly empathise 💔💔💔
Dear Molly Burke: I am happy to see and hear you alive. I thought about you yesterday. I hope for you, that your house does not get affected by the fire. Hug from me.
I have a relative in Los Feliz who is on oxygen and had to go to a hospital to plug in during the power outage. I have a friend who's a performer on vocal rest and she bugged out entirely and drove to Vegas. I hope you remain safe and well.
I'm so glad your mom recoded that moment, and that you shared it. Your convo really opened my eyes to your reality, thank you for sharing this whole video
I'm about an hour south of LA and I've been through the 2003 and 2007 fires. I'm also blind and it's terrifying. I was getting concerned about how you were doing. Glad you're safe. In 2003 my husband had to drive through flames on either side of the road to get us away. We had us, my then working guide dog and my first retired guide dog and nothing else. We were ultimately fine and we even volunteered at the shelter we stayed in. We returned home the next day and it was surreal.
🫶Sending love from Maryland. My heart goes out to yourself and everyone in Cali. My sister Michelle is in California with her 6 year old daughter Bella, so this hits especially hard.
Molly, you did the right thing and I'm so glad your little nuclear family is safe. In the summer of 2023, we had wildfires surrounding our little city. My family lived 25 minutes away from us, and my cousin decided to go see what the situation was. He said it was only about 6 km away from them. So they came to our place (I was living with and taking care of my grandma at the time). after a long conversation as a family, I woke up the next morning bright and early to my mom calling me saying "I don't want you to panic, but I want you to wake up grandma, pack some things, we'll be there in an hour. We're getting out." We were not under evac order, but we had myself, my grandma and my SIL's mom visiting and we all suffer with asthma. so we decided to get out. we drove 12 hours to our family's home. That "I'm safe, but what the ***** just happened" debrief is the most surreal, scary feeling. I am absolutely devastated for you guys and I am so glad you're safe! I am praying for all of LA during this incredibly scary time.
I don’t know anyone or about anyone who lives in LA (I live in Sweden) except for you. When I heard about the fires you were the first person I thought about. We’re all really, really glad that you and your family are safe Molly! 💛💛
So glad you got out of there early and are safe. Even if it had ended up that you didn’t need to leave or evacuate, it’s always better safe than sorry and it’s a few less people using resources (water, electricity, etc.) and that in itself helps others who can’t leave.
I think for those with disabilities, it is good to lean on the side of caution. I’m glad to hear your side of the story, being stuck in traffic, having to get out of the car ect. Would be far too much for anyone let alone someone with disabilities
I been seeing the news on TV and seeing all over TT and I was thinking how horrible and terrifying it must be. I was thinking about all the people, disabled individual, and all the pets. As someone who also has RP I can't imagine what you all went through. You all are very strong. Prayers sent to you and all in LA, prayers for all animals and prayers for all the fire fighters.. 🙏🏼💜💜
How scary! Im so glad you got out and had a place to go. It would be so hard not only for you not to see what's around you and how untangible the horror is.... but also to your partner who tries to inform you while they are trying to process it too. I'm so glad you two work so well together with empathy. You understand he has the weight of making sighted choices... and him empathizing with not being able to see what's happening and having such limited ways of helping. We all have emergency blindspots- and having empathy and relying on strengths is how we make it out. I'm so sad for everyone out there. Hearbreaking and so hard to grapple with.
Omg I am so glad you posted! I was so worried! I am in the desert so if you know anyone who needs help I know so many over here are just waiting to help. I am just so glad it is hopefully calming down a bit wind wise so they have a chance to control these fires. We couldn’t see more than a couple feet here in the peak of the wind so I can only imagine how HORRIBLE the winds were on the coast where they are usually stronger.
Thank you for sharing your experience. You're calling for community building between neighbors and able-bodied and disabled people, which is good for daily life and emergencies. We started that here some years ago by creating small local informal "check in with your neighbor" groups. I'm disabled and on long term care insurance... my case manager, insurance company, and a community resource all check in with me before and after hurricanes/tropical storms go through... Checking to make sure I have what I need. Neighbors, family, and friends check in with me to see if I need anything. It works and it makes a difference.
A few years ago I moved to Oregon. It was the biggest dream I've ever had and I was planning on staying there until I died. I knew they had wildfires, but I didn't realize the true extent of it. When wildfire season started, I realized the gravity of the situation and was under constant stress and anxiety. I was high strung anxious 24/7. Fires kept popping up not too far from where I was. I was constantly checking the fire maps and news. I did get some relief when my landlords promised me they would get me and everyone in the apartment complex out if we needed to evacuate. I'm deaf, so I was terrified I wouldn't hear the evacuation order and get left behind. I had bags for both me and my dog packed at the front door. It was so scary watching everything turn orange and hazy. I have pictures of a wildfire right outside my apartment. Thankfully they got that one under control quick. But my biggest fear was that I was going to be at work, we would need to evacuate, and I wouldn't be able to get to my dog in time and get out. Between the fires and high prices of everything, I had to leave. I couldn't handle it. I left a piece of my heart there and I'll never get it back.
I’m glad you guys are OK. I grew up in Southern California. I left many years ago and really don’t know too many people there anymore, but my heart breaks for anyone who has been dealing with this devastation.
No comparing.. but the Joplin tornado... where I went to school... the Trauma of those events take time... take your time. We love you and hope the best for everyone involved.
Thank you so much for making this video, Molly. Those who are not disabled in that way oftentimes see the fires and find it heartbreaking, but forget the individuals who don’t have the support that you do. Thinking of everyone during this hard time.. my cousin who is a chief firefighter up in Seattle is down there fighting the fires in LA. Hoping that everyone can stay as safe as possible through this - humans and people alike.
thank you for sharing your story and explaining how your blindness changed how the experience was for you. it helps others put into perspective and have more care and compassion for those around us. i am so glad you and your family are safe. leaving early as a a precaution was so smart. definitely not dramatic to be safe instead of sorry.
I’m so glad you were able to escape. I left my home years ago when there was a much smaller fire near me. Everyone thought I was over reacting as no one else left but like you said, you don’t know how things can change. And being disabled it added to me not wanting to wait. So don’t ever apologize for being so called “dramatic”. Those are instincts that one day can save your life! Disasters like this are also a reminder to the rest of us of the importance of having a “go bag”. A backpack or suitcase as the ready that you can grab in an emergency with a bit of cash in it, important medication and documents, some bottled water, snacks, undies.
Molly, thank God you are safe, and despite what you have just experienced, your still trying to inform and help others stay safe. Sending love prayers and positive thoughts.
I'm so glad you are safe and that your parents were able to help. Home it's supposed to be your safe space, and for so many that's gone. My mum's cousin had a house in Santa Monica and it's all gone. You did a great job keeping calm, but considering the gravity of the situation even when you second guessed yourself. Wishing you all the best. I know LA community will bounce back.
Just hearing about these fires is terrifying! I can't imagine how it must be actually living it... and, like you said, Molly, many of our community is at a terrible disadvantage when it comes to life -or- death situations. My thoughts are with everyone, disabled or not, who're affected by this. Stay as safe as you can and be well, y'all! -a disabled Iowan
I'm so sorry you're going through this and my heart goes out to everyone in LA. As someone with a disability who can't (legally) drive and can't live without meds, it's so true that we need to do a lot of planning and exercise extra prudence in emergencies.
I’m so glad to hear you and your family are safe. Thank you for sharing your experience and for speaking on the unique perspective you have in emergency situations. Sending you all the good vibes ❤
I’m so glad you are ok. I honestly don’t know what I would do. I’m not in a position to save myself in a situation like that my prayers go out to everyone. So many stories of caregivers leaving disabled and elderly people behind have me numb.
I'm so glad you're okay and your boyfriend was there to help you. I worry about natural disasters as a blind women with two young children under 4. Thinking of being in a situation like that without my husband but having my kids with me gives me more anxiety than worrying about myself so yeah just not knowing what to do. Stay safe.
I am so glad you are safe. I was surprised to see you bundled because I thought Santa Ana winds were warm. I learned from my bro and fam the importance of having a go-kit ready and leaving early when dealing with kids with disabilities so the kids don't panic from the sensory stuff. They drive a little further away to not deal with the mess/stress of trying to find hotels locally and its just less distressing for the girls. I think its so important that in an emergency, we slow down and check in and look out for our disabled neighbors who are single or those no transportation.
As a fellow Angeleno (resident of Los Angeles), I am so happy that you and your loved ones are safe!!! I managed to run into you, Elton, and Niamh in a shopping center in Studio City last year and it made my night.
So glad to hear you, Elton, and your boyfriend are okay, Molly! So sorry you had to go through that, it is terrible all around!! Sending good, supportive vibes to you and all your neighbors!!
Thank you for this Molly, it is greatly appreciated. My heart goes out to all those who are dealing with this disaster especially those with disabilities. I'm glad you guys left when you did and are safe. The awareness you bring is very helpful. Stay safe and give your partner and Elton a big hug, mom and dad too!❤
This is such an important video. I don't have the words but my heart is going out to you and all of LA. I'm sure your mom and dad are so happy to have you with them. As a mom myself I bet she was terrified until you were hugging her. ❤️
I'm so glad y'all made it out safely and have a place to stay with loved ones. I can't even imagine how you felt and feel. I've been in prayer ever since I found out 🙏🙏
What amazingly perfect timing - that Christmas gift. Seemingly little things end up being so significant in a crisis. Thanks for posting this video to share your experience. Now hope you’ll take your time to recover from what you’ve been through. What a shocking event to go through. Glad you’re safe and well 💗
Thank you for sharing your perspective and your story on this! I've gained a lot of insight from the experiences you've shared over the years 🤗 The scale of this fire is really unprecedented. So glad to hear you're all safe.
I’m so glad you’re safe. I don’t know about other natural disasters, but leaving early when your area is under threat, is so important for fires. You made the right decision. It’s also so emotional, watching your area burn. Even when you’re safe. You’re not alone in what you’re feeling, even without the added difficulties of being a disabled person. I can only imagine how much harder that is. My mum is wheelchair user & her only way out is in an accessible taxi or public transport. I don’t know what we’d do if we needed to get her out. Other than we’d need to leave the second there was a fire that could come in this direction.
I’m from Canada and my dad is a water bomber pilot and has been in Hollywood fighting the fires for several days, stay safe out there guys!
I thank your dad for helping
Please thank him for us 😢 thank you so much
I am also from Canada and thank your dad for his service!!
Really appreciate the help from Canada 🙏 Thank you so much to your dad for helping save lives and homes.
I hope he stays safe while he is working 🙏
Do they get water from the ocean?
NBC News says two victims of the LA fires were disabled: a father and son, Anthony and Justin Mitchell.
Anthony had a leg amputated and used a wheelchair.
Justin had cerebral palsy and couldn’t walk.
Their family was not surprised that Anthony stay with Justin.
I am so angry that no one helped them evacuate.
My worst fear.
In Germany in 2021 was a big flood, they forgot (!!!!!!!!!!!) the disabled people in the lower ground of a care facility. All drowned. It's scary
@@Vera-n7l2c that is absolutely horrible!
You have two options: 1. Wait it out and see if you need to evacuate and try to evacuate if they call for evacuation or 2. Be “dramatic” and flee early when you could and before you knew if it would personally affect you. What you’re calling “being dramatic” is in fact, just taking the situation seriously.
My heart goes out to you and everyone else affected by these horrific fires. I’m so glad you are safe! Don’t doubt yourself.
I've been teased for my "tornado safety kit" . It has come in handy for storms, power outages, etc.! Have a portable kit for each pet/person - enough around to eat that doesn't need heat or water; have a way to filter water; can ya start a fire to boil said water , then know what to do about that Even with that, I'd not hesitate to be dramatic and leave at first hint of scary
Also, if people that can leave early do so then there's less people trying to leave all at once. There are some people who are not able to leave until the last moment- those working in emergency rooms or living paycheck to paycheck or countless other things. "Being dramatic" and leaving early means that there are fewer people on the road when it is truly dire- and few people that need rescuing or pass away.
@@arandomidea9010 absolutely agree.
Not only being seen as dramatic, but you are also having to weigh potential danger with leaving your home empty when looters thrive in disaster situations. You also risk not being there to protect your property from the embers and decrease the amount of time you have to gather important belongings the earlier you leave. The problem is that you have no idea what will happen. You just have to leave. Material things can be recovered, you and your loved ones and your pets cannot. It's a very hard decision. CA residents are in my heart as someone that has lost everything to a fire. They're going to need all the help they can get.
Yea I would say calling someone dramatic for this is not respecting their boundaries which is lower level abuse that many of us have normalized as a coping method that harms everyone we impact. I hope that person realizes how wrong that was…. I have complex ptsd and called dramatic when complaining about people trying to make me their sex slave. That was when I realized how toxic this is…. We need empathy because that sounds extra terrifying from her perspective. Its terrifying for normal people to have that happen, esp if her house does get affected….. that person should feel awful and use that to evolve and never do that shit again.
I'm deeply devasted for everyone affected by these fires, and I'm so glad you chose to evacuate sooner rather than later, Molly.
I'm a wheelchair user living on the second floor, my biggest fear is my building catching on fire because I know that realisticly, I probably won't be saved. It's not that people don't want to save disabled people, but it feels like we are an afterthought, and we often don't get included in fire drills because it's "incovenient." My fear is that when push comes to shove, the people charged with keeping me safe wont know what to do.
@nergregga
Your fears are my fears when it comes to fires 🔥.
I have mobility issues too and the advice during our work's fire evaluation was to wait in the stairwells to be rescued. Not a chance. Sorry firemen- I'm not waiting around in a burning building.
the fact that elevators get turned off in the event of a fire is ALSO SCARY. i understand that for most people stairs are a safer option, but people like you don't have that option at all!
WOW. Here in Canada it's not legal to put wheelchair users anywhere but the ground floor for low-rise buildings. High rise buildings are different, because in a fire, persons X number of floors above the top of the fire, are actually advised to shelter in place, as it's safer.
@ferninthehouse I think elevators are not advisable because they potentially become a chimney. Smoke inhalation can kill very quickly.
Note to self. Purchase radio. That will be the only way to get urgent information needed for evacuation.
True, during Mexico's major earthquake in 1985 that was the way to get the latest news. I'll look into that.
Good idea. That's a technology we should bring back, for sure.
Specifically a battery operated or crank one. I know it seems obvious but some people forget that when there’s no electricity there’s no radio
Yeah, after i was super unprepared for a blackout of 2 hours recently in my village i purchased batteries for the radio i have and put them with (not in) it, try to always have a powerbank charged and i have to buy a big flashlight.
@dynogamergurl There are emergency radios that have a light source and a charger port as well. ❤
I’m so glad you, your boyfriend, and Elton are all safe and sound.
As someone who has evacuated a natural disaster but when it wasn't mandatory, it's a hard decision to make, and you feel helpless when you are physically away from it. You feel your privilege in being able to leave, and you love where you live and don't want to see harm come to it. So many mixed emotions. I'm glad you're safe, and my thoughts are with everyone in the affected areas.
I evacuated for a fire in 2020. It was coming over the ridge of the mountain closest to my house when I evacuated my family (ex-husband, kid, 3 cats). One house in my housing development burned down. I don't regret it even though our home was saved. In my opinion leave as soon as you think you need to. What people don't realize is that also the firemen and women that are fighting the fire can focus on that instead of evacuating people who can do it on their own. Don't ever apologize for taking your safety seriously. When people refuse to leave, it costs people their lives because the people who need help aren't getting it because first responders are dealing those idiots.
What a good thought.
You keeping calm in a disaster like this was probably the most helpful thing, i know you were worried about being overly dramatic but by leaning into and trusting those supports you have... you did great. Love to you, your neighbours and your community.
Not just disabled and homeless, those living paycheck to paycheck that can’t afford a hotel. But I wanted to give you a virtual hug. I became disabled after a leg infection in 2010. They saved my leg but my ankle joint is fused to the bottom of my leg. While I was still recovering from the second fusion we had an earthquake. I had an infant and a toddler and I had to grab the infant out of the crib and run for a doorway on a leg that I couldn’t walk on. I did all of it on pure adrenaline and was in huge pain afterwards. I live in N. NV and we had two terrible fires this summer, I think about what will happen if I need to run or even walk far and I can’t or having to take my wheelchair into terrain it can’t go in. ❤❤
Google all terrain wheel chair There is such a thing $300 (ebay) to $11,000 and many price points in between. Good luck. Be safe.
I am so glad that you, your partner and Elton are safe. This situation is heartbreaking to watch and beyond scary.
I have a chronic illness and during bad flare-ups, I can barely walk, let alone run. I cannot imagine how people might feel in a situation where you HAVE to run for your life, but you physically can't. Where you try to see where you have go to be safe, but you can't. Where your only chance might be to get updates on the radio, but you can't hear. Navigating a world that wasn't built with your needs in mind is scary and stressful enough, but this is just horrible.
Molly, I am so glad you followed your instincts to leave. You are not dramatic. You are sensible. Thank you for sharing your unique perspective.
This is a truly horrible situation but I am so glad that you’re all safe.
The worst thing that happens when you “be dramatic” is getting on a plane & seeing your parents.
What you were doing was being prepared. You made a calm collected decision in an awful situation & it was the best decision for everyone.
Not only did you manage to avoid being in a gridlock but you also lessend the amount of people actually needing to be evacuated.
Sending you all love from the uk & I hope that you take plenty of time away to recover from this 💕
I’m praying for everyone who was affected by this.
I don't know anyone personally affected but I know so many content creators through this platform who live in LA and I've been praying for everyone. I'm glad to hear you got out safely and didn't lose your home. I live near Phoenix and we could smell the smoke from here and it has changed the color of the sky for a few days also.
Molly, you are such a good storyteller. When we’re living in a time where it feels like something historic happens everyday, sometimes multiple times a day, it can honestly be *so* hard to keep up with and to keep feeling deeply without getting overwhelmed. I’m grateful for your perspective and your ability to communicate it so clearly and emotionally. Glad you and your close ones are safe ❤
The past 5 years have been exhausting emotionally on a global scale.
Actually, she rambles on and on. I this situation , you should lead with "I'm safe and this is were I am." Then go into the backstory.
So relieved to know that you are safe Molly! You've raised such important points for people to be mindful about. We all need to think about how to help folks with disabilities whenever the need arises, but especially in crisis situations like these. Praying for everyone to be safe and to recover from this horrible trauma! Our hearts are heavy up north for those down south! 💓
I am thankful that you and your boys are safe and sound. I was thinking of you when we heard in the UK. My son is on the spectrum and all 3 adults in the house are disabled, and this made my son and I go through again what to do in an emergency. Hopefully, this will stop him from having any more nightmares. As a teen, I think this was his first adult-type nightmare. Our hearts go out to everyone who is living through this waking nightmare. Please keep yourselves safe! If you are not in LA use this as a reminder to go over escape routes and emergency plans.
And I am also on the spectrum but thankfully my siblings and parents help me out
I used to live in Los Angeles myself for a few years. I worked in Hollywood, lived in North Hollywood and Van Nuys. I've been watching everything on the news and it's just so devastating. It looks like the earth opened up, and hellfire spit out and swallowed everything. I've never seen a fire like it. I cannot express how much my heart goes out to everyone that has lost everything. A house can be replaced, but a home is not so easy to rebuild. I'm glad you are safe, Molly.
I’m so glad you’re both safe. What you are describing is the trauma response system and trying to navigate it in a way that’s responsive versus reacting last minute and being in a life threatening position. This is such a real thing that you are highlighting. Persons with disabilities and unhoused persons, elderly, and animals are the last to receive help. I’m glad you are releasing the stress, listening to your body and taking care. Process your feelings fully and grieve it.
I’m so thankful you’re here and sharing your story.
Also living in LA and being evacuated....it is scary. I'm so sorry Molly ♡♡ glad yall are safe !
I’m glad that you and your family are safe. I immediately thought of you when I read about it on the news. Lots of love and light to all affected ❤ hugs from the Netherlands
I'm so sorry Molly, I hope you and everyone else out there stays safe - "life over limb" rules come in here, life over posessions, but I know it's still more difficult than I could possibly imagine to lose your home and belongings. I keep thinking about the homeless people in LA. I saw a tiktok today of a man saying if anyone in LA has an extra mask, give it to a homeless person, because he talked to a homeless person today who was confused by all the ash in the sky and had no idea the fires were happening. It's so heartbreaking.
Ever since reading about the LA fires, all I could think about was "I hope molly and her co are okay!!" Been checking here everyday! Glad to see this video!!! Glad you guys are okay!!! ❤
Me too. Many celebrities have lost their homes to the fires. I consider Molly a celebrity. I'm am so glad that she is ok. 👸🦮
Molly you absolutely did the right thing leaving when you did. What is happening is horrific. I feel for you all. I am in Australia and can honestly say “There but for the grace of God go I”. My heart breaks seeing all of the devastation. ❤
This is devastatingly heartbreaking. I live in the San Francisco area and I keep a bag packed at all times because of the wildfires we’ve faced. It angers me that we have denied climate change for so long, and now we are in this situation. Thank you for the video, and I am happy that you are safe.
It isn’t climate change. It was people’s arson starting the fires and they were somebody from another country that did that the illegals that came over!! This is heartbreaking to hear. Let me tell you maybe I’ll change all his mind next time and get somebody else to be your governor I hope so anyways.
@ The super winds are climate change.
My aunt lives in San Francisco she is disabled but thankfully my cousin lives with her and helps out a lot
@@supergg07it’s climate change. Arson has been going on since humanity discovered fire, that has never changed. But wildfires keep getting worse every year that the temperatures get warmer, the rain reasons get shorter, the winds get stronger and the storms more powerful. You can’t deny it any longer. It’s in your face, accept reality.
@@supergg07even if it’s not the primary cause, climate change is still an underlying contributor. It’s something that’s helping the fires along
So sorry you and everyone in LA has had to go through this horrible situation. Praying for you and everyone affected by the fires. Very happy you are safe.
I lived in a part of Oregon plagued by annual summer fires from July sometimes going as far as October. I know exactly what you mean when you described the feeling of the smoke in your lungs. One of the first big fires we experienced was very near us we prepared our cars with all our family photos and irreplaceable items, but luckily never ended up needing to evacuate. It was a surreal moment, not knowing if we were being over dramatic or pragmatic. So glad that everything worked out in a miracle for your good. God is watching out for you and loves you. :)
Oh my, Ms. Burke. I hadn't thought about where you lived. I am so happy that you are safe. A cousin (once removed; she is younger) of ours has lost her home, but she, her daughter, and their cats are safe and can stay with a close friend.
I have a friend who has an organization in California called Feed The Streets. I want to say there's a fb page, but I'm not positive. I know there will be a massive influx of unsheltered people who've lost what little they had as they look for someplace safe. Organizations like my friends can help and will need help. For areas outside the fire zones, if people want to help but don't have the ability to donate financially, time is also a great way to donate. There's going to be a lot of places that will need extra hands, just as much as material supplies. Molly, I'm thankful you have a safe place to be right now. I'm thankful you have a trustworthy partner to get you all to safety. Keep sharing links to all things, places, and Organizations that need help with finances, material items like food, water, clothes, diapers, and basic hygiene supplies, as well as where people can volunteer. I've lived through a wildfire. Bastrop, Texas in 2011. My dad had just undergone his first chemo treatment when the fire started. It's truly horrible to feel helpless and afraid. Just know that the city of Los Angeles is not alone! Everyone is praying in their own way and belief. ❤
I follow you because I also have a disability. I live in Sonoma County in Northern California and we have had devastating wildfires numerous times. It’s terribly scary and traumatic and in this area we are always ready to evacuate because you never know what may happen. I feel for you Molly. I’ve made it through more than once. You will too.
I really appreciate you sharing your perception of being in a situation like this. I think it’s so important in helping other people understand, and hopefully help others who are in similar circumstances. The LA fires alone seem terrifying, I can’t imagine what it would be like also being blind. I’m glad you are all okay, sending love 💛
When I was a kid my mom was a group guide and content curator in an information availability center for geography, she had clients that dealt with disabled people. I so much wish that you and all kind of disabled folks could have had those resources in short reach, your video makes me think that it could have been empowering. I remember how it used to feel to finally be able to fully grasp knowledge in that center, as a fellow disabled person, I still suck at geography, but love hydrolics and weather science, honestly that's why I came to your video.
I hope people read the comments too, they are wonderful.
I am so sorry you went trough this, and for all the people that did as well and those who lost so much. I can only imagine all the terror disabled folks are experiencing in this situation.
Thank you for sharing your experience and advocating for disabled and vulnerable people. 💕
I know Molly I’m an LA native and I’ve been a nervous wreck. I hope you can take care of yourself.
Thank you for letting us know you are all safe. My heart is breaking for everyone in LA. It's been awful watching for the past few days. As someone (a blind someone) who is terrified of fire anyway, who had had her fair share, more than that, of for related tradgedy, I can truly empathise 💔💔💔
I really hope you will be alright, sweetheart molly. The world and the blind community needs you. I so proud of you. You are a very brave woman
Dear Molly Burke: I am happy to see and hear you alive. I thought about you yesterday. I hope for you, that your house does not get affected by the fire. Hug from me.
I have a relative in Los Feliz who is on oxygen and had to go to a hospital to plug in during the power outage. I have a friend who's a performer on vocal rest and she bugged out entirely and drove to Vegas. I hope you remain safe and well.
I'm so glad your mom recoded that moment, and that you shared it. Your convo really opened my eyes to your reality, thank you for sharing this whole video
Praying for everyone being affected ❤️
I'm about an hour south of LA and I've been through the 2003 and 2007 fires. I'm also blind and it's terrifying. I was getting concerned about how you were doing. Glad you're safe.
In 2003 my husband had to drive through flames on either side of the road to get us away. We had us, my then working guide dog and my first retired guide dog and nothing else. We were ultimately fine and we even volunteered at the shelter we stayed in. We returned home the next day and it was surreal.
🫶Sending love from Maryland. My heart goes out to yourself and everyone in Cali. My sister Michelle is in California with her 6 year old daughter Bella, so this hits especially hard.
Molly, you did the right thing and I'm so glad your little nuclear family is safe.
In the summer of 2023, we had wildfires surrounding our little city. My family lived 25 minutes away from us, and my cousin decided to go see what the situation was. He said it was only about 6 km away from them. So they came to our place (I was living with and taking care of my grandma at the time). after a long conversation as a family, I woke up the next morning bright and early to my mom calling me saying "I don't want you to panic, but I want you to wake up grandma, pack some things, we'll be there in an hour. We're getting out." We were not under evac order, but we had myself, my grandma and my SIL's mom visiting and we all suffer with asthma. so we decided to get out. we drove 12 hours to our family's home. That "I'm safe, but what the ***** just happened" debrief is the most surreal, scary feeling.
I am absolutely devastated for you guys and I am so glad you're safe! I am praying for all of LA during this incredibly scary time.
I don’t know anyone or about anyone who lives in LA (I live in Sweden) except for you. When I heard about the fires you were the first person I thought about. We’re all really, really glad that you and your family are safe Molly! 💛💛
I will be praying for everyone being affected by this. I’m so glad you and your family are ok.
Sending you love, Molly and everyone impacted. ❤️❤️❤️!
So glad you got out of there early and are safe. Even if it had ended up that you didn’t need to leave or evacuate, it’s always better safe than sorry and it’s a few less people using resources (water, electricity, etc.) and that in itself helps others who can’t leave.
So glad you and your bf and Elton are ok. We all appreciate your first-person account; it helps us to comprehend the reality.
I think for those with disabilities, it is good to lean on the side of caution. I’m glad to hear your side of the story, being stuck in traffic, having to get out of the car ect. Would be far too much for anyone let alone someone with disabilities
Molly I'm glad you and your boyfriend and Elton are safe my heart breaks for everyone affected by the fires ❤
I been seeing the news on TV and seeing all over TT and I was thinking how horrible and terrifying it must be. I was thinking about all the people, disabled individual, and all the pets. As someone who also has RP I can't imagine what you all went through. You all are very strong. Prayers sent to you and all in LA, prayers for all animals and prayers for all the fire fighters.. 🙏🏼💜💜
Molly, hearing your story is so scary. I just want to give you a hug. Thank God you are safe and that you got out when you did.
How scary! Im so glad you got out and had a place to go.
It would be so hard not only for you not to see what's around you and how untangible the horror is.... but also to your partner who tries to inform you while they are trying to process it too.
I'm so glad you two work so well together with empathy. You understand he has the weight of making sighted choices... and him empathizing with not being able to see what's happening and having such limited ways of helping.
We all have emergency blindspots- and having empathy and relying on strengths is how we make it out.
I'm so sad for everyone out there. Hearbreaking and so hard to grapple with.
Omg I am so glad you posted! I was so worried! I am in the desert so if you know anyone who needs help I know so many over here are just waiting to help. I am just so glad it is hopefully calming down a bit wind wise so they have a chance to control these fires. We couldn’t see more than a couple feet here in the peak of the wind so I can only imagine how HORRIBLE the winds were on the coast where they are usually stronger.
Thank you for sharing your experience. You're calling for community building between neighbors and able-bodied and disabled people, which is good for daily life and emergencies. We started that here some years ago by creating small local informal "check in with your neighbor" groups. I'm disabled and on long term care insurance... my case manager, insurance company, and a community resource all check in with me before and after hurricanes/tropical storms go through... Checking to make sure I have what I need. Neighbors, family, and friends check in with me to see if I need anything. It works and it makes a difference.
Thank you for sharing your story, Molly. This visibility is so important.
I am so glad you are all okay and your house too. I can't even imagine the grief.
That’s so scary. So thankful you’re okay. Prayers for LA 😢
A few years ago I moved to Oregon. It was the biggest dream I've ever had and I was planning on staying there until I died. I knew they had wildfires, but I didn't realize the true extent of it. When wildfire season started, I realized the gravity of the situation and was under constant stress and anxiety. I was high strung anxious 24/7. Fires kept popping up not too far from where I was. I was constantly checking the fire maps and news. I did get some relief when my landlords promised me they would get me and everyone in the apartment complex out if we needed to evacuate. I'm deaf, so I was terrified I wouldn't hear the evacuation order and get left behind.
I had bags for both me and my dog packed at the front door. It was so scary watching everything turn orange and hazy. I have pictures of a wildfire right outside my apartment. Thankfully they got that one under control quick. But my biggest fear was that I was going to be at work, we would need to evacuate, and I wouldn't be able to get to my dog in time and get out.
Between the fires and high prices of everything, I had to leave. I couldn't handle it. I left a piece of my heart there and I'll never get it back.
So happy you’re safe 💗 keeping all of Southern California in my prayers 🫶
I’m glad you guys are OK. I grew up in Southern California. I left many years ago and really don’t know too many people there anymore, but my heart breaks for anyone who has been dealing with this devastation.
No comparing.. but the Joplin tornado... where I went to school... the Trauma of those events take time... take your time. We love you and hope the best for everyone involved.
Thank you so much for making this video, Molly. Those who are not disabled in that way oftentimes see the fires and find it heartbreaking, but forget the individuals who don’t have the support that you do. Thinking of everyone during this hard time.. my cousin who is a chief firefighter up in Seattle is down there fighting the fires in LA. Hoping that everyone can stay as safe as possible through this - humans and people alike.
Sending you love and support from NY!
It's scary enough being 'able bodied' in an emergency! Happy to hear you're all safe.
thank you for sharing your story and explaining how your blindness changed how the experience was for you. it helps others put into perspective and have more care and compassion for those around us. i am so glad you and your family are safe. leaving early as a a precaution was so smart. definitely not dramatic to be safe instead of sorry.
I’m so glad you were able to escape. I left my home years ago when there was a much smaller fire near me. Everyone thought I was over reacting as no one else left but like you said, you don’t know how things can change. And being disabled it added to me not wanting to wait. So don’t ever apologize for being so called “dramatic”. Those are instincts that one day can save your life! Disasters like this are also a reminder to the rest of us of the importance of having a “go bag”. A backpack or suitcase as the ready that you can grab in an emergency with a bit of cash in it, important medication and documents, some bottled water, snacks, undies.
Molly, thank God you are safe, and despite what you have just experienced, your still trying to inform and help others stay safe. Sending love prayers and positive thoughts.
I'm so glad you are safe and that your parents were able to help. Home it's supposed to be your safe space, and for so many that's gone. My mum's cousin had a house in Santa Monica and it's all gone. You did a great job keeping calm, but considering the gravity of the situation even when you second guessed yourself. Wishing you all the best. I know LA community will bounce back.
Just hearing about these fires is terrifying! I can't imagine how it must be actually living it... and, like you said, Molly, many of our community is at a terrible disadvantage when it comes to life -or- death situations. My thoughts are with everyone, disabled or not, who're affected by this. Stay as safe as you can and be well, y'all! -a disabled Iowan
I'm so sorry you're going through this and my heart goes out to everyone in LA. As someone with a disability who can't (legally) drive and can't live without meds, it's so true that we need to do a lot of planning and exercise extra prudence in emergencies.
I’m so glad to hear you and your family are safe. Thank you for sharing your experience and for speaking on the unique perspective you have in emergency situations. Sending you all the good vibes ❤
So glad you and your boyfriend are safe. Prayers to all that are affected by this horrific fire.
I'm glad you weren't alone during this. Praying for you guys 🙏🏻
I’m so glad you are ok. I honestly don’t know what I would do. I’m not in a position to save myself in a situation like that my prayers go out to everyone. So many stories of caregivers leaving disabled and elderly people behind have me numb.
I am so thankful that the three of you are safe. What a heartbreaking situation. Thank you for sharing your story.
I'm so glad you're okay and your boyfriend was there to help you. I worry about natural disasters as a blind women with two young children under 4. Thinking of being in a situation like that without my husband but having my kids with me gives me more anxiety than worrying about myself so yeah just not knowing what to do. Stay safe.
I’m glad you and your family are safe. I was worried. ❤
I’m sending you and all people displaced from this devastating disaster so much love and hope. My heart is so heavy.
I pray for all of you in Cali my heart is broken for ya 😢
I am so glad you are safe. I was surprised to see you bundled because I thought Santa Ana winds were warm. I learned from my bro and fam the importance of having a go-kit ready and leaving early when dealing with kids with disabilities so the kids don't panic from the sensory stuff. They drive a little further away to not deal with the mess/stress of trying to find hotels locally and its just less distressing for the girls. I think its so important that in an emergency, we slow down and check in and look out for our disabled neighbors who are single or those no transportation.
As a fellow Angeleno (resident of Los Angeles), I am so happy that you and your loved ones are safe!!! I managed to run into you, Elton, and Niamh in a shopping center in Studio City last year and it made my night.
I’m so glad you’re ok!! I’m so sorry you had to experience this. I’ll be praying for LA.
So glad to hear you, Elton, and your boyfriend are okay, Molly! So sorry you had to go through that, it is terrible all around!! Sending good, supportive vibes to you and all your neighbors!!
I love how well you and your boyfriend communicate and get thru an emergency
Thank you for this Molly, it is greatly appreciated. My heart goes out to all those who are dealing with this disaster especially those with disabilities. I'm glad you guys left when you did and are safe. The awareness you bring is very helpful. Stay safe and give your partner and Elton a big hug, mom and dad too!❤
Thank you for raising awareness by sharing your experience. So glad that you and your family are safe.
Molly I’m so thankful you’re safe. This made me tear up. From one blind girl to another.
This is such an important video. I don't have the words but my heart is going out to you and all of LA. I'm sure your mom and dad are so happy to have you with them. As a mom myself I bet she was terrified until you were hugging her. ❤️
I'm so sorry you had to go through this, and still have the worry for your home, loved ones, friends, and wider community. Sending love and support.
I'm so glad y'all made it out safely and have a place to stay with loved ones. I can't even imagine how you felt and feel. I've been in prayer ever since I found out 🙏🙏
It breaks myheart to hear you talk about your experience, I am sending all the love and prayers I can from the east coast.
Sending you lots of love, Molly ❤️ I’m so glad you’re safe
Glad you're safe Molly, take care!
What amazingly perfect timing - that Christmas gift. Seemingly little things end up being so significant in a crisis. Thanks for posting this video to share your experience. Now hope you’ll take your time to recover from what you’ve been through. What a shocking event to go through. Glad you’re safe and well 💗
Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm so glad that you got out and are safe.
Thank you for sharing your perspective and your story on this! I've gained a lot of insight from the experiences you've shared over the years 🤗 The scale of this fire is really unprecedented. So glad to hear you're all safe.
I am so glad you all are safe.
I’m so glad you’re safe. I don’t know about other natural disasters, but leaving early when your area is under threat, is so important for fires. You made the right decision. It’s also so emotional, watching your area burn. Even when you’re safe. You’re not alone in what you’re feeling, even without the added difficulties of being a disabled person. I can only imagine how much harder that is. My mum is wheelchair user & her only way out is in an accessible taxi or public transport. I don’t know what we’d do if we needed to get her out. Other than we’d need to leave the second there was a fire that could come in this direction.