WHY ARE RELATIONSHIPS HARD FOR EMPATHS

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  • Опубліковано 28 гру 2024

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  • @katemerrill7308
    @katemerrill7308 17 годин тому +15

    So true. I didn't think anyone else understood!

  • @beverleyreid563
    @beverleyreid563 19 годин тому +16

    What a tough life for the empath to walk. Sigh! (I am exhausted).

  • @newworldlove7031
    @newworldlove7031 День тому +28

    I really believe I have experienced more unconditional love, exceptance from cats and animals in general compared to most human relationships. I'm done with dating men and most friends have been really shitty to me too. Peace for me is being alone!!

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  22 години тому +3

      @@newworldlove7031 yes, pets ❤️

    • @Amber-b3g
      @Amber-b3g 20 годин тому +1

      I agree !!
      I love my two cats 🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛ and generally animals are sweet and easy to love. They give us so much if we let them !!
      🙏💜🌸

    • @kellychellin
      @kellychellin 11 годин тому

      Absolutely 🖤

  • @kaenova
    @kaenova 20 годин тому +14

    Had to subscribe. This was spot on. Thank you.

  • @SheCanSmile
    @SheCanSmile День тому +22

    So spot on. Now I know I'm not crazy.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  22 години тому

      @@SheCanSmile definitely not crazy

    • @RobBBeatz
      @RobBBeatz 20 годин тому

      say that!! lol... your not.. your powerful... balance it... peace, love and light...

    • @thatosegopolo9072
      @thatosegopolo9072 11 годин тому +3

      I concur @ SheCanSmile just met someone about ten days ago I was excited just feeling the warm fuzzy feelings for them which doesn't happen much in my world yesterday just yesterday I felt this energetic shift I didn't like it, I just know now I have to breakoff this connection because I don't want to find out in pain what's in-store 4 me 🙏💐

    • @tracienicole7692
      @tracienicole7692 11 хвилин тому

      Yes! Yes!🙌🏽

  • @jaselaetienne6432
    @jaselaetienne6432 День тому +30

    5% now it totally makes sense. I didn’t think it was that small

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  День тому +4

      @@jaselaetienne6432 different surveys say different things. Average conclusion is between 5-20% depending on country too. Either way, MINORITY ❤️‍🩹

    • @bblin9934
      @bblin9934 День тому +3

      But we are growing..our children or one of them are also an empath and if there is space for it, we learn them how to cope with that. Our parents or one of them were also an empath but didn't had the freedom yet to develop this.

    • @sandytx7661
      @sandytx7661 14 годин тому

      Yes, I feel the same way😮 only 5%

  • @lifeinthestellasphere
    @lifeinthestellasphere 13 годин тому +7

    Yep this is me! I have often cried myself to sleep, wondering what was wrong with me and why I was so different from most people around me and why I can’t seem to settle into a relationship with anyone because I just always feel crowded and overwhelmed and underwhelmed by the actual person and their efforts.. not to mention, I tend to have men that tell me they are afraid of me because of the light and power that I carry because I am so confident now from all the things I’ve been through, strengthen myself from so much pain because I was just tired of giving into people and just feeling miserable with the person.. but I’ve learned this about myself over the last few years and I’m OK with it now because now I understand who I am and I know how to manage my relationships with other people. I may not really have a serious relationship anytime soon.😂😂😂

  • @jennajewert
    @jennajewert 18 годин тому +10

    Thank you for this. As a never married, always single, no kids, HSP introverted empath, I wondered why it's always been so easy to be alone. I don't feel lonely. I enjoy connecting but sometimes relationships feel "too much"...overwhelming, difficult, scary, overstimulating or they can just feel like work; unrewarding or lopsided where I give way more than I get back. This is interesting and validating so thank you 🙏

  • @maddart4445
    @maddart4445 Годину тому +3

    I listen and listen and listen and when someone asks about me I don’t know where to begin. I’m a pro at redirecting the conversation back to them. If I do talk about myself I tell people I’m a creative person with lots of interests and then I name the project I’m working on that way I’m not getting to deep.

  • @lynnsteed9979
    @lynnsteed9979 8 годин тому +6

    Thank you for this❤ being an empath can definitely feel like a blessing and a curse

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  8 годин тому

      Indeed it can... once you gain the tools you'll learn it's a blessing.

  • @therippleeffect1983
    @therippleeffect1983 3 години тому +3

    So beautiful Said and I recognize my self alote in this

  • @mariaridler1831
    @mariaridler1831 Годину тому +1

    Every single words resonate. I gave up trying to communicate and am now alone but peaceful. God bless all

  • @colorfulsin
    @colorfulsin 22 години тому +14

    So after a traumatic childhood only 5% decide to be an empath and the other 95% choose narcissism. That makes a lot of sense

  • @Smillasp
    @Smillasp 29 хвилин тому +2

    I just found your channel, and thank you so much.
    I have a feeling you could help me with the challenges I have as an empath.
    Sometimes I feel like something inside me is gonna BURST and it hurts sooooo bad!! 😭 No one (or at least very few) seems to understand how much this can hurt!! 💔😞

  • @Amber-b3g
    @Amber-b3g День тому +14

    It’s true!
    There’s not many high frequency people around.
    My partner has a very high frequency. He clears demonic shadow energy patterns from peoples energy fields over the phone. His frequency is close to 1:million. As part of his work he measures a person’s frequency according to radionics (homeopathy) and uses the radionics machine to help to clear their energy field. This is how I know that there’s a lot of narcissists around. I have learned to intuitively measure an individual frequency numerically. It’s a very sobering reality that we humans have been so overtaken by the fourth astral demonic realm. For me sending love and light into the darkness fixes most things. 🙏💜🌸

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  22 години тому

      @@Amber-b3g 🙌

    • @oj816
      @oj816 12 годин тому +1

      @Amber-b3g I’m curious learning more about what your husband does and how I can learn more for myself please!

  • @elizarodriguez2876
    @elizarodriguez2876 День тому +15

    You nailed this Vital, even with friendship this is true, probably why I only have a handful of friends.

  • @sandytx7661
    @sandytx7661 14 годин тому +6

    Wow……..only 5% 😳 that’s a lot smaller than I thought. *******We need to start an Empath Group****** I honestly thought something was wrong with me, until your channel popped up. Now, I know why I’m this way. Yes, I see through others very well😮 FACTS💯. Thank you so very much Vital. GOD Bless🙏🏼

  • @KA-yz2ld
    @KA-yz2ld 40 хвилин тому +1

    Thank God I am at the point where I am happy to let people be where they are at. I have done enough, it is time to take care of me and loving myself.

  • @KingAtreides03
    @KingAtreides03 57 хвилин тому +1

    As an empathic person, this makes sense.

  • @dhiyaaabdullah2192
    @dhiyaaabdullah2192 День тому +7

    This message resonates deeply. Thank you.

  • @kellysnyclife663
    @kellysnyclife663 9 годин тому +2

    This described me to the tea!!! Omg

  • @MissShellBayleaf44
    @MissShellBayleaf44 День тому +6

    I am learning to live ( as an empath) & let live.🎉

  • @yahyah9184
    @yahyah9184 День тому +9

    Resonate with this message whole heartedly.Thank you for sharing your divine intelligence and healing wisdom of confirmation.

  • @tombain5665
    @tombain5665 18 годин тому +4

    So true and well constructed analysis of my experience. INFJ Sigma and Hyper empath. Exhausting isn't it. Well done

  • @HaleyMary
    @HaleyMary 11 годин тому +3

    This is so spot on! I've wondered why it's been so difficult for me to meet a life partner. So, are people who aren't empaths intimidated by the auras of empaths? How can I stop scaring people away?

  • @trinity6203
    @trinity6203 Годину тому +1

    Absolutely 💯🤗 I’m so happy to finally find a closer explanation of how and who I am. It has been a very hard journey, but I’m glad that at this point in the history of humanity and the evolution of communication finally we can relate to the empath concept and personality 🤗🙏💕 Thank you!

  • @MsNieshaBean
    @MsNieshaBean 20 годин тому +6

    I strongly believe, this video was meant for me to hear today. I absolutely operate in the world this way but I couldn't articulate how/why. Thank you so much for this information and how you explained. New Subbie here!

  • @RobBBeatz
    @RobBBeatz 20 годин тому +5

    i appreciate you sharing this God... peace, love and light...🙏.... as you were talking im saying to myself that we see.... then later you say it lol.... im feeling great listening to someone thats me... really appreciate you...

  • @oraclemystic77
    @oraclemystic77 20 годин тому +4

    Resonates entirely thank you. Quite comfortable now to stay solo I have learned enough mirror lessons 😅 Bless 🙏🏽

  • @CreatedSpacespodcast
    @CreatedSpacespodcast День тому +5

    Finally someone that understands me, and can literally explain me to me❤️🙏🏽💯✨😘 I’ am most certainly going through a true awakening!!! This transformation is deep! I need more! I subscribed ❤✨🙏🏽❤️

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  22 години тому +1

      @@CreatedSpacespodcast ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

  • @AlbaArango
    @AlbaArango День тому +6

    Such great information, explains so much. This video is great for non-empaths as well.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  День тому +2

      Glad to know it applies to "non empaths" but it also includes HSP, very kind giving people etc.

  • @medusagorgon9
    @medusagorgon9 День тому +6

    This makes so much sense. I feel so tired with trying sometimes. I have to remove myself because as I get older I have also taken on physical energy. I had excruciating back pain for about a week after speaking to a stranger who was going through a lot of hardships. I greeted him at random and he just began speaking. I felt so saddened and outraged on his behalf. One thing he kept saying was that he felt 'stabbed in the back'! Which of course explains the pain. It sounds weird, but I eventually asked the back pain to leave. After three tries it finally did. But I have had other experiences in a very similar way. Sometimes I feel the energy of people so deeply it feels like my own energy. Once I focus on the energy I can normally pinpoint who it is. The person does not have to be physically with me, but I can still feel them, know what they're thinking and at times hear them. It's a relief once I realize it's not me! Of course this is after I've spent hours or days wondering why I'm feeling frustrated, depressed, anxious etc. Once I stood by someone at the airport who was so extremely nervous...I became sick and almost threw up! I DO want to help them, but sometimes I need to stay away for my own peace of mind! And I know they don't always want to hear what I have to say, even when I give solutions that will benefit them only. I don't get anything out of it. So people try to deliberately hide things from me, but it doesn't really work. I still feel them, and just know somehow.😓🤷🏽‍♀️ I just leave them alone. It does make me sad though because my sole aim is to be a support. There is no judgement. I am perfectly content to let people be themselves.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  День тому

      @@medusagorgon9 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @Amber-b3g
      @Amber-b3g День тому +2

      I am also super sensitive and I can very easily take on other peoples energy. I have also learned how to identify what is my energy and what is “trespass” or other peoples energy. I also try to identify from where the energy has come and I cast it out of my field with love and light. I believe that demons are disabled by love and light. It is some days very hard work. It can be intense. I think it’s getting a little easier for me and I am becoming more skilled and intuitive at identifying what’s going on. I believe that it is my right and my responsibility to protect my energy from trespass.
      Best wishes🙏💜🌸

  • @almeidareis
    @almeidareis День тому +4

    This is very accurate... I have been in this pattern several times... Rather is friendship, lovers, work, family. Etc.
    I never thought that we were only 5% and I could see how we start from the premise that people have the ability we have.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  22 години тому

      @@almeidareis 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @1monarara
    @1monarara 23 години тому +4

    Wow, thank you for putting it so clearly. It makes me understand the dynamics of my last relationship so much better!

  • @pstew37
    @pstew37 21 годину тому +2

    This explains a lot. Thank you

  • @themagicchi-ve1nq
    @themagicchi-ve1nq 18 годин тому +2

    Great video. I had to listen to it twice to get the full integration of the information.

  • @fionataylor4269
    @fionataylor4269 День тому +5

    Thank you. Keep well empaths.

  • @renewwithremi
    @renewwithremi 19 годин тому +2

    This was such a comforting message to receive right before the new year. Watched 3 times to digest properly. Thank you! 🙏🏿

  • @orcaunoo
    @orcaunoo 15 годин тому +3

    This was so good. Thank you

  • @Wholesome_Mystic
    @Wholesome_Mystic 21 годину тому +2

    I’m here just nodding my head in agreement as you speak and I feel a lil guilty or wrong for being able to see people and recognize if they align with my core values or not and if not then I want to isolate and be around that person as little as possible but the real bad feeling is that like you said sometimes we can see further then they can see if themselves so they may not even know or be aware of certain issues they have and for me to not want to be around them feels wrong ( that is until they actually begin acting in the way that I’ve already perceived them to be and once they start projecting and lying on me is when I no longer feel guilty or wrong because now it’s showing but when I can see and perceive that before it happens and want to distance myself from the person makes me feel like I’m playing God and passing judgment even tho I know I’m only reading their energy and noticing the misalignment from the high vibrational core values I endear

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  21 годину тому

      @@Wholesome_Mystic 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @user-hg9os4lw4g
    @user-hg9os4lw4g 23 години тому +3

    Thank you for this unexpected gem this morning! 🙏🏼💖🕊️✨

  • @KingAtreides03
    @KingAtreides03 26 хвилин тому

    Infp here, it’s tough in these relationships in general not just partners

  • @dianehodges6554
    @dianehodges6554 15 годин тому +1

    100% spot on...thank you❤

  • @LAMM117
    @LAMM117 39 хвилин тому

    THIS is the best video I've seen and makes SOOOO much sense; had to subscribe! Thank you thank you thank you 🙏🤗

  • @wisesagie1491
    @wisesagie1491 14 годин тому +1

    OMG! That explains so much, thank you so very much for making this video! And its magical how the video found me!

  • @janineholiwell1602
    @janineholiwell1602 18 годин тому

    Thank you so much for this information 🦋I continue to experience this over and over again and I am so disappointed 🦋I feel like an alien sometimes and feel like just giving up on finding my Life Partner and continue to Love on me 🦋The only thing missing in my life is my Life Partner 🦋

  • @bblin9934
    @bblin9934 День тому +4

    Absolute...

  • @siogbeagbideach
    @siogbeagbideach 14 годин тому +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @jacrowe3477
    @jacrowe3477 18 годин тому +2

    Great video thank you, much appreciated

  • @AllanaJewell
    @AllanaJewell День тому +2

    This message seems like a direct conversation with me... so much so as it's beautiful and frightening at the same time. I am literally living this now with someone that I love and care for tremendously. I have had MULTIPLE conversations where literally some of these EXACT phrases were said in where it boils down to me feeling soooooo misunderstood in simple things and I am trying to align enough and be PATIENT enough where those misunderstandings can result in growing us in love and not breaking us in chaos. Thank you. Very happy to have come across your channel. Happy New Year.

  • @aprild2253
    @aprild2253 Годину тому

    Damn this video hit. If some of the people I’ve been in relationship with, would listen to this video. Would they still consider me as the crazy/bad one…I wonder

  • @laurak.donham8374
    @laurak.donham8374 16 годин тому

    5% yikes! Thank you. I was having strange dreams that got me reflecting on this very subject. Appreciate your insight

  • @brightstarskeepus
    @brightstarskeepus Годину тому

    A lot of times I just don’t love being this way. Seems that social situations are hard for me anymore and I feel like a socially isolated freak to save my energy 😢

  • @katrinakelly5908
    @katrinakelly5908 20 годин тому +1

    🙏🏼

  • @SheCanSmile
    @SheCanSmile День тому +5

    And yet they won't leave us alone. Sigh.

  • @cameliaturda6472
    @cameliaturda6472 4 години тому +1

    💜

  • @trish9768
    @trish9768 3 години тому

    I do have problems in finding someone because I see there faults really fast certain things I can't tolerate

  • @alexheals
    @alexheals 17 годин тому +1

    This in incredibly accurate! 🥹

  • @maryannestewart2384
    @maryannestewart2384 3 години тому

    Wow this for me is fascinating and it makes sense but how do you know if your a empath if only 5% of people are in the world? I am very good at reading people that I don't even know and sometimes it freaks me out? Thanks 😮😊❤

  • @the_feisty_vegan_llc
    @the_feisty_vegan_llc 20 хвилин тому

    💚

  • @scotslasskimberley172
    @scotslasskimberley172 9 годин тому +1

    Crap!! I had a whole story, as usual, and went to check information, list the whole damn thing . . 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😊