I was asked to listen PAT BENATAR Heartbreaker | Reaction!!

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  • @poloreacts27
    @poloreacts27  Місяць тому +24

    Thanks for watching. Most of my requests come from here and I also read the comments below. If you want to support the show you can do that here www.patreon.com/poloreacts or show your love for the channel by buying me a coffee using this link www.buymeacoffee.com/poloreacts

    • @goosebump801
      @goosebump801 Місяць тому +3

      🙋‍♀️ Hi Polo! I’m new to your channel; have been bingeing your back catalog. ❤️
      A few suggestions:
      “Hit Me With Your Best Shot” (Pat Benatar”
      “I Love Rock & Roll” (Joan Jett)
      “Tupelo Honey” (Van Morrison)
      “Workin’ at the Carwash Blues” (Jim Croce)
      “The Gambler” (Kenny Rogers)
      “When Doves Cry” (Prince)
      “While My Guitar Gently Weeps” (Kennedy Center Honors for George Harrison by Tom Petty and a whole host of other stars, including Prince with a stunning guitar solo)
      And anything else (literally, anything) by Billy Joel, Styx, or Queen
      Thanks for overcoming your fear of being on camera to share your reactions with us. As a 58yo white woman, I love watching my favorite music appeal to younger people 👍💐

    • @clangley1959
      @clangley1959 Місяць тому +1

      Glad you liked this one. I was hoping you'd review it. And yes, you guessed right on the husband.

    • @markupton1417
      @markupton1417 Місяць тому

      For a modern badass female lead singer check out the pretty reckless...death by rock n roll

  • @richardhenderson9767
    @richardhenderson9767 Місяць тому +72

    Hit Me With Your Best Shot, Love Is A Battlefield, Hell Is For Children, All Fired Up.... We Belong is a slower, amazing song... all by the great Pat Benetar!!!❤❤❤

    • @steverocks99
      @steverocks99 Місяць тому

      Here's my Heart is beautiful as well.

  • @sasapejcin3568
    @sasapejcin3568 22 дні тому +1

    One of the few songs perfect from start to finish!

  • @roevega9902
    @roevega9902 Місяць тому +48

    I was a freshman in HS. Pat was a senior. We were in choir. Mrs Ruel the choir teacher thought she would be an opera singer. Surprise! Pat revered Mrs. Ruel till her death in 2006.

  • @brettprice5600
    @brettprice5600 Місяць тому +92

    The guy with the guitar is her husband, Neil Giraldo. He wasn't when this video was made. He married her in 1982. They were inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame .

    • @FredD63
      @FredD63 Місяць тому +4

      There are 3 guys with guitars … HaHaa 👍🏻

    • @Asiram323
      @Asiram323 Місяць тому +3

      Yeah she def didn’t marry the bouncing balding dude on bass 😂

    • @FredD63
      @FredD63 Місяць тому +4

      @@Asiram323 🤣🤣

    • @debbywilkins2239
      @debbywilkins2239 Місяць тому +4

      Polo, check out Heart. Ann & Nancy Wilson are great female rock singers.
      Magic Man, Barracuda, Straight Up

    • @bballajh
      @bballajh Місяць тому +3

      The guy with the swag.

  • @Tbirdhaynes
    @Tbirdhaynes Місяць тому +2

    Neil “SPYDER” Giraldo is an incredibly amazing guitarist and criminally underrated!

  • @cpeak5000
    @cpeak5000 Місяць тому +17

    Pat is a Rock Legend, Hell is for Children, Fire and Ice, Invincible, Love is a Battlefield, Shadows of the Night,

  • @breeziedreamz
    @breeziedreamz Місяць тому +9

    You Better Run is a totally smoking song. She was giving off that ultra GIRL POWER vibe. The MTV video is great. That outfit! She knew fashion and she definitely had the figure to wear it. Great vocals and a simple riff, but really a great song. The ultimate 'kick em to the curb' song.

  • @raeann63
    @raeann63 Місяць тому +3

    yes, awesome and handsome LEAD guitarist neil "spyder" giraldo is the guy that became her husband, just a few short years after this performance. they are both extremely lucky and down-to-earth people to have each other 😊
    she has many, many more but you've hit most of my fav pat songs ("promises in the dark" - my most favourite, "fire & ice", and now "heartbreaker") so what's left on my list is:
    you better run
    treat me right
    shadows of the night (one of my other most favourites)
    and if you're in the mood for a little less rock 'n roll, more synth/dance/pop, "we live for love" is excellent too.
    also: if you wanna hear more of neil giraldo's excellent guitar work, check out rick springfield's huge hit "jessie's girl" with neil's sweet, sweet guitar solo.
    lovin these pat reactions, polo! keep em comin! ❤

  • @greg2976
    @greg2976 Місяць тому +19

    She aged quite beautifully! And still has a voice!!!! Kudos to their marriage !!!! Neil is a exceptional guitarist!!!!!

  • @Jude_196
    @Jude_196 Місяць тому +7

    OK - I MUST have heard this song 1000s of times, over the years - and, JUST got chills from the first refrain she just hit in this performance!! LOVED PAT BENETAR: STILL DO!!!! ENJOY, POLO!! THANKS for the reactions, Hon!!!

  • @angelicwatkins2319
    @angelicwatkins2319 Місяць тому +8

    You were right. It's the guy with the swagger. Nabbed her up and I would have to guess that they are probably the longest married couple in Rock and roll history. I could be wrong but I honestly don't know of any other rock and roll duet that is been married as long as they have.. not only a musical inspiration but an inspiration in relationship longevity as well. And nobody would dare remake this song because nobody has the pipes that this woman has. She cannot be duplicated, nor could anybody possibly improve on this song? This was musical magic and that only happens once my friend so enjoy it in its true masterful form!

  • @Eyes_Wide_Open_Always
    @Eyes_Wide_Open_Always Місяць тому +6

    Love is a battlefield was one of my favorites of hers. 70’s and 80’s was the greatest music in history!

  • @khismet
    @khismet 29 днів тому +2

    Those of us that grew up on MTV of any race (yes even black kids) was listening to Pat Benatar..she was included in our musical rotation! ❤ Good Music and Crazy Fashion .. we loved it all.😂

  • @loridyndorcurtiss
    @loridyndorcurtiss Місяць тому +10

    And her voice is STILL amazing today, just as strong and in the pocket as always!

  • @David-s6e4q
    @David-s6e4q Місяць тому

    Go ahead and say it….We all wish that either pat was our mom or that our own mom was this bad ass ❤

  • @heidi6063
    @heidi6063 Місяць тому +3

    Promises in the Dark, Fire and Ice, All Fired Up, You Better Run 😊. Love Pat Benatar ❤

  • @josiepkat
    @josiepkat Місяць тому

    This song was featured in the chase scene of the movie "Nobody" in 2021. If you saw that movie, you heard this song. It was a great scene - a perfect showcase for the song! I believe her husband is the lead guitar player in the striped shirt. I only say "I believe" because this is a REALLY early video I've never seen before - but he's a really handsome guy and criminally underrated guitar player. I had a babysitter in 1980 who was one of those "hot moms" - long blonde hair, drove a jeep - of course I looked up to her because she was super cool. She loved Pat Benatar and played her all the time. It was a lot to look up to for a 10 year-old. VERY VERY few women did this kind of music - Heart, The Runaways, and a few girl punk bands . I still have Benatar's 2nd, 3rd, and 4th albums - the originals I bought at the time with my own money. I got to see her for the first time live in 2004 in Toledo Ohio - She was as amazing as I knew she would be. A trained voice, so it's well preserved. Thanks for these amazing reactions.

  • @jenniferdickinson3491
    @jenniferdickinson3491 Місяць тому +4

    My first concert September 15th. 1981 in the Rochester NY war memorial, will never forget it!!

  • @DavidHall-d8q
    @DavidHall-d8q Місяць тому +1

    I remember Pat Benetar at the First Rocklahoma Concert with Sammy Hagar ( solo act then ) and VanHalen ( Best VanHalen show I saw 4 of them ) and the ...Doobie Brothers . I was pure MAGIC . PK

  • @MarkChappell1
    @MarkChappell1 Місяць тому +1

    As other's have probably said, "Hit me with your best Shot" was the same time period for her and another great song.

  • @TVSERIESANDFILMREVIEW
    @TVSERIESANDFILMREVIEW Місяць тому +5

    Pat is a trained Opera singer. She flipped the script and came out guns blazing as a rock singer.

  • @patches6309
    @patches6309 25 днів тому

    Great choice Polo, Pat Benatar is deservingly in the RRHOF as she should be with her incredible power and range. She was always in the top 20 with a hit all thruout the most of the 80s as far as I can remember.

  • @allenm.1537
    @allenm.1537 Місяць тому +5

    Promises in the dark and Fire and ice are amazing tracks

  • @valeriegustafson9086
    @valeriegustafson9086 Місяць тому +3

    Pat Benatar was formally trained opera vocalist

  • @robsykes1491
    @robsykes1491 Місяць тому +50

    The world needs more women rockers!

    • @boroblueyes
      @boroblueyes Місяць тому +1

      Try some Miley Cyrus cover songs.

    • @BrimHawk
      @BrimHawk Місяць тому +4

      @@boroblueyes Oh hell no.

    • @boroblueyes
      @boroblueyes Місяць тому +1

      @@BrimHawk it'll be your loss. She's received accolades from Lars Ulrich and Metallica after singing with Metallica, Dolly Parton, Robert Plant, The Rolling Stones, Stevie Nicks just to name a few. She receives standing ovations at festivals like Glastonbury with 300,000 fans when she covers rock tunes. If you don't like Miley's rock music covers, you aren't much of a music fan and have no soul for rock. Just my opinion, just like yours.

    • @BrimHawk
      @BrimHawk Місяць тому

      @@boroblueyes I'm 61, been to dozens of rock concerts. So agreed, no soul for rock, lol. Seen Boston, Triumph, The Cars, The Who, Pink Floyd, AC/DC, The Guess Who, and plenty of other rock bands. Your supporting list is rather weak, IMO. I would be much more impressed with Miley Cyrus, if she was capable of writing, AND performing her own songs. Playing someone else's music makes you nothing more than a cover artist. I find her extremely underwhelming. Again, as you mention, just an opinion, based on 45 years of attending music and rock concerts.

    • @boroblueyes
      @boroblueyes Місяць тому

      @@BrimHawk she does write her own music and songs. I'm 66 and been to a helluva lot more concerts than you have, good grief. I've probably been to more Grateful Dead shows than you have concerts. Get real, you've never listened to Miley Cyrus, because if you had, you wouldn't be making ridiculous statements. If you just want to troll and argue, get a life. You have no musical understanding.

  • @joanlajara3939
    @joanlajara3939 Місяць тому +21

    You were right he’s the one!! He’s the Heartbreaker! Neil Geraldo and Pat Benatar happily married for 40 years!!

  • @davidhumiston6500
    @davidhumiston6500 Місяць тому +3

    Pat has one of the best voices of any female rocker. A rabbit hole well worth going into

  • @MikeOstrowski-iq8wf
    @MikeOstrowski-iq8wf Місяць тому +1

    Great reaction….. Pat Benatar was a goddess 🥰

  • @EShelby2127
    @EShelby2127 Місяць тому

    I was 21, yup, she is FIRE! Her man was the SwaGuitar on her right! Great seeing a musical couple make it... "Hell is for Children" - a must!

  • @xXGhoulieGunXx
    @xXGhoulieGunXx Місяць тому +1

    Got some good ones listed here to choose from so add in “Shadows of the Night”

  • @Randy-ty8xn
    @Randy-ty8xn Місяць тому

    My sister Susie saw them perform in PA a few years ago. It slowed down a lot but still Amazing like they are.

  • @christopherhebert9069
    @christopherhebert9069 Місяць тому +1

    She’s a badass!

  • @tiawarren5403
    @tiawarren5403 Місяць тому +2

    ❤ Pat, forever queen of the rocker chicks! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dawnsmith3693
    @dawnsmith3693 Місяць тому +1

    Saw Pat in concert last year, still rocking!!!!

  • @ccohen1965
    @ccohen1965 Місяць тому

    PB and band are a legends. You are just scratching the surface. Try Hell is for Children live version.

  • @NancyMeehan-zz3fs
    @NancyMeehan-zz3fs Місяць тому +11

    Promises in the Dark is one of my favorites!! 😊

    • @frommatorav1
      @frommatorav1 Місяць тому

      That song is awesome, but I am nearly positive he already reacted to that one. I believe this is the second Pat Benatar reaction video after that one. He loved it btw.

  • @deborahsage768
    @deborahsage768 Місяць тому

    Pat benatar you seem to really like her i'm glad she's excellent.
    There are two songs that you might wanna think aboutThere are two songs that you might wanna think about with
    He'll is for children And We belong to the night

  • @Asiram323
    @Asiram323 Місяць тому +3

    “You better run” the way she hits “head” will give you chills. “Love is a Battlefield” is a must watch video that will make you chuckle just cuz of the time warp of the early 80’s💯

  • @scottjswenson
    @scottjswenson Місяць тому +1

    For those of us in the 'old people' category, this was our introduction to her. When that song hit the radio, we knew the void left by the Wilson sisters had been filled with some very capable shoes (stiletto pumps, of course). It had been several years since we had heard a real rocking female. She was tiny. She was cute AF. She was FIERCE. We loved her.

  • @cherylbrooks7005
    @cherylbrooks7005 Місяць тому +1

    She was a great role model for me as a teenager in the 1970s! Firece woman! ❤😊❤

  • @bobdam4478
    @bobdam4478 Місяць тому

    pat was prob my first crush as far as musicians go.. and loved her music!!

  • @Ladybird41
    @Ladybird41 Місяць тому

    Hell freakin YES! I was raised on Benatar. That was fun :)

  • @cynthiawhite3945
    @cynthiawhite3945 Місяць тому

    She could belt out of a tune for being so little. All the guys in my school had crushes on her. Great song, thanks.

  • @MamaBeeVt
    @MamaBeeVt Місяць тому +19

    HS grad of 1979 here. Sang in lots of rock bands. She was my Everest! Like Kelly Clarkson and GaGa, in college she studied opera. So fun to watch my daughter sing this in her rock band. Better than me dang it! lolol

    • @jeffjones6221
      @jeffjones6221 Місяць тому

      Class of '80 here!! I did live sound from 79-2020...many years in a 6 nite a week circuit band. Indiana, Kentucky, Illinois, Iowa...

    • @Lokisdottir1964
      @Lokisdottir1964 Місяць тому

      Class of 83 - I too sang and played guitar in rock bands - Ann Wilson and Pat Benatar were my inspirations and I really dug doing their tunes.

  • @nitro_001newman2
    @nitro_001newman2 Місяць тому +2

    They were playing this song in the cafeteria jukebox at my junior high school in 1980.

  • @jeffp3415
    @jeffp3415 Місяць тому +1

    '79 was my Senior year of high school. This was her first big hit and I remember listening to this while washing trucks at UPS.

  • @boblozaintherealworld3577
    @boblozaintherealworld3577 Місяць тому

    I believe this one of her first two big radio hits. and yeah, this got some ENERGY. so far NO ONE has tried to cover it. (except for tribute bands of course)

  • @bojohanconstantlyconfused1386
    @bojohanconstantlyconfused1386 Місяць тому +1

    1979..."well before I was born..."... That's the year I graduated high school...😂 We had the best music!

  • @mikemcilroy4995
    @mikemcilroy4995 Місяць тому

    You nailed it, the guy soloing is now her husband. More bangers are You Better Run, Precious Time, All Fired Up,Everybody Lay Down and Helter Skelter. She will also blow your mind with her more classic vocals on Wuthering Heights and Don't Let it Show. Here's a live version of her covering Crying by Roy Orbison...this is the classic voice not rock voice.

  • @productivepenguin8865
    @productivepenguin8865 Місяць тому +1

    She's made a bunch of great songs and a lot of them have been reacted to on YT. Here's a highly underrated one that rarely gets requested: "Precious Time".

  • @Tim_York
    @Tim_York Місяць тому +13

    This was fire in my day Polo. 🖖🏼

  • @robertp6458
    @robertp6458 Місяць тому +1

    I love the percussionist, hes always so animated. 🤙

  • @sharonpingree155
    @sharonpingree155 Місяць тому +6

    Love her...she was my idol! Still is! Neil is the guitar solo guy! This song hasn't been redone, to my knowledge. There is no one out there to do it justice...
    The next listen...Hell is for Children

  • @davidanon1568
    @davidanon1568 Місяць тому +4

    If you were of age in the 1980s you heard Pat on the radio quite a lot. Her and Patty Smyth were top female artists back then.

  • @pennysilvey8868
    @pennysilvey8868 Місяць тому +3

    The hellacious lead guitarist in the striped shirt on her left is her husband. Would love to see you do You Better Run. It’s a banger. If you liked the energy in this, you’ll LOVE it too.

  • @jacqueline4514
    @jacqueline4514 Місяць тому +6

    Ahh, was in Junior High School and when this came out, we girls wanted to BE Pat Benatar ❤️. By the way, she was an operatic trained singer. Next reactions for her; Promises In The Dark, You Better Run, Hell Is For Children, so much more!! 🔥🔥🔥 SO psyched (showing my 57 years there) that you dig Pat Benatar! You were right! The hot guitarist in the striped shirt married her 😂😂😂

    • @frommatorav1
      @frommatorav1 Місяць тому

      Polo has already done Promises in the Dark a month ago. He also did Fire and Ice very recently. Hell is for Children and You Better Run would be good for reaction videos, like you mentioned.

    • @jacqueline4514
      @jacqueline4514 Місяць тому

      @@frommatorav1 Thank you for that; I’ve been busy so haven’t followed daily and should have checked first. Thanks again!

    • @frommatorav1
      @frommatorav1 Місяць тому

      @@jacqueline4514 No problem. Promises in the Dark was a real good reaction video, too. I'd recommend to check it out.

  • @MichaelBrown-x1q
    @MichaelBrown-x1q 20 днів тому

    You definately heard this before! She is still all over the radio!!! Yes, the lead guitarist Neil Getardo is her husband and co song writer!

  • @ironjim78
    @ironjim78 Місяць тому +6

    Oh Hell yes

  • @TheeccenteictherapistBellaneph
    @TheeccenteictherapistBellaneph Місяць тому +1

    Love her. Miss this

  • @radbanshee4508
    @radbanshee4508 Місяць тому +1

    Pat Benatar song "Hell is for children" is her best and most touching song.

  • @christopherhebert9069
    @christopherhebert9069 Місяць тому +1

    No one can remake this!

  • @zwierzchnik
    @zwierzchnik Місяць тому +1

    Patricia Mae Andrzejewski🇵🇱representin'❤

  • @AuthorLaurieAnnSmith
    @AuthorLaurieAnnSmith Місяць тому

    I love Pat Benatar and have been a fan from the beginning!!! Thanks Polo!

  • @jacquiamerritt4278
    @jacquiamerritt4278 Місяць тому

    The vocals and lyrics are great. The LIPSYNC has a lot to be desired.

  • @barbarino2000
    @barbarino2000 25 днів тому

    Her live concert video of this song from New Haven is amazzzzzzzing. Find it and watch.

  • @danwest9900
    @danwest9900 Місяць тому +4

    More Pat Benatar - "Shadows of the Night", "We Belong", and "Promises in the Dark" !

  • @Marloc2420
    @Marloc2420 Місяць тому

    Been a fan since I was very young in the 70s & seen her perform just a couple of years ago & she sounded as good as ever. It was very obvious her & her husband are still madly in love after all these years. Super cute e. It was a great show!

  • @allenlocke1935
    @allenlocke1935 Місяць тому +3

    The guy that did the guitar solo is The Man! You are correct. This was the first song we heard from Pat Benatar and we all instantly took notice. Try "You Better Run" and "All Fired Up".

  • @LisafromFL
    @LisafromFL Місяць тому

    Check out "Hell is for children" by Pat Benatar.She's such a gem and so talented!!

  • @dab_family9405
    @dab_family9405 Місяць тому

    Got the name right this time, thanks! The guitarist on our left, by himself, became her husband.

  • @KB3M
    @KB3M Місяць тому +4

    You are correct Sir!

  • @GradyGruppoVintageRecordings
    @GradyGruppoVintageRecordings Місяць тому +1

    Great selection 😎 She does a cover of Helter Skelter by The Beatles. It's very good also.

  • @billbryant9995
    @billbryant9995 Місяць тому +1

    Great song!!! Glad you are enjoying this journey.

  • @Grizazzle
    @Grizazzle Місяць тому +2

    Pat dominated the late seventies and early eighties and she did it all with ATTITUDE!!

  • @alexanderkantakusiniii8411
    @alexanderkantakusiniii8411 Місяць тому +1

    "That's the one that got her"...Hell yeah

  • @maryanngee2698
    @maryanngee2698 Місяць тому

    Got to see her 3x for $15 bucks back in the day at a local bar ! Great singer !

  • @tjrivers
    @tjrivers Місяць тому +7

    A friend of mine, a great keyboard/piano player, was offered a job touring with two different bands…one with a female lead named Benatar that was going to tour a lot, and the other a local group. He took the job with the local band. PAT BENATAR - became a superstar, the other band dismantled shortly after. I don’t think he got over that decision. I felt so bad, I never talked with him about it again.

  • @ericsteffen5619
    @ericsteffen5619 Місяць тому +4

    Yes, Polo, that's the one that got her.

  • @robertphelps1574
    @robertphelps1574 Місяць тому +3

    The song was written for and originally recorded by Jenny Darren in 1978

  • @joanlajara3939
    @joanlajara3939 Місяць тому

    Love

  • @roberta7727
    @roberta7727 23 дні тому

    Love❤

  • @vincegedeon6583
    @vincegedeon6583 Місяць тому

    Her stage presence is just on another level 💯

  • @charliejaworski2562
    @charliejaworski2562 Місяць тому

    Fun little fact. As a young teen watching the NFL on CBS in the 80s, I specifically remember CBS running highlights during pregame with Pat Benatar's song "Hit Me With Your Best Shot" as the soundtrack. Of course in the 80s they didn't shy away from ultra violent defensive hits in their highlights either, so it fit.

  • @Chapmanjec
    @Chapmanjec Місяць тому

    Yep you right. The one on lead with the cool shirt is her hubby Neil Geraldo

  • @clydeb7713
    @clydeb7713 Місяць тому +2

    She was a 🧨 FIRECRACKER!

  • @myownchannel247
    @myownchannel247 Місяць тому +1

    Her husband is Neil Giraldo, her lead guitarist 🎸 a true rock and roll marriage

  • @margaretbarnes5254
    @margaretbarnes5254 Місяць тому +1

    This is not a live performance - but this band is still killer!!

  • @JoyRiley-el5pj
    @JoyRiley-el5pj Місяць тому

    Hey Polo, here's my first fave from Pat Benatar, back in my high school days in the 80's, called 'Love Is A Battlefield' and also 'Hit em With Your Best Shot' for good measure.

  • @ketchman8299
    @ketchman8299 Місяць тому

    We are showing you the really good music era!!

  • @jackolson8775
    @jackolson8775 Місяць тому +8

    You aint wrong, that's her husband. Neil Geraldo isnt on most guys fav guitarists list, but he should be. Dude is fya! So, she got a lil lucky too.✌🏼

  • @CultureCrash9
    @CultureCrash9 Місяць тому

    She has so many great songs, but I really recommend "Hell is for Children". It is a powerhouse.

  • @MamaBeeVt
    @MamaBeeVt Місяць тому +6

    A very powerful and sad song she sings is “Hell is For Children”.

  • @reginafromtexas2314
    @reginafromtexas2314 Місяць тому +1

    I graduated from high school in 1979. We had the best music!!! 😎✌

  • @JojoW-227
    @JojoW-227 Місяць тому

    Yes Polo. Guitar players are the sexiest. Drummers are the most fun.

  • @richardhenderson9767
    @richardhenderson9767 Місяць тому +6

    Neil Gerardo is the guitarist with the swagger... he is also married to Pat...😉😀❤

  • @jojones1082
    @jojones1082 Місяць тому +13

    Yes, Neil "Spider" Geraldo, who is the main guitar player, is her husband.

    • @greg2976
      @greg2976 Місяць тому

      He is a GREAT guitarist !!!!!!

  • @tomdodds8091
    @tomdodds8091 Місяць тому

    You're right. It's nice to see that they're still together. They've always been an absolute team.

  • @angusrocks939
    @angusrocks939 Місяць тому

    pat was my first ever concert. maybe '80? '81? perhaps even '82? but leaning towards "81. not sure since I have since lost the ticket stub I kept for decades. $8.50 at the door. those were the days.

  • @mikeadair3341
    @mikeadair3341 Місяць тому +11

    Yep the guy with the killer solo is her husband.