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  • Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
  • Juggling three kids and helping my beloved husband with his delivery job. it's not easy to become a mother but it's worth it and she is very proud of herself.
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    KBS is a public broadcasting service in South Korea.
    #lovestory #canadian #internationalcouple

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  • @jinlee2617
    @jinlee2617 Рік тому +6272

    3 kids, in a foreign land with language & cultural barrier...bruh, I have much respect for Emily and Dad too for working as a team and carrying everyday their family life. I wish them happiness!

    • @AliasHSW
      @AliasHSW Рік тому +103

      That’s what I admire about my wife. We met when she came to the USA to study…and essentially left her entire behind in Korea to stay here with me. This can also be said about my parents uprooting themselves/family to immigrate to the USA. Truly a brave and selfless act of those that does it.

    • @ericsohn5084
      @ericsohn5084 Рік тому +12

      She's the real patriot!

    • @safheart2306
      @safheart2306 Рік тому +5

      respect

    • @anticommunist-sg3cn
      @anticommunist-sg3cn Рік тому

      @@AliasHSW why didn't you people just stay at home? we don't need more immigrants in America.

    • @emyfullofbeans
      @emyfullofbeans Рік тому +4

      Thank you!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Nzesultanswife
    @Nzesultanswife Рік тому +6664

    I love how she keeps reassuring her husband that he’s good looking despite society finding his looks a bit unconventional. He is a very handsome man and she’s gorgeous

    • @juno1765
      @juno1765 Рік тому +496

      He's handsome I think they're talking about his beard and mustache, since most korean men shave them

    • @Nzesultanswife
      @Nzesultanswife Рік тому +33

      @@juno1765 yes, I meant the beard too

    • @1412Bunny
      @1412Bunny Рік тому +413

      from a canadian perspective he's pretty good looking, he looks manly

    • @Cx0ew
      @Cx0ew Рік тому +26

      Both can be true though, he can still be not the most attractive man in Korea, but maybe he has charisma, and that's what makes him attractive to her.

    • @Pumpkin0_0
      @Pumpkin0_0 Рік тому +49

      They pointed out it's because of his hair and beard, especially because it's not common in the least for Korean men to have beards. But his looks are still unconventional in Korea, which doesn't make him "Korea handsome". He's basically like Bobby from the k-pop group IKON. He's not typically handsome, but has charisma and a badass sort of look.

  • @thanGacao
    @thanGacao Рік тому +3501

    seeing her struggle with reading official letters makes me appreciate my own parents, who are immigrants as well, even more.

    • @MVBNov
      @MVBNov Рік тому +31

      Yes. It is really hard and sometimes you feel helpless like a child and can be very tiring 😢❤❤

    • @lexio5300
      @lexio5300 Рік тому

      Thank goodness for Google Lens Translate for us to use it. lol

    • @pinkdragoneyes
      @pinkdragoneyes 10 місяців тому +28

      My parents just made me deal with all of their business letters and calls since I learned English in kindergarten haha. Life hack, make your oldest child a third parent. (Dont actually do this)

    • @ap9212
      @ap9212 10 місяців тому +1

      Well the turn of tables

    • @drmfsltd
      @drmfsltd 3 місяці тому

      yeah, and sometimes translating apps makes it more confusing for me.

  • @elisa.g1879
    @elisa.g1879 Рік тому +1803

    I think the mom is a hero. She is cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, bringing them to school AND sometimes helping her husbend with delivery. Thats clazy. Respect to her.

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro Рік тому +88

      It's easier to brand women as "heroes" than it is to do your fair share of the household.
      They shouldn't have to be heroes. Their husband should do his part.

    • @huskytail
      @huskytail Рік тому +24

      @@chervilisbetterthancilantroso after 10h of running what exactly he should take off her shoulders? If she worked outside of home full time, ok, but she doesn't, that's her job.

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro Рік тому +91

      @@huskytail She did her job for him, and on top of that, he just takes a nap. She worked all day, multiple jobs, never got a rest. He worked half a job, comes home, and just goes to sleep while the woman sIaves away for him more.

    • @reverentlygrim2666
      @reverentlygrim2666 Рік тому

      You Should be clear with the man whose horrible fate will make him get in your life briefly that this how you think about his job and effort make it crystal clear don't hide your idea of the dynamics of relationship until it gets serious , wish you all luck of finding the "male" of your dreams.! @@chervilisbetterthancilantro

    • @ingrid6295
      @ingrid6295 Рік тому +31

      ​​@@huskytail she works full time as well, even if it is in the house or doesn't get pay.

  • @DK412724
    @DK412724 Рік тому +1283

    This should be required viewing for anyone planning on getting married. Unlike the movies portraying the image of "happily ever after," real marriage is hard and unflattering. It requires sacrifice and selflessness. When children enter the picture, multiply the level of difficulty and get ready for an onslaught of unwanted surprises. This episode captured a lot of invaluable lessons that most media never shows. Thank you to the beautiful parents and children for sharing a part of lives. Life is truly precious and it showed throughout the footage of this wonderful family

    • @MVBNov
      @MVBNov Рік тому +12

      Exactly! True love includes so much hard work.

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro Рік тому +28

      It should be required viewing before getting married. So women know to stay the heII away from these maIes.

    • @Jhoannegee
      @Jhoannegee Рік тому +5

      True, as a mother of three she’s doing a great job

    • @FuhrerHeisen
      @FuhrerHeisen Рік тому +5

      @@chervilisbetterthancilantro why such a negative Nancy like they seem really in love and as long as they are faithful and treating each other right what's the problem?

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro Рік тому +28

      @@FuhrerHeisen Except he's not treating her right. She's like his sIave, she even does his work for him on top of all the work she does at home! And then he just takes a nap, while she continues working, after she has worked all day and done his work for him!
      This should be mandatory to watch for women, to know what's waiting for you if you settIe for a maIe Iike this.

  • @lmntxo2678
    @lmntxo2678 Рік тому +2656

    It is nice that Emily's husband isn't the type of guy that feels awkward when his wife is being sweet to him. I think showing affection to each other is even more important especially for a couple like them who are so busy throughout the day that they might be too exhausted to love on each other by the time her husband gets home in the evening.

    • @hellbunniez3
      @hellbunniez3 Рік тому +71

      love how they constantly call out “pping,ppang” lol

    • @suvisue6070
      @suvisue6070 Рік тому +59

      Are we both watching the same video? This guy comes off as lazy and ungrateful to me. He doesn't help around the house AT ALL. When his wife went to see him at work with the kids, she helped him with his job, but he couldn't help her in the house or AT LEAST watch the kids while she was cooking. Being "tired" is not an excuse since he's not the only one who's "tired" here, she's been working all day as well. I would lose my mind if I had a husband like that. She's very patient and tolerates his behavior.
      I lost it when he started complaining about his wife's cooking as if she didn't spend a long time standing in the kitchen just to make him food. I'm surprised that she didn't lash out at him and ask him what his problem is. The least he could do was thank her for feeding him.
      Gender stereotypes are indeed very much alive in Korea and the woman is still expected to do EVERYTHING around the house with no rest or help. I feel bad for her. I hope that he can learn to appreciate her and start helping her out instead of complaining and nagging at her.

    • @Jjangbunbun
      @Jjangbunbun Рік тому +21

      @@suvisue6070i agree they dont have the best relationship 50/50 wise its the traditional oh “as long as the man is working all day hes doing his part so u cant complain about anything he does”

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv Рік тому +22

      @@Jjangbunbunexactly. I feel so bad for her, I was shocked that he couldn’t show gratitude like she was doing the whole time. His complaining was childish and rude

    • @suvisue6070
      @suvisue6070 Рік тому +5

      @@sanha-127 So you say you'd rather have a toddler for a husband? A toddler who constantly complains about everything, doesn't help with anything, and throws a hissy fit when things don't go his way? ok. Good luck with that lol 😂
      As someone who grew up living in the same house as an adult who acts like this husband, I say I would rather die than date or even get married to someone like this. It's so annoying and frustrating to deal with their incompetence.
      How is being an adult and taking care of yourself and your children "acting like your dad"? Being loving, caring, understanding, and helpful to your family is a good thing.
      Get help 🖤

  • @corgisrule21
    @corgisrule21 Рік тому +2324

    I love how much her MIL loves her and cares for her…not all people are so lucky, even in their home country 🥹

  • @JL_hahaha0303
    @JL_hahaha0303 Рік тому +5447

    I finally understood why my mom keeps stocking up food in her fridge, I think the fear of not having food and having to find time to buy them when you have so many kids to care for, is such huge fear that causes so much anxiety in all the moms, and the only way to calm that anxiety is to have as much food as possible in the house 🤣

    • @myshoesnotyours
      @myshoesnotyours Рік тому +310

      Keeping a well stocked fridge is a thing in Canada. Because of our density grocery stores are further away. Most families visit grocery stores once per week. Even for condos / apartment buildings, it's uncommon to have a grocery store right at the ground level. If you forget to buy something / urgently need something.... it's more borrow it from your next door neighbour than go to a store to buy it.

    • @jihojio2118
      @jihojio2118 Рік тому +15

      동의해요

    • @solaris5922
      @solaris5922 Рік тому +130

      … and add to the fact that prices are going up everyday. If I see something on sale that I won’t be using soon I’d probably still buy it and freeze it. Especially with three young kids

    • @perry4415
      @perry4415 Рік тому +20

      Yes and it's good backup in case the kids don't want to eat anything I cooked for them and would rather have something else.

    • @WileChile51
      @WileChile51 Рік тому +11

      Yes, there is having food that you'll use soon, and then hoarding. It can be a tendency from like you said, not having enough in your past, or having to be very conservative with food and other items. It can be a product of trauma.

  • @Yokera67
    @Yokera67 Рік тому +1074

    She should open a UA-cam channel ! She has such a joyful personality !

  • @DulcisAbsentia
    @DulcisAbsentia Рік тому +310

    I love how they call each other “pping” and “ppang” it’s adorable

    • @vlz7393
      @vlz7393 11 місяців тому +7

      They started a Chanel Emily in Korea

  • @jijijijibaby
    @jijijijibaby Рік тому +2626

    wow emily is so amazing at korean . the way she chooses how to phrase things when speaking in front of her in laws is just so beautiful and kind. “their support is like gold to me” 🥹 her outlook on life is admirable as well ❤😊

    • @gamecxhanger
      @gamecxhanger Рік тому +8

      hopefully they are on her side 😂😂😂😂

    • @rebeccanagawa3253
      @rebeccanagawa3253 Рік тому +5

      Same with me here. When people are so nice consistently and I feel at home with them and my entire being settles will with them, I can't help but bubble praises and gratitude in all ways. Goodness feels so good.

  • @mishasan7
    @mishasan7 6 місяців тому +88

    I felt for her when the husband kept putting food back. ARGH when you're the primary caregiver to THREE young children with the nearest groceries an intimidating ten minute drive away you do not have time to be going to the shop to top up the things you need. And they're a family of FIVE.
    It'd be nice if hubby took a step back and recognised that maybe his wife knows best about this as she's the one who prepares the meals. After all, she doesn't try to change things when she goes to help him at HIS job, she just follows his lead and helps without getting in the way.

  • @y-yyy
    @y-yyy 8 місяців тому +47

    I have to say, considering they didn't even speak a common language when they met and had an unplanned pregnancy, they're doing AMAZING! Literally defying all possible odds. You're smashing it guys, please keep loving each other. Husband's family seems really warm and relaxed, too.

    • @ArohaStill
      @ArohaStill 12 днів тому +2

      It is truly remarkable that they managed to build a life in a family out of this type of unconventional start to a relationship but gosh I hope young women realize what an anomaly this is because most of these stories you hear are quite the opposite unfortunately but isn't it lovely that they have beautiful kids together

  • @NekoNyan
    @NekoNyan Рік тому +816

    I love how they raise their children. Emily doesn't spoil them, so they don't grow up too dependent. The couple also are very close and too cute

    • @tanaaz7593
      @tanaaz7593 Рік тому +3

      Yup ! It's lovely.🥰

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv Рік тому +5

      You mean how she raises her children because that husband barely interacted with them

    • @finalphalax
      @finalphalax 10 місяців тому

      @@udontevenwannaknowbruv How they are living is very traditional and its whats works best for society. Mothers are nurturers and she is doing a fantastical job at it. To be honest she is a strong woman who is very into her femininity because she provides a nurturing and peaceful place to her family. The husband, although tired after work, is doing his best to work almost 12 hours a day of physical labor in order to get money for food, rent and their life, he is doing his job as a provider and being the father to the kids. Both of them are working as a team to raise a family, this is one best example of a nuclear family, sometimes life is rough, having a family is never a happy ever after, because both husband and wife have to face issues together. By working together, they played to their strengths but also supports each other's weaknesses.
      You might be poisoned or told by modern society that this might look wrong but civilization through out history has lived and worked with this type of nuclear family. If what you were taught was different, then good luck getting married or having a family.

    • @TedEhioghae
      @TedEhioghae Місяць тому

      ​@@udontevenwannaknowbruvIf you are a woman, you should work a lot of hours a day where you leave in the morning and come back in the late evening.
      Then, your husband can be a house husband, and a stay at home dad.

  • @cameronmilan1467
    @cameronmilan1467 Рік тому +903

    This is probably my favorite episode to date. I love Emily’s personality, the way she’s able to have fun and not take things too seriously even when the circumstances are tough. The husband is very hardworking and kind, and I feel that he grew softer at heart thanks to Emily’s love. Their kids obviously see that love and seem like good kids. Even though Emily and Bosun fight when things get tough, I feel that their love will win no matter what ❤❤

    • @tommyfield8449
      @tommyfield8449 Рік тому +7

      I also like how she didn't raise her voice towards her children. Many parents take the easy way out & just scold their child.

    • @emyfullofbeans
      @emyfullofbeans Рік тому +4

      Thank you for saying that❤ so sweet!!!!

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv Рік тому +18

      Emily has a LOT of patience and never even got praised for all the work she does while she made sure to compliment her man who does the bare minimum, multiple times. She is definitely unappreciated. I’m glad she seemed to have a wonderful mother in law, at least she is appreciated by her. The husband couldn’t even say anything nice specifically about Emily at the end. He gives me weird vibes

    • @vlz7393
      @vlz7393 11 місяців тому

      She acc started a UA-cam channel “Emily in Korea” :) its really cute youtube.com/@emyfullofbeans?si=vskub3CaZUTrqQSl

  • @khinshoonlai9644
    @khinshoonlai9644 Рік тому +735

    I love how Emily is so obsessed and so in love with her husband. Their family is so cute!!

  • @alyssaw444
    @alyssaw444 Рік тому +232

    Aww emily's line about "if i had known this back then i'd have been less depressed" is so sweet

    • @chinaboss6683
      @chinaboss6683 6 місяців тому +1

      Her heart is worth more than gold. ❤

  • @NEWBOTANICA
    @NEWBOTANICA Рік тому +256

    Oh the husband and wife are clearly madly in love despite the rough finacial situation they're in.. plus the mother in law and that as support... ugh beautiful family!

  • @maddielouwho
    @maddielouwho Рік тому +271

    Every couple fights, and it shows they’re in a healthy relationship the way they’re able to get over it so quickly. They obviously love each so much, and they adore their kids. I had a smile on my face watching this the whole time.

  • @nicolelau8420
    @nicolelau8420 Рік тому +377

    I cried at what the husband said about the family saving him, this family is so cute. The nagging is funny, it’s what I grew up with. I love the support and happiness of the children, that speaks volumes of how the parents care and love them.

  • @BlueberrySummertime
    @BlueberrySummertime Рік тому +423

    I would watch a tv show with them. They’re so realistic and they’re struggles remind me of my childhood.

    • @chinesecovidanalswabs4752
      @chinesecovidanalswabs4752 Рік тому +15

      Hope she starts a youtube channel. Would love to watch some vlogs or even shorts.

    • @raycigar6356
      @raycigar6356 Рік тому +7

      Their Family YT channel: Full of beans Emily in Korea

    • @emyfullofbeans
      @emyfullofbeans Рік тому +1

      Omg can we have a show please?!!!! So fun!!!!❤

  • @sheiLaxL
    @sheiLaxL Рік тому +181

    I can relate when she said that the fridge is her turf and that he doesn’t do the cooking so she knows better of what and what not to have.. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @chingunanderson8229
    @chingunanderson8229 Рік тому +1430

    I disagree with the commentors who are saying that the husband is a nightmare or red flag. Yes, he can be more understanding of Emily's system and complain less. But he has good traits. He works hard. He tries to help Emily out like improving her driving skills. He tries to learn and cook with her. Most importantly, they clearly love each other/their kids, and their kids can see it. Expecting improvement is fair but perfection is not.

    • @stunnaremy
      @stunnaremy Рік тому +222

      Exactly. I feel like most people in relationships nowadays try to be a yes-man. It’s okay to disagree with your significant other so long as you love and respect one another.

    • @JaneTusa-z8j
      @JaneTusa-z8j Рік тому +154

      I've watched a few of these and tbh he's the best man so far lol others nag so terribly while the wife was working 10 hour days etc here I think he's just financially worried. But I love their family dynamic you can really tell they love each other.

    • @cat7181
      @cat7181 Рік тому +50

      This is the only one I’ve seen - but to account for the fact of how well they work together even with those cultural differences is beautiful!

    • @JaneTusa-z8j
      @JaneTusa-z8j Рік тому +71

      @@cat7181 I really love how supportive his family is towards her. It must make a world of difference for her especially being in a foreign country.

    • @nyfikengulsvideo
      @nyfikengulsvideo Рік тому +85

      Agree, compared to most Korean married men he's helping out with housework and other things a lot more. He's working 12-hour shifts or longer, 6 days a week and tries to find time to do things together with his family and be there for his wife.

  • @Kuramuku4016
    @Kuramuku4016 Рік тому +48

    OMG all of her doing those hardwork and the husband keep nagging her all day. I wouldve EXPLODED already😅

  • @dduddujiswoo
    @dduddujiswoo Рік тому +97

    They were on a different parenting show previously about parents having difficulty with one of or any of their children. They were on the show cause she had difficulty communicating with her kids since her kids mainly spoke korean and the mother spoke english. In one scene, the mother asked the firstborn to speak to her in english but the child got frustrated too saying she doesnt know how to say her words in english and they both cried while hugging each other and the mother apologising for not being korean. Another worry was the father being too intimidating. They did exercises in the end to communicate better with each other.
    But from what I saw, the family is actually very loving. I really like this family.

    • @emyfullofbeans
      @emyfullofbeans Рік тому +7

      Thank you! Yes we are lucky in love for sure!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @FlowersByIrene
      @FlowersByIrene 11 місяців тому

      Do you have a link to that show?

  • @nickgarter7389
    @nickgarter7389 Рік тому +169

    This lady is definitely a keeper.

  • @pinkymoon5039
    @pinkymoon5039 Рік тому +366

    Beautiful family. Emily is such a good wife and mother. Her husband seemed cold at first but his tears in the end show that he does love and appreciate his wife and kids. I wish this beautiful family nothing but the best ❤🙏

  • @justrelaxing1932
    @justrelaxing1932 Рік тому +189

    My husband and I always in this situation. He thinks everything is wasted because it stays in the freezer for long time. Wife who cooks a lot must have everything she needs in the kitchen. Everyone eats but not everyone cooks. 😅

    • @tita2698
      @tita2698 Рік тому +43

      And besides, if the wife has to go to the grocery everytime she needs something, then that would be time taken away from doing other chores, right?

    • @angelsis2222
      @angelsis2222 Рік тому +26

      Not only that, youre wasting more money on gas from driving everyday back and forth. Also, if your wife is afraid and lost when driving, why would you want her driving with the kids everyday wasting gas?

  • @amandakim180
    @amandakim180 7 місяців тому +23

    Emily deserves so much credit and is quite remarkable for raising 3 children in a world that’s so different from Canada. Plus her husband works a lot , so she’s constantly home with with the kids which can be drive any mom insane. She has perseverance and you can see she has nothing but good intentions. Like being overly prepared is definitely a North American thing. You can never be unprepared. The overpacking and over-preparing is one way in which shows how she cares and loves her family. Their 3 children are very beautiful. It is nice to see how his family adores her and that Koreans are becoming more accepting of other races. It’s about time Korea gets with the program and accepts interracial marriages.❤

  • @kawaiikawaii7683
    @kawaiikawaii7683 Рік тому +293

    You guys should start a youtube channel it's really refreshing to see such a lovely family

    • @daludna
      @daludna Рік тому +35

      But the work of pulling that through, I would be very worried of Emily's health

    • @chinesecovidanalswabs4752
      @chinesecovidanalswabs4752 Рік тому +9

      I think it's doable. She could do 5 min vlogs or shorts than longer videos.

    • @donlee4105
      @donlee4105 Рік тому +8

      she opened youtube channel recently

    • @kawaiikawaii7683
      @kawaiikawaii7683 Рік тому +4

      @@donlee4105 Channel name ?

    • @raycigar6356
      @raycigar6356 Рік тому +15

      Their Family YT channel is: Full of Beans Emily in Korea

  • @OCR461
    @OCR461 Рік тому +41

    Omg this woman is such a ray of sunshine.....hope he appreciates her and vice versa

  • @essedanel
    @essedanel Рік тому +338

    being a mom of 3 kids is such a tough job... it's like working 3 jobs at the same time, thinking endlessly.... so filling the fridge i totally understand, but maybe not all the time so there won't be a fight always hehe fighting!❤

    • @leliavoinea7253
      @leliavoinea7253 Рік тому +20

      I have mad respect for mothers. I can't even imagine having a child let alone 3 of them!😂 I have 3 nephews and on nice. Needless to say but the two oldest are like a storm. I am content with the fact that to them I am the funny aunt with the cat and dogs.😂 I love my nephews and nice but I am glad they return with the parents at the end of the day.😂😂

    • @essedanel
      @essedanel Рік тому +7

      @leliavoinea7253 ikr! I used to take care of this 2 kids before & they might be the cutest little things, but it was not e-a-s-y🥲 they also had some wild specie episodes... i remembered this scissor flying towards me, i was so glad i didn't expire🥹 And the curiosity just never ends, it makes me feel dumb when i can't answer their questions🥸... i just think i can never be like my mom... how did all the mothers survive? this is just an enigma to me

    • @aaronmontgomery2055
      @aaronmontgomery2055 Рік тому

      its easy once they are potty trained and you don't have to worry financially. I find having them do chores and responsibility at a young age helps keeps thigs in order

    • @Norma43299
      @Norma43299 Місяць тому

      Its not a job is to take care of your responsibilities. I take care of my two kids and I don't call it a job. I decided on this and I need to do my best. Such a drama now days. I don't even find it difficult to take care of them and love them.

  • @hyunrahan5265
    @hyunrahan5265 Рік тому +73

    They’re very affectionate and emotionally matured. Their fights did not last long as one will deescalate the situation whenever they sense the others are getting agitated.
    It’s so good to see healthy couple.

  • @seamslatasha3598
    @seamslatasha3598 Рік тому +168

    Emily seems like a truly lovely person.

  • @gastronamour8398
    @gastronamour8398 Рік тому +39

    Ok but like why was this the most wholesome and precious video to stumble upon at 4am?! I was instantly hooked in 😭

  • @rosariolarion9319
    @rosariolarion9319 Рік тому +187

    Both the wife and the husband produced beautiful kids. I love how Emily managing all the works as a housewife and still helps with the delivery with their kids and husband. Such a huge responsibility and still shows how much she love and adore her. husband. The three kids brings out the good and the bad side of the parents of to cope things in their lives. I cannot help to admire Bosun’s family as they love Emily -- she is like an Asian woman. Emily is patient, very loving, caring and a good wife. She loves her family so much. Bosun’s heartfelt words about his family was very heartwarming and full of care as he said,”his family nis his life”. I cried when he cried, his honesty and sincerity about his family is sweet and loving. God bless them all. ❤Thank you so much for sharing. This is one of my favourites from K-Doc. ❤

  • @RebeccaBredin
    @RebeccaBredin Рік тому +38

    This is such a healthy thing to show. They clearly love each other, but fighting is always going to happen. There are huge cultural differences but they’re not letting it get in the way, which is great. Boson’s parents are the in laws you dream of, and I LOVE that they understand exactly how hard things can be for Emily at times. After living in SK for three years, I know that not many people truly understand what Emily goes through living on the other side of the planet. The fact they both have such love and support around them and for each other… it’s lovely to see.

  • @yiddena
    @yiddena Рік тому +33

    He's criticizing her way too much. He needs to lay off. She's a good wife!

    • @blancheH7
      @blancheH7 Місяць тому

      Koreans have high standards never good enough

  • @LoveMusicSound
    @LoveMusicSound Рік тому +45

    Love how she goes to help him at work. That is a good bonding moment for the family, and those kids are learning good characters to have as people towards the people they love. Those kids will remember those days.

  • @carolinejakubiak2435
    @carolinejakubiak2435 Рік тому +85

    It's so good to see this kind of documentary. What I usually see in France is caricatural families treated with some irony by the journalists. Contrary this is inspirational : this couple working as a team is a great example for all of us, I'm tired of divorce stories so thank you!

    • @aaronmontgomery2055
      @aaronmontgomery2055 Рік тому

      this is still rare as it takes people that are open and understanding while accepting that fighting is fine as long as you move forward.

  • @minkiemink
    @minkiemink Рік тому +201

    Husband bossing her around at home and at the store, criticizing her especially in front of the kids when she does everything for the household is not cool. They are a nice couple with sweet kids, but he needs to support her emotionally as much as she supports him.

    • @Nominaze
      @Nominaze Рік тому +14

      Yes!

    • @Jjangbunbun
      @Jjangbunbun Рік тому +38

      yea he was so annoying i hope he saw himself and realized

    • @misamisamisamisamisamisa
      @misamisamisamisamisamisa 7 місяців тому +29

      yes that was very toxic. she cant go to the mart everyday with 3 kids and chores needing to be done constantly.

    • @chinaboss6683
      @chinaboss6683 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@@nsi79
      Everyone has their darkside and you can stay hating because you gets no love. 😂

    • @selmahare
      @selmahare 4 місяці тому +11

      This. My hope is that after watching this he realizes how he comes across when he starts nagging her like that; and doing it in front of the kids is a big, major “no”, as it could make them lose respect for her in the long run. She reminds me of myself in my 30s, people pleasing and accepting of behaviors from men (and people in general) that one should never accept. If the male host calls him out she can too. She can do it in a gentle manner, but it should ideally be tackled. It’s not ok to criticize her cooking when she’s putting in such and effort, and tell her stuff like “you should have cleaned the table”. Get you a freaking cloth and clean the darn table yourself, she’s already cooked you dinner after spending all day taking care of your cute but noisy ass kids, the nerve.

  • @mb8456
    @mb8456 Рік тому +41

    Like many others have already said, this family should have their own UA-cam channel. We don't get to see realistic families on UA-cam that much. All three kids are so cute. They are hardworking parents.

  • @thaynaguirao2303
    @thaynaguirao2303 Рік тому +114

    Emily, please do a yt channel so we can hype up your family! Wishing the best for the five of you, sending love from Brazil!

  • @yvonneky1156
    @yvonneky1156 Рік тому +46

    Am also a foreigner living in Korea and married to a Korean man. So it's nice to see this representation and a glimpse into a life with kids and what that could be like. SO MUCH RESPECT FOR EMILY. 3 kids?! You are a super mom, go girl! Despite the nagging, Dad's really putting it on the line for the family.

  • @boomshakarlaka7237
    @boomshakarlaka7237 Рік тому +192

    I love the chill and calm demeanor of this video. Although it’s difficult due to many factors, it’s not stress-inducing to watch. 😊 It’s real and raw, and it elicits hope to couples. Either that, or the editing is great! 😂 I’m sure it’s a little of both.

  • @ineffablemars
    @ineffablemars Рік тому +105

    I think the grocery thing is cultural but also Canada/USA is MUCH bigger than Korea so everything is spaced further apart especially when you live in a rural or suburban area. Making. Daily trips to the grocery store is a big chore and doing a once and done trip every week makes more sense here. But in smaller countries and big cities where things are closer together it makes more sense to just go when you need something.

    • @maddielouwho
      @maddielouwho Рік тому +24

      That’s a really good point! A lot of videos and shows I see of Korea always show people just walking to a convenience store when they want something, but where I live in the us that’s impossible-you have to drive

    • @QWER-wv5kn
      @QWER-wv5kn Рік тому +1

      Oh my god.... 그러면 과일이나 채소는 어떻게 먹어요?? 일주일에 한번만 식료품점에 갑니까?? 나는 마트는 걸어서 5분, 편의점은 걸어서 2분 걸린다....

    • @Leashieeeee
      @Leashieeeee Рік тому +9

      ​@@QWER-wv5knyou buy a week's worth of fruit and vegetables

    • @ingrid6295
      @ingrid6295 Рік тому +4

      I'm from a small town, yet people tend to buy every two weeks and vegetables/fruits once a week. It will take more time to go every day or to often.

  • @sugarapplepie
    @sugarapplepie Рік тому +33

    @25:12 Awww Emily is so blessed to have such wonderful in-laws that love her back! The grandma is so cute! Good genes run in the family

  • @PersonaN007Grata
    @PersonaN007Grata Рік тому +68

    Props to all the moms and dads that hustled for their kids. ❤

  • @ninademain
    @ninademain Рік тому +52

    Emily is adorable the way she speaks Korean, even when they're arguing, like how do you stay angry when she's that cute? Ahahaha but seriously this is so endearing and wholesome. They're not perfect but they work well together. What an awesome family!😊

  • @RarelyRuby
    @RarelyRuby Рік тому +30

    Honestly that's what a family is, starting from the married couple it's all about teamwork and communication. Kudos to these two awesome people for being great examples for their kids!

  • @noonynoonynoo
    @noonynoonynoo 7 місяців тому +8

    You don't have to be a perfect person to be perfect for the one you love. Even despite their quirks and disagreements, you can see how the strength of their love fills in the gaps and smooths their rough edges. This is what keeps them united and smiling even through hard times. I think that's beautiful and so rare nowadays.
    I really admire how they are raising their kids. These little ones will soon grow up into responsible, caring, independent, respectful people who know exactly what real love looks like because they were surrounded by so much of it every day. Alone each one is nothing, but together, they are a family--growing together, learning from each other, becoming better through their sacrifices for each other.

  • @rebotilemokone5859
    @rebotilemokone5859 9 місяців тому +20

    Dad is very handsome, a lot of foreigners appreciate manly or very masculine looking men. And I noticed that in Asian countries they prefer feminine looking men and think that they are handsome. So to us foreigners it’s weird when they call him ugly beauty is subjective.

  • @mamaraidervlogs3429
    @mamaraidervlogs3429 Рік тому +68

    My rule: don’t bring husband in grocery shopping! Leave the kids with him @ home lol! 😜✌️
    But you both are doing great in raising 3 children.

    • @kamialexis4831
      @kamialexis4831 Рік тому +3

      Exactly 😂 let’s stress and you get some me time

  • @kimz2224
    @kimz2224 Рік тому +6025

    Idk why Koreans saying he isn't handsome?? He's a good looking man and not just good looking! He is hardworking family man. They both are great parents

    • @shyofshyness
      @shyofshyness Рік тому +461

      Im korean. They r jealous. Cant be anything else

    • @chillarypuff
      @chillarypuff Рік тому +555

      I think it’s because of his facial hair - as an American I find him handsome!!

    • @Cx0ew
      @Cx0ew Рік тому +210

      I don't get the resistance to it, Korean beauty standard is not about "being yourself", it's about following the celebrities. If he looks good to you, great, but Korean culture doesn't agree with you, and that's fine.

    • @StarlaBizarre
      @StarlaBizarre Рік тому +242

      I instantly thought he was so attractive, and typically Koreans are not the type of guy that I go for, but wow

    • @packingtroll
      @packingtroll Рік тому +162

      if you look at their tv shows, actors and kpop stars - thats why. their men are clean shaven, almost gay(feminine) looking. for them "handsome" means not so manyly. but odd thing is that their common folk looks like this man

  • @ley6748
    @ley6748 Рік тому +10

    the way she keeps her composure w his nagging is charismatic fr shes sm better than i would be

  • @StepOver420
    @StepOver420 Рік тому +32

    what a fantastic woman and mother she is. im in awe and wish to meet someone like her one day!

  • @yzkkoch479
    @yzkkoch479 Рік тому +124

    This is such a cute family, so hardworking, determined and respectful. Props to the couple for trying the hardest for their family.
    Emily is so inspiring 💓
    Edit: their kids are adorable, as expected though bc their parents are so good looking too

  • @sitiaisyahahmadkamal1592
    @sitiaisyahahmadkamal1592 3 місяці тому +2

    i love how despite her struggling a lot of things at a foreign country, she is so thankful for the present and love every moments of it. what a beautiful mama!

  • @Hobo_X
    @Hobo_X Рік тому +41

    Man I'd love to see periodic updates on this family. I don't know why I was so hooked watching this!

    • @SuukiDesu
      @SuukiDesu Рік тому +2

      They have their own YT channel now, it's called emyfullofbeans !

  • @gumdrop465
    @gumdrop465 3 місяці тому +3

    Such a beautiful family ❤

  • @lilithYoung
    @lilithYoung Рік тому +74

    I love this family 👌😂💓💓
    Mad respect to both the wife and the husband ❤️❤️ they're both so hardworking,📌📌 their children are lucky to have them as their parents 🙂🙂🤗🥳🥳
    I want more videos of this family 💯💯👏👏

  • @maalat
    @maalat 10 місяців тому +3

    The kids are so happy, expressive, beautiful. They love their mom and dad and love each other, too. They play together, talk together, clean together. So we’ll mannered. Congrats, parents. Parents are kind, too.

  • @StephanieGPN4790
    @StephanieGPN4790 Рік тому +41

    Aww, this is the cutest episode I’ve ever seen. The amazing family together despite many different challenges. The wife who is the center of the universe, making everything happened by supporting the husband and the home. Many well wishes for this family and hopefully there will be a great update. 👏

  • @liukang85
    @liukang85 3 місяці тому +3

    God bless them... she seems like a wonderful wife

  • @jimmykim2497
    @jimmykim2497 Рік тому +13

    Emily is the real deal! She is an amazing woman!! The husband is one lucky man!

  • @pjoazure
    @pjoazure Рік тому +14

    What a great family. Showing the common struggle without shame.

  • @BeybabaEfendi
    @BeybabaEfendi Рік тому +30

    31:24 this part hits different, just shows that after all we are all emotional beings with things that pushes us to keep going forward..

  • @shaifulothman7442
    @shaifulothman7442 Рік тому +19

    She's an amazing lady, wife and mom... So dedicated to the family

  • @katerinash1977
    @katerinash1977 8 місяців тому +12

    Their problems would be less if the husband stops complaining and is grateful for his wife

  • @4ksandknives
    @4ksandknives Рік тому +27

    As long as the family appreciates all the efforts of each spouse, the family won't crack but will harden and be strong

  • @willcookmakeup
    @willcookmakeup Рік тому +21

    Her Korean is so good. What an awesome mom.

  • @Ikaa3224
    @Ikaa3224 Рік тому +10

    Aww her mother in law is so lovely and nice to her. What a wonderful family! Stay well and bless you. 🥰

  • @formershadow
    @formershadow 9 місяців тому +5

    He’s trying his best to be a good father. He nags because he loves his family❤❤

  • @JamaicanemeraldQueen
    @JamaicanemeraldQueen 9 місяців тому +7

    Take the kids to the park everyday after school or dinner everyday to tire them out. Let them play and burn off that energy.
    He is a great dad she is a great mom. I am glad his family loves her unconditionally ❤.
    Since the kids behave when dad is around. He and mom should create a schedule for the kids and pin it up where they can see it and he should explain the schedule so that it can be enforced...so that they can get their homework done ..get all school paperwork checked and signed on time, do small chores around to keep yhe space tidy, when to play at home and outside in the park, when to get a snack.
    You guys continue to do well and improve and I wish you all the health and strength to carry on.

  • @G-Bimmy
    @G-Bimmy Рік тому +16

    My guy, just say "thank you." I was even getting annoyed with the amount of nagging and complaining from the husband- I can't imagine how she deals with that if he's not just hamming it up for T.V.

  • @sugarapplepie
    @sugarapplepie Рік тому +16

    Aww I randomly clicked on this and this family is just so loving and adorable! ❤ I was smiling throughout the whole video. I love how they're so supportive of one another, the realistic depiction of married life + how cheerful their family is despite the life struggles. It feels natural and it's really refreshing to see how humble they are compared to the other interracial couples as if putting on a show that I've seen featured on shows/UA-cam channels like this. And what adorable kids!!! All such cuties! They're all so cheerful and happy~ I'm sure the parents will miss those kiddos once they've all grown up too! God bless this humble and loving family. May they continue having a household filled with love & laughter. 💖🙏😄

  • @iMuzik3
    @iMuzik3 Рік тому +60

    I hope the husband will nag less and be more understanding and helpful at home. They're both doing full-time jobs with hardly any breaks. I hope they continue in their happy and loving marriage. 😊

    • @ceasarjuarez1593
      @ceasarjuarez1593 Рік тому +10

      I don't really think he nags .... he works like 12 to 14 hour days in a physical job .

    • @iMuzik3
      @iMuzik3 Рік тому +19

      @ceasarjuarez1593 Yes, as does she. However, she isn't nagging him about his cooking, his organization skills, not putting back groceries he wanted to buy, etc. He was definitely nagging her, no matter the excuse.

    • @ceasarjuarez1593
      @ceasarjuarez1593 Рік тому +9

      @iMuzik3 yah that's true... being a mom isn't easy whatsoever. If he's not gonna help in that way , maybe better to keep his comments to himself. Agree 💯

    • @Theoneandonlybish
      @Theoneandonlybish Рік тому

      ​@@ceasarjuarez1593hz still has to be a parent

    • @ceasarjuarez1593
      @ceasarjuarez1593 Рік тому +5

      @jinxerho3 of course he does . But let's be honest , if he's gone most of the day . Who do you think has the majority of time with the kids and the household .

  • @뉴미-x9u
    @뉴미-x9u 9 місяців тому +6

    에밀리 최고!!! 나도 시어머니, 이모님과 같이 에밀리편!!😘

  • @dobbygirl6051
    @dobbygirl6051 9 місяців тому +1

    예전에 다른 방송 통해서도 봤던거 같은데 가족들이 따뜻하고 서로 아끼는거 같아서 넘 보기 좋네요! 같은 다문화 가정으로서 공감가는 부분도 많아요! 응원합니다!!!

  • @Ads-f5u
    @Ads-f5u Рік тому +6

    Humans are sooo special and these two adult humans make water come to my eyes and spill out .. they are precious and their children are gorgeous

  • @WithU93
    @WithU93 9 місяців тому +3

    My tears drop in sudden this family is beautiful ❤

  • @kristina17-9
    @kristina17-9 Рік тому +30

    What an adorable kids they are blessed with.

  • @eddiemin4312
    @eddiemin4312 Рік тому +98

    He had her at “hello” 😂. Joking aside, her Korean is better than mine. Dude works hard to support the family as delivery man. It’s strange but when looking back, living in a small apartment when the kids where little and barely being able to afford groceries was actually pretty happy times you just don’t realize it then. As long as you dream together.

    • @hellbunniez3
      @hellbunniez3 Рік тому +2

      guy pulled a jerry maguire lmaoo

  • @breezygiirl
    @breezygiirl Рік тому +5

    these two are true soulmates, what a beautiful chill family i wish them much happiness

  • @st.6959
    @st.6959 Місяць тому +2

    "That's why they have three children"😂😂😂😂
    He works SO hard and honestly so does she BUT she helps him and he doesn't help her
    It also would help if they gave kids chores. While she was cooking, the kids could've been cleaning or folding.

    • @sophis9453
      @sophis9453 Місяць тому

      Yeah I don't think people are recognizing the unequal division of labour in running a household and working, also I agree the kids could be doing chores but Korea also has cram school and more studying than your average western country so maybe that is why

  • @VanillaLatte-sg2xs
    @VanillaLatte-sg2xs Рік тому +2

    부모님이 두분 다 대단하시네요 삼남매 다들 너무 이쁘고 사랑 받으며 아주 잘 클 거 같아요☺️

  • @genesprouts
    @genesprouts Рік тому +16

    ughhh i adore this family😭 i have so much respect for emily and her husband and i wish them only the best💗💗

  • @scoobz4177
    @scoobz4177 Рік тому +10

    Omfg this hits home so hard as a parent. I had the most rough day with my toddler son and this woman had 3 kids. I feel her pain. The children are so beautiful but such a pain sometimes. Its so stressful being a parent. Let alone someone trying to survive in a foreign country. God bless.😂

  • @Brooossss
    @Brooossss Рік тому +79

    @7:00 when she said, "if i know this life that i would have, i shouldnt be depressed in the past not knowing about the future."
    As a single woman, this looks depressing. But for her, it makes her happy to finally know this is what destined for her. 👏🏼

    • @scoobz4177
      @scoobz4177 Рік тому +10

      A life with children is hard but very fulfilling. As a mother I have my days where I wish I could lay in bed all day because it is hard raising a child but omg its so worth it. My son is so adorable and is eager to play, learn etc. Its kinda like a way of reliving your childhood. 😊

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro Рік тому +16

      Your brain will do that to you. Being emotionaIIy abvsed by a maIe, your brain will trick you into thinking this is a peaceful life and you want it.
      If she ever got out, she'd have a shock she endured this dire, somber situation. Depressing 100%.

    • @noneofthiseverhappened
      @noneofthiseverhappened Рік тому

      @@chervilisbetterthancilantroYou are so miserable

    • @daklord
      @daklord Рік тому +1

      I feel sad for you, you bought into the modern lie.
      I hope you are just young and not someone who is jaded from terrible life experiences.@@chervilisbetterthancilantro

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro Рік тому +15

      @@daklord I feel sad for her, she bought into the old Iie.
      Unmarried women are the happiest group. Why? Because they don't have to deal with maIes.
      Don't worry, I won't be jaded from terrible life experiences. Because I'm going to stay far away from maIes.

  • @bruskydu
    @bruskydu Рік тому +7

    Lovely family. Adorable kids and an ever loving wife. Bro has it all.

  • @nadz5879
    @nadz5879 Рік тому +33

    What a lovely family ❤ wishing them all the best for the future!

  • @alex99398
    @alex99398 Рік тому +5

    Impressive. And adorable children too...stunning. They could literally be models for Gap / Osh Kosh... You can see the effort the parents put in to their relationship and the family and it's pretty amazing to see. Wonderful video.

  • @penpasherab
    @penpasherab Рік тому +2

    hard working dad when he see his wife n kids, its make him happy n joy while a working hour.. beautiful family...

  • @hayleybarbara1589
    @hayleybarbara1589 Рік тому +46

    Emily makes me proud as a canadian 🇨🇦

  • @Morwenna16
    @Morwenna16 Рік тому +10

    Ok now I’m sure: I will never have kids. This life looks like a nightmare to me. Emily is a brave woman and she has a wonderful family!

  • @JL_hahaha0303
    @JL_hahaha0303 Рік тому +15

    omg the little one is so sweet, toddlers are the best (most of the time) hahaha

  • @chellezrich4634
    @chellezrich4634 Рік тому +10

    Wow they are both amazing
    There love for there children and each other is something you don’t see often
    Being able to adapt in a foreign country and just be chill is an amazing thing
    May they be blessed forever ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @HeVn7LaO
    @HeVn7LaO Рік тому +7

    Aww what a cute family…I love the idea that parents/couples are like a team…friendship I think is a good indicator of a good relationship whether romantic or not…

  • @monthly101
    @monthly101 Місяць тому +2

    this is completly different from the other husband of Uzbek lady. this guy actually appreciate his wife!

  • @NalaS
    @NalaS Рік тому +4

    Aww the relationship between Emily and her MIL is so special ❤ I love to see such a doting and loving relationship between in laws ❤