The Harsh Truth About Attracting Women

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  • Опубліковано 14 лис 2022
  • Lynn speaks about the harsh truth when it comes to attracting women.
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    In this video, I'm sharing the harsh truth about attracting women. If you're looking to attract women in the modern world, know that it's not easy.
    Dating and relationships in the modern world are tough. You have to show interest in a woman if you want to date her, and if you're not interested, then you won't get far. If you're looking for advice on how to attract women in the modern world, then this video is for you!
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  • @mrsavy7149
    @mrsavy7149 Рік тому +852

    Bull shit, we get labeled as desperate.

    • @kwoopnaanfamade9121
      @kwoopnaanfamade9121 Рік тому +16

      Lmao

    • @mohitkarosiya4874
      @mohitkarosiya4874 Рік тому +32

      Absa-bloooddy-lutely mate

    • @piratecat990
      @piratecat990 Рік тому +54

      Or creepy.

    • @bigenergy3880
      @bigenergy3880 Рік тому +9

      Lmao literallt get called creep or i get a weird look like "why are you talking to me" and i iant even ugly.. so now i will approach a girl if she gives a me a look if shes interested if she looks and never looks again then i aint trying

    • @TheReturnOfManhood
      @TheReturnOfManhood 11 місяців тому +7

      You guys need to work on deciphering a woman's message, you're only desperate when she is not attracted to you. You can have a 5-minute conversation with a woman and do exactly what she said, women know fairly quickly if they are sexually attracted to you.

  • @lajournsantanadolphin4895
    @lajournsantanadolphin4895 Рік тому +327

    You know what's a hard truth that some women can't accept? That men aren't mind readers. That men get rejected and put into the friendzone more than women do. Ever since The Times up, me 2 movements started men have learned their lesson. Isn't this what women wanted?

    • @marty7887
      @marty7887 Рік тому +1

      Nope

    • @jamesborg8622
      @jamesborg8622 Рік тому +22

      exactly. subtile hints don't work. women get straight to the point. women should ask out.

    • @waltw918
      @waltw918 Рік тому +22

      More Women should ask out because guys can’t read minds. in todays world guys who approach women are just creeps. Get plastered on til tok as stalkers.

    • @garybrown4997
      @garybrown4997 Рік тому +15

      Exactly, move too soon get labeled the most widely accepted label world wide and that is YOUR A CREEP, or HE GIVES ME THE CREEPS. It’s not worth being put on someone’s tik tok and having the whole community criticizing you.

    • @Luigi-xg7hx
      @Luigi-xg7hx Рік тому +3

      Nope bro, the point is to be a Man who takes action. If you are waiting all the life to get "signals" to move on, you are gonna keep waiting. Yes, we cant read minds but we can be a risktaker. Greetings.

  • @gbr8813
    @gbr8813 Рік тому +162

    I rather just ignore them. This advice is only directed to men who they are attracted to. The rest of us will be just creeps in their eyes.

    • @briantafolla256
      @briantafolla256 8 місяців тому +5

      so true

    • @lakshmikothapalli3954
      @lakshmikothapalli3954 6 місяців тому +3

      Very true

    • @kawa1755
      @kawa1755 6 місяців тому

      You miss every shot you don't take. Also, being good looking doesnt mean you get girls. The most average looking guy from my friends gets the most girls. He always trims his beard, always has a nice haircut, always in shape, and always does his best at work. Any man can do what he does and do fine. Don't make excuses and get out there and get some pussy.

    • @theoneandonlykyle9800
      @theoneandonlykyle9800 6 місяців тому +1

      Facts

    • @redavis6581
      @redavis6581 5 місяців тому

      At the end of the day, a woman's mouth is only good for one thing 👌

  • @JasonObsidian
    @JasonObsidian 10 місяців тому +94

    Ladies if you wait for that guy to approach you someone else will approach him first. Thats where all the good men are.

    • @fuzzypanda1684
      @fuzzypanda1684 9 місяців тому +6

      Hahaha, dude guys never get approached unless they're a top 1% ultra-Chad. I can count on one hand the number of times I've been approached in my life, and the best of the lot was a 3 at best.

    • @JasonObsidian
      @JasonObsidian 9 місяців тому +1

      @@fuzzypanda1684 that's three more than most.

    • @viktore1375
      @viktore1375 9 місяців тому +1

      @@JasonObsidian all 3 were probably not cold approached but rather somewhere at work or so or a youtuber doing prank

    • @fburnsDubstepEnderFox
      @fburnsDubstepEnderFox 6 місяців тому

      Not always true.
      I've approached men and they didn't know how to interact or socialize outside of discord/reddit humor and p0rn programming.

    • @JasonObsidian
      @JasonObsidian 6 місяців тому +2

      @@fburnsDubstepEnderFox they were not Men.

  • @gregthompson9434
    @gregthompson9434 Рік тому +259

    We are winning guys , let them work and have cats

    • @jonjonboi3701
      @jonjonboi3701 Рік тому

      Very sexist and complete bullshit

    • @piratecat990
      @piratecat990 Рік тому

      Cats are cool, though...lol.

    • @kanvankosthuvaran416
      @kanvankosthuvaran416 Рік тому +14

      @@piratecat990they’re only with you for food

    • @mikereiss4216
      @mikereiss4216 10 місяців тому +11

      @@kanvankosthuvaran416 Oh so you mean they are the same as women that way then.

    • @kanvankosthuvaran416
      @kanvankosthuvaran416 10 місяців тому

      @@mikereiss4216 precisely nigga

  • @uwekirschner187
    @uwekirschner187 Рік тому +56

    Truth be told, if a Woman smiles at me, i'am not seeing that as something special. I always think she is just nice. A smile means and even eyecontact means nothing

    • @godnyx117
      @godnyx117 5 місяців тому +5

      Yep! Learned this first hand. Women are just more confident and friendly even when they don't like you. Unless she gives CLEAR signs, don't bother!

  • @671p78
    @671p78 Рік тому +68

    But women fought for the right to be strong and independent so shouldn't they do the approaching instead of making us men do all the work kinda defeats the purpose of being strong and Independent

    • @reeganevans6707
      @reeganevans6707 Рік тому +7

      💯 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯!!!!

    • @mikereiss4216
      @mikereiss4216 10 місяців тому +15

      They only want to be independent and take action when it suits them.

    • @revivedsoul1099
      @revivedsoul1099 7 місяців тому

      This comment deserve 100 upvotes. Just fact. What im saying now will be fact, and most women logic. Women want to be independent and strong, yet they want to feel lower and weaker/weak in every regard. They basiacly saying women are not those things, and dosent deserve equal rights and treatment.
      By their logic, if equal rights and equal treatment was removed then it would be easier for men to initiate and lead a relationship. Because obviously women almost never intiate out of fear.
      Also as if men dont get harsher treatment by being called creep regularly, and even falsely accusing men of sexual harassment. Only way for a man to initiate and lead in relationship in women`s mind is men being richer, taller, smarter and bolder than themself.
      Its hypocrisy and double standard of women.
      If they want we can remove the equal rights and equal treatment of women if thats what they want. They clearly want to feel and be inferior.
      They refuse to change, but men have changed. They very much indirectly and directly asking to be inferior. We can make that 100% that happen, seems it will make most people happy because clearly many arent.

    • @GovtWatchdog
      @GovtWatchdog 26 днів тому

      I feel like women these days are confused and don’t know what the heck they want.

  • @ob1sapprentice921
    @ob1sapprentice921 Рік тому +70

    Every single time I have initiated, I get rejected. Women complain they get hit on all the time and yet want you to initiate... Women need to stop playing games, stop being judgemental and start showing respect for us guys who do actually try...

    • @bahaatamer1245
      @bahaatamer1245 Рік тому +6

      I was just like you when I was 21, then I started seeing it from their perspective. These "games" are definitely bad, but one good reason they do this is because they understand psychology better than us (and rightfully so, because they're physically weaker than us, and they can't do anything about it!), and they definitely don't want to be labelled as sluts!
      In other words, if you work hard for something (a woman's attention in this case), you're less likely to dump her. There's a reason why it's hard to go out with some girls.
      I'm not defending them, but I'm not attacking them either without fully understanding the situation. Your best bet is to just ask, and if she says no, that's absolutely fine. I got rejected THOUSANDS of times so far, and I still try when I'm single.

    • @jasond626
      @jasond626 Рік тому +6

      I couldn't agree more apprentice., women need to wake up.. some women think we just want them for sex, maybe cos that's all we think they've got to offer (ie there not a nice person, no personality, bitchy etc etc)

    • @ob1sapprentice921
      @ob1sapprentice921 Рік тому +8

      I'm 47, I'm fit, muscular and I might not look like George Clooney but I'm attractive, in great shape, always have been and I've NEVER had a gf. I spent my entire life being rejected despite how respectful I am to women, I don't see women as sex objects but yes, like any and EVERY other man, I think women are very sexy and it's hard to not look at those sexy curves but it really annoys me when a girl dresses to show off her body and when a guy checks her out, or even INITIATES, she complains that some creep looked at her or hit on her. Yes some guys out there are creeps but don't label us all, we men are hard wired to desire you, to be attracted to you sexually, seriously, women need to respect the nature of human nature and start understanding that its really hard for men nowadays, a simple hello and a look can turn into sexualising harassment and it's pathetic. Women need to take initiative now aswell, it's all a part of what they say they want with the equal rights, equality, act like it!

    • @dwayneellis2003
      @dwayneellis2003 Рік тому +1

      Yeah, I think it only applies to the ones that they want to hit on them. Like we're supposed to know. I'll tell you what though, let one of them ask you out and then respond with "nah, I like my peace". Besides, I kinda like being single. That way, if I get in trouble, it will actually be my fault 😂

    • @reeganevans6707
      @reeganevans6707 Рік тому

      I feel you, my guy. Happens to me, constantly. 💔

  • @yashkaimariya
    @yashkaimariya Рік тому +70

    Men aren't initiating anymore. And feminism and rude woman nowadays are the reasons.

  • @keshavgour
    @keshavgour Рік тому +95

    You take initiative and get trapped in different zones 😬

    • @axosrain4825
      @axosrain4825 4 місяці тому

      Mmmmmmm... I currently have a coworker that hits on every girl and even the ones who are teens. He has said creepy weird things before....honestly it's how the initiative is taken. Some come on too strong and make us feel uncomfortable.........I think there has to be a balance in it. 🤔 then there is also females who hit on males or they only talk to males constantly. Either way people need to be balanced when pursuing someone. Don't make them think your weird and clingy.

  • @menotyou3493
    @menotyou3493 Рік тому +76

    Women should take the initiative & ask men out themselves. What's the worst that can happen? You get shot down like a man? You might be surprised when you take a chance on the guy you're about to reject

    • @bgood213
      @bgood213 Рік тому +1

      Excellent exactly!!!!

    • @terryquinn7347
      @terryquinn7347 Рік тому +2

      They can't stand rejection

    • @mikereiss4216
      @mikereiss4216 10 місяців тому

      @@terryquinn7347 And men love it?

    • @risevision1080
      @risevision1080 8 місяців тому

      ​@@mikereiss4216men tolerate it, women would handle rejection far far far worse than men

    • @Bweyg
      @Bweyg 7 місяців тому +1

      @@mikereiss4216 Men don't like it, but they don't rage like women do either XD have you seen those shows where they press the button to reject the other person? Men get rejected 30-40 times a year (and that's if they are still in the dating game) and most don't even remember the girls they ask out and got rejected by because years later those same girls will be 100+ lbs and have tattos all over the place and have 3 kids with 2 baby daddies. If you reject a woman, instead of just being like "oh ok that's fine I understand" they get FURIOUS and start shouting and screaming.

  • @Biruk6969
    @Biruk6969 Рік тому +22

    I don’t know WHY THIS WOMEN is trying to act like she knows everything about men you’re not a man you don’t understand us we will be called a creep if we immediately ask out a girl 💀

    • @axosrain4825
      @axosrain4825 4 місяці тому

      Not all females are the same....some of us want to get to know someone first and see if we would like to ask them or for them to ask us......random asking for numbers is kinda...weird. 😅😅

    • @ethosterros9430
      @ethosterros9430 Місяць тому

      ​@@axosrain4825that's not the real problem

  • @Wanderer2035
    @Wanderer2035 Рік тому +43

    But then if we initiate we get called creepy and weird.

    • @Rollyax
      @Rollyax 7 місяців тому

      You have to initiate more buddy. Like 30 in a month at least.

    • @revivedsoul1099
      @revivedsoul1099 7 місяців тому

      @@Rollyax I have initiated its mixed signals, but still being called or creep is just rude and dehumanizing. I never experienced it to my face, but might have had it behind me, if so thats rude. Wouldnt be suprised if many or most men have been refered to as creep.
      Where did you get the 30 number from? I have so far intiated 10-15 time. In my life. Its was scary at first, but after 2 time, it get easier, especially get easier after you have trained or about to train, but that might give bad results because of gym clothes and odor, but i did look good in my fit and had deodorant on. So i asked like 4-6 girls in a day i believe. Which was very impressive for me. Wouldnt recommend doing in same area where previous girl can see i think lol, which i did, probably beccause of testosterone and endoprhin release. Its discouraging tho facing failure. Especially when has nice face and average weight. Im maxing up, so im slightly optimisitc.

    • @Rollyax
      @Rollyax 7 місяців тому

      @@revivedsoul1099 It’s frustrating to know you can appear as a creep yet the more you do it the better you get the more results you get. It’s also a numbers game.
      I did it on the street mostly. But I’ve done 1.500 approaches. I wanted more than women, I wanted to improve my social skills and be more confident, which you will definetly achieve if you do constantly, cause you’ll get rejected a lot. Yet there are also tons of other benefits. I constantly think why I didn’t start interacting more from a younger age yet I’m only 2 years into this and still got more to learn.
      Anyways bro, after a while I started to read signals from women that already liked me and approach only those. At the begining I approached anyone no matter what yet if her body doesn’t respond to you energetically and send you signals of interest there are more chances that you’ll come across as a creep when you approach. But do it the right way and be sincere, read body language (by practicing a lot) so you don’t come across as too strong, show warmness and vulnerability and even if she doesn’t like you you’ll make her day and have a good interaction.
      If you did 4-6 first time that’s pretty nice. My first and the second had a break like 2 months in between.

    • @axosrain4825
      @axosrain4825 4 місяці тому

      Hopefully, she means to initiate after meeting and getting to know a little.....not just in your face random initiating. 😅

    • @andrew2477
      @andrew2477 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@Rollyaxso get called creepy and weird 30 times then? No thanks, I'm good.

  • @Ant-speakingfacts
    @Ant-speakingfacts Рік тому +11

    What's wrong with women making the 1st move?????

    • @Wanderer2035
      @Wanderer2035 Рік тому +2

      That’s what I’m saying

    • @Emewn
      @Emewn 10 місяців тому

      That requires a spine and guts...

    • @andrew2477
      @andrew2477 2 місяці тому

      They are princesses and "queens" who can't be bothered to try making the first move. It's beneath them 🙄

  • @martysykes3221
    @martysykes3221 Рік тому +22

    Why would I want to take action toward something that is only going to make me miserable in the long run? 🤔, why would I say such a thing? Experience.

  • @joeshmoe8952
    @joeshmoe8952 Рік тому +45

    Sometimes ignoring women works very well. You're doing something most men don't do & they're not used to that.

    • @powerfulmeditations1322
      @powerfulmeditations1322 11 місяців тому +1

      That literally never works unless your beauty suits the current atyraction standards of the world.

    • @joeshmoe8952
      @joeshmoe8952 11 місяців тому

      @@powerfulmeditations1322 All I can say is that it works for me. Not giving women validation.

    • @christophervanheerden6499
      @christophervanheerden6499 9 місяців тому

      It works. That is how i got laid dos times amigo. Some women love a bit of toxicity

    • @rah8985
      @rah8985 9 місяців тому

      The amount of bullshit she speaks with that fake Donald duck looking face of hers 😂
      Men ,don't run around women, if they are desperate,they should take the initiative.
      You should be focused on building your career, wealth,health and happiness.
      This is the age of equality,let the women take initiatives now or else you will always have to be her entertainment box .

    • @sanher20
      @sanher20 9 місяців тому +2

      That shit doesn't work

  • @Hasan9t
    @Hasan9t Рік тому +12

    Terrible terrible advice. Guys, if we collectively initiate even more than the crazy levels women are getting us to initiate online… well if you think their sense of entitlement is bad now, you haven’t seen anything.
    The real advice is see if you’re getting some cues. Then initiate and only then, and do so subtly. Do not chase. Repeat, do NOT chase

  • @baldy517
    @baldy517 9 місяців тому +21

    Translation: Approach women so they have the upper hand and can create false accusations, because we all know you think you are violated the moment we say hi.

    • @theoneandonlykyle9800
      @theoneandonlykyle9800 6 місяців тому

      Lmao so true women are the biggest scam artists walking the planet.

    • @axosrain4825
      @axosrain4825 4 місяці тому

      😂 I think what she means to say is that initiating conversations first is nice and if it flows and she seems to enjoy it then....you can ask for numbers or contact info.

  • @scampifrity
    @scampifrity Рік тому +15

    Stop giving men any hope. It's ridiculous.

    • @michaelrodriguez3329
      @michaelrodriguez3329 Рік тому +3

      This lady talking has no idea what she's talking about

    • @patienceobongo
      @patienceobongo Рік тому +1

      She isnt.
      She gave you the key.
      Just ignore them.

    • @axosrain4825
      @axosrain4825 4 місяці тому

      Just initiate conversation and if it flows and the female seems to enjoy chatting with you.....then ask for contact info. It works especially when you both find a common ground.

  • @sebastiancawsey5024
    @sebastiancawsey5024 Рік тому +31

    Me: Hi there. Say, would you...
    Her: Get lost/No/Sorry I gotta take this call.
    Has happened more than once, more than a couple dozens. There is only so many times a guy can try to initiate until he loses hope.

    • @gerardoesquivel9919
      @gerardoesquivel9919 Рік тому

      ​@will smithlol no

    • @waltw918
      @waltw918 Рік тому +1

      @will smith I would apply that to any other aspect in life but when it comes to women we can’t read their minds, moods or whatever is happening that day.

    • @alllovese4syx319
      @alllovese4syx319 Рік тому +6

      I remember being in Amsterdam and I just wanted to roll a joint but I had no tabacco. I went in the nightlife district with clubs and stuff and went straight to a girl who was smoking and asked her for a cig. Guess what...!
      Me:"Hey, excuse me, I wanted to ask you if you would give me a cigarette so that I can..."
      Cuts me right off and says
      Her:"Wow, what a lame pick up line... couldnt you come up with something else?"
      I was completely baffled and thought wdf...
      Ofc I responded with a big laugh and said that I wasnt trying to hit on her and just wanted a cig for rolling.
      But guess what?
      Ofc I didnt got a cigarette and had to move on.
      Still funny but also soooo sad to see that entitlement. I bet she still beliefs I tried to hit on her... hahaha

    • @mikereiss4216
      @mikereiss4216 10 місяців тому +2

      @@alllovese4syx319 70 percent of women seem to think if you are talking to them then you are trying to pick them up. The number goes up the younger and more attractive they are and down the older and less attractive they are. But many just make that assumption. Sometimes they are right but not always. I try not to act like I am picking them up or interested until at least 5 to 10 minutes into the conversation. If you do it right away then they have a reason to shoot you down.

  • @natoslayer2907
    @natoslayer2907 8 місяців тому +5

    This is a trap. Women that complain about men not making a move on her are just frustrated that he's not easy for her to get validation from him like every other guy. Women aren't attracted to men who give them power over him. You might get yourself into some garbage relationship with her if you initiate, but the moment you do is the moment she loses respect for you as well. She has conquered you because you are a weak man. If you want something to happen that benefits you then you are better off keeping your power to yourself and exhibiting value to as many women and people as you can. Eventually some of them will not be able to resist anymore. It is important that she's the one whose composure and resolve breaks and not you if you want to be respected. If you're a desperate man then you jump the gun because sexual release is more important to you than power.

  • @gerardoesquivel9919
    @gerardoesquivel9919 Рік тому +10

    They are desperatd for validation and clout, now that the red pill has come to the masses and men dont wanna play games, they want to return to old times
    Forget it kings, stay strong, protect yourselves at all times

  • @patienceobongo
    @patienceobongo Рік тому +9

    Thanks. Not initiating turns women off and my wallet is safe.

  • @ArcticSeraph
    @ArcticSeraph 8 місяців тому +6

    Well women, if you like him and he ends up with someone else, you know what you didn't do. You didn't plead hard enough 😂

    • @axosrain4825
      @axosrain4825 4 місяці тому

      Why plead? 😂 if he doesn't show interest then we don't need to waste our time. 😂 pleading is for the ones who are not willing to be single.

    • @ArcticSeraph
      @ArcticSeraph 4 місяці тому

      Watch the video again. I'm not the one telling women to plead

    • @andrew2477
      @andrew2477 2 місяці тому

      ​​​@@axosrain4825Sounds like women aren't very humble then. They feel too important and too good to put in equal effort and reciprocate when it comes to dating.

  • @dwayneellis2003
    @dwayneellis2003 Рік тому +8

    Can't really initiate anymore because we're too scared of catching a charge or being called a creepy or maybe even being publicly humiliated. Still love your videos though 🤗

  • @mike9913
    @mike9913 10 місяців тому +9

    Yes, guys. Ask them out more quickly. Get rejected and get it over with. Remember, there's still a possibility that she'll go out with you. One on a thousand. Unless you're tall, good looking and rich. So...there's hope. Ask away!!

    • @lifehope4201
      @lifehope4201 8 місяців тому

      😂😂truth told in sarcastic way

    • @axosrain4825
      @axosrain4825 4 місяці тому

      How quickly are we talking? Just saw her and up in her face asking? 😂 no bro.....conversations first. Make her laugh a bit and smile...then she probably will be expecting you to ask for that contact info

  • @longmai9343
    @longmai9343 7 місяців тому +3

    There are a lot of women out here, If you missed one, there will be another. so don't risk ruining your reputation by approaching women casually and being called creeps.

    • @axosrain4825
      @axosrain4825 4 місяці тому

      As long as your not up in the face of the first girl you see asking for numbers...it's fine. We live to chat and laugh. Conversation is key.

  • @danenholm3281
    @danenholm3281 Рік тому +5

    Y can't women take initiative y can't women ask men out. Cause if a man makes the date then the man has to pay. I'm not spending money an a 304. U no women r the reason men no longer ask u out.

  • @okgoogleplay3500
    @okgoogleplay3500 7 місяців тому +4

    We don't initiate because we learned not to.

  • @FTC2929
    @FTC2929 8 місяців тому +2

    Guys, enjoy your life with cars, bikes, gadgets and tours! Invite women only when you feel your life needs Drama just to spice up your life for few days!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @flextechvip
    @flextechvip 9 місяців тому +2

    Take initiative so she can turn you down call you a creep or a weirdo or worse accuse you of sexual harassment and post you on tik tok...Yeah I'll pass.

  • @alejobradley
    @alejobradley Рік тому +7

    yeah but up to which point do you have to persist?? we live in modern days, women have to accept that you all have to take initiative too

  • @jakianam9554
    @jakianam9554 Рік тому +20

    Women are born manipulator . If you take initiative they will also play mindgames

    • @sanher20
      @sanher20 9 місяців тому

      Not all women, but a lot of women nowadays are completely clueless about men so they end up doing dumb shit like that and ruining everything

    • @axosrain4825
      @axosrain4825 4 місяці тому

      Actually, there are manipulators in both genders. 😂 personality wise. It's just hard to find someone that you can truly connect with. Then the whole battle of the sexes is wild. With both sides up in arms and labeling the other bad things. We seem to forget that the other person is human.

    • @andrew2477
      @andrew2477 2 місяці тому

      ​@@axosrain4825That is true. However most men are willing to negotiate or meet women halfway, but women on the other hand are not willing to meet men halfway or come to the table to negotiate. It's either their way or the highway. They have become even more egotistical than the most egotistical men (I know its hard to believe) and it is some women not all women, but what is scary is that that number of women who are like that keeps increasing every year. Feminism turned women into monsters who are painfully not self-aware and dangerously entitled. More and more men are now becoming more humble, more self-aware, less toxic, less arrogant and less entitled. They are starting to go in the other direction. And women are starting to go in the opposite direction which is crazy. I guess they think since men did it, its their turn to be toxic, arrogant, crazy, entitled etc.

  • @johannes6760
    @johannes6760 9 місяців тому +3

    When girls reach out first and initiate that makes us like you %500 more. So girls take notes

  • @brianc1109
    @brianc1109 10 місяців тому +2

    Yeah well the worst that could happen is really awful. It’s not just rejection now, it’s being labeled a harassment and a creep

  • @CodyBishop-ci3qb
    @CodyBishop-ci3qb Рік тому +5

    Stop the bullshit, we take initiative we get called desperate, we try to make a move on a date. Next thing you know we need a f-ing lawyer

  • @jasond626
    @jasond626 Рік тому +8

    I agree, BUT. women could take the initiative, guys are to scared to nowadays incase they are accused of something..

  • @christophervanheerden6499
    @christophervanheerden6499 9 місяців тому +2

    We initiate when the woman is worth the effort. Simply put: when the juice is worth the squeeze we will make lemonade

  • @Fluxiton
    @Fluxiton 4 місяці тому +2

    This is actually good advice. The faster a guy gets over the rejection fear the more successful he becomes because he just asks more and doesn't care if she says no, that fucks her head big time. If she talks about you behind your back, her friends will be more interested out of jealousy and women shit will cause them all to be more willing.

  • @TomNook.
    @TomNook. Рік тому +11

    LOL. Taking initiative won't make a difference if she doesn't find you attractive enough to engage in a conversation in the first place

  • @paulinogodsonra2390
    @paulinogodsonra2390 Рік тому +3

    Women of this generation don’t have a clue as to the type of man they desire and they are very easily misled by negative whispers comments in there ear 👂🏾 about the man 👨🏽 and then they decide not to give the poor guy a fighting chance so sad women don’t have a mind of their own and they are easily misled by the haters or some one judgmental view of a prospective guy she may be interested in or he in her any way this is all i have to share ✌🏾♥️🙏🏾

  • @mister-zen8491
    @mister-zen8491 9 місяців тому +2

    All I have to say is:
    Hang out, have fun, and hookup. 😉

  • @antarshakti3093
    @antarshakti3093 8 місяців тому +2

    In another videos we men are told to ignore the woman to pull her attention 😐

  • @mdbdrrhm
    @mdbdrrhm 11 місяців тому +2

    Suppose you are not interested and don’t want to waste her time and your time.

  • @kevinfrazer2632
    @kevinfrazer2632 Рік тому +6

    Sadly when we do it women reject men. That’s my personal thought of this wish is why I don’t approach women. Because of 2 reasons, they either think there too important for you or, They Just ignore you all together. But then complain why are still single, and asking were the good guys at When in reality they love toxicity, it’s confusing to me but it’s but this is are the women we deal now a days crazy.

    • @cic6002
      @cic6002 3 дні тому

      They spit in the face of the good guys

  • @notyetskeletal4809
    @notyetskeletal4809 Рік тому +16

    Nah. You want it just come over.

    • @bahaatamer1245
      @bahaatamer1245 Рік тому

      That'll backfire pretty badly for her reputation

    • @notyetskeletal4809
      @notyetskeletal4809 Рік тому +1

      @@bahaatamer1245 Nobody has to know. How would they know?

  • @Ghostek791
    @Ghostek791 10 місяців тому +1

    I notice when chat or hangout friend girl for 5 month. Me not make move on her. they stop talking to me and sometimes get block😅.

  • @johnnyelway1493
    @johnnyelway1493 Рік тому +4

    We are not mind readers😂😂😂
    We just need to try again and again until find the one this woman is talking about. Not every woman is going to accept whatever comes first. I know that for experience P

  • @santos8146
    @santos8146 9 місяців тому +1

    She: harsh truth about attraction to woman
    My mind: The apprentice theme song😂😂😂

  • @ItIsMeJamesE
    @ItIsMeJamesE Рік тому +12

    Us men are out here on the grind if you are interested say so.. it's 2022 "wE wAnT eQuAliTy" that doesn't mean cherry picking what you want it on

  • @Ol_Ben
    @Ol_Ben 6 місяців тому +2

    Take more action to be straightforward vs. sending mixed signals

  • @reeganevans6707
    @reeganevans6707 Рік тому +4

    98% of Men have to take initiative to ask a woman out.
    2% of Women have to take initiative to ask a man out.
    Why can’t it be 50%?!
    Give US a break. 💔

    • @TheReturnOfManhood
      @TheReturnOfManhood 11 місяців тому

      Because you are a damn man, stop complaining.

    • @partha1597
      @partha1597 9 місяців тому +3

      Absolutely..its for their ego boost and validation and be be in power ro reject guys

    • @steveh5307
      @steveh5307 8 місяців тому

      Everything going well so you ask her out and she either says "already made plans" or flakes out. I ask once, ask again a week later. Give 2 chances then I'm done. Keep waiting as if you'll get a better option. Women are dumb

    • @partha1597
      @partha1597 8 місяців тому +1

      @@steveh5307 still you give so many chances..only ask once..Its better to stop asking her out/approaching/initiating conversation in order to stop giving these women options and ego boost and free validation.End result is 98 % rejction/humiliation for guys..so its no use

    • @steveh5307
      @steveh5307 8 місяців тому

      @@partha1597 twice isn't some huge difference. Once can be genuine schedule conflict. Twice is a statement. Twice is a perfectly reasonable limit.

  • @younis9819
    @younis9819 7 місяців тому +2

    Sometimes you initiate and prideful women end up shaming you as needy or desperate!

  • @mayhem6863
    @mayhem6863 10 місяців тому +2

    Then they call us desperate and we get rejected. NUH UH

  • @demonsureiya9297
    @demonsureiya9297 11 місяців тому +1

    Absolutely, women love men who are dominant and take initiative. She wants a man who takes the lead so she can follow, it makes her feel secure and protected which is important for a woman to feel.
    Initiating first and being dominant really helped with my dating life and got the most supportive gf I ever had. 💯

  • @Unknown21312
    @Unknown21312 9 місяців тому +1

    Not trying to seem desperate, worst thing a man can be is seen as desperate.

  • @Vospader21
    @Vospader21 7 місяців тому +2

    Massive caveat: only be the one who initiates if you know she finds you attractive. Otherwise that’s a one way ticket to being put on the creepy guy list.

  • @ArchaicDemon26
    @ArchaicDemon26 4 місяці тому +1

    They should do it, there will be a high success rate because we have a higher chance to say yes.

  • @no-xl6qg
    @no-xl6qg Рік тому +4

    You do it.

  • @caesarprice3252
    @caesarprice3252 Рік тому +2

    She talking about the guys she finds attractive, not men

  • @xeroxbrother8223
    @xeroxbrother8223 9 днів тому

    It all comes down to atraction: when it is there, you dont need a oneliner, she will give you another chance when you mess up the first.
    Visual atraction is 1, then comes the "what and how much can i take from this guy?"

  • @joetolliver3359
    @joetolliver3359 11 місяців тому +1

    Me too is a major turn off. And Al the videos women post about degrading men who are interested. The entire game is jacked up. Accountability from women would go along way with this problem.

  • @xxxsully420
    @xxxsully420 5 місяців тому

    Funny how I asked her out twice just for her to tell me she's busy and she'll let know but she still gives me choosing signals but won't look at me when I try to talk her and catcher staring at me from the corner of my eye and even smiling. I haven't made a point of saying she acts like she hates me in front of my co-worker and he said that's because she thinks you're better than her.

  • @Luigi-xg7hx
    @Luigi-xg7hx 4 дні тому

    They want us to tanke action in front of five friends of hers, and they still upset with us... gimme a break

  • @jvees7916
    @jvees7916 2 місяці тому +1

    Yeah and then I seem like I’m harassing her.

  • @MarcusVinnie-xl6nk
    @MarcusVinnie-xl6nk 7 місяців тому +1

    LOL 😆... in today's day and age. That's the quickest way to get arrested or on social media exposed as a creep or humiliated for approaching a women. If you are the guy women want you don't need to approach.

  • @flycar4952
    @flycar4952 Рік тому +1

    Another creepy concept. Stop putting women on pedestal, in the first place men and women and are equal and on the other side of the spectrum enlightened words of this lady. Stop caring about women. Focus on your goals and your health. Let them beg.

  • @fburnsDubstepEnderFox
    @fburnsDubstepEnderFox 6 місяців тому +1

    Honestly, I've had this happen to me with different guys (eight) who were interested in me. Tall guys, short guys, etc.
    They didn't talk or ask questions or make any attempts to introduce themselves... I had to do everything until I got tired, started feeling masculine, and just couldn't see myself as female... and just turned cold, shut off from them, and just immersed myself back into my hobbies.
    Never again. 😂

    • @CroqueMonsieur42
      @CroqueMonsieur42 2 місяці тому

      Muscuilinity is a social construct by patriarchy.

    • @fburnsDubstepEnderFox
      @fburnsDubstepEnderFox 2 місяці тому +1

      @@CroqueMonsieur42 Okay. Great. This totally changes my experiences and of having to do EVERYTHING myself and the feelings that arose from them. Thanks. /S

    • @CroqueMonsieur42
      @CroqueMonsieur42 2 місяці тому

      @@fburnsDubstepEnderFox I mean I was talkin about some women that calls out muscuilinity/feminity is unreal on one side and scare themselves if they'll become a man for doing traditional male things on the other end. Meanwhile there are many feminine men and muscuiline men in this day. People are becoming modern(including you), but some of them are keeping their virtues traditional even tho they're chasing after modernity. You can't have cake and eat that too lol. Believe it not, most of these gender stereotypes are social constructs, there would be some natural aesthetics, values between genders, but we aren't biologically driven creatures anymore.

    • @CroqueMonsieur42
      @CroqueMonsieur42 2 місяці тому

      *feminine men and muscuiline women😗

    • @fburnsDubstepEnderFox
      @fburnsDubstepEnderFox 2 місяці тому

      Okay but I'm not talking about masculinity/femininity on a societal scale. I'm talking about (1) my personal experiences and feelings, and (2) talking about not being able to be attracted to someone who won't meet me halfway.
      If I feel masculine because of those experiences, how does it bother you -- a literal Internet stranger -- who hasn't lived in my shoes or gone through what I've gone through? 🤔

  • @GovtWatchdog
    @GovtWatchdog 26 днів тому

    A tip to women: if you want a man to approach you, first make it known that you’re attracted to him. Make sure he sees you looking at him…a lot. This very easy but crucial step has somehow been lost.

  • @HazelLodge-wo6wo
    @HazelLodge-wo6wo 8 місяців тому

    I'm always trying to take initiative! It's important for me to attract woman in my life

  • @user-pt6jg7uy1w
    @user-pt6jg7uy1w 5 місяців тому

    I did this decided to take initiative and guess I got sexual harassment charges from HR now I might lose my job 😂 !

  • @a.b.tapatio5713
    @a.b.tapatio5713 3 місяці тому

    Hell nah. I ignore them. Want to know why? Because as soon as I show some type of interest they play Hard to get and then act like they’re not interested in me. F that.

    • @a.b.tapatio5713
      @a.b.tapatio5713 3 місяці тому

      Btw; keep your advice, woman. You don’t know what it’s like to be a man.

  • @grant9047
    @grant9047 10 місяців тому

    That’s cause women act really mean when they reject men and that scares men away from doing that in the future because they don’t wanna go through that again.

  • @mikereiss4216
    @mikereiss4216 10 місяців тому +1

    Maybe we don't initiate because we aren't interested. Also, maybe we aren't getting the signals or vibe we need.

  • @mrguy9118
    @mrguy9118 11 місяців тому

    But isn't it weird to ask for her number or to ask her out if you've only had brief encounters?

  • @capcapcapitycap9995
    @capcapcapitycap9995 7 місяців тому

    The harsh truth is actually that we must change not them 😅

  • @Patriarchyfightclub
    @Patriarchyfightclub 7 місяців тому +1

    This is the biggest load of horse crap I’ve ever heard I’ve initiated so many times always the same outcome they get turned off

  • @vanshbhondekar8126
    @vanshbhondekar8126 6 місяців тому

    I am a playboy and she is correct. You should escalate things fast but not like a simp, example, she said no and you're begging for it.

  • @nickstar6170
    @nickstar6170 Рік тому

    I initiate plenty, but that's not the problem. The problem is the multitude of reasons why that woman won't give me her number, or go on a date with me. Whether it be attraction, or boyfriend, or arrogance, or age or any number of things

  • @MVS-team
    @MVS-team 4 місяці тому

    Yeah I messed up with a girl because I didn’t do anything and she lost interest but that’s the game of life.

  • @89playstation65
    @89playstation65 20 днів тому

    When men take the initiative...a lot of times it will be viewed as sexual harassment.
    In order to avoid sexual harassment, we don't approach women...we dont even get close to women. We stay 50 feet away at all times if we can help it.

  • @anoopraha7166
    @anoopraha7166 Рік тому +1

    Do it sooner 😂😂😂get sued sooner for harrasment

  • @jackbryan2089
    @jackbryan2089 5 місяців тому

    Sir aggar D9 ke 6th house mein Venus apni hi raashi TAURUS mein aa jaaye toh kya tab bhi court cases jhelne padhenge??

  • @jochuba
    @jochuba 6 місяців тому

    Why relationships have to be a mind games and paradoxes. What happened to the straight and honest approach that most human cultures world wide used to have. Every nation had the appropriate approach that a mannered young man can approach a women politely and appropriately propose and at the same time women can accept or decline politely.

  • @mav3ric100
    @mav3ric100 2 місяці тому +1

    False. Chad does not initiate, they chase him. She'll break all the typical common sense things if you're her Chad or her ideal man (the one she finds attractivre)

  • @MrClemsonfan2011
    @MrClemsonfan2011 9 місяців тому +1

    Ohhhhh noooo I got embarrassed last time I approached a woman respectfully.

  • @MiniClipsZone
    @MiniClipsZone 9 місяців тому

    Every girl have different feelings, and expectations, this tricks doesn't work for all girls.🤝

  • @greg_krupa
    @greg_krupa 6 місяців тому

    Ngl after I grew out my beard and workout on my days off. The women literally approach me 😁

  • @sonic8379
    @sonic8379 7 місяців тому +1

    The worst thing you can do is hear a women on how to flirt when they are clueless of what they really want in a guy, "Dont recommend channel" button here we go 😂😂😂

  • @hyberkonawa272
    @hyberkonawa272 Рік тому +1

    Terrible advice.
    We don't work for money.
    Money work for us.
    Women are assets, not objects.
    Men are the busniss owners hiring women for the job.

  • @jochuba
    @jochuba 6 місяців тому

    The truth is women are not asking that to make relationships more approachable, but rather to boost self their validation and sense of value. They would like a young handsome rich man approaching them but God forbid if you are older, bald, fat, poor... then that would be very offensive and regarded as a harassment act.

  • @trevorthornley8835
    @trevorthornley8835 8 місяців тому

    There's so many fricken people telling us what to do and so many rules that conflict with each other, that it's become a gigantic confusing mess. No thanks. You ask the guy out.

  • @ichbinstarkwolfhausen998
    @ichbinstarkwolfhausen998 5 місяців тому

    Amen, I totally agree . Just went through this, men want women to put themselves on a platter, men have become lazy.

  • @prophecyrevelations5653
    @prophecyrevelations5653 8 місяців тому +1

    I disagree Don't do it at all. That's giving away your power and setting you up for almost definite rejection. Women live to reject men it gives them a ego boost. I have four sisters I know this for a fact.
    I became a business owner became wealthy now they initiate things with me. I'd say just be a high value guy...THEY'LL DO IT Or they'll have to live with regret of the fact that another woman did. That's what i've seen in my experience. In all actuality the trick is to avoid them and be silent. Then they wonder out of all the guys in the bar🤔 Who's that guy over in the corner NOT hittin on or talking to me. Women are curious creatures. I've had women approach me and flat out demand to know "why are you not talking to me." Making them feel special has the opposite effect. If you want a woman to like you ignore her. (Only in the beginning, after u determine u can "deal" with her, be sure to give her the attention & rewards only you as a HIGH value guy can

  • @mikereiss4216
    @mikereiss4216 11 місяців тому

    In this day and age a man finds himself in a damned if they do damned if they don't situation as far as approaching women. If she smiles at you then approach? Nah, that doesn't mean anything. I've had women with wedding rings smile at me. It don't mean anything.

  • @zeroresistance7203
    @zeroresistance7203 8 місяців тому

    I would love to take more iniatives with women. But issue is everytime i do i get rejected so what's the point in even trying.

  • @RamonOntiveros-ml3gd
    @RamonOntiveros-ml3gd 20 днів тому

    Everytime I try to approach a woman she says she has a boyfriend 😂😂 and then I walk away. I stopped chasing women. Sometimes we don't understand women. Im better alone 😂 hahaha

  • @paulinogodsonra2390
    @paulinogodsonra2390 Рік тому

    All bs i take the initiative immediately when i see a woman 👩🏽, sometimes i wait for 5 minutes or so before i approach to know if she even notice me … and som i don’t make a move because once i do even tho I’m a confident man the woman finds something negative about me

  • @whiteknight5100
    @whiteknight5100 9 місяців тому

    I haven't approached a day in my life and I'm not about to start now

  • @avnish.dixit_
    @avnish.dixit_ 9 місяців тому

    if everything is done by men after achieving everything more than her what she will do?