Dating a shorter man
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
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I am 6' and my husband is 5'5", and I wouldn't change a thing about him!!
thecrazymusiclover14 you’re give me some hope 😢
Aww, I love it! I like a man who is 2 or 3 inches shorter than I am, and just wondering if its awkward at all?
@@issystar96 I'm 5'6. I'm usually attracted to girls 5'8-5'9, it's just preference
@@PikUpYourPantsPatrol I'm 5' 8", I'm looking for a girl who is 6'+ lol I'm weird.
IN MY WORLD THIS MEANS HOPE
I’m 5 10 and my girlfriend is 6 2 and I love it. She is gorgeous and EVERYONE notices her, but she’s with me!
Luck you!
My man stay confident, Meliodas is 5’0” tall but pulls women that are all bigger than him
But it’s not massive difference
I like this
Im 5'8 and my bf is 5'3 .. We have an agreement.. Ill get the jars off the shelf but he's gonna have to open them for me
MinJoyFoo curretly talking To someone with that height lol. I’m 5’3 myself. It’s still pretty casual now he just started talking a few days ago. But she already doesn’t seem to mind much the height
That’s adorable
i have a question
i’m 5’3 and my bf is 4’9 how should you kiss a guy that’s shorter than you
@@theLegend-ep1hy You lift him up
Lol I just searched on this topic since I met the cutest guy ever but he’s 167 cm and I’m 180 cm.. this gives me hope😂
Me too and it sad coz I grew up knowing that a girl should date a tall guy.
@@mpielongmkhwie4615 yeah but then y'all have tall kids
@@lekizotet3434 STFU
What happened now???
Glad a woman can find a shorter man cute and date him :^)
The first time I hugged my boyfriend it felt so good I accidentally sighed: "I love your height~" and got quickly embarrassed... I barely knew him back then. Fact is, his head fits perfectly where my neck is. I do not feel jammed or like I have to struggle for air. (Ps: his hair smells amazing and is right under my nose so 10/10 would hug again)
You are sooooo lucky!
How tall are you and your bf
I love this comment 💕 so honest and cute ❤️❤️❤️
It's cute
That's what guys experience most of the time, as a bi guy i have been with shorter and taller people and when the person is right both feel good, getting stuffed into a lovers chest/neck, and pushing one into yours
Coming from another tall girl, THANK YOU
You mean coming from a tall girl who would prefer putting her hand in a blender than to date a shorter guy.
I am 5ft 11 and my boyfriend is 5 ft 4 and we love it. I don’t care 🤷🏾♀️ I love him no matter what.
❤️❤️❤️ I'm also 5'4" but never dated any girl but I love your perspective towards short guys
Wtf
@ ...when you make absolutely no sense on a youtube comment thread.....
😂😂😂🍌 small dick
Im 5"4ft,im 13 and my boyfriend is like in my shoulder level(4ft) and he's 12 and he's damn more sexier than a girl could get and its so hilarious sometimes cuzz he was mistaken as a gay and he's damn straight and i was like to my boyfriend 'i dont mind if your gay/bi" and he was like "wtf" and i cant stop laughing😂
Its just society that makes you think its an issue coz in movies and what we see if normally men are taller than women but the fact is.... It really doesnt matter
Yes it does. I'm 5ft1 and experience it all the time. You do not know what you're talking about, whoncares about fuckin movies.
@@mrobermind rofl you clearly didnt understand what Ren Esho said. Movies do matter as it is partially responsible for the all opinions being created in people s minds, unknowingly lol .. think a little deeper my friend
Ren Esho 💯
@finito not at all
But in most films the man is only 1 to 3 inches taller to make it aesthetically pleasing.
i'm 5'8 and my boyfriend is 5'6. At first it would bother me but then i realized WHO CARES! he treats me like a queen, height doesn't matter
the world need more couples like this.
You'll find plenty of these kinds of couples outside of western cultures/countries. Height is really not that big of a deal outside of western nations.
not true
Western women are too obsessed with money, height, power and authority.
There's a few gems out there but it not the norm
No it does not.
@@wutm8Western Women are too influenced by Hollywood.
When we first got to know each other, my girlfriend said "Most men don't like it when the woman is taller than they, but you do and that is SO COOL!" I'm 5'11", she's 6'3".
wdd3141 Well, at 5'11" you're tall, so you don't know what it's like to be short. Try being an awful 5'7"!
You mean, like Humphrey Bogart?
wdd3141 damn she’s tall. Amazon height haha
As 5'11 guy you give me hope.
I don't think it's that important for most guys that their girl is shorter. I am 5'5 (165 cm) and my current gf is around an inch (≈3 cm) taller then me. If I were to not even consider dating any girl taller then me (or even subtract some for heels), I'd miss out on a big part of the femle population and let's face it, our future children would probably be really tiny xD
My boyfriend is 5'5" and I am 5'9"-5'10" and I am incredibly happy with him. Back in high school height was such a huge deal, but he is amazing and our personalities fit great together. I wouldn't change a thing 💜
Meaning, back in high school you used to be a superficial, shallow, ignorant, narrow-minded, judgemental, entitled, insecure, immature cow who judged guys on height, race, skin color and looks.
What happened? Did you get tired of being used and abused by the tall assholes you worshiped?
So you decided to find a short rebound fallback guy?
Pitiful and pathetic. Your boyfriend is a fool for being with a shallow disgusting maggot like you.
@@Mogamishu I had different types in high school? Jesus someone is defensive.
at the end of the day, the only thing that matters is you two loving each other unconditionally. Happy for you!
@@Mogamishu Lol, Damn. There you are again. Some girl must have really destroyed you.
Emily...I saw your FB... did you change your bf in this 2 years?? He's your height in those pictures
I'm 5'5" and my wife is 5'7" and we love each other since college.
aww cute! Have a great day and God bless!
Hello.
The same difference hight of me and my fiancé.
I am a 5’5” guy and also named Tim. This gives me hope!
The guy I'm seeing and really like is 5'5. Don't worry too much about it! If she judges you on your height she isn't worth your time anyways!
From a tall girl, thank you!
alicia perez how tall are you?
@@CarolinaPride95how tall are you ❤❤❤❤
Where are you from ❤❤❤❤
This made me feel better about being 5'5". Us shorter guys can feel a bit hopeless. But there are girls out there for us.
There are girls out there for the OTHER short guys ...but NOT for YOU! WHY? Because your shininess and lack of confidence _REEKS_ through your words and _that_ wimpiness has a nauseating stench to ALL women! So until you get over your "hopelessness" please STAY AWAY from women! Work on yourself FIRST! Man-UP and become much more alpha ...then and ONLY then get back in the dating pool!
*TOUGH LOVE ADVICE BUT 100% REAL and TRUE!*
@@osakarocks4116 lmao why does just GUY has to be this confident one? How about girls? And why this is the MAN who has to chase a girl? :)
Yes I agree. The 1% of those women are hard to find.
@@osakarocks4116 shut the fuck up
u can't be confident all the time after girls make fun of your height
and to be honest i have accepted my reality and now i don't give a fuck about relationships
Now i am just heading towards making my life a successful one
To all my short buddies out there : U can't control your height so focus on what u can and just accept u won't get as many girls as the taller men
so stop simping over those materialistic bitches who care about wearing heels more than her partners personality
and achieve what is in your hands
@@kmarcin48 noooo, you're totaly right! I think it should be more normal for a girl to chase a guy! Because i happen to be someone who loves taking the first step
I used to be one of those girls who only dated men taller than me, which at 5'7 and a half that was not always easy to do. Now at 29, I'm seeing a guy I reaaaaally like who is shorter than me and I don't even care. He is everything I've ever wanted in a guy that the height doesn't even factor in my brain.
You're 29 and you're getting old. Of course now you're dating a shorter guy.
How tall is this man?
Question for you is? How many tall abusi e jerks did you date until you decided to give a guy who actually treat you well a chance?
Im perusing this girl who is 5’9 and I’m like 5’3, 5’4 on a good day. I think she’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me, and I guess I just wanted to see other people pursue there height difference and you guys were perfect ❤
Did you guys workout?
@@ephraimmartinez6275 we’re still together
@@cristianmichael8156all the best man
I'm 5'8", she's 6'3" and we are each other's soul mates. We brought up height once and that subject has never been brought up since. It's about how you carry yourself and the fact that love is love. It doesn't have rules.
*we're in love, love is love is a bad term that's too loose and can apply to pedophiles.
@honorshot5448 if that's where your mind is taking it then sure it can be applied that way. I'm talking about an adult relationship.
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im 5"10 and my boyfriend is 5"5
kamal suba wow
Is it ever awkward or embarrassing? I like a guy who is about 2 or 3 inches shorter than I am, just curious about your experience
issystar96 I like a person who is like 3 inches taller than me
sorry to know that.
If you believe that there is a 5 inch height difference between men and women from these very small statistical samples from average height studies than I can see why many women want this taller man for dating. It just seems to me as a 5'8" man that in the general population it is between 2 to 3 inches in height difference between the sexes not 5 and I am taking into account for high heels. In these formal gatherings it seems like women are taller than men on average with their 3 to 6 inch high heels and sometimes noticeably taller than men on average. So these women that say that they can't find enough of tall men are being brainwashed by these small statistical samples of average height and can see for themselves in the general population that there isn't anywhere near this massive height difference between the sexes. The height difference in reality isn't really that great so there is no reason to be picky about dating men your height or shorter.
Im 6’2 and my boyfriend is 5’8 I really enjoyed this video. I love him to death and he calls me his supermodel.
I feel so blessed that you guys made a video about this!! YOU GUYS ARE SO CUTE
Thanks for the question! We were really keen to have a chat about it :)
@@redheadabroad how much do you guys weigh?
@@redheadabroad what is it like to be shorter then your girlfriend
i’m 5’4ish and my crush is 5’3.. we’ll be little elves together
LOL 🤣
I’m dating a short guy right now, he’s really sweet! I’m 5”8 and he’s 5”4!
My man is a few inches shorter than me and he’s the BEST partner I’ve ever had in my entire life. I definitely look forward to being with him for the rest of my life ☺️
This actually made me feel so much better about myself. I've been in a complete black hole about my height. Thank you for making this video it really helped me accept myself
what is your height 😮😮😮
@@Khaled-hg8xv 5 foot 5 lol
It’s awesome when we can see past our pre-conceived physical expectations and relationship aesthetic to discover that special someone 😊 i really enjoyed the vid, ty 😁👍🏽
I’m a sophomore in high school, and the guy I’m pursuing is a whole foot shorter than me. People make such a big deal out of it, but we both like each other so why does it matter?
By the way, I’m 5’11. It’s REALLY hard to find a guy who is taller than me and the guys I have dated that are taller or around my height gage treated me like crap. So short guys it is!
Yeah, don't let other people's words enter our hearts and minds, destroying the relationships we have built with love and sincerity. Our relationship is more important than the words of insignificant people.
As a guy who's 170cm I'm still attracted to girls who are taller than me, cause to me it means if we have kids and they're boys, then they'll be taller than their mom.
You guys have the exact same height difference as me & my boyfriend. I’m 6ft & he’s 5’6. Coincidentally he’s also Australian like you guys, & I’m American. You guys are an attractive couple & very relatable! I agree that when a guy is confident about his height it makes me feel less insecure about my own height.
I'm 5'9" and one guy I dated when I was in high school was 5'3", and in addition to that, he wasn't what society's expectations of attractiveness is. But I didn't care, I just saw the wonderful guy who was willing to date me. Others saw that he was overweight and had acne, but to me that's not important.
I'd never date an overweight girl/bigger girl. Not only because I find it unattractive, but also cause it's unhealthy.
@@classictales6367 What do you mean by overweight out of curiosity? I'm technically "overweight" according to BMI charts at 5'9" and 175 lbs (BMI of 25) but I'm pear shaped so it's not that obvious.
@@LogoFreak93 I don't exactly know the BMI figures of what I like!. I like hourglass figures (curves), on really slender,slim woman. I'm weak for that body!
Tim seems like a lovely bloke and you two are just adorable together!
He's not too bad ;)
This is actually so cute
This is too much positivity thank you guys!
I'm exactly the same height as Tim and I have also found that if you are confident enough to date a taller woman then it all works out. There are way too many other things that are more important like attitude, morals, and hygiene haha.
i think it's so cute when a girl have a shorter boyfriend
Ladies....most men have ZERO problem dating woman who is taller than them if they find them attractive. On average it's the females who screen based on lack of height. In some ways I feel sorry for women because they seem to have so many prerequisites for who they will and won't date and unlike men they are the ones who complain the most about being single.
But it always 4-5 foot girls that want giant as their bf
el mago lol yeah
@Utente Thas you has for me i would absolutely date tall girls. heck im 5'7 and my gf the same height has
Well I'd never date a taller girl even if she was hot ,I like my women short
I don't feel sorry for them. I say let them discriminate as much as they want. They are probably no bargain to begin with.
Speaking from experience, it's not about how confident you are as a man. If you're too short, women won't even look at you, regardless of your confidence. I had a lot of female acquaintances but I was always friend-zoned. If you're short, you're screwed. That's the sad reality.
I’m 5’8 and my boyfriend is 5’4
@Iana Maria if she wasn't comfortable why is she dating with him? Of course she is comfortable
@Iana Maria well if you feel uncomfortable with someone you don't date with that person. Unnecessary question.
5’9 and husband 5’0🥰
Does he let you pick him up?
Robert Bish no he picks me up
That's awesome.
Cute - It has always baffled me why humans judge each other on one of the very few things we have literally no control over. Lovely video - All the best to you both x
@Rachel Kowalski Yet you would probably reject a guy for being short, not just shorter than you.
Best comment.
Love this comment so much. 😍😍😍
azariah15 assumptions.
It because we cant change it
I’ve been married 15 years, the other day our 6 and 8 year old boys were laughing because mommy was taller than daddy ( 5’10 vs 5’8 ). The woman is 100 percent correct, I’ve never let my height make me feel insecure and my wife has always been attracted to my confidence. We laughed along with our kids and went about our day.
Love this interview and subject. We totally agree, I too wear the wife shirt.
We've been married 29 yrs.
As for shoes, wear something comfortable.
You're both strong for being rejected for being "too tall" or "too tall".
My wife is 5'10, I'm 5'4".
So, if u want to date a tall women, have blue eyes and a beard and look like a model
Well... she's gotta have SOME standards.
Catlikecartoon 4 not necessarily. im dating a guy 5’6 and he’s bengali haha
im asian... :(
That, or travel anywhere out of the USA...
Or be super RICH! 97% of Tall Women aren't attracted to short men, its not about confidence its just preference. Of course there are short men that can defy the odds, this is life
It feels good to see a woman with a guy shorter than her. Gives me hope.
“Feel like a man for a min” I felt that one. 😭😭😂😂
Hi and my girlfriend is 6'4 and i am stand at 5'5. We do rock it
HOW CAN BE POSSIBLE THAT 2017 WAS 6 YEARS AGO
7 years ago
Tim's dope. I'm a cm or two taller than Tim and am the most insecure piece of shit on the planet about my height. It's really encouraging to see him being so chill and seemingly confident about his height. Maybe one day I can be like him.
I literally see no problem with this height difference, looks completely normal to me when I see it irl
This is 1 in a million situation
I'm 162 cm and my bf is 155 (yeah we are young😂) and we love each other!❤ It doesnt matter that I'm taller, bc he has the biggest heart on this earth❤
Dorottya Füzesi I was thinking different when you said " he has the biggest heart " 🤣🤣🤣
good for you guys! I wish you the best, have a great day and God Bless!
Yay, you uploaded! Love this!
Personally as someone who is 5"1, I really feel for women who are much taller but I'm so proud of you for being confident and that you've found someone like Tim 🥰 Keep up the great content!
Hello, i am 5'6" and my girl friend is 5'9" almost. It’s never bothered us and the thing is she never complained about this. So, its never make me uncomfortable. And, this is not so common, at least in my country. When someone know about us first time, they just can't believe it and even it’s also rare from a girl side that she would accept a shorter guy. so yea, i am feeling good that, my girl is just breaking this typical cultural stereotypes which never matters at all. 🙄
I'm a 6ft woman and a guy I work with who is quite shorter than me ask if I had ever been hugged by a taller man. He was carrying a stepstool. He got up on the stepstool to hug me. It was quite out of the blue. I do admit I've had a crush on the guy for awhile so now I'm wondering if he likes me too.
How are things going between you now?
I am 5'6" and I've been married to a very pretty, smart, 5'7" blonde woman since 1995. We've got three beautiful kids who are now young adults. Interestingly, our 2 sons are 6' and 6'1" respectively. Our lovely daughter is 5' 4".
All this said, I certainly respect a woman's desire to date/marry someone taller than herself. On some level - pre-UA-cam - I certainly understood that I my height may have limited options, but there were enough young women for whom my relatively short stature was not a problem (thankfully LOL).
If you're short like me, you're life is not over. Like the gent in the video opined, some of it comes down to confidence. A genuine confidence versus some clownish, puffed up variant. I'm not an super confident individual, but confident enough ;) Good luck to you and may you find a wonderful partner in life.
I find it weird so many people rule out this kind of relationship when during school it's pretty normal! I remember being taller than all my crushes at my school, hugging my crush and resting my chin on his head, I remember finding it so charming and sweet! I watched an amazing romcom anime called Lovely Complex with this situation and it made me so nostalgic!
We're in an age of heavy social engineering. That's why.
I’m 5’6” as well so this gives me hope lol
5'7 but not really gonna happen, unless u r very attractive, being tall itselves make u more attractive
false hope
Same
Same bro im also 5’6” and I like a girl that is 5’9” lol
Taller men are more attractive, that's true, but only in general. Height is not everything and you can't change it, but there are still things you can change. If we have one man, who is 165cm, but nice musculous with a good haircut and perfect clothes and possibly also kind, educated and rich. And the other one is 195cm, fat, bald, dirty and looks much older. Who do you think most women would prefer?
I’ve always assumed that the fact I never cared if men are significantly shorter then me was because I always grew up being taller. So I accepted at a young age, yeah a lot of guys are gonna be shorter then me. So I always assumed that other tall women had that same mentality. Am I wrong?😂😂
This need more views, Its hard to find for a height gap example to motivate other short men
Ya'll must remember that the White Death (deadliest sniper in history) was 5'0.
I'm 5'5 and my wife is 6 ft tall
You're a lucky man!
You are so lucky if only my future wife will be 6ft4
Love this video. It's great you guys really don't care about height within your relationship. It's crazy how we generally accept differences in colour, age, religion, etc. But height in relationships, especially tall women and short men are ridiculed in mainstream media. I'm watching from London.
I know I’m late and you probably won’t see this but thank you for this video! I was scared to date this guy because I’m taller than him but now I want to give it a try. I don’t want people to make fun of us but he’s really sweet. Fingers crossed it works out🤞🏾😅
This is coming from a tall female thank you so much for this video! It’s hard enough trying to find someone who you just connect with and all that stuff, then throw in the height factor bullshit! Like you said it’s exhausting! Man fuck society!!! :)
Thank you!
Thank you for talking about something so honestly that (as a very tall girl) people always just joke about with me. Because of course it's something I think about when I think about potential partners and I know that people think about it when they think about me but somehow it never actually gets talked about... An interesting point is the 'feeling protected' by a taller person and for me personally that is quite funny actually bc when I have crushes on guys I want to feel protected by them (and therefore think about the height difference) but when I have crushes on girls it actually doesn't come to my mind or if it does I don't mind being the taller one. So yeah, gender roles I guess. But still, very interesting and a lovely video
This honestly made me feel all the things. I'm so glad you enjoyed it and that you found it to be something you could resonate with. I feel you, the jokes and all are annoying as anything and it can leave you honestly a bit bewildered when it comes to deciding who you want to have feelings for. When I was dating a girl I honestly disliked being taller more because I felt like I was the "more masculine" one. Very strange hey. But love is love and that's the loveliest thing in the world. xx
Aaaww, sweety!
That's so interesting though, that it made you feel masculine, especially bc from what I see in your videos you don't seem the "masculine type" - may I ask if you feel that way in other situations too or if it was just during that relationship?
Love is love is wonderful
Only in same sex relationships do I irrationally feel less feminine, haven't encountered it anywhere else that I can remember :)
Interesting relation between the idea of height and "feeling protected". Any knowledge of combat would let a person know that just being tall doesn't make someone dangerous in a fight. There are Pro boxers as short as 5'4 who hit hard enough to break a man's jaw and fracture eye sockets while wearing boxing gloves. We aren't even talking the damage they could do bare knuckle.
I'm in a new relationship 5'8" and she's 5'11" not to mention nationalities and ethnicities!!! jeezzzz thanks for the video...im pretty confident but there is a bit of nervous anticipation...
Especially in the United States the only why a American woman will accept a guy for being short is only if she's morbidly obese or to be a financial support system for her kids that are not even his. I read a study that guys that are 6 foot and taller or more likely to cheat on women because they have so many options. If your 6 foot just walk up to any American woman and tell her how tall you are and that's a successful pick up like that gets every woman you want. (only works if your 6 foot tall and taller though). It's like this all over though but unfortunately I live in California the most superficial place with the most superficial women on planet earth.
Went on a blind date yesterday, I’m only 5’8 and she was probably 2 inches taller then me. I pushed it aside and the date when great, her and I are going out again this week to the drive in. Covid standards lol
At the drive-in, you don't have to worry about standing up (wink, wink).
yeah I'm 5'10 and my boyfriend is 5'7 so this definitely makes me less self conscious because you two look great together ❤
Very nice for all the open minded women here. In reality is not that common, I've dated my fair amount of women during my time as single and they all told they would never go out with shorter guys, I'm 5'8" but It was early 2000's so I guess mentality must've changed. We had a short friend, he was 5'5" and he was obsessed with tall women. Guess what, he tried a lot, he was charming, smart and made big bucks as a professional engineer but none of the tall ones he tried to date(5'8"s, 5'9"s and 5'10"'s) wanted to have a serious relationship/marry our short friend.
why is that 10 dating that 10?
So when they have a baby, he or she will be a 20.
Am 5”8 and my girlfriend is 5”11 and I love her.
I am five foot ten and my boyfriend is 5 foot eight. I was seated at a table when he strolled over to ask for a dance. When I stood up he said "wow! Good thing I am six foot two on the inside". He had me at that moment! If he were five feet tall, I would still want to be with him - he's one in a million.
Wife of 17+ years is 6’0”. I’m 5’8”.
@@donaldmiller2625 bummer
I think tall women are pretty. Tall or short, doesn't matter as long as you love each other.
He's actually very handsome, I love how many tall dudes feel superior because they're like 6ft but they're also fucking ugly and dumb. There are a lot of things that matter more than height seriously.
This is really encouraging. Thanks for putting this out here
You make an awesome couple! Thanks so much for sharing this.
I have always been attracted to taller women. Maybe its due to the fact I feel very comfortable with my height. I work out lifting weights and have a large frame, and approaching a taller female has never been an issue, if they say no, then I move on, no bad feelings (there loss) Ha ha....I have dated women that were easily 6 to 7 inches taller than me and then when they put on their heels they can be as much as 9 to 13 inches taller, I find it a big turn on and love it, lovely and tall has my vote.....
This was GREAT. Also I ship it. Tirika 4ever xxxx
Tirika or Erikim, that is the question.
One thing's for sure; our ship names are terrible!
I'm 5'9 and the guy I'm interested in is 5'5. I'm not worried about the height difference, but I keep forgetting how normal I feel standing next to him, and feel like I might be excessively tall, so I have to keep looking up videos and images of tall girlfriends and short boyfriends, just to fix the way my brain is remembering the height difference. It's kind of like when you can't remember someone's face completely, and your memory isn't reliable, so you have to find a recent picture of their face to put the actual image back in your head. I'm just trying to remind myself that I'm not a giant.
Exactly my situation. It's my first time being interested in a guy that's shorter than me, and until now I've always just been interested in really tall guys (I'm talking 6'7), and this guy is probably around 5'5 as well and I just feel kinda weird about it! I know people would judge us for our height difference but yea.... I'm glad to hear from other couples where the girl is taller than the man, makes me feel more confident because I am about 5'9. I just hope he thinks the same way!
@@mega-meth we have been dating for a bit now, and both of us haven't been bothered by the height, so safe to say, just so long as you ignore what others say, you guys will be great!!
@@grAce_lh27 That's amazing, I'm so happy for you guys!! And thank you very much!!
I am 5'11 and fell for a guy who was 5'5'. He said I am too tall and it feels weird to him being with a taller woman. I wish I was shorter. It is easier being a short woman than a taller one.
Yeah, I would like to draw some attention to the term 'shawty' right now! Grr... Even ridiculously tall guys want a 'shawty.' I am happy my guy is open minded. I am over 5'8 and he's close to 5'4. His personality would not be the same if he had not faced the challenge of being shorter in society. So, I not only accept his height I'm thankful for it!!!
@@joleesamayberry5735 You are right, most men want a shorter woman. For me personally, a man who is short is attractive. A man being shorter is no issue for me. I am hopelessly in love with this guy who has been my good friend for 4yrs, but my height is an issue for him sadly. That is so good to hear you and your man are happy. That is what its all about, love and happiness. At the end of the day it's all about having a good heart and beautiful soul.
I'm taller than my bf, it took me sometime to overcome the stereotype I've built in my mind. We're happy together, that's what matters ❣️ the ending is so cute 🤩
What exactly went through your head when you were rejecting short guys and why and what made you change now?
@@ashuranero5721 My guess is she felt short men were not good enough for her, and she did not want to settle. I would also imagine that her circle of friends felt the same way. She wanted to avoid all the snickering and joking that normally comes with a taller woman/shorter man. Whatsmoe, she was probably embarrassed.
Confidence is definitely the key yes. society has a way of making a big deal out of portraying how success or normality 'should' look and this every single day whether we like that or not and it can become a war of attrition over the years then that itself can ultimately affect confidence especially as you get older unless you have enough ego support, social skills, financial and occupational options etc especially if your teenage kids end up way taller than you because of the way the genetics have mixed. confidence to the woman is a sign that you will be able to support a family through the good times and the tough times, and if that ever changes then suddenly everything changes in the relationship. procede with caution. life can be tough and a castle built on a hill is more easily defended than one built in the valley. That said I was glad to find this page, being a 5'5" guy and I wish you well!
I am 5'5" and she's 5'7". And I still feel insecure sometimes. But she got me feeling quite secure about my height and appearances, she's such a nice person.
😂😂😂 thank you so much! I so much would love, that people stop garage women who are high! Actually nobody choose the height, it is impossible.
I am 5'9 and the women I am seeing is 6'0. Some women don't care about height.
As a tall girl, thank you 💜
I very love tall girl so romantic 😭❤
how tall are you?
Im a 5’3 and my boyfriend is like 3 or 4 foot but he is the most cutest and precious thing tbh I like hugging him a lot I think he hates it I hug him to much but that’s what I like about him
Nancy Pintado this why I want to date a tall girl so she can hug 🤣🤣🤣
This guy has a really good masculine presence, i think this is what made the relationship possible, he has a certain aura about him.
Love this video! It's weird to me how even among gay guys there can be issues with this (I'm a gay dude and 6"2 and have no such qualms because the person is everything) . Height really doesn't matter. What you said about confidence is SO true. But yeah it's crazy to me that this is one of those things that is a much bigger deal in heterosexual pairings because of traditional ideas.
its about domination not tradition
Good for you not being shallow.
I'm 5'6" and my wife is 5'11" and a half and we're very happy. IMO Tall women are waaaay hotter than short women.
You are a lovely couple . I enjoyed watching. I am a 5'10" man and I think tall women rock. I would have no problem dating a woman who was 6' or more
Confidence is a finite resource lol but geniune love and relation of eachother experience is another.
This is love relationship. Not a confidence thing. She is supportive of her husband and he is willing to date her, that is what this couple is.
hahah i was looking for this topic because i’m seeing a guy whos one inch shorter than me but hes sooo sweet and handsome lol. i’m used to dating tall men but they all were assholes and treated me like trash whereas my new man treats me like a queen. ugh 🥺🥺💕
I used to have a gfriend your height being 5.5 AND when in love we never noticed AT ALL , we did everything together as a regular couple, she wore heels when she felt like it, we danced, kissed in public, anything any other couple would do. We couldn't care less about the outside world, friends got used to it really quickly :-) In essence the right girl won't mind.. Another girl your height fell in love, but couldn't deal with it and eventually broke of the relationship, it happens. Being taller does make life easier on a practical level and or at work ;-) To sum up, almost any girl I've been with has been taller than me, perhaps not each time as tall as you,, but enough to be noticed and it never e-ver mattered. A confident girl and a confident guy, genuine mutual interest, attraction and compatibility, that's what it takes.
The whole" I want a man who's protective and all that is just not true." I study Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. it's a martial art where shorter men (like me 5'3) can over power taller men in self defense. That's why I believe just because you're taller than the women does NOT mean he can protect you. I've made more taller men tap out in class than shorter or the same size as me because Jiu Jitsu is all about finding the right opportunity to.use their own weight against them. And 80% of all fights end up on the ground. Personally, I don't care what height a women is. I do know that even if you are a confident short man there are still women that still won't give you the time or day or second glance. To me that's unattractive and toxic. I feel that just screams insecurities. Tall or short, us guys are just people and should be judge as such. I don't pay any mind to toxic women. I used to always worry about my height but I've learn to not give a shit about what others think because "Those that matter don't mind and those that mind don't matter." The right person will come along, I just focus on school and my martial art. I want someone confident in their own skin and not worried about society. And if they ask me if I'm ok with wearing heels I'm just like "Hun, you're already taller than I am, I don't care. Plus it makes you look even more sexy haha."
I don’t know why but thinking of dating a girl that’s more than 2 inches taller than me would make me feel like a badass. Like yeah I’m short but I pulled this bird so it doesn’t matter eyyyy? Oh and I’m 5’9 1/2 and my crush is 5’10 which isn’t much of a difference and I guess I’m lucky.