The problem in today's day and age is that a lot of women are not even aware of how their standards are absolutely unrealistic. around 15% of the world's population is 6' or taller, both men and women. I'm 5'7 and sometimes had men walk up to me saying "she should not be with you. She is too hot for a man like you!".
It's all of western society. We only pick tall people for presidentsy, tall dudes are more likely to get promoted in the workplace. We owe trillions of dollars to China, who probably promote people based off work ethic. We are in a cold war with Russia because of the Ukrainian war Both zelenaky and and Putin are under 5'7. And your average Chinese mans height is around 5'7. And our 6 foot president has boarder line dementia.... But at least he hits that 6 foot mark, so good job American voters 👍 We have a fetish with height in the west
I'm 5' 6" and I've been the receiver of the same kinds of comments you mentioned above. I've dated several women that were taller than me over the years (from 5' 10" to over 6') and I would often get the comments - like "You don't get to date a hot tall woman." or I would hear women make comments like "Oh, how's that supposed to work?" The funny thing is, it's never been an issue in my mind. I never thought of myself in self-limiting terms like "Gee, I guess I'm too short to ask that girl out." One woman gave me what she thought was a compliment when I was with a girlfriend who was much taller. She said "Well, I guess you don't have little-man-syndrome." My response - "Of course not. Why would I?"
@@Normie404stop caring about ur height, it’s not easy but it’s not that hard when you realize we’re all gonna die anyways, do you really wanna be on your deathbed regretting something you couldn’t have changed?
@@Normie404build an online location independent income, move to countries where the females are shorter. Speaking from my own experience, "it's a blessing!"
5'7" / 5'8" is medium height, not short. 4'10" / 5'0" is short height. But women generally don't seem to know the differences, between short and medium heights.
Just my opinion but....I'm 5'8" and a bit. Would have loved to have made 5'10" but there you go. I'm in good shape, told i look it and I am married to a stunning lovely lady. I used to work with a guy who was 6 '3". And that's all he has. He was not in good shape at all, man boobs etc and more importantly he was absolutely repulsive in his personality. Oh and the whole height is protecting you. He was bullied by his 5'5" dad!!!!
5’4” after being rejected from about every of what I consider equal value women, I got my passport and went to Southeast Asia! Now been married for 12 years to a very attractive woman 17 years younger than me!
Being short is great. I'm 5-6, it has cleared the chaff out of my life. I live a life that I want without shallow, banal, vapid and superficial. meh. F - I moved overseas, dropped the language and took everything off the table for the culture / society / civilization / country that hates me and everything I do.
@@AbelPeña2067yep but it is normal standard male shortness. I see dudes who are that height the whole time. It isnt short short and is actually in the normal range but on the lower end. It is like a 5'2 woman, short yeah but not abnormal to see women that height. People act like 5'7 or 5'6 is an entire foot shorter then 5'9 when it actually ain't at all. A 5'7 man is more common then a 6'5 man. While I get that is short i dont understand why people act as though it is abnormal.
For all the negative and pessimistic comments... I'm 5'5 and in the real world height isn't a big deal. I used to be very insecure about it, especially being even smaller in high school. Then after being the crush of a 6 foot tall girl, as much as it confused me, i realised evolution had hardwired men and women to continue the species - even if they can't explain why they're attracted to each other. This tall queen was obsessed with me to the point of me finding it annoying 😂. Later in life I was hooking up with taller women and finally realised a lot of women honestly don't give a fxxk about height. I'm not rich, athletic nor a player. I'm just authentically myself, which is something it seems not everyone is 🤔 I've been told before that the authenticity is what's attractive Even if someone has a preference for taller men, it doesn't mean they strictly stick to it. Even my type in women has changed over the years the more I've dated. This is to say....don't hear one shallow narrative and conclude no woman will ever be attracted to you. If you're always so defeatist it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. No one wants to hang out with someone depressing to be around. Confidence in your own skin goes a long way. The less bothered you are by your height, the more your luck will improve. Sure, you'll get rejected at times, but such is life. Ironically, it was taller women that made me stop caring about me not being tall. Another thing, as tough as it is..learn to take a short joke. Contrary to what social media tells you, you don't have to answer "how tall are you?", with "how much do you weigh?" Honesty saves everyone's time anyway. If someone rejects you because you're short, their loss. Ultimately, how you carry yourself is more important than height. That advice came from one of my bluntest female friends. She lives by it.
Honestly, I realized from my experience and observations that the one's that are hung-up/fixated on men's height are usually the short girls, women who are on the tall end of the spectrum, like 5'10 and above, are more empathetic and open to short guys.
100%, you have to get really good in something and pursue that at all costs - find your context and become 'contextual alpha' - ah, and a bit of muscle frame and modest elegancy in clothing will surely help too 💪👍🤘
So basically women don't care that much deep down and like short guys as well but won't date them because they feel insecure about the height difference. Gotcha.
Precisely. That is just the tip of the iceberg. It's systemic discrimination, not preference. Ever noticed why most women dating short men receive tremendous amounts of backlash from both male and female heterosexual peers? (It's much less common in the LGBT+ community).
Women care what others think. Their means of survival, evolutionarily, is having a social group, so they can't really afford to be outcasts, making them more prone to peer pressure.
*Standard Disclaimer* When vvoman or vvomen is referenced, it is understood to be the majority case. Hence any refutation based on NAWALT (“Not all vvomen are like that”) will be ignored for the stupidity that it is (and likely openly ridiculed for the same reason). = = = = = Back in the day, a man was rated on his ability to provide, protect and probability of keeping that promise. Height is really independent of those qualities. Heightism is a manifestation of the insecurities of modern vvomen. To them, height in a man is a visible signal of her own relative attractiveness. Hence, she will not be seen with what she feels is below her own market value. All the excuses that heightists rely on are irrational. They are a way to deflect any personal accountability (“hey, it’s not my fault, it’s nature”). The media does not help when it keeps telling vvomen that it is all about them. This marginalization of men is extending beyond the “shorter than average” men. Today, only a small percentage of men (that 5% and a few more) are getting all the action. What is happening today is that 80% of vvomen chase the top 5% of men (and that means “6 ft or above, 6-figure or better, 6 inches or more” Chad. They will share Tyrone rather than consider a man at her actual market value. All of this goes on until she hits the wall. Then she cries about, “Where have all the men (Chad and Tyrone) gone?” and will then “settle” for a Big Bank Beta. However, Big Bank Beta will not be interested in her., so the odds are that she ends up alone and depressed. A man’s primal drive is to create a legacy through progeny. If society creates the environment that rejects him, then he will reject society. We see that happening, and we need to turn it around. Either we do it by re-legislation, or by the much harsher revolution. Having zero tolerance for prejudice will go a long way towards a solution. Heightism is just plain old prejudice. It is no different from s3x1sm, or r4c1sm. Yet, heightism gets a pass --- let’s stop doing that. Call it out for what it is - wherever and whenever we see it. = = = = =
Furthermore, if we speak based on research (yes, it has been conducted extensively over the years without being popularized by the heavily politicized media), the unanimous conclusion is that Heightism developed as a direct byproduct of systemic racism, also ingeriti the "systemic" nature of the former. Many of these "only 6+ men" women would date shorter makes, if it weren't for the social backlash and discrimination they would receive as a direct consequence of it (like dating/being engaged with a Jew in the XX century)
"We see that happening, and we need to turn it around. Either we do it by re-legislation, or by the much harsher revolution" It can only be turned around by holding women accountable, brining back $HAMiNG (of both women and men) and enforcing monogamy. Who in this modern Sodom do you see willing to do that when it comes to people with "high" SMV?
Im 5'5. Honestly I have had my ups and downs because of my height, but I didnt really let it get to me. I think its all a mindset. Just accept who you are, and keep being a better version of yourself.
Do you think lepards care that they are one of the smallest cats and despite that they are the most beautiful, intelligent, fastest, most dangerous, can take down prey 4 to 5 times bigger than them and compared to the other cats when wounded become even more dangerous. Remember that.
When women say they "give short men a chance"... they aren't pitying us/you... they are signaling to other women that there's nothing wrong with liking a short guy because from women's perspective ALL MEN have to prove themselves... but women don't have to give all men a chance. Take the W bro. OR, more babes for me... I'll take it.
@@dinahnicest6525 He was 5'6"... but 5'6" was perfectly average in his day. There just was a discrepancy between the French and English inches, since the French inches were larger it made his measure seem "smaller" and the English exploited that fact for propaganda ridicule. Also, Napoleon hired very-tall-for-the-time bodyguards to constantly guard him.
I'm somewhat tall for a dude, but after all the complaints I've seen from short men about the impact on their dating life, on behalf of men thanks for this submission. I've saved it.
Nice feel-good video but these women who say they’d date short guys still have trouble actually doing it. Their main goal of making those kind of Tik Toks is to show the world how down to earth, compassionate, logical, and caring they are. Those are great qualities and wifey material and they want to market their purity subconsciously But why’d the 4’11 girl give the 6’8 guy a chance? No under-6ft guys tried asking her out? Would the gorgeous-exotic looking woman actually seek out short guys? I’m not trying to be a Debbie downer but just trying to point out reality. I’m 5’7 and know that being wanted, as a short guy, doesn’t just happen. You have to have game, be in shape, and act stoic. Stay away from being an entertainer always trying to make people laugh / have a good time. They’ll see you as a castle fool. Money is great but you don’t need an outrageous amount but you absolutely must take good care of your wardrobe and home lifestyle
You are true bro but even if you are short (minimum 5'5) there is a small amount of hope trust me you can date a 10 from asia or africa if you only have an american green card 😂
I was 5.9 feet, but due to a accident i suffered multiple crushed vertebrae's, resulting in being quite a bit shorter to 5.5. That is something i have to accept, because up to this day it depresses me. I clearly noticing, that i'm getting far less attention (or no attention at all) from females. That's very difficult, when you don't have a relationship yet. I'm kind of affraid, that for me it will be getting quite impossible to find someone who i can live my life with.
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 It's not about getting laid. It's about that somebody likes you for who you are. I would like to meet a woman who can (also) fall in love with your personallity.
@@opoxious1592 it's harder for short men yes. I'm not particularly tall myself. But being social with mega large social networking will always find you a girl who truly doesn't care about height (as long as you are decently attractive)
Bro not to be rude is not about giving up is the huge risk you take as a manlet, most women’s view them worse than a criminal, they even love a good looking tall criminal than a good looking manlet great guy 😂😂😂😂 womens are crazy specially in the western.
These videos that talk about short men.... and then start saying guys 5'6"--5'8"....will have women want them etc etc....they call that short?!......i am 5'3"......in my 60's now.....and i have never had success with girls.....I am intelligent......reasonably good looking...make girls laugh...told what a great guy i am....but when it comes to dating.....it just does not happen....if you are a short guy.....you are fighting an uphill battle trying to get dates!
I hear a lot of encouragement from women on UA-cam, but what I see is different. Statistics say that only 4% of women will accept a relationship with a man who is shorter. In 2013, the average woman said she wanted a man who is 8" taller. And 48.9% of the social media users specify "Tall men only". "Tall = 6'". A 1980 report said they found an average of only 1 in 720 married couples where the woman was taller. I'm 5'5. Statistics say that 85% of women will reject me for no other reason. Fortunately, I found my wife (5'1) 25 years ago, long before I found these figures, and in a country with different height standards and attitudes. Now I know why American women don't want me. Sorry for the pessimism, guys, but it's always best to know the truth.
Thank you for keeping it real in this sea of female appeasement and feel-good virtue-signalling. (Women. ☕️) Men need to know the truth. Men must know the problems and find solutions. We cannot rely on women to solve (our) problems, they only want to talk about their problems, which makes them feel better, which falsely lets them conclude that they have solved their problem. (Women. ☕️) Also, they neither understand men's problems, nor do they care, typically. (It's called the gender empathy gap.) Keep those red and black pills coming! They are hard to swallow. Be careful to swallow them entirely and quickly, don't choke. They are bittersweet, beceuse they work and will set you free!
You can’t live your life by statistics my friend. Not to mention there’s a lot of nuances in theses things. This is the mindset that keeps people down.
@@DwayneJohnson-nk7zw Of course, there are nuances, but these stats are overwhelming. Nuances can't bump figures like 4%, 8", 48.9%, 6', 1 in 720, and 85% far enough to make a difference. Not even if you double the odds in your favor. Sure. Anyone can hope to be that 1in 720, or 2, or even 100 in 720, but a "mindset" will never counter the evolutionary preference of females for the biggest males. The smallest will lose. It's not the only factor, but it is the most visible and quickly identifiable, and therefore, very important, if not the most important of all. By understanding reality, you'll know that you can't use the same tactics that are so successful for your 6'5 friend.
@@DwayneJohnson-nk7zw Replacing statistics by mindset: really? The world works in patterns. Wherever statistical inferences are possible, they should be considered. Omitting to do so means refusing to learn and grow. If you go against the statistics, you could also play in a lottery.
@dinahnicest6525 Is right. Videos like this one and the ones shown within are virtue signaling for likes and subscribes. It is impossible for women and tall men to understand the struggles a short man goes through in the modern dating scene. I have been rejected by nearly all women due to my height. A short guy knows the reality of their situation because they live it everyday. Calling us "short kings" is the equivalent of calling a child "big guy": condescension wrapped in a compliment.
I am 38 years old. And I am a male. And I am 5'0 feet tall. And I am on the Autism spectrum I have PDD-NOS. And I stopped growing in 7th grade in middle school. And I am single and I am a Virgin.
I have had some of the most mean comments made by women in passing. Coworkers, family members, friends, hell random strangers have made some of the most cutting comments and none of this occurred in anything approaching a romantic situation. It's weird, it's also annoying that my brain has compiled them all.
I'm 5'5 and will be 49 this April (2024). Honestly it sucks being a black or white man in the United States who are 5'6 and shorter. It's hard enough being short but as a 5'5 man we are pratically invisible unless you want to settle for morbidly ovese single moms with 3-5 kids from the taller men they desire when they were younger. I've been only on dates with these single moms with 3-5 kids (I don't have any kids) and they always told me they used to reject men all the time for being short but now that they have their kids from taller men they say height doesnt matter anymore because they are older, more mature, and already have their kids. That's like telling me I'm not good enough (tall enough) to have kids with but some how I seem to be tall enough now because I have money, time, and resources to help support other mens kids. I feel women reward men by having their kids just because they are tall... and they expect me to reward men by raiseing their kids just because he is tall. I've been rejected by thousands of women with them saying negative things about my height for 32 years straight but atleast I have enough self respect not to be cocked by taller men and having to settle for raising their kids. Some guys including taller men don't mind raising other mens kids mostly because they already have kids of their own from other women but that's not my thing. Over 32 years women (even short 4'10 and a 4'7 woman) rejected me publicly with no reprocusions from anyone in the immediate area saying "I don't do the short guy thing" "your too short, your not even considered a real man" "Your short and that's a sign of weak male genes"Or 5 foot women rejected me because they don't want to have short kids lol or 5 foot women rejecting me because I'm not atleast 2 inches taller then her while they are in the 5 inch heels. I can't imagine being with a single mom havuing to raise their kids then as they get older I'll have to hear about them talk to their friends of how they won't date shorter guys even though their stepfather is short and was stuck spending his money, time, and respources raising them. Being a short man is brutal in the Westernized world when it comes to dating.
You’ll probably end up with the most beautiful woman who blows your mind. Just ignore all those women from the past and have faith in God and He will come through for you. I am still walking in faith for God to come through for me. Most people out there (both genders) are not good people. ❤
What Slayerofsatan said was true for me. I'm also 5'5. when I was 44, I "ended up with the most beautiful woman who blows [my] mind." I met her in Bei Jing. Better than any American woman in every way.
I’m 45, previously married to a unappreciative single mother. I got tired of it, so I divorced her for after 7 years. I don’t date anymore, I just rent now. Fuck it, life is too short.
Speak for yourself. I'm 5'5" and have had 4or 5 smokin' hotties that were solid 8s in looks that I've slept with or had LTRs with. Your height can be a disadvantage but it's ONLY a major one if you let it be and buy into it. Don't be delusional, you're not going to be a first-round-pick for the majority of women... but if you get your shit together, max your card and level up you can be a first-round-pick for a good 5%-1O% of physically attractive women and a fling for 3O%-4O%. But, like with every man, the burden of performance is on YOU.
I think Stepanka's comments are wonderful. She mentioned she's met As a 5'6" man married to the same pretty, smart, 5'7" blonde woman for 3 decades I can say I'm glad there are very attractive women with options who don't have a height preference. Prior to meeting my wife, I'd dated girls a bit taller, a bit shorter, and my height exactly. At risk of being captain obvious, dating apps have influenced the dating landscape as has pornography.
You sure about that I am 5'5 men from India and I am short here, avg height of Indians are increasing for both male and female just search on internet, now a days when I go in markets I finds most womens similar to my height. I just completed my higher studies, when I was in my school I was the third shortest whereas all my classmates where 5'8½ avg, some were above 6 and I'm not lying. New generation of India are getting talller
5'7" is not considered tall anymore. It was considered tall maybe around 30-40 years ago. But now average Indian height is increasing. The average Indian male height is 5'8" now.
@@akshay9602 bhai heels ka gadget kya aise hi bana hua hai? Ek gobar jaisi shakal wali ladki agar makeup set muh me dalke khud ko beautiful bol sakti hai...so why can't a men wear those gadgets that have been released ...literally both are artificially created... A mean ugly lady wearing bundles of makeup and short men with heels .....Handsome actors like Varun Dhawan is also short 5'6 hardly...still look he is dating a 6'1 lady....confidence and maintainance is everything
The question is... how short is too short? I've seen videos of women supporting short men with positivity however they don't go any shorter then 5'7 and continue to say if your 5'6 and shorter then I don't know what to say to you. Another video shown a man supporting short men and it was inspiring (mentioning 5'7 men) to the point where he said "if your like 5'5 then theres nothing I can say to you because no man should be 5'5" that destroyed me because I'm 5'5.
That's true, height could be subjective bc if you date someone petite(under 5'1) then they might actually think you're tall bc you're taller then them.
they're support is meaningless then. how they claim to support only just below average height and fuck everyone else below that. ik some just below average height dudes that also clown on much shorter guys(garminism)
Humans have been evolving to become taller and taller. Average height 100 years ago was less than it is now. 6' hundreds of years ago was considered to be a giant. Women across the board want taller men. Short men learn this very early on and it sucks when you stop growing at under 5'8" or so. You quickly learn you're not what women want.
Nah. New generations are becaming taller and more gracile everywhere. Tall heigth is gracile and feminine and literally every science proves that being tall correlates with being feminine. Tall people tend to be ectomorph and syndromes like Poly X syndrome, fragile x syndrome, Turner syndrome and klinefelter síndrome all show that tall height is gracile and feminine. Eunuchs were also Very tall and acromegalic Men tend to be are tall and low testosterone. If women get these facts checked, the vast majority of them Will change. The only reason Men tend to bem taller than women is because of hierarchy roles, being tall looked looked intimidative for Animals in hunting, It also helped endurance when running off an animal to kill ir escape. And It was mostly men that did the Hunter and worker role. But that IS past, in the future the women will be short and the Men even shorter. Also society and media pushes heigthism and It is more of a USA thing. I am short and Very successful with women in my country. Other factors like face and pigmentation also play a role.
Im 5,5 ft ( 170 cm tall) im 17 years old and this video gave me some Hope.. I just wanna be loved And height cant be changed like weight, you cant just train to get taller, And yet when a girl is fat, men are suposed to accept it, But when a man is short its just a No..
I basically gave up on meeting a woman on the dating apps. I just got about zero matches (responses). And that was despite stating that I love animals, want kids, are well educated, have a well-paid job. Nothing mattered more than height. Even the short women want/wanted tall guys. Oh, and I'm 5"8 (I think. 170cm it is here in Sweden).
Jezzz, you are literaly saying in one of your later videos - 'all bad people in the history were short' - such a click-bating all short men is emotional extortion be ashamed
Depends on how tall the girl is, lets say 5'7+ girls have lower height requirements since they're gonna be taller than majority of men while shorter girls aren't comfortable because they're often used to be around with men that are taller than them. still however this depends on the girl.
I'm 5'11", not exactly short, but I dated a 6'6" woman, and lamented that I couldn't carry her over the threshold, but she loved when I carried her piggy-back.
Yeah but a lot of the women who are making those videos don’t really like short guys. They make these videos to get engagement because they know that guys who want this to be true will comment and engage. A lot of it is just bait.
@@مجتهد-خ2ف wow--you are 3 cm taller than me! I plan to move to the Philippines next year when I retire--the average height of the women in the Philippines is just under 4' 11".
I'm a 5'11 girl and I've had 3 crushes this year, one was about 5'8, one 5'9 and one 6'1💖🧒. So 2 of them were shorter than me (+ they weren't even short im just super tall haha) Sooo short boys remember: if you like a girl taller than you PLEASE come and say it to us and dont just think we wont like you because youre shorter than us!!!!!
I am 5'2 "and am dating a girl who is 5'5". If she likes you and gives you a chance, make her go crazy for you. Don't worry about height and don't bring your insecurities into the new relationship. It's only the younger girls who are picky. Once you get to the age of 25+ men or women, height becomes less relevant.
I absolutely LOVE how this Video begins the man's girlfriend giving him a piggyback ride - They make a very great looking adorablely cute couple - With she and her bearing sweet smiles and laughter looking joyfully happy with wonderfully great love affectuate fondness for each other.If a Woman has never had or even dated a short fellow if she gets to know him,give hom a fair chance shot as feels as well she thinks about him when the woman feels and sees who he is as a great person and not what he is,a short man,There is a very good chance she might not really care about the size of his male body.She may come to eventually falling in love with him;You may be surprised that his height dose'nt really bothers or annoys,or even emberasses her at all.There are a number of reasons why for many women short men make better boyfriends according to many authorities❤.
How is 5'7 tall lol? Maybe in eastern Asia. In most western countries the average male height is 5'10, in the US it is 5'9. Take into account that younger generations are taller and those numbers could be 5'11 and 5'10 for millenials and gen Z in the west. In many European countries the average is 5'11-6'. 5'7 is definitely short if you aren't from eastern Asia. Not freakishly short, but short.
I didn't know 5'7" was short. 5'7" was tall in Roman culture. Nordic culture i suppose had some taller men. Actually idgaf, i feel and believe im superior to most men after developing so many skills and gaining experiences. It cost years. Women exist to serve us and bring us pleasure and children. Taking care of them is one of those pleasures.
@dinfast I've done very well even with women taller than me. Confidence seems to be the 'magic potion' because I have a few tall friends who get mistreated and are sexual dumpster divers because they have low confidence and eventually turn off their women.
@gassylizard3349 most very dangerous men I've met were in the 5'5" to 5'11" range. Usually they were stocky and round rather than lean. Maybe in Slavic countries it is different but I suspect they have the 5'8" average and then some 6'+ people. There was a mixing of Bell beaker and Yamnaya people in the bronze age. So, it is stratified.
@@gassylizard3349 completely. Taller men may get more initial opportunities, but like most naturally gorgeous girls, they never have to work for attention so they may land mates but can't keep them unless they have cultivated ACTUAL skills and value. That's not to say there aren't humble taller men and naturally-gorgeous women who also work to better themselves. There certainly are. I'm just pointing out human nature tends to take the path of least resistance... but the tide always catches up to everyone. Always. People who have naturally easy opportunities tend to have the least endurance, fortitude and character because they've never had to cultivate it. When they are losing in their mid to later years because everything was handed to them, we folks who actually put in the work start cleaning up. The tide rises and those who never learned to build a boat, sink.
Being 5.7ft I had to accept my height at an early age and all negative commence are about my height when someone wants to speak bad of me. I see that as a win as that's the only thing they have it could be alot worse than that. I'm 16 stone with a decent build.....I'm above average for other things.
Nope. Short heigth is a robust and masculine trait. Short Men have easier time building muscle and the law of gravity as well as the Square cube law proves being short is better. Also the main difference between short and talk people is mostly leg length, Men with short legs have advantage at lifting and carrying weigth, whereas long legs can look good in women because It makes them look like models.
Yeah we really can’t win with you guys. Woman dislikes short men, her standards are too high and she’s being unrealistic and superficial. Woman makes a video showing appreciation for short men and actually dates short men: virtue signaling
@@thinkpink6796 That's because words mean NOTHING if it's not followed by actions. Anyone can make any claims, but what actually matters are actions, not words. I've seen few women online talk about how they don't care about dick size.. yet when you inquire about their past partner's or current partner's size, we can easily see the pattern that they do care about size. Either they are lying or clearly underestimating their own preferences.
Sad how I came here to feel good about my height only to feel bad about being small downstairs. Seems like you care a lot about size since you mentioned it multiple times. You've only dated guys taller than you. Would you be equally attracted to a guy thats 5 foot tall?
Being short in 2023 as a man is basically a death sentence especially if you’re American. Europe statically is not quite as bad but it’s still pretty bad. Once you drop past 5”10 it gets a bit suicidal tbf, unfortunately height is routed in biology as it signals to the women you can protect her. Even though we live in societies that are as safe statically as they have ever been ... so do you really need protecting ? 🤣 height is a form of attractiveness though , so I’m not too salty about it , you just have to accept that shortness and potentially being lonely go hand in hand as a male unfortunately. There’s so many double standards in dating , women’s criteria these days is just so long that it’s almost impossible to meet them and due to online dating women have the pick of the bunch over men. This is because there’s more men on them, I’ll leave you with these chilling facts . Every 2 hours in the UK a man kills him self and suicide is the biggest killer of men below the age of 45 in the UK ... I bet most of these men can’t attract or don’t have a woman 🤣🤣 oh well , who cares about men in this Gynocentric society we live in now ? 🤣 Also stop 🧢
Have you seen how many strong powerful men are not tall . Plus wear lifts in the movies . JCVD , Stallone , sports figures . Mike Tyson very powerful not tall . In porn the most popular women are sometimes 5/5 and under . I mean I think it is dumb all this height fetish bs . Some of the best looking men are not crazy tall . Even some better looking than tall men .
@@Battlefield1918 No where near average, in the western world at least. The average man in these regions generally sits between 5'9 and 5'10 according to statistics. I'm 5'10 in France and can confirm most guys here are around this height.
@@clementm9161 in tall people countries yeah nowhere near but in countries like italy, USA , Portugal it's only 2 inches shorter than average or even average height in general
5 9 here and I've given at least 5 short men ( between 5 2 and 5 5) changes and they always ended up making fun of my height and telling me how they feel uncomfortable walking down the street holding hand with me and they broke it off with me in the end because of the height difference and always ended up with shorter women after that.
5 is hardly a good enough sample size. Studies using bigger samples show most men don't care about height as much as women do. If Men started caring about height, its because ya'll started to make us insecure and treat us less of a man for it.
@@Ghostrider-ul7xn well this was not a study or a research this was my anecdote. so basically what you're saying is that it's my fault - the woman giving them a chance and treating them right- for them FEELING insecure and like they're being treated as less of a man? sure that makes perfect sense.
@@blondie8524 I'm not talking about YOU in particular, but most other women are not at all open to short men. If most women weren't this discriminatory and fixated on height, men wouldn't have developed this insecurity. You giving 5 short men hardly makes a difference in society's perception of short men, since its not that big of a size. When you have many women constantly mock short men that they are worthless and undateable over all social media platforms for years, men are slowly going to internalize and act in that way. Why is it so hard for you to empathize this?
Like, are you the type of person who'd completely write off an entire demographic from your dating pool just based on your experience with 5 people? Really?? There are tons of short guys like myself who has no issue with a girl's height whatsoever. We just know that 90% of the girls do care and we don't bother. So If you're not part of that group, its upto you to make the initiative and show that.
I don't care if I'm short, what I don't like is people trying to make me care that I'm short. It's not going to work and I'm not emasculated. If you think that, that's your problem. :)
@@MisanthropicMalice666 it's ok little guy maybe your grow and be taller then 10% of women or you could star in the new hobbit movie 🤣as a dwarf so it has its perks 😴
Stepanka, You are super beautiful, love your bright eyes, and great DNA features, Thanks for this video. Short kings are gents who need lovely women like you to be with, you make me feel great, a Big W for you, Liked and subscribed, and best karma to you ,and all of us. Peace!
Stop SIMPing. please. She only says that to virtue-signal and because it feels to be the right thing to say. She openly admits that the purpose of the vide was to uplift (apart from getting content that emotionalises and doesn't require much effort). If she could trade her boyfriend for the same one in tall, she would. Also, he surels has other above-average qualities, otherwise she wouldn't tolerate his short/average height.
Folks, beauty is like a rose...it will eventually wilt. Stop being brainwashed by social media. It's what's INSIDE that truly matters. When you're old, tired and alone, you'll see that I was right. BTW, I am a short-ish King. 🤪
Not true. When short guys show interest in tall women, they sometimes become the target of ridicule and blatant shaming for showing confidence to approach them. Harsh rejections from tall women are commonplace to short men. Also, we get stamped as a fetish freak by tall women because our short stature apparently doesn't give us the permission to be attracted to them and their longer legs. It's considered creepy which I find sad and disturbing. Not all tall women but many of them hold a much stronger disdain for shorter guys than short girls. Tall girls are the ones who shit on short people by telling the short girls to stick to the shorties (guys) and leave the tall guys for "us" tall girls. Tall girls can be their own worse enemy when they deliberately cut out a whole sector of men who are shorter than they are.
Ah yes, they all want someone over 6 Feet. Somehow even being above average isn't good enough for women, they want the top heighted males. Even girls who are about 5 feet or shorter want 6 feet tall men. Its like why? Do you enjoy feeling like a child or want people to give him weird looks for dating a girl the size of a child and him looking like your dad...? At least you'll have much better luck and choices. IF alot of women say they wouldn't date you cuz your not tall enough then imagine actually short men. I'm 5'4 and slim. We just gotta wait, all will be okay. We are lucky missing out on the toxic women who focus on height and will find a real one who will love you for you. Then she will brag how happy she is with you and the people around her will all be single women or women who keep running into bad men due to their choices. Just be yourself and kind always and your future partner will find you or you'll find them.
If i were a women i would look for a man that suport me, listen me, respect me, cares about me and has values. The heigth will be such a superficial, secondary almost irrelevsnt thing.
The problem in today's day and age is that a lot of women are not even aware of how their standards are absolutely unrealistic. around 15% of the world's population is 6' or taller, both men and women. I'm 5'7 and sometimes had men walk up to me saying "she should not be with you. She is too hot for a man like you!".
It's all of western society.
We only pick tall people for presidentsy, tall dudes are more likely to get promoted in the workplace.
We owe trillions of dollars to China, who probably promote people based off work ethic.
We are in a cold war with Russia because of the Ukrainian war
Both zelenaky and and Putin are under 5'7.
And your average Chinese mans height is around 5'7.
And our 6 foot president has boarder line dementia....
But at least he hits that 6 foot mark, so good job American voters 👍
We have a fetish with height in the west
I'm 5' 6" and I've been the receiver of the same kinds of comments you mentioned above. I've dated several women that were taller than me over the years (from 5' 10" to over 6') and I would often get the comments - like "You don't get to date a hot tall woman." or I would hear women make comments like "Oh, how's that supposed to work?" The funny thing is, it's never been an issue in my mind. I never thought of myself in self-limiting terms like "Gee, I guess I'm too short to ask that girl out." One woman gave me what she thought was a compliment when I was with a girlfriend who was much taller. She said "Well, I guess you don't have little-man-syndrome." My response - "Of course not. Why would I?"
Really only 15% surely not. All my partners have been over 6 foot and my husband is 6'5
That because women shate the tall men.
@@heythere5817 Maybe in your country he's talking about the whole world.
My fiance is 5'3 and I'm 5'7, maybe it's rare but some women like me prefers short guys ❤
Im so not fucking jealous ( I am)
@@jhonwick1856 why? You don’t even know what she looks like. She could be a cave troll…
I feel like this is being disingenuous because you are also a short girl
@@KennethFabritius mf have you ever heard of this thing called "References"?, my comment is a Meme reference
You still prefer taller.
5’4 3/4” married to a 5’6” woman over 13 years. I’m still getting added by the ones that rejected me.
Any suggestions am same height
get rich get jacked learn how to fight and don't look like a geek @@Normie404
@@Normie404stop caring about ur height, it’s not easy but it’s not that hard when you realize we’re all gonna die anyways, do you really wanna be on your deathbed regretting something you couldn’t have changed?
@@Normie404build an online location independent income, move to countries where the females are shorter. Speaking from my own experience, "it's a blessing!"
@@Mo_Sofi that's kinda the plan tbh
5’8” is short? Women are nuts.
5'7" / 5'8" is medium height, not short.
4'10" / 5'0" is short height.
But women generally don't seem to know the differences, between short and medium heights.
i'm a girl and am 5'8. i am being called tall, but i am not 😭 people around me are shorter than me
@@lollalofi3933 How is that being 5’8” as a female? My wife is around 5’7.5”
Just my opinion but....I'm 5'8" and a bit. Would have loved to have made 5'10" but there you go. I'm in good shape, told i look it and I am married to a stunning lovely lady. I used to work with a guy who was 6 '3". And that's all he has. He was not in good shape at all, man boobs etc and more importantly he was absolutely repulsive in his personality. Oh and the whole height is protecting you. He was bullied by his 5'5" dad!!!!
You're tall 😉 revel in it. Perfect fit for me, I'm 6'2 @@lollalofi3933
I am 6'1" and I can't lie...love me a short guy. Something about them is something special! I prefer them.
You in New York?
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5’4” after being rejected from about every of what I consider equal value women, I got my passport and went to Southeast Asia! Now been married for 12 years to a very attractive woman 17 years younger than me!
Did you move there?
@@electroguitar He probably used an airplane
Guys who are 5'4, are they short or just malnourished?
@@OGtruthserum Sometimes, deficiency in HGH can inhibit a man's height growth and prevent him from reaching his full potential.
@@mickeyg6994 Interesting.
Being short is great. I'm 5-6, it has cleared the chaff out of my life. I live a life that I want without shallow, banal, vapid and superficial. meh.
F - I moved overseas, dropped the language and took everything off the table for the culture / society / civilization / country that hates me and everything I do.
5'8" is medium height, not short. The medium range is about from 5'6" - 5'8", past that is entry level tall to really tall.
That's what height averages suggest, but many people don't see it that way. It seems like many people see 5'9" - 5'11" as medium-height.
C’mon 😂 5’6 and 5’7 are short
@@AbelPeña2067 its entry level medium rang, which stops at 5'8" or so. 5'9" is entry level tall. Past that is really tall and sasquatch height
@@AbelPeña2067yep but it is normal standard male shortness. I see dudes who are that height the whole time. It isnt short short and is actually in the normal range but on the lower end. It is like a 5'2 woman, short yeah but not abnormal to see women that height. People act like 5'7 or 5'6 is an entire foot shorter then 5'9 when it actually ain't at all. A 5'7 man is more common then a 6'5 man. While I get that is short i dont understand why people act as though it is abnormal.
Fuck yea
For all the negative and pessimistic comments... I'm 5'5 and in the real world height isn't a big deal. I used to be very insecure about it, especially being even smaller in high school. Then after being the crush of a 6 foot tall girl, as much as it confused me, i realised evolution had hardwired men and women to continue the species - even if they can't explain why they're attracted to each other.
This tall queen was obsessed with me to the point of me finding it annoying 😂.
Later in life I was hooking up with taller women and finally realised a lot of women honestly don't give a fxxk about height. I'm not rich, athletic nor a player. I'm just authentically myself, which is something it seems not everyone is 🤔 I've been told before that the authenticity is what's attractive
Even if someone has a preference for taller men, it doesn't mean they strictly stick to it. Even my type in women has changed over the years the more I've dated. This is to say....don't hear one shallow narrative and conclude no woman will ever be attracted to you. If you're always so defeatist it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. No one wants to hang out with someone depressing to be around.
Confidence in your own skin goes a long way. The less bothered you are by your height, the more your luck will improve. Sure, you'll get rejected at times, but such is life.
Ironically, it was taller women that made me stop caring about me not being tall. Another thing, as tough as it is..learn to take a short joke. Contrary to what social media tells you, you don't have to answer "how tall are you?", with "how much do you weigh?"
Honesty saves everyone's time anyway. If someone rejects you because you're short, their loss.
Ultimately, how you carry yourself is more important than height. That advice came from one of my bluntest female friends. She lives by it.
Honestly, I realized from my experience and observations that the one's that are hung-up/fixated on men's height are usually the short girls, women who are on the tall end of the spectrum, like 5'10 and above, are more empathetic and open to short guys.
100%, you have to get really good in something and pursue that at all costs - find your context and become 'contextual alpha' - ah, and a bit of muscle frame and modest elegancy in clothing will surely help too 💪👍🤘
Cope my guy. 😂
@alexkennedymain the fxck are you talking about, Alex?
So basically women don't care that much deep down and like short guys as well but won't date them because they feel insecure about the height difference. Gotcha.
Precisely. That is just the tip of the iceberg. It's systemic discrimination, not preference. Ever noticed why most women dating short men receive tremendous amounts of backlash from both male and female heterosexual peers? (It's much less common in the LGBT+ community).
@@Thenewbronzeagecollapse So this is an American thing huh
Women care what others think. Their means of survival, evolutionarily, is having a social group, so they can't really afford to be outcasts, making them more prone to peer pressure.
*Standard Disclaimer*
When vvoman or vvomen is referenced, it is understood to be the majority case. Hence any refutation based on NAWALT (“Not all vvomen are like that”) will be ignored for the stupidity that it is (and likely openly ridiculed for the same reason).
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Back in the day, a man was rated on his ability to provide, protect and probability of keeping that promise. Height is really independent of those qualities. Heightism is a manifestation of the insecurities of modern vvomen. To them, height in a man is a visible signal of her own relative attractiveness. Hence, she will not be seen with what she feels is below her own market value.
All the excuses that heightists rely on are irrational. They are a way to deflect any personal accountability (“hey, it’s not my fault, it’s nature”). The media does not help when it keeps telling vvomen that it is all about them.
This marginalization of men is extending beyond the “shorter than average” men. Today, only a small percentage of men (that 5% and a few more) are getting all the action. What is happening today is that 80% of vvomen chase the top 5% of men (and that means “6 ft or above, 6-figure or better, 6 inches or more” Chad. They will share Tyrone rather than consider a man at her actual market value. All of this goes on until she hits the wall. Then she cries about, “Where have all the men (Chad and Tyrone) gone?” and will then “settle” for a Big Bank Beta. However, Big Bank Beta will not be interested in her., so the odds are that she ends up alone and depressed.
A man’s primal drive is to create a legacy through progeny. If society creates the environment that rejects him, then he will reject society. We see that happening, and we need to turn it around. Either we do it by re-legislation, or by the much harsher revolution.
Having zero tolerance for prejudice will go a long way towards a solution. Heightism is just plain old prejudice. It is no different from s3x1sm, or r4c1sm. Yet, heightism gets a pass --- let’s stop doing that. Call it out for what it is - wherever and whenever we see it.
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Furthermore, if we speak based on research (yes, it has been conducted extensively over the years without being popularized by the heavily politicized media), the unanimous conclusion is that Heightism developed as a direct byproduct of systemic racism, also ingeriti the "systemic" nature of the former. Many of these "only 6+ men" women would date shorter makes, if it weren't for the social backlash and discrimination they would receive as a direct consequence of it (like dating/being engaged with a Jew in the XX century)
"We see that happening, and we need to turn it around. Either we do it by re-legislation, or by the much harsher revolution"
It can only be turned around by holding women accountable, brining back $HAMiNG (of both women and men) and enforcing monogamy. Who in this modern Sodom do you see willing to do that when it comes to people with "high" SMV?
Women's "right" were the biggest mistake in human history.
Im 5'5. Honestly I have had my ups and downs because of my height, but I didnt really let it get to me. I think its all a mindset. Just accept who you are, and keep being a better version of yourself.
Lol yeah right
Do you think lepards care that they are one of the smallest cats and despite that they are the most beautiful, intelligent, fastest, most dangerous, can take down prey 4 to 5 times bigger than them and compared to the other cats when wounded become even more dangerous. Remember that.
@@irontyson869 facts
@@glock_9ine956 I am right.
@@glock_9ine956STFU insecure little bird.
"giving them a chance" is very telling. We don't need charity. Id rather be alone than have someone settle for me
When women say they "give short men a chance"... they aren't pitying us/you... they are signaling to other women that there's nothing wrong with liking a short guy because from women's perspective ALL MEN have to prove themselves... but women don't have to give all men a chance.
Take the W bro.
OR, more babes for me... I'll take it.
@@KennethFabritius take the charity then. But charity dries up and they're gonna go out and get what they really wanted in the first place.
Women just don’t get hot for short guys like us. I’m 5’3”. It is what it is.
@@villainsbridgeclub5268 more women for me then, wuss.
@@villainsbridgeclub5268 it's not charity retard. I've stolen women from 6'+ men... but I have game and rizz. Sorry you lack it.
How on earth 5 "7 is supposed to be short
I know, these women say height doesnt matter yet 5 7 is somehow short??? Some of these women dont know that only 10-15% of the population is 6 foot
Everyone says Napoleon was short. He was 5'9.
@@dinahnicest6525 He was 5'6" but that was the average European man's height at that time. So, logically he wasn't short.
Short is usually considered anything under 6ft or 5'10 depending on who you're talking to.
@@dinahnicest6525 He was 5'6"... but 5'6" was perfectly average in his day. There just was a discrepancy between the French and English inches, since the French inches were larger it made his measure seem "smaller" and the English exploited that fact for propaganda ridicule. Also, Napoleon hired very-tall-for-the-time bodyguards to constantly guard him.
I'm somewhat tall for a dude, but after all the complaints I've seen from short men about the impact on their dating life, on behalf of men thanks for this submission. I've saved it.
I think u are GREAT. I have met a lot that won't even be friends with a short guy.
Nice feel-good video but these women who say they’d date short guys still have trouble actually doing it. Their main goal of making those kind of Tik Toks is to show the world how down to earth, compassionate, logical, and caring they are. Those are great qualities and wifey material and they want to market their purity subconsciously
But why’d the 4’11 girl give the 6’8 guy a chance? No under-6ft guys tried asking her out? Would the gorgeous-exotic looking woman actually seek out short guys?
I’m not trying to be a Debbie downer but just trying to point out reality. I’m 5’7 and know that being wanted, as a short guy, doesn’t just happen. You have to have game, be in shape, and act stoic. Stay away from being an entertainer always trying to make people laugh / have a good time. They’ll see you as a castle fool. Money is great but you don’t need an outrageous amount but you absolutely must take good care of your wardrobe and home lifestyle
Yea I’m your height as well,it is rare occasions I get glances my way.Although,recently one tall chick was checking me out at gym.
@@GoldKingsMan maybe in ur imagination lol,😂😂😂😂
@@WE-WUZZING-KANGS-N-SHEEOYT Why, are you shorter than me?
@@GoldKingsMan I'm 5f5 strong man okay your jealous!?
@@WE-WUZZING-KANGS-N-SHEEOYT Not jealous, but you seem to be with your comment.
Thanks for confidence boosting video ❤
Dont be fooled boyo, she is virtual signalling. Meaning she will still go for Tall Attractive Men regardless of Personality.
JGL is not short. He's 5'9". I don't understand why he's on the image of this video.
Woman shouldn't complain about men who say insensitive things about woman when they say horrible things about men and their size
Says a liar who has never been with a short guy. Just more virtue signalling lies.
TRue 😔
I'm 5'3....all hail the short kings!!!!!
Im around 5'3 ' 5'4 and I love how easy it is to build muscle because of my short height!
Condolences
@@jamesmccloud7535me too 😂. Only fun thing about being short.
That makes 2 of us.
5'2" here. Cheers bro 🎉
Dont give men false confidence and hope
Based
🤡 @@LadyMariaEnjoyer
You are true bro but even if you are short (minimum 5'5) there is a small amount of hope trust me you can date a 10 from asia or africa if you only have an american green card 😂
Type shit my guy.
I was 5.9 feet, but due to a accident i suffered multiple crushed vertebrae's, resulting in being quite a bit shorter to 5.5.
That is something i have to accept, because up to this day it depresses me.
I clearly noticing, that i'm getting far less attention (or no attention at all) from females.
That's very difficult, when you don't have a relationship yet.
I'm kind of affraid, that for me it will be getting quite impossible to find someone who i can live my life with.
Same here i am very short it is hard to find a girl
@@poovanna4284 It's so depressing, and it makes me so sad.
Well cheer up. You can always pay for escorts
@@theonlythingihavetosayis9333 It's not about getting laid.
It's about that somebody likes you for who you are.
I would like to meet a woman who can (also) fall in love with your personallity.
@@opoxious1592 it's harder for short men yes. I'm not particularly tall myself. But being social with mega large social networking will always find you a girl who truly doesn't care about height (as long as you are decently attractive)
So where i am from 5’11 is normal hight. I stans on a strong 5’3, and my dating life sucks, but i feel better after hearing this and i wont give up😌
Bro not to be rude is not about giving up is the huge risk you take as a manlet, most women’s view them worse than a criminal, they even love a good looking tall criminal than a good looking manlet great guy 😂😂😂😂 womens are crazy specially in the western.
I’m also 5’3 (162) bro 💀 how is it going?
Am good down here😂 you?
@@christopherwicksell523 honestly not bad bro😅, even though I have never dated anyone ( I’m 19) girls still treat me well 🫡
These videos that talk about short men.... and then start saying guys 5'6"--5'8"....will have women want them etc etc....they call that short?!......i am 5'3"......in my 60's now.....and i have never had success with girls.....I am intelligent......reasonably good looking...make girls laugh...told what a great guy i am....but when it comes to dating.....it just does not happen....if you are a short guy.....you are fighting an uphill battle trying to get dates!
I hear a lot of encouragement from women on UA-cam, but what I see is different. Statistics say that only 4% of women will accept a relationship with a man who is shorter. In 2013, the average woman said she wanted a man who is 8" taller. And 48.9% of the social media users specify "Tall men only". "Tall = 6'". A 1980 report said they found an average of only 1 in 720 married couples where the woman was taller. I'm 5'5. Statistics say that 85% of women will reject me for no other reason. Fortunately, I found my wife (5'1) 25 years ago, long before I found these figures, and in a country with different height standards and attitudes. Now I know why American women don't want me. Sorry for the pessimism, guys, but it's always best to know the truth.
Thank you for keeping it real in this sea of female appeasement and feel-good virtue-signalling. (Women. ☕️)
Men need to know the truth. Men must know the problems and find solutions. We cannot rely on women to solve (our) problems, they only want to talk about their problems, which makes them feel better, which falsely lets them conclude that they have solved their problem. (Women. ☕️) Also, they neither understand men's problems, nor do they care, typically. (It's called the gender empathy gap.)
Keep those red and black pills coming! They are hard to swallow. Be careful to swallow them entirely and quickly, don't choke. They are bittersweet, beceuse they work and will set you free!
You can’t live your life by statistics my friend. Not to mention there’s a lot of nuances in theses things. This is the mindset that keeps people down.
@@DwayneJohnson-nk7zw Of course, there are nuances, but these stats are overwhelming. Nuances can't bump figures like 4%, 8", 48.9%, 6', 1 in 720, and 85% far enough to make a difference. Not even if you double the odds in your favor. Sure. Anyone can hope to be that 1in 720, or 2, or even 100 in 720, but a "mindset" will never counter the evolutionary preference of females for the biggest males. The smallest will lose. It's not the only factor, but it is the most visible and quickly identifiable, and therefore, very important, if not the most important of all. By understanding reality, you'll know that you can't use the same tactics that are so successful for your 6'5 friend.
@@DwayneJohnson-nk7zw Replacing statistics by mindset: really?
The world works in patterns. Wherever statistical inferences are possible, they should be considered. Omitting to do so means refusing to learn and grow.
If you go against the statistics, you could also play in a lottery.
@dinahnicest6525 Is right. Videos like this one and the ones shown within are virtue signaling for likes and subscribes. It is impossible for women and tall men to understand the struggles a short man goes through in the modern dating scene. I have been rejected by nearly all women due to my height. A short guy knows the reality of their situation because they live it everyday. Calling us "short kings" is the equivalent of calling a child "big guy": condescension wrapped in a compliment.
I guess I need to work on my personality
Thank you for this video🌹🌹🌹... The truth must be heard ... Short kings matter and short kings rock 😁 ... Short kings and Queens rule 💯💯💯
اذا كان هناك حب حقيقي لايهم الجسد طويل أو قصير لان الجسد مطية الروح ومسكنها فقط مهدد بالشيخوخة والزوال .
المهم ان تجد توام روحك مهما كان شكله وقامته .
You definitely ghost any man under 6’. But glad you got some UA-cam clout
Incel energy
True
Dwarfs don’t get her hot. Guaranteed.
@@gladitsnotme Based energy* Women don’t like short guys.
Girl you’re 5’1 almost every guy to taller than you tho. Try being taller than the man. It’s different
I am 38 years old. And I am a male. And I am 5'0 feet tall. And I am on the Autism spectrum I have PDD-NOS. And I stopped growing in 7th grade in middle school. And I am single and I am a Virgin.
Ok
Sorry to hear that, don't worry, I'm in the same boat too.
@@thomaskis8298 thank you. And oh okay.
Damn. That's tuff.
If only most women thought like you. Bless your heart.
Short man rule 😎 5 ft 6 of awesomeness
I have had some of the most mean comments made by women in passing. Coworkers, family members, friends, hell random strangers have made some of the most cutting comments and none of this occurred in anything approaching a romantic situation.
It's weird, it's also annoying that my brain has compiled them all.
I'm 5'5. I had a blind date laugh and quickly walk away without a "Hello".
women should've been taller then men imo
Why tho?
I don’t think short men would want to be called cute, adorable, and sweet to me that would seem demeaning their mahood
I'm 5'5 and will be 49 this April (2024). Honestly it sucks being a black or white man in the United States who are 5'6 and shorter. It's hard enough being short but as a 5'5 man we are pratically invisible unless you want to settle for morbidly ovese single moms with 3-5 kids from the taller men they desire when they were younger. I've been only on dates with these single moms with 3-5 kids (I don't have any kids) and they always told me they used to reject men all the time for being short but now that they have their kids from taller men they say height doesnt matter anymore because they are older, more mature, and already have their kids. That's like telling me I'm not good enough (tall enough) to have kids with but some how I seem to be tall enough now because I have money, time, and resources to help support other mens kids. I feel women reward men by having their kids just because they are tall... and they expect me to reward men by raiseing their kids just because he is tall. I've been rejected by thousands of women with them saying negative things about my height for 32 years straight but atleast I have enough self respect not to be cocked by taller men and having to settle for raising their kids. Some guys including taller men don't mind raising other mens kids mostly because they already have kids of their own from other women but that's not my thing. Over 32 years women (even short 4'10 and a 4'7 woman) rejected me publicly with no reprocusions from anyone in the immediate area saying "I don't do the short guy thing" "your too short, your not even considered a real man" "Your short and that's a sign of weak male genes"Or 5 foot women rejected me because they don't want to have short kids lol or 5 foot women rejecting me because I'm not atleast 2 inches taller then her while they are in the 5 inch heels. I can't imagine being with a single mom havuing to raise their kids then as they get older I'll have to hear about them talk to their friends of how they won't date shorter guys even though their stepfather is short and was stuck spending his money, time, and respources raising them. Being a short man is brutal in the Westernized world when it comes to dating.
You’ll probably end up with the most beautiful woman who blows your mind. Just ignore all those women from the past and have faith in God and He will come through for you. I am still walking in faith for God to come through for me. Most people out there (both genders) are not good people. ❤
What Slayerofsatan said was true for me. I'm also 5'5. when I was 44, I "ended up with the most beautiful woman who blows [my] mind." I met her in Bei Jing. Better than any American woman in every way.
I’m 45, previously married to a unappreciative single mother. I got tired of it, so I divorced her for after 7 years. I don’t date anymore, I just rent now. Fuck it, life is too short.
@@slayerofsatan1049 God? God's the asshole that made me short in the first place. I can rely on the charity of the One who hates me? Ho ho.
Speak for yourself. I'm 5'5" and have had 4or 5 smokin' hotties that were solid 8s in looks that I've slept with or had LTRs with. Your height can be a disadvantage but it's ONLY a major one if you let it be and buy into it. Don't be delusional, you're not going to be a first-round-pick for the majority of women... but if you get your shit together, max your card and level up you can be a first-round-pick for a good 5%-1O% of physically attractive women and a fling for 3O%-4O%.
But, like with every man, the burden of performance is on YOU.
I think Stepanka's comments are wonderful. She mentioned she's met As a 5'6" man married to the same pretty, smart, 5'7" blonde woman for 3 decades I can say I'm glad there are very attractive women with options who don't have a height preference. Prior to meeting my wife, I'd dated girls a bit taller, a bit shorter, and my height exactly. At risk of being captain obvious, dating apps have influenced the dating landscape as has pornography.
In India 5'7'' is referred as tall...and 5'5"" is standard height for men and for women its 4'8"" standard height
You sure about that I am 5'5 men from India and I am short here, avg height of Indians are increasing for both male and female just search on internet, now a days when I go in markets I finds most womens similar to my height. I just completed my higher studies, when I was in my school I was the third shortest whereas all my classmates where 5'8½ avg, some were above 6 and I'm not lying. New generation of India are getting talller
@@sunnyk9609 yeah ....I am 5'5 and I was the shortest in our class too among the males
5'7" is not considered tall anymore. It was considered tall maybe around 30-40 years ago. But now average Indian height is increasing. The average Indian male height is 5'8" now.
@@akshay9602 bhai heels ka gadget kya aise hi bana hua hai? Ek gobar jaisi shakal wali ladki agar makeup set muh me dalke khud ko beautiful bol sakti hai...so why can't a men wear those gadgets that have been released ...literally both are artificially created... A mean ugly lady wearing bundles of makeup and short men with heels .....Handsome actors like Varun Dhawan is also short 5'6 hardly...still look he is dating a 6'1 lady....confidence and maintainance is everything
Am 4.9 man can I found girls shorter than me?
God bless you always dear, 😘❤
It so great to see that some women adore short men. I'm 5"11 & still single.
Respect to this woman
Don’t degrade short people.. it’s not right but then turn around and degrade tall people
The question is... how short is too short? I've seen videos of women supporting short men with positivity however they don't go any shorter then 5'7 and continue to say if your 5'6 and shorter then I don't know what to say to you. Another video shown a man supporting short men and it was inspiring (mentioning 5'7 men) to the point where he said "if your like 5'5 then theres nothing I can say to you because no man should be 5'5" that destroyed me because I'm 5'5.
That's true, height could be subjective bc if you date someone petite(under 5'1) then they might actually think you're tall bc you're taller then them.
they're support is meaningless then. how they claim to support only just below average height and fuck everyone else below that. ik some just below average height dudes that also clown on much shorter guys(garminism)
My fiance is 5'3 and I'm 5'7, maybe it's rare but some women like me prefers short guys.
Humans have been evolving to become taller and taller. Average height 100 years ago was less than it is now. 6' hundreds of years ago was considered to be a giant. Women across the board want taller men. Short men learn this very early on and it sucks when you stop growing at under 5'8" or so. You quickly learn you're not what women want.
Nah. New generations are becaming taller and more gracile everywhere. Tall heigth is gracile and feminine and literally every science proves that being tall correlates with being feminine. Tall people tend to be ectomorph and syndromes like Poly X syndrome, fragile x syndrome, Turner syndrome and klinefelter síndrome all show that tall height is gracile and feminine. Eunuchs were also Very tall and acromegalic Men tend to be are tall and low testosterone. If women get these facts checked, the vast majority of them Will change. The only reason Men tend to bem taller than women is because of hierarchy roles, being tall looked looked intimidative for Animals in hunting, It also helped endurance when running off an animal to kill ir escape. And It was mostly men that did the Hunter and worker role. But that IS past, in the future the women will be short and the Men even shorter. Also society and media pushes heigthism and It is more of a USA thing. I am short and Very successful with women in my country. Other factors like face and pigmentation also play a role.
Im 5,5 ft ( 170 cm tall) im 17 years old and this video gave me some Hope..
I just wanna be loved
And height cant be changed like weight, you cant just train to get taller,
And yet when a girl is fat, men are suposed to accept it,
But when a man is short its just a No..
I basically gave up on meeting a woman on the dating apps. I just got about zero matches (responses). And that was despite stating that I love animals, want kids, are well educated, have a well-paid job. Nothing mattered more than height. Even the short women want/wanted tall guys. Oh, and I'm 5"8 (I think. 170cm it is here in Sweden).
I’m 5’6” and I’ve been with at least three women who were taller than me. Also, my one and only girlfriend was way taller than me
Did this provide a nice pay bump from the males you lied to?
Personally I don't have a problem with height but only celebrity short guys get away with this
Jezzz, you are literaly saying in one of your later videos - 'all bad people in the history were short' - such a click-bating all short men is emotional extortion be ashamed
You have dated short men
BUT haven't dated a guy shorter than you
I'm wondering what percentage of girls would date a shorter guy than them
Depends on how tall the girl is, lets say 5'7+ girls have lower height requirements since they're gonna be taller than majority of men while shorter girls aren't comfortable because they're often used to be around with men that are taller than them. still however this depends on the girl.
I'm a short guy around 5' and I've found women between 5'7" - 6" attractive
Stepanka: "why I love men short!"
4ft and I want a tall girl 😂
I'm 5'11", not exactly short, but I dated a 6'6" woman, and lamented that I couldn't carry her over the threshold, but she loved when I carried her piggy-back.
Do you EvEn LiFt BrUh?
Yeah but a lot of the women who are making those videos don’t really like short guys. They make these videos to get engagement because they know that guys who want this to be true will comment and engage. A lot of it is just bait.
im 5'11 , still short. people only consider 6ft+ as tall
5'8 and I've dated some stunners.
Society to start opening up, and we’re are woman like you?😍💯🙌👍
Very interesting video & I'm an American guy that's 5'2" tall.
You will suffer a lot. I am the same height as you, 161 cm. From the Middle East, the average height is much less than America, but I feel short
@@مجتهد-خ2ف wow--you are 3 cm taller than me! I plan to move to the Philippines next year when I retire--the average height of the women in the Philippines is just under 4' 11".
@@napoleonmdusa8877 Good luck buddy
@@مجتهد-خ2ف You are actually 3 cm taller than I am (158 cm). Even in the Philippines, I feel short next to the women.
I'm a 5'11 girl and I've had 3 crushes this year, one was about 5'8, one 5'9 and one 6'1💖🧒. So 2 of them were shorter than me (+ they weren't even short im just super tall haha) Sooo short boys remember: if you like a girl taller than you PLEASE come and say it to us and dont just think we wont like you because youre shorter than us!!!!!
I am 5'2 "and am dating a girl who is 5'5". If she likes you and gives you a chance, make her go crazy for you. Don't worry about height and don't bring your insecurities into the new relationship. It's only the younger girls who are picky. Once you get to the age of 25+ men or women, height becomes less relevant.
I absolutely LOVE how this Video begins the man's girlfriend giving him a piggyback ride - They make a very great looking adorablely cute couple - With she and her bearing sweet smiles and laughter looking joyfully happy with wonderfully great love affectuate fondness for each other.If a Woman has never had or even dated a short fellow if she gets to know him,give hom a fair chance shot as feels as well she thinks about him when the woman feels and sees who he is as a great person and not what he is,a short man,There is a very good chance she might not really care about the size of his male body.She may come to eventually falling in love with him;You may be surprised that his height dose'nt really bothers or annoys,or even emberasses her at all.There are a number of reasons why for many women short men make better boyfriends according to many authorities❤.
So, you are openly saying that being a short man is bad or unattractive. Interesting and ironical.
7:48 "I want you to return that same energy, that same level of respect to us females."
9:38 "Men shorter than 5'1 are pretty much hobbits."
She is an hypocrite too bro , she just made the video to get views
@@mohazytg3270 she' not a hypocrite. men shorter than 5'1" are very rare. Doesn't mean they can't find a mate. But they are rare in most places.
@@KennethFabritius they are rare but they do exist if they were watching this video how will that feel to be called a hobbit
@@mohazytg3270 I don't care about people's feelings. Worrying about people's feelings is why the west is in the trouble it is in.
Im 5'3 and i can go all night i would love a tall woman i would not feel any less a man.
5’7” and up is not short, that’s tall imo
for real though lol
I agree, but not to most American women. Under 6' is short. Even 5'11"
How is 5'7 tall lol? Maybe in eastern Asia.
In most western countries the average male height is 5'10, in the US it is 5'9.
Take into account that younger generations are taller and those numbers could be 5'11 and 5'10 for millenials and gen Z in the west.
In many European countries the average is 5'11-6'.
5'7 is definitely short if you aren't from eastern Asia.
Not freakishly short, but short.
I love this method. Short men about to empty their pockets simping for this one
I didn't know 5'7" was short. 5'7" was tall in Roman culture. Nordic culture i suppose had some taller men. Actually idgaf, i feel and believe im superior to most men after developing so many skills and gaining experiences. It cost years. Women exist to serve us and bring us pleasure and children. Taking care of them is one of those pleasures.
@dinfast I've done very well even with women taller than me. Confidence seems to be the 'magic potion' because I have a few tall friends who get mistreated and are sexual dumpster divers because they have low confidence and eventually turn off their women.
@@taterbug70 true. Part of the reason why I'm not attracted to taller men is they often (NOT ALWAYS) come with a big ego. NO THANKS!
@gassylizard3349 most very dangerous men I've met were in the 5'5" to 5'11" range. Usually they were stocky and round rather than lean. Maybe in Slavic countries it is different but I suspect they have the 5'8" average and then some 6'+ people. There was a mixing of Bell beaker and Yamnaya people in the bronze age. So, it is stratified.
@@gassylizard3349 completely.
Taller men may get more initial opportunities, but like most naturally gorgeous girls, they never have to work for attention so they may land mates but can't keep them unless they have cultivated ACTUAL skills and value.
That's not to say there aren't humble taller men and naturally-gorgeous women who also work to better themselves. There certainly are. I'm just pointing out human nature tends to take the path of least resistance... but the tide always catches up to everyone. Always. People who have naturally easy opportunities tend to have the least endurance, fortitude and character because they've never had to cultivate it. When they are losing in their mid to later years because everything was handed to them, we folks who actually put in the work start cleaning up.
The tide rises and those who never learned to build a boat, sink.
Being 5.7ft I had to accept my height at an early age and all negative commence are about my height when someone wants to speak bad of me. I see that as a win as that's the only thing they have it could be alot worse than that. I'm 16 stone with a decent build.....I'm above average for other things.
I would love to date a tall woman and it would be amazing☺☺😊😊😊
Been there🙌 and it was great!
Tall women, no thanks!
This made my day! I’m 5’5! 😊
Even me am 4.9
Sooo sAD
Still over for you bro, still likes Tall men only bro you just gotta look at they do NOT what they say.
Bro she called 5'7 really short, she doesnt even see 5'5 for a man as a real height
Nope. Short heigth is a robust and masculine trait. Short Men have easier time building muscle and the law of gravity as well as the Square cube law proves being short is better. Also the main difference between short and talk people is mostly leg length, Men with short legs have advantage at lifting and carrying weigth, whereas long legs can look good in women because It makes them look like models.
They're lying, they say they love short guys and then they date basketball players...
Virtue signalling lol
Frfr
Yeah we really can’t win with you guys. Woman dislikes short men, her standards are too high and she’s being unrealistic and superficial.
Woman makes a video showing appreciation for short men and actually dates short men: virtue signaling
You black-pilled men are bitter and annoying. You literally complain either way
@@thinkpink6796 because we actually experience the disrespect from women cause of our height lol she doesn’t.
@@thinkpink6796 That's because words mean NOTHING if it's not followed by actions. Anyone can make any claims, but what actually matters are actions, not words. I've seen few women online talk about how they don't care about dick size.. yet when you inquire about their past partner's or current partner's size, we can easily see the pattern that they do care about size. Either they are lying or clearly underestimating their own preferences.
I love tall women.❤❤😊😊
Sad how I came here to feel good about my height only to feel bad about being small downstairs. Seems like you care a lot about size since you mentioned it multiple times. You've only dated guys taller than you. Would you be equally attracted to a guy thats 5 foot tall?
I'm 5'2
Being short in 2023 as a man is basically a death sentence especially if you’re American.
Europe statically is not quite as bad but it’s still pretty bad. Once you drop past 5”10 it gets a bit suicidal tbf, unfortunately height is routed in biology as it signals to the women you can protect her. Even though we live in societies that are as safe statically as they have ever been ... so do you really need protecting ? 🤣
height is a form of attractiveness though , so I’m not too salty about it , you just have to accept that shortness and potentially being lonely go hand in hand as a male unfortunately. There’s so many double standards in dating , women’s criteria these days is just so long that it’s almost impossible to meet them and due to online dating women have the pick of the bunch over men. This is because there’s more men on them, I’ll leave you with these chilling facts . Every 2 hours in the UK a man kills him self and suicide is the biggest killer of men below the age of 45 in the UK ... I bet most of these men can’t attract or don’t have a woman 🤣🤣 oh well , who cares about men in this Gynocentric society we live in now ? 🤣
Also stop 🧢
Brutal... no coincidence shorter men are at higher risk of suicide
Pathetic comment. I’m 5’6 and I’ve pulled a 5’7-5’8 beauty. Your comment reeks of insecurity and that’s why you fail.
@@ThomasP525 Outliar doesn't change the rule.
@@mickeyg6994 weak.
Have you seen how many strong powerful men are not tall . Plus wear lifts in the movies . JCVD , Stallone , sports figures . Mike Tyson very powerful not tall . In porn the most popular women are sometimes 5/5 and under . I mean I think it is dumb all this height fetish bs . Some of the best looking men are not crazy tall . Even some better looking than tall men .
My friend is 5 7 and he has no issue. He regards himself as a leopard and fearless
Bro 5 7 isnt even short, that is average height, 5 4 and under is short for a male
@@Battlefield1918 No where near average, in the western world at least. The average man in these regions generally sits between 5'9 and 5'10 according to statistics. I'm 5'10 in France and can confirm most guys here are around this height.
@@clementm9161 in tall people countries yeah nowhere near but in countries like italy, USA , Portugal it's only 2 inches shorter than average or even average height in general
5 9 here and I've given at least 5 short men ( between 5 2 and 5 5) changes and they always ended up making fun of my height and telling me how they feel uncomfortable walking down the street holding hand with me and they broke it off with me in the end because of the height difference and always ended up with shorter women after that.
5 is hardly a good enough sample size. Studies using bigger samples show most men don't care about height as much as women do. If Men started caring about height, its because ya'll started to make us insecure and treat us less of a man for it.
@@Ghostrider-ul7xn well this was not a study or a research this was my anecdote. so basically what you're saying is that it's my fault - the woman giving them a chance and treating them right- for them FEELING insecure and like they're being treated as less of a man? sure that makes perfect sense.
@@blondie8524 I'm not talking about YOU in particular, but most other women are not at all open to short men. If most women weren't this discriminatory and fixated on height, men wouldn't have developed this insecurity. You giving 5 short men hardly makes a difference in society's perception of short men, since its not that big of a size. When you have many women constantly mock short men that they are worthless and undateable over all social media platforms for years, men are slowly going to internalize and act in that way.
Why is it so hard for you to empathize this?
Like, are you the type of person who'd completely write off an entire demographic from your dating pool just based on your experience with 5 people? Really?? There are tons of short guys like myself who has no issue with a girl's height whatsoever. We just know that 90% of the girls do care and we don't bother. So If you're not part of that group, its upto you to make the initiative and show that.
That's a THEM problem. Not a short man problem.
I don't care if I'm short, what I don't like is people trying to make me care that I'm short. It's not going to work and I'm not emasculated. If you think that, that's your problem. :)
I'm a short king (5'5 and a Half) and I love it for the simple fact I don't bump my head on stuff 😆
Can't reach the top shelf though midget 😭
@@mike54HDW Also I'm a Ninja so climbing over obstacles, like your mom for instance is nothing new to me 😂
@@MisanthropicMalice666 don't think that's happened considering she don't go for small little bitchs that are smaller then her in every department 🤔
@@mike54HDW you're projecting Karen, stop. Sounds like the person with an ego problem is you 🖕🏻
@@MisanthropicMalice666 it's ok little guy maybe your grow and be taller then 10% of women or you could star in the new hobbit movie 🤣as a dwarf so it has its perks 😴
I want a tall woman, I'm not tall is there any women out there? but then I want a short woman, first flip a coin.
Stepanka, You are super beautiful, love your bright eyes, and great DNA features, Thanks for this video.
Short kings are gents who need lovely women like you to be with, you make me feel great, a Big W for you,
Liked and subscribed, and best karma to you ,and all of us. Peace!
Stop SIMPing. please. She only says that to virtue-signal and because it feels to be the right thing to say. She openly admits that the purpose of the vide was to uplift (apart from getting content that emotionalises and doesn't require much effort).
If she could trade her boyfriend for the same one in tall, she would. Also, he surels has other above-average qualities, otherwise she wouldn't tolerate his short/average height.
I'm 5ft3 I love all women
Folks, beauty is like a rose...it will eventually wilt.
Stop being brainwashed by social media. It's what's INSIDE that truly matters.
When you're old, tired and alone, you'll see that I was right.
BTW, I am a short-ish King. 🤪
This short king salutes u! Great video beautiful.
Well iam 6'3 I have no idea why iam here 😂but anyway stay strong short bros... King is a king no matter what's his height.. Remember
Validation
Oh yeah and some care much less or not art all if we die and for some reason think we short guys just don't eat our vegetables.
You would think that short guys would target tall women to ask out, since they want tall kids, but nope. Tall girls get shit on by everyone.
Not true. When short guys show interest in tall women, they sometimes become the target of ridicule and blatant shaming for showing confidence to approach them. Harsh rejections from tall women are commonplace to short men. Also, we get stamped as a fetish freak by tall women because our short stature apparently doesn't give us the permission to be attracted to them and their longer legs. It's considered creepy which I find sad and disturbing.
Not all tall women but many of them hold a much stronger disdain for shorter guys than short girls. Tall girls are the ones who shit on short people by telling the short girls to stick to the shorties (guys) and leave the tall guys for "us" tall girls. Tall girls can be their own worse enemy when they deliberately cut out a whole sector of men who are shorter than they are.
I am 5'5.5 and plan to go for a taller woman, I don't care what other people around me think about what I want to do.
Joseph Gordon-Levitt is 5'9, average height so he is not short par se.
These youtubers only want views by faking themselves to the world 🌎 😤 .
I'm 5'11 alot of women say they wouldn't date me cause of my height
Ah yes, they all want someone over 6 Feet. Somehow even being above average isn't good enough for women, they want the top heighted males. Even girls who are about 5 feet or shorter want 6 feet tall men. Its like why? Do you enjoy feeling like a child or want people to give him weird looks for dating a girl the size of a child and him looking like your dad...? At least you'll have much better luck and choices. IF alot of women say they wouldn't date you cuz your not tall enough then imagine actually short men. I'm 5'4 and slim. We just gotta wait, all will be okay. We are lucky missing out on the toxic women who focus on height and will find a real one who will love you for you. Then she will brag how happy she is with you and the people around her will all be single women or women who keep running into bad men due to their choices. Just be yourself and kind always and your future partner will find you or you'll find them.
Maybe you talking with very tall girls? I’m also 5’11 and I live with 5’5 girl.
5.11 not short !!!
Cmon man try being 5f5 your tall asf
Prob cause you have no game. 5'11 not short
I’m 6-02 and my man of 26 years is 6-00. Of course, I’m a man too. Oh crap, why did this show up years later on my UA-cam? This doesn’t apply to us.
Nose to nose he's got his toes in it.....toes to toes he's got his nose in it.
If i were a women i would look for a man that suport me, listen me, respect me, cares about me and has values. The heigth will be such a superficial, secondary almost irrelevsnt thing.
As a short king i have climed many trees in my time
Actually humans are getting taller.