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To my goth friends in the comments - it's not expensive to be goth. Theres so much music for free on youtube. Goth is founded on DIY and thrifting. You dont need that expensive shit to be goth. Just need to listen to the music
@@LadyJaggerX3 that sounds LOVELY!! like, spend your money on whatever you want. I dont care. I just have issues with people saying being goth is expensive when it doesnt HAVE to be. You CHOOSE to make it expensive
I posted this comment earlier but I'd really like a reply, so I may as well ask you; Wish I had thought of this question before, but what do you guys think of people who want to embrace the style but aren't into the music? I enjoy gothic romance aesthetic but whenever I tell people what bands I listen to, I always get criticized for them not being "dark" or "hard" enough. Like...why is it not ok to like what I like?
@@AkiAmeko I think it has to do with the fact that a lot of us have been called posers entering the scene, right? And a lot of people now are profiting off the look either socially or monetarily, so people get touchy about it.
I'm a christian goth, and I'm used to corsets, platform shoes, fishnets etc... and I met a priest recently... he was so supportive and told me that black looked good on me, and that it was stylish. He was so kind! Often, people tend to say that religious people are narrow-minded, but this priest was one of the most supportive people I've ever met. I also met catholic people who were super kind and invited me to spend the day with them. They were so cool!
@@emilydixon3886 it depends, I guess. growing up Catholic I've met both chill and not chill Catholics lol my family does have a priest friend tho and he is very kind and intelligent!
"I spent a day with MORTICIANS" - please!! And if you can, get Caitlin Doughty/Ask A Mortician (or part of her team) to be part of the video!! Just the death positive part of the video made me crave this so much!!
"normal" people hurt me more than goths and emos and other alternative people did I'm autistic and while the people who consider themselves to be "normal" called me slurs and made fun of me, my friends who are mostly part of the alt community helped me the most with communicating
A lot of us are also autistic/have other neurodivergencies, I guess when you feel different and are rejected all your life, it makes you drawn to more socially "unacceptable" lifestyles. You know we don't have a reputation to protect, people already think we're weirdos, so might as well fully embrace what we find interesting and beautiful even if it is against the norm. Sincerely, an autistic & adhd goth :o)
I mean emo and goth people are still humans They just like to dress a certain way and that doesn't define them If somebody wears a suit and hears to classical music that doesn't make them elegant , posh or royalty Same way if someone listens to dark music and wears black clothes doesn't mean they are violent
@@tilenHD How would you know, ik some people are self diagnosed but alot of kids now are actually depressed. I'm not but I have bad anxiety (actually diagnosed btw)
Nice! 🖤🖤🖤 I'm 45 and I consider myself a goth since my 17! I was sooo sad when I saw the goth movement gradually disappear, mostly with the arrival of the Yo fashion mouvements (like rap, hip-hop, techno) but, thankfully, it's still pretty alive in countries like Germany . I think it would have been interesting to mention all the different goth styles (hardcore, victorian/romantic, steampunk, cyberpunk, pagan goth, rainbow goth...) and the different feels that go with each of them, like different facets of a prism. I like all of them and have cloths of all these styles. ;) The music bands and styles they mentioned in the video were right (and I love those bands) but they forgot to mention electo industrial goth music! Here is my definition of what it is being goth. I would like to have your view on that and maybe you can modify or add some elements to my definition: Being goth is having a fascination for the occult and the unknown, a desire to question what we have been taught and seek for the truth, an open mindness (trying to gather more info before judging), a respect for nature and a need to exteriorize one's sensuality and inner darkness freely but in a healthy, pacific way. -Sorry for my english and if I sound weird: my mother tongue is French. Xx
Cameleonfleuri - that’s like me! I mix styles. I do lots of research, know the differences, etc. I am proud to be a goth. I’m just sad I can’t go to my thrift stores and other goth stores right now to add to my collection I’m growing out of and the confusion dropped into it from family.
I was so scared this was gonna be a bunch of eboys and egirls who listen to lil peep, but you actually found real goths who listen to real goth music. Thank you, sir.
While I do accept that death is a part of life, forgive me for this, but I feel that too much positivity towards the subject is a slippery slope that can lead to-I don’t want my comment to get deleted. Idk, tho. I’m fine with the goth subculture, but I disagree with that line of thought. I’m too optimistic and love life too much to think that way if you know what I mean
Warm Soft Kitty wow that’s crazy, I’ll let all the other alive and thriving punks know and I’ll go ahead and tell all my decent successful local bands to go ahead and hang up their guitars and drumsticks 👍🏼
Warm Soft Kitty if you can’t find them it’s because they don’t want you to 😅 if you think they’re only in seedy night clubs you aren’t looking in the right places. Punk has always been a subculture, wouldn’t really make sense if it was in any mainstream media now would it?
Being colored, and emo. I appreciate the guy in the interview speaking up for us in an alternative community. Like some people try and tell us we cant be a certain thing because we're not white. Thanks for this interview.
Just laugh at them for not knowing who Bad Brains or Ho99o9 are, though the second ones are relatively new in the scene. This is some high level of ignorance. And don’t let me start with the tribe cultures which imo are pretty goth by nature.
I can't even fully express how glad I am Anthony brought him on. I'm a black goth/revived-emo and as soon as I saw his community post about doing this video I commented "please bring a person of color on, representation is so important" and I'm so happy he came through. I didn't even really need to hear it, as I don't give two shits about people's opinion on the way I dress anymore, but hearing him just give reassurance for potential black goths "...there was a black person in The Cure. One of the most goth bands ever has a fucking black person in there. So just tell the person to fuck off" just made me like jump up and yell "YES!"
Please do “I spent a day with people with deadly food allergies!” There is such a lack of awareness in all the ways this effects your life. How poor the restaurant standards are. How expensive and inaccessible life saving Epi pens are. Etc!
Ouuu great idea! Several of my friends have deadly food allergies (some just one - as I do, others have multiple) and friends of friends have experienced anaphylaxis from just being in the same room as certain foods (peanuts & shellfish) which really blew my mind! Could rant on and on about this 😅
YES! I have a lot of fatal food allergies to things like nuts, chocolate, coconut etc, and going to any restaurant is helL when the staff treat you like the problem just for having a medical requirement. I think this would be such an informative episode since it's such a common yet under-discussed issue!
YES. my brother recently discovered (like a year ago) deathly allergies to a lot of things that are literally EVERYWHERE, for example onion, after an attack that nearly killed him because he couldn't breathe and people around him didn't know what to do (he was out eating with his friends).
When suzy talked about the trend of wanting a Goth gf i felt that Im still what the comunity calls a baby bat, and i dated a guy who wanted a goth gf but he would often tell me to "tone the goth down" He literally just wanted me in fishnets and forget about the music i hear, the things i love or how do i want to present myself" I was just seen as "the hot goth gf of XXX" and it was depressing
literally it's just fetishising and making goth a sexual thing when it's like us it's like our life 😂 its not just a costume they gotta realise if they're gonna have a goth gf they need to accept it all
I literally hate how sexualized fishnets are... all of my exes were initially interested in me because of the fishnets, almost made me feel like they wouldn't like me without them. I love them so much as a fashion piece tho!
You don't have to look Goth to be Goth. That is one stereotype many people have. And also, some of us Goth's are in our 30's and 40's now, and life is busy, and we just don't have the time or energy anymore.
Golden rules of goth: If you don't listen to the music then you're not goth. And you are never allowed to be one of us again if you constantly shit on people for not being pale enough.
jess dude Tyler is one of my friends from Cali, last time I saw him was last year in August, he’s such a cool dude to hang out with, we went out for goth ice cream downtown LA, which is basically vanilla ice cream but colored black and it’s so tasty.
It still depends on whether the people accept or not to do the interviews, i wouldnt think it to be Bad if he didnt managed to interview a more diverse people.
9:24 Btw, that was Andy Anderson. He played drums for a few years in the Cure. Sadly, he passed away in 2019, but the Cure paid tribute to him during their 2019 induction into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.
Feel like these aesthetically aren’t the most “goth people”, but it goes to show that goths don’t have to conform to stereotypes and wear all black and have black dyed hair,
BlackMetal Berry i had this in school too 🤣 girls used to shout “do you cut yourself” down the hall at me all the time. That was like 20 years ago, does this still happen now? 😬
From what I know, goths aren't really violent. Metalheads I could see being stereotyped as the latter. Still a very stereotypical and generally inaccurate statement, but I feel like metalheads are the most likely of the spooky kids to throw hands. xD I would imagine Emo to be more like "everything sucks and I'm going to wallow in my feels" while Goth would be more "I find the beauty in the macabre of this wretched world"
@@TheKarret Emos are not especially pessimistic, just really connected to their feelings and true about them. In the good times just as much as in the bad times.
Can you spend a day with surgeons? Because I’m curious whether or not they wanted to go into the medical field or their parents pushed them to? Or if they feel like a minority in the medical world? And stuff like that, thank you if you read or like 💙
Ive heard more bad things about surgeons than any other part of the medical field. Like some of my friends think they're like jocks who think are better than everyone else. Although, I don't completely disagree with them because some that do go into it clearly have some serious control issues (like they like having power over someone life type of thing) BUT from experience I know that some are kind and just want to do the most they can to save lives. Lol some did it because their parents made them. Regardless, it's def. A field where passion needs to be present somehow or another to get through it.
Hell yeah Stella. I'm an old goth and can't be assed dressing up anymore so her saying it's all about the music warmed my little black heart. I can still sit and listen to The Cure in my comfy jeans and comfy hoodie and be goth at heart.
Spend a day with: •gymnasts •minimalists •adopted people •family members of criminals (Sorry if you've already done one of these and i just didn't notice😂)
Yeah adopted would be so great! Bring me on as a guest! I am adopted and could share a lot on this topic! Often times adoption is misunderstood and not done correctly. I’d love to do the show!
Love the video and all 3 of them are awesome but "Goth is expensive" is just plain wrong. I've made so many outfits from thrifted clothes, old clothes from my wardrobe, sales at gothic stores, scraps of fabric, ripped tights, or simply sewing my own dresses etc. There are a thousand possibilities, you just have to get creative! In my opinion the more individuality you pour into your outfit, the greater it looks :)
oh my god I was thinking the whole time: "gosh that Suzy woman seems so familiar but where the heck do I know her from???" until I read this comment and I finally remembered she's Arin's wife
You need to do a “spend a day with first generation immigrants”. I would really want to see if anyone feels as torn between American and their other culture like I am. I love your series!
If you are a little older (17/18 +) Hanif Kureshi writes hilarious and poignant books on “hybridity”. His family is Pakistani but he grew up in England. His feelings of not belonging to one or the other really shines through his work
I'm not goth but hearing "Hell yeah, Dad!" In that context hit in a bittersweet kinda way since I don't speak to mine anymore. Love hearing that someone's got such a good relationship with their dad
abt the whole "its expensive to be goth" thing, it doesnt have to be! i cut and dye my own hair, i thrift, ive made my own patches, ive owned many of the same clothes for years, and i dont buy lots of new stuff. being goth, again, is mainly about liking the music--which these days is pretty accessible--but even if you want to dress the part DIY is a good route to go and it goes all the way back to the roots. goth is for everyone!
i literally thought the SAME thing most of my stuff is thrifted then customized, and I was so mad about it I went looking up his outfit, his Docs: 150. The bag: 45. Jeans from PACSUN (that is on the expensive side) are 49.95 and there inst tax, but let us round that to 50 even. And those are plain black jeans like his. a normal battle vest is about 45. Those add up to 290.So he is saying his pins and patches cost him over 300?? I work at hottopic, and I can tell you that isn't true. they are 1.99 for pins and 3-6 for patches. AND there is always a sale, so lets again be generous and say he has 5 patches on his vest, that is 30 (not to mention there is LITERALLY always a buy two get on on pin patches and stickers,,,,) and he has 8 visible normal buttons, so lets round to 10 to be safe, that is 19.90, so 20. 3 visible enamel pins, so lets round to 5, (those are 5-7) 35$. Patches and pins alone are only $85. That all together is 375. And that is assuming he didn't use ANY kind of hotcash or points (since we are also assuming he is shopping at hottopic, which I believe he did I recognize those pins) So where is the extra 225 that he spent? I am not in ANY way calling him out or anything, I am just saying if he DID spend that much he was ripped off.
You also don't have to be very good at DIY stuff to do goth, there are a lot of things you can do that don't take much skill and can make your clothes way cooler. You'll pick skills up as you go too.
Yes yes yes. We are children of the anti-capitalist no money DIY clothing punk scene. If you didn’t pick it up in a thrift shop somewhere for pennies it’s not your own style. I only ever spend real money on corsets and shoes. Everything else is EBay, charity shop finds or handed down the community.
I needed this video. I'm a betrayer, a former goth who wanted to know if the culture still exists, and after watching a couple of videos of goths I thought it had become an aesthetic, some sort of hipster lifestyle, defined by goth hauls, buying stuff and that's it. I'm so glad that it's still considered a music based culture and I also loved all the kids here.
so glad suzy brought up the "big tiddy goth gf" issue! in the past year i've had to deal with way more gross comments from guys about wanting a big tiddy goth gf, or then seeing people who just have thick eyeliner and dark lipstick being called goth gfs. shit's wack yo. @ my fellow goth gals i love y'all and take care
@@msunder0115 it.. isn't a fetish? it's a music subculture and lifestyle?? i also highly doubt you'd have a chance with any goth, so keep your gross objectification away from us :)
Poop Mclovin I’m sure he would be accepting had he lived to the modern era. Both appreciate the darker sides of life and can see the beauty in it. Poe would be considered Gothic if he wrote poetry today.
As for what I enjoy most about being goth, getting to enjoy all of my interests in vampires, death, the music, the clothing, the look, “scary” stuff, the humour, the art and the literature is just SO much fun! I also do love the looks and the aesthetic as well.
Having been a goth nearly for 18 years, I must say the babybats I've had the privilege of meeting in the last couple years are one of my favorite parts of the current scene. Right along with all the new bands, ya'll are keeping the culture alive. Granted I've done dozens of interviews on my podcast, but this video confirms goth is alive and well and in good hands.
Hi Daniel I'm a fan of your podcast! I would like to see at least one person older being interviewed here but it was still great. I wouldn't call them babybats though, they seem to have past this stage.
@@DafniKem I think that's an interesting discussion to have actually. Where do we draw the line for what we consider a babybat, because someone coming into the scene today has much faster and far reaching access to information than I did as a teen, so what qualities makeup the conception of a babybat? Does that term even make sense to use anymore is another relevant question; do goths still place value on assigning levels of respect to other members based on time in the scene, dedication, knowledge, participation etc. Is the idea of trading in cultural capital accrued through some subculturally normative means in return for respect and recognition still relevant or do we work under different assumptions now? Anyway, thanks for listening!
@@CemeteryConfessions As a late millennial (soon 26) I started having an interest in the subculture around 2006-07, and social media and the internet was much more limited then. I was a mall-goth and I had a brief "emo phase" before I discovered actual goth music, which I loved immediately. I stopped considering myself a "babybat" (never used that word then, though) when I realized I knew more about goth than people I used to think that were goths. I believe that time, experience, dedication and consistency are very important and are (and should be) very much valued and appreciated amongst us. One of the reasons we use the term babybat for the newcomers is not only because of their lack of knowledge about the scene, but also to describe the period of time they have been (and stuck) in the scene. And this is because we know for some people, especially in their angsty teens, it really is just a phase, so we are sceptical towards them, because they haven't "proven" their dedication yet. That's my opinion from my personal experiences in my local scene. I would like to see a discussion about this on the podcast, I'm curious what others think on that!
This is super refreshing to hear the way they speak about death. Most people assume everyone is scared of death but I have never been scared of it. I remember being fascinated with horror storied an as a teen I've been interested in what happens after death. I want to know everything so I am attracted to the mystery of death (not that I would kill myself or kill someone)
Please do "I spent a day with ATHEISTS ". I'm going through a rough patch where I'm figuring out if I'm an atheist or agnostic and it would be really nice if I could hear about other's experiences and how they got through it. I would be very touched if you covered this topic not just for me, but for others too.
@ Yeah I think it would be really interesting to explore the reasons why they don't label themselves as atheists and the scepticism they have about both theism and atheism.
Not sure if this will help, but I'll give you my reason for identifying as agnostic instead of atheist. For me, I don't have any faith and faith has no place in my life. I cannot say that a creator exists or doesn't exist because I have never seen it myself. To me, atheism does require faith because it determines that there cannot be a creator. I respect people of all religions but religion is not for me, even if it's just a faith in there being no creator
Yeep I'm an atheist, when I was little my family forced me to go to church and pray everyday, then I started seeing how stupid it all was, when I saw on the history books, scientists being silenced by religion, the intolerance and discrimination, also it blinds it's followers, I thought I was going to hell for sure cuz I sinned multiple times, but its entirely based on beliefs(lies, imo), so yeah there's no god fuck god
I’m goth and something that I HATE is everyone expecting us to be depressed, like yeah some of us are but not everyone. Like if I was to openly say that I’m goth to my friends at school rumours would fly around about me being depressed and evil and so on, it annoys me.
This interview was on point and a great choice of people interviewed that are actively authentic goths. I definitely want to be friends with Tyler and also the other people interviewed. Also @Anthony Padilla your default outfit in this episode was definitely a good goth style outfit.
@Kayla Maria Some recs- Nosferatu, Corpus Delecti, Skeletal Family, The Danse Society, London After Midnight, Virgin Prunes and more. There are so many good ones 😆
Please do an “I spent a day with Cybergoths” to follow up this one. I had recently watched another video about how they have been rejected from both the goth AND raver communities. You don’t really see a lot of people who identify with this nowadays. And I feel like there’s still some mystery to that one viral video.
Well as the goths in the video said, being goth means that you listen to goth music. There's no such thing, however, as cybergoth music so technically, cybergoth isn't goth at all. The correct term to describe alternative, dark, mysterious things is "gothic," which is separate from the music subgenre. That's probably why they are rejected; they're not cybergoths, they're cybergothic.
really glad to see the emphasis being placed on the music, I was pretty worried that part would get left out like it does in a lot of videos by non goth people.
3:45 oh in my culture, māori culture, we usually have open caskets and they're placed in sometimes a marae or most times now their house and it's usually for 3/4 days. The person/body isn't aloud to be alone during that time. You usually pray, sing songs, tell memories about them, etc during that time. Then most times after you're buried and go back to the land, to papatūānuku, sometimes you can be cremated, but that is quite tapu (spiritually restricted, bad). But whether someone is buried or cremated is usually decided by the person who's passed, or the family. That's a tangihanga in a nutshell.
Sounds good enough. In our culture being cremated is considered good because that cuts off your only tie to the physical world (the medium of communication) i.e.. Your body
Jess P id like to know what stereotypes people assume about them or how often people try to relate by saying ‘wow I’m Native American too” but they’re only like 1/16 or something
I miss this old type of content. Its gotten so bizarre. Basically just symptom based diagnostic terms that anyone can act like they suffer from. Literally where half of the comments are like “I have this too! Even though it’s incredibly rate!” Such a strange world we are living in.
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"What's the least goth thing about you?"
"I have Disney plus?"
Caroline thoo
I think that was my question since it got a lot of upvotes :)
Look at him, trying to make me believe that there isnt a Goth takeover of Disneyworld at leat once a year
@@isabelchmontuenga there is and it's so fucking fun. Tho i wish it wasn't in the highest of fucking heat every year.
@@Shadowbrickfilms13 i know of them, thats why i mentioned them :)
"Is it just a style Or is it a murderous cult, leading people to the doors of hell"
It's never the second option
Stop getting my hopes up
Yea
the paparazzi episode though
@@georgien9119 that shit was wild
Lmao it’s always the former! I was wondering if anyone else realized this and was hoping he would switch it up 😂
Millie Alavrez LMAO
"There was a black person in The Cure."
Legend.
Hey! I follow you on Instagram, cool to see you here too
@@elomyrnox8756 Awww what’s your @ ?
@@thevampirevegan8995 legend says *'TheVampireVegan'* never got the @...
RIP ANDY ANDERSON 😭😭 ANDY ANDERSON ERA CURE MUSIC IS SOME OF THE ABSOLUTE BEST CURE MUSIC IN THEIR WHOLE DISCOGRAPHY
"You're breeding goths."
The doctor after delivering a baby: "Congratulations, it's a healthy baby goth."
the addams family be like
Aww, a true baby bat!
@@ashashhundredyarddash5441 yesss
@@chaoskittydesigns6255 my thoughts exactly
Aww 🖤
To my goth friends in the comments - it's not expensive to be goth. Theres so much music for free on youtube. Goth is founded on DIY and thrifting. You dont need that expensive shit to be goth. Just need to listen to the music
Exactly!! 👏🏼👍🏼
Yeah, I've found *quality* pieces secondhand. Like, I went to a Vampire Ball in a black David's Bridal 2-piece gown that was thrifted.
@@LadyJaggerX3 that sounds LOVELY!! like, spend your money on whatever you want. I dont care. I just have issues with people saying being goth is expensive when it doesnt HAVE to be. You CHOOSE to make it expensive
I posted this comment earlier but I'd really like a reply, so I may as well ask you; Wish I had thought of this question before, but what do you guys think of people who want to embrace the style but aren't into the music? I enjoy gothic romance aesthetic but whenever I tell people what bands I listen to, I always get criticized for them not being "dark" or "hard" enough. Like...why is it not ok to like what I like?
@@AkiAmeko I think it has to do with the fact that a lot of us have been called posers entering the scene, right? And a lot of people now are profiting off the look either socially or monetarily, so people get touchy about it.
My idea is = "Spend a day with wrongly convicted people"
Cheezy Cactuz YES
Love that idea!
@@ttylxoxo1929 yes yes yes. I literally made a blog post about it recently
Awesome idea
Cheezy Cactuz this is a great idea!!!! I would be super interested
“Just remember...there was literally a black guy in the cure.” I was going to like this video but now I’m gonna like it even harder
also worth noting that the lead singer of She Wants Revenge is african american
GrimRper I love The Cure lol
GrimRper this is when i liked the video, i was gonna anyway but fuck
Racist?
Viktor Virgalla it’s not even racist lmao, they said they were liking the video more because that any race can be goth
I'm a christian goth, and I'm used to corsets, platform shoes, fishnets etc... and I met a priest recently... he was so supportive and told me that black looked good on me, and that it was stylish. He was so kind!
Often, people tend to say that religious people are narrow-minded, but this priest was one of the most supportive people I've ever met. I also met catholic people who were super kind and invited me to spend the day with them. They were so cool!
Awe that is so heart warming 🖤🖤
that's lovely!
Catholic people are so chill.
@@emilydixon3886 it depends, I guess. growing up Catholic I've met both chill and not chill Catholics lol my family does have a priest friend tho and he is very kind and intelligent!
Having been raised Catholic, I feel like Catholicism is a pretty goth religion to be honest.
Anthony: “people are trying to push death away at a very young age”
College students: “I legit want to yeet myself into the afterlife”
Katrina K. Accurate af. ☹️
More like high school student tbh😐
People in general 😂
Turns out I'm so apathetic rn that I almost got hit by a semi and all I reacted with was "Oh ok".
MOOD
"I spent a day with MORTICIANS" - please!! And if you can, get Caitlin Doughty/Ask A Mortician (or part of her team) to be part of the video!! Just the death positive part of the video made me crave this so much!!
Kye L So much This!!!! I love Caitlin!
YASSSSS
Yessddd caitlin is the best
Yes!!!
Yes! Yes! So much yes for this suggestion! 💜
Anthony: "How goth are you?"
Tyler: " I am the Night."
😂
I cut myself on that edge.
Yeah
Ekhane
"normal" people hurt me more than goths and emos and other alternative people did
I'm autistic and while the people who consider themselves to be "normal" called me slurs and made fun of me, my friends who are mostly part of the alt community helped me the most with communicating
Cool, same here
Same! I feel way more welcomed
absolutely true in my experience, as well.
normies are often infinitely more messed up than someone actually expressing their authentic self every day
A lot of us are also autistic/have other neurodivergencies, I guess when you feel different and are rejected all your life, it makes you drawn to more socially "unacceptable" lifestyles. You know we don't have a reputation to protect, people already think we're weirdos, so might as well fully embrace what we find interesting and beautiful even if it is against the norm. Sincerely, an autistic & adhd goth :o)
I mean emo and goth people are still humans
They just like to dress a certain way and that doesn't define them
If somebody wears a suit and hears to classical music that doesn't make them elegant , posh or royalty
Same way if someone listens to dark music and wears black clothes doesn't mean they are violent
"what is the least goth thing about you?"
"i have disney+?"
*tim burton disney movies have entered the chat*
A lot of goths like Disney. There are a lot of movies with dark themes
@@DomesticHausWitch i know. a parent dies in every movie
phoenix c True.
Katie Kuntastrophe also there is a goth day at Disneyland every year last time I checked.
Most Disney movies immediately begin with a death or an orphan lol
Anthony: characterized by their pale complexion
Tyler: 🤷🏾♂️
jhc 24 😂
jhc 24 yeah I laughed at this way too hard 😂
You fucking killed him dude
Black goths are cultural appropriators
@@dennydarkko sir
Why did I read the title as:
"I spent a day with goats"
I Dont Know. Why?
Would be a great episode
ME TOO
@@tammiebenefiel711 I don't know, that's why I'm asking. I think it's reason enough that goats are awesome.
Same
Tyler being introduced to goth culture through South Park is the best thing I’ve ever heard
I was too so it's nice to not be alone
💀 me too, I first looked up joy division because of an american dad episode where they played a clip
I was too
"It's black just like my soul"
The middle schooler in me who's been buried for years: lol nostalgic.
@xxJUDASxx [Tiffness270] I’m in 7th grade, and literally everyone is depressed. It’s rare to have someone truly happy.
@@spi2derman no man 7th graders think they are depreesed or predent most of them
@Kryndolyn of Earth Thank you, I’ll share this around to my friends.
@@tilenHD How would you know, ik some people are self diagnosed but alot of kids now are actually depressed. I'm not but I have bad anxiety (actually diagnosed btw)
@@shoujiitl8767 u guess you right
I love how this wasn’t all white people, the stereotype we have is normally all white people but it’s cool to see some diversity in the community.
Earthling Amélie okay but we are saying we are happy there’s diversity
Earthling Amélie yes I understand, but I was just appreciating the diversity considering it’s now a global trend.
And like, black goth guys are cute lol let em be
I know tons of non-white goths
I love that Anthony makes an effort to include people from different backgrounds
Tyler: [talking about school shootings tied to goth stereotypes]
Anthony: GOTH MAKEOVER TIME!
-Robert- Anthony's got a quick hand
I think the boyfriend reveal on Glam and Gore kind of counts
@Mia Ramos the goth guy that was interviewed
“It’s like being emo without listening to My Chemical Romance” when I tell you I sCREAMED
SAMEEE
OMG
I listen to that even tho I consider myself goth!
Yep, I did too.
Emphasis on Creamed
I’m a proud elder Goth (42 this May) and I’ve been a Goth since I was 14. I’ve been this way and will never change.
Nice! 🖤🖤🖤 I'm 45 and I consider myself a goth since my 17! I was sooo sad when I saw the goth movement gradually disappear, mostly with the arrival of the Yo fashion mouvements (like rap, hip-hop, techno) but, thankfully, it's still pretty alive in countries like Germany .
I think it would have been interesting to mention all the different goth styles (hardcore, victorian/romantic, steampunk, cyberpunk, pagan goth, rainbow goth...) and the different feels that go with each of them, like different facets of a prism. I like all of them and have cloths of all these styles. ;)
The music bands and styles they mentioned in the video were right (and I love those bands) but they forgot to mention electo industrial goth music!
Here is my definition of what it is being goth. I would like to have your view on that and maybe you can modify or add some elements to my definition:
Being goth is having a fascination for the occult and the unknown, a desire to question what we have been taught and seek for the truth, an open mindness (trying to gather more info before judging), a respect for nature and a need to exteriorize one's sensuality and inner darkness freely but in a healthy, pacific way.
-Sorry for my english and if I sound weird: my mother tongue is French. Xx
"Elder goth" teach me your ways, oh wise one!
Cameleonfleuri - that’s like me! I mix styles. I do lots of research, know the differences, etc. I am proud to be a goth. I’m just sad I can’t go to my thrift stores and other goth stores right now to add to my collection I’m growing out of and the confusion dropped into it from family.
You go person >:D
Marissa V Amazon, Target, and Khols are where I can usually find bits and bobs for my wardrobe
I was so scared this was gonna be a bunch of eboys and egirls who listen to lil peep, but you actually found real goths who listen to real goth music. Thank you, sir.
Lmao same
Agreed
Lil peep is emo rap not goth
eboys/egirls don’t call themselves goth though,,
Dekayla Pollard oh yeah they do lol
I spent the day with psychologists. That would be really interesting.
That's a great idea! (Sorry for breaking the 69 likes lmao)
LOL! Just building on that...I’d volunteer for an “I spent the day with goth psychologists” video.
i do that every monday; it's cool
I love the girl talking so kindly of death. I really appreciate seeing people who accept death as a normal part of life
Well I don't understand why anyone wouldn't, it is a normal part of life
While I do accept that death is a part of life, forgive me for this, but I feel that too much positivity towards the subject is a slippery slope that can lead to-I don’t want my comment to get deleted.
Idk, tho. I’m fine with the goth subculture, but I disagree with that line of thought. I’m too optimistic and love life too much to think that way if you know what I mean
You should do “I spent a day with punks”!!!
yeeeees
new gen or old gen?
cherrysoda97 a solid mix of both! I prefer old gen but I wanna see representation on both sides.
Warm Soft Kitty wow that’s crazy, I’ll let all the other alive and thriving punks know and I’ll go ahead and tell all my decent successful local bands to go ahead and hang up their guitars and drumsticks 👍🏼
Warm Soft Kitty if you can’t find them it’s because they don’t want you to 😅 if you think they’re only in seedy night clubs you aren’t looking in the right places. Punk has always been a subculture, wouldn’t really make sense if it was in any mainstream media now would it?
Being colored, and emo. I appreciate the guy in the interview speaking up for us in an alternative community. Like some people try and tell us we cant be a certain thing because we're not white. Thanks for this interview.
Just laugh at them for not knowing who Bad Brains or Ho99o9 are, though the second ones are relatively new in the scene. This is some high level of ignorance. And don’t let me start with the tribe cultures which imo are pretty goth by nature.
I can't even fully express how glad I am Anthony brought him on. I'm a black goth/revived-emo and as soon as I saw his community post about doing this video I commented "please bring a person of color on, representation is so important" and I'm so happy he came through. I didn't even really need to hear it, as I don't give two shits about people's opinion on the way I dress anymore, but hearing him just give reassurance for potential black goths "...there was a black person in The Cure. One of the most goth bands ever has a fucking black person in there. So just tell the person to fuck off" just made me like jump up and yell "YES!"
YASS #BlackbutGoth YASSSSSSSSSSSS
Please do “I spent a day with people with deadly food allergies!”
There is such a lack of awareness in all the ways this effects your life. How poor the restaurant standards are. How expensive and inaccessible life saving Epi pens are. Etc!
Fee Fromkin yes
omg YES. People actually believe we make up our allergies bc we're picky. like really??
Ouuu great idea! Several of my friends have deadly food allergies (some just one - as I do, others have multiple) and friends of friends have experienced anaphylaxis from just being in the same room as certain foods (peanuts & shellfish) which really blew my mind! Could rant on and on about this 😅
YES! I have a lot of fatal food allergies to things like nuts, chocolate, coconut etc, and going to any restaurant is helL when the staff treat you like the problem just for having a medical requirement. I think this would be such an informative episode since it's such a common yet under-discussed issue!
YES. my brother recently discovered (like a year ago) deathly allergies to a lot of things that are literally EVERYWHERE, for example onion, after an attack that nearly killed him because he couldn't breathe and people around him didn't know what to do (he was out eating with his friends).
2:50 "Do people ever mistake you for being emo?"
*The first note to Welcome To The Black Parade plays*
that hurt me deep inside
Omg hahaha
😭😭😭 I know I’m crying rn I even said that
i almost went to the black parade when i heard the g note
“I thought this looked pretty goth” *anthony has an identity crisis*
When suzy talked about the trend of wanting a Goth gf i felt that
Im still what the comunity calls a baby bat, and i dated a guy who wanted a goth gf but he would often tell me to "tone the goth down"
He literally just wanted me in fishnets and forget about the music i hear, the things i love or how do i want to present myself"
I was just seen as "the hot goth gf of XXX" and it was depressing
Ihana V. I’m glad you’re not with him anymore 🖤
literally it's just fetishising and making goth a sexual thing when it's like us it's like our life 😂 its not just a costume they gotta realise if they're gonna have a goth gf they need to accept it all
I literally hate how sexualized fishnets are... all of my exes were initially interested in me because of the fishnets, almost made me feel like they wouldn't like me without them. I love them so much as a fashion piece tho!
Exactly it's like "be goth but not to the point I feel embarrassed" And that's messed up
Ihana V. Damn that’s rough. You’re not an accessory, you’re a human.
Anthony: “they’re categorized by there pale skin.”
Also Anthony: *brings black guy on the show*
Tyler: teehee
I’m Probably Eating nigahiga reference?
ScanShot yeah
😂👌🧟
I’ll just hide in my corner now :x
I’m Probably Eating yeah I am being like teehee
You don't have to look Goth to be Goth. That is one stereotype many people have. And also, some of us Goth's are in our 30's and 40's now, and life is busy, and we just don't have the time or energy anymore.
"Because they can't accept them selfs"
Thats the number one reason why there is so much toxic bhavior
*accept themselves
Glad they showed a black goth.. there's not much representation.
I am one and I barely see it
Hello fellow stay 😂
Yes. Thinking I'm the only one
I fw you and your pfp
Black goths should really start calling themselves The Dark Ones. Just to f with people! Plus it sounds so badass! 🖤 haha
Ikr
Golden rules of goth: If you don't listen to the music then you're not goth. And you are never allowed to be one of us again if you constantly shit on people for not being pale enough.
i got nervous when he said “defined by their pale skin” but was soooo happy when i saw tyler! i love a diverse cast 👍🏻
jess dude Tyler is one of my friends from Cali, last time I saw him was last year in August, he’s such a cool dude to hang out with, we went out for goth ice cream downtown LA, which is basically vanilla ice cream but colored black and it’s so tasty.
It still depends on whether the people accept or not to do the interviews, i wouldnt think it to be Bad if he didnt managed to interview a more diverse people.
Yeah im quite sure he meant only with white people XD
Try spending a day with....
•Lolitas
•Fangirls
•Japanese street fashion models
•Theater kids
A Lolita is a child FYI
I believe they mean the Lolita fashion style/culture that’s mostly known about in Japan but has gained popularity in a lot of other places.
I need to see theater kids cause im one :P
@@jacobhines5583 loli is child Lolita is a style
IM A LOLITA PLEASE I NEED PEOPLE TO UNDERSTAND WE AREN'T A FETISH
for some reason i read goths as ghosts
helena same
Saaaame
Me too😂
me too lol
Same
9:24 Btw, that was Andy Anderson. He played drums for a few years in the Cure. Sadly, he passed away in 2019, but the Cure paid tribute to him during their 2019 induction into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.
Feel like these aesthetically aren’t the most “goth people”, but it goes to show that goths don’t have to conform to stereotypes and wear all black and have black dyed hair,
Yess that kind of makes me feel better about myself..
I feel like I'm a casual goth 😆
There’s many different sub genres of goth
that's called EMO lmao
Lily Morgan exactly.
I hate when people ask rude questions like "do you harm yourself?"
A guy in my class grabbed my wrist and said "I bet you cut"
BlackMetal Berry i had this in school too 🤣 girls used to shout “do you cut yourself” down the hall at me all the time. That was like 20 years ago, does this still happen now? 😬
F him
In a parallel universe,
"Yeah I do. You're up next."
BlackMetal Berry thats fucked up
so sorry that that happened to you man...
Suzy: Why won't you take me on a date there Arinnnn 🥺🥺
Arin: *YOU GOT IT*
Ellz Random And he actually did. I remember Suzy saying on her instagram that they spent valentine's day on a graveyard 😂.
@@dinog9068 best husband award goes to Arin Handsom
Ellz Random she’s a psycho
My first thought after suzy was talking about how it runs in the family: Bella Goth, Mortemer Goth, Cassandra Goth, Alexander Goth (sims goth family)
YES
I feel like Emos are more "dark and pouty" whereas Goths are "I'm not afraid to punch you while I'm crying"
I feel like you got it switched
Yeah but it's more about the music
From what I know, goths aren't really violent. Metalheads I could see being stereotyped as the latter. Still a very stereotypical and generally inaccurate statement, but I feel like metalheads are the most likely of the spooky kids to throw hands. xD
I would imagine Emo to be more like "everything sucks and I'm going to wallow in my feels"
while Goth would be more "I find the beauty in the macabre of this wretched world"
@@TheKarret Emos are not especially pessimistic, just really connected to their feelings and true about them.
In the good times just as much as in the bad times.
@@YouTearMyHeart Ah. Well, the "wallow in my feels" part is still accurate.
Mortemer is the sweetest ever. Her and her husband are such good people.
yess. i love them to peaces i stg
When I saw her I yelled "Suzy!!"
I love her so much aifbrudnsknfoe
I’m sorry but my first thought was the sims
@@ramennoodles2597 SAME
@@robertdownerjr5028 SAME OMG
Can you spend a day with surgeons? Because I’m curious whether or not they wanted to go into the medical field or their parents pushed them to? Or if they feel like a minority in the medical world? And stuff like that, thank you if you read or like 💙
spider_ flash this is interesting
@@MB-id2ek indeed
Yess!!
Ive heard more bad things about surgeons than any other part of the medical field. Like some of my friends think they're like jocks who think are better than everyone else. Although, I don't completely disagree with them because some that do go into it clearly have some serious control issues (like they like having power over someone life type of thing) BUT from experience I know that some are kind and just want to do the most they can to save lives. Lol some did it because their parents made them. Regardless, it's def. A field where passion needs to be present somehow or another to get through it.
Yes ! This would be awesome 👌💯
Hell yeah Stella. I'm an old goth and can't be assed dressing up anymore so her saying it's all about the music warmed my little black heart. I can still sit and listen to The Cure in my comfy jeans and comfy hoodie and be goth at heart.
Spend a day with:
•gymnasts
•minimalists
•adopted people
•family members of criminals
(Sorry if you've already done one of these and i just didn't notice😂)
The last two are SUPER interesting.
adopted people would be amazing
Ha I could definitely beon family member of criminal
Yeah adopted would be so great! Bring me on as a guest! I am adopted and could share a lot on this topic! Often times adoption is misunderstood and not done correctly. I’d love to do the show!
Yes!! Adoptees and transracial adoptees !!
One time when I was like 8, a goth boy smiled at me outside the grocery store and I've loved goths ever since.
Cute
This series has really opened my eyes to even some fairly simple concepts and I really appreciate your work Anthony
Love the video and all 3 of them are awesome but
"Goth is expensive"
is just plain wrong.
I've made so many outfits from thrifted clothes, old clothes from my wardrobe, sales at gothic stores, scraps of fabric, ripped tights, or simply sewing my own dresses etc. There are a thousand possibilities, you just have to get creative! In my opinion the more individuality you pour into your outfit, the greater it looks :)
Yes! goth draws so much inspiration from punk, and it is supposed to be cheap and d.i.y
So true. I was a little bothered when the video mentioned that goth is expensive.
I can not thank Anthony enough for showing representation of black goths. We are here 🤘🏾🖤
I'm with you 🤘🏾
Amen 🤘🏾
LESS GOOOOO🤘🏾🤘🏾🤘🏾🤘🏾
Daija Watson weirdchamp
🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
Next Ten Minute Power Hour:
"Dan is busy so Suzy and I are having old grape juice in a graveyard"
Jessica lol yas lol
old grape juice with old people
oh my god I was thinking the whole time: "gosh that Suzy woman seems so familiar but where the heck do I know her from???" until I read this comment and I finally remembered she's Arin's wife
I was looking for a comment to confirm that she was THAT Suzy haha!
@@hypnos2041 I was thinking the same thing!
Also yes, he needs to take her to a graveyard with wine like the goth queen she is!!
You need to do a “spend a day with first generation immigrants”. I would really want to see if anyone feels as torn between American and their other culture like I am. I love your series!
Same!
Yes! It's a huge struggle that's not talked about enough
Omg yes!!
If you are a little older (17/18 +) Hanif Kureshi writes hilarious and poignant books on “hybridity”. His family is Pakistani but he grew up in England. His feelings of not belonging to one or the other really shines through his work
@@NerdyHomosapian thanks for the info I'll look it up 🤗
I'm not goth but hearing "Hell yeah, Dad!" In that context hit in a bittersweet kinda way since I don't speak to mine anymore. Love hearing that someone's got such a good relationship with their dad
Don't think we emos didn't hear that g-note when you said "emo" at 2:54
... *welcome to the black parade* ...
I was so worried that no one noticed
I was like mcscuse me
😔✌️
My heart rate went up yeeek
You should spend a day with morticians. "ask a mortician" on youtube is so interesting
Emily Hayes omg yes
yes she's so cool I love her!!
Yes!!!
abt the whole "its expensive to be goth" thing, it doesnt have to be! i cut and dye my own hair, i thrift, ive made my own patches, ive owned many of the same clothes for years, and i dont buy lots of new stuff. being goth, again, is mainly about liking the music--which these days is pretty accessible--but even if you want to dress the part DIY is a good route to go and it goes all the way back to the roots. goth is for everyone!
kade b exactly what i was thinking!
i literally thought the SAME thing most of my stuff is thrifted then customized, and I was so mad about it I went looking up his outfit, his Docs: 150. The bag: 45. Jeans from PACSUN (that is on the expensive side) are 49.95 and there inst tax, but let us round that to 50 even. And those are plain black jeans like his. a normal battle vest is about 45. Those add up to 290.So he is saying his pins and patches cost him over 300?? I work at hottopic, and I can tell you that isn't true. they are 1.99 for pins and 3-6 for patches. AND there is always a sale, so lets again be generous and say he has 5 patches on his vest, that is 30 (not to mention there is LITERALLY always a buy two get on on pin patches and stickers,,,,) and he has 8 visible normal buttons, so lets round to 10 to be safe, that is 19.90, so 20. 3 visible enamel pins, so lets round to 5, (those are 5-7) 35$. Patches and pins alone are only $85. That all together is 375. And that is assuming he didn't use ANY kind of hotcash or points (since we are also assuming he is shopping at hottopic, which I believe he did I recognize those pins) So where is the extra 225 that he spent? I am not in ANY way calling him out or anything, I am just saying if he DID spend that much he was ripped off.
You also don't have to be very good at DIY stuff to do goth, there are a lot of things you can do that don't take much skill and can make your clothes way cooler. You'll pick skills up as you go too.
I prefer to walk through tar to really get the darkest aesthetic I can. It’s quick and easy. Cheap? Depends on where you are.
Yes yes yes. We are children of the anti-capitalist no money DIY clothing punk scene. If you didn’t pick it up in a thrift shop somewhere for pennies it’s not your own style. I only ever spend real money on corsets and shoes. Everything else is EBay, charity shop finds or handed down the community.
I needed this video. I'm a betrayer, a former goth who wanted to know if the culture still exists, and after watching a couple of videos of goths I thought it had become an aesthetic, some sort of hipster lifestyle, defined by goth hauls, buying stuff and that's it. I'm so glad that it's still considered a music based culture and I also loved all the kids here.
so glad suzy brought up the "big tiddy goth gf" issue! in the past year i've had to deal with way more gross comments from guys about wanting a big tiddy goth gf, or then seeing people who just have thick eyeliner and dark lipstick being called goth gfs. shit's wack yo.
@ my fellow goth gals i love y'all and take care
some people have war in their countries
@@propanenightmaresgograndpa5359 alright? there's nothing i can do about that and people can be upset about and bring awareness to multiple things.
Creeping them out is always a good defense.
@@msunder0115 it.. isn't a fetish? it's a music subculture and lifestyle?? i also highly doubt you'd have a chance with any goth, so keep your gross objectification away from us :)
As someone who is a 34HH..I feel your pain 🙏🏽
"people don't want to talk about death these days."
My family and I eating tamales in the cemetery at night and drinking tequila while la banda plays
Tezcatl ... what the fuck.
Not joking in my religion we do that unironically, especially at easter
this has the rawest energy radiating from it..... i love it
Also day of dead
Right? It's mostly American culture, where everyone's scared of death. Though they used to picnic in cemeteries about a century and some change ago.
What would Edgar Allan Poe Say About these guys:?
Allan Poe: *Posers*
Yes a comment I can actually like.
POEsers… heh
Conformists
Poop Mclovin I’m sure he would be accepting had he lived to the modern era. Both appreciate the darker sides of life and can see the beauty in it. Poe would be considered Gothic if he wrote poetry today.
@@WholesomeOcha you got to it before I could!!!!
As for what I enjoy most about being goth, getting to enjoy all of my interests in vampires, death, the music, the clothing, the look, “scary” stuff, the humour, the art and the literature is just SO much fun! I also do love the looks and the aesthetic as well.
I can't express how happy I am that they talked about the actual goth bands even if it was just for a lil bit
butt cheek it's not goth without them!!!
are we not bout to talk bout how fresh that one guy was with the doll in his shirt pocket
I'm so goth I was born *black.*
Lol me too
Bahaha
I love it when he tries the style on himself like this. He truely understands and embraces the concept. ☺️
*Sees blonde girl*- me: oh she doesn’t seem that gothic? Her: I am surrounded by death all the time. Me: oh
Zoë Mai it’s crazy cuz ppl gave her soo much shit when she dyed her hair the lighter color. It was ridiculous.
It’s about the music... Blonde hair has nothing to do with it at all.
Suzy is oddly dark. I can see why Egoraptor put a ring on it lol she's great
@@staarliteangel damn that's bullshit she looks so good
there's plenty of goths with super blonde/bleach blonde hair.
Having been a goth nearly for 18 years, I must say the babybats I've had the privilege of meeting in the last couple years are one of my favorite parts of the current scene. Right along with all the new bands, ya'll are keeping the culture alive. Granted I've done dozens of interviews on my podcast, but this video confirms goth is alive and well and in good hands.
Cemetery Confessions dude, I love the podcast. Keep up the great work! 🦇💀🧟🖤
Hi Daniel I'm a fan of your podcast!
I would like to see at least one person older being interviewed here but it was still great. I wouldn't call them babybats though, they seem to have past this stage.
@@DafniKem I think that's an interesting discussion to have actually. Where do we draw the line for what we consider a babybat, because someone coming into the scene today has much faster and far reaching access to information than I did as a teen, so what qualities makeup the conception of a babybat? Does that term even make sense to use anymore is another relevant question; do goths still place value on assigning levels of respect to other members based on time in the scene, dedication, knowledge, participation etc. Is the idea of trading in cultural capital accrued through some subculturally normative means in return for respect and recognition still relevant or do we work under different assumptions now? Anyway, thanks for listening!
@@tylerpretorius1339 awww thank you so much! That's so kind of you!
@@CemeteryConfessions As a late millennial (soon 26) I started having an interest in the subculture around 2006-07, and social media and the internet was much more limited then. I was a mall-goth and I had a brief "emo phase" before I discovered actual goth music, which I loved immediately. I stopped considering myself a "babybat" (never used that word then, though) when I realized I knew more about goth than people I used to think that were goths.
I believe that time, experience, dedication and consistency are very important and are (and should be) very much valued and appreciated amongst us. One of the reasons we use the term babybat for the newcomers is not only because of their lack of knowledge about the scene, but also to describe the period of time they have been (and stuck) in the scene. And this is because we know for some people, especially in their angsty teens, it really is just a phase, so we are sceptical towards them, because they haven't "proven" their dedication yet.
That's my opinion from my personal experiences in my local scene. I would like to see a discussion about this on the podcast, I'm curious what others think on that!
Tyler: We’re all gonna die, we all know that...
Me: Oh no
*unus annus, unus annus, unus annus*
Elli_Loves Music I LOVE YOU OMG Y E S UNUS ANNUS UNUS ANNUS
Y E S
UNNUS ANNUS UNNUS ANNUS UNNUS ANNUS
UNUS ANNUS UNUS ANNUS UNUS ANNUS
Memento mori (i think i spelled it wrong sorry)
This is super refreshing to hear the way they speak about death. Most people assume everyone is scared of death but I have never been scared of it. I remember being fascinated with horror storied an as a teen I've been interested in what happens after death. I want to know everything so I am attracted to the mystery of death (not that I would kill myself or kill someone)
I spent a day with “Karen’s”
None of them can self identify their heads are shoved too far up their asses
pretty sure they wanna see Anthony's manager halfway through the interview :3
I volunteer!
antivax people would be cool to see XD
💀
I'm a black goth guy. I've been into it since 2009. I'm almost 25.
I'm also a metalhead, and the black guy has the same Slipknot patch as me.
finding representation that you relate to is great feeling. I don't relate to these people in the vid at all lol, but my statement still stands.
Ayee
I'm actually very satisfied with this interview. I like that they mentioned that it all started from the music.
Literally screamed Mark Zuckerberg when Suzy came up.
@Octo Cat As in, 'The Social Network' Zuckerberg or the actual one? And how is there a connection, in any way?
@@colorcola1464 Why? Yes, he may be prone to being type-cast, but otherwise he's pretty chill.
@@evil_death_roll Its a gamegrumps bit
Please do "I spent a day with ATHEISTS ". I'm going through a rough patch where I'm figuring out if I'm an atheist or agnostic and it would be really nice if I could hear about other's experiences and how they got through it. I would be very touched if you covered this topic not just for me, but for others too.
@ Yeah I think it would be really interesting to explore the reasons why they don't label themselves as atheists and the scepticism they have about both theism and atheism.
As an agnostic, I'd love to see an episode on this! Great suggestion!
yessss please either atheists or agnostics would be awesome
Not sure if this will help, but I'll give you my reason for identifying as agnostic instead of atheist. For me, I don't have any faith and faith has no place in my life. I cannot say that a creator exists or doesn't exist because I have never seen it myself. To me, atheism does require faith because it determines that there cannot be a creator. I respect people of all religions but religion is not for me, even if it's just a faith in there being no creator
Yeep I'm an atheist, when I was little my family forced me to go to church and pray everyday, then I started seeing how stupid it all was, when I saw on the history books, scientists being silenced by religion, the intolerance and discrimination, also it blinds it's followers, I thought I was going to hell for sure cuz I sinned multiple times, but its entirely based on beliefs(lies, imo), so yeah there's no god fuck god
Every time that guy comes on the screen all I can look at is that doll on his sweet jacket
Anthony: "we are pushing away the idea that we are all going to die"
my brein: UNUS ANNUS UNUS ANNUS UNUS ANNUS
federico platone you really like annus don’t you?
Lmao same
THATS WHAT I THOUGHT TOO
@@kendallwaters5525 I am enjoying it
MOOD
I’m goth and something that I HATE is everyone expecting us to be depressed, like yeah some of us are but not everyone. Like if I was to openly say that I’m goth to my friends at school rumours would fly around about me being depressed and evil and so on, it annoys me.
My idea = “Spend a day with hippies"
Next should be “I spent a day with someone with anxiety “
Please
Please
Anthony: I asked people with anxiety if they wanted to be interviewed. Unfortunately, they were too anxious to respond.
Luna Winters Relatable but there are some who want people to understand them well and how it affects our lifes .
I’ll happily volunteer .
they wouldn't show up for the interview
Why? Literally everyone pretends to have anxiety... like no Becky your just a Little uncomfortable - your not having an anxiety attack shut up
potato not everyone . Get your facts straight and who’ll even wish to have anxiety?! Like what
pls pls the next "I spent a day with" would be with PUNKS!!!
ED THE ONLY yess
YES
This interview was on point and a great choice of people interviewed that are actively authentic goths. I definitely want to be friends with Tyler and also the other people interviewed. Also @Anthony Padilla your default outfit in this episode was definitely a good goth style outfit.
I love Suzy’s makeup. That’s my favorite way to apply eyeliner in the cat eye/Arabian style 😍🖤
I would love to see a “I spent the day with a punk rocker” keep the music theme going!
i was just thinking about that, since goth and punk are often confused
Anthony: DISNEY PRETTY GOTH THOUGH
Me: Visibly triggered for Studio Laika
Glad I wasn't the only one who noticed that!
This video has made me realize I’m goth, because I love the cure and joy division. My heart is warm 🖤
Did you dig deeper for more bands? I ask because I like giving people recommendations.
@Kayla Maria Some recs- Nosferatu, Corpus Delecti, Skeletal Family, The Danse Society, London After Midnight, Virgin Prunes and more. There are so many good ones 😆
Please do an “I spent a day with Cybergoths” to follow up this one. I had recently watched another video about how they have been rejected from both the goth AND raver communities. You don’t really see a lot of people who identify with this nowadays. And I feel like there’s still some mystery to that one viral video.
Mia Boatright this is a good idea but I feel like other subgenres might want their own video lol
Well as the goths in the video said, being goth means that you listen to goth music. There's no such thing, however, as cybergoth music so technically, cybergoth isn't goth at all. The correct term to describe alternative, dark, mysterious things is "gothic," which is separate from the music subgenre. That's probably why they are rejected; they're not cybergoths, they're cybergothic.
I'm a graver :| sup
@@novemberr.8600 what's that?
@@darkentriesx a goth in the rave community. I'm not sure I'm cyber gothic but black and neon pink is definitely my thing.
I didn’t know Suzy was in this video! I literally screamed when she came up
NessTheAlien same my dude
Literally same. I saw her tweet saying like “oh I should do this” but I didn’t know she went through with it. Love her.
Yeah!!
KittyKatGaming!!
Same omg i love her!!! And i love game grumps😆❤
Literally same
really glad to see the emphasis being placed on the music, I was pretty worried that part would get left out like it does in a lot of videos by non goth people.
Don't forget that Antony used to be emo, so he also has experience with alternative scenes. Normies are the ones that have misconceptions usually (:
same!! I was lowkey worried it was gonna be just about the fashion or aesthetic
3:45 oh in my culture, māori culture, we usually have open caskets and they're placed in sometimes a marae or most times now their house and it's usually for 3/4 days. The person/body isn't aloud to be alone during that time. You usually pray, sing songs, tell memories about them, etc during that time. Then most times after you're buried and go back to the land, to papatūānuku, sometimes you can be cremated, but that is quite tapu (spiritually restricted, bad). But whether someone is buried or cremated is usually decided by the person who's passed, or the family.
That's a tangihanga in a nutshell.
Sounds good enough. In our culture being cremated is considered good because that cuts off your only tie to the physical world (the medium of communication) i.e.. Your body
Which in turn allows easier passage of the soul to the spiritual world
now that we've started down the interviewing alt humans route, how abouts you interview some metalheads? pretty please? 😂
Yesyesyes pleeeease I'm a metalhead
The world needs to listen to more metal, stop with that pop shit
Yes and put on steveterreberry
As a pretty new metalhead fuck yesssss
Yess!!!! That would be amazing!
"I spent a day with native americans" that be interesting
E Jay Lovo I wonder what questions he’d ask for that one. Any ideas?
Jess P id like to know what stereotypes people assume about them or how often people try to relate by saying ‘wow I’m Native American too” but they’re only like 1/16 or something
Yeah, and maybe other native people? Like indigenous people from south America and places of Asia? That would be super cool.
oooh that would b so interesting, im from a country without a indigenous group so i have no idea what theyre like
Jess P “do you eat watermelon?”
Anthony: "Goths"
Description: "Pansexuals"
Edit: cool, it's fixed, you ruined the meme Anthony
Ik I noticed that too
thats funny lmao my sexuality? goths
close enough
How has he not fixed it yet...
Hey I'm both so it works
I watch game grumps SO OFTEN! I never new that suzy was goth! I feel like, since arin and dan tell SO MANY STORIES arin had to have talked about this.
I thought it said “I spent a day with ghosts” and I was like okayyyy
Need that lmao
@@sunflower7874 right?!
Basically people who faked their death and are invisible to society and their previous social life.
Why did i find this too damn funny 😂😂😂
"you don't do funerals doing in their homes anymore"
Filipinos: ....
Gray Knight maoris: ....
They both said "in western culture" basically America and UK.
People in the southern USA: .......
And greeks*
And Greeks
When I saw Suzy's face, when I tell you when I screamed.
Why?
Same.
@@tdfhj8gfyhtxmut769 I love Suzy. She's just an amazing person and I was so excited to see that she was on here.
Literally me. I would of sued Anthony if he didn't bring Suzy. And I screamed when I heard Arin in the background.
I miss this old type of content. Its gotten so bizarre. Basically just symptom based diagnostic terms that anyone can act like they suffer from. Literally where half of the comments are like “I have this too! Even though it’s incredibly rate!”
Such a strange world we are living in.