Living With Anxiety: 'It’s Something In Your Brain That You Can’t Control All The Time' | TODAY

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  • @tauempire7507
    @tauempire7507 4 роки тому +4091

    I have generalized anxiety disorder,and I wouldn't wish this upon my enemy.its the worst feeling in the world,when you have no control over you're thoughts...

    • @yof2613
      @yof2613 4 роки тому +110

      Can i ask you what do u feel most of the times cz i have it too and sometimes i really can’t explain my emotions properly.. it’s like u really don’t get sometimes what ur overthinking about and u really can’t control how i feel also..

    • @paytons8067
      @paytons8067 4 роки тому +137

      It’s the worst thing in the world . I can’t even explain it. Nobody understands it

    • @dec1n859
      @dec1n859 4 роки тому +34

      Same it’s horrible

    • @dec1n859
      @dec1n859 4 роки тому +8

      It’s not the worst thing tho

    • @yof2613
      @yof2613 4 роки тому +65

      Dec1n its horrible since you feel so much emotions you can’t put into words and you literally have no idea what is happening inside your brain.

  • @Johnnyiswhere
    @Johnnyiswhere 3 роки тому +1402

    Anxiety is a 24 hour fight or flight feeling that does not let up. My body shakes even when I'm having a good time.

    • @eeeee7908
      @eeeee7908 3 роки тому +24

      Dont fight it that why u are shaking just feel the anxiety try it let go

    • @Johnnyiswhere
      @Johnnyiswhere 3 роки тому +79

      @@eeeee7908 it's not something I can help. Anxiety can't always be controlled, otherwise, everyone would just do it.

    • @entalpa
      @entalpa 3 роки тому +7

      I always flight

    • @Books-and-coffee0
      @Books-and-coffee0 3 роки тому +19

      You described it perfectly. It doesn't leave me even when I'm relatively better.

    • @tbrownflee3124
      @tbrownflee3124 3 роки тому +7

      Try DNRS by Annie Hopper, it will shut that off. Your limbic system is impaired and stuck on a loop that was caused by a virus, bacteria, stress, or other traumas. Because brains are neuroplastic, they can change through repetition of positive thoughts using past memories and future visuals. It takes some time, but you can rewire your brain and shut off the chronic fight or flight you are stuck in. You are making too much norepinepherine and adrenaline thats why you shake and are nervous. I am currently doing DNRS for anxiety and POTS syndrome and it is helping. Look it up! You can fully recover! @ J Leo

  • @cheyennemarie4883
    @cheyennemarie4883 4 роки тому +976

    I once heard someone describe anxiety as “ a feeling as of something bad is about to happen” and I felt that.

    • @cheyennemarie4883
      @cheyennemarie4883 4 роки тому +3

      @Gomes it’s normal🖤 I try my best not to let it eat me up by doing something simple that I enjoy:)

    • @cheyennemarie4883
      @cheyennemarie4883 4 роки тому +5

      @Gomes have you considered a psychiatrist? I have one, didn’t want one, and she helps me whole lot. Didn’t think she could. But know you’re not the only person out there feelin this way:) in fact people dedicate their whole lives researching and learning about people like us and how to help💜💜 I hope you feel better:) I know Issa lot to handle:/

    • @nsclip2574
      @nsclip2574 4 роки тому +29

      Exactly, everytime i explain it to people around me, I always tell them that I feel like there is something bad will happen or there is something wrong, and I dont know what it is, and i feel like im running out of time and then i will have panic attack.

    • @cheyennemarie4883
      @cheyennemarie4883 4 роки тому +11

      @@nsclip2574 the worst thing about anxiety is not being able to pick apart what’s actually bothering or if it’s “just anxiety”. It’s okay to have off days💜 it’s okay to feel anxious and it’s okay to not know what’ll happen. Worry about the present not the future or the past. When I get like that I usually tell myself “My body is healthy, my life is fun and my head will always get better”💞 don’t break yourself down bro:)

    • @Pfannenstiel1987
      @Pfannenstiel1987 4 роки тому +12

      That’s a simple way of explaining it but it’s so much worse than that. It’s bad when the anxiety brings on full physical symptoms. The panic of thinking you are about to have a heart attack.

  • @Someinternetuser
    @Someinternetuser 4 роки тому +964

    I have social anxiety.. Every memory is embarrassing and no matter where I go hurts. Feels like they hate me, don't care about me, judge me. I can't eat food in front of others without this sickening feeling of being watched and judged for it..

    • @HinaBeg
      @HinaBeg 4 роки тому +24

      Some Hyena hi, please seek professional help... connect with me or with someone you trust.. in few sessions you will be in a better state. You are brave 👍

    • @louise1021
      @louise1021 4 роки тому +41

      Oh god, that's exactly how I feel most of the time. I hope it gets better for you.

    • @HinaBeg
      @HinaBeg 4 роки тому +7

      @@louise1021 pray you are better now. Take care and keep yourself hydrated.

    • @louise1021
      @louise1021 4 роки тому +11

      @@HinaBeg Thanks Hina, it's going to take a while to get over it.

    • @HinaBeg
      @HinaBeg 4 роки тому +8

      @@louise1021 as a solution therapist in just 3 sessions clients have seen the difference.
      You are a confident person and may you jump out of it asap. Take care and wishes for you now and always 👍
      ( Contact if you want sessions )

  • @BreeLOLify
    @BreeLOLify 4 роки тому +1856

    The worst part about mine is sometimes I can’t even speak. :(

    • @_saitama1566
      @_saitama1566 4 роки тому +74

      When I'm stressed I feel an incredibly burning itch all over my body and can't move it sucks

    • @rensan5532
      @rensan5532 4 роки тому +56

      Mine is that i cant fall asleep at night😭

    • @_saitama1566
      @_saitama1566 4 роки тому +7

      @@rensan5532 It can get better my comment is from 1 month ago and I havent had symptoms since I started seeing my friends again

    • @noahshrek8728
      @noahshrek8728 4 роки тому +4

      Same

    • @HinaBeg
      @HinaBeg 4 роки тому +9

      Do connect ... find out your niche and bounce back beautifully. Take care

  • @nadianikolova5374
    @nadianikolova5374 6 років тому +1537

    "Mental illness is like fighting a war where the enemy's strategy is to convince you that the war isn't actually happening." That is life with anxiety.When you feel anxiety coming on,remind yourself you are in control of your body,Remind yourself you know what the root of problem is,and work it through your mind.

    • @Pamela-tn1vf
      @Pamela-tn1vf 6 років тому +32

      Nadia Nikolova I'm 31 and I have had anxiety and depression my whole life and I'm at my breaking point..idk what to do anymore my boyfriend thinks I'm lieing wen I have panic attacks...and I have no family to turn to...I have no clue what to do anymore....I'm lost alls I want to do is die half the time...I hope 9ne day someone can help me before it's to late....

    • @michael9000
      @michael9000 6 років тому +19

      Pamela, have your boyfriend go to the doctor with you, then he will get more of an understand that panic attacks and depression can come from having anxiety. They all pay off one another. Do this, and your boyfriend will see for himself that what you say is the truth.

    • @vinessalovely8585
      @vinessalovely8585 6 років тому +12

      Pamela There is one whom you can always turn to, God. Just pray and trust him.
      🙏praying❤

    • @elysianfields8461
      @elysianfields8461 6 років тому +11

      Pamela Hi Pamela! I've been exactly where you are! I've suffered w extreme anxiety for a few years. What has really 'saved me' was going to my family doctor explaining my symptoms very openly. I accepted an SSRI medication vs trying to 'buck-up' & just endure. It has helped incredibly! Within 3 weeks my extreme anxiety broke like a bad fever! Deep breathing, mindfulness meditations, simple exercising like walks or swimming also help me! None of which I would have been able to do without that small amount of medication! I am Very pleased with my improvements!Anxiety can be so horrible to try to live with! Hope this info helps. I wish you the very best! Hugs to you!!

    • @phunglinhlan4031
      @phunglinhlan4031 4 роки тому

      Excellent Video clip! Sorry for chiming in, I would love your thoughts. Have you thought about - t.co/SShXwevAHG ? It is a great one of a kind guide for getting rid of panic attacks without the headache. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my cousin finally got cool results with it.?

  • @konsti1482
    @konsti1482 4 роки тому +491

    I hope all who are suffering with anxiety will find peace

  • @micheall1127
    @micheall1127 6 років тому +1127

    I feel so bad for him.... ANXIETY IS ROUGH

    • @michael9000
      @michael9000 6 років тому +16

      Yes it is. Have you seen the complete list of symptoms you can have having anxiety? Unbelievable !!

    • @dillion5397
      @dillion5397 5 років тому +12

      Yep it is... I have both anxiety disorder (on the severe side) as well as panic disorder (also on the severe side) I’m never able to cope well

    • @gymnastics1235
      @gymnastics1235 4 роки тому

      Yep

    • @l.aw.t9727
      @l.aw.t9727 4 роки тому +3

      @@michael9000 hi is there a symptom of no air hitting back of my throat and I feel I'm suffocating it's a numb feeling like I've been to the dentist

    • @Biskqi
      @Biskqi 4 роки тому +4

      Yea... and most people just don't know what it feels like.

  • @lulubayou1897
    @lulubayou1897 4 роки тому +1894

    I have really bad anxiety and people think I’m crazy. They don’t understand

    • @huddahdjalia2159
      @huddahdjalia2159 4 роки тому +100

      I feel the same way
      You are not crazy
      You are strong
      We will get over this

    • @JL-pc2eh
      @JL-pc2eh 4 роки тому +23

      I have anxiety and I am crazy :/

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 4 роки тому +10

      Marylin, God wants you to be happy. . Meditation is the practical way to handle anxiety. Watch alternate nostril breathing meditation videos on Google search and do this simple meditation for 10 minutes twice a day. Your mind will be reprogrammed to relax. You can also sit on a chair and do this meditation. Inhale and exhale slowly. You can also read the benefits of alternate nostril breathing meditation on Google search. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir, Mentor. Make meditation a daily habit

    • @yonixia8712
      @yonixia8712 4 роки тому +8

      Yuppp could relate to this a lot, they keep saying its all in you head you just have to relax and not thinking about. The thing they don't get is that its uncontrollable we can't just simply take that away it takes time that varies for many. How is everything so far seeing your comment was a month ago?

    • @Enders.paradise888
      @Enders.paradise888 4 роки тому +7

      u need mushrooms

  • @lori2152
    @lori2152 4 роки тому +207

    Explaining anxiety to people that don't have it is so hard. They think they understand it, but they don't get how it makes you feel. I know the people around me and when they say they "get nervous too" I know they don't get what I'm talking about.

    • @someonelol7210
      @someonelol7210 3 роки тому +7

      Right, they really don’t.

    • @SunKisses-n1z
      @SunKisses-n1z 2 роки тому +7

      Nervousness is not the same thing,this is different.

    • @dd-pm9cg
      @dd-pm9cg Місяць тому

      They also say I have no will power and this is something I inflicted upon myself

  • @wo0o0o0ho0o0
    @wo0o0o0ho0o0 3 роки тому +256

    When you have anxiety, it feels like you’re trying to run from something scary but in reality there’s nothing to run from. So all you want to do is leave your body and come back when it’s over but you can’t. I feel so sorry for this young man. I’ve only had an anxiety attack very few times. I can’t imagine having to go through that over and over and over again.

    • @darealcarrotman
      @darealcarrotman 3 роки тому

      good

    • @missvlog2495
      @missvlog2495 2 роки тому +1

      I also have shivere anxiety attack one time in school.

    • @jianxiongRaven
      @jianxiongRaven 2 роки тому

      hopefully we get better vy the day .
      learn and overcome each difficulty like a game.
      1day we will be freed from it

    • @missvlog2495
      @missvlog2495 2 роки тому +1

      @@jianxiongRaven nowadays,my anxiety is taking new steps. I got severe like Alertness or danger. And feeling like nausea. Can I get suggestion how to overcome it?

    • @jianxiongRaven
      @jianxiongRaven 2 роки тому

      @@missvlog2495 are you coping well ? have you seen a psychiatrist before ?
      maybe can stsrt by identifying if this time is an always there kidn of thing, or is it just of something your going to face it soon (like new work ?) .
      is this goona be those for a quick moment or ?
      hv you dealed eith this sinilar type ?

  • @michellemartinezvelasco4966
    @michellemartinezvelasco4966 5 років тому +1058

    Isn’t it strange how we all share this common thing being anxiety disorder it’s proven in the comments the amount of people who have it and feel the same and yet our illness makes us feel so alone ....

    • @trinibee09
      @trinibee09 4 роки тому +8

      So true

    • @saradeen3984
      @saradeen3984 3 роки тому +3

      True💯

    • @matchuxo541
      @matchuxo541 3 роки тому +3

      So very True💯

    • @TravelinRosy2025
      @TravelinRosy2025 3 роки тому +5

      Cuz of stigma

    • @caprispears
      @caprispears 3 роки тому +13

      It’s because anxious people usually avoid social situations. That’s why it feels like we don’t exist

  • @KennedyBree
    @KennedyBree 6 років тому +948

    Finally someone has the same thing as me it’s really hard to deal with I wish this on nobody

    • @elysianfields8461
      @elysianfields8461 6 років тому +6

      Kennedy’s Liffe JR Me too! You're not alone my friend! hugz-

    • @KennedyBree
      @KennedyBree 6 років тому +2

      Elysian Fields omg thanks

    • @emilanapanus6828
      @emilanapanus6828 4 роки тому +3

      Me too.. Mine its been 3 years... I also hope people around me do not feel the same way.. And healty

    • @marcomarek9190
      @marcomarek9190 4 роки тому +4

      The thing that u listen to Billie Eshlie doesn't mean u have anxiety

    • @rosyakhtar2850
      @rosyakhtar2850 4 роки тому +2

      Guys same I have emephobia it means I am scared of throwing up which caused my anxiety

  • @cengkerikmalaya4844
    @cengkerikmalaya4844 4 роки тому +673

    People will say “it’s a normal thing”. But they don’t know HOW it feels like, how we live with it, how it haunts us.
    Living with anxiety is no joke :’)

    • @Ray-fk7ly
      @Ray-fk7ly 4 роки тому +13

      Mild anxiety is a normal thing
      I'd say my anxiety is mild and not always does it bother my day to day life( at this point)

    • @bridgettemari4
      @bridgettemari4 3 роки тому

      fr :,)

    • @thanavls1088
      @thanavls1088 3 роки тому +6

      I got severe anxiety and it's really hard but i try my best right now

    • @user-ze8fr9wq1t
      @user-ze8fr9wq1t 3 роки тому +1

      @@youtubeuser_a nothing in life’s fair for most :((

    • @XAE_A_Xii
      @XAE_A_Xii 3 роки тому +2

      isn't it something every single healthy has time to time. I am personally scared to death speaking in front many people, especially in a formal format. I remember i was told to introduce myself and i got so nervous, even the back of my head started to shake uncontrollably, which made me feel much more embarrassed. But I think now, some people are just more sensitive and some less, but only a dead don't feel nervousenses. Unless anxiety is something very different from what i say above and i may have no clue about it.

  • @Pfannenstiel1987
    @Pfannenstiel1987 4 роки тому +711

    Anxiety makes me feel like I’m going to die from a heart attack.

    • @maddyperetzz44
      @maddyperetzz44 4 роки тому +22

      Girl I got so many heart attaks and panic attacks

    • @jerichoj1540
      @jerichoj1540 3 роки тому +12

      Yup you explained it perfectly

    • @maddyperetzz44
      @maddyperetzz44 3 роки тому +10

      Ya but I get bad axiety like my hair sheds and I shake I faint I forget things

    • @zulumia5750
      @zulumia5750 3 роки тому +1

      I just realized that I have it :

    • @ghrey8557
      @ghrey8557 3 роки тому +1

      I think I have it to

  • @dare2bdifferent1
    @dare2bdifferent1 6 років тому +355

    Sweet young man. I wish him much success with his journey.

    • @LordZelda
      @LordZelda 6 років тому +8

      dare2bdifferent1 Me too. What a great strong guy to show people his problem.

  • @jennj8149
    @jennj8149 3 роки тому +140

    It kinda makes me sick to know that in todays world people have normalized “anxiety” and they use it in a way which they don’t realize that it’s an actual thing that people have to live through. I have anxiety myself and I didn’t know I had it til I went to the ER years back. And when I hear people saying “this gives me anxiety” or “I get anxiety by seeing my crush” it makes me ponder if they ever think how it affects those with anxiety. You can’t just throw the word around and make it have no meaning. Maybe it’s just me but it really gets to me when people just throw around the word.

    • @namyakaushik69
      @namyakaushik69 3 роки тому

      I feel the same 😔

    • @jennyl7422
      @jennyl7422 3 роки тому +13

      Yes I feel the same way.. I also hate it when people say they are "triggered" when they see/read something they don't like/agree with.. while the word trigger really means "stimulus (sound/smell etc) that provokes an anxiety attack"... So I'm like, no you're not "triggered", just say you're angry or upset.. I think people that are using those words, when it's not that serious, causes people to think that anxiety isn't that bad.. we get taken less seriously.. same goes when using the word "depressed" instead of "sad"

    • @tbrownflee3124
      @tbrownflee3124 3 роки тому +3

      @Jenn J I can so relate to this! I can't literally survive without my anxiety medication because its so bad for me, I have extreme agoraphobia, and I can't say or type the PA word or else I will get one instantly. Its no joke, but DNRS by Annie Hopper has been helping. Check it out. It explains a lot

    • @jennyl7422
      @jennyl7422 3 роки тому

      @@tbrownflee3124 thanks for the tip!

    • @bonumonu5534
      @bonumonu5534 3 роки тому +1

      @@jennyl7422 trigger isn't specifically anxiety related word. It has multiple uses and meanings

  • @Noobnubnoob
    @Noobnubnoob 3 роки тому +76

    im 26 no career full of anxiety afraid to fail. Afraid to start. Crippling fear of public speaking and have no idea where to go in life. I know the anxiety is irrational but here I am

    • @rosejames5172
      @rosejames5172 3 роки тому +9

      Just do something. Send out an application. Even for a cleaning job. Once you start doing something it gets better. If you stay in your room and do nothing it won't get any better.

    • @danaabulaban822
      @danaabulaban822 3 роки тому +1

      sending my love and prayers to you 🥺🙏

    • @rideshareboy371
      @rideshareboy371 3 роки тому +1

      Do something you love to do doesn’t matter what it is just do it

    • @Hassonn88
      @Hassonn88 3 роки тому +8

      @@rideshareboy371 That’s the hardest part, just doing it. It might sound simple in the head but when it comes to actually doing it is when the fear of what COULD happen kicks in, everything Bad that could happen to you. you’re not thinking about the good that could come from it, only the negatives.
      And than it eats at you with all the negative things that could happen until you eventually just don’t do it or think about it. This also the part where panic attacks occur. And worst thing is you can’t control it.

    • @anjanaouseph4605
      @anjanaouseph4605 3 роки тому

      @@Hassonn88 i feeel the same..

  • @markgillguitarist2672
    @markgillguitarist2672 3 роки тому +39

    We are all not alone! I've suffered this for 17 years, I am 47 now and still get these awful attacks and panic attacks that also lead to agoraphobia and depersonalization, unless someone has experienced these awful crippling feelings they will never know just how horrific and terrifying these feelings are. Love to all of you who suffer this horrible illness, we can all take comfort knowing that we are not alone. Xx

  • @Roxanne_Rich
    @Roxanne_Rich 6 років тому +132

    Wow I never heard of an educational establishment for kids suffering from anxiety. That’s truly amazing!!!!

    • @roselind.5810
      @roselind.5810 3 роки тому

      Hi! My name is Kim and I am helping with a study about people with anxiety.
      Over 20% of the population lives with anxiety (including me). Can you help me by completing a quick survey?forms.gle/NhyHNi9uSMpFnvsm6

    • @lawrencegregory9235
      @lawrencegregory9235 2 роки тому +1

      Amazing right. Would've loved this when I was a kid!

  • @licklebee
    @licklebee 6 років тому +186

    I feel
    Your pain. I have anxiety and panic and the way you described it was perfect.

  • @gaby2381
    @gaby2381 4 роки тому +130

    I was diagnosed with severe anxiety and depression at the age of 14 and all I can say is that I don’t wish it upon anyone

    • @jerichoj1540
      @jerichoj1540 3 роки тому

      How’s it going for you now? Did things improve?

    • @gaby2381
      @gaby2381 3 роки тому +5

      @@jerichoj1540 better than before I’m taking medication and therapy. I also have support from my family and friends which is the most important

    • @jerichoj1540
      @jerichoj1540 3 роки тому +2

      @@gaby2381 wow I’m so happy for you!!! Hopefully things go smoothly for me too.

    • @181ld7
      @181ld7 3 роки тому +3

      @@jerichoj1540
      It will, mental problems are not forever, one day you will feel normal again.

    • @josejuarez5846
      @josejuarez5846 3 роки тому +1

      @@181ld7 How are mental problems not forever? Not trying to bash on you or anything just curious.

  • @user-vm4jt2ue2w
    @user-vm4jt2ue2w 4 роки тому +183

    i am crying, why? bc i have anxiety. it is hard this touched my heart. middle school anxiety is hard, i am in middle school btw. it is hard 😟
    edit: thank you all. your words mean a lot to me. I am in high school now, and still working through everything, but I am so glad that I have so many people that can understand.

    • @armystayblink9865
      @armystayblink9865 4 роки тому +5

      True, do you wanna talk about it?

    • @sajivdoley6949
      @sajivdoley6949 4 роки тому +20

      Trust me buddy, in high school it gets worse. Get therapy now.

    • @user-vm4jt2ue2w
      @user-vm4jt2ue2w 4 роки тому +2

      @@sajivdoley6949 maybe, thank you!

    • @user-vm4jt2ue2w
      @user-vm4jt2ue2w 4 роки тому +1

      @@armystayblink9865 awe! thxx your so sweet ♡

    • @armystayblink9865
      @armystayblink9865 4 роки тому +3

      Livi thank you, i just think that it’s important that you have some one who you can talk to

  • @zachct4536
    @zachct4536 4 роки тому +66

    I’m 27 years old and I’ve been dealing with really bad anxiety for over a decade now. People don’t realize how bad it is. Even with exercising everyday for at least a hour. It’s not enough for me. Waking up right out of my sleep with a panic attack so bad to the point where I feel like I’m going to die. Sometimes it’s so bad for me to where I even throw up. A lot of the times I have a difficult time controlling my breathing. It’s painful to live with.

    • @mitch5222
      @mitch5222 4 роки тому +2

      I feel you. I too myself have bad anxiety and also other health problems. Wish u all the best .

    • @biatch861
      @biatch861 3 роки тому +1

      me too.

    • @tbrownflee3124
      @tbrownflee3124 3 роки тому +1

      @Zach Triay Please go to retrainingthebrain.com It is DNRS by Annie Hopper. You need to rewire your brain. I am doing it for POTS and anxiety, it is working, you can fully recover. Your limbic system is stuck in a rut. or loop, you can fix this though because the brain is neuroplastic, meaning it can change and you won't have the anxiety anymore. good luck!

    • @mohdarif8948
      @mohdarif8948 3 роки тому

      me too also we the same age

    • @rithunath
      @rithunath 2 роки тому +3

      Please check out the book At last life . Understand that its just anxiety nothing will happen . The book helps a lot

  • @brendaleaton8977
    @brendaleaton8977 6 років тому +256

    I have severe anxiety too and panic attacks and nobody understands it's very hard to explain I work in the public and it's even harder everyday so my few friends understand my family does understand is horrible like a pounding in your chest and nobody can explain it but you and sometimes you don't even know the right answer I totally understand you relate

    • @anaksunamoon8618
      @anaksunamoon8618 6 років тому +6

      Brenda Leaton I totally understand. I have severe anxiety and panic attacks. I went to Emergency room the first time I had a panic attack. I swore I was dying. It's tough to live with . I totally get you though
      ☺️

    • @isabellac5669
      @isabellac5669 6 років тому +8

      Brenda Leaton I have been suffering since I was thirteen, and I'm now 54! We need support, assistance, not Stigma!

    • @blmm47
      @blmm47 6 років тому +3

      Brenda Leaton my son was crippled with this justlike this kid struggling to even wake up he watched videos all the time he found this video
      ua-cam.com/video/v9iflUfYRTc/v-deo.html and took it to heart , he is now in navy flourishing

    • @Carriehammer718
      @Carriehammer718 6 років тому +11

      I hate when people tell you to calm down when are having a panic attack

    • @ryguy3179
      @ryguy3179 5 років тому +1

      I have severe anxiety and I could never work in the public, people would think I was crazy. I guess there is different levels of it

  • @mogtrader8
    @mogtrader8 3 роки тому +84

    He's shown a lot of courage by doing this interview, a lot of people can't even do that, let alone someone dealing with anxiety. What this shows is the importance of family and support too. I'm glad that there's school that help people with anxiety and such.

  • @samirsivan8134
    @samirsivan8134 3 роки тому +47

    I have anxiety over my heart. My heart pumps all the time . And it's soo uncomfortable I used to hate my life but believe me guys no matter what type of anxiety you have, you will come back to your normal life one day never forget that. I love my life and Im not fully recovered but Im taking one step at a time to recovery

    • @mohdarif8948
      @mohdarif8948 3 роки тому

      same with me sometimes at night i was awake thinking i’ve got heart attack

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 роки тому

      @@mohdarif8948 Reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Day or night, when taking a walk, when reading, on the phone, before sleep etc sit or lie down and observe your breath. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 роки тому

      Samir, Reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Day or night, when taking a walk, when reading, on the phone, before sleep etc sit or lie down and observe your breath. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

    • @darealcarrotman
      @darealcarrotman 3 роки тому

      good

    • @Waytohidayat96
      @Waytohidayat96 2 роки тому

      Same with me from last 9 months

  • @MahirTandon
    @MahirTandon 4 роки тому +130

    Even I have anxiety from all the bad events and physical abuse from my childhood and I still live with it. I get anxious at even the smallest things in my life. Its hard to live like this.

    • @---vw9pl
      @---vw9pl 4 роки тому +5

      Me too :(

    • @brendaleaton8977
      @brendaleaton8977 4 роки тому +2

      I know exactly where you're coming from on that one I'll have my anxiety too right before I go to work in the morning I get very anxious after being off for 2 days I don't know why my childhood wasn't the best either my mama was awesome she still is she's my best friend I lost my dad to suicide but mom got remarried and she's doing great he's been married now for 27 years she's been married now for 27 years and for me I'm trying to do better each and every day but it's so hard I pray to our heavenly Father all the time and I try to eat all the right kinds of food which I do sometimes to a point God bless each and every one of you Brian you take care I hope to hear from you soon Brenda

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 4 роки тому +2

      Mahir, Take some action to enjoy life. Meditation heals anxiety as it reprogrammes the mind. Watch alternate nostril breathing meditation videos on Google and do it for 5 to 10 minutes if possible twice a day. You can sit on a chair or on the ground and do it. Inhale -exhale slowly and feel the relaxation flowing through your body. . Negative thoughts will reduce. Shyaaam Sir, Mentor. Make meditation a daily habit to enjoy life. .

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 4 роки тому +1

      @@brendaleaton8977 ake some action to enjoy life. Meditation heals anxiety as it reprogrammes the mind. Watch alternate nostril breathing meditation videos on Google and do it for 5 to 10 minutes if possible twice a day. You can sit on a chair or on the ground and do it. Inhale -exhale slowly and feel the relaxation flowing through your body. . Negative thoughts will reduce. Shyaaam Sir, Mentor. Make meditation a daily habit to enjoy life. .

  • @clye7788
    @clye7788 3 роки тому +37

    "they're learning to be kids again" hits hard for some reason

  • @mooneyes2781
    @mooneyes2781 6 років тому +91

    this would have been amazing for me as a teen...so happy he has a chance at life like this

    • @elysianfields8461
      @elysianfields8461 6 років тому +4

      Moon Eyes Exactly what I thought! This academy seems to be doing a great job for these kids!!

  • @carrotcarrotson5563
    @carrotcarrotson5563 3 роки тому +52

    it hurts when my mum says stuff like "just think rationally" as if I havent spent the last 18 years trying :(

    • @DailydoseBri
      @DailydoseBri 3 роки тому +1

      Medication helps

    • @nidamaybe8046
      @nidamaybe8046 3 роки тому +1

      Same. I can feel you. My father said and I quote " Start thinking practically and get out of your sad bubble"

  • @SaharatOfficial
    @SaharatOfficial 4 роки тому +43

    I’m 20 and I dropped out of high school at 17 cause of high anxiety and failing my classes with the pressures of high school relationships and my own mental health. I always wanted a school like this.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 4 роки тому +7

      Joey, Take action. God wants you to be happy. . Meditation is the practical way to handle anxiety. Watch alternate nostril breathing meditation videos on Google search and do this simple meditation for 10 minutes twice a day. Your mind will be reprogrammed to relax. You can also sit on a chair and do this meditation. Inhale and exhale slowly. You can also read the benefits of alternate nostril breathing meditation on Google search. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir, Mentor. Make meditation a daily habit

    • @manjorisarkar7524
      @manjorisarkar7524 3 роки тому +1

      Look, I don't know you or your situation right now, but if you really think a school like this would be worth it, it might as well be. Just a thought, nothing should stop you from educating yourself and learning if that's what you wish.

    • @briannahayes7178
      @briannahayes7178 2 роки тому +1

      Same but I’m going through it right now I’m thinking about dropping out of school because of my anxiety

    • @briannahayes7178
      @briannahayes7178 2 роки тому

      And I’m 15

    • @stephadam3702
      @stephadam3702 2 роки тому

      @@briannahayes7178 same I’m 15 too How are u now

  • @hannahbeddingfield2973
    @hannahbeddingfield2973 3 роки тому +35

    I have anxiety and finally this past year I met someone with it also and it has helped me so much to finally be able to talk to one about it.

    • @KC-dx4qt
      @KC-dx4qt 3 роки тому +7

      I’m happy for you and hope you’re having a good day.

    • @beed2bfajardohoneybellelou537
      @beed2bfajardohoneybellelou537 3 роки тому

      I hope i can meet someone too..
      Its really hard to tell someonw about wat u feel.and they didnt understand what ur goin through.and most of them..are just laughing at you..and telling u..its just anxiety..its teally hard..😭

  • @louise1021
    @louise1021 4 роки тому +9

    SAD is the worst feeling in the world. You just want to be normal like everyone else and say what's on your mind, get the words out and stop shaking every time you come into the presence of other people but it's impossible. And it makes it so hard to do the most basic things that allow one to progress in life like phone call someone, make friends, talk to people, give presentations and job interviews. It just won't go away and absolutely tears your life apart. I'm just so tired of it. It always fills me with wonder when I see other people with anxiety disorders, reminds me that I'm not alone.

  • @isabellac5669
    @isabellac5669 6 років тому +98

    I only wish they had productive, and assessable programs for adults!

  • @asiinaction3054
    @asiinaction3054 4 роки тому +18

    Anxiety took my happiness . Thank god for giving me such life 🧎‍♂️

  • @Shhehwhsi24
    @Shhehwhsi24 4 роки тому +31

    i wouldn't wish anxiety/social anxiety or agoraphobia on anyone. it ruins your life more than you think

  • @OhTylerB
    @OhTylerB 3 роки тому +24

    The worst thing about anxiety for me is that I always feel like my heart is going to go out of control. It beats so fast and I start moving about just out of sheer panic. Once it settles down a little I then always feel so exhausted.

  • @LordZelda
    @LordZelda 6 років тому +32

    I wish i became a teacher sometimes. Helping people through challenges is so rewarding. Such a great camp for these young people. My anxiety is hard to deal with. But its a daily fight.

  • @asharp2309
    @asharp2309 3 роки тому +18

    Anxiety disorders are so so difficult to deal with; Ive been going through a tough bout since December but I am slowly but surely getting better. Therapy and taking care of myself have been the major things that have helped me. So, to anyone that sees this, this is your reminder to: eat a meal, go to bed early, bathe, do your hair, talk on the phone to a loved one, stretch and/or exercise, journal, do deep breathing, meditate, pray (if you're spiritual), go outside and breathe fresh air. These are all little things that make such a big difference - I went from feeling hopeless and depressed to being able to find something good about each day (even if small things count). So don't give up guys, you can get through this! Know that you are not crazy and that others are going through this too and we believe in you!
    Also, it's hard but I have found that controlling your mind is possible. Some days are easier than others but challenging negative thoughts, reframing them to be positive and labeling intrusive thoughts as such and redirecting your focus away from them have helped. I hope this helped someone out there.

    • @layvines
      @layvines 3 роки тому

      Are you on any medication for yours? & what symptoms do you experience?

    • @KissAthenaa
      @KissAthenaa 3 роки тому +1

      @@layvines I know you asked her this question but I’m on Zoloft and something else it’s a blue pill but my symptoms of anxiety were tingling hands at first and tight chest then if I didn’t fall it down I would get high like feeling and then panic and then my whole body would tingle and sometimes hyperventilating, now it has gotten better just like she said eating better and sleep helps a lot.

    • @layvines
      @layvines 3 роки тому +1

      @@KissAthenaa that’s good yours has gotten better I’m supposed to be taking Zoloft but don’t want to go through the side effects so i been trying to try natural ways to ease my anxiety and it’s gotten better but just need to get rid of this anxious feeling i have all the time

    • @typical808
      @typical808 2 роки тому

      @@layvines currently in the same boat. Medication is the last thing I want to use. Any updates? I pray you're anxiety has gotten better 🙏🏼

  • @MsJabelsAndAl
    @MsJabelsAndAl 6 років тому +27

    Phenomenal video. Made me shed a couple tears. It's so nice to see anxiety being treated as a real issue that needs help, and I'm so happy Zach is working hard and making progress.

  • @TaniaYMunoz
    @TaniaYMunoz 6 років тому +144

    Its really hard to deal with it but we always get thru god is with you

  • @JasonQiuMusic
    @JasonQiuMusic 3 роки тому +3

    Wow, this warms my heart to see that someone opened a school for kids who deal with this. I struggled through school and early adulthood and toughed it out on my own but what a wonderful thing it would have been to have this where I lived.

  • @blmm47
    @blmm47 6 років тому +63

    These schools cost a lot of money my son who wasn’t able to sometimes even leave his room did this by joining the military . The bootcamp intensity taught him that he could deal with his anxiety. When he got very sick he refused to quit and completed it aniexty and all. I am so proud of him.

    • @subhuman9544
      @subhuman9544 5 років тому +23

      Tell your son he is a legend. You raised a legend.

    • @blmm47
      @blmm47 3 роки тому +1

      @@subhuman9544 thank you

    • @steelyman08
      @steelyman08 3 роки тому +4

      Yes. Those schools are very rare & incredibly expensive. Very few of us can afford to send our kids to such places.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 роки тому

      @@steelyman08 To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, at office, in school, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Senior counsellor.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 роки тому

      @@subhuman9544 How are you? To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, at office, in school, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Senior counsellor.

  • @tahirahmed1776
    @tahirahmed1776 6 років тому +32

    Well done Waypoint for making people learn how to fight with anxiety........

  • @sisterluke
    @sisterluke 3 роки тому +12

    I suffer from social anxiety and it really affected my grades in school because I had a hard time speaking in front of people and doing presentations in front of people.

  • @trentonbeaver7322
    @trentonbeaver7322 4 роки тому +52

    I'm a 16 year old guy, and have been dealing with very intense anxiety my entire life. I never really gave myself the title of "having anxiety", as I grew up my entire life hearing my family refer to me as "Oh, he's a worrier. He worries about everything." For the longest time I thought maybe it was trust issues, but then the dots started to connect and all signs pointed to a severe anxiety disorder. From the outside looking in, I'm an average male almost, I'm about 5'10", just a pinch overweight but I get in shape during football season at my school. I have a 3.9 GPA, and am dubbed an extremely intelligent person. But deep within, it's a horrid nightmare. I'm not gonna type an essay on my past, so I'll just summarize and say I didn't exactly grow up great and I don't necessarily live in the best environment at home. Although I haven't seen a registered psychiatrist, I have seen two different counselors; one said my issues weren't life-threatening and that I would grow up and get over it, and the other accepted a job elsewhere. I currently don't do anything to treat it, but I hope to change it soon. I would say I have moderate/mild OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder), and EXTREME social anxiety. I am very antisocial, and I hate having to talk to people and I try to avoid it at all costs. I have severe panic attacks when I'm on the phone with anyone. I always worry if I'm going to stutter or say something bad, and while I'm talking to someone my brain fixates on that risk of possibly screwing up that sentence so I pause a lot. The struggle of anxiety is something I wouldn't wish upon any enemy, and it's awesome that he overcame it 🙂

    • @noodles8951
      @noodles8951 4 роки тому +5

      I am 17 and i have had severe anxiety since a long time too. I overthink and worry a lot. I get stressed very easily. It is really hard for me.

    • @scholar05
      @scholar05 4 роки тому

      think about those child in africa, dont you feel guilty?

    • @xyy2064
      @xyy2064 4 роки тому +3

      I can relate to you hundred percent . I have anxiety too I'm 17 and its really hard to live with it. I have severe social anxiety tho i am not diagnosed but I can clearly see it in myself. I hate it when I am at school, I barely talk to anyone because i'm too afraid of them. I'm afraid of judgements and also critiques. I am always overthingking about the things i do. I worry a lot. Whenever we have presentation at school at front of the class I'm starting to shiver it feels really cold that aside from my knees and hands, my jaw is also trembling. I can't talk without practicing the words or the sentence and I have intense fear of embarrassment that's why I don't participate at school a lot. They find me very DIFFERENT.

    • @xyy2064
      @xyy2064 4 роки тому +2

      @@scholar05 sometimes I feel like I'm too lucky to feel this way :< to have anxiety even tho i'm in a good shape and place but all of that doesn't matter if u have severe anxiety, you can't control it and it makes your life unbreathable. It's so hard to deal with it without help. Like me, I can't afford psychiatrist, I need to deal with it for a long time. I can say we all have pain in life.

    • @memphisgrizzlies3398
      @memphisgrizzlies3398 4 роки тому

      @@scholar05 youre a bad person

  • @couchwilly5575
    @couchwilly5575 2 роки тому +8

    Took me about 8 years to finally overcome and take control of my anxiety. Started at 13, highschool was rough; panic attacks everyday. Once I got to college it eased up because I self-taught myself how to control it

  • @headlcb2178
    @headlcb2178 2 роки тому +4

    I was recently diagnosed with general and social anxiety and it's opened my eyes to behaviors I wasn't even aware videos like these help others try to understand and maybe help others going through the same thing thank you!!

  • @empirestatepolitics
    @empirestatepolitics 4 роки тому +13

    What an inspiring story! Zach seems like a great kid and I wish him all the best! Anxiety is absolutely debilitating at times and come out publicly about it takes a lot.

  • @quit83636
    @quit83636 2 роки тому +6

    I’ve had anxiety for years. Anxiety is something you CAN’T help. My mom just yells at me whenever I can’t do something because of my anxiety. She just says “Well don’t have anxiety!” YOU CAN’T JUST NOT HAVE ANXIETY. Another thing is, SOO many people tell me it’s a “phase” and having anxiety isn’t “real”. It’s sad and people sound uneducated when they say that because anxiety is real and is a very common mental disorder that people have and have to deal with every single day.

  • @Mikep01978
    @Mikep01978 2 роки тому +5

    This is a problem that so many children have and adults that are suffering with this especially with all that’s going on in the world today.. thank you for that video I am looking forward to speaking with someone about this

  • @chr1llee
    @chr1llee 3 роки тому +4

    I got a huge anxiety the first time a few years ago and today I do not have it anymore. It's a relief! Keep fighting....

  • @juniebugjune08
    @juniebugjune08 3 роки тому +6

    I was recently diagnosed with GAD. For me, anxiety felt like a need for survival. If I failed something , or I made a mistake, it felt like the end of the world.

  • @_Nat_A_
    @_Nat_A_ 6 років тому +56

    One more thing, and this was a interesting observation. When you share that you suffer from Anxiety/Panic disorder, 8/10 times that person does too. I think it is so common that our non stop lifestyles contribute to it. If I have a whole day spent doing “nothing” I am not lazy, I am practicing self care. Preventive medicine!

    • @elysianfields8461
      @elysianfields8461 6 років тому +3

      Natasha Ann Totally agree! I've noticed this also

    • @jenhasken
      @jenhasken 6 років тому +8

      Yes! We need to slow down and take care of ourselves.

    • @blmm47
      @blmm47 6 років тому +4

      Natasha Ann some children are born more empathetic and absorb stress more redial, my son as a toddler always had the deer in the headless guts look was avoidant of crowds very much a cuddled, middle school hit he could not be those things it crushed him when his frien who was from a another country and was rejected in 7th grade made new friends over the summer because he could play soccer well and rejected my son who was the only one who reached out to the foreign kid, yes life is brutal

    • @juliab.75
      @juliab.75 3 роки тому +2

      @@blmm47 I'm so sorry.. ❤ I was the quiet sensitive kid too very much rejected by everyone. I had trouble with friends and your son seems very nice I would totally be friends with him! I hope he is doing well now. 💙

    • @blmm47
      @blmm47 3 роки тому +1

      @@juliab.75 he is doing well is a petty officer on a sub thank you for your concern

  • @frankbermudes5070
    @frankbermudes5070 3 роки тому +7

    I have pretty bad anxiety I start shaking every time I walk out of my house cause I feel like the whole world is gunna judge me, sometimes I can’t even have a conversation with a family member. So I’m here to say to anyone with anxiety I hope you all are doing good!

  • @GoCrazyBaby3
    @GoCrazyBaby3 3 роки тому +4

    I’ve known I had depression since I was 8 and in the past years have come to realize I also have anxiety. My family is very closed minded so I thought the anxiety was normal at the time. My mother didn’t understand depression or intrusive thoughts, so I never even bothered talking to her about it. I’m 21, I have been independent since I was 18. For the first time, on this coming Friday,I will meet with a therapist. I just know something needs to change.

  • @nissrine2001
    @nissrine2001 4 роки тому +1

    hearing him say what i have always felt but never know the name of it made very happy and emotional

  • @AA-wc3tw
    @AA-wc3tw 3 роки тому +6

    I wish my parents had been different: instead of supporting me and lifting me up, they caused my anxiety/depression/OCD/ED/PTSD and everything else I deal with. And they blame me for it, too.

  • @danielsawaked685
    @danielsawaked685 4 роки тому +17

    It’s feels like I have this pit in my stomach and it just won’t go away

  • @randomtoons6816
    @randomtoons6816 4 роки тому +15

    I have social anxiety from my “friends” teasing and picking on me about my looks and things. They said they we’re just teasing but when u say the same things almost every day u realize their not really picking on u being friendly their really pointing out your flaws and when u realize that it hurts and it’s one of the worst feelings especially when u can’t change anything about u that their talking about

    • @tbrownflee3124
      @tbrownflee3124 3 роки тому +1

      I wouldn't be friends with them then, or just tell them to knock it off because its bothering you, don't be afraid to be assertive! Or tease them right back, and ask them how it made them feel and then express yourself. Accept yourself first, so you can accept the flaws of others , then it is like you are untouchable and able to brush off the immaturity of those friends better. @RandomToons

  • @Adam-ix2sn
    @Adam-ix2sn 3 роки тому +17

    anxiety sucks. I've been with it forever, for 32 years.

    • @glowstonestarzaj4922
      @glowstonestarzaj4922 4 місяці тому

      have you tried anything for it? (therapy/medication/lifestyle changes)

  • @pamelabethea8877
    @pamelabethea8877 6 років тому +2

    I am 50 & this is real. I love that he has access to the services. I will incorporate these in my life as well. Good luck Zachary!

  • @lowwkzt4630
    @lowwkzt4630 3 роки тому +28

    Me at 15: I’m not feeling this way, it’s just a phase and it’ll pass
    Me at 17: Can’t even get out my bed anymore only to work

  • @ohhho
    @ohhho 4 роки тому +4

    This is so beautiful to watch! It's so nice to see that there's actually one such school that provide these kids a safe space to study yet work on their anxiety at the same time. My life could have been different if there was one of these schools when I was a teenager :(

  • @alexanderlaurens3103
    @alexanderlaurens3103 3 роки тому +3

    When he said “they’re coming here to be untangled” I feel like that was a very good expression for what it feels like to live with an anxiety disorder

  • @thepeacefultrucker5333
    @thepeacefultrucker5333 4 роки тому +8

    I had never thought I’d find people who would understand 💯💯💯. I found the answer to what’s going on with me

  • @Bigfellr
    @Bigfellr 3 роки тому +25

    I remember the first time having a panic attack. I was literally alone:(

  • @user-jy2gr4cr4n
    @user-jy2gr4cr4n 3 роки тому +3

    I don't watch enough videos about anxiety. I have an anxiety disorder and it's really easy to forget I'm not the only one going through it.

  • @_Nat_A_
    @_Nat_A_ 6 років тому +6

    You are a strong man. Know it. Live it. Embracing how I see the world differently than the average. Keep going. One milestone at a time.

    • @facynmoutev4856
      @facynmoutev4856 4 роки тому

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  • @me-hk4ro
    @me-hk4ro 4 роки тому +65

    I'm having an anxiety attack rn I'm literally crying it hurts 😭

    • @HinaBeg
      @HinaBeg 4 роки тому +2

      Pineapple Gurl you are a brave person. If you are still experiencing anxiety - watch your diet ... are you having long gaps between two meals? Connect .. take few sessions and bounce back 👏👍 therapy works !

    • @user00289
      @user00289 4 роки тому +1

      you are not alone take control over your thoughts. something that helps me is to talk about ur worries and understand it’s nothing to worry about especially when it comes from another person bcuz when ur stressed it’s hard but when the mind is calm the answer is clear. listen to monks if u want they are calming. look up the anxiety guy if u want or just peaceful people talking

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 4 роки тому

      Pineapple, God wants you to be happy. . Meditation is the practical way to handle anxiety. Watch alternate nostril breathing meditation videos on Google search and do this simple meditation for 10 minutes twice a day. Your mind will be reprogrammed to relax. You can also sit on a chair and do this meditation. Inhale and exhale slowly. You can also read the benefits of alternate nostril breathing meditation on Google search. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir, Mentor. Make meditation a daily habit

    • @Enders.paradise888
      @Enders.paradise888 4 роки тому +1

      u need some mushrooms

    • @M.Đ-z4u
      @M.Đ-z4u 4 роки тому

      @@Enders.paradise888 but where to buy them?

  • @radhikapatel8065
    @radhikapatel8065 4 роки тому +4

    Mental health is not a joke but needs to be taken seriously.bullying not allowed for mental health.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 4 роки тому

      Radhika, Meditation heals anxiety as it reprogrames the mind. Watch alternate nostril breathing meditation videos on Google and do it for 5 to 10 minutes if possible twice a day--known in India as Anilom Vilom meditataion. You can sit on a chair or on the ground and do it. Inhale-exhale slowly and feel the relaxation flowing through your mind and body. Negative thoughts will reduce. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir, Mentor. Make meditation a daily habit to enjoy life.

  • @divinellght
    @divinellght 4 роки тому +2

    I cried when he started talking about anxiety and how it’s like because I can relate so much and distancing people and avoiding things

  • @scout9074
    @scout9074 3 роки тому +1

    He is very lucky to tackle the situation at such a young age. I've met adults starting in their late 40s have never dealt with their symptoms. When I was in my early 20s I have done counseling, seen a psychiatrist, take the appropriate medication, got involved in group chats...I did whatever opportunity came by to improve myself. Working in retail and healthcare has really helped with my social anxiety so much. At 27yrs old I still struggle time to time, but I know it's something I can cope with.

  • @elle2498
    @elle2498 6 років тому +18

    You’re not alone I too have anxiety as well

    • @roselind.5810
      @roselind.5810 3 роки тому

      Hi! My name is Kim and I am helping with a study about people with anxiety.
      Over 20% of the population lives with anxiety (including me). Can you help me by completing a quick survey?forms.gle/NhyHNi9uSMpFnvsm6

  • @traceylamplugh7727
    @traceylamplugh7727 5 років тому +26

    You can't ignore it either. I get told 'oh fotget it it will go away'!!!!!

    • @justagirl4150
      @justagirl4150 4 роки тому

      What!!! Why would anyone say that. If that were true Wouldn't we have done that already

    • @caprisunlover4732
      @caprisunlover4732 4 роки тому +4

      My family calls me weak and tells me that I'm being dramatic

    • @traceylamplugh7727
      @traceylamplugh7727 4 роки тому +2

      @@justagirl4150 Thanks! It's ridiculous isn't it? Keep well!!!

    • @traceylamplugh7727
      @traceylamplugh7727 4 роки тому +2

      @@caprisunlover4732 You are not weak they are!!!!! Keep well and stop losers who are ignorant!!!!

    • @Pfannenstiel1987
      @Pfannenstiel1987 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah I’ve tried that, it don’t work.

  • @mrs.sherry
    @mrs.sherry 3 роки тому +3

    I am there with you. I feel like I am a strong person, but then panic attacks and anxiety hit me like an explosion and I have no control whatsoever. Head is filled with noise, chaos, and I just want an off switch.

  • @morningstarscotty.8656
    @morningstarscotty.8656 3 роки тому +1

    Young man i completely understand you im 34 and i have depression and anxiety and insomnia. Stay strong

  • @erikrodriguez5608
    @erikrodriguez5608 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much zach for sharing your experience i suffered from anxiety i come from a house hold where all mental states are just a made up thing, at first my anxiety would just show up randomly not wanting to associate with no one for the fear of people judging me or just feeling not good enough and always think theres something wrong with me, my anxiety peaked after my mother passed the way, and also had a panic attack and ever since then i havent felt like me im constantly worried thinking my body ia failing on me very scare of staying alone with my kids it takes a big toll on my life and seeing you teying to overcome and talking about how you cope with anxiety is amazing bring me joy and light to my life thank you

  • @junar88
    @junar88 3 роки тому +8

    I have social anxiety and it's so so hard that sometimes you just thinking to end your life because people around you don't understand you and they think you are crazy 😔

    • @emelyngonzalez4107
      @emelyngonzalez4107 3 роки тому

      Yesss😣😣

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 роки тому

      Zudotokashi, How are you? Do some public speaking courses --they can transform you. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, at office, in school, when reading, in the kitchen before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Senior counsellor.

  • @lutiskayebalza1579
    @lutiskayebalza1579 2 роки тому +3

    I also living with anxiety, it happened since 2020. Everyday it feels like I am fighting with my ownself. Sometimes I think I am living in my dark imagination. I really want to see a therapist 'cuase it get worse day by day. I am afraid to be judge so that it is hard for me to confess that I have an anxiety, I think it is the safest way to confess here where everyone also struggling from it 'cause they know how it its like.
    I want to live normally. I want to enjoy life without anxiety.

  • @katelyn888
    @katelyn888 4 роки тому +3

    What an awesome program. I struggled so hard from middle school until now. My friends are my cousins and my siblings. It feels like my heart is being squeezed and I don't leave my bed most days. I wish the best for Zach and anybody else dealing with mental illness♡

  • @angelwingsadventures347
    @angelwingsadventures347 3 роки тому +1

    I was balling my eyes out the whole time. Been suffering from severe anxiety n panic attacks n depression n stress for a number years n just gets worse it feels

  • @attsealevel
    @attsealevel 3 роки тому +2

    Brave kid to go so public about his syndrome - glad to see him doing better. Just hope more and more kids can get the help they need.

  • @carolindmann1395
    @carolindmann1395 3 роки тому +10

    Wow I feel like society doesn’t allow boys to be weak. Couldn’t imagine the pressure teenage boys going trough.

    • @eeeee7908
      @eeeee7908 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah its hard especially in high school, mind is everywhere and kids always trying to test you

  • @arturovaldemar
    @arturovaldemar 6 років тому +428

    I've been struggling with anxiety for 9 years now. I'm so glad there's so much information and validation now. When I started having it, I was so embarrassed to tell somebody. I went to so many different doctors and none of them could give me a correct diagnosis until I found a Psychiatrist. What they say is true: the enemy is invisible, intangible, but that doesn't mean it's not there.

    • @fatguylungs333
      @fatguylungs333 4 роки тому +4

      I think it's harder for men to have it

    • @jaydineneto2574
      @jaydineneto2574 4 роки тому +1

      @@fatguylungs333 its the same just stop

    • @baseballwizardbaseballwiza6204
      @baseballwizardbaseballwiza6204 4 роки тому

      @Sam K Very good point

    • @HinaBeg
      @HinaBeg 4 роки тому +4

      Hope you are done away with it. Prayers for you 😊

    • @arturovaldemar
      @arturovaldemar 4 роки тому +2

      @Sam K You're absolutely correct. It's like a sign of 'weakness'. I've been mocked a lot because of it.

  • @GabrielleCenter2000
    @GabrielleCenter2000 4 роки тому +38

    I have severe anxiety disorder and it's really hard for me to sleep. 😢😭

    • @fernandopineda4277
      @fernandopineda4277 4 роки тому +2

      Gabrielle Center how are you doing now gabrielle?

    • @l.aw.t9727
      @l.aw.t9727 4 роки тому +9

      Me to I feel I'm suffocating it's horrific no air hitting back of my throat and feel numb

    • @AngxlicSunsetYT
      @AngxlicSunsetYT 4 роки тому +2

      Me at 3AM.
      I never get that!

    • @GabrielleCenter2000
      @GabrielleCenter2000 3 роки тому

      @@fernandopineda4277 A little better but still feeling it sometimes.

    • @f9oeks965
      @f9oeks965 3 роки тому

      @@GabrielleCenter2000 how's it going for you now?

  • @mindfulnesshub2346
    @mindfulnesshub2346 4 роки тому +18

    I have depression, anxiety and paranoid delusions..and it's sad that no one really understand what I'm going though..

  • @brianparker7167
    @brianparker7167 3 роки тому +1

    This kids mother is absolutely what every kid with anxiety needs

  • @merve6231
    @merve6231 5 років тому +2

    When I said some people I have anxiety disorder, they said you havent an illness, you are just so fragile. They are wrong, we are not just so fragile. They are just so inconsidered and heart breaker. Do not care other people. This is an illness, but you can overcome it, she can overcome it, he can overcome it, WE can overcome it. Do not forget we are all suffering. You are not alone. I 'm here for all support that I can give. Please contact if you need or just to meet and talk to relieve related to anxiety disorder.

    • @juliab.75
      @juliab.75 3 роки тому +1

      Please help me.. 😔 thank you ❤

    • @merve6231
      @merve6231 3 роки тому +1

      @@juliab.75 Julia, do you have instagram account? I'm here to help and support you. 🙋‍♀️❤

    • @juliab.75
      @juliab.75 3 роки тому

      @@merve6231 hi! :) yes I do. It's julia.kath.234_
      Thank you!! 😇💙😄

    • @merve6231
      @merve6231 3 роки тому +1

      @@juliab.75 I sent you a request.
      Oh, nothing.
      Lots of love xx

  • @kaikain3405
    @kaikain3405 4 роки тому +8

    As mean as it sounds, it’s nice to know that there’s someone out there who gets it.

  • @foultarnished0101
    @foultarnished0101 3 роки тому +3

    Its been over a year since I had a job because of my anxiety.
    Going food shopping is a struggle in itself.
    I just want to live a normal life where no one can judge me....

  • @lancemorton8546
    @lancemorton8546 6 років тому +21

    I suffer from horrible anxiety I have been watching a blog on you tube called living with anxiety Lisa Johnson it really has helped me I would highly recommend

    • @l.aw.t9727
      @l.aw.t9727 4 роки тому +1

      Do you get any of the symptoms of no air hitting back of my throat and I feel I'm suffocating it's horrific

    • @hailey3924
      @hailey3924 4 роки тому

      I will check it out

    • @AngxlicSunsetYT
      @AngxlicSunsetYT 4 роки тому

      @@l.aw.t9727 I get that too sometime! Don’t worry. 🥺😅

  • @ljj2779
    @ljj2779 3 роки тому

    I struggle with anxiety and this video resonated with me. I felt a lot of anxiety and had to click on this video. I truly wish the best for anyone suffering from anxiety and depression.

  • @anamoon8994
    @anamoon8994 4 роки тому +1

    I also have GNA. Its not easy but my family supports me and guides me in every step ❤

  • @David-qk7lc
    @David-qk7lc 4 роки тому +5

    I'm almost 40 I have been struggling with anxiety for my whole life, I also remember my room was my safe place still is 😂, these days I treat it like my best friend try to accept it as just part of who I am. To anyone suffering know this your not alone and don't be afraid of telling people how you feel especially work colleagues cause for me it's at work and social situations when I'm at my worst.

    • @yourhighness4746
      @yourhighness4746 3 роки тому +1

      THIS IS A PERSONAL AND FAMILY EXPERIENCES, I'M A LIFE COACH ON EMOTIONAL DEFICIENCIES, AND I CAN SAID THAT IS THE CELLULAR NUTRITION, ALLERGIES, SENSITIVITIES, AND BAD BRAIN PROGRAMMING,THE MONSTERS BEHIND THE PANIC ATTACKS, ANXIETY, DEPRESSION AND PHOBIAS.
      BECAUSE MENTAL, EMOTIONAL AND SPIRITUAL ILLNESSES ARE NOT INSIDE A SOLID
      MEDICAL PROTOCOL, AS HUMANS WE HAVE THE TENDENCY TO THINK, DON'T WORRY
      THIS WILL PASS, UNTIL THE DAY OUR LOVE ONES DECIDE TO COMMIT SUICIDE, THEN
      IS TO LATE, TO WANT TO KNOW, WHY, AND HOW, THE TREATMENT IS SIMPLE BUT IS SEEMS
      THAT PEOPLE LAUGH ABOUT IT.
      A PATIENT IN THAT SITUATION NEED TO STOP EVERYTHING HE IS DOING, STOP SCHOOL, STOP WORKING, STOP DOING CHORES, STOP DOING ERRANT, CLEANING, EVERYTHING.
      !!!! GO ON MENTAL VACATIONS, AND ASK THEM OR ASK YOURSELF WHAT IS WHAT I
      LIKE TO DO FOR FUN, FOR PLEASURE, FOR ENTERTAINMENT, AND TRY LITTLE BY LITTLE,
      PRETENDING THAT YOU HAVE, NO OBLIGATIONS, NO RESPONSIBILITIES, NO COMPROMISES, YOU DON'T NEED TO SEE ANYONE IF YOU DON'T WANT, AND YOU HAVE
      PROFESSIONAL ASSISTANCE THROUGH THIRD PARTIES. !!!
      A PROFESSIONAL HOMEOPATHY, A NUTRITIONIST, A SET OF ALL THE VITAMINS, MINERALS, AMINO ACIDS, ANTIOXIDANTS, GOOD, FRESH AND MEANINGFUL FOOD, AND SPECIALLY, PEACE, ACCOMPANIMENT SELF STEM, AND CONFIDENCE, LOVE, ATTENTION, 75% OF ALL THIS DON'T COST A CENT.
      BUT NOBODY TELL US WHAT TO DO, AND NOBODY BORN WITH THE INFORMATION.
      I WISH EVERYBODY CAN READ THIS AND SAVE THE DRAMATIC AND HORRIFIC LIFE THAT AND INDIVIDUAL ARE LIVING EVERY DAY, IN SILENCE, UNTIL THEY CAN'T NO MORE.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 3 роки тому +1

      David, Reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Day or night, when taking a walk, when reading, on the phone, before sleep etc sit or lie down and observe your breath. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

  • @Slushii24
    @Slushii24 4 роки тому +3

    I have anxiety and I can relate to this and some of my friends misunderstood me because they didn’t understand anxiety isn’t something anyone can’t control he is right

  • @megastar3740
    @megastar3740 4 роки тому +7

    I really feel for this guy. This is how I’ve been feeling a lot about the pandemic that’s around right now. May god bless your soul and kid there are better times ahead 💜⭐️

  • @alanroberts7916
    @alanroberts7916 3 роки тому +1

    As a sufferer I know that you hear a lot of different things. The one thing that helped me was when my counselor asked me to try not to fight the harmless feelings associated with these episodes. And being willing to go all the way with my feelings. This one thing helped me to overcome the cloud of doom that used to follow me.

  • @lalinanai7987
    @lalinanai7987 3 роки тому +5

    Having anxiety is the worst!!! I honestly don’t wish it upon anyone 😖

    • @masuki5533
      @masuki5533 3 роки тому

      Yup I hope u get better it will be hard but u can do it