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can i please get an xbox
@Demon_CatBoy tf
Please make gay guys speed dating.
👀
Yo guys why dont you give more time for them to talk at the end and why didn't we get any girls opinion? I feel like the vid was rushed
Respect to the girl who sent in a *picture of a fly*
I broke my feet today because I kicked my computer because someone commented that my videos are bad! I hate unjustified criticism. Please wish me a speedy recovery, dear arc
@@AxxLAfriku No offense but I think you need a therapist or something
@@aman_01ahmad33 full offense
@@plumpbosom3670 My message wasn't for you so why would you think I would value your concern?
HHAHAHAHA THANK U🙏🙏😩
Having to leave a dating game because you have never dated before is like those internship offers that require a previous internship, like how do I even
That's such a perfect analogy actually, lol
me since I graduated lol
so true.
Let people have preferences that increase the likelihood of them being happy in it. Don't get triggered because you don't comply with those standards
pls he‘s even counting his middle school relationship as a real relationship like 😃✋
Reason why he’s an introvert:
This man typed “LMAOOO” while sitting in front of 20 people, 10 of whom can see his face, and didn’t even make a sound.💀
BYE I DIDNT EVEN THINK ABOUT THAT
Lmao (fr) but that’s so embarrassing
Introverted dsnt mean socially awkward or reserved wtf. Nor does being an extrovert mean your loud
i say lmao and lol and dont laugh lol (i just did it
i usually dont laugh when i say lmao or lol.
i know bros self esteem took a huge jump when nobody left lmao
i think the girls were being nice and didn't want to look like assholes on camera/peer pressure also they had driven all the way there and signed up etc why leave before the game even begins?
@@AlliandoX okay what about girls who left in other episodes?
@@bladerunner5340 different girls goody
Why does a 19 year old want someone with experience? I swear dating is like an entry level job that requires 5 years of experience.
😂😂I was in absolute shock here like even love you need experience now 💁🏾♀️
Its because he has to choose people who are more likely to be a succesful partner. It sounds weird but its called a speeddate for a reason
@@TJ-bd7et as teenagers tho, that bit of "relationships" people have at 16 is not relationship experience. Thats why some people peak in highschool because once you actually need substance to keep partners they fall through
@@karikling8812 well he wanted a speeddate and he makes great use of it. If you want to spend half of your life to fund the perfect partner thats ok
If he has a busy life or just want to do a quick speeddate thats ok too
@@yakb.7690 i dont know if this is related withmy comment?
First rule of introvert club: there is no introvert club. Thank goodness.
If there was it would consist of people grabbing food and then going to eat in their car, alone
We just hype each other up
Separately
From our rooms
In our minds
Hahaha that's funny af
That's it, I know it's early but I'm calling it... that honestly has to be the joke of the year.
I highly doubt I'm going hear/read a better joke than that this entire year
@@Anny-me9ny that’s something I would do 😂
I gift my boyfriend songs and hand written letters, it's really not about the materialism lol
Hand written letters are the best. 🙌
On point
No you don't.
true, but i feel like he was talking about expensive gifts- and probably buying from large capitalist companies 😕. handwritten letters & songs are cute asl though
Omg that is so sweet!!
"I'm an introvert"
"Had 3 girlfriends"
You're on this council, but we do not grant you the rank of Master.
introvert does not mean socially awkward
@@Lucia-jy1ig nobody said it does, but it means you prefer time alone, having 3 gf at ur 19 +school+work other things doesnt seem introverted at all
@@getachew. it means you prefer time alone it doesn’t mean your withdrawn from society lol that’s some anti social anxiety stuff. Introvert can relationships
@@getachew. introverts are allowed to participate in normal societal things lmao what
this is outrageous this is unfair
why does a 19 year kid need a date with "previous boyfriends" like fam you just graduated high school chill
Lmao I’m in primary school (elementary/middle school ig, I’m 13) and no one has been in any kind of relationship, every time love is mentioned, my classmates just go OOOOHH EWWWWW and stuff like that lol
Some of us wish that we were appreciated by someone
13 14 years old girls are getting pregnant in almost every high school I'm not saying it's a good thing or not just saying it as a fact so a 19 guy wanting someone with experience doesn't really seem weird
@@lailybegum2687 okay I’m not from the us, so this is really scary, is this true? Bc I’m shocked wtf
@@sapphirec_5689 sadly it is, at least where I'm from I've heard quite a few rumors (and have seen one with my own eyes) of girls getting pregnant around 14-17 and having children. There was even a senior in my high school that got pregnant a year or so ago. Its crazy :/
And this dude counted a middle school relationship as one of his experiences lmao what a joke
Confidence is not walking into a room thinking you’re better than everyone, its walking into a room not comparing yourself to anyone at all.
Humans are naturally competitive people, so yeah try to tone it down a bit.
Yes.
@Demon_CatBoy i can be your catMAN baby ;))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Something that helps me feel more confident in myself is feeling mentally like I'm better than everyone around me not having it necessarily be true but having that confidence in myself allows me to be more confident overall and it does not translate whatsoever to how I communicate with others
wise words!🤌🏽
"If you've never been in a relationship, could you leave the circle"
*bruh*
Hmm ya . That’s why he always broke up . Well deserved
I felt a little second hand embarrassment
I would have said the opposite. He wants used goods.
dont women absurd preferences tooo? when men do it it is objectionable
He's just young and naïve, his tastes will flip by his mid 20s and he will be looking for those chicks with minimum experience(trauma and baggage)
I don't like the fact that he rejected the girls who weren't in relationships ever before. It doesn't have to be multiple relationships to learn about the relationship. It's all depends upon you. You can find a shitty girl who has been in multiple relationships or girl has been not in any relationship.
Hii indian mate!!!
@@rishavjadon4328 hello buddy!😊
It’s his preference, not for you to like or care
@@raphaelostrowski6336 He is putting it up for millions to see. Then we're allowed to have opinions. As long as they're respectful
I would have this criteria too, but I'm in my 30s. If I'd meet a guy now that hasn't been in a relationship at my age, he would most likely be very exhausting to date. But this guy was only 19, so he's just barely an adult. By my age the vast majority have been in a relationship, but his age maybe only a small majority, if even that.
They should have him pick one person at the end and they talk. What a terrible ending 😂
Agree!!! Such a strange ending
cliff hanger
right omg i wish there was a part 2 or something lol
Yeah it seemed so random to end with still having 4 girls left. Like why not have 1 on 1 texts then the guy choosing one of them or whatever
it is so sad. because we dont even get an insight of any of thede girls. neither from the outside nor from the inside
I imagine my self being in his spot surrounded by people focussed on you it's scary
@Demon_CatBoy go back to discord
wait I'm confused to why they didn't just do the regular format or if they do it this way, why have them sit right in front of him? I feel like you would instinctively rank all of em by their physical appearance as soon as they sit down
@Demon_CatBoy begone furry!
Ikr, I'm so stressed watchimg him and it's only been 2 minutes
It seems so fun 😭😭😭
Alissa is a keeper. I loved the line at 5:36 where she said, "I'm outgoing so if you a lil shy then I gotchyu."
I want someone with that kind of understanding. Someone who can bring me out of my shell a little bit. Someone who can just spark that inner conversationalist deep down within me. I've had friends like that, and there's no better feeling than having someone who's so different from you but so understanding of you.
alr dean gulston
cringe
He's looking at it the wrong way. The people who have been in too many relationships can tend to be the ones who are more immature and shifts around between partners a lot, while the ones who can rely on themselves more can often be the more stable ones and don't need to rush into love
The girls who left for never being in a relationship, yet. Y'all will find your man one day!
@sam w I get where you're coming from and I understand. There is one thing I noticed though, Ageism ("this 19 year old baby" phrase was bitter). Judging a person's understanding of themselves and maturity based on their age shows lack of maturity. We do get matured each second of our lives, we are obviously more mature and self-aware than we were an year ago. It still does not mean that a 13 or 17 year old does not have self-awareness and understanding of what they want for themselves. I am myself a 23 year old, and trust me I used to be like this before the pandemic. I don't blame you. I understood this when I had an argument about races with my 76 year old educated yet racist grandfather, and he was not even ready to listen to my point of view because he is older than me. This shows lack of maturity even in a 70 year old man.
I also need you to understand that everyone has a certain preference and awareness about what they need in a certain relationship. We have to find someone who's views about relationships match ours, and out of 8 billion people in the world, we will find someone who's puzzle of requirements and type we fit. Trust this. Infact, his needs were the most practical I have seen on Jubilee. Maybe he has had a bad experience in his first and wants to take decisions based on that. He was the most mature person ever to have been here, more than many 30 year old chicks who eliminate based on sun signs. He sounds pretty self-aware about his needs (inspite of his age).
@sam w this!!
@sam w its just a preference! i think he has the right to choose to not be somebody’s first love. i think some people (including myself) had to mess up their first love/relationship to realize what it means to be a partner and how to be in a healthy relationship. without my first f*ck up i wouldnt be the great girlfriend i am today! :)
@sam w I agree. I got into my first relationship at 24 as well. I will say that being independent for so long I knew what I wanted in a relationship and waited until I found the right person to commit to. I was comfortable being by myself and I think that is the most important thing to have before going into a relationship. But hey, they're kids and have quite a lot to learn at that age.
Yay
He's a sweet guy but when he said "if you've never been in a relationship, leave the circle" he screwed up in my opinion.
yeah right, like he doesn't even have experience his using his ego a lot
Exactly like who wants a chick who's been round ten blocks?
Its a speeddate. Its better for him to choose someone who is more likely to have a successful relationship
I wouldnt have said that but i understand him and its a good point even tho he said it in a rude way
@@TJ-bd7et he’s only 19 tho and he counted a middle school relationship as a relationship smh he hardly has any experience himself like 3 short relationships in high school isn’t much experience compared to one relationship lasting a few years. And a lot of people don’t start getting into relationships until 20-23 so I didn’t understand his logic.
@@cookiesarelikecream what are you trying to say with this? That he should say this when he is in a normal date? If you do mean this i agree.
But as i said its called a speeddate, you need to be quick/fast to eliminate people who doesnt require your expectations. It sounds weird i know but thats what speeddates are all about. You cant just sit there and talk to every individual and judge them based on who they are because you dont have the time for that because its a speeddate
No girls who’ve never been in a relationship? People literally get married after their first relationship and it works just fine.
That's very rare though
@@BatmanMefr22 not necessarily it’s very common in cultures outside of America
Well it also goes the other way around. I've been in relationships with people who have never been in relationships and it went poorly lol. He probably also had a negative experience with someone who didn't have previous experience and want so avoid that again
@@blache24 And these people you've dated had a bad relationship with someone with previous experience (you) so by your logic they should avoid people with experience from now on xd
That is EXTREMELY rare...
Mans got a dating ego even tho he only dated in middle/high school, interesting
XQCL
RIGHT
A girl probably told him that he’s her boyfriend, he said okay, they awkwardly high-fived and never spoke to each other again
lmao right, i thought it was so funny that he included middle school relationships
He doesn’t have an ego u just salty
as an introvert, i don’t think i would even have the guts to do this 😭
introvert and social anxiety are two different things (albeit quite correlated)
@@jinjunliu2401 i’m extroverted and have social anxiety. I feed off of socializing but it’s also draining because I overthink. I wish I’d learn the difference sooner.
i would have loved a more introverted person on this, to show what most of us are going through.
i am a INTJ maybe if someone challenged me to the point of hurting my ego i will sign up then question myself through the whole process BUT asking trap question because this is my specialty lol i watch people without interfering so i can say i am a good analyzer
@@williamholder-soto8350 Damn that sounds very harsh if you're an extrovert, I hope you'll be able to grow out of your social anxiety!
It sounds a bit unfair to those ladies who’re eliminated because they’ve never been in a relationship. People never been in relationships are sometimes more mature than those who’ve been in multiple ones.
yesss.... sometimes people just are mature and smart enough to not get in a relationship with idiots in high school.
It ain't that big of a deal
Literally though. Honestly I'd go as far to say most of them are more mature around his age. It shows they were mature enough to wait for someone special. (No shade to people who dated before they were 18 or anything. I dated at 16. I just feel like my friends that waited till college were usually more mature than my friends that had several relationships in high/middle school. Obviously some people meet someone truly special when they're young too.)
@@coastlec4508 ye
True. Sometimes (not all the time, just sometimes) there’s a reason why that person hasn’t had a sticking relationship.
He’s definitely a kid if he equates receiving/giving gifts =materialistic 😂
Exactly.... If a person is only involved in taking/receiving gifts only.
Then, maybe that's materialism but, a lot of couples do give/receive gifts.
He just wants a girl he can cuddle with
Ummm, u dont need “experience” to know who you’re compatible with and how to treat someone with respect and love. Its not black or white. Someone could have hundreds of short relationships - that could be a massive red flag which doesnt really reflect maturity. So thats an unfair criteria to ask for. You lost so many chances with the other women that left
You kinda do tho
Who cares? There are 7 billion other people.
@@user-gb9lz5ee7g no you don’t. A lot of people find their person in their first relationship.
You really complaining about unfair in the dating games, lmfao.
You guys keep saying "is he rlly an introvert" or "if he's an introvert then what am I", introverts aren't necessarily anti social or shy, they just like being alone more than being with people.
Yeah, they don't have to come in the same package
Oh my god thank youuuu. People really don't know that its how you recharge your energy that makes you an Introvert / Extrovert
@@Zoe-xb6jd
Well that is the case more often than not.
Yup yup. I'm practically a hermit, but I can do small talk with strangers no problem, present a presentation, etc. I just hit a point where I hate all social contact get away from me if you don't have food hiss. But yeah. I think enough people in this thread will get that. xD
also it's not always black or white,some people are more introverted than others
Gift giving/receiving as a love language is not “materialistic” at all. It could literally be a chocolate bar. The point is to show your partner that you were thinking of them.
Agreed, receiving flowers, or gifting them, something simple as that can be such a beautiful gift and I wouldn't call that materialistic.
A chocolate bar is still something you have to buy
Exactly. Knowing little things about someone and what they like and need is so special. It shows you think about them and put in the effort. It's one of the ways to do something special.
Also I just think all of the elimination criteria were quite baseless, maybe your perfect partner is someone who is the same height as you and hasn't been in a relation because they haven't found the one. Not a critique of him or the video, just a thought that don't have baseless filters when looking for love.
@@ocp5062 its not materialistic bruh
I agree with him, whenever I get gifts I always feel like I should always return the offer but I don’t know what to give so it ends up being kinda stressful for me
Eliminating everyone with no dating history is such a bad move. Everyone is different
What raises concern is the part when he adds "acts of service" to the love langage he perceives materialistic, such as gifts and buying the girl stuff. I almost hear him say "when times get rough, I'll be the first to let you down".
Second, he requires teens with previous relationships. By 30, he would want "someone without baggage"
Receiving gifts isn’t about materialism, it’s about feeling appreciated in the form of any gift. It can literally be just a sticky note but to someone whose love language is receiving gifts, it’ll mean a lot.
EXACTLY! That’s not even my primary but I’m tired of people associating the gift receiving love language with shallowness. Give me a leaf for all I care it’s sweet to know someone is thinking of you in strange momens
@@Jo-qw2xr aw the leaf is like machi from fruits basket
it's not like about the gift, but to feel appreciated
Exactly! I hated how he diminishes that love language! it can be a lollipop, a post-it, it doesn't have to do with the cost. Also, in his logic, he should have accepted the "acts of service" love language, quality time, being there for someone is an act of service. I don't know, it made me dislike him the way he discarded them.
@@marysl5469 I am so confused about him adding act of service too.
The gifts thing isn’t really only materialism ... it shows love because it isn’t always a “wow expensive stuff” thing it can be anything ...
Right? Gift giving has more to do with showing the person you pay attention to them and think about what they as an individual would appreciate.
Yep! My love language is gift giving and it makes me feel so loved and appreciated when my husband brings me home my favourite snack unprompted. Shows me he was thinking of me. His love language is physical touch so I make sure to be extra cuddly and touchy so he feels loved too, even though physical touch isn’t super necessary for me.
Yeah something I could think of is just a simple flower🙃
i agree!!! i dont think its obnoxious at all. its my fav love language and i love giving as a gesture of how appreciative i am of someone and i can give them things close to their heart when they're down- doesn't have to be necessarily expensive at all:)
Also act of service is such a nice love language someone making efforts to make your life easier and chow you support amazing!
When I say my love language is gift giving/receiving I don't mean I expect high end things. I appreciate the thought and effort you put in to get this item, maybe you think it suits me or something I'd like. I have cried at someone giving me a bag of chips before lol. And when I gift someone something, my heart is really happy if I see you using it or cherishing it.
Literally cried when my friend bought me ketchup when I had none to go with my fries😭🤣
dude same like if someone picked up a rock and gave it to me cuz they thought it was cool I would be so grateful
I hated hearing that about gift giving. That’s how I show people I love them, and I feel like it doesn’t have to be things you buy for them. It could be things you make. Even freakin pocket lint man, anything given in the right time.
as an introvert, this guy has balls
Unlike the autobots that call themselves “males”🥴
Highkey, I would be stressin
they must've paid him a bit to do this
I wish they’d do video with someone with social anxiety. Someone trying to improve themselves.
Not much of a introvert
This guy takes an L on the gift giving/receiving part. How can you turn away a girl that likes to bake you a cake? He should have said materialistic people.
Hisoka with the facts
YES SO TRUE HISOKA
I would find it suspicious when people give me gifts randomly. It means they messed up, feel guilty about something and want to do something nice for me so they feel better with themselves.
Unless it's a birthday or something.
Probably because he feels like he would have to give a gift back and he probably wouldn't be able to a good one back?
@@Manic_Panic Yikes, I feel bad for your future relationships, your partner won't even be able to give you nice surprises without you becoming suspicious, that suspicion could escalate into fights, your partner learns not to give you nice gifts randomly to avoid suspicion and fights, so they suppress their urge to gift you things just to be nice, sounds like a sad cycle to me
I don’t understand how he can hate on a love language.... everybody shows love differently, and it’s about the effort of getting a gift for someone and shows they’ve been thinking of the other... it’s such a personal thing to judge somebody for
As an introvert, this whole experience makes me cringe.
I’m an introvert and he handled this super well
ok Tommy Perez
@@kulamen lol what
You already know he's not a introvert since he agreed to do this show
@@izukumidoriya2143 he looked a little nervous but nothing compared to how I’d be
People can be introverted but not be shy
I think some ppl are confusing being an introvert with having social anxiety. Introversion just means that you sometimes need more time for yourself, recharging your batteries because social interactions drain you and sometimes you just enjoy solitude, it doesn't mean that you are afraid or nervous when talking with ppl. You can ofc be an introvert and have social anxiety.
Finally, someone who understands. This is always the misconception with introversion, and is also why being introverted gets looked down upon.
Exactly
Exactly ^^^
Yes, exactly! Thank you!!! I've noticed that there are a lot of "subjective" definitions and interpretations on many of these videos. Introversion vs extraversion and another examples are the Love Languages...it doesn't seem like they actually read the book or read the descriptors of each language and understand what it is meant by them. It's like they only took the quiz or determined what language they hand simply by hearing the names of them. I enjoy the interactions but when it comes to this, it's kind of frustrating to watch!
Welp, I'm an introvert, I'm shy and I have social anxiety/anti-social
I like giving/receiving, whether a gift or a hand(help) to show affection and love. I don’t think it makes me selfish or materialistic because gift doesn’t mean it should be an expensive Chanel bag or jewelry. Even a homemade card or a pretty pen is good enough to make me happy.
gifts as a love language shows that the person is about action rather than words. free my girls from the shackles of the bare minimum
Fun Fact: introverted doesn’t mean shy
common misconception :)
I agree, but when "introvert" is searched the first word on google for the definition is "shy". I feel like there are so many definitions of introversion at this point.
It doesn't, but it's still related to introversion. It's one factor of introversion.
I KNOWWWW RIGHTTT. As a psychology graduate, this really bothers me. You can interact with people just fine without being shy and still an introvert if you choose to be alone to charge your eneegy. You also can be socially awkward but you're an extroverted if you prefer to be around people when you need to charge your energy.
I mean it kinda does lmao
"If anyone is not interested in going on a date with Waimin, please leave the circle"
Everyone stays.
DUDE IS ON FIREEE
This is the biggest case of DSing i’ve ever seen.
If I was him my confidence would skyrocket
If I was there I would stay too
TBH they're teenagers so...
I was so happy for him, but surprised.
I kind of hate how gift giving as a love language seems to be seen as materialism. I'm in a long distance relationship (for now 🤞hopefully can be always irl soon) and I find it especially nice to give gifts in this situation. Having physical reminders of your loved one when they're not around is such a relief. Of course I adore quality time and physical touch when possible too but... Of course it's not always possible. Gift giving doesn't have to be big. My boyfriend gives me shirts that he outgrew. I gave him a jacket that ended up being oversized on me. We give each other near-empty bottles of cologne or perfume to spray and remember each others smells. I love to craft and draw and paint and spend hours perfecting letters and envelopes to nail him. He's a woodworker and will carve and make things he knows I'll love. That's what gift giving can also mean.
3:46 them yelling models models is so cute lol, love the hype
How the girls chatted w/ each other is how women should always treat each other
Girls are always friendly and sweet to your face but as soon as they’re away from you
“Omg why’d he choose her she was so ugly”
“She was so skinny she didn’t even have a butt”
the list goes on
@@glamam3914 this circle didn't seem like one maybe earlier videos but definitely not this one.
But then again that is BEHAVIOUR and shouldn't be entitled to some gender ig
@@glamam3914 idk what type of girls ur hanging out with but the ones that ik or met are definitely not like that
@sam w just by the way she looked at her you could tell? i don't think you should assume negative things about people by the way they look and then rationalize it. you really can't tell until u hear it. (on a side note: i realize i sound aggressive but that wasn't my intention, sorry)
Receiving gifts doesn’t make someone materialistic it’s just how they feel loved. It’s about knowing that person was thinking about you or put time into something for you. It’s not for everyone but no need to shame how people love and feel loved.
It's not shame, it's just compatibility lol. Find another fellow gifter then; if they're not don't shame THEM
@@deedelta9263 I think they mean he was shaming it when it's just not for him like which is fine but no need to make people whos love language is gifts. I think we should accept each other for each other's love languages and if it's not for you then it's not for you move on then.
I agree lol. He’s young, maybe one day he’ll understand
yeah cuz gifts can be really nice & thoughtful. a gift can be something you made yourself so in that way, it isn’t even materialistic because you didn’t spend moneu
I agree everyone expresses love differently.
However id rather be with someone who would share the same love language as me (affirmation). So I get where he is coming from
I'm so happy this series is back!! Such a fave
Am I the only one who thinks this is extremely dystopian?
What
what do you mean
Yh seems a bit black mirrory
Oh wow, none of the girls rejected him.
He's good looking and seemed like a nice guy I wouldn't leave either if I was there.
Air time
I would cause I ain't gay
@@diegoa3817 then you wouldn't even be there in the first place lol it was about a straight guy speed dating 20 GIRLS not other dudes
@@diegoa3817 ok your point?
‘Gift giving’ is one of my love languages and I feel like he portrayed it in a bit of an unfairly negative light by linking it to consumerism. To me, ‘gift giving’ is about knowing the other person’s interests and the things that make them happy and surprising them with those things in order to make their day. It can be as simple as offering to do a chore in their stead if you see that they are tired or maybe picking up their favourite chocolate when you go grocery shopping, even when it wasn’t on the list. Just wanted to clear that up lol
It could be. But it all varies. Especially on the expectation side, it can put A LOT of stress & pressure on the other person, even more so if you're the type that wants gifts fairly frequently (compared to others, not saying a golddigger or anything)
Damn, I never thought of it that way. I usually just give money. You got me overthinking now..lol
Doing a chore in their stead is usually in the “acts of service” love language though. Gift giving as a love language is as it sounds but more like “I saw x and I bought it for you cause it reminded me of you or I thought it’d bring a smile to your face” sort of vibes.
Agreeeeeeed, for me it's also tied to buying gifts for occasions, like housewarming gifts, flowers and baby clothes for someone who's just given birth, a bottle of champagne for someone who's graduated n that sort of thing - it doesn't have to be expensive! It's thoughtful and it's an extension of resources (money, time etc) to someone you care about
Yeah it doesn't have to be a big gift, it's the thought behind it. A gift could be small or homemade.
Nietzsche said in one of his books that giving can be seen as adding to someones 'baggage' so the best gift would actually be to take some weight of them. And I do think sometimes gifts/services are exactly that. A token of appreciation, something to make you smile or helps you through the day or can help lift a burden of your shoulders. When my bf was hella tired i cleaned up for him and made dinner. Not because I expected something in return, but just for him not to be stressed when he wakes up - and ofc then we can have more and better quality time while enjoying dinner together :) so even if you do have different love languages, it doesn't mean you're not compatible. it just depends on your expectations and needs.
but the problem for men and what he is saying is, 'no gold digging'
Everyone in the comment section is bent out of shape, when I think he handled himself pretty well & was rather sweet throughout the video. It's okay for someone to have a standard when looking for a partner, that you wouldn't have in their situation.
"And he thinks he's an introvert?"
*Continues watching*
"Well fuck I'm very introverted."
Llp
Its because people confuse introvertedness and shyness
@@jasmijn697 mhm they're correlated, but I would say I'm a pretty friendly introvert. Like I will talk to people even if I don't know them, but only for so long before I'm exhausted from social interaction.
He's had 3 relationships
@@jasmijn697 yeah cause introverted just means being better at one on one conversations opposed to group setting and also getting drained by social interaction
I don't blame him for wanting someone who has been in a relationship already, but my now-husband was my first real relationship and we've been happily married for almost 6 years. It's possible to find love without "experience"
aha thank you for thisss
This makes me feel much better :’) I was so hurt when he eliminated the ones who’ve had no previous experience. Like damn I didn’t think guys truly cared about that 🥲 LOL
@@KrisyKreme right it also made me so confused like buddy if y’all all keep that energy some people will never date
@@tayaaliz4088 exactly!!!
@@KrisyKreme thats def a weird preference and some of the girls that left were actually super attractive and had great personalities
1:25 out of all the scent bird ads that youtubers do; this was the most wholesome one👍🏽😌
I instantly loved whoever it was that send the pic of a cockroach or whatever bug edit pic 😭💗
I think many people don't understand that if your love language is giving/receiving gifts it doesn't mean you are materialistic. A gift can be anything that shows someone thought about you. It can be a drawing, a letter, or just something you can hold onto to be reminded of that special person. Doesn't need to be expensive stuff
For some it is though. For a scenario like this, I can see why someone wouldn't want to take their chances, especially if its very low on the list for them
I agree. I appreciate gift giving/receiving, but it's not about spending money, it's about finding something meaningful or sentimental for them
A friend once gave me a plastic spoon with a face on it in sharpie over a decade ago... and I still have it.
exactlyyy omg i just like to show i care :,)
I agree. I show love and like to receive love thorough gift giving but people always have misunderstanding 😭
He's cute & respectful i wish he finds someone that understands him well😌
It’s a persona in front of the camera. People may call it cynical but it’s true.
@Demon_CatBoy 😅😅
@@anti.bctards7376 yeah true
@Demon_CatBoy LMAO
@Demon_CatBoy OH MY GAWD QUEEN-
I love that jubilee is doing younger people, teens.Its so much easier to relate too than these older adults.
I don’t think giving gifts/acts of service means a person is materialistic? It just means I’m thinking of someone, also it’s a nice way of showing that you actually listen to them and know what they like. lmfao
His statment about the love language of gifts is so superficial. This typ of love languages is not about materialism. It is about seeing somebody put effort in something for you and caring about what you would enjoy or be happy about. It is not only about receiving hundreds of gifts, it is about being thoughtful and expressing that in an visible sign. For example: a planned day together, a selfmade photo album or a cooked dinner
That statement of yours is how u see it . But it could be completely different for the others .
For some it could be about materialism and that's why it's call love languages , if this is the case he is smart enough to dodge a bullet in minute that's for sure
I don't like exchanging gifts aswell, not even with friends, if someone wants to show me affection I just need them to write me or ask me to hang out, that's the effort I want from people, I don't really care about receiving something that I could buy myself or maybe that I don't even like
he is so scared that the women are after money he doesn't have
_[Girls walking in the room.]_
- *Introverted Person:* “This is a nightmare. Why did I sign up for this.”
Fr
"Remember, it's for the pay, it's all about the money... That's it... The money..."
Quite an indictment of how people actually feel glued to their phones all the time. You see all the texts with Lol, lmao, haha, and other emojis, but when the camera pans up, all you see is deadpan faces staring at the screens. No one is actually having a good time there
I too am an introvert.
Binge watching Jubilee videos makes me feel loved indirectly. 🥺
No one else annoyed that we didn't see him choose one?
I definitely am 🤣
He took home all 4 of them
@@Mesjach what q Chad
I agree it was hella annoying
@@esmeraldaceja6426 don’t lie , you just wanna be nosy
Damn, I was lowkey rooting for Alissa, she was on top of her game the whole time. I've never seen a girl flirting so smoothly.
thanks i appreciate it🥰
@@nihalr_ yes hehe
@@AlissaGomez you got social media
@@TJ-bd7et ol
@@AlissaGomez so yall got together or what? Lol
Okay but I love how supportive all of the girls are w each other 🥰 love to see it
Once again 7:14 I NEED THAT BEAT OR INSTRUMENTALLL bcc jubilee always using such good audiosss
I see a lot of people doubting that Waimin is actually introverted based on the video, but I can verify as his roommate that he’s currently trying his best to ignore that this video exists lmao
you're his roomate? thats cool
How much did he get paid for this skit
Tell him it's okay bro, I'm sure he created the materialism thing off of the spot, Jubilee literally asked and people in the comments are giving him a hard time about it lmfao..
Tell him he's cute
brought it on himself
I think this is the sweetest guy they've had on
Yeah made for a bit of a boring episode tho imo
@@HF-tj8db um I found it even more interesting 4sure
@@HF-tj8db in what way?
There was a korean version where the guy said the girls have to be between 45-55kg, that was pretty brutal
I feel like he wasn't very interesting tho like his dealbreakers didn't make sense to me, but the producers probably chose them lol. I wish we got to see more of his personality
gift giving to me is a way to capture the little things. i will notice little things about that person and take into consideration what they love. when im getting a gift, i think of those things. when i love someone, i see the beauty in them, then i start to see their beauty all around me, it could be a little flower on a walk or a song that sounds like them. i often find things or even moments in a day that remind me of my loved ones. i capture those little things for my loved ones, to say im thinking of them. to tell your loved one, hey, i gotchu. its the little moments in life that are beautiful. gift giving as a love language is often seen as materialistic, but its so much more than that. its lovely to know that even something simple reminds your love of how special you are to them.
I like receiving gifts and I’m not materialistic. In fact I’m a minimalist. I also love giving gifts ❤️ sometimes I hear my friend talk about a book they’re interested in and I give it to them for an occasion because I was listening to them. I think it’s a wonderful way to show you we’re listening. There’s nothing wrong with not liking gifts or to giving them but you shouldn’t undermine this act of love language
Rejecting people simply because they've never been in a relationship? Isn't the point of this series to hopefully set someone up? Doesn't seem right.
Yeah, I thought that was cold too. And he's only been in 3. It's not like he's a stud or something (not saying he's bad either, just 3 is not very far from 0)
He did say 1st ones are bad in his exp so I guess it's kinda justifiable?
Yeah he's trying to get setup with the right person. I think it's reasonable to eliminate people with no experience.
yeah cuz why does it matter whether they’ve been in a relationship or not?
@karina why would the relationship not last with somebody who has no experience?
kinda weird how he wouldnt want someone that would be in their first relationship especially sine tthey are all teens. Some people make it into there mid20s before dating someone
Yup, I'm 27, never dated anyone. Just haven't found the right match yet and I don't see a problem in that. This criteria is so weird to me, but oh well.
@M U I am calm lol
Yep. 27 here. Not done that relationship thing yet. Plenty of my friends my age are the same.
@@Taleneki Spinster 🤢.
@@gens0kyo Sad to hear that you think a person's worth is dependent on whether they date/how many people they've dated. As if being single is something bad. You think calling me "spinster" would insult me, but I'm very happy with my life, a special someone would just be the cherry on top, my happiness doesn't depend on being with someone, unlike yours apparently. 😊
8:30 That point about having a different personality while texting is so accurate
You can tell he feel very guilty by looking in his face when he asked them to leave the circle since no one left the circle when they were asked to leave if they’re not interested
anyone else think its kinda weird he asked the never been in relationship girls to leave the circle...i mean everyone's never been in a relationship at some point...
well he did explain that it’s because he believes that first relationships don’t work out well
@@summerain yeah yeah....i guess i kinda get that
@@lylabingham its a speeddate and its pretty smart off him to even think of this. This makes his chances allot higher to find that perfect girl in that room
See it as a little game
@@TJ-bd7et yeah i agree...i mean at least he knew what he wanted
@@lylabingham ye he could have said it in a nicer way tho
At this point I'm confused about discriminating by height. I prefer shorter girls but its not even close to a breaker.
Exactly lol.. I'm an almost 5"7 and I prefer taller guys but my bf is literally almost 5"9 but our equation's great so I don't see the issue lol
I don't know if I'd call it discriminating, people are allowed to have preferences. This guy probably just wants to be a bit taller than his girl. I'm a really tall guy, so I prefer tall girls. That's life.
Yeah I mean irl if one or two of these things were true but the rest was ok he would still wanna date her perhaps. But the producers literally tell him to come up with some deal breakers as part of the game so if ur 5 7 irl he’s not gonna say nah u gotta shrink an inch
Everyone has their own preferences. He had his own and he was being respectful. He did not say taller girls aren't good looking or anything he was literally asked to pick any attribute on physical appearance and he choosed height cuz that's was his preference and what he was comfortable with. There was no discrimination there.
@@poejavelski148 Yeah I just...couldn't think of a better word? Lol
Love languages is not about choosing the way you want your partner to feel love it's about learning more about them so you can show it to them in the way they feel loved. IMO there's no bad love languages and if I truly loved someone I would show it in whatever way I needed to.
P.S. Most of the time receiving gifts isn't about materialism, it's about doing something nice for someone and putting thought into something.
It is materialism. Men are maturing now a days
@@mrj8940 Huh? What does this have to do with men maturing??
6:24 my love language is receiving gifts and giving. When I receive a gift the first thing I think about my gifts is what made you think of me. Putting thought into a gift and thinking about what this person would like makes me feel loved. When I shop or make gifts for people I love to try to get gifts that they would love, help them, and makes them feel appreciated.
I like when she said "models, models" for the girls that left
His heavy breathing when the girls started walking in. Lmfao the definition of INTROVERT.
there isnt a thing introverted about this guy lol, a true introvert wouldnt even sit in front of a camera EVER let along have 20 girls sit around him LOL
@@kostajankovic9285 Yeah I thought those type of people swan dive off bridges?
@@kostajankovic9285 why are you the one telling others who is an introvert and who isnt
@@kostajankovic9285 fr, i would never volunteer for something like that. I get nervous when all my friends look at me, let alone a camera und 20 strangers 💀
@@kostajankovic9285 being introverted and having social anxiety are different things...
about receiving gifts as a love language: it's not BAD to have it as your first love language, not at all! it doesn't make you shallow or materialistic. what a lot of people (this guy included) don't understand is that receiving gifts includes things like: my partner goes on a walk and brings me a pretty leaf they found, my partner gives me a picture they drew, my partner makes me some delicious food, my partner lets me have the last slice of pizza, etcetera.
I cannot relate to people who care so much about height. People shorter than me I think are cute. people taller than me I think are hot. People the same height as me I think are relatable and could be either.
Everyone has their own thing, maturity is very important to me, complete dealbreaker if they don't have it on lock. Having relationship experience can be a factor for sure, but it wouldn't be my first thought to find mature people.
Wanting to be an extrovert that pushes you to do new things I understand, though, I don't have a preference because an introvert would more allow me to spend my free time working on my career.
I would feel bad if my partner(s) wanted a lot of gift giving, it's probably the thing I think about the least. Physical touch is basically my number one, casually cuddling is something I can do on a daily basis no problem, no matter what mood I'm in. Other things depend on my mood.
Also, SINCE WHEN are people that flirty and nice?? I know I can be, but it's Very rare when someone reciprocates unironically.
I think receiving gifts as a love language is misunderstood. Someone gave me a rock from the beach a few years ago and I still have it. It doesn’t have to cost money, it just has to be thoughtful and show you know enough about the person to understand them and what they like. Don’t give rocks to everyone lol
So true!!!
Men: “Girls only care about height, it’s so unfair that no one wants to date a short guy”
Also men whenever they meet a girl who’s taller than 5’6: 🏃🏻🏃🏻🏃🏻
Preach
They start jogging
If a girls above 5'6 I consider it to be a huge plus!
Lol they are missing out, As a short guy, I love it when a girl taller than me gets in heels and feels herself around me.
Honestly he was respectful. Theres nothing wrong with having preferences. I do not see anything wrong here.
gift given doesn’t have much to Dow it’s being materialistic but putting a smile on someone’s face
Alissa's spirit is talking through the chat! Looks like a really lovable person!
I'll come back to the comment section once the internet psychologists have spiced things up
LOLLLLL
armchair psychoanalyzers diagnosing somebody with 3 personality disorders based off of a 9 minute video
Are you back yet?
I didn’t like how he talked about gift giving and receiving gifts. Came off very judgmental in a rude way.
Agreed
Yeah fr. Most of the time giving and receiving gifts have nothing to do with being shallow or spending a lot of money and I feel like most people don’t get that. The gift can be as simple as a hand written card. It just shows how much you care
It’s just a different perspective. As a minimalist I can relate to this. I don’t think he meant to come across as rude it’s just something he doesn’t value that you value.
This whole thing is judgemental, thats the point of the epsiode. And his opinion about gifts is valid there alot of materialist people out there
right! he does NOT have an understanding of what love languages are
Gifts are not about the thing you buy for each other but about the fact that you did made time and effort to do make her happy
Alissa was def feeling it lol he should’ve just said receiving as the leave the circle thing cause theirs a big difference in expecting gifts and wanting to give
I don’t agree with his 1st two elimination questions about height & number of people dated. Height shouldn’t matter at all & how many people you’ve dated, especially since a lot of middle school & high school “relationships” end as quickly as they begin
Especially as the first question, why is height so important that you would ask it before anything else?
I wouldn't say "height shouldn't matter at all". It's a subjective preference. Well, one's standards are all subjective preferences. Nothing wrong with wanting things a certain way.
I can understand how people want either shorter or taller but I don’t understand why they feel the need to have a 10 cm gap
Right!!!
You probably don’t agree with it because it’s not your preference.
Just his preference he likes shorter girls, and his preference he wants someone with more experience than none at all.
It’s just the bluntness of speed dating
as an introvert, i actually prefer introverted people because i find them much more tolerable
I’d feel more comfortable becoming more extroverted with another introvert tbh ( hope that makes sense)
Yeah, i thought that was weird. When I'm with someone more extroverted I more often than not feel overshadowed and small rather than empowered
I feel like someone more introverted is more relatable, but having someone more extroverted to kinda like conflict is also good
@@tarokui perfect friend group : 2 intro 1 extro 1 ambivert
Well I didn't like introverts cus as an introvert myself I'd wait for ppl to talk to me instead and my introverted uni friend always doesnt hang out with me in campus and always goes back to her dorm 🙄and unlucky me i live off campus so ya i prefer quiet ppl who don't always stay at home
I love how no girl left when they were asked to leave if they weren't interested. He was so happy
MORE OF THESE PLSSS
Asking girls to leave the circle for never being in a relationship was kinda rude i mean that could be their chance !
Edit : first time i ever receive 400 likes on a comment lol
yeah and they're only around 19! it's normal at this age to never have been in a relationship
@@dauser4 exactly !
It's not rude, rude is saying something about someones tastes just because you don't agree with what they want or like. It's nice of him to say it and not give the girls false hope only to flirt with them and then just ghost them without a reason after making them think they had a connection. Rude would be wasting their time, instead he said it and now those girls can go find a guy that doesn't mind or also hasn't been in a relationship.
true. like sorry i didn’t have a significant other in elementary LMAO
@@Ayveh Oh please, every girl in this circle would ghost him, he's ugly. they're only doing it for the video.
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That’s actually surprising that he rejected the girls who didn’t have previous dating experiences because one their still teenagers and most people nowadays really start dating in their 20s but two a lot of guys (at least in my experience) his age actually prefer girls with less experience because most of them tend to judge girls who have been in a lot of relationships lmaooo