If you are being followed I would recommend going to the nearest police station. That’s usually enough to deter anyone following. They will also most likely have security cameras so you may be able to get their license. And even calling ahead can make it easier for the police to get a license plate number. It’s the same advice for selling items to other people online. Meet at a restaurant or police station to avoid being robbed. The roundabout is new to me though. May try recommending that in the future.
That's what I would have done! I was driving on the road one day, and a vehicle was following in and out of lanes passing cars as I was doing. I redirected myself to the NEAREST police station. They followed me until I pulled into the station. They passed. I parked in the lot so I can see the entrance, I waited 10 minutes, they NEVER came back in the direction. So I felt safe enough to leave and continue to my destination. Usually if you make 4 right turns, the person following won't follow you because they know you know. The roundabout thing is true as well. Sometimes it takes more rounding it than 3 times. Sometimes you just have to wear them out. It sounds stupid, but it works. The police is always the best option. I would have been on the phone with the police while driving, giving them the description of the car, my vehicle and my LP. So they know what I'm driving and what the person behind me is driving. The cops will pull them over and you're safe to go on your way.
When I went luxury shopping this summer while traveling for work, I asked the store to mail the bag to my house instead of me walking back to the hotel with it. I’m so glad they did.
Always pull into a police station if you can! They can usually get the car following on camera and a report can be made easily. They would have to be pretty dense to try anything there.
Hey Sophie, thank you for being so brave to share your story. Just to clarify, I was in the flagship Hermes store in Paris and they also offered to give the white paper bag (discrete...) even when I just bought a pair of slippers. You can request to get it from your SA and I highly recommend that everyone do so!! xx
There is a video of guy in a nearby town that has a really nice car and he was obviously worried about someone stealing his car. So he installed a concrete Bullard that can be raised and lowered into the driveway. So the guy parks on his drive and raises the Bullard, the car is wedged between the house and the concrete barrier. No one can steal it.
You are right. Never wear, drive, or carry anything that attracts attention. Hermes would be the last bag I´d ever carry unless I had a car with a personal driver and a bodyguard. I had a few Dior bags with me for 10-13 years while traveling all over Europe and the States (for work) but the world was different. These days there are more thefts and people, who do not care, what they do. Every time I go out with a design bag, I prefer to put the bag into a normal shopping bag, so nobody sees it. Just as you said. - Stay safe and happy.
Wow! So sorry this happened to you and David, Sophie, but glad that you were both okay. Another UK luxury UA-camr recently had his apartment burgled and he, understandably, was traumatised. They took all the designer pieces he'd purchased over a number of years. It's sad that people can't simply enjoy the things they've bought after working so hard... 😞
Dear Sophie, never ever ever ever go home when being followed. I know sometimes we freak out and don’t have time to think. But always go to the nearest police station so they give up following you.
Another comment said the police stations are closed down and Sophie didn't even know where one was... Now I'm unsettled and running to Google about English police.
I haven't had vehicles that draw much attention but I have had my car knowingly followed twice in Halifax 10 and 12 years ago. The first time I called it in while driving, the RCMP discretely intercepted and I heard nothing about it after the matter. The second incident I called in, the HRM police later notified me the person was under watch for suspicion of being connected to a human trafficking group. Long story short, It's important to be aware of ones surroundings no matter the level of affluence.
Such a scary incident! So glad you are safe. It’s a good reminder. Cartier gives you a plain white bag to carry your items, they will advise you to do it whenever purchasing high value items. It’s a good idea.
This is why old money don't wear labels. I learned this from my neighbor who grew up rich, never worked. She was paranoid of theft and people knowing that she was rich. So she drove a plain car, lived in a plain house. Luxury is not necessary to show amongst strangers. It attracts attention.
Hey Sophie, It’s a shame that that happened. I loved that car. When I lived in Dallas, during the market crash in 2008, a lot of people who had money started using non branded bags when they went shopping so as not to draw attention to themselves.
A neighbor was followed home and robbed in his driveway. He hadnt been shopping at a lux store that day, wasnt seen putting shopping bags in his car, so why was he singled out? Thief noticed him at Costco, shopping along with everyone else in a big box store... but he was the customer wearing a nice watch. The news rattled a lot of ppl around here.
My car was stolen from my driveway about 1 year ago. Our video cameras captured the whole thing. It took the robber only 48 seconds to jimmy the window, unlock the door, hotwire the car and drive off. The car was never recovered. Horrible feeling and disappointed in the police and our neighborhood. It’s very unsettling.
Earlier this summer, before going to vacations my husband told me to not bring any nice bags with me (my bags are not designer) . I agreed and I only brought a kippling backpack and a faux leather purse (80€ value or something like that). Even those bags caught the eye of some people. You never know how poor or jealous someone might be.
This is why I'm so thankful in the past I've lived in gated communities with a guard and keycard access with gates. Yes, there's a charge, but it's better than looking in your rear view mirror constantly!
That is absolutely terrifying! So glad you are safe! At hermes you have to ask for the white bag, but they are happy to do it for any purchase. Not sure if it's the same in london, but when I lived in manhattan, I would have department stores deliver my (in store) purchases to my apartment! It was so much easier (and safer) than hefting about all your bags
Glad you and David are ok. These days a lot of people who shop on Rodeo drive use plastics grocery bags or generic canvas bags vs using the brand’s bag.(anything that doesn’t have a well known logo). There have been many incidents where people will walk up to you and steal your luxury goods right from your hand.
Yes, but the doesn't solve the bigger problem, theft us bigger everywhere and the authorities need to deal with it better. This way these people won't even think of stealing anything.
That sounds quite scary. As you said, we do become slightly complacent when we go about our daily lives. We never know who's watching us or following us. Shopping at designer stores does attract attention, sadly, but taking preventative measures, as you say, is always advisable.
Yes i am always on the look out when i am shopping luxury. When i got my Chanel Classic small last year, i bring along the big Ikea recycle bag and put it in there before i leave the store. My SA was so impressed and think that is really a smart way. I will go into the store on a weekday not a weekend for all my luxury purchases. In that sense, at least is lesser people in the mall and i do not need to wait in the queue to go in. These people are everywhere and is like their job sad to say. Thanks for sharing 😍
I was robbed at gun point walking home after Christmas shopping when I was younger. It was so scary. I learned that some people are not very nice. You need to be aware of your surroundings. I too take inexpensive tote bags and for more expensive items I shop online now.
I work in Philadelphia, PA which has gotten more dangerous since covid. I don't carry any of my designer bags or wear any of my good jewelry on the streets anymore. I bought a puffy crossbody tote bag from Think Royln (which is a great bag, by the way) and put my work clothes and jewelry in it. What I wear to walk from the train station to work (which is 20 blocks) is sneakers, sweat pants, and a t shirt. I look like I'm coming from/going to the gym and I don't look like I've got money. Then I get dressed once I'm at work. Also, I got followed once on my way home from the train station (which is in Maryland, not near work). I drive a bright red 370z and a character that used to hang around the station used to wait for me to get off the train and chat me up - I only go to Philadelphia two days a week and work from home the rest of the time. It was harmless until I stopped at a grocery store on my way home and he drove by me in the parking lot and waved. A few days later I saw him behind me on my drive home and performed some "evasive maneuvers" to lose him. I figured out that he saw my car in the train station parking lot and that was how he knew I was taking the train that day. I haven't driven it there since and I take one of our other cars instead - and I haven't seen him since the day he tried to follow me home. You know, at 60 years old I thought I would be done with this BS, but here I am! Sophie, those are scary stories - I get what you're saying about the tube, but it it 1000 times safer than any subway over here. I don't blame you for carrying your things in nondescript bags but it's also sad that it has to be this way. We are headed to Switzerland next month and I guess I won't be bringing any of my good stuff with me. :( Makes you wonder where it's ok to wear your good things.
❤❤❤I totally get it, Sophie. I’m scared to ride our subway here in NYC, too, ever since pandemic happened. Such awful and scary stories about people being pushed, rubbed or cut on the subways. 😮 It’s just insane.
Always lock your car when filling it at the petrol station too, especially if you are alone, male or female. Anyone could hop into the back seat. I was taught that in the early 90s in Manchester where many a car theft happened.
Love your Aspinal of London bag sitting pretty in the seat. But yes scary, I had my phone purposely knocked out my hand. Stolen just in a second. Amsterdam. I'll be safe for now from anything since I won't be shopping. Lost my job thursday. I guess I can look at the bright side that it occurred my shopping addiction. Hope you're feeling better about your bunny.
Early eighties, I was visiting London with a youth group. Best vacation of my life and totally safe (we stayed at a youth hostel near Harrods) even for a fifteen year old walking on her own. I am a little sad that London became that dangerous.
Thanks for sharing Sophie! This happens quite frequently to people in North America too!! If I could ever afford any of these luxury cars I feel like I wouldn’t even want to buy them for this reason 😞! I am even more cautious about wearing my designer purses and buy ones that are more quiet compared to before. I don’t want to look like a target 🥺
Yeah, scary times. Before my current car I had a Mercedes A-Class (nothing too special), someone broke into it and stole some of the airbags. When I talked to the police, they told me not to worry, the thieves were only interested in my car and not following me. I must admit I have not thought about that before. Instead of not worrying, I am now more careful when out and about.
I got goosebumps from listening to this. I cannot imagine the fear to be in that situation. I recommend getting blue ikea bag or some scuffy supermarket plastic woven tote that looks miserable and won’t draw attention. Then just before leaving Harrods shove your purchases in there. The ikea blue bag is giving the opposite impression of luxury do hopefully it will stop the attention from bad eyes. Also put some tape on the exterior of your car here and there like you fixed some stuff. Make your car not attractive. And when you do drive a luxury car install one of those car cameras i forgot the name of it but some people use them to record travelling you can collect evidence from cars following you.
Agreed about using another tote to even just carry the branded bags in. I prefer bringing a cloth tote to hold my stuff because I don't want to be throwing out the shopping bags later anyway. Generate less waste, and all that.
Hi Sophie thank you for this video and highlighting that we all should be aware of our surroundings and try to avoid or at least limit such situations that you experienced . It must have been truly frightening and frightening I’m so glad you and David were safe . I remember going into the Dior Avenue 30 Montaigne store and made some purchases and as we were going to the airport via metro and coach they too gave us a plain white bag with the Dior bag inside . As a was concerned for our safety too . Dior really did go out of their way to make our shopping experience truly wonderful and above all safe . Your content is really so useful informative and truly as your viewers we rally can’t thank you enough for all you do . God Bless stay safe ❤
I’m so sorry for you! It was such a beautiful car, but nothing’s worth more than our safety and peace of mind. Back in the day, when I was into luxury bags and went to LV on a regular basis, I never took an Uber home because the store was far away from my place. I took a bus and the subway back home, and I was terrified of people seeing me and doing harm. So I took some tote bags or such to the store and always asked my SA to store my purchases in those bags. She found it so amusing that I would spend so much money on my purchases, but didn’t take an Uber home, lol. But nothing bad ever happened, thankfully!
Hey Sophie, thanks for sharing. A couple of notes- LV and Fendi offer plain white shopping bags when you make a purchase. If they do not, you can always ask because they do have them. Also, it doesn’t matter whether you are carrying luxury or not- you still need to be aware of your surroundings because ruminate are not just after cars or handbags. Especially as a woman, it is important to be aware and be able to defend yourself. Personally, I take Krav Maga and am training for another belt. I pay attention when I am out and am prepared to defend myself (I am 5’7” and 56 kg and can take down my 6’2” training partner.) very empowering. And I take my LV and Chanel anywhere I want.💪🏼
Such a shame 😢 because you've earned it sophie its sad people are like this. My old car honda jazz had its catalytic converter stolen a couple of years ago and i was devastated:( this world has changed unfortunately.
Hi Sophie! I relate 100% to this video. When I’m travelling and I buy a lot of branded items I use a large suitcase and I don’t take the big bags from the stores. So no one knows what I have in the suitcase. Also with driving, I’m hyper vigilant. If I notice a car behind me to long I would take a different route just not one near to home. I really enjoyed this video! I can’t wait for the next one. All my love to you and David XoxoAmrita 💕
Thank you for sharing and I had things stolen in London when out around Leicester Square and they always hang about there so I think you warning people and your tip is going to help a lot of people. It’s such a shame that it puts you off shopping for good in London but in other places in Epsom there a pick pockets and my father had his wallet stolen when out around Victoria so I always say don’t put things in a back pocket x
I’m so glad you and David are ok! This happened to me back when I lived in Houston. I drove straight to the police station and they drove away. Stay safe. ❤
Im so glad you stayed aware. I can't buy luxury because of this. I buy nice things but I could never buy luxury even to just enjoy it at home. I would feel to guilty to not give my things a proper "life."
I agree with you about being aware of your surroundings. With a job I have, I was trained of this because sometimes we get followed home from work. Great video!
I completely with what you said about the tube. I went to London this past Sunday and used the tube, it was packed! A pickpockets dream. I was carrying my purse inside my handbag, which was inside a zipped tote bag, but even then i was wary!
I'm glad you shared this story as it will likely help others. As soon as you said you were being followed, I immediately thought of your other story about the Lambo from years ago. So scary, I'm so glad you and David were ok and that you're good about not being too complacent. It's a shame that this is even a thing. No one should need to be hyper aware when they have nice things but unfortunately, that's how it is. I really loved that beautiful orange Bentley you guys had but yeah, it really stood out and once you were followed it would be a security risk.
This made me think thats its a shame all the local police stations have closed down . If this happened years ago , you could have drove to a police station nearby and parked outside . That would have got rid of them.
I remember that story about the Lamborghini! When I went up town to buy something from Louis Vuitton. As I travelled up by bus, I decanted the box into a shopping bag. Other times it’s a big rucksack. My last purchase, was larger so as I have a Blue Badge, I parked up, my daughter stayed in the car, and I puddled along to the boutique.
But large, neutral, white shopping bags can also be eye-catching. It must be assumed that the entrances to the shops are also under observation. And if you walk out with a large, neutral bag that you haven't had before, then they'll know you shopped there. You could also make a joke and shop at Waitrose with a Dior paper bag... :)
Hello Sophie! Thanks for sharing your story! In these days and times, we have to be hypersensitive to our surroundings! Sometimes, the thief is a person you know! 😢
After shopping at designer boutiques, I never (and I mean never) allow my bags from the store to be visible. I always carry this giant cloth bag I got for free from Max Mara and it's as roomy as a supermarket carrier bag. I fold it (like you said), stuff it into the bag I'm wearing and I'll then take it out to fit in all my shopping bags. Never show anyone where you've been. Particularly your neighbours, but yes, it applies to ANYONE in the street that might be watching. I remember buying my first Chanel bag I was extremely paranoid about showing my bag! I was trembling as I walked in the street and immediately placed the bag inside my handbag lol. Same with my Cartier jewellery. I told the sales assistant "right, I'm wearing it" so the boxes I carried home were empty and still, I put the Cartier shopping bag in my handbag. I like people to guess (and not know) if/where I got things. I've always been really careful about that, particularly because I don't drive. O and when taking public transport you could also opt for a backpack, kids.
Gosh, I’m sorry for upsetting you. I didn’t mean to. I was just saying that it’s not safe if you’re going to be carrying shopping bags with big logos written on them (this goes for anyone) xx
I was being followed years ago and drove to the police station. They left quikly. I stayed in the lot for quite some time. I didn't see the car when i left. By the way, im sorry thi happened o you.
Thanks for sharing, it happens more often than we think. What you said about Hermés is similar to what they do at Cartier. They put your purchase within a white plain bag so you are not targeted when you leave. You end up throwing away the bag they give so it’s probably better to bring your own bag or opt for the plain if you can.
Hi Sophie, sorry I haven’t been as active life has been crazy recently, however I stand by what you said, I have a blank tote bag, and I’m the same as you I sometimes give an Aldi bag for life. Safety is always a priority never mind the item/s personal safety is the most important, stay safe x
In addition to being careful as to which bags you carry and where, I would also be careful about your jewelry. There are certain places I just don't wear my wedding ring anymore. If I have to walk with my hand folded into a fist to hide my ring (which I have often done) then it's just not worth wearing it.
This is real. When I owned my luxury German SUV, I was followed a few times, but I noticed and went out the way. BUT now that I have a nice but lowkey Japanese SUV, I’m nearly invisible and I LOVE ittt!
Never drive home always drive to a police station phone the police they minute you feel you are being followed its so scary can't have nice things anymore glad you both safe ❤
Oh my gosh Soph this story is scary . Yes I hide your luxury shopping bags Tiffany will put your items in Philadelphia in a white unmarked bags. We all have to use wisdom
I drive an old Renault Twingo....guess I'm safe 😂 So sorry this happened to you. The world is indeed full of shady people. Even in small towns you are not safe. They tried to steal my grandmas purse this summer in our small town....tried to snatch it right out of her wheeled walker. Disgusting!
Thats terrifying, my mother had her mercededs stolen from infront of her home and step dads citron, super expensive cars, they were cased, they after that bought 2 normal average cetrons, its scary
That's so scary! The other day when I was getting gas a man pulled in behind me and while I was at the pump he walked over to my driver's side and it looked like he took a picture of my car. I don't even drive a super fancy car, it's a two door fiat 500. I was so freaked out. I was so scared he was going to follow me home.
Sophie, I'm so sorry for what you went through. That being said, you seem to be a reasonably intelligent woman and I'd believe you would have considered driving to the nearest police station. Not driving around trying to lose followers, let alone drive home. I think going to the police, even if you didn't want to get out of the car and report the situation, would be enough to scare the followers. I hope both of you are coping well emotionally with this frightening situation. I like watching your videos. Be safe.
In retrospect you probably should have called the police to tell them where you were while you were driving? They could have arrested the driver. I know you were extremely nervous - thank goodness you both were safe.
My friend was stabbed by a knife because of her expensive bag in the middle of the day, where was lots of people around you. It’s happened very fast, seconds…
If you are being followed I would recommend going to the nearest police station. That’s usually enough to deter anyone following. They will also most likely have security cameras so you may be able to get their license. And even calling ahead can make it easier for the police to get a license plate number. It’s the same advice for selling items to other people online. Meet at a restaurant or police station to avoid being robbed.
The roundabout is new to me though. May try recommending that in the future.
That's exactly what I would have done.
Unfortunately these people usually know how to avoid the cameras and always end up at the angle where they aren't seen
Exactly what I thought!
You can also go to fire stations
That's what I would have done!
I was driving on the road one day, and a vehicle was following in and out of lanes passing cars as I was doing. I redirected myself to the NEAREST police station. They followed me until I pulled into the station. They passed. I parked in the lot so I can see the entrance, I waited 10 minutes, they NEVER came back in the direction. So I felt safe enough to leave and continue to my destination. Usually if you make 4 right turns, the person following won't follow you because they know you know. The roundabout thing is true as well. Sometimes it takes more rounding it than 3 times. Sometimes you just have to wear them out. It sounds stupid, but it works. The police is always the best option. I would have been on the phone with the police while driving, giving them the description of the car, my vehicle and my LP. So they know what I'm driving and what the person behind me is driving. The cops will pull them over and you're safe to go on your way.
When I went luxury shopping this summer while traveling for work, I asked the store to mail the bag to my house instead of me walking back to the hotel with it. I’m so glad they did.
Always pull into a police station if you can! They can usually get the car following on camera and a report can be made easily. They would have to be pretty dense to try anything there.
Thank you for speaking on this and spreading awareness Sophie. So glad that you and David were alright.
Thank you lovely Annette, hopefully this helps others I hope! Hugs xx
Our country: woke. Our economy: broke. Our borders: joke. Makes China look inviting.
An orange Bentley? 🍊 😂
Hey Sophie, thank you for being so brave to share your story. Just to clarify, I was in the flagship Hermes store in Paris and they also offered to give the white paper bag (discrete...) even when I just bought a pair of slippers. You can request to get it from your SA and I highly recommend that everyone do so!! xx
There is a video of guy in a nearby town that has a really nice car and he was obviously worried about someone stealing his car. So he installed a concrete Bullard that can be raised and lowered into the driveway. So the guy parks on his drive and raises the Bullard, the car is wedged between the house and the concrete barrier. No one can steal it.
Don't you need permission for such things?
Hmm I dunno it’s on his property :) if it makes him feel safe, I guess it’s a good investment
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You are right. Never wear, drive, or carry anything that attracts attention. Hermes would be the last bag I´d ever carry unless I had a car with a personal driver and a bodyguard. I had a few Dior bags with me for 10-13 years while traveling all over Europe and the States (for work) but the world was different. These days there are more thefts and people, who do not care, what they do. Every time I go out with a design bag, I prefer to put the bag into a normal shopping bag, so nobody sees it. Just as you said. - Stay safe and happy.
Wow! So sorry this happened to you and David, Sophie, but glad that you were both okay.
Another UK luxury UA-camr recently had his apartment burgled and he, understandably, was traumatised. They took all the designer pieces he'd purchased over a number of years.
It's sad that people can't simply enjoy the things they've bought after working so hard... 😞
Oh gosh, that’s awful!!! Yes it’s a sorry state of affairs 😔xx
Dear Sophie, never ever ever ever go home when being followed. I know sometimes we freak out and don’t have time to think. But always go to the nearest police station so they give up following you.
Another comment said the police stations are closed down and Sophie didn't even know where one was... Now I'm unsettled and running to Google about English police.
Yes, it's really important to be discreet when out and about.
So true, we’re in the Fiesta for 99% of trips out these days 😅 Hugs to you my friend!!x
Bonus discreet bag idea: put a baguette or green onions sticking out of the top so it looks even more like groceries 😆
I haven't had vehicles that draw much attention but I have had my car knowingly followed twice in Halifax 10 and 12 years ago. The first time I called it in while driving, the RCMP discretely intercepted and I heard nothing about it after the matter. The second incident I called in, the HRM police later notified me the person was under watch for suspicion of being connected to a human trafficking group. Long story short, It's important to be aware of ones surroundings no matter the level of affluence.
OMG. never thought of that
Such a scary incident! So glad you are safe. It’s a good reminder. Cartier gives you a plain white bag to carry your items, they will advise you to do it whenever purchasing high value items. It’s a good idea.
This is why old money don't wear labels. I learned this from my neighbor who grew up rich, never worked. She was paranoid of theft and people knowing that she was rich. So she drove a plain car, lived in a plain house. Luxury is not necessary to show amongst strangers. It attracts attention.
Hey Sophie, It’s a shame that that happened. I loved that car. When I lived in Dallas, during the market crash in 2008, a lot of people who had money started using non branded bags when they went shopping so as not to draw attention to themselves.
A neighbor was followed home and robbed in his driveway. He hadnt been shopping at a lux store that day, wasnt seen putting shopping bags in his car, so why was he singled out? Thief noticed him at Costco, shopping along with everyone else in a big box store... but he was the customer wearing a nice watch. The news rattled a lot of ppl around here.
My car was stolen from my driveway about 1 year ago. Our video cameras captured the whole thing. It took the robber only 48 seconds to jimmy the window, unlock the door, hotwire the car and drive off. The car was never recovered. Horrible feeling and disappointed in the police and our neighborhood. It’s very unsettling.
Earlier this summer, before going to vacations my husband told me to not bring any nice bags with me (my bags are not designer) . I agreed and I only brought a kippling backpack and a faux leather purse (80€ value or something like that). Even those bags caught the eye of some people. You never know how poor or jealous someone might be.
Less about how poor and jealous they are and more about how much of a weak and oblivious target you might appear as.
This is why I'm so thankful in the past I've lived in gated communities with a guard and keycard access with gates. Yes, there's a charge, but it's better than looking in your rear view mirror constantly!
That is absolutely terrifying! So glad you are safe! At hermes you have to ask for the white bag, but they are happy to do it for any purchase. Not sure if it's the same in london, but when I lived in manhattan, I would have department stores deliver my (in store) purchases to my apartment! It was so much easier (and safer) than hefting about all your bags
Glad you and David are ok. These days a lot of people who shop on Rodeo drive use plastics grocery bags or generic canvas bags vs using the brand’s bag.(anything that doesn’t have a well known logo). There have been many incidents where people will walk up to you and steal your luxury goods right from your hand.
Yes, but the doesn't solve the bigger problem, theft us bigger everywhere and the authorities need to deal with it better. This way these people won't even think of stealing anything.
That sounds quite scary. As you said, we do become slightly complacent when we go about our daily lives. We never know who's watching us or following us. Shopping at designer stores does attract attention, sadly, but taking preventative measures, as you say, is always advisable.
Yes i am always on the look out when i am shopping luxury. When i got my Chanel Classic small last year, i bring along the big Ikea recycle bag and put it in there before i leave the store. My SA was so impressed and think that is really a smart way. I will go into the store on a weekday not a weekend for all my luxury purchases. In that sense, at least is lesser people in the mall and i do not need to wait in the queue to go in. These people are everywhere and is like their job sad to say. Thanks for sharing 😍
Hi Sophie ! This is a reason I only wear my designer handbags when
I 'm with my partner.
I was robbed at gun point walking home after Christmas shopping when I was younger. It was so scary. I learned that some people are not very nice.
You need to be aware of your surroundings. I too take inexpensive tote bags and for more expensive items I shop online now.
I work in Philadelphia, PA which has gotten more dangerous since covid. I don't carry any of my designer bags or wear any of my good jewelry on the streets anymore. I bought a puffy crossbody tote bag from Think Royln (which is a great bag, by the way) and put my work clothes and jewelry in it. What I wear to walk from the train station to work (which is 20 blocks) is sneakers, sweat pants, and a t shirt. I look like I'm coming from/going to the gym and I don't look like I've got money. Then I get dressed once I'm at work.
Also, I got followed once on my way home from the train station (which is in Maryland, not near work). I drive a bright red 370z and a character that used to hang around the station used to wait for me to get off the train and chat me up - I only go to Philadelphia two days a week and work from home the rest of the time. It was harmless until I stopped at a grocery store on my way home and he drove by me in the parking lot and waved. A few days later I saw him behind me on my drive home and performed some "evasive maneuvers" to lose him. I figured out that he saw my car in the train station parking lot and that was how he knew I was taking the train that day. I haven't driven it there since and I take one of our other cars instead - and I haven't seen him since the day he tried to follow me home. You know, at 60 years old I thought I would be done with this BS, but here I am!
Sophie, those are scary stories - I get what you're saying about the tube, but it it 1000 times safer than any subway over here. I don't blame you for carrying your things in nondescript bags but it's also sad that it has to be this way. We are headed to Switzerland next month and I guess I won't be bringing any of my good stuff with me. :( Makes you wonder where it's ok to wear your good things.
❤❤❤I totally get it, Sophie. I’m scared to ride our subway here in NYC, too, ever since pandemic happened. Such awful and scary stories about people being pushed, rubbed or cut on the subways. 😮 It’s just insane.
Love your story times, sorry this happened to you!
Thank you my friend, I’m glad you enjoyed it 🙏 I hope this helps others xx❤️
I bought a Chanel bag and gave the SA a H&M paper bag to put it in😂 and walked out like that.
I remember the Lambo story too. Sorry that you went through this❤✨🙏🏽
Stay safe out there Sophie! You are a jewel, and there are jealous, envoys, conniving people out there who want what you have!
Thanks for sharing, being low profile is always best in such occasions!
Always lock your car when filling it at the petrol station too, especially if you are alone, male or female. Anyone could hop into the back seat. I was taught that in the early 90s in Manchester where many a car theft happened.
Love your Aspinal of London bag sitting pretty in the seat. But yes scary, I had my phone purposely knocked out my hand. Stolen just in a second. Amsterdam. I'll be safe for now from anything since I won't be shopping. Lost my job thursday. I guess I can look at the bright side that it occurred my shopping addiction. Hope you're feeling better about your bunny.
so sorry, hope things improve for you
When you attract any sort attention there will always be someone with the evil eye.
so sad that London is like this when I was grow up in 1980s it was safe maybe it was I was child glad you are safe
Welcome to Sadiq Khan's London! You'll be lucky if you aren't stabbed coming out of Hermes.
Early eighties, I was visiting London with a youth group. Best vacation of my life and totally safe (we stayed at a youth hostel near Harrods) even for a fifteen year old walking on her own. I am a little sad that London became that dangerous.
Omg I remember the Lamborghini story from years ago! That story freaked me out when you shared it. I’m always soo vigilant when I go into London.
😢. So sad we have to be hyper careful. Glad it ended up okay stay safe everyone.
Absolutely, it really does make you think 😢 Hugs to you my friend and I hope you have a lovely week 🥰❤️xx
Thanks for sharing Sophie! This happens quite frequently to people in North America too!! If I could ever afford any of these luxury cars I feel like I wouldn’t even want to buy them for this reason 😞! I am even more cautious about wearing my designer purses and buy ones that are more quiet compared to before. I don’t want to look like a target 🥺
Yeah, scary times. Before my current car I had a Mercedes A-Class (nothing too special), someone broke into it and stole some of the airbags. When I talked to the police, they told me not to worry, the thieves were only interested in my car and not following me. I must admit I have not thought about that before. Instead of not worrying, I am now more careful when out and about.
I’m so glad you’re ok! 🙏🙏 That’s beyond frustrating about your car 😔 xx❤️
That’s why my husband prefers to drive our modest car to when we go to a human dense area … no one cares to see us come and go in our middle class car
I got goosebumps from listening to this. I cannot imagine the fear to be in that situation. I recommend getting blue ikea bag or some scuffy supermarket plastic woven tote that looks miserable and won’t draw attention. Then just before leaving Harrods shove your purchases in there. The ikea blue bag is giving the opposite impression of luxury do hopefully it will stop the attention from bad eyes. Also put some tape on the exterior of your car here and there like you fixed some stuff. Make your car not attractive. And when you do drive a luxury car install one of those car cameras i forgot the name of it but some people use them to record travelling you can collect evidence from cars following you.
Agreed about using another tote to even just carry the branded bags in. I prefer bringing a cloth tote to hold my stuff because I don't want to be throwing out the shopping bags later anyway. Generate less waste, and all that.
Hi Sophie thank you for this video and highlighting that we all should be aware of our surroundings and try to avoid or at least limit such situations that you experienced . It must have been truly frightening and frightening I’m so glad you and David were safe . I remember going into the Dior Avenue 30 Montaigne store and made some purchases and as we were going to the airport via metro and coach they too gave us a plain white bag with the Dior bag inside . As a was concerned for our safety too . Dior really did go out of their way to make our shopping experience truly wonderful and above all safe . Your content is really so useful informative and truly as your viewers we rally can’t thank you enough for all you do . God Bless stay safe ❤
I’m so sorry for you! It was such a beautiful car, but nothing’s worth more than our safety and peace of mind. Back in the day, when I was into luxury bags and went to LV on a regular basis, I never took an Uber home because the store was far away from my place. I took a bus and the subway back home, and I was terrified of people seeing me and doing harm. So I took some tote bags or such to the store and always asked my SA to store my purchases in those bags. She found it so amusing that I would spend so much money on my purchases, but didn’t take an Uber home, lol. But nothing bad ever happened, thankfully!
Hey Sophie, thanks for sharing. A couple of notes- LV and Fendi offer plain white shopping bags when you make a purchase. If they do not, you can always ask because they do have them. Also, it doesn’t matter whether you are carrying luxury or not- you still need to be aware of your surroundings because ruminate are not just after cars or handbags. Especially as a woman, it is important to be aware and be able to defend yourself. Personally, I take Krav Maga and am training for another belt. I pay attention when I am out and am prepared to defend myself (I am 5’7” and 56 kg and can take down my 6’2” training partner.) very empowering. And I take my LV and Chanel anywhere I want.💪🏼
Things are getting bad out here, especially in the states.
Such a shame 😢 because you've earned it sophie its sad people are like this. My old car honda jazz had its catalytic converter stolen a couple of years ago and i was devastated:( this world has changed unfortunately.
Hi Sophie! I relate 100% to this video. When I’m travelling and I buy a lot of branded items I use a large suitcase and I don’t take the big bags from the stores. So no one knows what I have in the suitcase. Also with driving, I’m hyper vigilant. If I notice a car behind me to long I would take a different route just not one near to home.
I really enjoyed this video! I can’t wait for the next one. All my love to you and David XoxoAmrita 💕
Thank you for sharing and I had things stolen in London when out around Leicester Square and they always hang about there so I think you warning people and your tip is going to help a lot of people. It’s such a shame that it puts you off shopping for good in London but in other places in Epsom there a pick pockets and my father had his wallet stolen when out around Victoria so I always say don’t put things in a back pocket x
I’m so glad you and David are ok! This happened to me back when I lived in Houston. I drove straight to the police station and they drove away. Stay safe. ❤
Im so glad you stayed aware. I can't buy luxury because of this. I buy nice things but I could never buy luxury even to just enjoy it at home. I would feel to guilty to not give my things a proper "life."
You need to move to Monaco Sophie over there you can walk with your bags it will be no problem
I agree with you about being aware of your surroundings. With a job I have, I was trained of this because sometimes we get followed home from work. Great video!
The Rolex store put my watch in a grocery shopping bag too when in Knightsbridge.
I always carry the worst shopping bag to shop. Always for safety. The rattier the tote the better. Lol
I completely with what you said about the tube. I went to London this past Sunday and used the tube, it was packed! A pickpockets dream. I was carrying my purse inside my handbag, which was inside a zipped tote bag, but even then i was wary!
I'm glad you shared this story as it will likely help others. As soon as you said you were being followed, I immediately thought of your other story about the Lambo from years ago. So scary, I'm so glad you and David were ok and that you're good about not being too complacent. It's a shame that this is even a thing. No one should need to be hyper aware when they have nice things but unfortunately, that's how it is. I really loved that beautiful orange Bentley you guys had but yeah, it really stood out and once you were followed it would be a security risk.
This made me think thats its a shame all the local police stations have closed down . If this happened years ago , you could have drove to a police station nearby and parked outside . That would have got rid of them.
You’re so right Maria, I’m not even sure where the local one is!xx❤️
Thanks for sharing. It’s a scary world at times
I remember that story about the Lamborghini!
When I went up town to buy something from Louis Vuitton. As I travelled up by bus, I decanted the box into a shopping bag. Other times it’s a big rucksack. My last purchase, was larger so as I have a Blue Badge, I parked up, my daughter stayed in the car, and I puddled along to the boutique.
But large, neutral, white shopping bags can also be eye-catching. It must be assumed that the entrances to the shops are also under observation. And if you walk out with a large, neutral bag that you haven't had before, then they'll know you shopped there. You could also make a joke and shop at Waitrose with a Dior paper bag... :)
I’ve been robbed twice times (pick pocket, home break in) and my friends don’t understand why I take so many precautions when I go out. Ahhh
It’s feels that expensive things are not worth it, too many selfish people nowadays
Hello Sophie! Thanks for sharing your story! In these days and times, we have to be hypersensitive to our surroundings! Sometimes, the thief is a person you know! 😢
After shopping at designer boutiques, I never (and I mean never) allow my bags from the store to be visible. I always carry this giant cloth bag I got for free from Max Mara and it's as roomy as a supermarket carrier bag. I fold it (like you said), stuff it into the bag I'm wearing and I'll then take it out to fit in all my shopping bags. Never show anyone where you've been. Particularly your neighbours, but yes, it applies to ANYONE in the street that might be watching.
I remember buying my first Chanel bag I was extremely paranoid about showing my bag! I was trembling as I walked in the street and immediately placed the bag inside my handbag lol. Same with my Cartier jewellery. I told the sales assistant "right, I'm wearing it" so the boxes I carried home were empty and still, I put the Cartier shopping bag in my handbag. I like people to guess (and not know) if/where I got things. I've always been really careful about that, particularly because I don't drive. O and when taking public transport you could also opt for a backpack, kids.
For the rest of us, Sophie - normal people- teachers, scientists, nurses and so on - tube is very safe! Till now, somehow I respected you…
Gosh, I’m sorry for upsetting you. I didn’t mean to. I was just saying that it’s not safe if you’re going to be carrying shopping bags with big logos written on them (this goes for anyone) xx
I was being followed years ago and drove to the police station. They left quikly. I stayed in the lot for quite some time. I didn't see the car when i left. By the way, im sorry thi happened o you.
This is a very good bit of advice, thank you so much for sharing this xx❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing, it happens more often than we think. What you said about Hermés is similar to what they do at Cartier. They put your purchase within a white plain bag so you are not targeted when you leave. You end up throwing away the bag they give so it’s probably better to bring your own bag or opt for the plain if you can.
I don't even like personalised plates as people can recognise your routine etc now I really like my privacy
Don't ever pull into your driveway when you think a car is following you.
Feels like don't stand out with luxury - it sucks,. Even carrying designer bags - just don't stand out
Hi Sophie, sorry I haven’t been as active life has been crazy recently, however I stand by what you said, I have a blank tote bag, and I’m the same as you I sometimes give an Aldi bag for life. Safety is always a priority never mind the item/s personal safety is the most important, stay safe x
In addition to being careful as to which bags you carry and where, I would also be careful about your jewelry. There are certain places I just don't wear my wedding ring anymore. If I have to walk with my hand folded into a fist to hide my ring (which I have often done) then it's just not worth wearing it.
Terrifying! So happy you are ok
It is happening all over the US. That’s one of the reasons I moved to the lower coast of the US outside of the big city.
Or drive to your closest police station and lean on the horn! Lots of creeps out there even if you don't have a really nice car.
So true!!xx
great tip put your shopping in a big brown bag or
use lidl,asda tesco wilko etc bags to disguise your loot
Hi! i remember the lambo story. so scary. good on you for staying on top of security! the gates definitely help.
I’ve always wanted to own an exotic car but this makes me very aware of how people will want to steal it if you have a nice car
Keep 'em coming Sophie, this was really interesting!
This is real. When I owned my luxury German SUV, I was followed a few times, but I noticed and went out the way. BUT now that I have a nice but lowkey Japanese SUV, I’m nearly invisible and I LOVE ittt!
Never drive home always drive to a police station phone the police they minute you feel you are being followed its so scary can't have nice things anymore glad you both safe ❤
Oh my gosh Soph this story is scary . Yes I hide your luxury shopping bags Tiffany will put your items in Philadelphia in a white unmarked bags. We all have to use wisdom
I drive an old Renault Twingo....guess I'm safe 😂 So sorry this happened to you. The world is indeed full of shady people. Even in small towns you are not safe. They tried to steal my grandmas purse this summer in our small town....tried to snatch it right out of her wheeled walker. Disgusting!
Thats terrifying, my mother had her mercededs stolen from infront of her home and step dads citron, super expensive cars, they were cased, they after that bought 2 normal average cetrons, its scary
That's so scary! The other day when I was getting gas a man pulled in behind me and while I was at the pump he walked over to my driver's side and it looked like he took a picture of my car. I don't even drive a super fancy car, it's a two door fiat 500. I was so freaked out. I was so scared he was going to follow me home.
Sophie, I'm so sorry for what you went through. That being said, you seem to be a reasonably intelligent woman and I'd believe you would have considered driving to the nearest police station. Not driving around trying to lose followers, let alone drive home. I think going to the police, even if you didn't want to get out of the car and report the situation, would be enough to scare the followers. I hope both of you are coping well emotionally with this frightening situation. I like watching your videos. Be safe.
My father was a law enforcer, and he said if you feel in danger always drive to the nearest police department or policeman
In retrospect you probably should have called the police to tell them where you were while you were driving? They could have arrested the driver. I know you were extremely nervous - thank goodness you both were safe.
So sorry to hear about your plight, one should be able to spend the spoils of hardwork without fear of being robbed.
Thank you for your story time!!!
Love your story time videos!
All the vloggers talk about how bad it is there!! These big city’s are completely going down the drain!
It’s also environmentally friendly to use your own bags 😊
My friend was stabbed by a knife because of her expensive bag in the middle of the day, where was lots of people around you. It’s happened very fast, seconds…
lol the tube…so basically the British version of the metro
so unfortunate the direction the world is changing to
it seems to be quite common for this to happen in london sadly? :(
hope you're feeling ok sophie
Thank you Sophie.
This happened to me and I drove to the police all the while on the phone with the police. They got caught as they had warrants out for their arrest.