Supercommunicators with journalist Charles Duhigg | A Bit of Optimism Podcast

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  • Опубліковано 5 січ 2025
  • Great communicators aren’t born that way. They’re self-made.
    Charles Duhigg is a Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist whose new book, Supercommunicators, explores how some people have unlocked the secret language of connection.
    Charles and I discuss what makes these “supercommunicators” unique, why we need stories to convey ideas, and how being honest once saved a CIA recruiter his job.
    This…is A Bit of Optimism.
    To learn more about Charles’s work, check out:
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    Simon is an unshakable optimist. He believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together.
    Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon has devoted his professional life to help advance a vision of the world that does not yet exist; a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning inspired, feel safe wherever they are and end the day fulfilled by the work that they do.
    Simon is the author of multiple best-selling books including Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, Together is Better, and The Infinite Game.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 40

  • @apalac09
    @apalac09 10 місяців тому +12

    Communicating is an art, it requires a lot of empathy and thinking about how can I give the best of myself through my words.

  • @RaisaBelousov-rs9zn
    @RaisaBelousov-rs9zn 10 місяців тому +3

    When two writers meet. Simon hits the targets to make his companion’s face to light up. Reactions are priceless. Thumbs up 👍

  • @BlessedBeyondUnderstanding
    @BlessedBeyondUnderstanding 10 місяців тому +2

    Good insight: We are having one of three conversations (practical, emotional, social). "She was having a practical conversation, I was having an emotional conversation and we couldn't connect..." Now all my missed conversations make sense!

  • @kevinmcintyrecoffeeconvers1162
    @kevinmcintyrecoffeeconvers1162 10 місяців тому +2

    That is exactly what I have been teaching professionals for years.

  • @Seeyatellite
    @Seeyatellite 10 місяців тому +3

    “We’re never not communicating” ~ Yvette Erasmus
    How you two talk about... well... talking is amazing. “I don’t want to be see as the expert. I want to be seen as the guide.” in terms of education, there’s always a bit of storytelling for relatability. It inspires our curiosity and drives a craving to learn more. It's great having you both to grant us a bit of insight into healthy communication skills.
    I appreciate you. Thanks for this share!

  • @carline1489
    @carline1489 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for this beautiful conversation. I keep in mind authenticity, instincts and labelling conversations, so simple and perfectly said. The world is now dying of this lack of connection.... Your work is perfect, thanks to be this guide, the world needs people like you 🤗🧡

  • @KJPro1
    @KJPro1 10 місяців тому +6

    Amazing conversation.

  • @rolindajgd
    @rolindajgd 10 місяців тому +2

    Loved this conversation, the sincerity of it.

  • @debradecoteau8240
    @debradecoteau8240 10 місяців тому +1

    This is a great topic and so very needed. People turtle when the discussion gets challenging.
    I am a fixer so this was a great lesson for me. Touche guys!!
    Thank you.

  • @ShuToshio
    @ShuToshio 10 місяців тому +4

    These podcasts are amazing. Thanks, Simon!

  • @Christ.t
    @Christ.t 10 місяців тому +2

    These clips help me actually watch the full podcast.

  • @MattGillis
    @MattGillis 10 місяців тому +2

    Such a great message on communicating.

  • @enciendeunaluz2012
    @enciendeunaluz2012 3 місяці тому

    Form the beggining to the end it is "oro molido" as we say in Mexico! Both of you always make me think about hard questions and find the enthusiasm on their answers. What a great moment with you both.

  • @harmonylifewithjess1593
    @harmonylifewithjess1593 10 місяців тому +1

    Yes! So very good. Love this one

  • @sanoojcools123
    @sanoojcools123 2 місяці тому

    What an amazing conversation! I so much relate to being in situations where I am in practical conversations where as my listener is emoting. Now, all of it makes so much sense!

  • @Gorf1234
    @Gorf1234 10 місяців тому +10

    I've stumbled across some of these techniques accidentally in my work. We are expected to deal with highly emotional situations (bereavements) with a script, but that simply doesn't work. It's possible to instantly connect with our callers by simply going off-script and asking "What happened?"

    • @joshpipe7755
      @joshpipe7755 7 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing this story of your experience taking calls. It surprises me that, with a technique so effective, it's not part of the script.
      I can imagine that if one of your colleagues asked 'What happened?' without showing genuine interest, and didn't listen to the answer, it might do more harm than good. But it sounds like the question arose out of your experience of showing real care to the bereaved

  • @thebusinessmindset
    @thebusinessmindset 10 місяців тому

    This was great. I'm Looking forward to reading the book. The Power of Habit was helpful to me several years ago.

  • @katarzynalindner594
    @katarzynalindner594 10 місяців тому

    Great talk. And the moment Simon bites his nail...so volnurable😂

  • @salomemuthoni5431
    @salomemuthoni5431 3 місяці тому

    Loved this conversation.

  • @rayleneberryman7673
    @rayleneberryman7673 6 місяців тому

    Great questions Simon. Love your work

  • @joryiansmith
    @joryiansmith 10 місяців тому

    This was so much fun to watch ❤

  • @rayleneberryman7673
    @rayleneberryman7673 6 місяців тому

    I think we remember things that have the biggest emotional impact on our lives - good or bad

  • @joycesmile123
    @joycesmile123 8 місяців тому

    I love both of you . ❤❤❤
    I always watch your video and it always inspires me and always very helpful 😊❤🎉
    Thank you

  • @CarynWaller
    @CarynWaller 10 місяців тому +1

    So good Simon and Charles, thank you. Oh and book ordered. Looking forward to it.

  • @carascreatives
    @carascreatives 10 місяців тому

    So good!

  • @529mt
    @529mt 5 місяців тому

    I loved this

  • @HealthyandTasty1
    @HealthyandTasty1 3 місяці тому

    That was great.

  • @giolayug
    @giolayug 10 місяців тому

    love this

  • @kyle_write
    @kyle_write 3 місяці тому

    The questions Simon asks, wow. You got to be prepared with your life story before coming here😂😂

  • @adri888
    @adri888 9 місяців тому

    I love you both so much

  • @iurimonteiro4767
    @iurimonteiro4767 2 місяці тому

    what are the best books you know guys on this?

  • @vikaskashikar7986
    @vikaskashikar7986 8 місяців тому +1

    How do politicians become super communicators, even most of them are empty promises? What goes on here, i wonder.

    • @Hendrix4410
      @Hendrix4410 4 місяці тому

      Sales skills. Without knowing too much about politics, winning an audience is as much about influence as it is about policy. A lot of sales is knowing to right thing to say/show at the right time to capture someone’s attention and draw them closer to your message. Politicians know this and know what hot buttons/problems an audience cares about, so they cater their messages based on how their solution is worth their vote. Unfortunately empty promises happen, but that’s where its up to voters to determine whether someone is worth re-electing based on whether or not they lived up to their expectations. I’ve personally watched my communication ability grow tremendously just from taking on a sales job so politicians definitely understand the value of learning it.

  • @mickeymonster9845
    @mickeymonster9845 9 місяців тому

    i have all the connections

  • @jamesshuler6302
    @jamesshuler6302 10 місяців тому +5

    Great video. I do not think Trump is a good communicator, however 😅

  • @khalidmehmood8077
    @khalidmehmood8077 6 місяців тому

    1 21:59

  • @killerwill
    @killerwill 10 місяців тому

    is orange the new blue?

  • @gameligxabi
    @gameligxabi 5 місяців тому

    Cancer