'Not-So-Casual' Sex - Amol Parashar | Divya Prakash Dubey | Spoken Fest Mumbai 2020

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  • @KommuneIndia
    @KommuneIndia  Рік тому +299

    Felt heard in this story? Missing that magical Spoken vibe? Find more such incredibly relatable and heartwarming performances from Spoken Fest 2022 that will make you fall in love with stories once again here! : ua-cam.com/play/PLVifvk8heP1WP1syqL6Q-mCiUCbXt5NaN.html

    • @spring_doll4859
      @spring_doll4859 7 місяців тому +3

      I don't know every time I listen to this story and just fall, actually it's not you, it's me🙌🏼

    • @ritukomalpatel9936
      @ritukomalpatel9936 3 місяці тому +1

      Sare comedian engineer hi kyu Hote hai bhai 🤔🤔😂

  • @beastbatch6897
    @beastbatch6897 3 роки тому +11896

    Who's here after seeing this many times (recommended) and just clicked it...and after actually liked it

  • @sohamdutta4760
    @sohamdutta4760 4 роки тому +21067

    Calling Himani as Meenakshi was definitely not a mistake in the end, it was intended. Loved it.

    • @mridulrajbajpai3670
      @mridulrajbajpai3670 4 роки тому +366

      Dont be that picky but yeessss it was intentional

    • @criticalthinker6896
      @criticalthinker6896 4 роки тому +597

      Himani was too a mistake just like Meenaksi...that he intended by doing that

    • @none3406
      @none3406 4 роки тому +76

      Who are they?

    • @hardipsinghsekhon8571
      @hardipsinghsekhon8571 4 роки тому +285

      Yeah, but perfect timing. Good story telling and good acting skills.

    • @PS-fl2oc
      @PS-fl2oc 4 роки тому +18

      @@none3406 yes who

  • @IndiaTides
    @IndiaTides 4 роки тому +23550

    He is actually good with words and storytelling. He should keep this up.
    Loved it.
    -Himani's husband.

    • @crackerahul
      @crackerahul 4 роки тому +578

      Damn! Really ?

    • @IndiaTides
      @IndiaTides 4 роки тому +2539

      @@crackerahul Nope. I added that just for fun.😅

    • @crackerahul
      @crackerahul 4 роки тому +268

      @@IndiaTides haha...

    • @laurenmaciel2793
      @laurenmaciel2793 4 роки тому +727

      @@IndiaTides lol that's was great. Himani talking here

    • @IndiaTides
      @IndiaTides 4 роки тому +630

      @@laurenmaciel2793 I am breaking up with you.

  • @bdstudios6088
    @bdstudios6088 2 роки тому +722

    You know what’s the biggest problem I have with casual sex.
    The culture of casual sex, of using each other for bodily pleasures and then promptly tossing them aside as though they are disposable objects, devalues human life.
    Thank you for the thoughtful speech!

    • @sunnyk007
      @sunnyk007 Рік тому +4

      Here's a great perspective on why casual relationships/sex are not ideal.
      ua-cam.com/video/e6xOvcmJgrk/v-deo.html

    • @priyankaarya-ki5vi
      @priyankaarya-ki5vi Рік тому +1

      ​​@THE ZOLDICS feminist ko badnaam karna band kar 10th fail , feminists just iske opposite hote hai , bloody patriarchal and sexist insàan hote hai tere jaise log

    • @user-go9kw6wf4m
      @user-go9kw6wf4m Рік тому +6

      ​@thezoldics7648feminists just want that women should not be judged for having sex before marriage

    • @pritech8302
      @pritech8302 Рік тому

      Well said@thezoldics7648

    • @pritech8302
      @pritech8302 Рік тому

      100% agree with u bro@thezoldics7648

  • @MegaJohnwesly
    @MegaJohnwesly 3 роки тому +5840

    His story made me cry. So intense and sacred emotions!.
    Sex is never meant to be casual.

  • @kasturisaikia3902
    @kasturisaikia3902 3 роки тому +8682

    feel like he is broken from inside...
    But he is trying to hide that pain from that smile ☺

  • @karmakarananya77
    @karmakarananya77 4 роки тому +854

    Not so casual - definition of relationship nowadays.
    I wonder how he said all of this without a single tear. Hats off!

    • @jaik993
      @jaik993 4 роки тому +10

      It's a story adapted from elsewhere, see the description below the video.

    • @gixpal4175
      @gixpal4175 4 роки тому +1

      it's not him, it's actually his heart and feelings.

    • @ashishhundre93
      @ashishhundre93 4 роки тому +1

      You remind me that song- Juda hoke bhi tu mujhme kabhi baki hai......
      Ab to adat si hogayi h aise jine me.. 😊

    • @DeepakKumar-ux5ur
      @DeepakKumar-ux5ur 3 роки тому

      @@ashishhundre93 🤣😂 well replied.

    • @Therisingstar-ID
      @Therisingstar-ID 3 місяці тому

      Hi Ananya

  • @komalkanojiiya
    @komalkanojiiya Рік тому +517

    After 3 years this suddenly came back to my suggestion.. what a great storyteller this guy is.. amazing.

  • @hamburger360
    @hamburger360 4 роки тому +4118

    "Mujhe stay away hi karna chahiye tha"
    This. This sentence. This feeling.

  • @GodlessGladiater
    @GodlessGladiater 4 роки тому +2286

    10/10 on story telling, he made such a normal story look romental

  • @sarmonkathar8461
    @sarmonkathar8461 4 роки тому +5337

    I don't know why but I sense alot of pain in his smiling face.

  • @pranavgupta2471
    @pranavgupta2471 10 місяців тому +20

    After 3 years today it was suddenly on my feed again. When I clicked on it I initially thought that time flew away fast and 3 years felt like yesterday. But this time this story hit deeper. Its ending seemed more relatable and sensitive. And suddenly I realized that no time just doesn't fly away, we too become emotionally mature and understanding in this fast pacing life. There is always this messed up and childish part of you which you leave behind each year. Each year you forgot about one or two hobbies you used to or tried to have. This process is so dmmn natural that you can't force stop it. "Keeping the child inside alive" is all bullshit. We experience , we adapt and change. And no you can't find that Immature teenager or child in you again. You can only look back at that part you left behind and smile at those unfulfilled checklists or those half done paintings and sketches or those promises to learn a new language.

  • @aasmamohammed4914
    @aasmamohammed4914 4 роки тому +9955

    This guy had AIR 205 in JEE Advanced. Such a gem.

    • @wthrajat
      @wthrajat 4 роки тому +820

      Nahi,
      It was AIR 238 (General)
      IIT-JEE 2003
      IIT Delhi, Mechanical Engineering 2007 Batch
      Fun fact: Vipul Goyal (Humorously Yours), same year JEE 2003, AIR 165 (General), IIT Bombay Electrical Engineering 2007 Batch.

    • @aayushamrute8561
      @aayushamrute8561 4 роки тому +57

      Really?

    • @wthrajat
      @wthrajat 4 роки тому +50

      @@aayushamrute8561 yep, you doubt it? You can check

    • @itsmeayansheikh
      @itsmeayansheikh 4 роки тому +458

      Maa kasam itni knowledge toh Wikipedia naa deta jitni aap dono ne di hai,😅😂

    • @wthrajat
      @wthrajat 4 роки тому +19

      @@itsmeayansheikh haha!

  • @harshkumar-vy4sn
    @harshkumar-vy4sn 3 роки тому +3018

    My girlfriend shared this to me on initial days of our relationship. Time fled, love turned pale, relationship gone but I am again listening to this just to cherish my time with her

    • @ananyaraj1514
      @ananyaraj1514 3 роки тому +31

      aw im so sorry

    • @harshkumar-vy4sn
      @harshkumar-vy4sn 3 роки тому +9

      @@ananyaraj1514 you are not

    • @ananyaraj1514
      @ananyaraj1514 3 роки тому +54

      @@harshkumar-vy4sn going thru a breakup myself. nvm i should stop being nice to people 🤡

    • @harshkumar-vy4sn
      @harshkumar-vy4sn 3 роки тому +11

      @@ananyaraj1514 oh I am sorry to say like that...be strong yar

    • @akshityadav7613
      @akshityadav7613 3 роки тому +68

      One advice for you brother... Because of what happened don't start being rude to girls who are nice to you... And again don't start feeling for girls who are nice to you... Not everyone is what they show us... Also... It will be better for you to get rid of her feelings as soon as possible... You'll feel better.. I know the heart might feel heavy... But the day it will feel light... You'll start enjoying life. 🙂

  • @ruqaiyahtayyab6773
    @ruqaiyahtayyab6773 4 роки тому +3247

    the smiling face hides a lot of pain .....hats off bro!!

  • @kidzoofuntoo
    @kidzoofuntoo 2 роки тому +699

    Sex can never be termed as casual..its full of emotions

    • @omkarnath9765
      @omkarnath9765 7 місяців тому +5

      Absolutely right

    • @VishuTech13
      @VishuTech13 7 місяців тому +7

      You never know when that casual sex will change into emotional love.

  • @aknayak2741
    @aknayak2741 4 роки тому +736

    Why I literally cried?
    Edit- Everyone is a writer but not a story teller.

  • @shruti2545
    @shruti2545 4 роки тому +1823

    someone hug this guy real quick....😭

  • @Sanjana-pp1ps
    @Sanjana-pp1ps 3 роки тому +3019

    Guys for God sake stop seeing his pain 😂 he's just an amazing actor that's it! It's not his story, it's just an original story adapted from somewhere, read the description!

    • @itsorpa6666
      @itsorpa6666 3 роки тому +53

      Haha..I was going to comment it 😂

    • @vanimathur4962
      @vanimathur4962 3 роки тому +155

      Oh damn, hum aise hi itne senti hue ja rhe the😂

    • @ganeshwalunj9141
      @ganeshwalunj9141 3 роки тому +8

      Hi

    • @helanmaggi4964
      @helanmaggi4964 3 роки тому +44

      You felt for hero or heroine breakups from film, those are not their real stories right? Same thing here too dude! Let us feel, Chill 😝

    • @ganeshwalunj9141
      @ganeshwalunj9141 3 роки тому +3

      Hi

  • @RK-wm2is
    @RK-wm2is 2 роки тому +43

    The moment he said- "Hamara to casual tha na" and laughed, that is where I can see the pain. He laughed but there was pin drop silence in audiance cause everyone felt that pain🥲

  • @himanshiranajaatni
    @himanshiranajaatni 4 роки тому +1819

    If he'll speak little bit more then definately he will cry.. he can't hide his tears anymore

  • @shalinkaushal1507
    @shalinkaushal1507 4 роки тому +4007

    The thing is it's easy to become Kabir singh but it's damn hard to become Amol Parashar.

  • @shashwatvishnurawat3925
    @shashwatvishnurawat3925 3 роки тому +2445

    Moral is
    Porn and internet in general have successfully made sex to look like it's something casual.. but in reality it is one of most sacred stuff a person gets to experience.
    Bright side is that people will one day realise that internet is just one fake bubble far smaller than reality and truth 🤝🏼

    • @sm0000
      @sm0000 2 роки тому +189

      And there are stupid people who tells "sex is just like eating, sleeping, breathing". No, it's not. How can someone equalise these things with sex which is an extreme form of intimacy with another individual? People are so selfish to share their food even...and involving another person to such intimacy..
      And I don't know how people do it without loving the other. I don't know if there's any modernity to just "try out people" as if they are some clothes and cry in the corner when same things happen to u.
      I am not here tabooing it....but it has an importance, people these days are degrading it at a point, as if it's nothing. It requires trust, respect and love above all. So, if someone has a confusion in these three, it will end up in misery only.

    • @parthasarathisahoo5410
      @parthasarathisahoo5410 2 роки тому +76

      @@sm0000 western culture is devastating other traditions

    • @sm0000
      @sm0000 2 роки тому +64

      @@parthasarathisahoo5410 not everything in western culture is bad, such as their children become independent much faster. But we tend to pick up bad things from them in the name of modernity.

    • @parthasarathisahoo5410
      @parthasarathisahoo5410 2 роки тому +41

      @@sm0000 well you talking about independency. Their kids get bullied or troll for having to live with their parents after the age of 18... It's more of a peer pressure. Some Americans even say, this is also one of the way, Govt. tried to earn more taxes from citizen.
      Just like how, here in India, if you choose Commerce or Arts, you get judged by others for not being a good student

    • @sm0000
      @sm0000 2 роки тому +12

      @@parthasarathisahoo5410 yes. Everything has a good and bad side.

  • @Wannabelokesh
    @Wannabelokesh 2 роки тому +30

    For me, he gave a lesson, that leaving is so hard but eventually we have to.. we have to not only realise but also become responsible and move on, no matter wtf and how long tf you feel it that way. We loose self-respect and still want the person to come but they never do. I don't blame you, thanks for giving me lovely memories.

  • @akashtripathi7556
    @akashtripathi7556 4 роки тому +1643

    The video regularly was popping up in my recommendations but i used to avoid it.....finally i watched it today 🙂 nd don't know why i started feeling sad .. ❤️ Amol bhai ❤️
    " Jo baatein sach ho bol deni chahiye "
    (Edit: I wasn't alone 🙂❤️ thank you all )

    • @ummekhizr
      @ummekhizr 4 роки тому +23

      Same here...i was avoiding it for weeks and finally i watched it today..

    • @indranimondal5249
      @indranimondal5249 4 роки тому +6

      Same here yaar

    • @s1ck095
      @s1ck095 4 роки тому +5

      Same here brother

    • @Nidhi-uw6mb
      @Nidhi-uw6mb 4 роки тому +4

      Same here

    • @DrRajatSingh
      @DrRajatSingh 4 роки тому +3

      Same here 😑😷

  • @anshikascorner8048
    @anshikascorner8048 4 роки тому +1198

    And i started crying at the end. There was a lot of pain behind his smile.

  • @ankitasrivastava7093
    @ankitasrivastava7093 4 роки тому +458

    He express his story very well.two times he hurt actually .the smile on his face shows how strong he is.

    • @devilhunter8120
      @devilhunter8120 4 роки тому +12

      So true..... yaar main single hoon lekin Break up waali feel aa rhi hai........🤣🤣
      I guess I should wait for my beloved wife. 😇

    • @findforever5846
      @findforever5846 4 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/iv2RQEtA3MA/v-deo.html

    • @jitendravaishnav754
      @jitendravaishnav754 4 роки тому +2

      but girls can't understand

    • @nilesh_lifestyle
      @nilesh_lifestyle 4 роки тому +1

      Really he is very strong prsn

    • @NarutoUzumaki-xs1fo
      @NarutoUzumaki-xs1fo 4 роки тому +1

      It is just a story bro

  • @ramneetkaur1411
    @ramneetkaur1411 10 місяців тому +51

    The man is explaining the true meaning of situationship ❤

  • @abhishekravoor
    @abhishekravoor 4 роки тому +720

    I never wanted this video to end. He was expressing everything so beautiful n he has a good grip on words n his expressions...loved it♥️🤩

    • @suyashneelambugg
      @suyashneelambugg 4 роки тому +1

      It was well rehearsed but when there is that long discontinuity of tone, pitch, flow... it becomes plastic. So he must level down a bit

  • @MancySaxena
    @MancySaxena 4 роки тому +457

    Before they exchanged "I'll miss you" he referred to her as "Himani Tinder", the after story he has replaced it with "Himani"
    Beautiful spoken word❤️

  • @sheeza05
    @sheeza05 4 роки тому +724

    This generation just doesn’t know how to value another person’s emotions. Always looking for love but not ready to love somebody with all their heart.

  • @ektapauldutta4960
    @ektapauldutta4960 11 місяців тому +46

    Relationship are not so casual , they are full on of emotions 😢❤

  • @sidramehmood1
    @sidramehmood1 4 роки тому +1010

    That's how today's generation felt . So broken inside after every break up .but not ready for getting married and loyal relationship.

    • @i_m_mini1836
      @i_m_mini1836 3 роки тому +31

      So true.. I wonder who are these people breaking their partners heart when most of the people are on broken heart's side..

    • @nd2703
      @nd2703 3 роки тому +27

      Agree.... Khud Shaadi nahi karni...or bas broken hone ka natak karo

    • @manup6814
      @manup6814 3 роки тому +10

      True. He is just stupid.

    • @PETRICHOR_THRIFT
      @PETRICHOR_THRIFT 3 роки тому +1

      @@i_m_mini1836 me🤦

    • @rritobakdutta8730
      @rritobakdutta8730 3 роки тому +6

      Marriage has nothing to do with remaining loyal.

  • @Shompal
    @Shompal 4 роки тому +696

    There was pain that was very smartly camouflaged with humour. You’ll find the one who’ll say, “it’s you and it’s me forever now” 💕

    • @gautams4950
      @gautams4950 4 роки тому +3

      That's just a hope that we should all have....
      And how much life flirts with this hope depends on destiny.

    • @vivekbartwal6617
      @vivekbartwal6617 4 роки тому +6

      It's mostly girls who break guy's heart so badly without thinking even once how deep that cut would be, and the guys try to move ahead blaming love and themselves where they went wrong 😞😥

    • @ashuroking007
      @ashuroking007 4 роки тому

      VIVEK BARTWAL very true... going through the same

    • @vivekbartwal6617
      @vivekbartwal6617 4 роки тому +5

      @Sandy G I am sorry if you felt as if I was generalizing between a guy and a girl....
      The bottom-line is that the person who is truly in love gets hurt the most irrespective of their gender.
      And the person who gets ditched not only hates themselves but also love and thus never believe in loving the opposite sex for the rest of their lives

    • @sauravverma1185
      @sauravverma1185 4 роки тому

      @@vivekbartwal6617 felt the same some months ago but now stabilize myself .

  • @animealpha4795
    @animealpha4795 4 роки тому +8744

    it's time to change the comment so no one would know why this had so many likes to begin with

    • @bayscit
      @bayscit 4 роки тому +46

      @@ashishnegi1428 that makes zero sense

    • @Ba5edAF
      @Ba5edAF 4 роки тому +58

      It's about sex and it's about heartbreak... And if you'd like you can find a lot more meaning to the story... You just have to look

    • @Crymeareva
      @Crymeareva 4 роки тому +84

      Haha. Pta nhi hasu ya rou? Bc itni tharak poetic form me bta rha usko emotional touche de diya.. Yahi problem hai humari chutiya generation ki.. if anything suits your opinion , be subtle with it.. Fact is, acche face wale ko casual formal sex sab mil jata hai.. Bhed bakri jese sex kro dino raat.. aur haan aise story bnao.. saare chutiye will fall for it

    • @animealpha4795
      @animealpha4795 4 роки тому +28

      @@Crymeareva bro Teri shakal kitni bhi kharab ho, if you are in your 20s and have a girlfriend, tujhe sex milega.

    • @deepak28490
      @deepak28490 4 роки тому +1

      Ohhh aisa kya?

  • @urveepatel9721
    @urveepatel9721 7 місяців тому +6

    I always watch dis video...in 3 or 4 yrs like 8-10 times but without missing a second...i just love his emotions ❤

  • @DjDeepakJbp
    @DjDeepakJbp 4 роки тому +3150

    Meenakshis husband to Meenakshi-
    It's your choice 😉😉😉😉
    🤣🤣

  • @aniruddha.bhattacharya
    @aniruddha.bhattacharya 4 роки тому +434

    Out of words to say how amazing that was.
    The best way "casual" thing could ever be explained!
    But for me,after my "3 year break up" never moved on to find that casual.
    For me the best moment from his story telling was when he called out the name "Minakshi" instead of "Himani" by mistake!
    Don't know it was his art of telling the story,or love for her that she still exists somewhere in his mind.

    • @xyzr9138
      @xyzr9138 4 роки тому +29

      i think he called out Minakshi instead of Himmani ...because he was going to be in the same situation again

    • @aniruddha.bhattacharya
      @aniruddha.bhattacharya 4 роки тому +5

      @@xyzr9138 may be,but anyway it depicts that he was still into her in someway!
      And it felt so good to hear the way he said it out with editing much.

    • @mmwapec
      @mmwapec 4 роки тому +2

      @@aniruddha.bhattacharya potato potAto

    • @aniruddha.bhattacharya
      @aniruddha.bhattacharya 4 роки тому

      @Sandy G definitely mate!

    • @anindya9471
      @anindya9471 4 роки тому +1

      Bong guy spotted ✌️✌️. Kudos man. Got this same feeling man.

  • @SnehaKhanduri
    @SnehaKhanduri 4 роки тому +247

    don't know whether he is sharing his own experience or just telling a story but he is doing it so well that you just want to keep on listening and don't want it to end...

    • @DHEERAJKUMAR-wk9qp
      @DHEERAJKUMAR-wk9qp 4 роки тому +7

      It's inspired from a short story of author Divya Prakash Gupta's Masala Chai.

    • @mr.avid-watcher7454
      @mr.avid-watcher7454 4 роки тому +3

      He's a professional actor. didn't you watch his tripling?

    • @SnehaKhanduri
      @SnehaKhanduri 4 роки тому +9

      @@mr.avid-watcher7454 I know that he is a professional actor and I've watched Tripling.
      What I mean is that not all actors are good story tellers but he is.

    • @musaafir8047
      @musaafir8047 4 роки тому

      I loved it, felt connected somehow.

  • @priyanshuchhatoi7827
    @priyanshuchhatoi7827 2 роки тому +13

    First time watching a truly broken person speaking about his pain in a way that we would enjoy. I didn't realise when tears started rolling down my eyes 😭😭. May be cause it's not filmed and i relate to him.
    Not in the sex field but in other things in life.
    It's truly said that -
    " The one who smiles the brightest, has suffered the most. "
    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @deblinasarkar9006
    @deblinasarkar9006 4 роки тому +193

    Could not figure out how much of it was acting..felt like he really felt every syllable of every word...👌👌👌

  • @sripadikkal2699
    @sripadikkal2699 4 роки тому +223

    The pain behind his smile!! I don't know why , but I can feel that

  • @gaurav_kabra
    @gaurav_kabra 4 роки тому +97

    Never knew Amol is such a spectacular story teller! Kaafi real.

  • @anilarahman4877
    @anilarahman4877 7 місяців тому +9

    This guy explained situationship ahead of It's time,rewatching it on 2024

    • @Arooba-pf9if
      @Arooba-pf9if 7 місяців тому +1

      Can't believe it's been 4 years to corona ☹️😕

  • @sreeragmsudheesh
    @sreeragmsudheesh 4 роки тому +658

    Just realized he's wearing a SWIPE RIGHT T-Shirt.

  • @thebiswaroop
    @thebiswaroop 4 роки тому +787

    He is the same "Kunal" from the Wild Stone ad. Now all of this makes sense.

  • @saqlenqadri653
    @saqlenqadri653 4 роки тому +255

    I just watch 14 mints of a guy
    Who I don't know talk about a story that
    I couldn't relate to without being distracted.....thats how good of a story teller hi is!

    • @RahulKumar-xm9cl
      @RahulKumar-xm9cl 4 роки тому +2

      Arey vo Ad nahi dekha? "Kunaaaallll"
      Deodorant vala advertisement bro

    • @findforever5846
      @findforever5846 4 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/iv2RQEtA3MA/v-deo.html

  • @Reshma-tc5ho
    @Reshma-tc5ho 2 роки тому +10

    Amol is so cute and he is really great at keeping the audience engaged. He deserves to be in more movies. The way presented the story felt so real.

  • @shaziashah9669
    @shaziashah9669 4 роки тому +700

    I hv been noticing that most of the relations begin these day just bcz
    "One of them wants to get over their EX"
    Trust me ye bnda bck stage jake fir se foot foot k roya hoga 😔

    • @ivetterodriguez1994
      @ivetterodriguez1994 4 роки тому +2

      It might be helpful to get distracted and focus on something else. Sometimes all you need is a break. Not quitting love just taking a break from it and maybe consider making friends with the opposite gender to. A good friendship is the foundation of any relationship. Might potentially find someone without trying as hard to impress them or get their attention. And also make friends of the opposite sex because sometimes people forget that that exists too.

    • @findforever5846
      @findforever5846 4 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/iv2RQEtA3MA/v-deo.html

    • @aashrithakari5345
      @aashrithakari5345 4 роки тому +2

      This is the sad truth. It's high time we realize it actually doesn't work that way.

    • @herbaliciousbyfarahkhan6684
      @herbaliciousbyfarahkhan6684 4 роки тому +2

      True

    • @iitian8961
      @iitian8961 3 роки тому +1

      Thats why we should look for virgin girls and not broken ones. 😌🙏

  • @tinadsouza18
    @tinadsouza18 4 роки тому +498

    That guy's heart is broken...
    Can feel d pain behind his smile...
    Dont worry you deserve better one...
    ❤❤

    • @shaktiraj179
      @shaktiraj179 4 роки тому +2

      I hope so ..

    • @oorjaamishra69
      @oorjaamishra69 4 роки тому +2

      Exactly....

    • @sauravverma1185
      @sauravverma1185 4 роки тому

      @Abhishek Mehta hahaha

    • @rakhinarayanan5335
      @rakhinarayanan5335 4 роки тому

      You guys are crazy 😂...this may be a story he is an actor. May be the story written by someone else.. don't get emotional , I am just saying it's personal choice, honestly I feel we should watch it and enjoy the video. This gen or any generations, if you are using internet you can find all sort of videos and informations. So just enjoy the process of entertainment. 😎😁

  • @poojajamwal9
    @poojajamwal9 4 роки тому +1717

    He has some similarities with Shahid Kapoor.. the way he talks.. ♥️

  • @harshitaverma8138
    @harshitaverma8138 Рік тому +14

    Have been obsessed with this video..✨ watched 15-20 time ... & Story telling was 100/100... Relationship are not casual >> they are full of emotions..

  • @Cat_in_the_sun
    @Cat_in_the_sun 3 роки тому +119

    I came here to laugh and I left crying. Can anyone relate?

  • @sharadkolse6871
    @sharadkolse6871 4 роки тому +73

    I haven't heard so honest confession like this ever ... really heart touching

  • @ritusachdeva1456
    @ritusachdeva1456 4 роки тому +136

    Its because we fall for wrong people. Its rare that we come across the right person at the right time and at the right place.

    • @rimoadsule
      @rimoadsule 4 роки тому +2

      Bitter but so True...

    • @ritusachdeva1456
      @ritusachdeva1456 2 роки тому

      @Khyalo Ki Duniya yeah. Indeed!I think even People who are polyamorous, inside they are looking for just one person to lean on, to spend their life with. In the end its all about who your heart wants to settle for.

  • @AnantMi2003
    @AnantMi2003 2 роки тому +16

    *I AM GETTING A VERY TRADITONAL INDIAN VIBE IN HIS STORY TELLING . HE SEEMS TO BE VERY CALM AND MATURED WHILE NARRATING THIS ALL . ITS FEELS SO GOOD LISTENING HIM DIDNT GET BORED FOR EVEN A SINGLE SECOND FEELS SO ENGAGING WANNA SEE HIS MORE STAND UPS . I CAN LITERALLY LISTEN TO HIM ALL DAY LONG* ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @daksha596
    @daksha596 4 роки тому +239

    It is very hard to express these feelings in front of audience without breaking...he tried to control his emotions very well...

    • @yashviraghuvanshi5052
      @yashviraghuvanshi5052 2 роки тому +2

      agr apko yeh real lg rha tha iska mtlb amol ki acting 10/10 kyuki yeh real nhi h😂😂 description box me saf likha h yeh kisi aur ki story h jo vo deliver kr rha h

    • @Wannabelokesh
      @Wannabelokesh 2 роки тому

      @@yashviraghuvanshi5052 Yeah, his acting skill is too good. Felt like, koi actor nahi hai, hum tum hi hai, like a normal/ordinary person.

  • @vikaskumararya2540
    @vikaskumararya2540 4 роки тому +130

    "But promise karo k touch me rahoge" he choked while saying this line and released that right before saying the next line with a big sigh!
    Did you noticed?

  • @heytheresmileplease
    @heytheresmileplease 4 роки тому +241

    When a men share his relationship’s feeling, it’s like, dude they have also feelings. Don’t forget their feelings. Just bcz they share very few. Don’t think they are rock types, who don’t have percolation of feelings.

    • @madaniprincess1199
      @madaniprincess1199 4 роки тому +2

      It's not his story..its divya's posted story originally..read description

    • @anindya9471
      @anindya9471 4 роки тому

      Absolutely agree . But why is that when we share emotions we are bashed? Why is the concept of masculinity so messed up?

    • @madaniprincess1199
      @madaniprincess1199 4 роки тому

      @@anindya9471 hmm ikr,that's also true..😞

    • @harshitreddy4430
      @harshitreddy4430 4 роки тому +1

      @@anindya9471 alright... everyone gets bashed equally...there are some comments here where he's getting bashed too
      Not have to bring that masculinity topic ,do we?

    • @anindya9471
      @anindya9471 4 роки тому

      @@harshitreddy4430 Yes man we have to talk about it. We have messed up the concept of being a man.

  • @longhandnotes
    @longhandnotes 2 роки тому +17

    Listening this second time after 2 or 3 years may be .... But was like 1st time... Wow... So soothing 😌🍃🎧

  • @seemasingh9853
    @seemasingh9853 3 роки тому +454

    The more one will hear him , the more one will fall in love with him .His story ,emotion and expression really carries something magical.❤❤❤

    • @Priyankakumari-ps2kt
      @Priyankakumari-ps2kt 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/yb0OvqlNnOw/v-deo.html

    • @keshavsharma5010
      @keshavsharma5010 3 роки тому +1

      Right ✌

    • @keshavsharma5010
      @keshavsharma5010 3 роки тому

      I really got emotional aftr this🙃

    • @kalpanabotla2329
      @kalpanabotla2329 2 роки тому +1

      Yes very true absolutely but seriously didn't undstd what mesg he wants to convey as the title said no so casual sex I thought he is going to preach young generation not so instant sex like Maggie noodles got disappointed after hearing entire story 🤢😰😨

    • @sharmaa11boy
      @sharmaa11boy 2 роки тому

      @@kalpanabotla2329 those seems “ Ajneebi ” with passage of time jisko humne “random ” kha ...kab vo …itne close ho jaate hai ❤..hame pta nhi chalta .
      Times faded but memories never!!

  • @nivethasruthi
    @nivethasruthi 4 роки тому +131

    Almost just fell in love with this guy, his way of talking, his camouflaged emotions and his honesty. 🥰

  • @titutikkiparrot
    @titutikkiparrot 3 роки тому +148

    It's called maturity ... maturity of a human life...loved it...

  • @brishtibiswas6362
    @brishtibiswas6362 Рік тому +31

    Time flies but memories don't.. Incredible storytelling. 😊

  • @sadiyac88
    @sadiyac88 2 роки тому +711

    He's such a good story teller I almost believed it's his life story until I read the description.

  • @saptarshichowdhury7707
    @saptarshichowdhury7707 4 роки тому +114

    For the ones not realizing, this is not his own story. It has been adapted from a Jeevan Saathi Dot Com story. Read the description.

    • @AnantKumarS
      @AnantKumarS 4 роки тому +5

      Then he is a great actor

    • @aishwaryab4068
      @aishwaryab4068 4 роки тому +2

      Exactly.... I'm wondering.... He's such a good actor... To make it seem like he went thru

  • @serenegonsalves9801
    @serenegonsalves9801 4 роки тому +90

    He has that special ability to keep the audience engaged and interested.
    That story hit hard by the way.

  • @GurpreetDhariwal
    @GurpreetDhariwal 10 місяців тому +8

    I have seen this video for the first time and it made me cry. It's hard to believe what is written in description because he played this part as if he picked the pieces from his own life. What a fantastic way of conveying emotions and amazingly well crafted storytelling skills. I have become his fan. 🙂💔

  • @vrushiiii
    @vrushiiii 4 роки тому +578

    He was still emotional when he talk..

  • @chiragmewara9409
    @chiragmewara9409 4 роки тому +88

    It's you who told us this story and it's everyone of us who felt it to the core
    just damn bruhhhhh......

  • @fefefierce4556
    @fefefierce4556 4 роки тому +294

    This was actually so soothing. His voice, his narration is so good.

  • @PriyankaSharma-hi8cs
    @PriyankaSharma-hi8cs 2 роки тому +16

    First love will always remain first no matter who comes in your life ❣️

  • @NachiketKumarSingh
    @NachiketKumarSingh 4 роки тому +74

    That's why never wanna be in a relationship, can't just hold my breath and listen these words at end or ever will say so
    It made me numb😢😢

  • @aswin1690
    @aswin1690 4 роки тому +156

    Just heard "it's not you, it's me" a week back,lol. UA-cam recommendation on point

    • @iamcupid
      @iamcupid 4 роки тому +3

      That makes the two of us.

    • @mananpandey8961
      @mananpandey8961 4 роки тому +4

      This means we are being monitored by authorities 😳😳🤔🤔🤔🤔. Sawdhan rahe surakshit rahe

    • @market_my_brand7339
      @market_my_brand7339 4 роки тому +1

      Can someone explain
      How can "common goals"
      be so essential for marriage??

  • @supratimbanik5160
    @supratimbanik5160 4 роки тому +91

    Prob after Zakir, he's someone who's story telling avatar i liked so much... Kya kamal ka kiya baba!!

  • @watcherolic9930
    @watcherolic9930 2 роки тому +6

    I get emotional after everytime I hear this. Man ---the way he said every line... 🥺

  • @saroojgul9034
    @saroojgul9034 4 роки тому +598

    Never listened Someone so patiently even though can't relate to any of it .

  • @aradhyasrivastava12
    @aradhyasrivastava12 4 роки тому +676

    I have watched it 5 times till now. Don't know why ❓ 😂😂 Never felt it old 😂😂

  • @ankitarajput532
    @ankitarajput532 4 роки тому +96

    When I open this I thought it was a little stand up comedy but I realize the people who had a heartbreak will know this feeling .. 💔

  • @gyaanisharma9619
    @gyaanisharma9619 11 місяців тому +6

    I listen to this 3 yr ago itself ..but today again it came into recommendation...
    Still ❤❤❤❤

  • @SandeshBGaikwad
    @SandeshBGaikwad 4 роки тому +34

    Power of words, writing, storytelling, presentation, audience engagement................................

  • @Rifah.Tasnia
    @Rifah.Tasnia 4 роки тому +237

    Basically "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS" waala scene without a so called 'happy ending'

  • @horilal9887
    @horilal9887 4 роки тому +1016

    He's hiding his pain .....but he is failed to do that..

    • @shashankmali9333
      @shashankmali9333 4 роки тому +4

      Yes you got it subhi....I felt the same..

    • @stundown
      @stundown 4 роки тому +18

      Actually no because it's not his story.

    • @julkarnain7279
      @julkarnain7279 4 роки тому +1

      Because people like you and me are here.......

    • @sweetspicy92
      @sweetspicy92 4 роки тому

      I don’t know hiding cause he is actually keeping it all out , in a poetic way

  • @ultrainstinct4476
    @ultrainstinct4476 2 роки тому +12

    This is so relateable...and idk why this got recommended to me a day after I "broke up" with a girl that I met on bumble and we weren't even in a realtionship to begin with...we had made things clear that we both didn't want a realtionship and that is bullshit I tell you guys, we fell for each other which I think was unavoidable...f**k we were even saying I love you to each other...it's funny that you can get attached to someone so fast... I can keep going on and on about this but who am I kidding I'm just commenting on a yt video but it helps...thank you for sharing this with us this made me feel good. Sharing this on the comments section of yt somewhat helps..I can't even share this with my friends.😅

  • @jiniachattopadhyay9913
    @jiniachattopadhyay9913 3 роки тому +214

    Have been obsessed with this vdo...watched more than 10-15 times...and the way he tries to hide his pain with that smile shows how much broken and shattered he is from within !! Hatsoff to u man !! ❤️❤️

  • @mahajansheetalmusic
    @mahajansheetalmusic 3 роки тому +62

    He is too good actor. Watched his Gabru series on Netflix and later, I watched this stand up. Great work

    • @mahajansheetalmusic
      @mahajansheetalmusic 3 роки тому +4

      I realised that this was all scripted , not real with him 🧐😅

  • @ANightUnderTheBlueSky
    @ANightUnderTheBlueSky 4 роки тому +133

    You’re extremely bold and brave, dude, and this is possibly the best stand up I have ever watched👍Wish you all the best!!

    • @daretoride8112
      @daretoride8112 4 роки тому

      It's not him..it's adapted see the link in the description

  • @aashisinghal5869
    @aashisinghal5869 2 роки тому +185

    This was so beautiful, Amol literally nailed it . Totally loved it

    • @pehlwanji203
      @pehlwanji203 Рік тому

      @@aashisinghal5385 hi aashi, wanna want a friendship? :)

    • @mayank4013
      @mayank4013 Рік тому +1

      @@aashisinghal5385 I wonder now why had he deleted his comment:)

    • @aashisinghal8739
      @aashisinghal8739 Рік тому

      @@mayank4013 Yes he deleted all of his comments
      May be because he was asking for my telegram :)

    • @mayank4013
      @mayank4013 Рік тому +1

      @@aashisinghal8739 he was making a move but as you told you r introvert
      He deleted it as like he doesn't exist for you..haha

    • @aashisinghal8739
      @aashisinghal8739 Рік тому

      @@mayank4013 Yeah he was flirting, but I did not replied further so he deleted all of them

  • @tamanna4697
    @tamanna4697 3 роки тому +507

    His voice is so good for storytelling 😍

  • @raghavendrasaddalagari4399
    @raghavendrasaddalagari4399 4 роки тому +568

    I felt that he was about to cry when he was telling about the second breakup story

  • @kunwarjotsinghmanchanda8758
    @kunwarjotsinghmanchanda8758 3 роки тому +735

    He is a better story teller that a comic

    • @vk274
      @vk274 3 роки тому +7

      For better comedy, you can listen to Vipul Goyal, another IITian. The level of intelligence shows in the work, irrespective of the type of work. Smart people choose the type of work they enjoy and therefore, excel in what they do.

    • @Priyankakumari-ps2kt
      @Priyankakumari-ps2kt 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/yb0OvqlNnOw/v-deo.html

    • @Priyankakumari-ps2kt
      @Priyankakumari-ps2kt 3 роки тому +1

      plz subscribe

    • @AnnoyedFrog-wu1zi
      @AnnoyedFrog-wu1zi 9 місяців тому

      True, he's a good storyteller

  • @mayurisarma4831
    @mayurisarma4831 2 роки тому +7

    The ending was so heart touching ! Literally teared up 🤧

  • @ChandrikaBabbar
    @ChandrikaBabbar 4 роки тому +302

    Moral of the story : Stop using dating apps if you’re not so “sakht launda”
    It’s very hard to overcome from such situations!

  • @TheAtasi
    @TheAtasi 3 роки тому +1908

    On a slightly different note, I find Amol hot as hell...😅

  • @shubhada1111
    @shubhada1111 4 роки тому +217

    His expressions when he said meenakshi instead of Himani...

  • @urvashijha3775
    @urvashijha3775 Рік тому +15

    3 years been passed and I'm here again, I learnt alot in this time frame now watching this again when I had a lot of more experience,I found better and deep meanings in this whole story ❤️

    • @urvashijha3775
      @urvashijha3775 Рік тому +1

      @Rajakumar-fh3pr I had a 8 years long relationship and after 8 years he realised that may be he no more finds common ground for us so, we mutually decided to break-up , but still I think like should I never propose him in first place cause in 8 years he never showed on any sign of love towards me its very clear from first day that everything was casual for him but I refused to accept this early

    • @Sahilsharma-sk5vr
      @Sahilsharma-sk5vr 11 місяців тому

      ​@@urvashijha3775you deserve that

  • @lirtowh124
    @lirtowh124 4 роки тому +91

    I have never felt more relatable to a story except for the casual sex part. Felt like crying towards the end of it.

  • @galtisemistake8945
    @galtisemistake8945 4 роки тому +46

    When He Speaks You Sit Your Ass Down, Listen,And Feel Each And Every Word He Says.

  • @Psychologist_Tanya
    @Psychologist_Tanya 4 роки тому +31

    For a moment felt like he is just talking to me. So casual and yet captivating way of narrating a story!